• https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/health-fitness/web-stories/avocado-recipes-10-genius-recipes-from-a-single-avocado/photostory/121203687.cms
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    10 healthy recipes from just one avocado
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  • business studies is not business management, business management is not business success, business success is not heavenly ideas which generate heavenly knowledge which can be taught in the school of prayers ,studying the Bible walking in righteousness and living a thankful lifestyle
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  • *What Does Your Mom Constantly Complain About You ?*
    *: Dressing*
    *: Hairstyle*
    *: Laziness*
    *: Bathing*
    *: Bad Cooking*
    *: Phone*
    *What Does Your Mom Constantly Complain About You ?* *🥺: Dressing* *🌹: Hairstyle* *😮: Laziness* *❤️: Bathing* *💔: Bad Cooking* *😂: Phone*
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    Does a sedentary lifestyle cause breast cancer?
    Sedentary means sitting or reclining for prolonged periods with minimal activity. Television watching, office work, or no exercise
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  • *What to Have Before You Become a Wife *

    Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire.

    But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience.

    So before you become a wife; Have

    1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself

    Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions.

    Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else.

    Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself.

    Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure.

    2. Emotional Maturity

    Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love?

    In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband.
    There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills.

    Learn Good Communication Skills too.

    Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man.

    Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough.

    Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence.

    A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom.

    3. Financial Wisdom

    You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that.

    You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally.

    Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you

    Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both.

    Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain!



    4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life

    What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose?

    Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife?

    It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision.

    Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep.

    If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met.

    Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort.


    5. Sound Marital Knowledge

    You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage?

    In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent.

    You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it.

    You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible.

    All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing

    Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ?

    Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront.

    Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can.

    6. Healing from Past Wounds

    Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage.

    Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married.

    Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage.

    Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow.

    7. The Right Community

    Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage.

    Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage.

    Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them.


    8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility

    Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed?

    Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them.
    Start building them now— the right habits.

    Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids.

    9. Hobbies and Passions

    In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow.

    Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season.

    When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home.

    10. A Prayer Life

    Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God.

    A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan.

    A kneeling woman is a winning woman!


    Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it.

    Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole.

    So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman.

    A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key.

    Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it.

    Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED , not to be ENDURED .

    You are worth the wait. PEACE!
    *What to Have Before You Become a Wife📌 👇* Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire. But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience. So before you become a wife; Have 1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions. Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else. Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself. Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure. 2. Emotional Maturity Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love? In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband. There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills. Learn Good Communication Skills too. Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man. Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough. Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence. A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom. 3. Financial Wisdom You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that. You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally. Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you❓ Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both. Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain! • 4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose? Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife? It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision. Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep. If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met. Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort. 5. Sound Marital Knowledge You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage? In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent. You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it. You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible. All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing 🙄 Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ? Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront. Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can. 6. Healing from Past Wounds Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage. Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married. Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage. Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow. 7. The Right Community Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage. Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage. Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them. 8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed? Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them. Start building them now— the right habits. Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids. 9. Hobbies and Passions In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow. Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season. When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home. 10. A Prayer Life Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God. A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan. A kneeling woman is a winning woman! Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it. Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole. So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman. A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key. Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it. Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED ✅, not to be ENDURED ❌. You are worth the wait. PEACE!🕊️
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  • Floyd Mayweather: "People see the flash, the cars, the money, the jewelry. But what they don’t see is the years of sacrifice. They don’t see me running at 3 a.m. when everyone else is asleep. They don’t see me going to the gym, day after day, even when I don’t have a fight scheduled. I always say, 'Hard work and dedication.' That’s not just a slogan; that’s my lifestyle. If you want to be the best at anything, you have to be willing to outwork everyone. Talent is nothing without discipline, and discipline is nothing without consistency."
    Floyd Mayweather: "People see the flash, the cars, the money, the jewelry. But what they don’t see is the years of sacrifice. They don’t see me running at 3 a.m. when everyone else is asleep. They don’t see me going to the gym, day after day, even when I don’t have a fight scheduled. I always say, 'Hard work and dedication.' That’s not just a slogan; that’s my lifestyle. If you want to be the best at anything, you have to be willing to outwork everyone. Talent is nothing without discipline, and discipline is nothing without consistency."
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  • If there's judgment attached to how you feel about someone else's decisions, that might be an opportunity to get out the mirror.

    What is threatening about the choice they're making?

    What would it mean about you if you did it?

    How does it make you feel?

    What does it remind you of?

    People make decisions all the time that we disagree with or wouldn't make, and sometimes those decisions genuinely aren't going to benefit that person.

    But they get to choose. They get to forge their own path, make their own mistakes, live their own life, and make different choices.

    And when people aren't very confident in their own relationship with themselves, they tend to be very judgmental of other people.

    When you find yourself heavily judging someone else's life choices, get curious about what you believe that decision means or represents?

    What is that judgment trying to protect you from?

    What would it mean about you or them if you just let them do this?

    It's eliciting an emotion in you.
    Meeting that emotion with presence; see if you can allow the feeling.

    Can you meet that judgment with curiosity?

    Becoming aware of our own self-protective instincts can help us discover what painful beliefs exist beneath deep beneath the surface, and then we can begin to soften them.

    What story are you projecting onto this person?

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone's clothing because you wouldn't feel confident wearing something so different.

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's parenting because it touches on pain you felt when you were a child.

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's lifestyle because you're too afraid to step out of the confines of what "normalcy" looks like.

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's easy-going nature because you feel like you always have to be the responsible one.

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's career choice because they have opportunities you'd love to have.

    Get curious.

    What is your judgment trying to protect you from feeling?
    If there's judgment attached to how you feel about someone else's decisions, that might be an opportunity to get out the mirror. What is threatening about the choice they're making? What would it mean about you if you did it? How does it make you feel? What does it remind you of? People make decisions all the time that we disagree with or wouldn't make, and sometimes those decisions genuinely aren't going to benefit that person. But they get to choose. They get to forge their own path, make their own mistakes, live their own life, and make different choices. And when people aren't very confident in their own relationship with themselves, they tend to be very judgmental of other people. When you find yourself heavily judging someone else's life choices, get curious about what you believe that decision means or represents? What is that judgment trying to protect you from? What would it mean about you or them if you just let them do this? It's eliciting an emotion in you. Meeting that emotion with presence; see if you can allow the feeling. Can you meet that judgment with curiosity? Becoming aware of our own self-protective instincts can help us discover what painful beliefs exist beneath deep beneath the surface, and then we can begin to soften them. What story are you projecting onto this person? Maybe you're judgmental of someone's clothing because you wouldn't feel confident wearing something so different. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's parenting because it touches on pain you felt when you were a child. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's lifestyle because you're too afraid to step out of the confines of what "normalcy" looks like. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's easy-going nature because you feel like you always have to be the responsible one. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's career choice because they have opportunities you'd love to have. Get curious. What is your judgment trying to protect you from feeling?
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  • If there's judgment attached to how you feel about someone else's decisions, that might be an opportunity to get out the mirror.

    What is threatening about the choice they're making?

    What would it mean about you if you did it?

    How does it make you feel? What does it remind you of?

    People make decisions all the time that we disagree with or wouldn't make, and sometimes those decisions genuinely aren't going to benefit that person.
    But they get to choose. They get to forge their own path, make their own mistakes, live their own life, and make different choices.

    And when people aren't very confident in their own relationship with themselves, they tend to be very judgmental of other people.

    When you find yourself heavily judging someone else's life choices, get curious about what you believe that decision means or represents?

    What is that judgment trying to protect you from?

    What would it mean about you or them if you just let them do this?

    It's eliciting an emotion in you.
    Meeting that emotion with presence; see if you can allow the feeling.

    Can you meet that judgment with curiosity?

    Becoming aware of our own self-protective instincts can help us discover what painful beliefs exist beneath deep beneath the surface, and then we can begin to soften them.

    What story are you projecting onto this person?

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone's clothing because you wouldn't feel confident wearing something so different.

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's parenting because it touches on pain you felt when you were a child.

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's lifestyle because you're too afraid to step out of the confines of what "normalcy" looks like.

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's easy-going nature because you feel like you always have to be the responsible one.

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's career choice because they have opportunities you'd love to have.

    Get curious.

    What is your judgment trying to protect you from feeling?
    If there's judgment attached to how you feel about someone else's decisions, that might be an opportunity to get out the mirror. What is threatening about the choice they're making? What would it mean about you if you did it? How does it make you feel? What does it remind you of? People make decisions all the time that we disagree with or wouldn't make, and sometimes those decisions genuinely aren't going to benefit that person. But they get to choose. They get to forge their own path, make their own mistakes, live their own life, and make different choices. And when people aren't very confident in their own relationship with themselves, they tend to be very judgmental of other people. When you find yourself heavily judging someone else's life choices, get curious about what you believe that decision means or represents? What is that judgment trying to protect you from? What would it mean about you or them if you just let them do this? It's eliciting an emotion in you. Meeting that emotion with presence; see if you can allow the feeling. Can you meet that judgment with curiosity? Becoming aware of our own self-protective instincts can help us discover what painful beliefs exist beneath deep beneath the surface, and then we can begin to soften them. What story are you projecting onto this person? Maybe you're judgmental of someone's clothing because you wouldn't feel confident wearing something so different. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's parenting because it touches on pain you felt when you were a child. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's lifestyle because you're too afraid to step out of the confines of what "normalcy" looks like. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's easy-going nature because you feel like you always have to be the responsible one. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's career choice because they have opportunities you'd love to have. Get curious. What is your judgment trying to protect you from feeling?
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  • Oyo State Governor, Seyi Makinde has gifted brand-new Changan CS55 SUVs to all Local Government Chairmen across the state. The Changan CS55, named Nigeria’s Car of the Year 2024, boasts modern safety features like lane-keeping assist and traffic jam assist.
    Sources also confirm that similar vehicles will soon be presented to Local Government Vice Chairmen and other key appointees.

    Governor Seyi Makinde’s bold gesture of gifting Changan CS55 SUVs to all Local Government Chairmen has drawn admiration for its symbolism of leadership empowerment and appreciation.

    However, keen observers may ask;
    Is this strategic empowerment or a subtle reinforcement of political loyalty?
    In a state where grassroots development remains crucial, some may wonder how such a high-profile move aligns with the pressing infrastructural needs of rural communities.

    Moreover, as expectations of leadership evolve, are we gradually normalizing luxury as a defining symbol of public service?

    Still, it cannot be denied that Governor Makinde has consistently raised the bar in responsive governance, his proactive style and people-centered policies continue to set him apart as one of Nigeria’s most visionary leaders.

    Congratulations to all LG Chairmen.
    Oyo State Governor, Seyi Makinde has gifted brand-new Changan CS55 SUVs to all Local Government Chairmen across the state. The Changan CS55, named Nigeria’s Car of the Year 2024, boasts modern safety features like lane-keeping assist and traffic jam assist. Sources also confirm that similar vehicles will soon be presented to Local Government Vice Chairmen and other key appointees. Governor Seyi Makinde’s bold gesture of gifting Changan CS55 SUVs to all Local Government Chairmen has drawn admiration for its symbolism of leadership empowerment and appreciation. However, keen observers may ask; Is this strategic empowerment or a subtle reinforcement of political loyalty? In a state where grassroots development remains crucial, some may wonder how such a high-profile move aligns with the pressing infrastructural needs of rural communities. Moreover, as expectations of leadership evolve, are we gradually normalizing luxury as a defining symbol of public service? Still, it cannot be denied that Governor Makinde has consistently raised the bar in responsive governance, his proactive style and people-centered policies continue to set him apart as one of Nigeria’s most visionary leaders. Congratulations to all LG Chairmen.
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  • WHY YOUR SALARY IS NEVER ENOUGH?

    “Expenses always rise to match income.”
    That’s Parkinson’s Law.
    And it’s silently sabotaging millions of good people every payday.

    You used to survive on $300.
    Then you got a raise to $500. Suddenly, your life demands $500… plus $50 in debt.

    You didn’t upgrade your investments.
    You upgraded your wardrobe, the car you drive, the neighborhood you stay, your DSTV bouquet and your taste.

    So now…
    You’re earning more, but feeling poorer.
    You’ve got a better phone, but no emergency fund. You live in a better flat, but can’t survive two months without a salary.

    That’s the trap.
    The more money you earn, the more your lifestyle expands to swallow it.

    Parkinson’s Law turns your salary from seed into smoke. The key word is 'salary'. Conditions surrounding the salary embed a very dangerous mindset.

    - You MUST fight lifestyle inflation. Upon getting a raise, don't change anything in your life, rather save 100% of the extra for one year.

    - it's ok, if suddenly you look like the poorest at your workplace, but begin to lend workmates money collecting interest (20% minimum). Look for people with problems and help them. Teach everyone depend on you for emergencies. You will be surprised that soon, your boss's name will also be in your books inspite of his/her big paycheck. He/she has suddenly become your servant.

    - being among people who think a certain way can be your greatest blessing. Make sure the entire company raise finds its way to your pocket. Never feel bad doing this because you are actually helping them.

    - then start a second side hustle quietly and begin making money. Ensure that your side hustle doesn't affect your work. In the meantime, you MUST master delayed gratification.

    Do you see that every time your salary increases, you have two choices?
    1. Look richer.
    2. Become wealthier.

    One is for likes.
    The other is for legacy.

    Don’t let Parkinson’s Law keep you broke with a bigger paycheck. Beat it by planting your salary, not spending your harvest before it grows.

    Be wiser than your appetite.

    #Your network creates your networth
    #SalaryIsSeed
    WHY YOUR SALARY IS NEVER ENOUGH? “Expenses always rise to match income.” That’s Parkinson’s Law. And it’s silently sabotaging millions of good people every payday. You used to survive on $300. Then you got a raise to $500. Suddenly, your life demands $500… plus $50 in debt. You didn’t upgrade your investments. You upgraded your wardrobe, the car you drive, the neighborhood you stay, your DSTV bouquet and your taste. So now… You’re earning more, but feeling poorer. You’ve got a better phone, but no emergency fund. You live in a better flat, but can’t survive two months without a salary. That’s the trap. The more money you earn, the more your lifestyle expands to swallow it. Parkinson’s Law turns your salary from seed into smoke. The key word is 'salary'. Conditions surrounding the salary embed a very dangerous mindset. - You MUST fight lifestyle inflation. Upon getting a raise, don't change anything in your life, rather save 100% of the extra for one year. - it's ok, if suddenly you look like the poorest at your workplace, but begin to lend workmates money collecting interest (20% minimum). Look for people with problems and help them. Teach everyone depend on you for emergencies. You will be surprised that soon, your boss's name will also be in your books inspite of his/her big paycheck. He/she has suddenly become your servant. - being among people who think a certain way can be your greatest blessing. Make sure the entire company raise finds its way to your pocket. Never feel bad doing this because you are actually helping them. - then start a second side hustle quietly and begin making money. Ensure that your side hustle doesn't affect your work. In the meantime, you MUST master delayed gratification. Do you see that every time your salary increases, you have two choices? 1. Look richer. 2. Become wealthier. One is for likes. The other is for legacy. Don’t let Parkinson’s Law keep you broke with a bigger paycheck. Beat it by planting your salary, not spending your harvest before it grows. Be wiser than your appetite. #Your network creates your networth #SalaryIsSeed
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  • Regina, you’re like a child to me. You grew up in my presence. I remember when you and your mother used to come to my house — small, respectful girl. I watched you grow, and I honestly thought you had sense… that you’d marry someone close to your age. But no, greed carried you far.

    Private jets, designer bags, flying around the world — all for a lifestyle you could’ve worked for yourself. Instead, you married a man old enough to be your great-grandfather, all because you wanted luxury overnight. My dear, that’s not success. That’s shortcut.

    You think because you now have some fame and money, you can open your mouth and talk to me anyhow? When I talk, you should be listening. I’m the woman you wish to be — I built myself, no shortcuts, no sugar-coated help. Everything I have today, I earned it with my sweat.

    Don’t get it twisted — I won’t trade words with you again. I know you just want to trend. You and your husband have been quiet for a while, and this is your way of reminding Nigerians that you still exist. But me? I don't need stunts. My name speaks for itself.

    And please, don’t mistake marriage for maturity. If you insult me again, I’ll remind you of everything you’ve tried to sweep under the rug.

    This is your final warning. Don’t cross that line again."- Angela okorie fires back at Regina Daniels after she called her mad.

    #tinglespicey #mazitundeednut #fyp2025 #nonsmiraj #nollywoodonline #nollywoodcelebrities #PulseViral #nollywood #nollywoodchallenge #viral
    Regina, you’re like a child to me. You grew up in my presence. I remember when you and your mother used to come to my house — small, respectful girl. I watched you grow, and I honestly thought you had sense… that you’d marry someone close to your age. But no, greed carried you far. Private jets, designer bags, flying around the world — all for a lifestyle you could’ve worked for yourself. Instead, you married a man old enough to be your great-grandfather, all because you wanted luxury overnight. My dear, that’s not success. That’s shortcut. You think because you now have some fame and money, you can open your mouth and talk to me anyhow? When I talk, you should be listening. I’m the woman you wish to be — I built myself, no shortcuts, no sugar-coated help. Everything I have today, I earned it with my sweat. Don’t get it twisted — I won’t trade words with you again. I know you just want to trend. You and your husband have been quiet for a while, and this is your way of reminding Nigerians that you still exist. But me? I don't need stunts. My name speaks for itself. And please, don’t mistake marriage for maturity. If you insult me again, I’ll remind you of everything you’ve tried to sweep under the rug. This is your final warning. Don’t cross that line again."- Angela okorie fires back at Regina Daniels after she called her mad. #tinglespicey #mazitundeednut #fyp2025 #nonsmiraj #nollywoodonline #nollywoodcelebrities #PulseViral #nollywood #nollywoodchallenge #viral
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  • TWELVE WAYS A GUEST SPEAKER CAN MANIFEST PRIDE AGAINST THE HOST WITHOUT KNOWING:

    As a guest speaker, never do the following. It is a display of pride against your host.

    1. Rejecting the Economy ticket that was given to you, insisting it must be business class. If that is their level, you can upgrade it yourself.

    2. Rejecting the car, they came to pick you up with from the airport. You came to help the work, not to destroy the work.

    3. Rejecting the best hotel they have in the town, insisting you must go to the nearest city to look for a better hotel. Are you not a mountain visiting pastor? See it, as you going to pray in the mountain. You know what you have in your mind when rejecting the hotel provided for you.

    4. Refusing to stand when everyone is standing to receive the set man of the house to the altar. If the congregation is standing for their pastor, you should also stand. It helps the house to also accept you.

    5. Disregarding the focus of the meeting. Hearing God asking you to change the focus. It is unethical to do that.

    6. Walking away from the church, when you feel the set man has taken too much time on the altar. He is in charge, he should be allowed to present you to the people in whatever a way, he feels is okay. He decides to kill the meeting, don't help him to bury it. Find a way to manage it.

    7. Preaching without recognizing the set man and his wife. It is not your style. But you must do it. It is the approach of all guest speakers that are well trained.

    8. Using the set man to do illustrations that appear degrading. Like asking him to lift up his hands for illustration. Any other man in church can be used for that.

    9. Using the church of your host to compare the one you pastor, in the area you are doing better. There is no need for that.

    10. Referring to your host without his official titles. You know he is an Apostle by Ordination, you went and called him Pastor. And you kept calling him a Pastor.

    11. Seating on the official chair of your host, against the seating arrangement they gave to you.

    12. Refusing the honorarium they gave you, insisting that you are bigger than that money.

    All of the above are elements of pride and arrogance.

    If you are given to any of them repent.

    Let's discuss.

    Be blessed

    Bishop Irabor Wisdom.
    TWELVE WAYS A GUEST SPEAKER CAN MANIFEST PRIDE AGAINST THE HOST WITHOUT KNOWING: As a guest speaker, never do the following. It is a display of pride against your host. 1. Rejecting the Economy ticket that was given to you, insisting it must be business class. If that is their level, you can upgrade it yourself. 2. Rejecting the car, they came to pick you up with from the airport. You came to help the work, not to destroy the work. 3. Rejecting the best hotel they have in the town, insisting you must go to the nearest city to look for a better hotel. Are you not a mountain visiting pastor? See it, as you going to pray in the mountain. You know what you have in your mind when rejecting the hotel provided for you. 4. Refusing to stand when everyone is standing to receive the set man of the house to the altar. If the congregation is standing for their pastor, you should also stand. It helps the house to also accept you. 5. Disregarding the focus of the meeting. Hearing God asking you to change the focus. It is unethical to do that. 6. Walking away from the church, when you feel the set man has taken too much time on the altar. He is in charge, he should be allowed to present you to the people in whatever a way, he feels is okay. He decides to kill the meeting, don't help him to bury it. Find a way to manage it. 7. Preaching without recognizing the set man and his wife. It is not your style. But you must do it. It is the approach of all guest speakers that are well trained. 8. Using the set man to do illustrations that appear degrading. Like asking him to lift up his hands for illustration. Any other man in church can be used for that. 9. Using the church of your host to compare the one you pastor, in the area you are doing better. There is no need for that. 10. Referring to your host without his official titles. You know he is an Apostle by Ordination, you went and called him Pastor. And you kept calling him a Pastor. 11. Seating on the official chair of your host, against the seating arrangement they gave to you. 12. Refusing the honorarium they gave you, insisting that you are bigger than that money. All of the above are elements of pride and arrogance. If you are given to any of them repent. Let's discuss. Be blessed Bishop Irabor Wisdom.
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