I SAW MY GRANDMA TÚRN INTO A CÁT AT NIGHT😳 My name is Kpokuechukwu. I'm the only son of my father. Or rather, I'm the only product of an intertribal union of an Igbo man and a Yoruba woman. According to my mother, she'd been childless for 8 years and had experienced 3 m¡scarriages before I was finally born. So she called my name Oluwasindara . My parents and I used to live in the faraway city of Lagos. But one December when I was just six years old, we traveled down East to celebrate Christmas with grandma… And that was it, we didn't return to the city😭 Before we embarked on that journey, there was this particular dream I usually have, of a cr££py old woman scaring me. Sometimes she will throw me into a stream, thr£atening to drown me, other times she will be chasing me around a forest with either a long knife or a tongue of fire. Such a night, I will wake up sweating and crying. My mom would be there to comfort me. She would apply some ointment on my forehead, muttering silent prayers. It's as a result of these repeated occurrences that I started sleeping in my parents room. . This story belongs to Joy Ifunanya. One Thursday evening in October, mummy was helping me do my homework in the dining room when dad walked in and told her to start making preparations. “We shall be celebrating Christmas in the East this season”. He announced. I was overwhelmed with excitement. I'd only heard about the village, but never really visited it. During holidays, mom usually takes me down to Badagry to stay with her elder sister who had 4 grown-up children. Although I do enjoy my times with them because there, everyone pampers me, I think traveling to the village will be more fun. I have heard fascinating stories about the rural areas from my friends at school who were privileged to visit their hometown every holiday season. They won't stop talking about how they swim in their village streams all day long, how they go out to watch masquerade, how they go palm kernel hunting, snail hunting, crab hunting and a lot of other adventures. More interesting was how children would gather round the fireplace at night to listen to interesting folktales from the elderly women. I have been hoping to have such an experience one day. So when dad made that announcement that evening, I couldn't control myself. I lifted my hands in the air.. “Yeah, I'm going to see grandma!”. I Daddy smiled and patted my back. However, mummy didn't seem nearly as excited. In fact, she looked rather apprehensive. “Dave, I'm not going to the village with you”. She asked. Daddy frowned at her. “Why? We haven't been to the village for ages” He asked. “Are you asking me why? How do you even want me to travel all the way to the East in this condition?” She quarreled. At that time, I wasn't aware that she was weeks pregnant. “I know, dear. But trust me, you will be safe. Nothing will go wrong, I promise”. He said. “I am still not going. I won't be traveling like this”. She insisted. “Wuraola, I am traveling this December, I missed my mother, it's been five years. Don't you understand?”. Daddy said. “But I'm not stopping you. I just said I am not going. That doesn't mean you can't go and see your mother”. She argued. Daddy heaved a sigh, sat down on the chair close to her and held her hand. He then lowered his voice and began to talk to her. Though I didn't understand what he was saying because he was speaking Igbo language (I was only fluent in Yoruba language), I knew he was trying to persuade her, to make her see the reason she should embark on that journey. I watched them, my heart filled with silent.prayers that she should concur because if Mummy won't be traveling to the village, I won't be traveling either. I'm sure of that. It was during the weekend when Mom and I were visiting her sister in Badagry that I discovered her major reason for not wanting to travel with us. Her sister and her friends were gisting in the living room by the time we came. When Mummy announced about the intending journey to the East, her sister's reaction was intense. She seemed really upset. “What is wrong with your husband?”. She raged. And in order to carry her friends along, she began to recount the events that transpired long before I was born. Since no one asked me to escused them, I sat there in their midst, listening attentively and watching their lips move. I learnt that my grandma never liked my mom. She had wanted to be the one to choose a wife for her son, HER ONLY SON, from amongst our people. But my daddy did not only reject Mama's choice, but went ahead to bring home a woman from a different ethnic background. “Mama, this is the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with. Her name is Wuraola”. Daddy had said the first day he brought mum home. “Eka aso, Mami”. My mummy had greeted, prostrating before Grandma. Grandma's eyes turned red with rage. “Over my dead body would my only son marry onye ofe mmanu”. Grandma had responded. She couldn't even hide her feelings. NOTE:. OFE MMANU IS THE IGBO MAN'S NAME FOR YORUBA’S OMI OBE AND EWEDU SOUP. NO OFFENSE But despite his mum's disapproval, daddy went ahead to marry my mom. Nobody in my father's family agreed to see reason with her. This made her h@tred of mom very strongly. So strong that she was absent during their introduction and traditional marriage ceremony. A few weeks before their wedding, dad and mum traveled to the village to make peace with her. They knelt before her and apologized for getting married without her blessings. She accepted their apology, and promised to attend their wedding, but with a strict condition. “Your wife will stay back here with me for some time after the wedding”. She had told my dad. “Hmmm, it won't be possible”. Dad said. They returned to the city 2 days later and did their wedding without her. But barely two weeks later, they found themselves back in the village… Dad's business has collapsed. “Nwanyi ofe mmanu bû bádluck bia n' uloa(This Yoruba woman came with bádluck)”. Grandma would taunt dad. But dad didn't take her word to heart. Even when Mom started having a series of m!scarriages, and grandma wouldn't stop bothering him to take a new wife, he refused to give up on mum. “You're my only son, Onyekachi. The nwanyi ofe mmanu you married is bárren! Why don't you marry Akuabata, and start giving me children. I'm not getting any younger”. Grandma would always tell him. It wouldn't end there, she would go ahead to bring the akuabata home to do chores for her. The lady would be parading the compound in a skimpy skirt or gown. Grandma finds pleasure in making mum shed tears. She neither eats her food nor allows her to touch her belongings. Once she returned from the farm and noticed that mom was cooking soup with her pot, she got really angry, stormed into the kitchen, set the pot down from the fire, and threw the soup on the ground. “Ahh! Mami?”. Mummy exclaimed. “Mami micha gi onu there! Ekwensu!”. Grandma cμrsed. With that, she went inside and came out again with a hammer and nails with which she pierced the pot in several places before flinging it into the bush. Morning and night, mom would cry, but my dad would always be there to comfort her. It was after six wásted years that uncle Tunde, my mummy's elder brother who resided abroad, remembered his sister. It was him who sponsored them financially. They left the village, back to Lagos, and started afresh. With time, things began to normalize, and that was when I came into the picture. Mom's pregnancy journey wasn't easy, she was hospitalized thrice due to threatened m¡scarriages. However, with Divine intervention I was brought into this world, a year after they returned to the city. **********”******* Though I feel sorry for her, hearing all these stories about mom's mystery didn't deter me from wanting to visit the village. In fact, my excitement only grew stronger. I was still eager to experience village life and make new memories. I couldn't wait shåre my own village experience with my friends. Thankfully, at last, Mummy agreed to the journey. Then came D-Day. It was on December 20th. Very early in the morning, we set out for the East in my dad's car. Myself and my parents, with one woman and her infant son. The journey was tiring. I didn't imagine it was going to be so.I sleep and wake up occasionally and still find ourselves on the road. At one point, I began to cry. “The masquerades in the village will b!te you if they see tears in your eyes”. Mom said. I stopped crying instantly and wiped my tears. As the evening drew in, we continued driving until the woman and her son dropped off at a junction. We then turned onto an untarred road, which seemed to stretch on forever. This story belongs to Joy Ifunanya. Finally, after what felt like an eternity, we drove into a wide compound and halted in front of a thatched-roofed bungalow. An old woman was sitting by the side of the wall, picking something from a calabash on the ground in front of her. “Here we are!” Daddy announced. “Village?” I asked, excitement building inside of me. “Yeah! Grandma is here”. Daddy said, pointing towards the old woman. By now, the woman had looked up from the calabash and was staring at our car. “Grandma!”. I screamed out excitedly, and without waiting, I threw open the car door and leaped out “Grandma, grandma!”. I chanted as I ran towards her. But as I drew closer enough to behold her face, my feet seemed to freeze of their own accord. A chill rippled through my body, raising goosebumps on my skin. Grandma was the same woman who had haμnted my dreams…. Typing 2……….. Please, shåre 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 #Story from Joy Ifunanya's story room.

EPISODE 2: When Heaven Opens🕊️ It started with unusual fatigue and nausea. Amaka brushed it off until Jide suggested a test. Positive. She took another one. Positive again. The hospital confirmed what seemed impossible—they were pregnant. But not just one child… four. Quadruplets. Tears flowed. Prayers turned into praises. The same home that once echoed with silence now vibrated with joy, preparation, and gentle fear. Would everything go well? Months passed, and though the pregnancy was delicate, Amaka carried their blessings with grace. The day she gave birth, Jide held her hand and whispered, “Our wait was not in vain.” Now, seated on their living room couch, they are surrounded by tiny hands, sleepy yawns, and cooing sounds. Amaka watches as Jide rocks two of their babies while holding the others with unmatched tenderness. She smiles, eyes wet—not from sorrow but from overwhelming joy. Their story became a testimony. The years of tears, waiting, ridicule, and pain now stood as a powerful backdrop to a portrait of unimaginable blessings. Because sometimes… God doesn’t say no. He says “not yet”—and when He moves, He overdoes it.🥰

Wetin Naija Churches Dey Do? - Praise Fowowe I just finished lecturing the first class of the family life ministry program for ministers in North America. I had to stay awake here in Nigeria to take that class. One discussion point is how well we have influenced the world. As i left the class i sat back to reflect and decided to write about the impact of the charismatic movement in Nigeria. In a time where it has become fashionable to drag the Church… Where cynicism is now mistaken for intelligence, And many have built entire brands around pointing fingers at pulpits, Permit me today to ask a question with deep reverence in my heart: Wetin Naija churches dey do? Because if you look beyond the noise, If you silence the sarcasm and let your spirit observe, You will see something breathtaking. I was at The Platform Africa organized by Pastor Poju Oyemade and hosted with such elegance by Covenant Nation And there I sat, humbled… Watching two of the youngest founders on the lineup, Lighting up the stage with wisdom far beyond their years. Guess what? They were both products of Covenant University A vision birthed by Bishop David Oyedepo. In a world that questions what churches are doing, I saw what the church has done. Not just in words, but in evidence. These weren’t preachers. They were builders. And yet, they were fruits of the altar. The Church is Building Quietly… While many are tweeting and tearing down, The Church is training leaders, healing bodies, building systems, Feeding nations, and raising kingdoms often without fanfare. Let's examine what a few more are doing... Covenant Nation – Enlightening the Mind Through The Platform Africa, they are raising civic consciousness, driving advocacy, nation building, policy reform Not in the spirit alone, but in the boardrooms of power. They are building a critical team of intelligent christian who are mastering the priestly and kingly dimension of things Daystar Christian Centre – Raising Leaders Led by Pastor Sam Adeyemi, they’ve built a leadership factory. Quietly, powerfully, they are equipping ordinary people to lead extraordinary lives. In business, in governance, in families—Daystar alumni are everywhere. I am sure you know I am a member of Daystar Elevation Church – Healing Bodies through Ubomi Pastor Godman Akinlabi is not just preaching grace He’s deploying grace in the form of surgeries, health outreaches, And radical medical intervention for those who can’t afford it. Ubomi is saving lives—literally. RCCG – Building a Medical Village The Redeemed Christian Church of God is not just praying for the sick. They’ve built entire villages of healing, Where medical care meets ministry, and hope walks the hallways like a doctor. And There Are Many More… From prison outreaches to orphan care, From schools in remote villages to rehabilitation centers for drug addicts, From teenage pregnancy interventions to trauma healing systems The Nigerian Church is doing far more than you think. You must have noticed i intentionally skipped the orthodox churches because they educated majority of us and without them many of us may not have survived the healthcare systems. I will speak about them later. But we have become so used to miracles, That we miss the movement. We are so addicted to drama, That we overlook the quiet hands building nations behind the veil. 🙏🏾 Let Me Say This Clearly: The Nigerian Church is not perfect—but she is powerful. She may be bruised, but she is beautiful. She may be misunderstood, but she is moving mountains. So today, I pause to say: Well done. To every pastor, usher, intercessor, media crew, church cleaner, children’s minister, health worker, architect, administrator… To the churches you’ll never see on TV, To the missionaries who gave their youth to unreached places— Thank you. We see you. Heaven sees you. We Will Tell Our Children… That in the middle of confusion and criticism, There were altars that stood. There were churches that built. There were shepherds who loved. There were temples where healing flowed. And in that sacred space, Nigeria found hope again. So the next time someone asks: “Wetin Naija churches dey do?” Smile gently… And say: “They’re raising kings. They’re healing nations. They’re changing the story.” With all my love, Praise Fowowe

S€X REGULATORY SYSTEMS FOR MEN Listen up, Men! There Are Ten Brutal Sₑxual Rules Every Real Man Must Live By If you’re a man striving for legacy, not just pleasure—read this, burn it into your skull, and live by it. This is not advice for boys. This is a code for men building empires, protecting their name, and avoiding traps that have destroyed greater men. Let’s go: 1. Never Sleep With Women Under Your Power—Students, Staff, Employees This is not dominance. It’s stupidity. You risk your freedom, your brand, and your sanity. The same woman who called you “sir” today will call you “predator” tomorrow when things fall apart. 2. Stop Sleeping Around Like You’re Bulletproof One-night stands are not fun—they’re potential setups, blackmail traps, or spiritual soul ties. If you’re known for random sex, you’re one night away from scandal, disease, or death. 3. If You Must Cheat, Keep Receipts—Literally No romance. No lies. No games. If you’re going outside, make sure it’s transactional, and leave a virtual trail. It’s not to brag—it’s to protect yourself when accusations start flying. 4. Don’t Promise Marriage Just to Get in Her Pants This is lowlife behavior. Lying to women with your boxers at your ankles is how simps are born and destroyed. Don’t promise what your masculinity can't deliver. 5. Never Sleep With Women Below Your Social Level If You Don’t Mean Business She has nothing but you. You become her life, her hope, her god. If you leave, she doesn’t lose a man—she loses her mind. And that’s where madness begins. 6. Avoid Women With No Purpose No career. No vision. No direction. She will tie you down with pregnancy just to escape poverty. Because YOU become her escape plan. You become the retirement plan for her laziness. 7. If You Need a Condom, You Probably Shouldn’t Be There If you can't trust her with your life, why enter her with your body? Protection doesn’t make sex safe. It just delays the consequences. Wrong energy = wrong destiny. 8. Don’t Touch What Belonged to Your Brothers or Friends She’s your friend’s ex? Hands off. Even if he smiles and says “go ahead,” his heart may say otherwise. Loyalty is not tested by access—it’s proven by restraint. 9. Women Will Offer You Sₑx—Not All of Them Deserve You You’re not a dog. You’re not a beggar. Be selective. Be strategic. Be responsible. Because if pregnancy comes, you’re locked in for LIFE. Ask yourself: “Can this woman raise my child with discipline, honor, and values?” If not—walk away. 10. High Body Count Will Destroy You Mentally You think you’re “enjoying life”? You’re spiritually bleeding out. Every woman you sleep with leaves a fingerprint on your soul. And one day, out of nowhere—you’ll crave a toxic connection from the past, and it will derail your mind. Keep your count low. Keep your peace high. Sₑx is not a game. It’s not just pleasure. It’s spiritual warfare, legacy management, and destiny control. Use it like a fool, and it will destroy you. Master it like a king, and it will serve you.

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THINGS YOU SHOULD STOP DOING IN THE NAME OF “LOVE” (If you don’t stop now, you’ll cry later.) Let’s be real — many people are not in love. They’re in bondage. They’re calling it “love” but what they’re doing is slowly killing their own destiny, peace, and self-respect. Here are things you must STOP doing — immediately: 1. STOP FINANCING SOMEONE WHO'S NOT BUILDING WITH YOU. You’re sending money every week to someone who brings NOTHING to your table. You’re not a lover — you’re an unpaid sponsor. 2. STOP BEGGING FOR LOVE. If you have to constantly convince them to love, respect, or stay with you — They’ve already left mentally. You’re just holding on to pain. 3. STOP LOSING FRIENDSHIPS FOR A PARTNER. Cutting off everyone because your partner is insecure? That’s not love. That’s isolation. And when they leave, you’ll have no one left. 4. STOP TAKING DISRESPECT AND CALLING IT “UNDERSTANDING.” They insult you. Cheat. Use you. And you say “nobody’s perfect.” Bro/Sis — that’s not love. That’s stupidity wrapped in denial. 5. STOP CHANGING WHO YOU ARE TO BE LOVED. You’re now pretending to be what they like — New voice, new habits, fake vibes. What’s the point of being loved for who you’re not? 6. STOP PRIORITIZING A RELATIONSHIP OVER YOUR FUTURE. Missing opportunities, dropping goals, ignoring growth just to “make it work.” When you’re broke, that same person will leave you for someone who didn’t make that mistake. 7. STOP HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX IN THE NAME OF LOVE. They say “If you love me, no condom…” Next thing — pregnancy, STDs, emotional damage. Protect your life. Love doesn’t mean risk. 8. STOP SHARING ALL YOUR SECRETS WITH PEOPLE YOU’RE SLEEPING WITH. Sex is not trust. Some people are using your vulnerability to collect data for your downfall. 9. STOP TOLERATING ONE-SIDED EFFORTS. You’re doing everything. Calling. Sacrificing. Apologizing. They’re doing the bare minimum. That’s not love — that’s performance.

THE HARDEST PART OF MARRIAGE YOU WON'T BE TOLD Marriage is sweet when you examine it from afar, of those who have successful marriage or the lovey-dovey of newlyweds, but when you enter into, you will discover that what is behind number six is more than number seven. Many prepare so well for the romantic aspects of marriage, but very few groom themselves for the realities in marriage. Do you know that the hardest part of marriage plays a dominant role in marriage than the romantic moments? However, what breaks marriage isn't the lack of romance, but the couple's inability to withstand the hardest part of marriage. There are some hard things about marriage that you are not likely to be told, but I will only share 5 of them with you. 1. Staying faithful It's easy to abstain from sex as singles if you have not tasted how sweet sex is, but it's very difficult to stay faithful in marriage when you are denied sex for no just reason. The temptation to commit adultery is greater than the temptation to fornicate as singles. Because you now know how sex taste, seduction would come from those who are willing to give you or have a fling with you. In some cases, when your spouse becomes cold on sex matters, there are several others who want to give you a hot and sizzling sex. You need more discipline to stay faithful in marriage to your spouse emotionally, and sexually especially in this age when cheating has become a norm. If you have not been faithful to stay sexually pure now that you are single, it will be very difficult for you to master it when you are married. Marriage doesn't cure adultery, self control does! 2. Sexual Issues See, it is wise that you keep yourself sexually pure till marriage - purity in thoughts, action and word. All those who are deceiving you that who virginity epp only want to destroy you. One of the hardest part about marriage which many cannot come by is on the issue of sex. One partner is a novice while the other is an Emeritus professor in lovemaking; one has a high sexual libido while the other can stay for months without it and still feel sane. Virginity helps you to be sexually discipline, it prevents you from undue and ungodly exposure to sex that could either make you hate it with perfect hatred or make you a maniac in it. 3. Money matters Since it's said that money answers all things, money also destroys many things. As money can spice up love in marriages, it can also ruin it. What is your perception about money? Can you pull your purse together or separately? As a woman, do you have the warped mentality of my money is my money, but your money is our money? As a man, are you ready to work and earn a living or you want to live on your wife's income while dictating how the money will be spent without bringing anything to the table? Can you open up to your partner about your financial life without secretly building an estate in the village while you feed on his or her money like a parasite? Until you two resolve this before marriage and in marriage, it is hard enough to crack the nut of your marital bliss. 4. Unmet expectations If you have been dreaming of having her remain a slim shady, but eventually after pregnancy, she became a size 15, how would you cope? If he had been the romantic and available man, but after marriage, the quest for green pasture took him miles away, can you survive this? It is wise and better to prepare for the toughest part of marriage so that you can cope with them when they come, surely they will come. As much as you prepare for sunshine, don't forget to prepare for storms when they come before rain falls. 5. Handling differences Whether you agree or not, handling differences is one of the leading causes of divorce in marriage. Many marriages fail due to irreconcilable differences. How do you plan to reconcile your differences in marriage should they come? If he presses the toothpaste from the middle, and she had been raised to be meticulous by pressing it neatly from the base, can you tolerate this? If she likes the food cold or warm, and you prefer it hot with steaming heat, can you adjust? These and many others are the toughest part of marriage that you must brace up for. Wedding is just a day or two event but marriage is a lifetime journey. More than the excitement of the married life, more than the grandeur wedding ceremony, have you been transformed by the renewing of your mind to face any challenge in marriage when they come? Delay in child bearing, loss of job, relocation, in law issues, financial crisis, trying times or spiritual issues may come; you need to be prepared for whichever one life throws at you so you don't chicken out when they come. Marriage is hard, I'm not scaring you; it's just one of those truths you might not likely be told or you don't want to hear. Finding the right person to marry is hard, but staying married is the hardest in the face of life's realities.

THINGS YOU SHOULD STOP DOING IN THE NAME OF “LOVE” (If you don’t stop now, you’ll cry later.) Let’s be real — many people are not in love. They’re in bondage. They’re calling it “love” but what they’re doing is slowly killing their own destiny, peace, and self-respect. Here are things you must STOP doing — immediately: 1. STOP FINANCING SOMEONE WHO'S NOT BUILDING WITH YOU. You’re sending money every week to someone who brings NOTHING to your table. You’re not a lover — you’re an unpaid sponsor. 2. STOP BEGGING FOR LOVE. If you have to constantly convince them to love, respect, or stay with you — They’ve already left mentally. You’re just holding on to pain. 3. STOP LOSING FRIENDSHIPS FOR A PARTNER. Cutting off everyone because your partner is insecure? That’s not love. That’s isolation. And when they leave, you’ll have no one left. 4. STOP TAKING DISRESPECT AND CALLING IT “UNDERSTANDING.” They insult you. Cheat. Use you. And you say “nobody’s perfect.” Bro/Sis — that’s not love. That’s stupidity wrapped in denial. 5. STOP CHANGING WHO YOU ARE TO BE LOVED. You’re now pretending to be what they like — New voice, new habits, fake vibes. What’s the point of being loved for who you’re not? 6. STOP PRIORITIZING A RELATIONSHIP OVER YOUR FUTURE. Missing opportunities, dropping goals, ignoring growth just to “make it work.” When you’re broke, that same person will leave you for someone who didn’t make that mistake. 7. STOP HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX IN THE NAME OF LOVE. They say “If you love me, no condom…” Next thing — pregnancy, STDs, emotional damage. Protect your life. Love doesn’t mean risk. 8. STOP SHARING ALL YOUR SECRETS WITH PEOPLE YOU’RE SLEEPING WITH. Sex is not trust. Some people are using your vulnerability to collect data for your downfall. 9. STOP TOLERATING ONE-SIDED EFFORTS. You’re doing everything. Calling. Sacrificing. Apologizing. They’re doing the bare minimum. That’s not love — that’s performance. . Read more in the comments section 👇....

My Husband came to me in tears, knelt down and was begging for my forgiveness when I asked him why, he said he got someone pregnant and the lady wants him to send her abroad if not she will expose him so my husband wants me to hear from him before the girl exposes him. Good, I have forgiven him, but there is problem, me I know that my husband is Imputend, he can't imprgnate a woman, that's why I got all our three kids outside for him.. how will I tell my husband that the other lady is lying, how will I tell my husband that he is Imputend because I already have three kids for him. The three kids I got from another man outside... My husband is going to spend money on this lady thinking he is responsible for her pregnancy, how will I save my husband? If I tell him he is Imputend he will ask how I got our three kids.. I am confused 😭😭😭 I need your advice please 🙏🙏💔

This is not about Girls! Pete Edochie:🗣️ “Once a girl stops taking pictures and you don't see her online, just know she is pregnant.” Most big transformation comes after taking a step back. Davido is a perfect example. In 2022 life gave Davido one of its biggest blows ever, he went silent for months and came back with his “TIMELESS" album which earned him his first ever Grammy Award nomination after 14 years of his career. — Just like how a caterpillar goes silent before it becomes a butterfly, Sometimes, silence it’s full of growth. 💪📈 Even pregnancy is an achievement! Follow One Official TV for more.

10 séxual rules for men. 1. Do not sleep with your students, employees, staff, or anyone you have considerable power over. It will definitely not end well. 2. So not be foolish enough to indulge in one night stands. You could easily be set up or killed if you are known to indulge perpetually. 3. If you must have sex outside your relationship or marriage, make sure you pay for it and ensure there is a virtual receipt of the transaction. Just in case..... 4. Refrain from promising a woman marriage in order to sleep with her. It is a gutter behavior. Also refrain from making promises when you are naked. 90% of the time you will be unable to keep them. 5. Do not sleep with a woman who is in a lower social standing than you. I don't care how beautiful she is. Especially if you have nothing serious intended with her. Because all her hopes and dreams will be entrusted to you.... And it is a dangerous place to be. 6. Do not sleep with lady who has nothing going on for herself. (i.e; No job, No career, No skills, No ambition.... Etc.) They are most likely to trap you with a pregnancy, to ensure you continue to feed them. 7. If you find yourself using a condom, then you probably shouldn't be sleeping with that particular woman. 8. Stay away from the Ex's of your friends, brothers or family. Because, human emotions are complicated. Your friends and family may verbally give you the go ahead but deep down they may resent you for it; especially if there are still lingering feelings for the so called Ex'es. 9. In the course of your life, a lot of women will willingly offer you séx. Be highly selective. Not out of pride, but out of responsibility. Because the result of séx is pregnancy. Sleep only with women you are sure can effectively raise your kids. 10. A high body count will mess you up mentally. Many times you will find yourself out of the blue craving sěx with a séxual partner from the past. This is because of the highly chemical and spiritual nature of sèx. Keep your body count low.

MEN SLEEP WITH WOMEN FOR THE EXPERIENCE. WOMEN SLEEP WITH MEN FOR A CONNECTION. That’s Why One Leaves Smiling, The Other Leaves Crying...✍🏽 This generation is so sexually active, yet so emotionally broken. Let’s stop pretending — sex has never meant the same thing to men and women. 1. Men chase sex for variety. Women give sex for meaning. Men don’t need a reason. They just need an opportunity. They’ll sleep with you because you're tall, short, thick, slim, or just available. No emotions, no intentions, no plans. But women? They give their bodies with a reason in mind: love, trust, bonding, or belief that “this might lead somewhere.” That’s why after sex, the man rolls over and forgets your name. But you lie there, wondering what the two of you are now. 2. For men, the goal is sex. For women, sex is a door to more. A man can spend money, take you out, buy you gifts — not because he loves you, but because he sees it as “payment for access.” After he sleeps with you, he walks away feeling like the transaction is complete. You, on the other hand, start to wonder why he changed. It’s not wickedness. That’s just how most men operate — sex first, emotion nowhere. 3. Women still believe in love. But most men today are running games. A man will say anything just to get you: “You’re special.” “I’ve never met someone like you.” “You’re my peace.” “You’re wife material.” And once you fall and give him sex, the game ends. He runs. Not because you're bad — but because his lies are about to expire. A man who tells the truth and stays? He’s rare. But if he disappears after sleeping with you, it’s because he came with a plan to escape. 4. Women feel sex. Men just release it. When a woman sleeps with a man, her brain releases oxytocin, the bonding hormone. Her heart attaches. Her soul connects. Her mind starts planning a future. Meanwhile, the man is just waiting to put on his boxers and leave. No emotions. No connection. Just “mission accomplished.” 5. Women are wired to nurture. So they give too much. Give a woman love, she multiplies it. Give her a house, she makes it a home. Give her a man — even a broken one — and she’ll pour her life into fixing him. But give her heartbreak? She’ll carry that pain for years. That’s why a woman will cry over a man that didn’t even care. Because she wasn’t just having sex — she was giving her all. 6. For a woman, sex is submission. She doesn’t just say yes on the bed. She’s already said yes in her heart, in her thoughts, in her spirit. She shaved. She dressed nice. She came prepared. And when it happens, she gives you not just her body — but her trust. You didn’t seduce her. She convinced herself. And that’s why she’s shattered when you ghost her. 7. Women use sex to bond. Men use sex to sample. After sex, a woman assumes something deep just happened. She assumes you felt it too. But you? You’re already texting someone else. She thinks you shared energy. You just wanted variety. That’s why she’s hurt. Not because the sex was bad, but because she thought it meant more. 8. Women attach life to sex. Men don’t. She moans like she’s surrendering her soul because in that moment, she is. You’re killing her softly — and she’s saying, “Don’t stop,” because she’s fully invested. She’s not acting. She’s bonding. But you? You’re just performing. For you, it’s a workout. For her, it’s worship. 9. Women respect the man who gives them orgasms. You might think sperm is just liquid, but for many women, the man who makes them climax owns a piece of their memory. That’s why many marriages collapse — the woman was never emotionally tied to her husband. But the man who made her cum? She still dreams about him. And sadly, most men don’t even know how to make their own wives feel anything. 10. Women think of the consequences. Men only think of the moment. Before you even finish round one, she’s already calculating pregnancy, shame, her reputation, and what her future holds. You? You’re just looking for water to drink and maybe some jollof rice. She thought it was baby-making love. You thought it was chicken-eating fun. That’s the tragedy. AND THE SAD TRUTH: This generation now trades sex for data, iPhones, shawarma, birthday gifts, and hair. Girls sleep with men they don’t even like — just to upgrade their lifestyle. And in the process, they’ve turned their emotions into ashes. Now love is dead. Trust is rare. And true relationships are harder to find than a loyal politician. ADVICE TO THIS GENERATION: Don’t treat sex like chewing gum. Don’t give your body just because he spent small money. Don’t give your love just because she called you “handsome.” Sex is not a game. It’s power. It’s trust. It’s energy. Save it. Value it. Respect it. May the enjoyment of today not become the regret of tomorrow. #highlightseveryonefollowers2025highlightseveryonefollowers2025