• I was buying groundnut at the junction while waiting for my change, I saw a woman walking with a child and the child walking faster than the woman and the woman shouted ...Degree!!! wait for me!

    I was so amazed hearing that name. So to satisfy my curiosity, I walked closer to the woman and asked.......MAMA why did you call this little child Degree? the woman laughed and said to me "my dear, I sent her Mother to the university and this is what she brought home"

    Have a good week guys.
    I was buying groundnut at the junction while waiting for my change, I saw a woman walking with a child and the child walking faster than the woman and the woman shouted ...Degree!!! wait for me! I was so amazed hearing that name. So to satisfy my curiosity, I walked closer to the woman and asked.......MAMA why did you call this little child Degree? the woman laughed and said to me "my dear, I sent her Mother to the university and this is what she brought home" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Have a good week guys.
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  • I was buying groundnut at the junction while waiting for my change, I saw a woman walking with a child and the child walking faster than the woman and the woman shouted ...Degree!!! wait for me!

    I was so amazed hearing that name. So to satisfy my curiosity, I walked closer to the woman and asked.......MAMA why did you call this little child Degree? the woman laughed and said to me "my dear I sent her Mother to University and this is what she brought home"

    Have a good week guys.
    I was buying groundnut at the junction while waiting for my change, I saw a woman walking with a child and the child walking faster than the woman and the woman shouted ...Degree!!! wait for me! I was so amazed hearing that name. So to satisfy my curiosity, I walked closer to the woman and asked.......MAMA why did you call this little child Degree? the woman laughed and said to me "my dear I sent her Mother to University and this is what she brought home" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Have a good week guys.
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  • Albert Einstein once said:
    "Weak people revenge. Strong people forgive. Intelligent people ignore."

    Here are 9 timeless lessons I’ve learned from him:

    1. Don’t Overthink the Future
    "I never think of the future. It comes soon enough."
    The future is uncertain, and worrying about it steals today’s joy. Focus on what you have now and keep moving forward.

    2. Dare to Think Big
    "I believe bold speculation will take us further than the mere accumulation of facts."
    Daring ideas have changed the world more than safe ones ever could.

    3. Keep Moving Forward
    "Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving."
    Don’t stand still. Progress, no matter how small, is still progress.

    4. Politics Is Harder Than Physics
    When asked, “If man discovered the atom, why can’t we solve political problems?”
    Einstein answered:
    "Because politics is more difficult than physics."
    Brilliant minds still struggle where emotions, power, and ego take over.

    5. Embrace Simplicity
    Einstein believed in “Einstein’s Razor” — removing what’s unnecessary and holding on to what matters.
    Simplicity is power, as long as it doesn’t become oversimplification.

    6. Education Should Teach You to Think
    "The aim of education should be to train minds to think, not to memorize facts."
    So read more. Reflect more. Let your curiosity be your best teacher.

    7. We All Belong to One Tree
    "All religions, arts, and sciences are branches of the same tree."
    Humanity thrives when we grow together, not apart. We are more connected than we think.

    8. Stay True to Your Conscience
    "Never do anything against your conscience, even if the state demands it."
    Let your principles guide you — especially when it's not easy.

    9. What Is Relativity?
    Einstein once joked:
    "Sit with a pretty girl for two hours and it feels like two minutes. Sit on a hot stove for two minutes and it feels like two hours — that’s relativity."
    Perspective changes everything.
    Albert Einstein once said: "Weak people revenge. Strong people forgive. Intelligent people ignore." Here are 9 timeless lessons I’ve learned from him: 1. Don’t Overthink the Future "I never think of the future. It comes soon enough." The future is uncertain, and worrying about it steals today’s joy. Focus on what you have now and keep moving forward. 2. Dare to Think Big "I believe bold speculation will take us further than the mere accumulation of facts." Daring ideas have changed the world more than safe ones ever could. 3. Keep Moving Forward "Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving." Don’t stand still. Progress, no matter how small, is still progress. 4. Politics Is Harder Than Physics When asked, “If man discovered the atom, why can’t we solve political problems?” Einstein answered: "Because politics is more difficult than physics." Brilliant minds still struggle where emotions, power, and ego take over. 5. Embrace Simplicity Einstein believed in “Einstein’s Razor” — removing what’s unnecessary and holding on to what matters. Simplicity is power, as long as it doesn’t become oversimplification. 6. Education Should Teach You to Think "The aim of education should be to train minds to think, not to memorize facts." So read more. Reflect more. Let your curiosity be your best teacher. 7. We All Belong to One Tree "All religions, arts, and sciences are branches of the same tree." Humanity thrives when we grow together, not apart. We are more connected than we think. 8. Stay True to Your Conscience "Never do anything against your conscience, even if the state demands it." Let your principles guide you — especially when it's not easy. 9. What Is Relativity? Einstein once joked: "Sit with a pretty girl for two hours and it feels like two minutes. Sit on a hot stove for two minutes and it feels like two hours — that’s relativity." Perspective changes everything.
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  • 7 Things to Keep in Mind..

    - Chase aspirations, not validation: Pursue your dreams with unwavering passion, focusing on self-growth and fulfillment rather than seeking external approval.
    - Self-love is the foundation: Cultivate a deep and abiding love for yourself; it's the cornerstone of healthy relationships and a fulfilling life.
    - Nurture your curiosity: Maintain a childlike sense of wonder, embracing new experiences and perspectives with open-hearted enthusiasm.
    - Unlock your hidden potential: Tap into your inner strength and resilience; you possess capabilities far beyond what you may currently realize.
    - Embrace life's lessons: View every experience, both positive and negative, as an opportunity for growth and learning, transforming setbacks into steppingstones.
    - Break free from self-imposed limits: Recognize that your potential is boundless; the only true limitations are those you create for yourself.
    - Live each moment fully: Time is precious and fleeting; make conscious choices to live authentically, embracing experiences and cherishing relationships.
    7 Things to Keep in Mind.. - Chase aspirations, not validation: Pursue your dreams with unwavering passion, focusing on self-growth and fulfillment rather than seeking external approval. - Self-love is the foundation: Cultivate a deep and abiding love for yourself; it's the cornerstone of healthy relationships and a fulfilling life. - Nurture your curiosity: Maintain a childlike sense of wonder, embracing new experiences and perspectives with open-hearted enthusiasm. - Unlock your hidden potential: Tap into your inner strength and resilience; you possess capabilities far beyond what you may currently realize. - Embrace life's lessons: View every experience, both positive and negative, as an opportunity for growth and learning, transforming setbacks into steppingstones. - Break free from self-imposed limits: Recognize that your potential is boundless; the only true limitations are those you create for yourself. - Live each moment fully: Time is precious and fleeting; make conscious choices to live authentically, embracing experiences and cherishing relationships.
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  • In secondary school, I fell deeply in love with a boy. The kind of love that felt all-consuming. He made me feel seen, wanted, special. Then one day, he brought up the idea of a blood oath.

    He looked me in the eyes and said,
    “If we do this, nothing will ever come between us. We’ll be bound forever.”

    At 16, those words sounded romantic. But deep down, something in my spirit just didn’t sit right. My aunty saw the text message and confronted me.. when I was mumbling she gave me a resetting slap that cleared my eyes and that was the last time we talk about anything blood oat.

    I still didn't broke up with him and A month later, we had a massive fight and broke up. I was heartbroken but still hopeful—we were young. Maybe we’d find our way back to each other.

    We never did.

    Growing up without my parents, I lived with my aunt. I didn’t have much guidance, just a young girl trying to navigate life on her own.

    Fast forward several years… I had grown, built a life, found my purpose. Then one day, I stumbled across his Instagram. Out of curiosity, I clicked on his profile...

    And I froze.

    The person staring back at me looked nothing like the boy I once loved. He looked lost, unkempt, like life had dragged him through every corner of pain.

    And in that moment, I asked myself,
    “Is this the same person I almost tied my entire destiny to with a blood oath?” Nancy Isime

    Moral lesson- Her Aunty deserve one cold Heineken

    #tinglespicey #mazitundeednut #fyp2025 #nonsmiraj #nollywoodonline #PulseViral #nollywoodcelebrities #fyp #viralchallenge #viral
    In secondary school, I fell deeply in love with a boy. The kind of love that felt all-consuming. He made me feel seen, wanted, special. Then one day, he brought up the idea of a blood oath. He looked me in the eyes and said, “If we do this, nothing will ever come between us. We’ll be bound forever.” At 16, those words sounded romantic. But deep down, something in my spirit just didn’t sit right. My aunty saw the text message and confronted me.. when I was mumbling she gave me a resetting slap that cleared my eyes and that was the last time we talk about anything blood oat. I still didn't broke up with him and A month later, we had a massive fight and broke up. I was heartbroken but still hopeful—we were young. Maybe we’d find our way back to each other. We never did. Growing up without my parents, I lived with my aunt. I didn’t have much guidance, just a young girl trying to navigate life on her own. Fast forward several years… I had grown, built a life, found my purpose. Then one day, I stumbled across his Instagram. Out of curiosity, I clicked on his profile... And I froze. The person staring back at me looked nothing like the boy I once loved. He looked lost, unkempt, like life had dragged him through every corner of pain. And in that moment, I asked myself, “Is this the same person I almost tied my entire destiny to with a blood oath?” Nancy Isime Moral lesson- Her Aunty deserve one cold Heineken 🤣 #tinglespicey #mazitundeednut #fyp2025 #nonsmiraj #nollywoodonline #PulseViral #nollywoodcelebrities #fyp #viralchallenge #viral
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  • HOW TO TURN WOMEN ON OVER TEXT. The texting master.

    1. Establish Emotional connections.

    Many mistakes some men make is walking directly into a woman's dm and instantly start making sexual advances, showing dik and talking dirty.

    If you do that you will most likely get declined.

    The first key is to create a feelings, you want to make her feel safe with you and get her attention.

    All you need is to start chatting normal, cracking some little funny jokes until you move to the next step.

    2. Time for chat.

    The best time you can easily turn a woman on is mostly at night, women are mostly vulnerable then because they are off their jobs, works and are alone with their phone.

    They want to connect at that time and that's where they are usually think about sex..

    3. Chat dirty, women like tmit that way but then never make this mistakes.

    1. Ambush her too soon with sexual talks.
    2. Don't judge her sexually.

    In as much as women love to be turned on, there is a way you play it and they feel irritated by it.

    Even a slut, doesn't want to be sexually shame, so take it lightly.

    Something like.....

    Your curves, edges, lips etc are all so perfect and swx, how did you manage to get this things alone? I think God did partial.

    Something he would have giving to 10 people he gave them to only you....

    The text is funny but then it opens a safe space and make her comfortable for engaging on that line of chat..

    You can move forward to cite your friend as example.

    Something like.....

    My close friend babe have exact type of your shape and recently he was complaining about how his babe use to ride her dangerously in bed.... as it is now, I am already afraid of you...lol..

    Door ways open.....

    4. Dont forget to be descriptive with your texts.

    You want to spark her curiosity and deal with her imaginations.

    Ask questions that make her remember her last sexual experience..

    Don't be scared bro.

    You can frame that you are a 1hour guy on bed and how many hours can she withstand hot sex??lol.

    Anything she say call her lazy in bed and start bragging, you are creating a tension and void.

    MrFred Putin.

    HOW TO TURN WOMEN ON OVER TEXT. The texting master. 1. Establish Emotional connections. Many mistakes some men make is walking directly into a woman's dm and instantly start making sexual advances, showing dik and talking dirty. If you do that you will most likely get declined. The first key is to create a feelings, you want to make her feel safe with you and get her attention. All you need is to start chatting normal, cracking some little funny jokes until you move to the next step. 2. Time for chat. The best time you can easily turn a woman on is mostly at night, women are mostly vulnerable then because they are off their jobs, works and are alone with their phone. They want to connect at that time and that's where they are usually think about sex.. 3. Chat dirty, women like tmit that way but then never make this mistakes. 1. Ambush her too soon with sexual talks. 2. Don't judge her sexually. In as much as women love to be turned on, there is a way you play it and they feel irritated by it. Even a slut, doesn't want to be sexually shame, so take it lightly. Something like..... Your curves, edges, lips etc are all so perfect and swx, how did you manage to get this things alone? I think God did partial. Something he would have giving to 10 people he gave them to only you.... The text is funny but then it opens a safe space and make her comfortable for engaging on that line of chat.. You can move forward to cite your friend as example. Something like..... My close friend babe have exact type of your shape and recently he was complaining about how his babe use to ride her dangerously in bed.... as it is now, I am already afraid of you...lol.. Door ways open..... 4. Dont forget to be descriptive with your texts. You want to spark her curiosity and deal with her imaginations. Ask questions that make her remember her last sexual experience.. Don't be scared bro. You can frame that you are a 1hour guy on bed and how many hours can she withstand hot sex??lol. Anything she say call her lazy in bed and start bragging, you are creating a tension and void. MrFred Putin. ‎
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  • So who taught a young Jack Daniel how to distill what would become the world’s best-selling whiskey?

    Nathan "Nearest" Green, an enslaved Black master distiller,  taught distilling techniques to Jack Daniel, founder of the Jack Daniel Tennessee Whiskey .

    —Uncle Nearest, as he was fondly called by family and friends grew up in Lynchburg, Tennessee, and began working on the farm of a country preacher and distiller in Lincoln County around the mid-1800s. It was there that he learned the skill of distilling and specialized in a process of distillation known as sugar maple charcoal filtering which was also called the Lincoln County Process.

    Nearest was such a skilled distiller in the process he specialized in but he kept working with the preacher in the Lincoln County and fortunately it was there that Jack Daniels met him.

    In the mid-1850s, Jack Daniels who was just a young white boy from a large family and who also lost his mother to a sudden illness at the age of four months began working as a chore boy for the preacher whom Uncle Nearest worked for.

    It is said that Jack Daniels was a curious young boy who kept asking about the smoke coming up through the hollow on the 338-acre property and why men kept hurrying back and forth from that area which he was never allowed to go with mules and wagons.

    He never stopped asking, until the preacher whim he worked for decided to give in to his curiosity took him to the area on the property where the smoke came from.

    As later described in the boy’s biography, it is said that the preacher introduced the young boy to a “coal-black negro” which was uncle Nearest.

    He introduced Uncle Nearest by saying “This is Uncle Nearest. He’s the best whiskey maker I know of”. The preacher went further to ask Nearest to teach the young (Jack Daniels) everything he knew about distilling and also the process of sugar maple charcoal filtering. A request Nearest obliged and taught the young boy the special filtration process of the Tennessee whiskey.
    So who taught a young Jack Daniel how to distill what would become the world’s best-selling whiskey? Nathan "Nearest" Green, an enslaved Black master distiller,  taught distilling techniques to Jack Daniel, founder of the Jack Daniel Tennessee Whiskey 🥃 . —Uncle Nearest, as he was fondly called by family and friends grew up in Lynchburg, Tennessee, and began working on the farm of a country preacher and distiller in Lincoln County around the mid-1800s. It was there that he learned the skill of distilling and specialized in a process of distillation known as sugar maple charcoal filtering which was also called the Lincoln County Process. Nearest was such a skilled distiller in the process he specialized in but he kept working with the preacher in the Lincoln County and fortunately it was there that Jack Daniels met him. In the mid-1850s, Jack Daniels who was just a young white boy from a large family and who also lost his mother to a sudden illness at the age of four months began working as a chore boy for the preacher whom Uncle Nearest worked for. It is said that Jack Daniels was a curious young boy who kept asking about the smoke coming up through the hollow on the 338-acre property and why men kept hurrying back and forth from that area which he was never allowed to go with mules and wagons. He never stopped asking, until the preacher whim he worked for decided to give in to his curiosity took him to the area on the property where the smoke came from. As later described in the boy’s biography, it is said that the preacher introduced the young boy to a “coal-black negro” which was uncle Nearest. He introduced Uncle Nearest by saying “This is Uncle Nearest. He’s the best whiskey maker I know of”. The preacher went further to ask Nearest to teach the young (Jack Daniels) everything he knew about distilling and also the process of sugar maple charcoal filtering. A request Nearest obliged and taught the young boy the special filtration process of the Tennessee whiskey.
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  • HANDSOME DRIVER ACCIDENTALLY SLEPT OFF IN BILLIONAIRE'S DAUGHTER'S ROOM

    Liam had just landed a dream job as a private driver for the ultra-wealthy Carrington family. Known for his charm and dashing looks, Liam kept a low profile, focusing solely on his job. One night, after a grueling back andforth drive to and from a late evening gala, exhaustion overcame him. He arrived at the mansion, parked the car, and went in to ask for a glass of water from one of the housemates before retiring to the staff quarters.
    The entire mansion was unusually quiet. The maids were nowhere to be found, probably off duty or resting. Liam, confused and dizzy from the long day, walked through a hallway, searching for a spare room to nap in. The door to a guest room was slightly a jar. Thinking it was empty, he slipped in and collapsed on the bed, completely unaware it was the room of the billionaire's only daughter, Arya Carrington.
    Arya had stepped into the adjoining bathroom after her bath when she saw Liam's shoes outside the bed. Peeking through the bathroom door, her heart raced. There was a man in her bed. Instinctively, she grabbed a hairbrush as a weapon and crept closer. But when she recognized the face, her brows knitted.
    What was their driver doing in her bed? Instead of screaming, Arya did something unexpected. She stood there watching him. His chest rose and fell so peacefully, and there was something unusually innocent about his face as he slept. Her initial anger softened into curiosity. Arya had always found Liam attractive, but seeing him there completely vulnerable stirred something new in her.
    She left him there and curled up on the Sha's lounge, deciding to deal with him in the morning. But her sleep didn't come easy. Every sound he made kept her awake. Morning broke, sunlight flooding through the windows. Liam stirred, confused, and sat up slowly. His eyes widened in horror when he saw Arya seated across the room, arms folded, glaring at him.
    "What on earth are you doing in my room?" she asked coldly. Liam stammered, trying to piece his words together, but she stood up, raised a brow, and said, "Relax. You're lucky I didn't scream and get you fired." Her tone held a strange mixture of anger and intrigue. Liam quickly apologized and fled the room, heart pounding.
    But neither of them knew that night had changed everything. Word hadn't gotten out about the incident, thanks to Aria's silence, but she couldn't stop thinking about it. She began watching Liam from her bedroom window as he cleaned the car or opened doors for guests. There was something about his politeness, the way he smiled at the staff and remained unaffected by the luxury surrounding him.
    Liam, on the other hand, kept a safe distance. Embarrassed, he avoided eye contact with Arya at all costs. But one afternoon, while driving her to a shopping complex, she suddenly said, "You snore when you sleep." He almost hit the brakes from shock. She giggled for the first time in front of him, and that moment shattered the wall between them.

    To be continued....
    HANDSOME DRIVER ACCIDENTALLY SLEPT OFF IN BILLIONAIRE'S DAUGHTER'S ROOM Liam had just landed a dream job as a private driver for the ultra-wealthy Carrington family. Known for his charm and dashing looks, Liam kept a low profile, focusing solely on his job. One night, after a grueling back andforth drive to and from a late evening gala, exhaustion overcame him. He arrived at the mansion, parked the car, and went in to ask for a glass of water from one of the housemates before retiring to the staff quarters. The entire mansion was unusually quiet. The maids were nowhere to be found, probably off duty or resting. Liam, confused and dizzy from the long day, walked through a hallway, searching for a spare room to nap in. The door to a guest room was slightly a jar. Thinking it was empty, he slipped in and collapsed on the bed, completely unaware it was the room of the billionaire's only daughter, Arya Carrington. Arya had stepped into the adjoining bathroom after her bath when she saw Liam's shoes outside the bed. Peeking through the bathroom door, her heart raced. There was a man in her bed. Instinctively, she grabbed a hairbrush as a weapon and crept closer. But when she recognized the face, her brows knitted. What was their driver doing in her bed? Instead of screaming, Arya did something unexpected. She stood there watching him. His chest rose and fell so peacefully, and there was something unusually innocent about his face as he slept. Her initial anger softened into curiosity. Arya had always found Liam attractive, but seeing him there completely vulnerable stirred something new in her. She left him there and curled up on the Sha's lounge, deciding to deal with him in the morning. But her sleep didn't come easy. Every sound he made kept her awake. Morning broke, sunlight flooding through the windows. Liam stirred, confused, and sat up slowly. His eyes widened in horror when he saw Arya seated across the room, arms folded, glaring at him. "What on earth are you doing in my room?" she asked coldly. Liam stammered, trying to piece his words together, but she stood up, raised a brow, and said, "Relax. You're lucky I didn't scream and get you fired." Her tone held a strange mixture of anger and intrigue. Liam quickly apologized and fled the room, heart pounding. But neither of them knew that night had changed everything. Word hadn't gotten out about the incident, thanks to Aria's silence, but she couldn't stop thinking about it. She began watching Liam from her bedroom window as he cleaned the car or opened doors for guests. There was something about his politeness, the way he smiled at the staff and remained unaffected by the luxury surrounding him. Liam, on the other hand, kept a safe distance. Embarrassed, he avoided eye contact with Arya at all costs. But one afternoon, while driving her to a shopping complex, she suddenly said, "You snore when you sleep." He almost hit the brakes from shock. She giggled for the first time in front of him, and that moment shattered the wall between them. To be continued....
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  • If there's judgment attached to how you feel about someone else's decisions, that might be an opportunity to get out the mirror.

    What is threatening about the choice they're making?

    What would it mean about you if you did it?

    How does it make you feel?

    What does it remind you of?

    People make decisions all the time that we disagree with or wouldn't make, and sometimes those decisions genuinely aren't going to benefit that person.

    But they get to choose. They get to forge their own path, make their own mistakes, live their own life, and make different choices.

    And when people aren't very confident in their own relationship with themselves, they tend to be very judgmental of other people.

    When you find yourself heavily judging someone else's life choices, get curious about what you believe that decision means or represents?

    What is that judgment trying to protect you from?

    What would it mean about you or them if you just let them do this?

    It's eliciting an emotion in you.
    Meeting that emotion with presence; see if you can allow the feeling.

    Can you meet that judgment with curiosity?

    Becoming aware of our own self-protective instincts can help us discover what painful beliefs exist beneath deep beneath the surface, and then we can begin to soften them.

    What story are you projecting onto this person?

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone's clothing because you wouldn't feel confident wearing something so different.

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's parenting because it touches on pain you felt when you were a child.

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's lifestyle because you're too afraid to step out of the confines of what "normalcy" looks like.

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's easy-going nature because you feel like you always have to be the responsible one.

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's career choice because they have opportunities you'd love to have.

    Get curious.

    What is your judgment trying to protect you from feeling?
    If there's judgment attached to how you feel about someone else's decisions, that might be an opportunity to get out the mirror. What is threatening about the choice they're making? What would it mean about you if you did it? How does it make you feel? What does it remind you of? People make decisions all the time that we disagree with or wouldn't make, and sometimes those decisions genuinely aren't going to benefit that person. But they get to choose. They get to forge their own path, make their own mistakes, live their own life, and make different choices. And when people aren't very confident in their own relationship with themselves, they tend to be very judgmental of other people. When you find yourself heavily judging someone else's life choices, get curious about what you believe that decision means or represents? What is that judgment trying to protect you from? What would it mean about you or them if you just let them do this? It's eliciting an emotion in you. Meeting that emotion with presence; see if you can allow the feeling. Can you meet that judgment with curiosity? Becoming aware of our own self-protective instincts can help us discover what painful beliefs exist beneath deep beneath the surface, and then we can begin to soften them. What story are you projecting onto this person? Maybe you're judgmental of someone's clothing because you wouldn't feel confident wearing something so different. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's parenting because it touches on pain you felt when you were a child. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's lifestyle because you're too afraid to step out of the confines of what "normalcy" looks like. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's easy-going nature because you feel like you always have to be the responsible one. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's career choice because they have opportunities you'd love to have. Get curious. What is your judgment trying to protect you from feeling?
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  • If there's judgment attached to how you feel about someone else's decisions, that might be an opportunity to get out the mirror.

    What is threatening about the choice they're making?

    What would it mean about you if you did it?

    How does it make you feel? What does it remind you of?

    People make decisions all the time that we disagree with or wouldn't make, and sometimes those decisions genuinely aren't going to benefit that person.
    But they get to choose. They get to forge their own path, make their own mistakes, live their own life, and make different choices.

    And when people aren't very confident in their own relationship with themselves, they tend to be very judgmental of other people.

    When you find yourself heavily judging someone else's life choices, get curious about what you believe that decision means or represents?

    What is that judgment trying to protect you from?

    What would it mean about you or them if you just let them do this?

    It's eliciting an emotion in you.
    Meeting that emotion with presence; see if you can allow the feeling.

    Can you meet that judgment with curiosity?

    Becoming aware of our own self-protective instincts can help us discover what painful beliefs exist beneath deep beneath the surface, and then we can begin to soften them.

    What story are you projecting onto this person?

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone's clothing because you wouldn't feel confident wearing something so different.

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's parenting because it touches on pain you felt when you were a child.

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's lifestyle because you're too afraid to step out of the confines of what "normalcy" looks like.

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's easy-going nature because you feel like you always have to be the responsible one.

    Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's career choice because they have opportunities you'd love to have.

    Get curious.

    What is your judgment trying to protect you from feeling?
    If there's judgment attached to how you feel about someone else's decisions, that might be an opportunity to get out the mirror. What is threatening about the choice they're making? What would it mean about you if you did it? How does it make you feel? What does it remind you of? People make decisions all the time that we disagree with or wouldn't make, and sometimes those decisions genuinely aren't going to benefit that person. But they get to choose. They get to forge their own path, make their own mistakes, live their own life, and make different choices. And when people aren't very confident in their own relationship with themselves, they tend to be very judgmental of other people. When you find yourself heavily judging someone else's life choices, get curious about what you believe that decision means or represents? What is that judgment trying to protect you from? What would it mean about you or them if you just let them do this? It's eliciting an emotion in you. Meeting that emotion with presence; see if you can allow the feeling. Can you meet that judgment with curiosity? Becoming aware of our own self-protective instincts can help us discover what painful beliefs exist beneath deep beneath the surface, and then we can begin to soften them. What story are you projecting onto this person? Maybe you're judgmental of someone's clothing because you wouldn't feel confident wearing something so different. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's parenting because it touches on pain you felt when you were a child. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's lifestyle because you're too afraid to step out of the confines of what "normalcy" looks like. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's easy-going nature because you feel like you always have to be the responsible one. Maybe you're judgmental of someone else's career choice because they have opportunities you'd love to have. Get curious. What is your judgment trying to protect you from feeling?
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  • ENUGU RITUAL WONDER: I Still Can't Believe It - Uche Kingsley (Uche Agumba), You Too?

    Following the Enugu State ritual wonder that was unveiled few days ago by security operatives coupled with government swift intervention with an executive order to demolish the country home and shrine of the branded ritualists and serial killer of innocent souls, you’ll be shocked at this piece scripted by a close friend of the culprit who is still in shock of the secret dealings of the culprit, even as they have known eachother as co church goers and innocent citizens. Read Below:

    Sometimes, life hits you with news that leaves you completely speechless.

    A few days ago, I came across a video that shook me to the core. It was about one of the accomplices of that Enugu native doctor who was recently arrested for ritual killings. To my shock, the name mentioned was Uche Kingsley, popularly known as Agumba—a name I’ve known for years.

    At first, I wasn’t sure it was the same Uche I knew. The name, the nickname, the location—it all sounded too familiar. But I brushed it off. I told myself it must be someone else. After all, the Uche I knew was a deeply religious man, someone who never missed church programs and was even known to travel from Aba to Enugu for special Catholic events.

    He was one of those people who would question your faith if you missed church. He often challenged me for not being as “serious” with religion as he was.

    But when I watched the video again and heard that the man dealt in furniture materials at Ariaria, Aba—it hit me. I knew this Uche. This was the same guy I once shared memories with. Out of curiosity and concern, I searched for him online. And when I saw his pictures, my heart dropped. It was truly him—Uche Agumba.

    We go way back. Uche served a man from Uga Anambra state (whose name I’ll leave out here), and I remember when he got settled around 2011 or 2012 after serving for seven years. We were all young men trying to make it. I recall one particular day we returned from Port Harcourt, and he said to me, “Before I get married, I must be a very wealthy man.” I reminded him that he was the only son of his parents. He nodded and said, “I know—but this is what I must do.”

    Everyone who was in the building materials line at Ariaria back then knew Uche. From 2005 to 2011 to 2013, and now. we trained together at Osusu Primary School field before I moved out of Aba. I can’t remember him ever missing church. He was deeply involved in religious activities—chartering buses to Enugu weekly, buying and selling bottles of anointed water and yoghurt after the programs. I checked his Facebook recently—he still shares posts from those same church programs.
    ENUGU RITUAL WONDER: I Still Can't Believe It - Uche Kingsley (Uche Agumba), You Too? Following the Enugu State ritual wonder that was unveiled few days ago by security operatives coupled with government swift intervention with an executive order to demolish the country home and shrine of the branded ritualists and serial killer of innocent souls, you’ll be shocked at this piece scripted by a close friend of the culprit who is still in shock of the secret dealings of the culprit, even as they have known eachother as co church goers and innocent citizens. Read Below: Sometimes, life hits you with news that leaves you completely speechless. A few days ago, I came across a video that shook me to the core. It was about one of the accomplices of that Enugu native doctor who was recently arrested for ritual killings. To my shock, the name mentioned was Uche Kingsley, popularly known as Agumba—a name I’ve known for years. At first, I wasn’t sure it was the same Uche I knew. The name, the nickname, the location—it all sounded too familiar. But I brushed it off. I told myself it must be someone else. After all, the Uche I knew was a deeply religious man, someone who never missed church programs and was even known to travel from Aba to Enugu for special Catholic events. He was one of those people who would question your faith if you missed church. He often challenged me for not being as “serious” with religion as he was. But when I watched the video again and heard that the man dealt in furniture materials at Ariaria, Aba—it hit me. I knew this Uche. This was the same guy I once shared memories with. Out of curiosity and concern, I searched for him online. And when I saw his pictures, my heart dropped. It was truly him—Uche Agumba. We go way back. Uche served a man from Uga Anambra state (whose name I’ll leave out here), and I remember when he got settled around 2011 or 2012 after serving for seven years. We were all young men trying to make it. I recall one particular day we returned from Port Harcourt, and he said to me, “Before I get married, I must be a very wealthy man.” I reminded him that he was the only son of his parents. He nodded and said, “I know—but this is what I must do.” Everyone who was in the building materials line at Ariaria back then knew Uche. From 2005 to 2011 to 2013, and now. we trained together at Osusu Primary School field before I moved out of Aba. I can’t remember him ever missing church. He was deeply involved in religious activities—chartering buses to Enugu weekly, buying and selling bottles of anointed water and yoghurt after the programs. I checked his Facebook recently—he still shares posts from those same church programs.
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  • Make Money via WhatsApp - How to use WhatsApp to close clients & make money.

    If you have WhatsApp + value + a way to get paid, you have a business.
    Let me briefly show you how (10 things to do).

    Stop saying you don’t have a system. I have heard many people starting use this complaint.
    WhatsApp is one of the most underrated client-closing platforms in Africa and across the world.
    Here’s how to use WhatsApp to close clients and make money — with systems, simplicity, and serious results.

    I am sharing with you what I have done over and over for years.

    Let's go!

    1. Stop treating WhatsApp like a chat app.
    This is for those who truly have value to sell and want to run a business.
    Start treating it like a conversion tool.
    This is not just where you “talk.”
    It’s where you:
    - Attract clients
    - Nurture clients
    - Convert them into paying clients
    - Follow up and upsell
    - Deliver the value
    WhatsApp is your funnel & Checkout. All in one.

    Want to increase your value? Free access my value ascension course here: https://stan.store/Joybert

    2. Package your offer clearly — before bringing people in.
    Before you start broadcasting:
    - What’s the offer?
    - What’s the result you create?
    - What’s the price?
    - How can they pay?
    Don’t invite people into confusion. Invite them into a clear next step on WhatsApp.

    3. Pin one authority message on your status daily.
    Think of WhatsApp status like a sales billboard:
    - Testimonial screenshot
    - Client win
    - Offer highlight
    - Countdown
    - Simple pricing & booking instructions
    If 300 people view it, and 3 buy, you’ve closed clients without ads.

    Due to my busy schedule, I will stop posting this kind of content here consistently however I will post daily on my Whatsapp channel. Join here: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaDx298KmCPKgNd9j93W

    4. Use voice notes for emotional connection.
    Text builds logic. Voice builds trust.
    When someone shows interest:
    - Send a 45-sec voice note explaining the outcome. Be specific. Do not go and send a long keynote address lol.
    - Let them hear your tone. Confidence. Clarity.
    Voice notes close better than paragraphs. Ask for permission. Something like "Kindly permit me send you a 45 seconds VN."

    5. Set up a “first-message” response script.
    Every serious offer should have:
    - A welcome message
    - A quick outline of what they’ll get
    - A payment link (number) or booking step
    - Optional testimonial or result screenshot
    Make buying easy. Don’t let curiosity die in your DMs on WhatsApp.

    6. Segment your audience using Broadcast Lists or groups.
    Group by:
    - Leads
    - Buyers
    - Free class attendees
    - Product interest (e.g., skincare, consulting, coaching)
    Speak to each list based on what they care about.
    Relevance = Revenue.

    Want to increase your value? Free access my value ascension course here: https://stan.store/Joybert

    7. Use PDF, video or voice bundles to deliver value at scale.
    - Create a simple e-guide
    - Record a 3-part audio training
    - Package your service explainer in a quick video
    Deliver it directly via WhatsApp.
    Zero tech. 100% connection.

    8. Follow-up like a closer, not a beggar.
    - “Just checking if you had any questions before the slots close.”
    - “I’m confirming your spot. Here are the payment details before 5 slots left get sold-out?”
    - “Let me know how you'd like to proceed.”
    Professional. Polite. Profitable.

    9. Build systems from wins.
    Every conversion becomes a repeatable flow.
    - Save your best messages as templates
    - Document the Q&As that lead to “yes”
    - Build a micro-process from client DM → payment → delivery

    Now your system runs on clarity, not chaos.

    10. Collect payments through the best way you can
    (mobile money, Zelle, PayPal, or bank — and track it.)
    You don’t need fancy checkout pages. However, if you can have it, great.
    You just need:
    - An account that receives money
    - A method to confirm payment
    - Excellent process to deliver the offer
    WhatsApp isn’t a limitation. It’s a lean startup advantage for those starting.

    Many people have not started doing amazing things because they think they are under-equipped. No, many people are not just resourceful and just focus on complaining because it is easier. You’re under-utilizing what’s already in your hand.

    Dr. Joybert Javnyuy
    I Help Experts & Institutions to Extract, Package & Monetize Specialized Value | Book Me to Train, Coach & Speak |
    Want to increase your value? Free access my value ascension course here: https://stan.store/Joybert
    Make Money via WhatsApp - How to use WhatsApp to close clients & make money. If you have WhatsApp + value + a way to get paid, you have a business. Let me briefly show you how (10 things to do). Stop saying you don’t have a system. I have heard many people starting use this complaint. WhatsApp is one of the most underrated client-closing platforms in Africa and across the world. Here’s how to use WhatsApp to close clients and make money — with systems, simplicity, and serious results. I am sharing with you what I have done over and over for years. Let's go! 1. Stop treating WhatsApp like a chat app. This is for those who truly have value to sell and want to run a business. Start treating it like a conversion tool. This is not just where you “talk.” It’s where you: - Attract clients - Nurture clients - Convert them into paying clients - Follow up and upsell - Deliver the value WhatsApp is your funnel & Checkout. All in one. Want to increase your value? Free access my value ascension course here: https://stan.store/Joybert 2. Package your offer clearly — before bringing people in. Before you start broadcasting: - What’s the offer? - What’s the result you create? - What’s the price? - How can they pay? Don’t invite people into confusion. Invite them into a clear next step on WhatsApp. 3. Pin one authority message on your status daily. Think of WhatsApp status like a sales billboard: - Testimonial screenshot - Client win - Offer highlight - Countdown - Simple pricing & booking instructions If 300 people view it, and 3 buy, you’ve closed clients without ads. Due to my busy schedule, I will stop posting this kind of content here consistently however I will post daily on my Whatsapp channel. Join here: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaDx298KmCPKgNd9j93W 4. Use voice notes for emotional connection. Text builds logic. Voice builds trust. When someone shows interest: - Send a 45-sec voice note explaining the outcome. Be specific. Do not go and send a long keynote address lol. - Let them hear your tone. Confidence. Clarity. Voice notes close better than paragraphs. Ask for permission. Something like "Kindly permit me send you a 45 seconds VN." 5. Set up a “first-message” response script. Every serious offer should have: - A welcome message - A quick outline of what they’ll get - A payment link (number) or booking step - Optional testimonial or result screenshot Make buying easy. Don’t let curiosity die in your DMs on WhatsApp. 6. Segment your audience using Broadcast Lists or groups. Group by: - Leads - Buyers - Free class attendees - Product interest (e.g., skincare, consulting, coaching) Speak to each list based on what they care about. Relevance = Revenue. Want to increase your value? Free access my value ascension course here: https://stan.store/Joybert 7. Use PDF, video or voice bundles to deliver value at scale. - Create a simple e-guide - Record a 3-part audio training - Package your service explainer in a quick video Deliver it directly via WhatsApp. Zero tech. 100% connection. 8. Follow-up like a closer, not a beggar. - “Just checking if you had any questions before the slots close.” - “I’m confirming your spot. Here are the payment details before 5 slots left get sold-out?” - “Let me know how you'd like to proceed.” Professional. Polite. Profitable. 9. Build systems from wins. Every conversion becomes a repeatable flow. - Save your best messages as templates - Document the Q&As that lead to “yes” - Build a micro-process from client DM → payment → delivery Now your system runs on clarity, not chaos. 10. Collect payments through the best way you can (mobile money, Zelle, PayPal, or bank — and track it.) You don’t need fancy checkout pages. However, if you can have it, great. You just need: - An account that receives money - A method to confirm payment - Excellent process to deliver the offer WhatsApp isn’t a limitation. It’s a lean startup advantage for those starting. Many people have not started doing amazing things because they think they are under-equipped. No, many people are not just resourceful and just focus on complaining because it is easier. You’re under-utilizing what’s already in your hand. Dr. Joybert Javnyuy I Help Experts & Institutions to Extract, Package & Monetize Specialized Value | Book Me to Train, Coach & Speak | Want to increase your value? Free access my value ascension course here: https://stan.store/Joybert
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