" LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLES TO LEARN FROM AN EAGLE"

1. EAGLES FLY ALONE AND AT HIGH ALTITUDES

They do not fly with sparrows, ravens, or other small birds.
They soar alone or with other eagles. Their altitude separates them from the distractions and noise of lesser heights.

MEANING:
As a leader, choose your company wisely. Distance yourself from people with small minds, limited vision, or negative energy. The altitude of your vision will often require solitude or only the company of like-minded visionaries. Surround yourself with those who lift you, challenge you, and sharpen you—iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17). Never settle for relationships that ground you.

2. EAGLES HAVE AN ACCURATE AND UNWAVERING VISION

They can see prey up to 5 kilometers away and focus intensely until they capture it.

MEANING:
Leaders must have a clear, long-range vision and the discipline to stay focused despite distractions or difficulties. No obstacle should shift your gaze from the goal.
Without vision, people perish (Proverbs 29:18)—so keep your eyes fixed on your assignment. Stay steady even when the road is rough. A distracted leader loses momentum, but a focused leader conquers.

3. EAGLES FEED ONLY ON FRESH PREY

They do not eat dead things or leftovers.

MEANING:
Great leaders do not live off past victories or stale knowledge. They pursue fresh wisdom, new revelations, and ongoing growth.
Don’t let past achievements create present complacency.
Each day is a new opportunity to learn, build, and advance. Stay relevant. Stay sharp. As Paul said, “Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead” (Philippians 3:13–14).

To be continued......

Judge me when you are perfect other wise shut up .

Listen up, Men! By Age 30 You Shouldd Be Smart Enough To Have Mastered These 12 Things Otherwise You’re Still Playing With Life

I’m not here to pet you. I’m here to wake you up. As a young man grinding through the mud of life, these are the raw, unfiltered truths no school, no pastor, no w00man, and no simp will ever tell you. If you don’t get this into your skull by 30, you’ll spend your life working for men who did.

1. Nobody Owes You Anything
Not your family. Not society. Not even the girl who says she loves you. If you don’t build, you’ll beg. And beggars don’t get to choose.

2. Your Looks Won’t Feed You
Only women can survive with beauty and body. As a man, your looks don’t matter — your money does. Chase value, not vanity.

3. Women Love Winners, Not Strugglers
Stop thinking love is enough. If you’re broke, she’ll leave. The streets are filled with exes who swore they’d never go. Succeed or bleed.

4. Emotion Is a Luxury You Can’t Afford
Be logical. Be tactical. Cry in silence if you must, but never lose your frame in public. The world eats soft men for breakfast.

5. Time Is Your Greatest Asset — Protect It
If your squad isn’t talking business, fitness, goals, and legacy, cut them off. You’re not a clown — stop dancing in circles with losers.

6. Avoid Long-Term Relationships Until You’re Built
Your focus will be hijacked. Build your empire first. When you’re up, you’ll attract the women they all chased in your absence.

7. Skills Over Degrees
In 2025, your ability to sell, code, trade, build, or market is more valuable than your paper certificate. Be a weapon, not a victim.

8. Silence Is Power
Move like a ghost. Work in silence. Announce only your results. The less they know, the more they fear.

9. Rejection Builds Muscle
Every “No” you face makes you sharper, tougher, better. Face it. Eat it. Use it. Weak men avoid rejection. Alphas devour it.

10. Stay Away From CCBs
High body count, masculine, rebellious, entitled w00men will ruin you. A good woman multiplies. A bad one extracts and destroys.

11. Learn to Be Alone Without Losing Your Mind
Solitude is the training ground of kings. If you can’t stand your own company, you’re not ready to lead anyone else.

12. Have a Code You Live By
Without principles, you’re a leaf in the wind. Discipline, focus, loyalty to your mission, and brutal honesty — that’s your masculine core.

Now read that again. And again. Until it burns into your DNA.

By 30, you’re either a man building his throne or a boy entertaining crumbs.
Choose your side.

The generation that wants to prove to us that hard work is a sc>am
We dey look dem

During a robbery in America, the bank robber shouted to everyone in the bank: "Don't move. The money belongs to the State. Your life belongs to you."

Everyone in the bank laid down quietly. This is called "Mind Changing Concept” Changing the conventional way of thinking.

When a lady lay on the table provocatively, the robber shouted at her: "Please be civilized! This is a robbery and not a rape!"

This is called "Being Professional” Focus only on what you are trained to do!

When the bank robbers returned home, the younger robber (MBA-trained) told the older robber (who has only completed Year 6 in primary school): "Big brother, let's count how much we got."

The older robber rebutted and said: "You are very ******. There is so much money it will take us a long time to count. Tonight, the TV news will tell us how much we robbed from the bank!"

This is called "Experience.” Nowadays, experience is more important than paper qualifications!

After the robbers had left, the bank manager told the bank supervisor to call the police quickly. But the supervisor said to him: "Wait! Let us take out $10 million from the bank for ourselves and add it to the $70 million that we have previously embezzled from the bank”.

This is called "Swim with the tide.” Converting an unfavorable situation to your advantage!

The supervisor says: "It will be good if there is a robbery every month."

This is called "Killing Boredom.” Personal Happiness is more important than your job.

The next day, the TV news reported that $100 million was taken from the bank. The robbers counted and counted and counted, but they could only count $20 million. The robbers were very angry and complained: "We risked our lives and only took $20 million. The bank manager took $80 million with a snap of his fingers. It looks like it is better to be educated than to be a thief!"

This is called "Knowledge is worth as much as gold!"

*IF YOU'RE LOOKING FOR A TRULY CONFUSED COUNTRY ...THEN YOU HAVE ONE IN NIGERIA.*

*UPDATES*
36 States, 48 Ministers
41 of 48 Ministers have corruption cases.
9 of 11 Governors who lost elections are now Ministers. They were rejected by their people but hired by the government of the people
48 Ministers
192 Brand new cars (4 per minister)
720 aides (15 per minister)
240 security personnel (5 per minister)

And we want to reduce the cost of governance🤷🏻‍♂️

No be scam be this

In a comparative analysis, the United States of America, the 2nd richest nation in the world has just 15 Secretaries. (the equivalent of ministers)

~The giant in Africa is ironically surfacing again.

Never Marry a Woman Who Thinks Duty Is Oppression

Let’s flip the script.

Modern women don’t mind love.

They mind responsibility.

They say they want a husband…

But act allergic to the weight that comes with being a wife.

Let’s break it down:

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1. She Wants Rights—But Hates Roles

She says she wants marriage.

But only if she can rewrite the terms.

No submission. No service. No sacrifice.

Just: – Her career – Her comfort – Her convenience

She wants you to pay the bills, protect the house, lead the vision…

But call her “wife”?

Suddenly she’s not your partner—she’s a prisoner.

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2. Duty Is a Trigger Word to the Modern Woman

Say: “A wife should cook.”

She’ll say: “What is this, 1950?”

Say: “A wife should support her husband’s mission.”

She’ll say: “I’m not losing myself for any man.”

Say: “Marriage is about sacrifice.”

She’ll say: “That sounds abusive.”

Everything that once built homes…

Now gets labeled toxic.

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3. Her Feminism Ends Where Her Comfort Begins

She quotes bell hooks on Instagram.

Reads self-help books about boundaries.

Talks about partnership and purpose…

But ask her to:

– Wake up early for the kids
– Submit to a decision she disagrees with
– Stretch her ego to save the marriage

She’ll say:

“This isn’t what I signed up for.”

Of course it isn’t.

Because modern women don’t sign up for responsibility.

They sign up for lifestyle perks.

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4. You Can’t Build a Home With a Woman Who Thinks She’s Doing You a Favor

She married you—but acts like she’s volunteering.

She gave vows—but still moves like she’s single.

She calls herself a wife…

But never shows up in the trenches.

And when you demand structure?

You’re “controlling.”

When you ask for peace?

You’re “emotionally abusive.”

Her entire identity is rooted in avoiding anything that feels like work.

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5. Love Without Duty Is Just Performance

She says she loves you.

But won’t clean, won’t compromise, won’t listen.

She says she’s loyal.

But only when it’s easy.

She thinks being present is enough.

But presence without contribution is just furniture.

You don’t need a woman who shows up.

You need one who shows up with purpose.

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Final Word: If She Thinks Duty Is Oppression—You’ll Spend Your Life Apologizing for Leadership

She’ll accuse your standards.

Resent your vision.

Sabotage your peace.

And when the marriage fails?

She’ll tell the world you “couldn’t handle a strong woman.”

But truth is:

You tried to build a kingdom…

With someone who didn’t want to hold a brick.

So here’s the rule:

Never marry a woman who thinks duty is slavery.

Because you’ll carry the whole mission alone—

While she posts about burnout from watching movies.

When a Father Walks Away—Everyone Pays the Price

Let’s say it loud:

The greatest crisis a child can face isn’t poverty.
It’s not bullying.
It’s not the cost of college.

It’s a father who left.

Whether he left through cheating, cowardice, or being pushed out—
the result is the same:

A child with no compass.
A future with no blueprint.
A legacy with no foundation.

Let’s talk about it.

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1. Fathers Who Cheat Don’t Just Betray Their Wives—They Break Their Children

That affair you had?

It didn’t just destroy trust.
It disrupted an entire bloodline.

Because the day you became a father, you weren’t just a lover.

You became a leader.

And when the leader abandons the structure?

The whole kingdom collapses.

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2. Women Who Weaponize the Law Are No Better

Let’s not pretend:

The law is on your side.
The courts favor you.
The world will call you brave—even if you’re petty.

But just because you can destroy a man legally doesn’t mean you should.

Pushing a father out because your emotions changed isn’t power.
It’s generational sabotage.

Children don’t care about your ego.

They care about consistency.

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3. Science Confirms It—Kids Do Better With Fathers Present

You can’t rewrite this.

Studies show: – Boys raised without fathers are more likely to be violent.
– Girls raised without fathers are more likely to be exploited.
– And all children suffer emotionally when dad becomes a ghost.

Single motherhood may be normalized.
But it’s not ideal.

And if you’re offended?

Check the prison stats.
Check the dropout stats.
Check the depression stats.

Father absence is not just a wound.
It’s a curse.

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4. Men: Stop Starting Families You’re Not Ready to Lead

You want to be a father?

Then stop acting like a frat boy with responsibilities.

– You don’t get to cheat because “she let herself go.”
– You don’t get to start over and pretend your first family doesn’t exist.
– You don’t get to “heal” by disappearing from your children’s lives.

Leadership isn’t convenience.

It’s covenant.

And a man who can’t keep his vows shouldn’t expect loyalty from his children later in life.

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5. Women: Stop Removing the Father Just Because the Marriage Died

You fell out of love?

Cool.

But that doesn’t cancel his role.

You moved on?

Great.

But that doesn’t mean he disappears.

When you turn your child against their father, you’re not protecting them.
You’re punishing them.

And they’ll resent you for it when they grow up.

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6. Children Aren’t Resilient—They’re Just Quiet

Don’t be fooled.

That smile is covering confusion.
That silence is hiding trauma.
That “I’m fine” is rehearsed.

They notice: – When your new partner gets more attention.
– When they stop being invited to things.
– When love starts feeling like a competition.

They’re not “adapting.”

They’re breaking quietly.

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7. Masculinity Must Be Modeled—Not Just Taught

Boys don’t become men through lectures.

They become men by watching one.

And if you’re not around?

They’ll find masculinity in the streets, the screen, or the chaos.

And none of those places build men you’d be proud of.

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Final Word: You Don’t Stop Being a Father Because You Failed as a Husband

Men:
You may have lost the marriage.
But don’t lose your mission.

Women:
You may be hurt.
But don’t hijack your child’s future to soothe your ego.

Because when a father walks away—
Or is pushed out—

Everyone pays.

The kids.
The legacy.
The soul of the next generation.

So whether you're the man who strayed,
Or the woman who shut the door…

Fix it.

Because children don’t care who was right.

They just want both parents to stay in the fight.

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