• I Will Lift Up Mine Eyes Unto The Hills, From Whence Cometh My Help. My Help Cometh From The LORD… Psalms 121:1
    I Will Lift Up Mine Eyes Unto The Hills, From Whence Cometh My Help. My Help Cometh From The LORD… Psalms 121:1πŸ™
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  • IF YOU KEEP PICKING WRONG, READ THIS.


    Choosing a partner is one of the most important decisions of your life. But many good women are making bad decisions because something deeper is influencing their choices.

    These are 5 things that can cause you to choose the wrong partner even when you’re praying, fasting, and “doing everything.”

    1. YOUR EMOTIONS

    The moment you feel something strong, you stop seeing clearly. You start making excuses to cover up red flags because you don't want to lose this thing you feel for him.

    If emotions are driving the car, wisdom is probably tied up in the boot. And that is exactly the case for many ladies.

    Your emotions are good and what makes you human but you need to gain mastery over it else it will keep making you choose the wrong partners.

    2. UNMET NEEDS

    Some of the worst relationships you’ll ever enter are the ones you walk into with an empty cup.
    Because when you’re thirsty, even p0ison can look like water.

    When you have unmet needs, your definition and perception of love are altered and you will confuse so many things for love.

    3. YOU’RE STILL IN YOUR FANTASY STAGE

    A lot of women fall in love with the idea of a man, not the reality of who he is. You picture a wedding with him, future kids, matching Ankara, and couple selfies…

    But you never stopped to ask: Is this man truly ready for what I’m praying for? Sometimes, you’re not choosing him - you’re choosing your hope.

    So as long as he matches the idea of the man you fantasize about, you intentionally close your eyes to other important things and hope that helps changes later.

    4. TRAUMA YOU HAVEN’T HEALED FROM

    Unhealed trauma can distort a lot. You’ll think you’re following your heart, and even feel “peace” and use it as a confirmation….

    But it’s your w0unds that are choosing for you because it has seen something “familiar”.

    Your nervous system isn’t looking for love… it’s looking for what it knows. And until you do the healing work, your past will keep hijacking your future.

    5. PRESSURE (FROM SOCIETY, FRIENDS, FAMILY OR EVEN YOURSELF)

    When you’re close to your 30s and people keep asking “when are you getting married?”, it messes with your peace.

    You start feeling like you’re behind. You lower your standards. You rush, settle, and pick out of fear. And the worst part? You start seeing the wrong person as “good enough” After all no one is perfect, right? All because you’re trying to meet a deadline.
    =========

    For how long will you keep allowing your emotions to affect your relationship choices? What unmet need is influencing your choice?

    Is something from the past making you reject what is safe, good, and real? Then making you choose what isn't good for you?

    How about pressure to be married? Are you giving in already?
    IF YOU KEEP PICKING WRONG, READ THIS. Choosing a partner is one of the most important decisions of your life. But many good women are making bad decisions because something deeper is influencing their choices. These are 5 things that can cause you to choose the wrong partner even when you’re praying, fasting, and “doing everything.” πŸ“Œ 1. YOUR EMOTIONS The moment you feel something strong, you stop seeing clearly. You start making excuses to cover up red flags because you don't want to lose this thing you feel for him. If emotions are driving the car, wisdom is probably tied up in the boot. And that is exactly the case for many ladies. Your emotions are good and what makes you human but you need to gain mastery over it else it will keep making you choose the wrong partners. πŸ“Œ 2. UNMET NEEDS Some of the worst relationships you’ll ever enter are the ones you walk into with an empty cup. Because when you’re thirsty, even p0ison can look like water. When you have unmet needs, your definition and perception of love are altered and you will confuse so many things for love. πŸ“Œ 3. YOU’RE STILL IN YOUR FANTASY STAGE A lot of women fall in love with the idea of a man, not the reality of who he is. You picture a wedding with him, future kids, matching Ankara, and couple selfies… But you never stopped to ask: Is this man truly ready for what I’m praying for? Sometimes, you’re not choosing him - you’re choosing your hope. So as long as he matches the idea of the man you fantasize about, you intentionally close your eyes to other important things and hope that helps changes later. πŸ“Œ 4. TRAUMA YOU HAVEN’T HEALED FROM Unhealed trauma can distort a lot. You’ll think you’re following your heart, and even feel “peace” and use it as a confirmation…. But it’s your w0unds that are choosing for you because it has seen something “familiar”. Your nervous system isn’t looking for love… it’s looking for what it knows. And until you do the healing work, your past will keep hijacking your future. πŸ“Œ 5. PRESSURE (FROM SOCIETY, FRIENDS, FAMILY OR EVEN YOURSELF) When you’re close to your 30s and people keep asking “when are you getting married?”, it messes with your peace. You start feeling like you’re behind. You lower your standards. You rush, settle, and pick out of fear. And the worst part? You start seeing the wrong person as “good enough” After all no one is perfect, right? All because you’re trying to meet a deadline. ========= For how long will you keep allowing your emotions to affect your relationship choices? What unmet need is influencing your choice? Is something from the past making you reject what is safe, good, and real? Then making you choose what isn't good for you? How about pressure to be married? Are you giving in already?
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  • “You ever smile so much, people think you’re fine…
    But deep down, you just tired of pretending.”

    Some of us are masters at hiding pain. But silence don’t heal.

    What’s one thing you wish someone noticed about you?
    “You ever smile so much, people think you’re fine… But deep down, you just tired of pretending.” Some of us are masters at hiding pain. But silence don’t heal. πŸ’¬ What’s one thing you wish someone noticed about you?
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    *DEFEATING HOUSEHOLD WICKEDNESS*

    *Job 14:1* makes it very clear to us that this world is a world full of trouble. The second name for this world is trouble.
    Some start their battles from the womb. Some start as young men and women. Some start at middle age. Some start at old age. The majority of these battles are being fuelled by enemies within.
    Job 14:1 (KJV) says, ‘Man that is born of a woman is of few days, and full of trouble.”

    The book of John gives the world another name. It says, “The whole world lieth in wickedness.”

    That is, there is a big bed on which the whole world is lying, which is *wickedness.*
    Wickedness is when you have done nobody harm, offended nobody, yet they are doing you harm. So this Job 14:1 tells us that this is a world of battles.

    In the school of warfare, there are sixty categories of battles that men fight. You may be fighting your battles now; you may have started already, but it is good for you that is here to know that the devils that fought your parents will fight you. You may say, “But I am okay now.” No, they are just waiting for you to grow up so that you can be mature enough for them to fight you. So, everybody has a battle to fight.

    *There is:*

    • a battle called the rage of the wicked. They are raging against you; you do not need to commit any offence.

    • the battle of the crying blood. You shed blood, probably through abortions, and the blood is now crying against you.

    • the pursuing avenger, where you have done something wrong and the enemy is now pursuing you to avenge it.

    • the wicked household.
    • the battle called ‘the affliction of the righteous’, from which the Lord said that He will deliver you out of them all. Not the affliction of the sinner.

    • the battle for destiny. Sometimes, when the destiny of somebody is announced in heaven, the enemy hears it and fights the person because of the destiny.
    • the battle for fulfilment.
    • the battle for relevance.
    • The battle for wholeness (your health). A lot of people are battling this daily.
    • The battle for your staff of bread. The enemy may be attacking your career.
    • the battle for promotion. The enemy does not want you to be elevated. He wants to keep you where you are. Let your amen be sevenfold volcanic.

    There is the battle:
    • to enlarge your coast. For you to expand or enlarge what you are doing is a battle. You started your business from a kiosk or small shop. To now expand it to a bigger shop is a battle.
    • against marriage. There is a great battle going on against marriages now, and I want you to understand this very well.
    A man of God was flying to South Africa. There was a man beside him in the plane who was mumbling words, and it was as if he was praying. For a long time, he kept mumbling those words like a prayer. So the man of God was happy that a prayer warrior was beside him. When he stopped, the man of God said, “Oh, that is nice! I can see that you were praying here.” The man replied, “Yes”. Then the man of God asked, “What were you praying about?” He then replied that he was actually not praying; he was cursing marriages, especially Christian marriages. There is an attack on marriages.
    • that is programmed. It waits for you to get to a level before pulling you down.
    • of the yoke with unbelievers. When you want to bless whom God has cursed, you will have problems.
    • of conspiracy in the heavenlies.
    • of envious enemies. You have not done anything wrong; it is just out of pure envy.
    • of vandalised destiny.
    • called “Jonah syndrome”, which applies to many here. That is, God is giving you an assignment, but you are dodging it. That kind of battle – no deliverance or man of God can help you; you need to repent and do what God wants you to do.
    • against the wasters. They wait for people to gather things and then waste them.
    • against the emptiers. They wait for a person’s cup to be full and then empty it.
    • against anti-prosperity powers. That is, the person can be alive and can be strong but cannot prosper.
    • known as ‘the marine warfare’. As a matter of fact, many people’s benefits are inside the bank in the waters. And this is a very, very serious situation.

    There is the:
    • battle against children.
    • mystery of strongholds.
    • battle of closed doors.
    • near-success syndrome battle.
    • battle called “the embargo”.
    • battle of environmental attacks.
    • battle with the spirit of death and hell. If you come from a family where people are dying very young, this is the problem.
    • battle of Star Hunters.
    • battle of collective captivity.
    • battle of dream criminals.
    • the mystery of seduction.
    • the battle of stagnancy.
    • the battle of loneliness.
    • the battle of territorial bondage.
    • the battle of spiritual load upon the head.
    • the battle of placental bondage.
    • the battle from the palace, for those from royal families.
    • character battle.
    • ‘fighting the devil that fought your parents’ battle.
    • the battle of covenants and curses. Curses have strong power, and this is a very serious matter.
    • battle against the strongman.
    • battle against attacks from the womb.
    • battle of sexual pollution.
    • altar attack, if you worship idols in your family.
    • battle against polygamous witchcraft.
    But then, it is only a counter battle that can deliver from all these.

    *PRAYER POINTS:*

    1. I plug my life into the resurrection power of the blood of Jesus.

    2. Evil bank requesting for my blood; catch fire in the name of Jesus.
    3. Every internal chain in my body, breaks, in the name of Jesus.
    4. Every instrument of poison in my body, get out, in the name of Jesus.
    5. (Pray these three hot times) O God, you are my God: arise, show it, in the name of Jesus.
    Topic: *DEFEATING HOUSEHOLD WICKEDNESS* *Job 14:1* makes it very clear to us that this world is a world full of trouble. The second name for this world is trouble. Some start their battles from the womb. Some start as young men and women. Some start at middle age. Some start at old age. The majority of these battles are being fuelled by enemies within. Job 14:1 (KJV) says, ‘Man that is born of a woman is of few days, and full of trouble.” The book of John gives the world another name. It says, “The whole world lieth in wickedness.” That is, there is a big bed on which the whole world is lying, which is *wickedness.* Wickedness is when you have done nobody harm, offended nobody, yet they are doing you harm. So this Job 14:1 tells us that this is a world of battles. In the school of warfare, there are sixty categories of battles that men fight. You may be fighting your battles now; you may have started already, but it is good for you that is here to know that the devils that fought your parents will fight you. You may say, “But I am okay now.” No, they are just waiting for you to grow up so that you can be mature enough for them to fight you. So, everybody has a battle to fight. *There is:* • a battle called the rage of the wicked. They are raging against you; you do not need to commit any offence. • the battle of the crying blood. You shed blood, probably through abortions, and the blood is now crying against you. • the pursuing avenger, where you have done something wrong and the enemy is now pursuing you to avenge it. • the wicked household. • the battle called ‘the affliction of the righteous’, from which the Lord said that He will deliver you out of them all. Not the affliction of the sinner. • the battle for destiny. Sometimes, when the destiny of somebody is announced in heaven, the enemy hears it and fights the person because of the destiny. • the battle for fulfilment. • the battle for relevance. • The battle for wholeness (your health). A lot of people are battling this daily. • The battle for your staff of bread. The enemy may be attacking your career. • the battle for promotion. The enemy does not want you to be elevated. He wants to keep you where you are. Let your amen be sevenfold volcanic. There is the battle: • to enlarge your coast. For you to expand or enlarge what you are doing is a battle. You started your business from a kiosk or small shop. To now expand it to a bigger shop is a battle. • against marriage. There is a great battle going on against marriages now, and I want you to understand this very well. A man of God was flying to South Africa. There was a man beside him in the plane who was mumbling words, and it was as if he was praying. For a long time, he kept mumbling those words like a prayer. So the man of God was happy that a prayer warrior was beside him. When he stopped, the man of God said, “Oh, that is nice! I can see that you were praying here.” The man replied, “Yes”. Then the man of God asked, “What were you praying about?” He then replied that he was actually not praying; he was cursing marriages, especially Christian marriages. There is an attack on marriages. • that is programmed. It waits for you to get to a level before pulling you down. • of the yoke with unbelievers. When you want to bless whom God has cursed, you will have problems. • of conspiracy in the heavenlies. • of envious enemies. You have not done anything wrong; it is just out of pure envy. • of vandalised destiny. • called “Jonah syndrome”, which applies to many here. That is, God is giving you an assignment, but you are dodging it. That kind of battle – no deliverance or man of God can help you; you need to repent and do what God wants you to do. • against the wasters. They wait for people to gather things and then waste them. • against the emptiers. They wait for a person’s cup to be full and then empty it. • against anti-prosperity powers. That is, the person can be alive and can be strong but cannot prosper. • known as ‘the marine warfare’. As a matter of fact, many people’s benefits are inside the bank in the waters. And this is a very, very serious situation. There is the: • battle against children. • mystery of strongholds. • battle of closed doors. • near-success syndrome battle. • battle called “the embargo”. • battle of environmental attacks. • battle with the spirit of death and hell. If you come from a family where people are dying very young, this is the problem. • battle of Star Hunters. • battle of collective captivity. • battle of dream criminals. • the mystery of seduction. • the battle of stagnancy. • the battle of loneliness. • the battle of territorial bondage. • the battle of spiritual load upon the head. • the battle of placental bondage. • the battle from the palace, for those from royal families. • character battle. • ‘fighting the devil that fought your parents’ battle. • the battle of covenants and curses. Curses have strong power, and this is a very serious matter. • battle against the strongman. • battle against attacks from the womb. • battle of sexual pollution. • altar attack, if you worship idols in your family. • battle against polygamous witchcraft. But then, it is only a counter battle that can deliver from all these. *PRAYER POINTS:* 1. I plug my life into the resurrection power of the blood of Jesus. 2. Evil bank requesting for my blood; catch fire in the name of Jesus. 3. Every internal chain in my body, breaks, in the name of Jesus. 4. Every instrument of poison in my body, get out, in the name of Jesus. 5. (Pray these three hot times) O God, you are my God: arise, show it, in the name of Jesus.
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  • "NO VICTOR, NO VANQUISHED”? NO, SIR. JUST THE BLOOD OF THE INNOCENT
    A Truthful Dissection of Gen. Gowon’s Crocodile Tears

    ✍Ugochimereze Chinedu Asuzu

    "I always remember the Civil War. It was the most difficult period of my life. It was not my choice…” So says General Yakubu Gowon: decades after the fact, as if the burden of memory alone could exonerate a man from the burden of responsibility.

    But memory, stripped of remorse, becomes theatre. And this latest performance by the old General, wrapped in prayerful tones and wistful platitudes, is exactly that a theatre of moral evasion. What was presented as reflection was in fact deflection. A man who presided over the darkest chapter in Nigeria’s history now seeks to launder his conscience with the sponge of spirituality, mouthing prayers as if that were enough to bury three million truths beneath the soil of forgetfulness.

    No, sir. You did not pray. You played. You played politics with people’s lives. You played Russian roulette with the destiny of a region. You played central command while entire communities burned. You stood at the gates of peace and walked away. The blood did not flow because you had no choice, it flowed because you made a choice. And the choice was war.

    You stood beside Odumegwu Ojukwu at Aburi in Ghana. There, both of you spoke, agreed, shook hands and made a pact. You returned to Lagos to a hero’s welcome, but before the ink of trust could dry, you tore it apart. You listened to federal hawks, buried Aburi under the rubble of Decree No. 8, and turned your face from peace. You betrayed a solemn covenant for the sake of power. That betrayal, not the first shot fired, is where the war truly began.

    The records are stubborn. They do not bend to nostalgia. They remind us that before a single Biafran soldier took up arms, thousands of Igbos had been hacked down in the North. Pregnant women butchered. Children beheaded. Men dismembered in full daylight. Railway stations were turned into morgues. Churches, into chambers of death. Kaduna. Kano. Jos. The North descended into madness, and the East was served grief on a plate of silence.

    You, sir, presided over that silence. You were Commander-in-Chief, not a curious passerby. You issued words but withheld justice. You gave speeches, but not shelter. You watched a people bleed and called it unfortunate. And now, years later, you whisper: "It was never out of hatred." But hatred needs no introduction when its fruit is genocide.

    And then came your famous phrase, carved into Nigeria’s post-war psyche: “No victor, no vanquished.” It sounded noble. It rang loud. But it rang false. Because the war ended, yes, but justice never began. Biafrans were not vanquished by force alone, they were buried beneath the rubble of reconstruction. Their economy was stripped. Their currency devalued. Their children starved. Their land mined and their dignity mocked. What you called reintegration, we lived as retribution. What you labeled reconciliation, we endured as marginalisation. The victor danced in national attire. The vanquished crawled through national amnesia.

    Sir, you had the chance to become a Mandela long before South Africa birthed one. You had the moment. The world watched. The African continent stood still. But you chose empire over empathy. You chose command over compassion. You chose to keep Nigeria one by breaking a people in half. And now, the same mouth that sanctioned the guns says, "I prayed to God." Perhaps you did. But God is not mocked by crocodile tears. Not when the skulls of infants still haunt the red soil of Nsukka, Aba, Umuahia, and Onitsha.

    Prayer is not repentance. Repentance begins with truth. And the truth is that you, along with others, enabled a war that was avoidable. You squandered the peace we almost had at Aburi. You enabled pogroms with your silence. You denied justice its wings and handed the world a bullet instead. And when it was all done, you wrapped the pain in poetry and hoped the music would make us forget.

    But we remember. Not because we hate. But because we bleed.

    This is not a call to bitterness. It is a call to honesty. To name what happened. To look the children of Biafra in the eye and say: Yes, you were wronged. Yes, we failed you. Yes, the war was avoidable. And no, it should never have happened.

    Until then, sir, do not cloak yourself in prayer while justice lies unclothed. Do not speak of love when you could not uphold truth. Do not say “it was not my choice” when history has proven otherwise. And above all, do not try to rewrite what we lived.

    You may now carry the Bible in one hand. But the other hand still drips with memories. Your legacy may wear the robe of elder statesmanship. But it remains stained by silence, by betrayal, and by the bones of those who trusted your word at Aburi.

    So here, General Gowon, is what history truly says:
    You may cry now, but the tears do not wash the blood away.
    You may kneel today, but that does not undo the horror of yesterday.
    You may pray, but the ghosts still answer with questions.
    And until Nigeria confronts its past with courage, it will never know peace that lasts.

    We forgive. But we do not forget. We move on. But we do not move blind.

    Because truth, bitter as it may be - is still better than convenient lies.

    ✍Ugochimereze Chinedu Asuzu
    Social Cum Political Analysis|Tuesday, June 10, 2025
    "NO VICTOR, NO VANQUISHED”? NO, SIR. JUST THE BLOOD OF THE INNOCENT A Truthful Dissection of Gen. Gowon’s Crocodile Tears ✍Ugochimereze Chinedu Asuzu "I always remember the Civil War. It was the most difficult period of my life. It was not my choice…” So says General Yakubu Gowon: decades after the fact, as if the burden of memory alone could exonerate a man from the burden of responsibility. But memory, stripped of remorse, becomes theatre. And this latest performance by the old General, wrapped in prayerful tones and wistful platitudes, is exactly that a theatre of moral evasion. What was presented as reflection was in fact deflection. A man who presided over the darkest chapter in Nigeria’s history now seeks to launder his conscience with the sponge of spirituality, mouthing prayers as if that were enough to bury three million truths beneath the soil of forgetfulness. No, sir. You did not pray. You played. You played politics with people’s lives. You played Russian roulette with the destiny of a region. You played central command while entire communities burned. You stood at the gates of peace and walked away. The blood did not flow because you had no choice, it flowed because you made a choice. And the choice was war. You stood beside Odumegwu Ojukwu at Aburi in Ghana. There, both of you spoke, agreed, shook hands and made a pact. You returned to Lagos to a hero’s welcome, but before the ink of trust could dry, you tore it apart. You listened to federal hawks, buried Aburi under the rubble of Decree No. 8, and turned your face from peace. You betrayed a solemn covenant for the sake of power. That betrayal, not the first shot fired, is where the war truly began. The records are stubborn. They do not bend to nostalgia. They remind us that before a single Biafran soldier took up arms, thousands of Igbos had been hacked down in the North. Pregnant women butchered. Children beheaded. Men dismembered in full daylight. Railway stations were turned into morgues. Churches, into chambers of death. Kaduna. Kano. Jos. The North descended into madness, and the East was served grief on a plate of silence. You, sir, presided over that silence. You were Commander-in-Chief, not a curious passerby. You issued words but withheld justice. You gave speeches, but not shelter. You watched a people bleed and called it unfortunate. And now, years later, you whisper: "It was never out of hatred." But hatred needs no introduction when its fruit is genocide. And then came your famous phrase, carved into Nigeria’s post-war psyche: “No victor, no vanquished.” It sounded noble. It rang loud. But it rang false. Because the war ended, yes, but justice never began. Biafrans were not vanquished by force alone, they were buried beneath the rubble of reconstruction. Their economy was stripped. Their currency devalued. Their children starved. Their land mined and their dignity mocked. What you called reintegration, we lived as retribution. What you labeled reconciliation, we endured as marginalisation. The victor danced in national attire. The vanquished crawled through national amnesia. Sir, you had the chance to become a Mandela long before South Africa birthed one. You had the moment. The world watched. The African continent stood still. But you chose empire over empathy. You chose command over compassion. You chose to keep Nigeria one by breaking a people in half. And now, the same mouth that sanctioned the guns says, "I prayed to God." Perhaps you did. But God is not mocked by crocodile tears. Not when the skulls of infants still haunt the red soil of Nsukka, Aba, Umuahia, and Onitsha. Prayer is not repentance. Repentance begins with truth. And the truth is that you, along with others, enabled a war that was avoidable. You squandered the peace we almost had at Aburi. You enabled pogroms with your silence. You denied justice its wings and handed the world a bullet instead. And when it was all done, you wrapped the pain in poetry and hoped the music would make us forget. But we remember. Not because we hate. But because we bleed. This is not a call to bitterness. It is a call to honesty. To name what happened. To look the children of Biafra in the eye and say: Yes, you were wronged. Yes, we failed you. Yes, the war was avoidable. And no, it should never have happened. Until then, sir, do not cloak yourself in prayer while justice lies unclothed. Do not speak of love when you could not uphold truth. Do not say “it was not my choice” when history has proven otherwise. And above all, do not try to rewrite what we lived. You may now carry the Bible in one hand. But the other hand still drips with memories. Your legacy may wear the robe of elder statesmanship. But it remains stained by silence, by betrayal, and by the bones of those who trusted your word at Aburi. So here, General Gowon, is what history truly says: You may cry now, but the tears do not wash the blood away. You may kneel today, but that does not undo the horror of yesterday. You may pray, but the ghosts still answer with questions. And until Nigeria confronts its past with courage, it will never know peace that lasts. We forgive. But we do not forget. We move on. But we do not move blind. Because truth, bitter as it may be - is still better than convenient lies. ✍Ugochimereze Chinedu Asuzu Social Cum Political Analysis|Tuesday, June 10, 2025
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  • No time for Cho Cho Cho… show working,
    Act accordingly
    No time for Cho Cho Cho… show working, Act accordingly😏
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  • EZEGO OF IHIALA…..KING OF MONEY.

    In the 1990s, few names rang out in Nigeria’s pop culture like Ezego—the self-styled “King of Money.” Born Victor Nnamdi Okafor in 1964 in Ihiala, Anambra State, Nigeria

    Ezego rose from a troubled youth to become one of the most flamboyant millionaires of his time.

    Based in Lagos, he ran the Ezego Shopping Complex, which dealt in electronics and luxury items. His fleet of cars—Limousines, Mercedes Benzes, and Rolls-Royces—lined the streets of Allen Avenue. He was barely in his 30s but lived like a mogul twice his age. Tales of his wealth and generosity spread fast, making him a legend among the youth and a mystery to many.

    But Ezego’s rise was as swift as his fall. On 25 December 1999, while driving one of his expensive cars from Lagos to his hometown for Christmas, he lost control of the vehicle near Asaba. He died from injuries later that day.

    He was just 35.

    His sudden death sparked widespread speculation—some called it karma, others whispered of spiritual retribution. Whatever the truth, Ezego’s life became a cautionary tale of wealth, pride, and mortality.

    In the end, the King of Money left behind riches, controversy, and an enduring question: what really lies beneath the shine of sudden wealth?

    Credit: Bygones Narratives.

    #Ezego #KingOfMoney #everyoneactive #ihiala #africanstorytelling
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    Let’s be honest.

    Dating today isn’t about love.
    It’s about leverage.
    It’s about “who has more options?”
    It’s about “who needs who less?”
    It’s about “who can hurt who and still walk away like a boss?”

    We’ve entered an era where:

    * Vulnerability = weakness.
    * Effort = desperation.
    * Commitment = stupidity.

    Men are not dating with their hearts anymore.
    They’re dating with survival in mind.

    Because they’ve seen:

    The man who loved deeply… got cheated on.
    The man who provided endlessly… got replaced quickly.
    The man who stayed loyal… ended up forgotten.

    So now?
    Men are cold.
    Women are calculative.
    Everyone is scared.

    We’re chasing “talking stages” and “vibes”, not soul ties.
    We sleep with each other before we ever speak our fears.
    We call “healthy love” boring and “toxic love” exciting.

    It’s sickening!

    Men are now afraid to love — not because they don’t want to —
    but because the price of being a lover in this generation is too damn high.

    They don’t want to be used.
    They don’t want to be laughed at in group chats.
    They don’t want to build with someone who’s secretly looking for someone else.

    So they choose silence over softness.
    Detachment over devotion.
    Sex over soul.

    And it’s killing connection.

    Let’s be honest again:

    * Many men are in relationships where they can’t be soft or safe.
    * Many women are dating men they don’t even like — they just like what he brings.
    * And many people are trying to heal from love… while still in love.

    Modern love is no longer love.
    It’s marketing.
    It’s manipulation.
    It’s war disguised as romance.

    We have trust issues from people who said “I love you.”
    We have broken hearts in healed bodies.
    We have relationships with no friendship, no direction, and no damn peace.

    No one’s fighting for love.
    Everyone’s protecting their ego.

    And until we heal our fears and re-learn love —
    we’ll keep dating with masks…
    and crying behind closed doors.


    MOST MODERN LOVE ISN’T BUILT ON LOVE ANYMORE Let’s be honest. Dating today isn’t about love. It’s about leverage. It’s about “who has more options?” It’s about “who needs who less?” It’s about “who can hurt who and still walk away like a boss?” We’ve entered an era where: * Vulnerability = weakness. * Effort = desperation. * Commitment = stupidity. Men are not dating with their hearts anymore. They’re dating with survival in mind. Because they’ve seen: πŸ’” The man who loved deeply… got cheated on. πŸ’” The man who provided endlessly… got replaced quickly. πŸ’” The man who stayed loyal… ended up forgotten. So now? Men are cold. Women are calculative. Everyone is scared. We’re chasing “talking stages” and “vibes”, not soul ties. We sleep with each other before we ever speak our fears. We call “healthy love” boring and “toxic love” exciting. It’s sickening! Men are now afraid to love — not because they don’t want to — but because the price of being a lover in this generation is too damn high. They don’t want to be used. They don’t want to be laughed at in group chats. They don’t want to build with someone who’s secretly looking for someone else. So they choose silence over softness. Detachment over devotion. Sex over soul. And it’s killing connection. Let’s be honest again: * Many men are in relationships where they can’t be soft or safe. * Many women are dating men they don’t even like — they just like what he brings. * And many people are trying to heal from love… while still in love. Modern love is no longer love. It’s marketing. It’s manipulation. It’s war disguised as romance. πŸ’” We have trust issues from people who said “I love you.” πŸ’” We have broken hearts in healed bodies. πŸ’” We have relationships with no friendship, no direction, and no damn peace. No one’s fighting for love. Everyone’s protecting their ego. And until we heal our fears and re-learn love — we’ll keep dating with masks… and crying behind closed doors.
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  • It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles. Then the victory is yours. It cannot be taken from you, not by angels or by demons, heaven or hell.
    It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles. Then the victory is yours. It cannot be taken from you, not by angels or by demons, heaven or hell.
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  • 🧘🏽 67. The journey to God is peaceful — do not run away.
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