BIG SECRETS IN MARRIAGE!

Secret 1
Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.

Secret 2
Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

Secret 3
Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

Secret 4
Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

Secret 5
To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:
Ignorance
Prayerlessness
Unforgiveness
Third party influence
Stinginess
Stubbornness
Lack of love
Rudeness
Laziness
Disrespect
Cheating
Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

Secret 6
There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages.

Secret 7
God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials.

Trent: “Liverpool helped me achieve all my dreams. I’ll forever be in debt.”

“I spent 20 years there and enjoyed every minute. I just thought it was the right time to move”. @FabrizioRomano

THE MOST EXPENSIVE BURDEN A MAN CAN CARRY: A BROKE WOMAN

Let’s settle this like men.

1️⃣ A broke woman is not a partner — she’s a financial liability.
The only thing she consistently brings to the table is sex. And truth is — you can get that cheaper, with zero emotional chaos, from a street corner than the toxic, expensive ride you're on now.

2️⃣ If her only source of income is her private parts and your wallet — you’re not a boyfriend, you’re a business plan.
While you’re catching feelings and breaking your back to keep her afloat, she’s running a quiet hustle where YOU are the product.

3️⃣ Remove your money and watch the 'love' vanish.
Stop funding her hair, nails, rent, data, and see how fast those midnight “I miss you” texts disappear. That ‘love’ was a lease — and payment just expired.

4️⃣ A woman who can’t fund her own survival is an irresponsible adult, not a partner.
If she can’t handle her rent, bills, or upkeep — what makes you think she can build a future with you? She’s searching for a sponsor, not a soulmate.

5️⃣ Love without financial independence is modern slavery.
You’ll stay trapped in a toxic cycle of guilt-tripping, fake affection, and sex used as a bargaining chip. Every argument will end with “you don’t care” just because you won’t finance nonsense.

6️⃣ Stop feeling guilty for refusing to carry dead weight.
You’re not a charity organization. You’re a man with a destiny, a purpose, and standards. A broke, entitled woman will drag you into financial ruin while smiling in selfies.

7️⃣ The fastest way to know a woman’s true intentions? Cut off the money.
No dates. No transfers. No surprise airtime. Watch how she moves when you’re ‘financially unavailable.’ 9 out of 10 will ghost.

8️⃣ Men don’t go broke chasing dreams — they go broke chasing broke women.
You’ll wreck your savings, lose your focus, and mortgage your future trying to maintain a woman who contributes nothing but attitude and entitlement.

9️⃣ The right woman multiplies your peace, your money, and your mission.
The wrong one multiplies your debts, your drama, and your regrets. Choose wisely.

Don’t confuse sex for value.
Millions of women can spread their legs. Few can build legacies. Discipline yourself to know the damn difference.

FINAL WARNING
Brother — your time, energy, and money are weapons.
Spend them like a king.
A broke woman will drain your pockets, delay your destiny, and derail your progress.

If she can’t solve her own problems, she’s got no business being in your life.
Clear your circle. Guard your crown. Build your empire.

Stop sponsoring liabilities.
Start building legacies.

➥𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐤𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐦𝐰𝐞𝐲𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐌𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐢 𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐳𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐨❤‍🩹

*Think deeply about this Post:*

*(1) you can only go to work when you are healthy*

*(2) You can only make money when you are healthy*

*(3) You will only think of how to raise the family when you are healthy*

*(4) You can achieve your dreams only when you are healthy*

*(5) You can only sleep/ live in that beautiful mansion in peace when you are healthy*

*No one can price how much is good health*

*```Health is wealth; think, and be wise, take good care of yourself*

THE MOST EXPENSIVE BURDEN A MAN CAN CARRY: A BROKE WOMAN

Let’s settle this like men.

1️⃣ A broke woman is not a partner — she’s a financial liability.
The only thing she consistently brings to the table is sex. And truth is — you can get that cheaper, with zero emotional chaos, from a street corner than the toxic, expensive ride you're on now.

2️⃣ If her only source of income is her private parts and your wallet — you’re not a boyfriend, you’re a business plan.
While you’re catching feelings and breaking your back to keep her afloat, she’s running a quiet hustle where YOU are the product.

3️⃣ Remove your money and watch the 'love' vanish.
Stop funding her hair, nails, rent, data, and see how fast those midnight “I miss you” texts disappear. That ‘love’ was a lease — and payment just expired.

4️⃣ A woman who can’t fund her own survival is an irresponsible adult, not a partner.
If she can’t handle her rent, bills, or upkeep — what makes you think she can build a future with you? She’s searching for a sponsor, not a soulmate.

5️⃣ Love without financial independence is modern slavery.
You’ll stay trapped in a toxic cycle of guilt-tripping, fake affection, and sex used as a bargaining chip. Every argument will end with “you don’t care” just because you won’t finance nonsense.

6️⃣ Stop feeling guilty for refusing to carry dead weight.
You’re not a charity organization. You’re a man with a destiny, a purpose, and standards. A broke, entitled woman will drag you into financial ruin while smiling in selfies.

7️⃣ The fastest way to know a woman’s true intentions? Cut off the money.
No dates. No transfers. No surprise airtime. Watch how she moves when you’re ‘financially unavailable.’ 9 out of 10 will ghost.

8️⃣ Men don’t go broke chasing dreams — they go broke chasing broke women.
You’ll wreck your savings, lose your focus, and mortgage your future trying to maintain a woman who contributes nothing but attitude and entitlement.

9️⃣ The right woman multiplies your peace, your money, and your mission.
The wrong one multiplies your debts, your drama, and your regrets. Choose wisely.

Don’t confuse sex for value.
Millions of women can spread their legs. Few can build legacies. Discipline yourself to know the damn difference.

FINAL WARNING
Brother — your time, energy, and money are weapons.
Spend them like a king.
A broke woman will drain your pockets, delay your destiny, and derail your progress.

If she can’t solve her own problems, she’s got no business being in your life.
Clear your circle. Guard your crown. Build your empire.

Stop sponsoring liabilities.
Start building legacies.

How to Show Love Without Words

Actions Speak Louder Than Words

Love is a language that goes beyond words. While verbal expressions are important, the most profound ways of showing love often lie in our actions. Sometimes, your gestures, attention, and thoughtfulness can speak volumes about your feelings, building a deeper connection with your partner. Here’s how you can express love without saying a single word.

1. Be Present and Attentive

One of the greatest gifts you can give your partner is your undivided attention. In a world filled with distractions, being present in the moment is a powerful act of love. Put down your phone, look into their eyes, and truly listen. When you show that you value their thoughts and emotions, it communicates care and respect more effectively than words ever could.

2. Perform Small Acts of Kindness

It’s the little things that count. Bringing them their favourite coffee, cooking a meal, or simply doing a chore they dislike can brighten their day. These acts of kindness show that you pay attention to their needs and want to make their life easier.

3. Physical Touch

Non-verbal communication through physical touch is a cornerstone of expressing love. A warm hug, holding hands, or a gentle pat on the back can convey comfort, security, and affection. These simple gestures remind your partner that you are there for them, offering support and love.

4. Quality Time

Spending quality time together strengthens the bond between you and your partner. Plan activities they enjoy, go for a walk or watch a movie together. By dedicating time to shared experiences, you show that their presence is a priority in your life.

5. Thoughtful Surprises

Surprises, big or small, are wonderful ways to express love. It could be as simple as leaving a handwritten note or as elaborate as planning a surprise date. These thoughtful gestures show that you’ve been thinking about them and want to make them feel special.

6. Body Language

Your body language speaks volumes. A loving glance, a soft smile, or even sitting close during a quiet moment can express feelings of love and comfort. Non-verbal cues are subtle but powerful ways to show how much you care.

7. Support Their Dreams

Encourage your partner’s passions and goals. Being their cheerleader and offering your support, whether it’s attending their events, helping them prepare, or simply showing interest, is a profound way to demonstrate your love. Your belief in their abilities can inspire confidence and strengthen your connection.

8. Be Thoughtful and Observant

Noticing the little things about your partner shows how much you care. Remember their preferences, pay attention to their mood, and anticipate their needs. For example, offering comfort when they’re stressed or celebrating their small achievements shows that you’re attuned to their life.

9. Acts of Service

Actions often speak louder than words, especially when it comes to love. Help them with a task, run an errand, or fix something around the house. These acts of service show your partner that you’re willing to put in the effort to make their life easier and happier.

10. Respect Their Space

Sometimes, love means giving space. Respect their boundaries and allow them time to recharge when needed. This shows that you value their individuality and understand their need for balance in the relationship.

11. Express Gratitude

Showing appreciation is a beautiful way to convey love. A genuine smile, a nod of acknowledgment, or a small token of gratitude can mean the world to your partner. Gratitude fosters positivity and strengthens emotional intimacy.

12. Be Consistent

Love is not just about grand gestures but also about consistent efforts. Small, daily acts of love build a foundation of trust and affection. Whether it’s making them a morning coffee or simply being there when they need you, consistency reassures your partner of your unwavering love.

Final Thoughts

Love is an art that doesn’t always require words. Through actions, attentiveness, and thoughtfulness, you can create a relationship that thrives on mutual respect and understanding.

At the end of the day, love is about making your partner feel cherished, secure, and valued. Speak through your actions, and you’ll discover that the language of love is truly universal.

Whenever I wake up in the morning
I thank God for my life

*Good Morning Prayer🙏🏽*
Please father , let me make it in life
Let me get money to feed my family
Help me feed the street
Put my enemies to shame
Let all those who said I can't make it today see me tomorrow and wonder how far you have brought me
I know am not born to be poor but born to be rich🤹🏻‍♂️
Let my dreams come true

*Amen🙏🏽*

*React & share kana uri mupenyu*

LADIES, CHERISH THIS KIND OF MAN:

1. Cherish the man who loves his mum. He has been brought up well.

2. Cherish the man who loves you deeply.

3. Cherish the man who is funny. You will never be bored.

4. Cherish the man who treats strangers and the less privileged with dignity. He has a kind heart.

5. Cherish the man who listens. You will be understood.

6. Cherish the man whose idea of fun is constructive, not endless drinking and clubbing. He is mature.

7. Cherish the man who is a family man ready for the responsibility and clear about what he wants with you. Your time will not be wasted.

8. Cherish the man who respects his father no matter how his dad is. He has learned true manhood.

9. Cherish the man who doesn't insult his ex or your ex even if the breakup was messy. He is someone who enters into love for the right reasons.

10. Cherish the man who needs you. He will hold on to you.

11. Cherish the man who lets you love him, who lets you see the nakedness of his weaknesses and strengths. He trusts you.

12. Cherish the man who accepts correction and changes his ways if he offends you. He will make himself better to love you.

13. Cherish the man who prays for you. He knows you are a gift from God.

14. Cherish the man who treats other women with respect. He will show you even more respect.

15. Cherish the man who loves the children you and also is a father figure to those not his. That man will have an honorable legacy.

16. Cherish the man with a vision. He will challenge and build you, he knows where he is going.

17. Cherish the man who has a good set of friends. You can tell the character of a man by the friends he keeps.

18. Cherish the man who values intimacy above sex. He will be faithful to you.

19. Cherish the man who is interested in your dreams. He cares about your future.

20. Cherish the man who respects your decisions and doesn't rush you. He sees you as a life partner, not someone to dominate.

21. Cherish the man who corrects you when you are wrong and inspires and pushes you to do better. He sees your potential and will not rest until your potential is lived out. That man is a keeper.

22. Cherish the man who has been consistent in his focus. You can depend on him.

23. Cherish the man who works hard, is self-motivated, and is diligent even when he has little. That man is going places and one day he will make you proud

24. Cherish the man who is not intimidated by other men when they notice your beauty. He is a secure man

➥𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐤𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐦𝐰𝐞𝐲𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐌𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐢 𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐳𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐨❤‍🩹

Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself. And that no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dreams, because every second of the search is a second's encounter with God and with eternity.