THE DANGEROUS & COSTLY MISTAKES THAT THE MAJORITY OF GEN Zs' ARE MAKING
TODAY

Let’s be honest — Gen Z is bold, intelligent, creative, and filled with untapped potential. But greatness requires wisdom, discipline, and intentional living. If these mistakes go unchecked, they can sabotage futures before they even begin.

Let’s dive in.

1. LIVING FOR THE INTERNET, NOT FOR IMPACT;

Mistake: Chasing trends instead of transformation.

Wisdom:
In a digital age, it’s tempting to measure worth by likes, followers, and viral moments. But the internet has a short memory. What it remembers are those who made a difference, not those who made noise. Purpose outlives popularity. Build a life that leaves footprints, not just impressions.

Key Thought:
Legacy matters more than likes.

2. MOCKING THE PROCESS, BUT DESIRING THE RESULT;

Mistake: Entitlement without effort.

Wisdom:
You can’t harvest where you haven’t sown. Many want a millionaire lifestyle without embracing a laborer’s discipline. Mocking the hustle while coveting the reward is a self-inflicted curse. Every result you admire was born in hidden, hard places. Embrace the grind — it’s the gate to greatness.

Key Thought:
Desire must be matched by discipline.

3. REPLACING HARD WORK WITH AESTHETICS;

Mistake: Valuing appearance over substance.

Wisdom:
Looking wealthy is not being wealthy. Flaunting lifestyles you haven’t earned is deception to self and others. Clothes, cars, and curated feeds can’t cover empty bank accounts and shallow legacies. Invest your time in developing skills, building assets, and adding value. Substance sustains — aesthetics fade.

Key Thought:
Image fades, value endures.

4. PRIORITIZING FUN OVER FOUNDATION;

Mistake: Sacrificing tomorrow for temporary thrills.

Wisdom:
Youth is a gift, but what you do with it is your offering to the future. Fun has its place, but when pleasure takes priority over preparation, destruction is near. Lay a solid foundation now — in character, skills, relationships, and spiritual depth. Fun without foresight is fatal.

Key Thought:
Your future is the harvest of today’s habits.

5. THINKING YOU STILL HAVE TIME;

Mistake: Delaying destiny.

Wisdom:
Time waits for no one. While you hesitate, someone else your age is already leading, building, and shaping history. Starting early is an advantage, not a burden. Greatness isn’t scheduled for the future — it begins the moment you decide to grow. Don’t wait for the ‘perfect time.’ It doesn’t exist.

Key Thought:
The earlier you start, the stronger you finish.

6. TALKING MORE THAN DOING;

Mistake: Replacing execution with inspiration.

Wisdom:
Inspiration is everywhere, but action is rare. The gap between your dreams and your reality is called discipline. Stop being a motivational addict and start being a transformational leader. Speak less, do more. Let your results be louder than your quotes.

Key Thought:
Execution outperforms excitement.

7. RUNNING FROM CORRECTION;

Mistake: Canceling accountability.

Wisdom:
Correction is not rejection; it’s protection. Those who tell you uncomfortable truths are your true allies. Surrounding yourself with only those who applaud you is the fastest road to destruction. Value mentors, accept rebuke, and welcome growth conversations. Pride resists correction — wisdom craves it.

Key Thought:
Correction today saves catastrophe tomorrow.

8. CONFUSING ATTENTION FOR AFFECTION;

Mistake: Seeking applause over authentic connection.

Wisdom:
The culture rewards clout-chasing, but attention is shallow currency. Don’t dress, speak, or live for applause while starving for meaning. Real affection is built on character, trust, and value — not viral trends. Pursue depth over display. Attention fades fast; authentic relationships last.

Key Thought:
Be known for who you are, not just what you show.

9. BELIEVING YOU’RE TOO YOUNG TO FALL;

Mistake: Assuming immunity because of early success.

Wisdom:
Success without humility is a ticking time bomb. No one is untouchable. Pride blinds, and it always precedes a fall. Stay teachable, stay grounded. Let your head bow as your platform rises. Arrogance disqualifies faster than ignorance.

Key Thought:
Success unmanaged is a silent threat.

10. SLEEPING ON YOUR GIFTS;

Mistake: Letting fear bury potential.

Wisdom:
Talent unused is purpose wasted. The world doesn’t need another copy, it needs the original you. Stop hiding behind fear, perfectionism, or excuses. Wake up your gifts. Refuse to be buried with your greatness still locked inside you.

Key Thought:
Unused potential is a tragedy.

FINAL CHARGE TO GEN Z;

You are the future, but only if you survive the present. Refuse to let laziness, entitlement, pride, or fear sabotage your destiny. The world is watching — but more importantly, your generation is counting on you.

Rise with wisdom. Build with intention. Lead with humility.

Your future isn’t promised, it’s prepared. Start now.

Not all Actors are Thespians
But all Thespians are Actors….
I will forever be grateful to my parents for letting me explore my full potentials, and be me, even when everyone said Theatre Arts ka ishe i shaa kewe..
My mum said “De Odi a er course u aso ya”
What would have become of me and all this endless talent and creativity?

Dear parents let your children explore Careers that they want to, not only Doctors, Lawyers or Engineers make it in life. Creatives are making millions that you can only imagine, Art is priceless!

Meanwhile What do you think was going through my mind??

One of the things creatives/freelancers battle with, including me, is time management.

I won’t lie, I’ve not found a perfect formula that works yet. But every day, I’m doing my best to find something that helps me manage my time better.

The struggle is real.

Struggling to post consistently to keep your brand moving.

Struggling to attend to clients excellently.

Struggling to handle other pressing matters offline.

Struggling to just breathe sometimes.

I see people who seem to be doing it well, and honestly, I envy them. Still, I’m doing my best to find what works for me.

Let me be sincere. There’s a lot of work to be done online. But the real work is offline, I must tell you.

I’ve started implementing a few time management steps lately, and for now, they’re working. I won’t share them yet, not until I’ve learned them well. I’m still in my trial-and-error phase.

Truth is, what works for me may not work for you. So try to find your own formula.

But just so you know, the struggle with effective time management is real. And it’s one battle you must win.

If not, your consistent showing up online will be counterproductive.

So as you post, also remember to pause. Go offline.

Attend to the things that truly matter: your health, your family, your peace of mind.

Social media is tempting, yes, but don’t spend your entire 24 hours here daily, no matter how passionate you are about your work.

You need a break, even if it’s just for a few hours.

Well, I just thought to drop this here.

These days, I’m becoming more vulnerable. I’m not sure I like it, but I’m flowing with the move of my spirit.

Much love.

Have a productive day ahead.

Let's keep doing wonders together.

It’s Not Only Record That Should Be Banned, Musician Himself Should Be Proscribed-Soyinka Slams NBC

Nobel Laureate, Professor Wole Soyinka, has criticized the National Broadcasting Commission (NBC) over its recent decision to ban a song by Nigerian musician Eedris Abdulkareem that criticized President Bola Tinubu administration.

According to a report by Punch, Soyinka expressed strong disapproval, saying that banning just the song wasn’t enough. According to him, “It’s not only the record that should be banned, the musician himself should be proscribed.”

Soyinka’s comments appear to be laced with sarcasm, highlighting what he sees as excessive censorship and the growing intolerance for dissent in the country. He has previously criticized the NBC's broadcasting regulations, calling them an attack on freedom of expression and a threat to Nigeria’s creative industry.

The NBC’s decision to take down Abdulkareem’s song has sparked debate nationwide. While some support the move as necessary to maintain decorum in public media, others argue it is a direct attack on free speech and creativity.

Soyinka’s reaction adds to the growing criticism of how Nigerian authorities are handling political dissent, especially through music and the arts.

"A creative mind is motivated by the desire to achieve, not by the desire to beat Others " - Ayn Rand.

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband
2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband
3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances
4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings

5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend
6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood
7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband
8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him
9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly

10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time
11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids
12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments
13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband
14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves

15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband
16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty
17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her
18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together
Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage.
Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own.

Greetings to all submissive Women

A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN MARRIAGE - Proverbs 31:10 - 31

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Total stranger #creative

Creative art always fun any day any time

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband
2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband
3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances
4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings

5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend
6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood
7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband
8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him
9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly

10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time
11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids
12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments
13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband
14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves

15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband
16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty
17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her
18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together
Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage.
Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own.

Greetings to all submissive Women

A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN MARRIAGE - Proverbs 31:10 - 31

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband
2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband
3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances
4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings

5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend
6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood
7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband
8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him
9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly

10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time
11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids
12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments
13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband
14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves

15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband
16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty
17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her
18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together
Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage.
Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own.

Greetings to all submissive Women

A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN MARRIAGE - Proverbs 31:10 - 31

Happy mother's day to all our Amazing mothers.

Sabbath, Lord's Day, etc

The question of which day to worship, Sunday or Saturday, often arises among Christians. While the Jewish tradition emphasizes the observance of Shabbat, Christians tend to prioritize weekly corporate worship. For Jews, worship is a daily practice, with lengthy prayers offered three times a day. On Shabbat, Jews engage in worship activities that differ from their daily routine, but the primary focus is on ceasing from creative work. This concept of resting one day a week is not as prominent in Christian practice, where emphasis is placed on worship itself (click here). However, Jesus' words about the Sabbath being made for man provide insight into the Jewish context. The seven-day week, established by the God of Israel, applies to both Christians and Jews, regardless of the specific day chosen for corporate worship. This discussion opens the door to further exploration of the topic (click here).

It's superb to be creative