At first, no one pays attention to your efforts; they overlook your presence and dismiss your voice. As you persist, they begin to mock you, ridiculing your dreams and downplaying your potential. When they realize you won't back down, opposition rises; they challenge and resist you, trying to undermine your progress. But through perseverance, courage, and unwavering belief in your mission, you rise above the noise and adversity. In the end, your dedication leads to breakthrough. The same people who once ignored and opposed you now witness your victory. This is the path of every true overcomer; ignored, mocked, resisted… and then eventually victorious. You will Win!

*What to Have Before You Become a Wife📌 👇* Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire. But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience. So before you become a wife; Have 1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions. Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else. Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself. Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure. 2. Emotional Maturity Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love? In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband. There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills. Learn Good Communication Skills too. Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man. Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough. Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence. A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom. 3. Financial Wisdom You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that. You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally. Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you❓ Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both. Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain! • 4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose? Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife? It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision. Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep. If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met. Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort. 5. Sound Marital Knowledge You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage? In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent. You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it. You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible. All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing 🙄 Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ? Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront. Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can. 6. Healing from Past Wounds Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage. Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married. Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage. Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow. 7. The Right Community Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage. Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage. Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them. 8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed? Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them. Start building them now— the right habits. Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids. 9. Hobbies and Passions In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow. Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season. When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home. 10. A Prayer Life Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God. A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan. A kneeling woman is a winning woman! Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it. Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole. So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman. A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key. Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it. Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED ✅, not to be ENDURED ❌. You are worth the wait. PEACE!🕊️

"I'll do it tomorrow" is a disease that will murder your dreams.

Amara and Sp'*itual Baby🤣🤣🤣🤣 In a small village in Umumba, there lived a woman named Amara. She was known for being quiet, always keeping to herself, and never having a boyfriend. Every morning, she took her pr£gn@ncy pells like clockwork. People began to whisper, wondering, Why is she taking those pells when she has no man🤣🤣🤣 One day, her friend Ngozi finally asked, Amara, are you okay? You don’t have a boyfriend, but you keep taking pells to stop pr£gancy. 🤣What’s going on Amara looked tired, her eyes big like she hadn’t slept well in weeks. She sighed and said, Ngozi, I have a spitual husband🤣🤣🤣. He comes to me in my dreams every night and makes love to me🤣🤣🤣 Ngozi almost fell off the bed laughing. Spitual what🤣🤣🤣 But Amara was serious. I don’t want to wake up one day with a spiitual baby🤣🤣🤣 And from that day, the village gave her a new name: Wife of the Night Sprit.🤣🤣🤣

Read This Twice: Life is 100% personal. Stop letting people who don’t walk in your shoes tell you how to live. They don’t pay your bills. They don’t feel your pain. They don’t carry your dreams. So why let their opinions weigh more than your own? Protect your energy. Trust your journey. This is YOUR life, own it. If this hit home, let me know in the comment section. #LifeOnYourTerms #NoPermissionNeeded #SpeakYourTruth

*What to Have Before You Become a Wife📌 👇* Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire. But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience. So before you become a wife; Have 1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions. Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else. Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself. Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure. 2. Emotional Maturity Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love? In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband. There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills. Learn Good Communication Skills too. Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man. Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough. Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence. A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom. 3. Financial Wisdom You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that. You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally. Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you❓ Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both. Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain! • 4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose? Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife? It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision. Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep. If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met. Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort. 5. Sound Marital Knowledge You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage? In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent. You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it. You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible. All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing 🙄 Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ? Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront. Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can. 6. Healing from Past Wounds Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage. Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married. Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage. Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow. 7. The Right Community Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage. Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage. Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them. 8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed? Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them. Start building them now— the right habits. Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids. 9. Hobbies and Passions In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow. Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season. When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home. 10. A Prayer Life Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God. A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan. A kneeling woman is a winning woman! Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it. Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole. So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman. A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key. Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it. Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED ✅, not to be ENDURED ❌. You are worth the wait. PEACE!🕊️

Here's a motivational note to inspire you: "Believe in yourself and your abilities. Every great achievement starts with a single step. Don't be afraid to take that step, and don't let fear hold you back. You are capable of amazing things. Remember, success is not final, and failure is not fatal. It's the courage to keep going that matters. Keep pushing forward, even when the road ahead seems uncertain. You are stronger than you think, braver than you feel, and smarter than you know. Trust yourself, stay focused, and keep moving forward. Your dreams are worth it. Keep shining, keep striving, and never give up on your passions. You got this!" Feel free to save this note and revisit it whenever you need a boost of motivation!

*A true life story meant for women or men who always taught it's done with them when their marriage doesn't bring forth children.* *She Adopted 5 Boys Nobody Wanted — 27 Years Later, They Did Something She Never Expected.* *Gloria Adebayo was 35 when life tested her strength. After five years of marriage and multiple failed fertility treatments, her husband walked away — no explanation, just a short note on the kitchen table:-* *“I can’t do this anymore. I’m sorry.”* *The silence that followed was deafening. Gloria battled loneliness, shame, and the heavy weight of dreams unfulfilled. But she wasn’t the kind of woman to stay down for long.* *In 1997, during a volunteer shift at a local child welfare center in Lagos, she met a set of brothers — five boys, all under the age of 10, abandoned by their relatives after the death of their parents.* *No one wanted to adopt them because they came as a group. And so, they stayed… waiting.* *Something in Gloria’s heart stirred.* *She didn’t have the resources. She didn’t have a husband. But she had love — so much love, and she knew it wasn’t meant to stay locked up in her heart.* *One by one, she brought them home. First Segun, then Tunde, then the twins, Ikenna and Ifeanyi, and finally, baby Chuka. Raising them wasn’t easy — there were hospital visits, school fees, tears, and teenage drama. But there was also laughter, dancing in the rain, and Sunday mornings filled with jollof rice and gospel music.* *Years passed. The boys grew. One became a civil engineer. Another started a non-profit. One moved abroad and became a teacher. Two others joined the police force. But they all remained close to home… and close to Mama Gloria.* *In December 2024, on her 62nd birthday, they gathered in her small compound — and surprised her with a key.* *A brand-new house. Bought and built by all five of them.* *“We know you never had much,” Segun said, holding her trembling hands. “But you gave us everything. You gave us a home when we were forgotten. And now, it’s our turn.”* *Gloria couldn’t speak.* *The woman who once cried herself to sleep wondering if she’d ever be called “Mama” now sat surrounded by five grown men calling her “The greatest mother in the world.”* *She didn’t just adopt five boys.* *She raised five kings.* *Source: Rosy world CRN* 💟💖💝❤️‍🩹💟

All out dreams can come true if we have the courage to pursue them.

All our dreams can come true if we have the courage to pursue them.

Preparing yourself to understand success and failure. Success: 👉 What is success? Success is often defined as achieving the desired vision and planned goals. It may include a variety of aspects of life, including personal satisfaction, social acceptance and financial stability. Essentially, success is private; success for one may not be the same for others. Failure: What is failure? Failure means lack of success or failure to meet goals or criteria. Often seen in a negative way, but priceless lessons and lessons that can contribute to your success. Inspirational ideas. 1. How is your prediction on defeat? Look at failures as stepping stone not as obstacles. Develop experiences to learn useful lessons (Reframe experiences). 2. Accept the fact that you are not sure. Know that the road to success is not too straight. Prepare your mindset to accept the unexpected of the journey. 3. Building the resilience . Develop the habit of achieving small, achievable goals with perseverance and perseverance. Celebrate every victory no matter how small it is. 4. The mindset of growth: Develop a developmental mindset that you see challenges as opportunities for learning rather than fear. An example of a great individual 🧠 Dr. Maya Angelou She was a well-known American poet, a scholar of tradition and a civil rights activist. In her childhood, she has faced many problems including poverty, racial abuse and personal oppression. Even though she has these obstacles, I won't stop her from getting her attention in writing and acting. The famous quote "Even if you can't control all the situations that happen to you, you can control the attitude you have for them." This saying showed her understanding of success and failure. She has used her struggles, challenges and challenges as her motivation to help others. 👁Amazing true inspiring story ✍ the great champion Luis Zamperini Louis Zamperni was an Olympic runner and WWII bomber hunter. His life story teaches strength and hope for many of our planet's people who want to make their dreams come true. 47 days after a plane crash in the Pacific Ocean, he has spent 47 days at sea fighting hunger and shark attacks and has faced difficult challenges to survive. After his life was saved by rescuers, he found himself in a Japanese police force camp in the process of enduring unimaginable and suffering. Zampernie turned the pain into a purpose instead of allowing these horrible experiences to express and limit him. He has chosen forgiveness and finally he has joined with his supporters and shared a message of hope and reconciliation. His journey ended with strong awareness. 👂 True success does not come from world awards but from the strength that is found in the courageous struggle to get out of trouble. Zamperni's life's success is not only about reaching the goal but also about how we respond to failure and problems. If we are armed to inspire others by changing our challenges to victory tales, we can escape our dark times. ✍🏾Ahead of the day Preparing yourself to understand success and failure means realizing that they are two faces of the same coin. The more embracing of both, the more archie brings life. The stories of strong individuals like Louis Zamperney remind us that our path may be full of challenges, but how we face those challenges is the key to our success. Resources 1. "Unbroken: A World War II Story of Survival, Resilience, and Redemption" by Laura Hillenbrand 2. "The Heart of a Woman" by Maya Angelou This story and these concepts can serve as a powerful foundation for my new book, offering readers both inspiration and practical insights into success and failure. What do you think?

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