The Silent Cry: The Real Dangers of Abortion

Intro: A True-Like Story That Happens Every Day

Ama was only 19, in her second year at the university. Bright. Ambitious. Full of dreams.
But life doesn’t always go as planned.

She found out she was pregnant. The father? A guy who had already moved on. Family? She feared the shame. Friends? Most encouraged her to "just take it out and move on."

So one quiet afternoon, Ama walked into a backstreet clinic—no signboard, no license, just a promise of quick results. She came out with a heavy heart, bleeding… not just physically but emotionally and spiritually.

Days later, Ama collapsed in her hostel. The infection had spread. Her womb was damaged. Her dreams of ever carrying a child again? Gone.

This is not just Ama’s story. It is the story of thousands of young women across Ghana and Africa. Some survive. Some don’t. Most carry the scars forever.

What Is Abortion?

Abortion is the deliberate termination of a pregnancy before the baby can survive outside the womb.
While some abortions are carried out under strict medical guidance due to life-threatening complications, unsafe abortions—especially those done secretly, by untrained persons, or in unsanitary places—pose deadly risks.

Dangers of Abortion (Especially Unsafe or Repeated)

1. Physical Health Risks

Severe bleeding (hemorrhage): Can lead to death if untreated.

Infections: Unsanitary tools or poor hygiene can introduce bacteria that damage reproductive organs or cause sepsis (blood poisoning).

Womb perforation: Instruments can tear the uterus, leading to long-term complications or emergency surgery.

Infertility: Damage to the womb or fallopian tubes can result in permanent infertility.

Organ damage: Unsafe procedures can harm nearby organs like the bladder or intestines.

2. Mental and Emotional Trauma

Depression, guilt, and regret are common.

Post-Abortion Syndrome: A condition similar to PTSD, marked by anxiety, nightmares, emotional numbness, and self-blame.

3. Social and Spiritual Consequences

Emotional distance from partners or family.

Isolation due to fear or stigma.

Spiritual guilt or disconnection for those with strong religious values.

Common Myths That Push Women Toward Abortion

“It’s just a small problem, take it out.”
→ No. Pregnancy involves two lives: the mother and the child.

“Abortion is safer than giving birth.”
→ Only when done legally and under medical care. Unsafe abortions kill more women than childbirth in many places.

“You can’t get pregnant again after just one abortion.”
→ Many women have faced infertility after a single poorly done abortion.

What Should You Do Instead?

Talk to a health professional: Seek counseling and support services.

Look into adoption: Many families are looking to adopt children.

Educate yourself: Know your body, understand protection, and make informed decisions.

Join support groups: You're not alone. There are safe spaces to help you make the best decision.

The Way Forward for Ghana and Africa

We need more education—not judgment.
We need safe spaces, not silence.
We need men to take responsibility, not escape it.
We need communities to empower, not shame.
Let’s protect our women, our daughters, and our sisters from the trap of unsafe abortions.

Diabetes is a metabolic disease in which the blood glucose level is excessively high beyond the normal range.
Types of diabetedss:
1. Adult on-set diabetes
2. Juvenile diabetes
Pregnancy-induced diabetes.
Risk Factors::
1. Late dinner
2. Obesity/ overweight
3. Poor diet
4.Excessive alcohol
5. Overeating
6. Going to bed soon after eating
7. Excessive fried foods
Symptoms of diabetes:
1. Frequent urination
2. Excessive thirst
3. Difficult wound healing
4. Frequent vaginal infection
5. Numbness in lower extremities
6. Weak erection
7. Blurred vision
Treatment: Consult your Doctor
Check your blood sugar level today to avoid the health problems associated with diabetes.
You can either srceen for fasting or random blood sugar levels.

_*THE BEST WAY TO BE A FATHER:*_



1. BE THERE
The biggest failure as a man is having a child and rejecting that child, abdicating your responsibility as a father, being quick to have sex and quicker to run away when pregnancy comes. Too many children are hurting because of a father who is alive but has disowned them, it makes the child grow feeling unwanted and unloved, it dents the child's self esteem and some become adults with a constant feeling of rejection. If you have a child, be there; no matter how bad things are between you and the mother of the child- be there; you owe it to your young one.

2. TELL YOUR DAUGHTER SHE IS BEAUTIFUL
The first man to compliment a girl should be her father, the first man to take note of her beauty should be her dad. A girl should grow up convinced she is beautiful and feeling like a king's princess that even when boys and men try to woo her saying she's beautiful she responds "I know, dad has been telling me that for years". Too many girls fall for preying men because they are desperately looking for affection, they have daddy issues and had no encounter with a male figure who genuinely loved them before the preying men noticed their ***** and hips; so they fall prey to men who use compliments and give attention as a carrot to lure to a trap that leads to hurt.

3. MODEL MANHOOD TO THE SONS
A boy comes into the world as a naive student who will absorb what the male figures around him teach. He can be taught the right way to be a man or be misled. He learns how to treat females whether good or bad from the men around him. He should learn proper manhood from the father. The father should model how best to treat and respect females, how to love as a man, how to work, how to provide, how to be a man of integrity. This learning should be in the form of loving mentorship, too many men grow up with an absent father, too many grow up with a father who puts too much pressure on the poor boy inorder to win daddy's approval that they grow up frustrated and angry at the world because their transition from boy to man was cruel and made to be a test to win a nod than a smooth mentorship process. Too many boys are left to find their way and in so doing will make many mistakes and end up half-grown boys in men's bodies.

4. EAT WITH YOUR FAMILY
Food brings people together, one of the greatest show of security to a child is when the dad makes time to share meals.

5. BE THE SPIRITUAL LEADER
The father should be the High Priest. He should lead the child/ children towards living a Godly life, he should be seen praying, reading God's word, living out a Godly life, loving. The child should be given a Godly foundation that will shape a stable future and the father should be seen submitting to the God who gave the child life and who makes parenthood possible.

6. LISTEN
A child with a father who loves to listen grows in confidence. When a child feels he/she can tell daddy anything, no battle will intimidate the child. Sometimes you don't have to say much, just sit back and pay attention. The first need of love is to be listened to, to be treated like how you feel and what you have to say is important.

7. GIVE ADVICE
A father should be there to offer counsel whether solicited or not. Children cry for direction. As a father, be involved in the process of the seeking of answers. Be open about your mistakes (no lying you used to get straight A's in school), your childhood, your lessons and your expectations of the child. Give advice not as a dictator whose word is final lest you isolate yourself from the child because the child can do what you ask yet fear and despise you; but help the child understand why you are insisting on your way, help the child understand your reasons, train your child to think through solutions; this way, he/ she will grow up with the self-sufficient capacity of making sound and wise decisions.

8. BE PRESENT
The father's presence should be felt, too many fathers have left parenting to the wife. The best test of love is the giving of time, do not fail this test.

9. REFRAIN FROM THROWING MONEY AT THE PROBLEM
No matter how rich you are, fatherhood is not done by throwing money at issues. When your child complains of your absence, when problems arise, when dealing with your child becomes a handful and you feel you have no time; don't use money to silence or appease the child. Fatherhood is a hands on approach, it will not be easy but its fruits are sweet. Don't escape through your ATM. Material things can contain a child for a while, but soon the child will look around and see empty things but no love from dad.

10. SHOW UP
Make daddy appearances; show up at your child's sports day, birthday, parent's day, graduation or any other special day. Make random visits to what your child cares alot about even if for a few minutes. Meet your child's friends briefly, let your child feel daddy's loving eyes are watching over me. An employee feels special when the boss makes a random visit to smile at the employee's work, a citizen feels special when The President makes a surprise visit to greet the citizen, a child feels special when daddy makes a loving phonecall or shows up to demonstrate he cares.

11. BE A SUPER HERO
Be strength to your child, the rock that is a shelter, the refuge and defender to your child. The attributes of God the Heavenly Father, model them as an earthly father.

12. CAST A VISION
With your wife, cast a vision for your family. Define what you expect from your child because children love living up to a target. Make the vision and values that should govern your family plain and simple for the child to live by. Your role is to show leadership.

13. STAY FOCUSED
Casting a vision is not enough, you must not abandon ship. The man is the one who proposes to a woman for marriage, he initiates the formation of a family, but too many men let down the family they themselves initiated. They start having affairs, wasting time and money on women and being distracted by meaningless pursuits as their children suffer. Don't let go of the steering wheel, drive your family car its full course.

14. BE A SUCCESS STORY,
SUCCEED AS A MAN successed as a professional, succeed in life, shine in society. Children love to brag about their dad, be the best man in your child/ children's eyes, the one to grow up to be like. Let it be an honor to carry your name as a surname.

15. LOVE THE MOTHER
Your wife acquires a new position when you have children, she is not just your wife but the mother of your children. Your child/ children love both of you the same and the desire of a child is to see mum and dad in love working as a team. A child should grow up with the demonstration of how true love looks like from mum and dad.

*CATHOLIC MEDITATION: 24 June, 2025.*




*TUESDAY*

ORDINARY TIME, YEAR C - 12TH WEEK ORDINARY TIME

⬜️ *THE NATIVITY OF ST. JOHN THE BAPTIST* ⬜️

*1st R* : Is. 49:1-6.
*Resp. Psalm* : Ps. 139.
*R/ - l thank you who wonderfully made me.*
*2nd R* : Acts. 13:22-26.
*Gosp.* : Lk. 1:57-66, 80.

*Message* :*NO CHILD IS A MISTAKE. EVERY CHILD BORN WAS PLANNED BY GOD AND HAS A MISSION ON EARTH.* _God plans for every child. Even before we were formed in the womb, he knew us. There is no "badluck pikin" or "unwanted pregnancy." God's gift can never be illegitimate. Do not waste the lives of children in abortions. Take care of your children so that they can achieve the purpose for which God made them. John the Baptist was born with a purpose and for a mission. Also, give your children meaningful names. For names follow children._

YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/Y7IbsbVU1O8
*Fr. Blessed Ambang Njume*

As a woman, you have been having unprotected sexx for long and preggy is not forth coming, this shows that something might be wrong

No smoke without fire...

There are some important fertility Tests you should do to check what is really wrong

1) BLOOD PROFILE ANALYSIS:
This includes hormonal profile tests Samples of your blood can be tested for a hormone called progesterone to check whether you're ovulating and If you have irregular periods, blood test can also be used to check if your ovaries produce eggs!

2: CHLAMYDIA:✓

This is an STI(infection) that affects mostly reproductive system in the body. It can manifest in various ways such as PID, urethritis and other infections.

This test can be done through swap or urine.

3) HSG:

An ultrasound or HSG scan can be used to check your ovaries, womb (uterus) and fallopian tubes.

Things that can affects your womb are

Endometriosis, fibroids, cyst, can prevent pregnancy.

If the fallopian tubes that connect the ovaries and the womb is blocked, this may stop your eggs from travelling along the tubes and into the womb to form fertilization...

4:AMH;

For the men ?

Go for Se*men Profile analysis Test to check whether your sperm morphology, vitality and concentration is okay.

2;scrotal scan;

3;Hormonal Assay:

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VOICE OF FAITH DAILY DEVOTIONAL

MONDAY 23RD JUNE 2025

FATHER I REFUSE SHAME/DISGRACE

Text : Jeremiah 3:24 KJV

For shame hath devoured the labour of our fathers from our youth; their flocks and their herds, their sons and their daughters.”

MESSAGE
One prayer I usually pray for myself is God don't allow me to see shame or disgrace.

Disgrace is made up of two words: ‘dis’ and ‘gracia’. ‘Dis’ means out of and ‘gracia’ means grace. So, the word disgrace means out of grace. Or rightly put in our modern English, it means loss of honor, loss of respect, loss of good name.

It can also mean to bring shame upon a person. The word shame in the Bible has so many aspects to it. Shame can come as an offence or as a consequence of sin to someone who has done something wrong and has been discovered.

Shame can come as a result of pride or when the reputation of a person has been injured. So, the result of being disgraced is shame. Shame also can come from God. In order to reprove sin, God can allow shame to come upon a person.

Say Lord, please don't allow me and my family to see shame in the name of Jesus.

SOURCES OF SHAME

The Bible makes us to understand that shame can come from God, it can come from satan, and can also come from man.

I Know a pastor who saw shame when a member gave the church he was privileged to be pastoring at that time one million naira for church project, but he diverted the said money for his personal use by acquiring a fairly used camry car.

But, just after a year he bought the car, the whole truth surfaced and he was sacked unceremoniously. I will like you to say again, “I reject every spirit of shame/ disgrace the enemies have assigned against me in the name of Jesus.”

Seeing yourself half dressed or completely naked regularly in the dream should not be treated with kids gloves.

Jeremiah 3: 24 says, “For shame hath devoured the labour of our fathers from our youth; their flocks and their herds, their sons and their daughters.” So, shame can devour the labour of a person.

There was this popular actress many years ago who was forced to leave the shores of Nigeria when her nude pictures was published in a popular newspaper in Nigeria.

This powerful emotion called shame is a great weapon in the hand of the enemy and he likes to use it on people and places. The terrible thing about it is that it hits people from the inside and destroys them internally. It could eat away the strength of the confidence of a person.

It can disable and amputate a person completely and make him ineffective in the service of the Lord. To be mighty in faith and in the Holy Spirit, you must confront the spirit of shame and defeat it.

There was this popular brother I know that had his wedding cancelled just 2 days before the wedding. He slept with his would be bride, and the bride got pregnant in the process.

In a bid to cover their shame; they aborted the pregnancy. So they felt everything has been covered. When the church hospital carried out their own pregnancy test, it was positive.

This brother denied of ever having any canal knowledge of the said sister. After, several tests the sister blood samples were still reading positive. Being a lawyer he threatened to sue the church for defamation of character.

But, the whole truth came out eventually sutfaced after much pressure on the sister. She then confessed to my then senior pastor that indeed the brother ate the forbidden fruit and got her pregnant.

They carried out an evacuation to cover up their tracks, but still the sisters blood sample still returned positive.

KINDS OF SHAME

1 Guilty shame: This happens when a person violates the law of decency and he is embarrassed.

2 Social shame: This kind of shame occurs when a person is embarrassed because he or she made a social blunder.

3 Innocent shame: This happens when a person is accused of an offence he is not guilty of. When somebody’s character is damaged without justifications

4 Public shame: This is embarrassment because of physical or social blunder.

5 Shame of discrimination: When a person feels mentally, socially or ethnically inferior to other persons.

6 Shame of inadequacy: That is when somebody feels inadequate.

7 Shame as a result of the gospel eg persecution.

The shame that comes from God can be handled with God. When we repents the Lord will forgive us and will remove the shame from us

But the shame that the enemy plans must be confronted and dealt with.

HOW TO BE A PERSON OF HONOR

& BE WISE; proverbs 3: 35 says, “The wise shall inherit glory but shame shall be the promotion of fools.” So foolish living and actions that are not. There are certain information that shouldn't be on your phone

& BE DILIGENT: Proverbs 10: 5 says, “He that gathereth in summer is a wise son: but he that sleepeth in a harvest is a son that causeth shame.”

Sleeping during the time of physical or spiritual harvest will bring disgrace. When others are struggling, and you just sit down and take no action, it means you are inviting disgrace upon your life.

& BE HUMBLE: Proverbs 11: 2 says, “When pride cometh, then cometh shame: but with the lonely is wisdom.”

The Bible says that pride brings shame. Proverbs 16: 18 says, “Pride goeth before destruction and a haughty spirit before a fall.”

& TRAIN UP YOUR CHILDREN: Proverbs 29: 15 says, “The rod and reproof give wisdom but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.” So, parents who allow their children to do what they like are preparing for shame.

When raising your children learn to call a spade a spade and not a farm tool.

A child you pamper today will tamper with your tomorrow.

&KEEP HIS COMMANDMENTS:. Genesis 3: 9 – 10: “And the Lord God called unto Adam and said unto him, Where art thou? And he said I heard thy voice in the garden and I was afraid because I was naked and I hid myself.”

Shame and nakedness could come from sin. Avoid actions that would amputate your good name and rubbish your character.

May shame and disgrace be far from us in Jesus name.

PRAYER POINT

Father, in the name of Jesus, please don't allow me to see shame in life or ministry

Victor Udomoh is the Lead Pastor, Ark of Royals Worship Center AKa Engraced Saints Assembly.

*INFERTILITY*
Infertility is a medical condition where a couple or individual is unable to conceive after having regular, unprotected sex for a certain period, typically a year or more.

*Causes of infertility in male*
Here are the causes.
Medical Conditions
1. *Low sperm count (oligospermia)*: Reduced sperm production.

2. *Poor sperm motility (asthenospermia)*: Sperm have difficulty moving.

3. *Abnormal sperm morphology*: Sperm have abnormal shape or structure.

4. *Varicocele*: Enlarged veins in the scrotum.

5. *Infections*: Epididymitis, orchitis, or prostatitis.

Lifestyle Factors
1. *Smoking*: Damages sperm DNA and reduces sperm quality.

2. *Excessive alcohol consumption*: Affects hormone production and sperm quality.

3. *Obesity*: Linked to reduced sperm count and motility.

4. *Stress*: Chronic stress can affect hormone production.

5. *Exposure to toxins*: Certain chemicals, pesticides, or heavy metals.

Hormonal Imbalances
1. *Testosterone deficiency*: Low testosterone levels.

2. *Thyroid disorders*: Hypothyroidism or hyperthyroidism.

Anatomical Issues
1. *Blockages*: Blockages in the epididymis, vas deferens, or ejaculatory ducts.

2. *Injury or trauma*: Damage to the reproductive organs.

Other Factors
1. *Genetic factors*: Certain genetic conditions.

2. *Medications*: Certain medications can affect sperm production or quality.

3. *Age*: Advanced age can affect sperm quality.

*#What Causes Infertility in female ?*

1. **Hormonal Imbalance**: If your hormones are not functioning properly, it can lead to difficulties in conceiving. Irregular periods, mood swings, and low libido can all be signs of hormonal issues.

2. **Ovarian Cysts**: These are fluid-filled sacs on the ovaries that can interfere with ovulation, making it harder to conceive.

3. **Fibroids**: These are non-cancerous growths in the uterus that can grow large enough to mimic pregnancy symptoms and affect fertility.

4. **Infections**: Conditions like Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID) can cause pain and lead to infertility, especially if you've previously had sexually transmitted infections.

5. **Uterine Issues**: Conditions such as a retroverted uterus or a prolapsed uterus can affect your ability to carry a pregnancy.

6. **Toxins**: Exposure to harmful substances in the reproductive system can also impact fertilities.

3. *Unexplained infertility*: No identifiable cause.


Treatment Options
1. *Medications*: Fertility medications to stimulate ovulation or improve sperm quality.

2. *Intrauterine insemination (IUI)*: Placing sperm directly into the uterus.

3. *In vitro fertilization (IVF)*: Fertilizing eggs with sperm outside the body and transferring the embryo to the uterus.

4. *Surgery*: Correcting underlying anatomical issues.

Emotional Support
1. *Counseling*: Emotional support and guidance throughout the treatment process.

2. *Support groups*: Connecting with others experiencing similar challenges.

Lifestyle Changes
1. *Healthy diet*: Maintaining a balanced diet and healthy weight.

2. *Stress management*: Reducing stress through relaxation techniques.

3. *Avoiding toxins*: Minimizing exposure to environmental toxins.

The medical procedure before treatment,,
Advice both of them to do necessary medical check up.


For men.(Husband)
Before semen analysis test
He must follow this important information below
stay away from sex for at least for 4 days

No any antibiotics

No alcohol
Before the test
Semen analysis and culture...

For women
Abdominal pelvic scan
Hvs
Hormonal profiles


1. *Fertility treatment herbal*:

Women treatment
Before treatment of infertility in female.

Deworm come first it's very important
Secondly treat infection with this herbs
Baka
Bara small
Eru awoka
Eru Alamo.
Cook it with ordinary water and drink it before menstruation.
Or
Buy nri products
D3 orignic
Cuminus oil
Nourish
Naturegifts

*INFERTILITY*
Infertility is a medical condition where a couple or individual is unable to conceive after having regular, unprotected sex for a certain period, typically a year or more.

*Causes of infertility in male*
Here are the causes.
Medical Conditions
1. *Low sperm count (oligospermia)*: Reduced sperm production.

2. *Poor sperm motility (asthenospermia)*: Sperm have difficulty moving.

3. *Abnormal sperm morphology*: Sperm have abnormal shape or structure.

4. *Varicocele*: Enlarged veins in the scrotum.

5. *Infections*: Epididymitis, orchitis, or prostatitis.

Lifestyle Factors
1. *Smoking*: Damages sperm DNA and reduces sperm quality.

2. *Excessive alcohol consumption*: Affects hormone production and sperm quality.

3. *Obesity*: Linked to reduced sperm count and motility.

4. *Stress*: Chronic stress can affect hormone production.

5. *Exposure to toxins*: Certain chemicals, pesticides, or heavy metals.

Hormonal Imbalances
1. *Testosterone deficiency*: Low testosterone levels.

2. *Thyroid disorders*: Hypothyroidism or hyperthyroidism.

Anatomical Issues
1. *Blockages*: Blockages in the epididymis, vas deferens, or ejaculatory ducts.

2. *Injury or trauma*: Damage to the reproductive organs.

Other Factors
1. *Genetic factors*: Certain genetic conditions.

2. *Medications*: Certain medications can affect sperm production or quality.

3. *Age*: Advanced age can affect sperm quality.

*#What Causes Infertility in female ?*

1. **Hormonal Imbalance**: If your hormones are not functioning properly, it can lead to difficulties in conceiving. Irregular periods, mood swings, and low libido can all be signs of hormonal issues.

2. **Ovarian Cysts**: These are fluid-filled sacs on the ovaries that can interfere with ovulation, making it harder to conceive.

3. **Fibroids**: These are non-cancerous growths in the uterus that can grow large enough to mimic pregnancy symptoms and affect fertility.

4. **Infections**: Conditions like Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID) can cause pain and lead to infertility, especially if you've previously had sexually transmitted infections.

5. **Uterine Issues**: Conditions such as a retroverted uterus or a prolapsed uterus can affect your ability to carry a pregnancy.

6. **Toxins**: Exposure to harmful substances in the reproductive system can also impact fertilities.

3. *Unexplained infertility*: No identifiable cause.


Treatment Options
1. *Medications*: Fertility medications to stimulate ovulation or improve sperm quality.

2. *Intrauterine insemination (IUI)*: Placing sperm directly into the uterus.

3. *In vitro fertilization (IVF)*: Fertilizing eggs with sperm outside the body and transferring the embryo to the uterus.

4. *Surgery*: Correcting underlying anatomical issues.

Emotional Support
1. *Counseling*: Emotional support and guidance throughout the treatment process.

2. *Support groups*: Connecting with others experiencing similar challenges.

Lifestyle Changes
1. *Healthy diet*: Maintaining a balanced diet and healthy weight.

2. *Stress management*: Reducing stress through relaxation techniques.

3. *Avoiding toxins*: Minimizing exposure to environmental toxins.

The medical procedure before treatment,,
Advice both of them to do necessary medical check up.


For men.(Husband)
Before semen analysis test
He must follow this important information below
stay away from sex for at least for 4 days

No any antibiotics

No alcohol
Before the test
Semen analysis and culture...

For women
Abdominal pelvic scan
Hvs
Hormonal profiles


1. *Fertility treatment herbal*:

Women treatment
Before treatment of infertility in female.

Deworm come first it's very important
Secondly treat infection with this herbs
Baka
Bara small
Eru awoka
Eru Alamo.
Cook it with ordinary water and drink it before menstruation.
Or
Buy nri products
D3 orignic
Cuminus oil
Nourish
Naturegifts

"Marry this girl at your own risk, she's a single mom of two. My fellow brothers, if you want peace of mind in a relationship, Pls!! steer clear of any single mom as a whole.

Speaking from the terrible experience I've had with this lady, I've been there & I'm advising you as a brother that cares..

I met this girl 2022; a single mom of twins, 2 daughters age 3, from a previous relationship which she told me was a toxic one. Well, I actually didn't mind as long as the children where not around, then those kids were living with their grandmother back in the village while she worked in town as a nurse.

We dated for 8 months then & she got pregnant for me though we didn't plan for it to happen.. Unfortunately, her mother passed when she was 7 months pregnant with my child & her kids relocated to town.

This was the most annoying moments of my life bcuz, I've never wanted to hv anything to do with her kids. I tried to act like it was ok but i couldn't keep up.

I had already made it clear to her i didn't want her kids around when she once brought up the idea the time she was 2 months pregnant when she told me she was thinking of going to the village to take her children. But i refused & gave a clear warning, stating that; i do not want to have anything at all to do with another man's children.

So when the kids relocated back from the village to the city after their grandma's funeral. I advised her to take the kids back to their father, who is alive & healthy, but she refused. Her excuse being that he had rejected her pregnancy & she couldn't let her daughters stay with him & his new wife. I didn't push the issue, i let it slight since i believed it was baby hormones disturbing her from reasoning well since she was pregnant

However, a year after she gave birth, I felt disrespected as she continued to insist on keeping the children despite my warnings and insistence that she take those kids to their father coz i want nothing to do with another man's babies. Infact, After numerous arguments, I ended the relationship, coz never can it be me, being a father to another man's children when i can have mine.

To cut the long story Short, i got married last year. YES I GOT MARRIED TO AN OBEDIENT AND RESPECTFUL WIFE THAT LISTEN & DOES EXACTLY AS I TELL HER.

I don't have kids yet with my wife but, I'm asking to take my child from this lady but she wouldn't hand my daughter over to me cuz her plans is to be using me to feed her other 2 children, She wants to be using me to support her other 2 kids which are not in anyway related to me.

It's honestly annoying & frustrating to be sending money & buy things for my daughter, knowing she'll share them with her other kids.

I just regret the day I met her. My mind was deceived into thinking I was in love. Since then, I've had no peace of mind. I can't be financing my child's build from my sweat and also involving another mans kids that aren't mine its not done. If she wants to feed her children with my sweat it's not going to work for her. Never!

Quinta, if you think you can use me to feed your children, think again. And trust me, I won't stop xpozìn you until you hand over my daughter. I won't be taken advantage of, it can never be me, You better think of another way to feed & support your children bcoz I'm Smarter than you think, if you think you can use me think again!

Pls help me xpœz this girl'
.

- Rêêpoztêd

Later guys I wan follow my ex go deny pregnancy