“What Have You Ever Done for Me?” — The Final Slap Every Simp Receives

This is the bitter reality simps refuse to accept until it’s too late. You break your back, you sacrifice, you play sponsor, you pay her fees, you fund her dreams, and the moment she levels up, the words that pierce your soul are:

“What have you ever done for me?”
Or worse…
“Did I ask you to do it?”

This is the currency of an ungrateful woman. And it is the death sentence every simp receives after investing in a woman who never respected him in the first place. You see, you thought by giving, funding, and sacrificing, you were securing love. Wrong. You were only paying for temporary company.

She’ll smile while she’s broke. She’ll act submissive when she needs help. But the second that degree is in her hand, and she steps into a new circle, you instantly become “too local,” “too small,” “too average.” Now, you’re just the illiterate mechanic, the village boy, the one who was “just helping,” not the man she wants to build with.

Make no mistake—women don’t stay with men out of pity. They stay with men they admire. When you sponsor her without demanding accountability, without vetting her character, you are setting yourself up for humiliation.

The Code Is Simple:
Stop playing philanthropist to ungrateful women. Invest in yourself first. Build your empire before you attempt to build anyone else’s. If you’re not a king, don’t be surprised when she jumps ship for one.

Simping is not love—it’s self-inflicted slavery. Be wise. Be ruthless. Be Alpha.

What's your dreams city?

"If your dreams don’t scare you, they’re too small." – Richard Branson

"If your dreams don’t scare you, they’re too small." – Richard Branson

APRIL-2025

AFFIRM WITH ME
I welcome this new month with a fierce spirit and an open heart. I am a powerhouse of resilience and passion, ready to overcome every challenge and seize every opportunity. I embrace my journey with clarity and courage, knowing that each day brings me closer to my dreams.

This month, I radiate positivity and determination. I am unstoppable, confident in my ability to create the life I envision. Every moment is a fresh start, and I choose to ignite my inner fire and rise to greatness.

Nobody grew up with the intention of becoming a cleaner or security guard. We all had big dreams bt life happened. "Respect one another's job"

DON’T MARRY JUST ANY WOMAN, MARRY A WOMAN WITH COMMON SENSE.

1. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that respect in marriage is mutual, not one-sided.

2. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that you are not an ATM machine, and providing for the family is a shared responsibility when necessary.

3. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that love is not just about what she can receive but also what she can give.

4. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that being a man does not mean you don’t have emotions and that your struggles and mental health matter too.

5. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that submission does not mean slavery, and partnership does not mean control.

6. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that when you are tired or stressed, she should also be willing to support, whether by cooking, making things easier, or simply being considerate.

7. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that intimacy is not a weapon for manipulation or punishment but an expression of love that should be mutual and consensual.

8. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that disagreements are normal but should be handled with maturity, not silent treatment, disrespect, or emotional manipulation.

9. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that your dreams and aspirations matter just as much as hers and that marriage should be a place of support, not competition.

10. Marry a woman who loves your soul, not just your status, money, or what she can gain. Marry a woman who enjoys talking to you, not just demanding from you.

May you not miss it in marriage

Keep dreaming big, keep working hard and your dreams will come to reality

In English, we say: “I miss you.”
But in poetry, we say:
“I trace the shape of your absence in the spaces where your laughter used to linger,
and let the echoes of you fill the hollow hours.”

In English, we say: “I don’t know how to let go.”
But in poetry, we say:
“I carry you in my chest like a stone—
heavy, unyielding, and carved with the sharp edges of what once was.”

In English, we say: “I feel lost.”
But in poetry, we say:
“The compass of my heart spins wildly now,
its needle drawn to places it can no longer call home.”

In English, we say: “I wish it were different.”
But in poetry, we say:
“I water the garden of could-have-beens with tears,
waiting for flowers that refuse to bloom.”

In English, we say: “I hope you’re happy.”
But in poetry, we say:
“May the sun that warms your days
be as kind to you as the first kiss of dew on the dawning light upon the leaves of the laurel that we once made love under”

In English, we say: “You hurt me.”
But in poetry, we say:
“You planted thorns in my chest with hands I once trusted,
and now every breath feels like an apology I shouldn’t owe.”

In English, we say: “I wanted to stay.”
But in poetry, we say:
“I lingered at the edge of your world,
a star burning quietly, unnoticed in your vast, indifferent sky.”

In English, we say: “I’m trying to move on.”
But in poetry, we say:
“I untangle your name from my veins each morning,
only to find it woven into my dreams again at night.”

In English, we say: “I’ll be okay.”
But in poetry, we say:
“I gather the shattered pieces of myself like broken glass,
knowing someday, even scars can catch the light.”

With poetry I write paths through gardens of grace with words in ways my body dare not go as a whole.

Written by : Larson Langston.

Hope is the anchor that keeps your dreams grounded, even when the waves of doubt rise high.
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Keep chasing your dreams,they will become reality soon