I know the bible says no to premarital sex, but what if after marriage, u discover ur partner isn't good in bed, what'll u do?

*What to Have Before You Become a Wife📌 👇* Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire. But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience. So before you become a wife; Have 1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions. Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else. Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself. Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure. 2. Emotional Maturity Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love? In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband. There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills. Learn Good Communication Skills too. Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man. Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough. Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence. A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom. 3. Financial Wisdom You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that. You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally. Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you❓ Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both. Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain! • 4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose? Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife? It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision. Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep. If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met. Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort. 5. Sound Marital Knowledge You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage? In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent. You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it. You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible. All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing 🙄 Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ? Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront. Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can. 6. Healing from Past Wounds Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage. Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married. Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage. Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow. 7. The Right Community Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage. Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage. Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them. 8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed? Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them. Start building them now— the right habits. Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids. 9. Hobbies and Passions In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow. Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season. When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home. 10. A Prayer Life Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God. A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan. A kneeling woman is a winning woman! Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it. Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole. So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman. A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key. Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it. Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED ✅, not to be ENDURED ❌. You are worth the wait. PEACE!🕊️

*27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG LASTING MARRIAGE 👩🧑💖* https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaGhjo07tkjCfXdy322U Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice. No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages. What Should you do? 1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage 2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses. 3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together. 4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day. 5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other. 6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment. 7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis. 8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her. 9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills. 10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her. 11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear. 12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say. 13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day. 14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you. 15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x. Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage. 16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend. 17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse. 18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry. 19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself. 20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere 21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation 22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too! 23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone. Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever. 24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems. 25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go. 26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist. 27. Above all: Serve God together, Pray together & Pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials, and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse. You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus name Kindly share..

The drama between Regina Daniels and Angela Okorie started when Angela posted a video about Mercy Johnson's health, claiming she'd forgiven her former best friend despite past grievances. However, Angela also stated that Mercy should apologize to those she's wronged in the industry. Regina Daniels, Mercy Johnson's god-daughter, responded strongly, telling Angela, "You dey mad!" (You're crazy!) and advising her not to forgive because "we no dey forgive" (we don't forgive). *The Escalation:* - Angela fired back at Regina, mocking her marriage to Ned Nwoko, saying Regina married a man old enough to be her great-grandfather due to her low IQ. - Regina retaliated, exposing Angela's alleged past interest in Ned Nwoko, saying, "He is everything your mind prays for but can't attract". *Public Reactions:* - Fans are divided, with some defending Angela's right to speak her mind and others backing Regina's loyalty to Mercy Johnson. - Some comments question Angela's motives, while others praise Regina's bold response. - The feud highlights the complexities of celebrity culture, forgiveness, and respect in the Nigerian entertainment industry ¹ ². My question as annalist why is Angela Okorie not Married, or Minding her Life and stop bully wrong....

He slēpt with hēr right in fr0nt of mē, without minding my presence. And I was still in my wedding gown when all these were happening. But what I did next shocked them. I didn't say anything o. I just went and carried... . MY HUSBAND BROUGHT ANOTHER WOMAN HOME ON OUR WEDDING NIGHT Chapter 1 They said marriage changes a woman. They didn’t say it would happen in one night. The hotel room was cold—too cold for comfort, too quiet for celebration. My wedding dress clung to my skin, the lace already itchy. My hands smelled of fried rice, perfume, and sweat. I had waited over an hour, seated on the edge of the hotel bed, legs pressed together, heart trembling like a candle in wind. Tonight was supposed to be the beginning. My beginning. But Chuka wasn’t picking his calls. I dialed again. Switched off. I dropped the phone. Picked it again. Put it down. Repeated it like prayer. A knock came at the door. Not hurried. Not soft. Just... calm. I jumped to my feet and smoothed the dress even though it was crumpled from sitting. I checked the mirror one last time. My lipstick was fading, but I still looked like a bride. I opened the door with a smile I forced. And then I froze. Chuka stood there, yes. But he wasn’t alone. There was a woman beside him. Tall. Beautiful. Red lips, long hair. Dressed in white silk like she belonged in perfume commercials. Like she belonged beside him. She didn’t look surprised to see me. She looked... bored. “Ezinne,” Chuka said. “Let’s go inside.” I stepped back slowly, eyes darting between both of them. “Who is she?” “She’s with me.” I stared at him. “With you? As in?” “She stays with me.” My smile died. “Tonight?” “Every night.” The woman walked past me like it was her wedding suite. Like she’d been here before. She kicked off her heels, sat on the bed, and unzipped her purse. Comfortable. Confident. “Chuka,” I whispered, feeling my chest tighten. “I don’t understand.” He shut the door behind him. “She’s part of this marriage. That’s how things work. You’re the wife. She’s... Amaka.” Amaka. Her name was Amaka. I wanted to laugh. Or scream. Or disappear. “You’re joking,” I said. “No, I’m not.” His voice didn’t rise. It didn’t shake. It was the same tone he used when he ordered fried rice with no pepper. “If you can’t accept that, you can leave.” The words didn’t make sense. I didn’t move. I just stood there. My veil slipped to the floor. Amaka picked it up, looked at me, and said with a small smile, “You’ll get used to it.” I ran. Out the door. Down the hall. No slippers, no bag. Just my legs, my wedding dress, and a sound in my throat I couldn’t name. Outside, the night air hit my skin like slap. I sat on the stairs behind the building and cried. Not loud. Just small, broken sobs that nobody would hear. My phone vibrated in my hand. It was my mother. I picked. “Mama…” She didn’t let me finish. “Ezinne, please don’t disgrace us.” I blinked. “What?” “You’re married now. Endure. At least he married you. At least you’re not like some girls jumping from one man to another.” I held the phone away from my ear. I couldn’t breathe. I had just been replaced—in my own marriage. And my mother called it endurance. The line went dead. I looked up at the sky. The stars were watching. God was watching. And I whispered, “Why me?” But the night gave no answer. Only the wind. While I'm trying my best to impress you guys, biko, make ona react and co.m.me.nt so I'd know if I should go on with this story. Please read the notice below: To be continued... Follow EMMACK for the next episode

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My Ex Used My Nude Photos in Court to Shame Me Into Giving Up Custody Episode 1 The courtroom smelled like polished wood, cold air, and judgment. I sat there, numb, heart pounding as my lawyer whispered strategy into my ear—but it all sounded like static. Across the aisle sat the man I once loved, the man I shared a home, a bed, and a child with—Seyi. Three years ago, I left him because I found a voice I didn’t know I had, because the bruises on my body weren’t just from fists but from silence, from a marriage that wore me thin until I barely existed. I took our daughter—our sweet, bubbly three-year-old Mide—and left. I stayed silent. I didn’t drag his name. I didn’t tell the world what he did. I just left. For peace. For safety. For healing. But peace doesn’t last when you leave behind a man like Seyi—he doesn’t accept silence as survival, only as betrayal. And now he was here, suing me for full custody, claiming I was unstable, reckless, “morally unfit to parent a girl.” And then he did the unthinkable. He submitted Exhibit C. A flash drive. The judge raised an eyebrow. Seyi’s lawyer—a smug, sharp-tongued woman in designer heels—walked to the front and calmly plugged it in. “Your Honor,” she said, “this is a crucial element of our argument regarding Ms. Adaobi’s moral fitness.” And then the screen came to life. My breath caught. My soul left my body. My naked body, taken in secret—photos I sent Seyi when we were newly married. When I still trusted him. When love meant openness. They appeared one by one on the courtroom screen. I covered my mouth. My lawyer jumped up, objecting furiously. But it was too late. The judge had seen. The jury had seen. My parents had seen. Even the court clerk looked away in pity. My knees buckled. I fell back into the chair. My ears rang. “This is revenge,” my lawyer barked. “This is a violation of privacy. Those images have no relevance—” “On the contrary,” Seyi’s lawyer cut in. “They show recklessness, sexual irresponsibility, and the kind of decisions that should concern anyone responsible for a child’s development.” “They were married!” my lawyer shouted. “Consensual! This is illegal revenge porn!” But the judge only cleared his throat. “Enough. I’ve seen enough. Ms. Adaobi, do you have anything to say for yourself?” I turned my face toward him slowly, tears streaming down my cheeks. “I trusted him,” I said softly. “I loved him. Those were private. That was my husband.” The judge said nothing. And I knew, in that moment, I had lost. Seyi never looked at me. He kept his gaze forward, as if he hadn’t just exposed my body to strangers in the name of “concern.” That night, I cried until I vomited. My mother held my hair back, her own tears silent and angry. “He will not win,” she said. But I knew better. Men like Seyi didn’t fight fair. They fought to humiliate. To destroy. To erase. The next hearing was worse. Seyi’s team introduced character witnesses—his new wife, his pastor, even one of my old friends who he had obviously bribed. They all painted me as unstable, seductive, a party girl. They spoke about photos he claimed he “found on my phone,” said I had “multiple lovers,” and I sat there, trembling, unable to breathe, watching the court believe him. I tried to speak. I told the truth. I said he hit me. I said I left because I feared for Mide’s safety. But I had no hospital records, no police reports—because I had been too ashamed to file them. And shame doesn’t win custody cases. Evidence does. And Seyi had twisted mine into a noose. Two days later, I got the judgment. Joint custody. Shared rights. Mandatory visitations. But there was more. The judge had also recommended I seek counseling before resuming full-time parental duties. I had to “rebuild my moral integrity in the eyes of the court.” In other words, I was being punished for being a woman who once loved a man enough to trust him with her body. And now he used that love to make me look like filth. I hugged Mide that evening as she slept, breathing her in like she might disappear. She was still mine, but I no longer felt like her mother. I felt like a prisoner with limited visitation rights. I thought the worst was over. But then I found out what Seyi did next. He leaked the photos to a parenting blog. My face blurred. My body exposed. The caption read: “This woman fought for custody. Would you trust your child with her?” My phone rang nonstop. My job issued a warning. My landlord gave me notice. And somewhere, in a mansion paid for by my pain, my ex smiled—and slept soundly beside a woman he would destroy next. To be continued.:.:

Regina, you’re like a child to me. You grew up in my presence. I remember when you and your mother used to come to my house — small, respectful girl. I watched you grow, and I honestly thought you had sense… that you’d marry someone close to your age. But no, greed carried you far. Private jets, designer bags, flying around the world — all for a lifestyle you could’ve worked for yourself. Instead, you married a man old enough to be your great-grandfather, all because you wanted luxury overnight. My dear, that’s not success. That’s shortcut. You think because you now have some fame and money, you can open your mouth and talk to me anyhow? When I talk, you should be listening. I’m the woman you wish to be — I built myself, no shortcuts, no sugar-coated help. Everything I have today, I earned it with my sweat. Don’t get it twisted — I won’t trade words with you again. I know you just want to trend. You and your husband have been quiet for a while, and this is your way of reminding Nigerians that you still exist. But me? I don't need stunts. My name speaks for itself. And please, don’t mistake marriage for maturity. If you insult me again, I’ll remind you of everything you’ve tried to sweep under the rug. This is your final warning. Don’t cross that line again."- Angela okorie fires back at Regina Daniels after she called her mad. #tinglespicey #mazitundeednut #fyp2025 #nonsmiraj #nollywoodonline #nollywoodcelebrities #PulseViral #nollywood #nollywoodchallenge #viral

SIGNS THAT HE WILL MAKE A GOOD HUSBAND: 1. "HE HAS A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS ADMIRABLE DAD" If his dad is a good husband and father and he looks up to his dad, chances are he will be like his dad 2. "HE SEPARATES HIMSELF FROM BAD EXAMPLES" If his father was absent in his life or his father did things he is ashamed of, he grows up forgiving his dad, respecting his dad but also not wanting to be like his dad 3. "HE MENTORS AND TEACHES MEN YOUNGER THAN HIM" A man who mentors others pushes himself to always be a good example 4. "HE IS NOT SWAYED BY PUBLIC PRESSURE" In marriage, many men mess up their families because of following trends, pressure to please friends or wanting to project a certain image to fit in society 5. "HIS CLOSE MALE FRIENDS ARE OF GOOD REPUTE" Look at the company he keeps close; that will indicate the caliber of man he is 6. "HE TREATS EVERY WOMAN WITH RESPECT" Be suspicious of a man who treats his woman well but treats other women like crap; soon, he will treat his woman like crap 7. "HE IS GOOD WITH CHILDREN EVEN THOSE NOT HIS" How he values and is responsible with other people's children prepares himself to value his own 8. "HE IS PROTECTIVE OF HIS NAME" A man who upholds his name will keep a good character, after all, the wife and children will carry his name 9. "MARRIAGE IS HIS IDEA TOO" Many men are forced into marriage, either because the woman got pregnant or the woman pressured him to propose to her after they dated for so long. Is it his idea to marry you lady, or is it only yours? A man who willfully pursues a woman to marry her and is the one excited about marriage will almost certainly make sure he lives up to being a good husband. Where a man takes himself he performs well and gives his all 10. "HE LIVED AN HONOURABLE LIFE AS A SINGLE MAN" A single man who lives in a manner that shows he is keeping and preparing himself for that one special woman will make a good husband. To him, being a husband is a big deal 11. "HE TREATS THE LADY WELL AS THEY DATE" A man who acts like a faithful husband even before he marries the woman will make a good husband. But if he is insulting her, cheating on her, rejecting her and taking her for granted when they are dating; he will most likely insult her, cheat on her, reject her and take her for granted when married 12. "HE TREATS HIS MOTHER WITH LOVE AND RESPECT” A man who appreciates his mother will appreciate his wife 13. "HE LOVES GOD" Marriage is God's idea. A man who wants to engage in this idea led by the Creator of this idea will strive to please God. The more a man loves God, the more he loves his wife 14. "HE SEES THE WOMAN AS AN EQUAL PARTNER" This kind of man will not dictate or lord over the woman, it will not always be his way, he will consult his wife, learn from her and teach her too 15. "HE IS HER BEST FRIEND" Lady, if he is not only your lover but your best friend too, he will be a best friend till the end.; best friends are real with each other, honest, loyal, fun, thoughtful. Take away the romance and things that lovers do, are you and him best friends? 16. "HE USES HIS PAST TO LEARN" Maybe he messed up in his past relationships, or his past relationships taught him alot. If he paid attention to the lessons learned, he will be a wise husband 17. "HE IS DISCIPLINED" A man who has control over himself will make a good husband. He is not given to addictions. How can a man lead a family, if he cannot lead himself? May such man be your portion. God bless you.

*MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIP TIPS* _SECRET TO A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE_👌🏾 ➡️Wouldn’t you like to know the secret sauce to a happy and long-lasting marriage? ➡️One of the most common questions we hear is, "How do we make our marriage/ Relationship work?" ➡️Marital success is not achieved by luck. A happy married life is an intentional decision. ➡️Your marriage is what you make it to be. The more you invest in a marriage, the more valuable it becomes. 1. *PRAY TOGETHER* The more you pray together the more peaceful you will become as a couple. Nothing is secured outside prayers. To get the best of anything in life, prayer is a necessity. For you to have a joyful and long-lasting marriage, prayer is a must. The couple that prays together stays together. Set aside time each day to pray with your spouse It brings u closer together as you care for each other every day. Perhaps a better time for you as a couple might be just before you go to bed each night. It's impossible to fall asleep angry when you've just held hands together in God's presence. Pray and read the Word of God together with your spouse. Pray for your spouse always. Don't joke with the family altar. A couple that prays together stays together. 2. KEEP LEARNING ABOUT MARRIAGE AND FAMILY LIFE Through the Word of God and other materials from certified Christian Family Counselors. Go for KNOWLEDGE. Marriage works by wisdom Invest in your marriage to become the marriage of your dreams. Invest your money in marriage books and seminars. There are so many powerful marriage books that can add value to your marital destiny. 3. Avoid trying to win every argument. YOUR HOME IS NOT A LAW COURT. You must Choose happiness over being right. Don’t be Defensive. If you discover you are at fault for something, acknowledge it, apologize and work for personal transformation. 4. Build Godly Characters. Your character is your marriage. Your marriage will never fail❤️

The Danger of Comparing Your Marriage to Social Media Social media often gives us a romanticized version of reality. Perfect vacations, surprise proposals, anniversary gifts — it all looks beautiful. But behind every perfect post, there could be hidden struggles, years of hard work, or even turmoil. Comparing your relationship to what you see online can breed discontent. You begin to measure love by what is seen, not what is felt. You forget the private victories you and your partner have overcome. You forget the value of your shared journey. Relationships aren't built in photo filters. They're built in sacrifice, late-night talks, forgiveness, and compromise. When you compare, you diminish the realness of your love and chase a fantasy that doesn't exist. Remember, real love is not always picture-perfect. It’s in the quiet mornings, the inside jokes, the shared responsibilities, and the unwavering support during hard times. Don’t trade authentic connection for staged perfection. Celebrate your story. Be present in your love. Follow Lolly Gold Talkshow for more heartfelt truths, powerful reflections, and real conversations that heal, inspire, and empower. 💛

If You Trust Them Naked, Trust Them With Your Password You share a bed—but hide your phone? Trust and secrets don’t sleep in the same bed. Where there's trust, there are no secrets. Marriage thrives with open phones, not hidden chats. If you’ve got nothing to hide, you’ve got nothing to fear. A locked phone reveals a locked heart. Love flourishes in the light, not in shadows. Love is a full-access pass—not a limited subscription. Passwords may seem small—but hiding them raises suspicion. Trust dies in silence. It grows in openness. A healthy marriage has no “private mode.” Trust isn’t real if your phone is off-limits. Faithfulness isn’t just sexual—it’s digital. Don’t lock out the one you love. Hidden texts and private inboxes weaken your marriage. Secrets have no safe space in marriage. Secrets destroy trust. Hiding your phone is not love—it’s lockdown. Trust isn’t just about vows—it’s being open with each other in every aspect of life. Transparency isn’t weakness—it’s real love in action. Dr. K. N. Jacob