• Good evening N.D,
    Pls post it for me. I am so lonely, it’s been four years and counting since my husband and I separated, we don’t see ourselves anymore, except it is anything that has to do with the kids. He comes around, plays with them and leaves money for them. He takes good care of them and through that, I also get some profit but he won’t touch me nor even discuss anything tangible with me and then he leaves. It’s been four years and counting since a man touched me, I won’t lie. I haven’t been intimate for the past for years. Not even a pin has entered me. I’ve been struggling. I sometimes have to apply robb there so the heat would sooth me to sleep.
    I am not an old woman. I’m just 41. I feel so lonely sometimes, I need a man but I want my husband to divorce me first but he won’t. He won’t divorce me. He has left me in a confused state. I don’t know whether he would want us back ever again or that’s just it.
    Anytime I call his family for us to solve this issue, he would find reasons to postpone it. I’m just here taking care of his children while he does what he wants. It’s a taboo that we would cheat on the men we are married to so I don’t want to do it.
    I’ve asked him several times to grant me divorce so I can move on but he won’t. We didn’t get here because I wanted us to, we got here because of his infidelity. He slept with my sister (my uncles daughter) and got her pregnant. I found out within the same period that he had impregnated another woman outside. When I confronted him, he said he was polygamous.
    So I left out of anger, with the hope of divorcing him. It’s been over four years and I’ve not had the divorce. I’m just alone and struggling to be happy. What do I do? Should I just move on and never give him a chance?
    Good evening N.D, Pls post it for me. I am so lonely, it’s been four years and counting since my husband and I separated, we don’t see ourselves anymore, except it is anything that has to do with the kids. He comes around, plays with them and leaves money for them. He takes good care of them and through that, I also get some profit but he won’t touch me nor even discuss anything tangible with me and then he leaves. It’s been four years and counting since a man touched me, I won’t lie. I haven’t been intimate for the past for years. Not even a pin has entered me. I’ve been struggling. I sometimes have to apply robb there so the heat would sooth me to sleep. I am not an old woman. I’m just 41. I feel so lonely sometimes, I need a man but I want my husband to divorce me first but he won’t. He won’t divorce me. He has left me in a confused state. I don’t know whether he would want us back ever again or that’s just it. Anytime I call his family for us to solve this issue, he would find reasons to postpone it. I’m just here taking care of his children while he does what he wants. It’s a taboo that we would cheat on the men we are married to so I don’t want to do it. I’ve asked him several times to grant me divorce so I can move on but he won’t. We didn’t get here because I wanted us to, we got here because of his infidelity. He slept with my sister (my uncles daughter) and got her pregnant. I found out within the same period that he had impregnated another woman outside. When I confronted him, he said he was polygamous. So I left out of anger, with the hope of divorcing him. It’s been over four years and I’ve not had the divorce. I’m just alone and struggling to be happy. What do I do? Should I just move on and never give him a chance?
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  • I marry early, just 20 years old.
    My husband na 24 that time.

    We love ourself well-well.

    E no even reach one month for our marriage, I don carry belle.

    We happy as young couple wey dey expect their first pikin. We prepare everything down for the baby.

    But na for delivery room my joy begin turn to pain.

    I labour for almost 3 days.
    When I finally born, na baby boy, but the baby come weak.

    Two hours later, my pikin d!e.
    I cry tire.
    My husband too cry.

    But we encourage ourself say, "We go try again."

    Six months later, I carry belle again.
    After 9 months — another stillbirth.

    Third belle, the same thing happen.

    Na so my family say, “This marriage no be for you. Come out, go complete your university.”

    But I refuse. I love my husband. I believe say better go still happen.

    Some people say na spiritual matter.
    We begin waka from church to prophet, prayer upon prayer.

    Prophet assure us say “This time, e go work.” I carry belle again, the fourth one.

    I born the baby, the baby even cry small, but by evening the baby d!e.

    Doctor call am “sudden infant death.” No explanation. Just fear.

    Na that period doctor advise say make we give gap before we try again.

    I tell my husband make we try adopt for now.
    Him agree.

    I call my cousin wey say she dey work for one motherless home. We give her over 1.6 million. Na so she dupe us carry money vanish.

    My husband vex.
    Say him no even believe for adoption before, na just to please me. Him say make I no ask am money again.

    I begin follow the matter spiritually again.
    Different prophecies, no solution.

    One day, my friend tell me about one doctor for East wey young girls dey born give away babies for money.

    Baby Boy na 1.5 million, girl na 1 million.
    She say e legit.

    I tell my husband, he say, "I no dey interestedand i no get any money to bring out."

    I go borrow money.
    I give my friend 600k as first payment.

    One week later, na online I see video of my friend—dem dey beat her say she thief her neighbor pikin wan carry come give me.

    I shock.
    My heart cut.

    I run go show my husband. He say, "Better no involve me for this matter"

    Next day, police land arrest me.

    My husband say, “Follow them go. I go get lawyer.”

    I call my family, dem say, “As you no hear word when we try rescue you, make Love bail you out now.”

    Just like play, I land prison.
    No lawyer.
    No family.

    My husband visit me only 3 times. After that, silence.

    My friend wey thief the baby, her people raise money bail her.

    She promise to help me too. Nothing happen.

    I stay 5 years for prison for matter I no understand finish.

    Just because say I want born, just because say I no get patience, just because say I trust wrong people.

    Different NGO dey come prison.
    Dem go give us food, tissue, pad — and hope.

    Many promise to help me after I share my story. But nothing come out.

    Until one day, one woman wey be women advocate listen to me.

    She promise to help. I no believe, but she really help me comot from jail.

    When I reach house, my husband don move.
    Don remarry with three children already.

    When I go see am, him say make I find peace. Say our fate no match.

    That day, I wan just disappear. I tell the woman wey help me. She say, “Come stay with me.”

    She encourage me. Enrol me back for catering school make I refresh my baking skills.
    From there I start my small baking business.

    But inside me, I still dey cry.
    I no even fit look mirror.
    I don lose shape, lose beauty, lose hope.

    One day, I go deliver wedding cake.

    As i reach the venue the people bounce me — say I no fit enter because I look “dirty.” That day, I cry reach house.

    I tell myself, “I go change this story.”

    I download Pinterest app, dey learn how to dress my body type.

    I watch make-up beginners videos.
    I start to buy small affordable good clothes.

    I begin dey apply simple makeup.
    I switch to skin care wey dey moisturize my skin.

    I begin see my beauty again.

    Customers begin notice.
    Begin compliment me.

    I start dey take pictures. I start dey smile.

    My self-confidence begin return.

    One day, I go deliver cake again.
    I dress well.

    The bride say I fine. Na there one man collect my number, say na for business.

    But na love him come find.

    Him fine, young, tall — and kind.
    I open up tell am everything.

    He say, “Your past no be your name.
    Let’s build something new.”

    Today, I don marry again.
    I don born two boys through CS operation.

    Dem survive.
    My first son na 4 years, second one 2 years.

    My husband say no need to born again — these ones complete us. And truly, I no need anything else again.

    I don finally become mama.

    Today I dey grateful say After all my tough challenges God still change my story.

    ---

    To every woman wey don carry belle with joy but return house empty-handed — this message na for you.

    The pain of stillbirth no be small thing.

    Na one deep wound wey only God fit understand.

    Sometimes you go dey ask, “Why me?” Sometimes the silence go loud, the tears go come uninvited.

    But make you hear this one: you never fail.
    Your womb no betray you.

    Your heart still be the heart of a mother.

    And even if the world no see your kind of pain, God see am, and He go still comfort you in ways wey go shock you.

    To the women wey don lose their self-esteem because dem no get money take take care of their body, or childbirth don change the way dem look —

    My sister, remember say your beauty no end for body.

    Start small, love yourself again, dress well, start with your budget, manage your weight if necessary.

    Self love dey build back self esteem

    You go rise again and glow in your own time.

    To the women wey their husband don abandon them —

    No carry your life hang for one person wey walk away.

    God never walk away from you.

    Stand up, dust your pain, start again.
    Look good, take care of yourself.
    You still fit laugh again, love again, and shine again.

    To Every Woman and Family wey dey fight silent battles —

    May God surprise you with joy wey go wipe all your secret tears.
    Amen.

    @highlight
    I marry early, just 20 years old. My husband na 24 that time. We love ourself well-well. E no even reach one month for our marriage, I don carry belle. We happy as young couple wey dey expect their first pikin. We prepare everything down for the baby. But na for delivery room my joy begin turn to pain. I labour for almost 3 days. When I finally born, na baby boy, but the baby come weak. Two hours later, my pikin d!e. I cry tire. My husband too cry. But we encourage ourself say, "We go try again." Six months later, I carry belle again. After 9 months — another stillbirth. Third belle, the same thing happen. Na so my family say, “This marriage no be for you. Come out, go complete your university.” But I refuse. I love my husband. I believe say better go still happen. Some people say na spiritual matter. We begin waka from church to prophet, prayer upon prayer. Prophet assure us say “This time, e go work.” I carry belle again, the fourth one. I born the baby, the baby even cry small, but by evening the baby d!e. Doctor call am “sudden infant death.” No explanation. Just fear. Na that period doctor advise say make we give gap before we try again. I tell my husband make we try adopt for now. Him agree. I call my cousin wey say she dey work for one motherless home. We give her over 1.6 million. Na so she dupe us carry money vanish. My husband vex. Say him no even believe for adoption before, na just to please me. Him say make I no ask am money again. I begin follow the matter spiritually again. Different prophecies, no solution. One day, my friend tell me about one doctor for East wey young girls dey born give away babies for money. Baby Boy na 1.5 million, girl na 1 million. She say e legit. I tell my husband, he say, "I no dey interestedand i no get any money to bring out." I go borrow money. I give my friend 600k as first payment. One week later, na online I see video of my friend—dem dey beat her say she thief her neighbor pikin wan carry come give me. I shock. My heart cut. I run go show my husband. He say, "Better no involve me for this matter" Next day, police land arrest me. My husband say, “Follow them go. I go get lawyer.” I call my family, dem say, “As you no hear word when we try rescue you, make Love bail you out now.” Just like play, I land prison. No lawyer. No family. My husband visit me only 3 times. After that, silence. My friend wey thief the baby, her people raise money bail her. She promise to help me too. Nothing happen. I stay 5 years for prison for matter I no understand finish. Just because say I want born, just because say I no get patience, just because say I trust wrong people. Different NGO dey come prison. Dem go give us food, tissue, pad — and hope. Many promise to help me after I share my story. But nothing come out. Until one day, one woman wey be women advocate listen to me. She promise to help. I no believe, but she really help me comot from jail. When I reach house, my husband don move. Don remarry with three children already. When I go see am, him say make I find peace. Say our fate no match. That day, I wan just disappear. I tell the woman wey help me. She say, “Come stay with me.” She encourage me. Enrol me back for catering school make I refresh my baking skills. From there I start my small baking business. But inside me, I still dey cry. I no even fit look mirror. I don lose shape, lose beauty, lose hope. One day, I go deliver wedding cake. As i reach the venue the people bounce me — say I no fit enter because I look “dirty.” That day, I cry reach house. I tell myself, “I go change this story.” I download Pinterest app, dey learn how to dress my body type. I watch make-up beginners videos. I start to buy small affordable good clothes. I begin dey apply simple makeup. I switch to skin care wey dey moisturize my skin. I begin see my beauty again. Customers begin notice. Begin compliment me. I start dey take pictures. I start dey smile. My self-confidence begin return. One day, I go deliver cake again. I dress well. The bride say I fine. Na there one man collect my number, say na for business. But na love him come find. Him fine, young, tall — and kind. I open up tell am everything. He say, “Your past no be your name. Let’s build something new.” Today, I don marry again. I don born two boys through CS operation. Dem survive. My first son na 4 years, second one 2 years. My husband say no need to born again — these ones complete us. And truly, I no need anything else again. I don finally become mama. Today I dey grateful say After all my tough challenges God still change my story. --- To every woman wey don carry belle with joy but return house empty-handed — this message na for you. The pain of stillbirth no be small thing. Na one deep wound wey only God fit understand. Sometimes you go dey ask, “Why me?” Sometimes the silence go loud, the tears go come uninvited. But make you hear this one: you never fail. Your womb no betray you. Your heart still be the heart of a mother. And even if the world no see your kind of pain, God see am, and He go still comfort you in ways wey go shock you. To the women wey don lose their self-esteem because dem no get money take take care of their body, or childbirth don change the way dem look — My sister, remember say your beauty no end for body. Start small, love yourself again, dress well, start with your budget, manage your weight if necessary. Self love dey build back self esteem You go rise again and glow in your own time. To the women wey their husband don abandon them — No carry your life hang for one person wey walk away. God never walk away from you. Stand up, dust your pain, start again. Look good, take care of yourself. You still fit laugh again, love again, and shine again. To Every Woman and Family wey dey fight silent battles — May God surprise you with joy wey go wipe all your secret tears. Amen. @highlight
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  • A COMPOSITE OF AWARENESS, CONCENTRATION AND WILLPOWER

    Just as a palette of colours is to an artist, a vast array of words and their syntax is to a writer. By blending and combining words, a writer weaves a rich tapestry of meaning. Meaning is the ultimate goal of writing, even though the process of sending and receiving messages can be complex. It is fascinating that all of humanity shares in language, even though the dialect spoken may differ. For example, the word used to stand in for a dog may be different in another language, but that word can often be translated so that we understand they refer to the same object in the world.

    Words are like cutting patterns in paper; although they are abstractions of the real world, they serve to stand in for and represent something. That's why, when we share terms and definitions, it’s often important to clarify what we mean by those terms so that everyone starts with a shared understanding of a word. Currently, I’m working on taking three words that serve as the active ingredients influencing my behaviour daily. The goal is for the words not just to be abstract ideas, but to be converted into tangible actions, so that the words benefit me physically in the material world.

    The three words I want to focus on are awareness, concentration, and willpower. Right away, you might think you understand what I mean from those words, but to avoid the different connotations that can vary in people's minds, let's start by defining what I mean when I mention these terms. Sometimes, creating a picture is the most effective way to convey understanding.

    Think of awareness as a glowing ball of light that moves around the vast areas of the mind, so to speak. For example, when you're running a race to win, your awareness is in a competitive part of the mind, compared to when you're listening or watching a movie. The movie producer can take your awareness and direct it to various parts of the mind, such as turning something funny into a happy feeling, or something suspenseful into fear, or something that may make you angry. This is influenced by an external source created by your environment, over which you have no physical control. Awareness is triggered by the money you paid to a producer to evoke emotions in you, which is determined by the pictures, words, and storyline associated with the movie. In everyday life, many people are not in charge of their awareness. Something upsets you, and you keep thinking about those ideas; therefore, they have taken control of your awareness as it shifts to a worried state of mind. Then it is rehearsed, and by doing this, we are practising distraction in allowing our awareness to be focused on an external or internal conflict. This is why we need to be conscious in the present moment, so that we know exactly which part of the mind our awareness is focused on.

    The practice of meditating on quality information, such as scripture or complex problems we aim to solve, should be a more productive time using our awareness. Today, there is an epidemic of distraction caused by many factors, like social media, messages, news stories, or emails that pop up. The longer we let our environment dictate where our awareness goes, the more we practice distraction. Every second in our lives is wasted if we haven't set an intention or purpose to focus on one thing. External influences govern our focus if we allow others to decide where our attention goes.

    Next, I want to define concentration: the ability to hold our attention on something for a set period until the mind chooses to shift focus. Looking at some of the great inventors and discoverers of universal truths like Isaac Newton, Einstein, or Shakespeare—who spent ten years writing one book studied across generations—we see people who developed new inventions, such as rockets that go to space, or achieved anything beyond instant gratification through commitment to concentration. Edison is a clear example; after his 1000 attempts to build a light bulb, he finally cracked the code. If he had given up, it may have taken many more years for such a discovery to happen. We can't finish anything we start unless we develop the skill to concentrate.

    The next concept we need to understand is willpower. We can think of willpower as a muscle we all possess, though to different degrees. For example, you might decide you want to exercise, but you have a habit of not following through with that commitment. It’s not that you lack integrity with your word; it may be that you need to develop the skill of willpower. We can incorporate this into our daily routines; it involves completing tasks until they are finished. If you get out of bed but don’t make your bed until later in the day, your sleep cycle remains incomplete. If you say you’ll leave the dishes until the morning, you’re not taking advantage of the opportunity to build willpower by finishing a task. This isn’t laziness; it’s the inability to sustain willpower until everything you set your hand to is complete. If we commit to finishing every task, such as eating, washing up, and putting things away, without compromise, and practise this as a routine in our daily life, we’ll strengthen our willpower muscle. The more you resist the temptation to leave things until later and complete the task, the better your results will be over time.

    Imagine our world if half-finished buildings were inhabitable, children didn’t have to finish the school year once they decided to stay home, ingredients for a cake were put together but not baked, dishes piled up, rubbish was not taken out for weeks, and a bridge was left incomplete. This is the foundation of disorder. In Genesis 1, at the beginning of the world, at the end of each day, God had a protocol where He performed quality checks — using the principle of evaluation — when the Bible states that God saw that it was good, not only did He complete His work, but He also gave it a quality mark. Everything we undertake must be finished, and not only finished but also pushed a little further, doing a bit more than is comfortable. This builds your willpower to be a finisher. There are mundane tasks we all must do, like washing dishes, cooking, cleaning, and making the bed, and often we don’t see why completing these tasks is so important. It’s not just about the satisfaction of having done them; it is about developing your willpower to complete everything you start. If this principle hasn’t been embedded in your consciousness, you might look back over the last five years and notice projects left undone. There could be valid reasons for this, but the real key is cultivating the willpower of a finisher.

    Over the last 7 to 10 years, I have been dedicated to academic and self-education, making it a lifestyle culture. To dismiss this for trivial pursuits is not an option because the amount of willpower I have built to pursue this has become second nature, often going against the cultural norm. People are motivated by different things; it depends on our values and what we consider priorities. However, willpower, concentration, and awareness are fundamental. If we do not prioritise these skills in areas where we are weak, we cannot effectively use them as tools that benefit us. We have a lawn mower for cutting grass, a dishwasher for cleaning and drying dishes, and a computer is essential for many tasks. It is as important to understand and practise conscious awareness—being aware of what part of the mind our focus is in—or concentration to uncover new solutions that may resolve problems. Willpower is like a muscle that sustains lasting change. I challenge you, as I challenge myself, to develop these skills.

    Written by Rochelle White
    A COMPOSITE OF AWARENESS, CONCENTRATION AND WILLPOWER Just as a palette of colours is to an artist, a vast array of words and their syntax is to a writer. By blending and combining words, a writer weaves a rich tapestry of meaning. Meaning is the ultimate goal of writing, even though the process of sending and receiving messages can be complex. It is fascinating that all of humanity shares in language, even though the dialect spoken may differ. For example, the word used to stand in for a dog may be different in another language, but that word can often be translated so that we understand they refer to the same object in the world. Words are like cutting patterns in paper; although they are abstractions of the real world, they serve to stand in for and represent something. That's why, when we share terms and definitions, it’s often important to clarify what we mean by those terms so that everyone starts with a shared understanding of a word. Currently, I’m working on taking three words that serve as the active ingredients influencing my behaviour daily. The goal is for the words not just to be abstract ideas, but to be converted into tangible actions, so that the words benefit me physically in the material world. The three words I want to focus on are awareness, concentration, and willpower. Right away, you might think you understand what I mean from those words, but to avoid the different connotations that can vary in people's minds, let's start by defining what I mean when I mention these terms. Sometimes, creating a picture is the most effective way to convey understanding. Think of awareness as a glowing ball of light that moves around the vast areas of the mind, so to speak. For example, when you're running a race to win, your awareness is in a competitive part of the mind, compared to when you're listening or watching a movie. The movie producer can take your awareness and direct it to various parts of the mind, such as turning something funny into a happy feeling, or something suspenseful into fear, or something that may make you angry. This is influenced by an external source created by your environment, over which you have no physical control. Awareness is triggered by the money you paid to a producer to evoke emotions in you, which is determined by the pictures, words, and storyline associated with the movie. In everyday life, many people are not in charge of their awareness. Something upsets you, and you keep thinking about those ideas; therefore, they have taken control of your awareness as it shifts to a worried state of mind. Then it is rehearsed, and by doing this, we are practising distraction in allowing our awareness to be focused on an external or internal conflict. This is why we need to be conscious in the present moment, so that we know exactly which part of the mind our awareness is focused on. The practice of meditating on quality information, such as scripture or complex problems we aim to solve, should be a more productive time using our awareness. Today, there is an epidemic of distraction caused by many factors, like social media, messages, news stories, or emails that pop up. The longer we let our environment dictate where our awareness goes, the more we practice distraction. Every second in our lives is wasted if we haven't set an intention or purpose to focus on one thing. External influences govern our focus if we allow others to decide where our attention goes. Next, I want to define concentration: the ability to hold our attention on something for a set period until the mind chooses to shift focus. Looking at some of the great inventors and discoverers of universal truths like Isaac Newton, Einstein, or Shakespeare—who spent ten years writing one book studied across generations—we see people who developed new inventions, such as rockets that go to space, or achieved anything beyond instant gratification through commitment to concentration. Edison is a clear example; after his 1000 attempts to build a light bulb, he finally cracked the code. If he had given up, it may have taken many more years for such a discovery to happen. We can't finish anything we start unless we develop the skill to concentrate. The next concept we need to understand is willpower. We can think of willpower as a muscle we all possess, though to different degrees. For example, you might decide you want to exercise, but you have a habit of not following through with that commitment. It’s not that you lack integrity with your word; it may be that you need to develop the skill of willpower. We can incorporate this into our daily routines; it involves completing tasks until they are finished. If you get out of bed but don’t make your bed until later in the day, your sleep cycle remains incomplete. If you say you’ll leave the dishes until the morning, you’re not taking advantage of the opportunity to build willpower by finishing a task. This isn’t laziness; it’s the inability to sustain willpower until everything you set your hand to is complete. If we commit to finishing every task, such as eating, washing up, and putting things away, without compromise, and practise this as a routine in our daily life, we’ll strengthen our willpower muscle. The more you resist the temptation to leave things until later and complete the task, the better your results will be over time. Imagine our world if half-finished buildings were inhabitable, children didn’t have to finish the school year once they decided to stay home, ingredients for a cake were put together but not baked, dishes piled up, rubbish was not taken out for weeks, and a bridge was left incomplete. This is the foundation of disorder. In Genesis 1, at the beginning of the world, at the end of each day, God had a protocol where He performed quality checks — using the principle of evaluation — when the Bible states that God saw that it was good, not only did He complete His work, but He also gave it a quality mark. Everything we undertake must be finished, and not only finished but also pushed a little further, doing a bit more than is comfortable. This builds your willpower to be a finisher. There are mundane tasks we all must do, like washing dishes, cooking, cleaning, and making the bed, and often we don’t see why completing these tasks is so important. It’s not just about the satisfaction of having done them; it is about developing your willpower to complete everything you start. If this principle hasn’t been embedded in your consciousness, you might look back over the last five years and notice projects left undone. There could be valid reasons for this, but the real key is cultivating the willpower of a finisher. Over the last 7 to 10 years, I have been dedicated to academic and self-education, making it a lifestyle culture. To dismiss this for trivial pursuits is not an option because the amount of willpower I have built to pursue this has become second nature, often going against the cultural norm. People are motivated by different things; it depends on our values and what we consider priorities. However, willpower, concentration, and awareness are fundamental. If we do not prioritise these skills in areas where we are weak, we cannot effectively use them as tools that benefit us. We have a lawn mower for cutting grass, a dishwasher for cleaning and drying dishes, and a computer is essential for many tasks. It is as important to understand and practise conscious awareness—being aware of what part of the mind our focus is in—or concentration to uncover new solutions that may resolve problems. Willpower is like a muscle that sustains lasting change. I challenge you, as I challenge myself, to develop these skills. Written by Rochelle White
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  • JUST BECAUSE YOU’RE OLDER, DOESN’T MEAN YOU DESERVE RESPECT. RESPECT IS EARNED NOT GIVEN. Calling me broke or wishing I was broke has been your wish. These are the exact same words you told the EFCC officials. And you ended up getting locked up in prison. Of course, you have to come up with another narrative you were shouldering who? Agbaya, you were employed as a manager, and you got sacked the same as the other 2 managers before you. Period!
    I understand this may not sit well with some people, but truth be told, aside from my businesses, what I now earn on my own as a solo artiste today is more than what I used to earn after splitting three ways as PSQUARE plus the so-called manager. I am talking about both shows and endorsements. It really makes me question what’s the point of sharing with people who stole from you, betrayed you, and still discriminate against your efforts!?
    This solo journey has been a blessing—more rewarding and profitable, both financially and personally, no doubt . And it has also brought peace of mind. And if you don’t relate or it doesn’t make sense to you, no worries—it’s not meant to. But I am grateful. But again, despite being in court! Una never still answer the question, UNA THIEF ABI UNA NO THIEF ? Ndi ori.
    I have stopped playing nice and being the matured one while getting disrespected!
    I started treating people exactly how they treat me.
    Respect me, I respect you!
    Ignore me, I ignore you!
    Cross me, I cut you off, simple.
    Life isn't about begging people for fair treatment!
    It's about matching energy;
    it is what it is. Tit for tat!
    Stay real, stay strong, and stop letting people walk over you. PETER OKOYE.
    JUST BECAUSE YOU’RE OLDER, DOESN’T MEAN YOU DESERVE RESPECT. RESPECT IS EARNED NOT GIVEN. Calling me broke or wishing I was broke has been your wish. These are the exact same words you told the EFCC officials. And you ended up getting locked up in prison. Of course, you have to come up with another narrative🤣😂 you were shouldering who? Agbaya, you were employed as a manager, and you got sacked the same as the other 2 managers before you. Period! I understand this may not sit well with some people, but truth be told, aside from my businesses, what I now earn on my own as a solo artiste today is more than what I used to earn after splitting three ways as PSQUARE plus the so-called manager. I am talking about both shows and endorsements. It really makes me question what’s the point of sharing with people who stole from you, betrayed you, and still discriminate against your efforts!? This solo journey has been a blessing—more rewarding and profitable, both financially and personally, no doubt 💯. And it has also brought peace of mind. And if you don’t relate or it doesn’t make sense to you, no worries—it’s not meant to. But I am grateful. But again, despite being in court! Una never still answer the question, UNA THIEF ABI UNA NO THIEF ?⚖️ ⚖️ Ndi ori. I have stopped playing nice and being the matured one while getting disrespected! I started treating people exactly how they treat me. Respect me, I respect you! Ignore me, I ignore you! Cross me, I cut you off, simple. Life isn't about begging people for fair treatment! It's about matching energy; it is what it is. Tit for tat! Stay real, stay strong, and stop letting people walk over you. PETER OKOYE.
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  • When a married man has secrets.
    If he secretly texts someone, flirts, or shares emotional intimacy with another woman, it’s cheating ..... period.
    It’s not "harmless."
    It’s betrayal of his vows, his wife, and his own integrity.
    He’s not just disrespecting her, he’s making her feel small, questioning her worth, when the truth is he’s the one lacking discipline and strength.
    Do you know what else .....
    Other women see it. They watch him humiliate his wife, thinking, "She must not mean much if he’s this careless."
    And that’s the cruelest part is a man who discredits his spouse teaches the world to do the same.
    Real men don’t play with temptation.
    They don’t force their wives to compete for loyalty.
    They guard their marriage fiercely because love isn’t just a promise .... it’s protection.
    If she’s yours, act like it.
    Her heart shouldn’t have to pay the price for your weakness.
    When a married man has secrets. If he secretly texts someone, flirts, or shares emotional intimacy with another woman, it’s cheating ..... period. It’s not "harmless." It’s betrayal of his vows, his wife, and his own integrity. He’s not just disrespecting her, he’s making her feel small, questioning her worth, when the truth is he’s the one lacking discipline and strength. Do you know what else ..... Other women see it. They watch him humiliate his wife, thinking, "She must not mean much if he’s this careless." And that’s the cruelest part is a man who discredits his spouse teaches the world to do the same. Real men don’t play with temptation. They don’t force their wives to compete for loyalty. They guard their marriage fiercely because love isn’t just a promise .... it’s protection. If she’s yours, act like it. Her heart shouldn’t have to pay the price for your weakness.
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  • "I Plead Guilty"

    A farmer saw a snake caught by a trap. He felt really bad because the snake was in so much pain. He didn't want the snake in pain and didn't want the snake to die. So he took the snake home for treatment.

    Some days, he wouldn't go to the farm just to ensure that the snake was brought back to life. Throughout the period of pain, the snake was always showing appreciation to the farmer. The farmer's intention was to free the snake to continue its sojourn when it recovered fully.

    A few days later, the snake showed signs of full recovery and the farmer was very happy. He didn't know the snake had a different plan. On the night of the same day and while sleeping, the snake went to the farmer and struck. He was bitten and a lot of venoms went into his blood stream. And the snake escaped.

    Before the farmer could get help, he died. Before his final passage, he kept shouting, "I plead guilty". Why did he say that? Where is guilt in help? Why was he guilty for saving a life?

    Yes, he was guilty, not for saving a life, but for saving a snake's life. In Africa, snakes are not friendly animals. They attack humans. It was only pretending because of the pains from the trap. It was just a matter of time that it would kill its savior.

    Yes, he was guilty of not knowing that a snake bites. That is what a snake does. Whatever you do for a snake doesn't matter. A snake doesn't recognize favours. It bites for a living. So if you try to be nice to a snake, it is suicidal!

    Do not harbor snakes in the name of helping it. Let the snake go on its own. Snakes kill their helpers. Don't be guilty of excessive nicety. Don't kill yourself in the process of trying to save a natural killer.

    Many people that you are helping today are like snakes. When they get better, they face you squarely. When dealing with a snake, be wise. Be wiser than the snake and that would guide your being careful. Do not kill yourself because of a killer.

    May God continue to protect you from the pretentious snakes around you. Amen.

    Have a lovely day Famz.

    #kffthoughts
    "I Plead Guilty" A farmer saw a snake caught by a trap. He felt really bad because the snake was in so much pain. He didn't want the snake in pain and didn't want the snake to die. So he took the snake home for treatment. Some days, he wouldn't go to the farm just to ensure that the snake was brought back to life. Throughout the period of pain, the snake was always showing appreciation to the farmer. The farmer's intention was to free the snake to continue its sojourn when it recovered fully. A few days later, the snake showed signs of full recovery and the farmer was very happy. He didn't know the snake had a different plan. On the night of the same day and while sleeping, the snake went to the farmer and struck. He was bitten and a lot of venoms went into his blood stream. And the snake escaped. Before the farmer could get help, he died. Before his final passage, he kept shouting, "I plead guilty". Why did he say that? Where is guilt in help? Why was he guilty for saving a life? Yes, he was guilty, not for saving a life, but for saving a snake's life. In Africa, snakes are not friendly animals. They attack humans. It was only pretending because of the pains from the trap. It was just a matter of time that it would kill its savior. Yes, he was guilty of not knowing that a snake bites. That is what a snake does. Whatever you do for a snake doesn't matter. A snake doesn't recognize favours. It bites for a living. So if you try to be nice to a snake, it is suicidal! Do not harbor snakes in the name of helping it. Let the snake go on its own. Snakes kill their helpers. Don't be guilty of excessive nicety. Don't kill yourself in the process of trying to save a natural killer. Many people that you are helping today are like snakes. When they get better, they face you squarely. When dealing with a snake, be wise. Be wiser than the snake and that would guide your being careful. Do not kill yourself because of a killer. May God continue to protect you from the pretentious snakes around you. Amen. Have a lovely day Famz. #kffthoughts
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  • *IF YOU HAVEN'T BEEN DOING THIS , PLEASE START TODAY*
    Dr. John Saka, thank you for attending my dad's wake. Always remember this, sir: you killed my father.

    These were the exact words David used to open his appreciation speech during his father's wake. The room fell into a deafening silence and every guest held their breath in disbelief. St. Bernard's Old Students’ members, including Dr. Saka was visibly shocked. The weight of those words hit hard and the confusion on Dr. Saka’s face was evident.

    For fifteen long seconds, the silence in the room was unbearable, each person wrestling with their own questions: How? Why? What happened?

    David broke the silence, continuing with his speech:
    It is true that God gives life and takes it away but sometimes, people—like Judas—play a tragic role in how death occurs. My father's trust and respect for Dr. Saka, who happened to be one of his best friends, led to his early grave. My dad didn't need your mourning today. He needed you to honour him while he was still alive by answering his calls. This is my father’s phone.

    David held up the phone for everyone to see.
    The record of his call logs and WhatsApp messages is right here. Over the last eight months, my father called you 32 times. You answered only four times, each time promising to call back. On WhatsApp, he sent you 84 messages. You replied to only 22. Out of those, 16 were nothing more than 'Amen' in response to his monthly prayers and greetings. Out of the remaining six, on February 2nd of this year, you wrote: 'I'm not in the country; I will see you when I'm back in two weeks.' You never responded again until June 7, when he sent you birthday wishes and reminded you of your promise to see him. Your response was, Thanks, my friend, I appreciate it.

    My father, trusting your medical expertise, held onto the hope that you would help him. On June 12, after reaching out to you, he told you he was very sick and needed your professional advice. You read the message that same day, yet you did not reply until July 21, when he messaged you again, saying, 'John, I'm dying. Your response? 'Sorry, it is been a busy week. Let us see what happens next week.
    That 'next week' became two months. When my father sent his last message on September 2, asking why you were ignoring him, you replied: 'Sorry, my friend, I hardly have time for myself these days.' Six days later, my father died.

    David’s voice trembled as he continued, "Dr. Saka, my father trusted you more than any other doctor. He believed you cared enough to give him the best advice. He stopped taking his medications, waiting for you to fulfil your promise to see him in February. Instead of telling him that you couldn’t be available, you kept promising later.' He waited for seven months. I know all this because I was the one typing the texts on his behalf. Every day, he would ask, 'Did John send a message?' On the morning he died, he said, 'I made a mistake trusting John, but why didn’t he help?' My father never got an answer to that question, but maybe, Dr. Saka, you can answer to others who may need your help in the future.
    Thank you for coming today, though it feels like a belated honour.

    At this point, David turned to the audience and asked:
    As a doctor, how many of your family members, colleagues and old classmates have you reached out to, inquiring about their health without them asking?
    As a lawyer, how many of your family members, colleagues and old classmates have you offered pro bono services to?
    As a professional, how many of your family, colleagues and old classmates have you helped for free? As a wealthy person whom God has blessed in so many ways, how many poor and poverty ridden people have you stretched your hands of gift to help out of their financial predicament most especially at this trying period of our National economic hardship? As working class people with mobility, how have you helped your surbordinates to ease their transportation challenges to office or ameliorate their sufferings for food subsidy?
    How have you positively impacted people's lives without expecting anything in return as gratification? Let us search our minds and make mends.

    David paused and added, If you haven't been doing this, please start today. Surprise people with help. It brightens and elongates life.
    Tears flowed down Dr. Saka’s face, and many in the hall wept as well.

    LESSONS FROM THIS STORY

    1.Never ignore calls or messages from friends, classmates, colleagues, or family.
    2.Don't assume you know why someone is reaching out to you. You may be wrong and may not understand their need.
    3.Remember that God is the true helper; we are simply messengers.
    4.Be humble enough to admit when you can’t help.
    5.Do not keep anyone waiting for help if you can not deliver it.
    6.Help others when you can—it is a privilege, not an obligation.
    7.Always remember, no one is irreplaceable or indisposable.
    8.We are all always busy sometimes and having challenges of our own.

    Let us not be the cause of someone’s despair, or worse, their early death. You may not be able to save everyone but failing to respond when you could have, might send someone to their grave. Reach out. Help when you can. You never know how much of a difference you can make in someone's life.

    Be inspired.
    *IF YOU HAVEN'T BEEN DOING THIS , PLEASE START TODAY* Dr. John Saka, thank you for attending my dad's wake. Always remember this, sir: you killed my father. These were the exact words David used to open his appreciation speech during his father's wake. The room fell into a deafening silence and every guest held their breath in disbelief. St. Bernard's Old Students’ members, including Dr. Saka was visibly shocked. The weight of those words hit hard and the confusion on Dr. Saka’s face was evident. For fifteen long seconds, the silence in the room was unbearable, each person wrestling with their own questions: How? Why? What happened? David broke the silence, continuing with his speech: It is true that God gives life and takes it away but sometimes, people—like Judas—play a tragic role in how death occurs. My father's trust and respect for Dr. Saka, who happened to be one of his best friends, led to his early grave. My dad didn't need your mourning today. He needed you to honour him while he was still alive by answering his calls. This is my father’s phone. David held up the phone for everyone to see. The record of his call logs and WhatsApp messages is right here. Over the last eight months, my father called you 32 times. You answered only four times, each time promising to call back. On WhatsApp, he sent you 84 messages. You replied to only 22. Out of those, 16 were nothing more than 'Amen' in response to his monthly prayers and greetings. Out of the remaining six, on February 2nd of this year, you wrote: 'I'm not in the country; I will see you when I'm back in two weeks.' You never responded again until June 7, when he sent you birthday wishes and reminded you of your promise to see him. Your response was, Thanks, my friend, I appreciate it. My father, trusting your medical expertise, held onto the hope that you would help him. On June 12, after reaching out to you, he told you he was very sick and needed your professional advice. You read the message that same day, yet you did not reply until July 21, when he messaged you again, saying, 'John, I'm dying. Your response? 'Sorry, it is been a busy week. Let us see what happens next week. That 'next week' became two months. When my father sent his last message on September 2, asking why you were ignoring him, you replied: 'Sorry, my friend, I hardly have time for myself these days.' Six days later, my father died. David’s voice trembled as he continued, "Dr. Saka, my father trusted you more than any other doctor. He believed you cared enough to give him the best advice. He stopped taking his medications, waiting for you to fulfil your promise to see him in February. Instead of telling him that you couldn’t be available, you kept promising later.' He waited for seven months. I know all this because I was the one typing the texts on his behalf. Every day, he would ask, 'Did John send a message?' On the morning he died, he said, 'I made a mistake trusting John, but why didn’t he help?' My father never got an answer to that question, but maybe, Dr. Saka, you can answer to others who may need your help in the future. Thank you for coming today, though it feels like a belated honour. At this point, David turned to the audience and asked: As a doctor, how many of your family members, colleagues and old classmates have you reached out to, inquiring about their health without them asking? As a lawyer, how many of your family members, colleagues and old classmates have you offered pro bono services to? As a professional, how many of your family, colleagues and old classmates have you helped for free? As a wealthy person whom God has blessed in so many ways, how many poor and poverty ridden people have you stretched your hands of gift to help out of their financial predicament most especially at this trying period of our National economic hardship? As working class people with mobility, how have you helped your surbordinates to ease their transportation challenges to office or ameliorate their sufferings for food subsidy? How have you positively impacted people's lives without expecting anything in return as gratification? Let us search our minds and make mends. David paused and added, If you haven't been doing this, please start today. Surprise people with help. It brightens and elongates life. Tears flowed down Dr. Saka’s face, and many in the hall wept as well. LESSONS FROM THIS STORY 1.Never ignore calls or messages from friends, classmates, colleagues, or family. 2.Don't assume you know why someone is reaching out to you. You may be wrong and may not understand their need. 3.Remember that God is the true helper; we are simply messengers. 4.Be humble enough to admit when you can’t help. 5.Do not keep anyone waiting for help if you can not deliver it. 6.Help others when you can—it is a privilege, not an obligation. 7.Always remember, no one is irreplaceable or indisposable. 8.We are all always busy sometimes and having challenges of our own. Let us not be the cause of someone’s despair, or worse, their early death. You may not be able to save everyone but failing to respond when you could have, might send someone to their grave. Reach out. Help when you can. You never know how much of a difference you can make in someone's life. Be inspired.
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  • "SHE GAVE YOU HER BODY, BUT TOOK YOUR DESTINY" – When sex is a transaction, the man always loses more.

    There are two types of men in this world: those who build their future and those who trade it away for temporary pleasure. Many men don’t even realize when they’ve been robbed, not of their money, but of their potential.

    She didn’t hold a gun to your head. She didn’t break into your house at night. But she walked away with your focus, your ambition, your discipline, and your financial future.

    And the worst part? You willingly handed it over.

    This is the silent robbery happening every day. Men think they are enjoying, but they are being emptied.

    BRUTAL THREAD: How Se-x Can Steal Your Future

    1. THE COST OF FREE SE-X IS YOUR AMBITION
    You met a fine girl. She gave you her body for free. No stress, no commitment, just pure enjoyment. You thought you hit the jackpot? No, you entered the trap.

    Each time you’re with her, you’re spending hours, days, and nights chasing pleasure instead of chasing progress.

    You wake up late, you miss opportunities, your mind is distracted.

    You thought you were enjoying her body, but she was taking your focus, your time, and your hunger for success.

    2. EVERY TIME YOU SLEEP WITH HER, YOU LOSE ENERGY—SHE GAINS IT
    There’s a reason great warriors, boxers, and kings of old practiced sexual discipline. They knew that their energy, clarity, and strength came from controlling their desires.

    When you release carelessly, you are losing more than just fluid. You are losing drive, willpower, and aggression—all the things you need to dominate in life.

    Now, check her: she is glowing, she is energized, she is more powerful.

    You are weaker.

    Why do you think they say "behind every successful man is a woman"? Because she collects his energy and multiplies it. But what happens when she takes your energy and leaves?

    She goes to multiply it elsewhere.

    3. SHE TOOK YOUR MONEY, BUT YOU THOUGHT IT WAS LØVE
    At first, it was just small-small money—transport fare, lunch money, a little shopping. Then it became rent, hair, nails, and urgent 2K every week.

    You thought you were investing in her? No, you were funding your own downfall.

    She took your hard-earned money, but did she invest it back into you?

    No.

    She used it to look good for another man who had more focus than you.

    4. SHE WASTED YOUR YEARS, NOW SHE'S GONE
    How many men have given their prime years to a woman who had no plans of staying?

    She took your time, your energy, your youth… then she moved on to the next best option.

    Now, you’re in your 30s or 40s, starting over while she has already secured her next destination.

    Reality check: A woman’s time is shorter, but a man’s wasted time is costlier.

    5. YOU THOUGHT SHE WAS LOYAL, BUT YOU WERE JUST A PHASE
    Some women are seasonal lovers—they attach themselves to a man for a period, take what they need, then move on.

    You thought she was forever. She knew she was temporary.

    You were just a “right now” guy. And when she found a "forever" guy, she walked away without looking back.

    6. YOUR FUTURE IS MORE VALUABLE THAN HER BODY
    Many men have traded their destiny for a few minutes of pleasure.

    Ask Samson. He had superhuman strength. Delilah used love and sex to take it away.

    Ask Solomon. The wisest king in history lost his throne because of vvomen.

    Even great men fall when they don’t control their desires.

    Now, look at yourself. What have you lost so far?

    7. WAKE UP BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE
    If you keep trading your time, energy, money, and focus for sex, you will wake up one day and realize:

    The men you started life with are now ahead of you.

    Your bank account is empty.

    Your dreams never happened.

    And the women who wasted your years are now with better men.

    BOTTOM LINE:
    Sex is not free. It is always a transaction.

    Either you gain something from it, or you lose everything to it.

    Choose wisely.

    If this post hits you, you know what to do.
    #everyoneシ
    "SHE GAVE YOU HER BODY, BUT TOOK YOUR DESTINY" – When sex is a transaction, the man always loses more. There are two types of men in this world: those who build their future and those who trade it away for temporary pleasure. Many men don’t even realize when they’ve been robbed, not of their money, but of their potential. She didn’t hold a gun to your head. She didn’t break into your house at night. But she walked away with your focus, your ambition, your discipline, and your financial future. And the worst part? You willingly handed it over. This is the silent robbery happening every day. Men think they are enjoying, but they are being emptied. BRUTAL THREAD: How Se-x Can Steal Your Future 1. THE COST OF FREE SE-X IS YOUR AMBITION You met a fine girl. She gave you her body for free. No stress, no commitment, just pure enjoyment. You thought you hit the jackpot? No, you entered the trap. Each time you’re with her, you’re spending hours, days, and nights chasing pleasure instead of chasing progress. You wake up late, you miss opportunities, your mind is distracted. You thought you were enjoying her body, but she was taking your focus, your time, and your hunger for success. 2. EVERY TIME YOU SLEEP WITH HER, YOU LOSE ENERGY—SHE GAINS IT There’s a reason great warriors, boxers, and kings of old practiced sexual discipline. They knew that their energy, clarity, and strength came from controlling their desires. When you release carelessly, you are losing more than just fluid. You are losing drive, willpower, and aggression—all the things you need to dominate in life. Now, check her: she is glowing, she is energized, she is more powerful. You are weaker. Why do you think they say "behind every successful man is a woman"? Because she collects his energy and multiplies it. But what happens when she takes your energy and leaves? She goes to multiply it elsewhere. 3. SHE TOOK YOUR MONEY, BUT YOU THOUGHT IT WAS LØVE At first, it was just small-small money—transport fare, lunch money, a little shopping. Then it became rent, hair, nails, and urgent 2K every week. You thought you were investing in her? No, you were funding your own downfall. She took your hard-earned money, but did she invest it back into you? No. She used it to look good for another man who had more focus than you. 4. SHE WASTED YOUR YEARS, NOW SHE'S GONE How many men have given their prime years to a woman who had no plans of staying? She took your time, your energy, your youth… then she moved on to the next best option. Now, you’re in your 30s or 40s, starting over while she has already secured her next destination. Reality check: A woman’s time is shorter, but a man’s wasted time is costlier. 5. YOU THOUGHT SHE WAS LOYAL, BUT YOU WERE JUST A PHASE Some women are seasonal lovers—they attach themselves to a man for a period, take what they need, then move on. You thought she was forever. She knew she was temporary. You were just a “right now” guy. And when she found a "forever" guy, she walked away without looking back. 6. YOUR FUTURE IS MORE VALUABLE THAN HER BODY Many men have traded their destiny for a few minutes of pleasure. Ask Samson. He had superhuman strength. Delilah used love and sex to take it away. Ask Solomon. The wisest king in history lost his throne because of vvomen. Even great men fall when they don’t control their desires. Now, look at yourself. What have you lost so far? 7. WAKE UP BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE If you keep trading your time, energy, money, and focus for sex, you will wake up one day and realize: The men you started life with are now ahead of you. Your bank account is empty. Your dreams never happened. And the women who wasted your years are now with better men. BOTTOM LINE: Sex is not free. It is always a transaction. Either you gain something from it, or you lose everything to it. Choose wisely. If this post hits you, you know what to do. #everyoneシ゚
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  • DID YOU KNOW YOU COULD HEAL YOURSELF USING ALUM?

    An alum is any group of hydrated double salts. Basically, it is that little crystal-like stone you barely take note of.
    Generally, people know to use alum as a water purifier, but alum has a lot of other uses you might not have known and I'll be exposing the way to use it to you
    HOW TO USE ALUM FOR:

    CANKER SORES
    Though this can be a little painful, but if you want to treat those persistent sores that appear in your mouth often, then alum works wonders

    HOW TO USE
    Pound and powder a tiny piece of alum
    Press it on the sore and leave it on for 5-10 minutes (Do not swallow)
    Rinse out with water
    OR
    pound and powder a little amount of alum in mortar
    Start boilinga cup of water with a little salt
    As soon as the salt dissolves turn off the heat and add your alum
    When the alum dissolves, strain the water and use as a mouth rinse
    Hold it in your mouth for about 2-3 minutes before spitting out
    Do this twice a day to clear canker sores

    TO STOP BLEEDING FROM A CUT
    Alum can be used to stop bleeding if the cut is not too deep
    Grind and powder alum
    Apply it to the cut to cease the bleeding.

    AS AN AFTER SHAVE TREATMENT
    If you are one of those men who suffer from bumps and discoloration from shaving then try this remedy

    HOW TO USE
    Get a block of alum
    Rub it onto wet face after shaving
    You can wash out after 15 minutes or you can leave it in.
    Continue for a few weeks and notice the improvement

    TO TREAT ATHLETE'S FOOT
    If you are looking for a natural and effective treatment for this, then do this

    HOW TO USE
    Add 2-3 tablespoon of alum powder in warm water
    Soak the feet for 20-30 minutes
    Dry the feet with a towel
    Try not to wear shoes during the treatment period

    TO TREAT LICE
    Alum is very powerful and effective in the treatment of hair lice which is a problem for many years.

    HOW TO USE
    Add a little water to powdered alum
    Add some tea tree oil to it
    Apply it on hair and cover with scarf for 10 minutes
    Wash off with shampoo and conditioner
    Do this twice a week and watch all the lice die.

    FOR MUSCLE CRAMPS
    In addition with tumeric, you can use alum for muscle pain and cramps

    HOW TO USE
    Powder some alum
    Add a tablespoon of powdered tumeric
    Add just a little water to form a paste
    Apply it to the affected area and leave to dry by itself
    Do this for 2-3 days to reduce inflammation and swelling

    TO NATURALLY LIGHTEN SKIN
    If you intend to lighten your skin without using bleaching chemicals then try this remedy

    HOW TO USE
    Boil water and add your alum
    Allow it to cool
    Then wash your face with it

    TO TREAT CONSTANT ITCHING ON THE SKIN
    Use a small quantity of alum powder
    Mix with 2 teaspoon of lemon juice
    Rub it where you feel itching.

    TO STOP EXCESSIVE SWEATING
    If you have a problem of sweating excessively, then:

    Put some blocks of alum in a bucket of water
    Allow it dissolve
    Then use it to bath and that problem will be solved

    FOR THE TREATMENT OF JAUNDICE
    Get a fine powder of alum (5 gram)
    Divide it into 10 equal parts
    Use one part in the morning with cow milk, the other in the afternoon with cow milk and another at night also with cow milk. (Just a little cow milk should do)

    FOR CRACKED HEELS
    Wet an alum block
    Use it in scrubbing the cracked heel morning and evening to repair in a few days

    AS A DEODORANT
    Instead of using a chemical deodorant, you can use alum instead. It will stop excessive perspiration and lighten your underarms

    HOW TO USE
    Use a wet block of alum to apply around your underarms after a bath
    Use only once in two days

    TO ELIMINATED DARK CIRCLES AROUND EYES
    Mix a pinch of powdered alum with warm water and rub it around your eyes for 30 minutes everyday. (Don't let it get in your eyes)

    STAY HEALTHY WONDERFUL, MIRACULOUS HERBS MEMBERS
    DID YOU KNOW YOU COULD HEAL YOURSELF USING ALUM? An alum is any group of hydrated double salts. Basically, it is that little crystal-like stone you barely take note of. Generally, people know to use alum as a water purifier, but alum has a lot of other uses you might not have known and I'll be exposing the way to use it to you HOW TO USE ALUM FOR: CANKER SORES Though this can be a little painful, but if you want to treat those persistent sores that appear in your mouth often, then alum works wonders HOW TO USE Pound and powder a tiny piece of alum Press it on the sore and leave it on for 5-10 minutes (Do not swallow) Rinse out with water OR pound and powder a little amount of alum in mortar Start boilinga cup of water with a little salt As soon as the salt dissolves turn off the heat and add your alum When the alum dissolves, strain the water and use as a mouth rinse Hold it in your mouth for about 2-3 minutes before spitting out Do this twice a day to clear canker sores TO STOP BLEEDING FROM A CUT Alum can be used to stop bleeding if the cut is not too deep Grind and powder alum Apply it to the cut to cease the bleeding. AS AN AFTER SHAVE TREATMENT If you are one of those men who suffer from bumps and discoloration from shaving then try this remedy HOW TO USE Get a block of alum Rub it onto wet face after shaving You can wash out after 15 minutes or you can leave it in. Continue for a few weeks and notice the improvement TO TREAT ATHLETE'S FOOT If you are looking for a natural and effective treatment for this, then do this HOW TO USE Add 2-3 tablespoon of alum powder in warm water Soak the feet for 20-30 minutes Dry the feet with a towel Try not to wear shoes during the treatment period TO TREAT LICE Alum is very powerful and effective in the treatment of hair lice which is a problem for many years. HOW TO USE Add a little water to powdered alum Add some tea tree oil to it Apply it on hair and cover with scarf for 10 minutes Wash off with shampoo and conditioner Do this twice a week and watch all the lice die. FOR MUSCLE CRAMPS In addition with tumeric, you can use alum for muscle pain and cramps HOW TO USE Powder some alum Add a tablespoon of powdered tumeric Add just a little water to form a paste Apply it to the affected area and leave to dry by itself Do this for 2-3 days to reduce inflammation and swelling TO NATURALLY LIGHTEN SKIN If you intend to lighten your skin without using bleaching chemicals then try this remedy HOW TO USE Boil water and add your alum Allow it to cool Then wash your face with it TO TREAT CONSTANT ITCHING ON THE SKIN Use a small quantity of alum powder Mix with 2 teaspoon of lemon juice Rub it where you feel itching. TO STOP EXCESSIVE SWEATING If you have a problem of sweating excessively, then: Put some blocks of alum in a bucket of water Allow it dissolve Then use it to bath and that problem will be solved FOR THE TREATMENT OF JAUNDICE Get a fine powder of alum (5 gram) Divide it into 10 equal parts Use one part in the morning with cow milk, the other in the afternoon with cow milk and another at night also with cow milk. (Just a little cow milk should do) FOR CRACKED HEELS Wet an alum block Use it in scrubbing the cracked heel morning and evening to repair in a few days AS A DEODORANT Instead of using a chemical deodorant, you can use alum instead. It will stop excessive perspiration and lighten your underarms HOW TO USE Use a wet block of alum to apply around your underarms after a bath Use only once in two days TO ELIMINATED DARK CIRCLES AROUND EYES Mix a pinch of powdered alum with warm water and rub it around your eyes for 30 minutes everyday. (Don't let it get in your eyes) STAY HEALTHY WONDERFUL, MIRACULOUS HERBS🌿💮☘️❤️🌱🌱💯🌿 MEMBERS
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    *TOPIC :PREVENTION OF URINARY TRACT INFECTIONS (UTIs)*

    Preventing urinary tract infections (UTIs) involves good hygiene, healthy habits, and lifestyle adjustments. Here are how to prevent UTIs

    1. Stay Hydrated Drink plenty of water to flush out bacteria.

    2. Urinate Regularly – Don’t hold urine for long periods; empty the bladder fully.

    3. Wipe Properly Always wipe front to back (especially important for women).

    4. Practice Safe Sex Urinate before and after intercourse; use protection to reduce bacterial transfer.

    5. Avoid Irritants Limit harsh soaps, douches, or scented feminine products that disrupt natural flora.

    6. Wear Breathable Underwear Choose cotton to reduce moisture buildup.
    Allow your private part to breathe.

    *Your health is my concern.*
    Dr dogood naturopathic resources
    *HEALTH TALK FOR THE DAY* *TOPIC :PREVENTION OF URINARY TRACT INFECTIONS (UTIs)* Preventing urinary tract infections (UTIs) involves good hygiene, healthy habits, and lifestyle adjustments. Here are how to prevent UTIs ✅ 1. Stay Hydrated Drink plenty of water to flush out bacteria. ✅ 2. Urinate Regularly – Don’t hold urine for long periods; empty the bladder fully. ✅ 3. Wipe Properly Always wipe front to back (especially important for women). ✅ 4. Practice Safe Sex Urinate before and after intercourse; use protection to reduce bacterial transfer. ✅ 5. Avoid Irritants Limit harsh soaps, douches, or scented feminine products that disrupt natural flora. ✅ 6. Wear Breathable Underwear Choose cotton to reduce moisture buildup. Allow your private part to breathe. *Your health is my concern.* Dr dogood naturopathic resources
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  • *HEALTH TALK FOR THE DAY*
    *TOPIC :PREVENTION OF URINARY TRACT INFECTIONS (UTIs)*

    Preventing urinary tract infections (UTIs) involves good hygiene, healthy habits, and lifestyle adjustments. Here are how to prevent UTIs

    1. Stay Hydrated Drink plenty of water to flush out bacteria.

    2. Urinate Regularly – Don’t hold urine for long periods; empty the bladder fully.

    3. Wipe Properly Always wipe front to back (especially important for women).

    4. Practice Safe Sex Urinate before and after intercourse; use protection to reduce bacterial transfer.

    5. Avoid Irritants Limit harsh soaps, douches, or scented feminine products that disrupt natural flora.

    6. Wear Breathable Underwear Choose cotton to reduce moisture buildup.
    Allow your private part to breathe.

    *Your health is my concern.*
    Dr dogood naturopathic resources
    *HEALTH TALK FOR THE DAY* *TOPIC :PREVENTION OF URINARY TRACT INFECTIONS (UTIs)* Preventing urinary tract infections (UTIs) involves good hygiene, healthy habits, and lifestyle adjustments. Here are how to prevent UTIs ✅ 1. Stay Hydrated Drink plenty of water to flush out bacteria. ✅ 2. Urinate Regularly – Don’t hold urine for long periods; empty the bladder fully. ✅ 3. Wipe Properly Always wipe front to back (especially important for women). ✅ 4. Practice Safe Sex Urinate before and after intercourse; use protection to reduce bacterial transfer. ✅ 5. Avoid Irritants Limit harsh soaps, douches, or scented feminine products that disrupt natural flora. ✅ 6. Wear Breathable Underwear Choose cotton to reduce moisture buildup. Allow your private part to breathe. *Your health is my concern.* Dr dogood naturopathic resources
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  • *HEALTH TALK FOR THE DAY*
    *TOPIC :PREVENTION OF URINARY TRACT INFECTIONS (UTIs)*

    Preventing urinary tract infections (UTIs) involves good hygiene, healthy habits, and lifestyle adjustments. Here are how to prevent UTIs

    1. Stay Hydrated Drink plenty of water to flush out bacteria.

    2. Urinate Regularly – Don’t hold urine for long periods; empty the bladder fully.

    3. Wipe Properly Always wipe front to back (especially important for women).

    4. Practice Safe Sex Urinate before and after intercourse; use protection to reduce bacterial transfer.

    5. Avoid Irritants Limit harsh soaps, douches, or scented feminine products that disrupt natural flora.

    6. Wear Breathable Underwear Choose cotton to reduce moisture buildup.
    Allow your private part to breathe.

    *Your health is my concern.*
    Dr dogood naturopathic resources
    *HEALTH TALK FOR THE DAY* *TOPIC :PREVENTION OF URINARY TRACT INFECTIONS (UTIs)* Preventing urinary tract infections (UTIs) involves good hygiene, healthy habits, and lifestyle adjustments. Here are how to prevent UTIs ✅ 1. Stay Hydrated Drink plenty of water to flush out bacteria. ✅ 2. Urinate Regularly – Don’t hold urine for long periods; empty the bladder fully. ✅ 3. Wipe Properly Always wipe front to back (especially important for women). ✅ 4. Practice Safe Sex Urinate before and after intercourse; use protection to reduce bacterial transfer. ✅ 5. Avoid Irritants Limit harsh soaps, douches, or scented feminine products that disrupt natural flora. ✅ 6. Wear Breathable Underwear Choose cotton to reduce moisture buildup. Allow your private part to breathe. *Your health is my concern.* Dr dogood naturopathic resources
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