TYPES OF WOMEN.

By Mr VIDAMBU Sam.

So many men see a Lady, like her, love and want to marry her without trying to find out what type of Lady she is and if she's the type they want to go down the high with. Beauty doesn't make a Lady, personality does and Ladies have so amazing personalities if only you can get to understand your Lady and she's the perfect match for your person, not a perfect Lady. There is no perfect human being.

There are different types of Ladies out there. We encounter them every day but pay little or no attention to their persons because we get carried away with their beauty, shapes, accents and worth. Sir, stop being distracted, stay focused.

In this article, I'm going to share with us, the types of women we encounter now and then so that we can have a better understanding of whom we are dealing with at the time.

Please, note that the level of religion your Lady operates in doesn't change or affect her personality. Men change spiritually, women don't because they are spiritually made and can operate simultaneously both spiritually and physically unlike men who are physically made.

1.FAMILY LADY.
This kind of woman is very emotional. She is very attached to every member of her family. You will come to identify her if she keeps on telling you about her cousins or relatives people you never met; on your date nights. They take a firm stand on political and equality issues. Pick your discussion topics very wisely.

2.MOMMY LADY.
You will not recognize her instantly. This kind of woman possesses motherly instincts that come out during the delicate or sensitive stages of your life. They are genuinely caring in nature. If you miss texting or calling her after reaching home, expect a minimum of Ten missed calls waiting for you. If you get a minor paper cut, she’ll appear with substantial first aid. A sneeze can end up with a thermometer in your mouth and at least three days of rest!

3.HUSTLER.
This kind of woman is very hard-working by nature. Her priority will always be her dreams. Don’t misjudge/doubt or condemn her if she cancels the date for any assignment/work. You may raise your expectations, but in reality, be mentally prepared to support her career decisions. You may wish to help her in any way possible, but this kind of woman prefers playing their game independently.

4.GOSSIP LADY.
This type of lady is Google in human skin. They usually have a record of everyone and everything including you. You may find it difficult at times when you want to have some deep, meaningful conversation, but on days when you want something to cheer up your mood, her enthusiastic voice would be enough.

5.THE LISTENER.
This is the favourite type for the majority of men in the world. She’ll always be there to listen to you without any judgment or interruption. She is the silent observer kind. These kinds of women are introverts or ambiverts. She takes her own time to open up to you. Once found, she’ll be your first go-to person whenever you are feeling low and just need someone to listen to you.

6.SUPER LADY.
These women are an upgraded version of the hustler types. They do work hard and no matter what they are going through physically, emotionally, mentally or financially they will never let you know. They are emotionally convincing. They hardly lose their calm during the emergency. They are experts in multi-tasking and hiding their emotions. If you have found someone of this kind, then you need to be very careful about your actions because no matter how strong they are, they also need someone to look after them.

7.Ms PERFECTIONIST.
A woman with all positive habits. Disciplined life, clean home, hygienic environment, healthy eating habits and, focused on goals. You are making the wrong choice if you are exactly opposite to her. Compatibility is going to be a significant issue. But if you are looking to improve your current lifestyle, then this kind of woman is your best choice.

8.PANDA LADY.
She is a cute, lazy, sloth bear who can be your great partner in crime to hang out with. Your weekends will never be the same after you have found her. Get ready for disappeared hoodies, unlimited pizza deliveries, and binge-watching during the weekends. If you are too lucky, then she will also be your video game and watching a football match partner.

9.BOSS LADY.
The dominating ones. The Ms. Always Right. If you are in a relationship with her, be ready to change your schedules, according to her. And of course! Never dare to end up with any kind of disagreement with her. However, if you are someone who has lost track in life, nobody is better than her to help you get back to find yourself. She may appear like the most aggressive one but stick to her till the end, and you may discover amazing facts about her that nobody else knows.

10. DRAMA QUEEN.
This type of lady is the one who will exaggerate the given situation. Be sure that you won’t be allowed to spend much of your time with friends or relatives. Forget about talking to other girls. Most of your time is spent in shopping malls or wiping her tears. No matter how much possessive she is for you, this action will make you adore her even more.

11. PARTY LADY.
This is the type of woman who can make you feel insecure if your personality is not understanding types, then she is the one. She spends most of her weekends at the disco parties. She’s the kind who will make time for you according to her mood. Be prepared for cancelled date nights. You can try to get involved in her inner circle of friends, which may take time, and you may not feel comfortable too. Anyways, stay safe.

12. FAIRYTALE LADY.
This is a Daydreamer Queen. For her, logical thinking is of the least priority. She’s the emotional kind who breaks down quickly. If she says Unicorns exist, just say yes. She still has a touch of innocence in her nature. Be there to take care of her, and she’ll treat you the same.

13.DIFFICULT LADY.
These women are ambitious and bold, adventurous and emotional, brainy and defiant, incorrigible and outlandish, determined and badass. They are about pleasing themselves as much as those around them. They don't say yes simply because it is expected of them.

14.STRONG MINDED LADY.
This is a courageous Lady, one who doesn't depend on anyone else. She knows who she is. She build herself and builds others up. She doesn't see showing emotion as a weakness. She follows her intuition and doesn't overthink everything. She is truly happy and knows what it takes to make her own happiness.

15.ELEGANT LADY.
This lady displays self-respect, class, appreciation, and etiquette. She does not allow her mood to affect her manners. She is wise to know that being an elegant lady doesn’t mean that one should be snobby or stuck up, but that one should have dignity, consideration, and moderation in one's daily actions.

No matter which kind of woman you may come across, just respect the way they are, and you will get the same treatment. And make sure, whoever you end up with, you won’t force her to change her current self.

Changing a Lady is indirectly creating a monster. You will not like the result. Your best bet is to leave her to herself. Accept her for who she is and find a means to manage her person. That is the only way you can have the best of her.

Marrying a good mother to your kids is better than marrying a good wife for yourself.

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You Are Blessed.

WHY MEN ARE CALLED "GROOM”, AND THE WOMAN “THE BRIDE” ON WEDDING DAY?

Why is the newly wedded man called GROOM and the woman called BRIDE? A friend of mine got tired of his WIFE just about six months after wedding. He complained bitterly to me about her and told me that he has concluded to break up with her; he went on to say that he was sure that he made a mistake. I did not respond immediately because I knew I must tell him the right thing, so I went home. And that is what birth this message.

Many MEN have broken up with their WIVES because they end up not being the WIFE that they have dreamt of. But they have forgotten that on their wedding day was when the man was commissioned for the new task.

Nobody calls the woman WIFE on her wedding day but BRIDE, because it is the man that will GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. That is why the man is called ‘BRIDEGROOM or GROOM’ and the word grooming has to do with PATIENTLY NURTURING, TEACHING, TENDING and HELPING someone to become what he or she should be.

It is therefore believed that a MAN that takes a WOMAN to the ALTAR of MARRIAGE is matured enough to patiently GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. The man is not supposed to just expect the BRIDE to automatically become the WIFE, she must be groomed.

It is clear that many men have unnecessary expectations when they were getting married, they want some magic to happen to their wives, they want them to become what they have had in mind about who they want their wives to be; not considering the fact that the woman does not know what is on your mind except you teach her.

Our expectations are often too unrealistic, because we don’t remember that change takes TIME and we can only expect something from someone that knows what we want.

So before you think of breaking up, have you groomed her? Have you given her TIME to understand you? Hope you realize that a turtle will never become a hawk? God often brings People that are opposites of each other together in MARRIAGE so that they can HELP EACH OTHER in their place of weaknesses. If your WIFE is weak where you are weak, then where will you get the strength that is needed? The problem with many of us is that we don’t accept People before attempting to change them. Of course, your wives are not from your backgrounds, so it will take TIME for them to adjust. Stop trying to change her, ACCEPT her, LOVE her, TEACH her and be PATIENT with her; that is what grooming is all about. She is going to be your WIFE but she is your BRIDE now, so GROOM her. Stop complaining about her, she may be a turtle and you a hawk, she cannot fly so be PATIENT with her. I don’t believe that your MARRIAGE can’t work, be PATIENT and allow GOD to HELP you.

May Almighty God continue to be with us, guide and protect us in all our affairs Amen!!! Wishing you the best Marital Life ever to all single Ladies,Bros and Married ones here.

You will have the marriage of your dreams. A marriage made in heaven.

Listen up, Men!

This might sting, but it’s the truth.

A lot of people have stories—stories of struggle, pain, rejection, hard work, dreams, and even failures. But here's the hard part: nobody will care about your story simply because you’ve been through tough times. Why? Because everyone has gone or going through something. Everyone has a story to tell of what they’ve been through trying to succeed in life.

Some was not actually their fault but life threw situations and occurrences at them. They began to fight trying to make it to the top, trying to make things work, trying to get some of the problems solved or even trying to heal. But the hard truth is that the world doesn’t care and cannot pause for a second no matter how touching these stories are.

The world only starts paying attention to your story when you make something meaningful out of it. When you use your pain to fuel your purpose, when you turn rejection into a reason to rise, and when you use your dreams as a blueprint to build something valuable, then your story begins to matter.

Think about it:
- People didn’t care about Steve Jobs’ story until he built Apple.
- Nobody cared about Oprah Winfrey’s painful childhood until she became a global media icon.
- The world didn’t pause to listen to Tyler Perry’s homeless-to-success story until he became one of the highest-paid filmmakers.

The common thread here is simple: they made their story make sense by creating results.

Your story has the potential to inspire the world, but only when you add value to it by turning it into something worth paying attention to. Pain isn’t enough. Dreams aren’t enough. Even hard work isn’t enough. What makes your story powerful is what you do with it.

So instead of expecting people to care just because you’ve had it rough, work on yourself. Grow. Build. Succeed. Create something meaningful from your struggle. Make your story one that demands to be heard—not because of pity, but because of what you’ve become despite it all.

When you become a person of value, when your life speaks of courage, transformation, and success, people will start listening. They will be drawn to your story—not because of how it started, but because of how you turned it around.

In the end, your story matters, but only if you make it matter.
Make it make sense.

*SUCCESS IS A PROCESS, NOT JUST A WISH.*

- Goal without a deadline = Fantasy

Without urgency, dreams remain just dreams. Deadlines create accountability.

- Goal + deadline = Objective

A timeline turns a vague idea into something measurable and achievable.

- Goal + deadline + Plan = Intention

A solid plan bridges the gap between where you are and where you want to be.

- Goal + deadline + Plan + Consistency = Success

Consistency is the secret weapon. Small, deliberate actions every day lead to big results.

Success is a formula—dream it, structure it, and execute it relentlessly.

*Good Morning Champions *

WHY MEN ARE CALLED "GROOM”, AND THE WOMAN “THE BRIDE” ON WEDDING DAY?

Why is the newly wedded man called GROOM and the woman called BRIDE? A friend of mine got tired of his WIFE just about six months after wedding. He complained bitterly to me about her and told me that he has concluded to break up with her; he went on to say that he was sure that he made a mistake. I did not respond immediately because I knew I must tell him the right thing, so I went home. And that is what birth this message.

Many MEN have broken up with their WIVES because they end up not being the WIFE that they have dreamt of. But they have forgotten that on their wedding day was when the man was commissioned for the new task.

Nobody calls the woman WIFE on her wedding day but BRIDE, because it is the man that will GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. That is why the man is called ‘BRIDEGROOM or GROOM’ and the word grooming has to do with PATIENTLY NURTURING, TEACHING, TENDING and HELPING someone to become what he or she should be.

It is therefore believed that a MAN that takes a WOMAN to the ALTAR of MARRIAGE is matured enough to patiently GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. The man is not supposed to just expect the BRIDE to automatically become the WIFE, she must be groomed.

It is clear that many men have unnecessary expectations when they were getting married, they want some magic to happen to their wives, they want them to become what they have had in mind about who they want their wives to be; not considering the fact that the woman does not know what is on your mind except you teach her.

Our expectations are often too unrealistic, because we don’t remember that change takes TIME and we can only expect something from someone that knows what we want.

So before you think of breaking up, have you groomed her? Have you given her TIME to understand you? Hope you realize that a turtle will never become a hawk? God often brings People that are opposites of each other together in MARRIAGE so that they can HELP EACH OTHER in their place of weaknesses. If your WIFE is weak where you are weak, then where will you get the strength that is needed? The problem with many of us is that we don’t accept People before attempting to change them. Of course, your wives are not from your backgrounds, so it will take TIME for them to adjust. Stop trying to change her, ACCEPT her, LOVE her, TEACH her and be PATIENT with her; that is what grooming is all about. She is going to be your WIFE but she is your BRIDE now, so GROOM her. Stop complaining about her, she may be a turtle and you a hawk, she cannot fly so be PATIENT with her. I don’t believe that your MARRIAGE can’t work, be PATIENT and allow GOD to HELP you.

May Almighty God continue to be with us, guide and protect us in all our affairs Amen!!! Wishing you the best Marital Life ever to all single Ladies,Bros and Married ones here.

You will have the marriage of your dreams. A marriage made in heaven.

17 THINGS TO DO DIFFERENTLY AS A COUPLE

1. Have a joint vision for your love. Don't just be together without direction. Agree on areas you will grow in, things that will define your year and projects you will pursue together

2. Give each other eye contact more, this communicates love and attention. Unfortunately, the more some stay together, the less they show care

3. Appreciate each other more and complain less. Tone down the fault finding. The more you appreciate each other, the more you two will be inspired to do better

4. Communicate better. Send each other warmer texts, call each other more even if for just a brief conversation. Scroll down your messages and see love. Be each other's peace

5. Laugh more. Find things that bring you both laughter. Watch comedies, be each other's clown, share funny videos, smile more. It makes things warmer between you two

6. Support each other's dreams. None should feel like their progress is being curtailed. Find out your partner's dream and help to achieve it

7. Increase your joint wealth. Analyse how you two make money and use money and maximize your earnings. Add or improve your revenue streams. Save. Invest

8. Find a person, a family or a cause that you can help together as a couple. Be a blessing to people as a joint force. When you are a blessing to others together, you will not focus on petty fights between you two

9. Listen to the concern you partner has about your friends or your habits and see if they are substantive. Don't hold on to friends and a lifestyle that pulls you down as a couple

10. Agree on a joint approach to your parents and in-laws and ways you can be a blessing to them as a couple

11. Pray more together as a couple. Cultivate your individual relationship with God and your walk with God as a couple

12. Have your legacy as a couple in mind. What legacy do you want to leave behind to this generation and your children as a couple? Mentor your child/children. Make success stories out of each year

13. Be more deliberate about listening to each other and making each other feel special by custom making your love to love your partner the way your partner wants to be loved and vice versa

14. Travel. Try out new experiences you have never been to or felt. Go out on dates more and make time for quality time. Companionship needs allocated time

15. For the married, seek to please each other more sexually. Desire to give your spouse amazing sexual experiences and vice versa

16. Touch each other more, rub each other's waist and hug more even when sex is not the agenda. This builds security

17. Listen less to gossip about each other from others. Be smart with your smart phone, don't let that small gadget come in between you two

Great minds have purposes, others have dreams!

• I was flogged by my father for doing music :- Wizkid

• I got pregnant at 17, during my secondary school days: -Genevieve Nnaji

• I didn't even complete my university education: -Bill Gates

• I once sold plantain: -Inetimi Odon (Timaya)

• I used to serve tea at a shop to support my football training: -Lionel Messi

• I slept under the bridge in lagos: -Ramsey Noah

• I sold rat poison : -Patrick Okorie (Patoranking)

• I was an unwanted baby, my mother almost aborted me: -Cristiano Ronaldo

• I was formerly a maid: -Mercy Johnson

• My family was so poor that even poor people called us poor: -Pastor E.A. Adeboye

• I was once a bus conductor: -Atunyota Akpobome (Ali Baba)

• When I remember my past, it was poverty. When I pass on the road, people usually laugh at me: -Duncan Okechukwu (Duncan Mighty)

• I was in the university for 9 years: -Ayo Makun (AY)

• I was a school dropout: -Mark Zuckerberg

• I grew up in a slum at Ajegunle: -John Asiemo (Daddy Showkey)

• I begged for a chance to perform on stage for free for just 5 minutes, but I wasn't given the chance: -Francis Agoda (I Go Dye)

• I once had no shoes: -Goodluck Jonathan

• I was rejected from birth by my father because he didn't want a girl: -Chika Ike

• I got pregnant when I was in SS3 and was banned from singing in church choir: -Aituaje Iruobe (Waje)

• My family was the poorest in my village; I sold firewood, I was a butcher and also a hairdresser: -John Okafor (Mr Ibu)

WHAT'S YOUR STORY???
Life will always give you one thousand and one reason to give up, please don't

GOD can convert
- Your discomforts to comforts
- Your pains to gains
- Your story to glory
- Your shame to fame
- Your losses to profits
- Your tears to smiles
- Your sorrows to joy
- Your debts to credits
- Your mess to message
- Your foes to friends
- Your dreams to realities..

Just Believe in God

GOD Bless Your Day My People,
From Chimezie (AKA, Don Talent)

Success is not reserved for those who are merely interested—it is earned by those who are deeply committed.

Interest fades when challenges arise, but commitment endures through every storm. The interested work when it's easy, when conditions are favorable. But the committed? They work regardless. They don’t wait for perfect timing—they create it. They don’t rely on motivation—they’re fueled by purpose.

You can never conquer what you're not fully committed to.
Commitment is the price you must pay for greatness. It comes before success—not just in life, but even in the dictionary.

True commitment means showing up when you’re tired, pressing on when you’re discouraged, and staying focused when distractions scream for your attention. It's not glamorous—but it’s what builds champions.

Success doesn’t stumble upon people. People chase it down with fierce determination.
If you’re standing still, waiting for success to knock on your door, you’ll be waiting forever. This is your sign: stop waiting. Start moving. Start building. Start becoming. Now is the time for action.

Let these truths guide you:

Success is never an accident.
It is always the result of consistent effort, disciplined action, and a relentless pursuit of excellence.
Every achievement is built on a foundation of small, unseen sacrifices that most people aren’t willing to make.

Fear is the greatest enemy of dreams.
The only thing that truly makes your vision impossible is the fear of failure. But failure is not your enemy—it’s your teacher.

> “Winners are not afraid of losing. But losers are. Failure is part of the path to success. Those who avoid failure also avoid greatness.”

Success will never lower its standards to meet you where you are.
You must rise. You must grow. You must stretch. If you want to achieve something you’ve never had, you must become someone you’ve never been.

Stay committed—even when it’s hard. Even when no one’s watching. Even when it feels like nothing’s happening.
Because success doesn’t respond to wishful thinking. It responds to relentless effort.

You’ve got what it takes.
Now go prove it—to yourself.

Hello

You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose, The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.