I used to be womanizer – Actor Daniel Etim-Effiong

Popular Nollywood actor, Daniel Etim-Effiong, has revealed that he used to be a womanizer at some point in his life, but added that it was brief.
In an interview with Chude Jideonwo, the engineer-turned-actor recalled “exploring” with multiple women at the same time. He described the experience as a learning process.

He said he often advised young people to shun womanizing because it can affect their relationships and marriages in the future, stressing that it might prove difficult to quit.

Chude asked: “Were you a womanizer before you got married?”

Etim-Effiong replied: “It depends on what is your definition of a womanizer.”
Chude inferred: “A man who dates multiple women at the same time.”
Etim-Effiong: “Maybe there was a time in my life I was. Definitions would differ, but in that definition, maybe there was a period in my life that I was, I wouldn’t say for long periods of my life. Maybe for some certain periods that I explored. So, perhaps.”

Chude asked: “Was it good periods?”
Etim-Effiong replied: “Yes, they were periods of learning for me. If I learned, then they were good periods.”

Chude asked: “What did you learn?”

Etim-Effiong replied: “I learned that certain things don’t necessarily bring you the fulfilment that you think they would. On paper, it feels like that is the life, but in experientially maybe not.

“I tell young people a lot that it is cool to be a player but if you develop that habit or lifestyle, you won’t automatically change overnight.
“So, don’t develop something you don’t want to continue for the rest of your life. If you are not able to commit to one person, if you jump from one relationship to another, that won’t automatically change when you marry.
“When you marry that muscle hasn’t been developed so you encounter one challenge and you want to immediately jump or you just be like, ‘I’m talking to you, you are not listening to me, let me find somebody that would listen to me.’
“If you are the kind of person that before you got married it was easy for you to just walk away, keep different relationships, keep ladies on the string, that won’t change when you get married.”

THE REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD BATH WITH YOUR SPOUSE EVERY NIGHT



Sharing a bath allows you and your spouse to unwind together, away from the distractions of daily life. It's a precious opportunity to connect on a deeper level and strengthen your bond as a couple.

Bathing with your partner is sweet, intimate, and a great way to become more comfortable with each other's bodies. Consider scheduling regular baths together, especially at night, to enjoy this shared experience.

Suggestions for Bathing Together:

A. Ask your spouse to help scrub your back as you bathe together.

B. Make it playful! Bathing together can be a lighthearted experience; from splashing each other with water to sharing playful banter, enjoy each other's company in a fun and carefree way.

Take your time. Enjoy your moments together.

C. Explore physical intimacy—allow your husband to explore and enjoy your body, and do the same for him. Enjoy playing with your husband’s pen!s. Relax and let your husband play with yours too and enjoy your br€asts.

D. Share passionate k!sses under the shower.

E. Hold your spouse closely from behind, letting him do the same, and embrace each other passionately.

F. Don’t shy away from making l0ve in the bathroom.

A couple's bath sets the stage for romance like nothing else. The warm water, soft lighting, and tranquil atmosphere heighten the senses and ignite the spark of intimacy.

HERE ARE A FEW REASONS YOU SHOULD SHOWER TOGETHER WITH YOUR SPOUSE:

1. IT RELIEVES STRESS:
Did you have a stressful day at work? Why not try taking a shower with your spouse. There are endless things that can make couples become stressed in life. Taking time to shower together is considered one of the effective ways to deal with different forms of stress.

Showers are known to be relaxing places after a busy, tiring day, and adding your spouse into the mix can only make the deal sweeter. Showering together with your spouse can ease the tension in your nerves and reignite the sparkle between both of you.

2. Showering together helps to save time when both of you wake up late: So, you rush into the shower with your spouse to catch up with time.

3. It’s hygienic: It is easier to get your back watched by your spouse: You bathe and clean each other better.

4. Showering with your spouse is romantic: It creates a nice atmosphere of romance as your bodies crease together and water runs through. There is nothing more romantic than getting wet with the person you love. It starts the day on a lovely note.

5. It enhances intimacy: According to research, showering together enhances intimacy between couples like nothing else. It helps you create an unshakable bond with your spouse.

6. Showering together makes you comfortable with your body: You get more comfortable taking off your clothes in the bathroom with your spouse. It builds your confidence level when you are naked with your spouse.

7. It makes you free with each other.

8. It can also enhance your s€x life.

9. It’s another kind of for€play

10. It’s a way to try a new shower s€x position: The bathroom can be a fun place to make l0ve but you should be extra careful because the bathroom can be slippery because of soap

11. Showering together with your spouse enhances your love life: it becomes easier to fall in love with your spouse all over again

12. It enhances your friendship: as it brings you closer, you will see it as a form of recreating and pleasure, thereby making you friendlier with each other.

Avoid becoming just roommates. Make sure you continue to be affectionate in your home by cuddling, touching and k!ssing your spouse. That is marriage.

You will not fail in marriage in Jesus' name

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The 4 Worst Popes in the History of the Catholic Church

The Catholic Church is holy, but it is also human. While the Church was founded by Jesus Christ and guided by the Holy Spirit, its leaders—especially the popes—have been fallible men. Most popes throughout history have been faithful shepherds, but a few have sadly fallen short. It's important to remember that the holiness of the Church does not depend on the personal holiness of its leaders, but on Christ, who promised that the gates of hell would not prevail against it.

Here are a few of the most notorious popes in Church history—men whose personal failures did not undo the truth of the faith:

1. Pope Stephen VI (896–897)
Stephen is infamous for the bizarre “Cadaver Synod.” He had the corpse of his predecessor, Pope Formosus, exhumed, dressed in papal robes, placed on a throne, and put on trial. The corpse was found guilty, stripped of its vestments, and thrown into the Tiber River. His actions caused outrage and unrest.

2. Pope John XII (955–964)
John XII became pope at just 18 and used the papacy for personal pleasure. His reign was marked by scandal, immorality, and corruption. He was accused of turning the Lateran Palace into a den of vice, and many historians rank him among the most morally corrupt pontiffs in history.

3. Pope Benedict IX (multiple terms between 1032–1048)
Benedict IX was pope on three separate occasions, and his papacy was plagued by bribery, violence, and scandal. He reportedly sold the papacy to his godfather so he could marry, and was later reinstated through political maneuvering. His behavior was so scandalous that even reformers within the Church called for drastic change.

4. Pope Alexander VI (1492–1503)
Born Rodrigo Borgia, Alexander VI is infamous for nepotism, lavish living, and fathering several children while pope. His papacy was entangled with political manipulation, bribery, and immorality. Yet, despite his personal flaws, he never altered Church doctrine.

Why This Matters
While these popes were deeply flawed, none of them ever changed official Church teachings on faith or morals. This is a sign of God's protection over His Church, even when human leaders fail.

The Catholic Church has endured for over 2,000 years—not because its leaders have always been perfect, but because Jesus Himself is the true head of the Church.

Subscribe now to explore more Catholic history—both the glorious and the gritty—and deepen your faith with us!

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*SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 31/05/2025*

Two Years of Tinubu’s Administration: We’re hungrier, impoverished — Nigerians

Niger flood of fury: Over 100 dead, 75 buried, 100 missing

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NIDCOM to probe killing of Nigerian by Switzerland police


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*DID YOU KNOW?*

* June used to be the fourth month in the year. Before Julius Caesar came to power, the calendar year only had 10 months. In 46 BC he created the Julian calendar by adding two more months to the year, which made June the sixth month.

* Ketchup was once sold as medicine. The condiment was prescribed and sold to people suffering with indigestion back in 1834.
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Tinubu issues executive order to slash oil sector costs

Reps, NEPZA task FTZs on prompt FAAC remittances

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Simon Ekpa appears in Finnish court on terrorism charges

Court jails 15 foreigners for cyber-terrorism, internet fraud

Court to hear Diezani’s asset forfeiture suit June 30

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15 convicted foreigners recruited Lagos youths for cyber-terrorism – EFCC

EFCC arrests 78 Internet fraudsters

150 million Nigerians affected by insecurity, says Ribadu

Troops eliminate terror kingpin Abu Fatima in Borno – Army

60 terrorists killed as army repels attack in Borno

Immigration arrests alleged Enugu ritual killer, hands him over to police

We shouldn’t be swayed solely by negative global statistics — Presidency

FG revives NATEP, eyes $1tn outsourcing market

FG targets $1bn annual investment in CNG projects

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We’ve restored global confidence in Nigeria’s aviation sector — Keyamo

2027: INEC ‘Withholds’ Registration Of New Parties

Tech vital in tackling corruption in govt – NITDA

NAFDAC defends crackdown on Onitsha traders, says charges lawful

Lagos, FCT lead in 256,567 unclaimed driver’s licences – FRSC

Rent: Abuja property owners crowd payment office over deadline

Abuja Public Transport System National Embarrassment –Wike

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Family of late NTA’s Kola Muyi donates rare music collection to MCSN

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Speed Darlington snubs NAPTIP summons

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Record stock rally greets Tinubu’s first two years

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Bolt driver shot dead in Bayelsa

Niger flood: I lost 17 members of my household — Victim laments

My son who died in Lagos building collapse scored 320 in UTME – Driver

How I became a chartered accountant at 17 – Babcock student

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*TODAY IN HISTORY*

* On this day in 1859, the Great Clock housing Big Ben started keeping time. The clock at the top of Elizabeth Tower at the north end of the British Houses of Parliament is one of the world’s best-known timekeepers.

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Do not dare not to dare. – C. S. Lewis

Good morning


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STILL A VIRGIN, BUT NOT PURE

She has tasted a lot of things, even semen
She drinks Schnapps, Her brand is "Sea man"
She is rough, but she is careful with her hymen
She uses her beauty like a rope just to tie men.

Every part of her body has been explored
But she guards jealously, her thin tissue of blood
She can allow you every part of her to enjoy
But her hymen, no one has been able to destroy.

She kisses so well, you will think she is French
Though she is a virgin, her sexual life has a stench
With her bare hands, she takes a hold of the penis
She does wonders, when she goes on her knees.

You call it blow job, she calls it licking her Lollipop
She takes her time on the job, no hurry-stop
She engages full time in foreplay
Ever willing, for any kind of display.

She goes as far, as getting herself fully unclad
Her body is available, enjoy it like a fruit salad
She satisfies her men, without penetration
Is she still a virgin? that's the big question.

Though she is not pure, she still has her hymen
Though she's a virgin, she has dated over 9 men
To each of them, she freely gives her body
She pulls everything off, even her undies.

But no man has ever gone in between her legs
You can pin her on the ground, like a tent peg
But no matter what you do, don't touch her vulva
Her virginity is more important to her than silver.
.
Her breast you can freely suck
But her legs are securely locked
Her butt you can fully rock
But her vagina is heavily blocked.

She is a virgin, but she is far from pure
She still has her hymen, of this I am sure
But her soul has totally lost sexual innocence
Virginity without purity shows no inner sense.

Purity is God's attire, embrace it. God is raising a glorious and spotless Generation.
Sexual purity is possible.
May God favor you with a Godly partner

Written by Pastor Sidney Ahura
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ERECTION

These + … Kill Erections
ERECTION

These + … Kill Erections
The 3 invisible systems that determine whether you rise—or fade—in the bedroom

Erections are one of nature’s most brilliant systems.
They take a numb, compact, unassuming body part—and expand it up to 3 times its size.
They make it stiff, sensitive, and deeply arousing to women.
All of it with one purpose: pleasure and reproduction.

But for that system to perform at full capacity, it requires care, attention, and the right conditions.

Most men don’t realize their erection isn’t failing because of age.
It’s because they’re unknowingly compromising the three internal systems that make it work in the first place.

Let’s break those down—and show you how to rebuild your full sexual strength from the inside out.

The 3 Pillars of Rock-Hard Erections

If any of these three systems are compromised, your erection will be too.

1. Cardiovascular Sponge
Your erection is a sponge—erectile tissue designed to fill with blood.
If your arteries can’t deliver it, there’s nothing to rise.
Blood flow is non-negotiable.

2. Testosterone Balance
Testosterone fuels your desire, your staying power, and your sexual edge.
Yes, it declines with age. But the biggest enemies are poor diet, chronic stress, overstimulation, and poor sleep—not time.

3. Arousal Triggers (Neurological Control)
This is the most surprising.
Many men tell me: “She was gorgeous. Ready. But I felt… flat.”
That’s not a lack of desire. It’s nervous system burnout.
Your arousal response has been hijacked by overstimulation and digital habits.



So How Do You Fix It?
Start with these 5 simple practices—each one proven to restore the systems behind natural, powerful erections.
They won’t work instantly, but if you follow them for just one week, the results will surprise you.

And if you combine these with my explicit video course, Unbreakable Erections?
By the end of the week, you’ll feel more potent, more responsive, and more in control.

Click here to explore Unbreakable Erections
Inside, you’ll see Bailey, a stunning young model, demonstrate—with me—exactly how to stay hard during real intimacy.

Every move. Every moment. Nothing held back.

*YOU DON'T HAVE TO HAVE IT ALL FIGURED OUT*

In the relentless pursuit of excellence, it's easy to feel overwhelmed by the pressure to have everything mapped out perfectly. But here's a liberating truth: *_You don't have to have it all figured out!_*

Life much like business is a journey. Each twist and turn, each unexpected detour, is not a sign of failure but an opportunity for growth. We often idolize those who seem to have a crystal-clear vision from day one, forgetting that most success stories are riddled with uncertainties and moments of doubt. The path to greatness is rarely a straight line.

It takes immense courage to admit that you don't have all the answers. But it is in this vulnerability that true innovation and creativity are born. Allow yourself the grace to explore this divine projects, to question, and to evolve. Trust that even in the midst of uncertainty, you are exactly where you need to be.

Today, let us stand together in the knowledge that it is okay to not have everything figured out. Let us support one another (in gada.chat ecosystem) in our individual journey, recognizing that each step, no matter how uncertain, brings us closer to our fullest potential.

*Through prosperity the kingdom of God shall yet be spread abroad - Zech. 1:17*

One of His promises for His children is to daily load us with blessings, and knowing the capacity of He that made the promise, (who does not faill) am set to take over, and explore all that He had promised me for today.

The Truth About Your Body.


Let’s talk

Your body is not a taboo—not a shame, not a filter.
But why twist your face like rotten eggs smell,
When I speak shaka-and-bulous truths?

Listen.

Why gag the truth when silence kills?
Biology without pictures is watered Biography—
A text lacking lens, sparks and steeze of conveyance.

Cringing at the attached conjuring photo,
Then calling it suggestive—
Forgetting its the motor,
That gives it a finish touch - "Expressive".


This is the major reason the girl child d1es slowly because s*x education is not taught even in hospitals.

They are rarely groomed with these in schools now because they feel there's nothing there.

Girls drown in silence, when their bodies become a mystery—

But instead of teaching them to understand their bodies, you make it look like s1n— You shame their fire, call their questions “wild”?
Then, when they set loose to explore, you call it untamed— what a world!

You deliberately choose not to tell them that urge isn’t evil—it’s power in motion, that can be transmuted.
Yet you leave them blind, raw, and stripped of their armor.

You ignore showing them "cycles" aren’t curses—it’s science!
Withholding their very arms of wisdom, shooting them with whispers of guilt.

Your nonchalance brews infections during their childhood while it blooms till adulthood where infertility takes root—
Digging deeper into their very core,
And then you jump from one pastor to another calling it "spiritual lock."
A harvest of pain you could’ve disarmed her.

You flinch when I name your hips, your blood, your bones in prints—
The fine blueprint of your existence.

Shying away from every discussion about understanding how sexuality works and then when the body is on reverse mode—

You beg doctors to fix your out-of-place body chemistry…
Is this not Crazy? Hypocrisy?
Let’s call it a BROKEN MENTALITY.

You’re here to learn—to heal, grow, survive.
Not every post’s for you, but someone’s alive_
Because when you hit “share,”
You lit up a spark in the dark of another.

Stop feeling off, because of a post that doesn't connect to you.

Own your body.
Own your story.

Silence dies when you weaponize the truth’s flame.
That female in your circle needs this.
Your timeline’s a lifeline.
If you scroll past? That’s cold.

Someone’s daughter,
Someone's wife,
Someone's mother,
Someone's aunt,
Someone's sister,

Clutches this post like gold.
Share it loud. Let the algorithm scream, so that someone’s healing will start with you.

This is not Sexual Rebellion—
This is Conceptual Reclamation of your Flesh, Fire and Fate.

Your biology is a masterpiece, not a debate.


#Shakabulous Weekend

Are Catholic Priests Really Biblical?

One of the most common questions Catholics are asked is, “Are priests really in the Bible?” For many non-Catholics, the idea of a man set apart to offer sacrifices, forgive sins, and lead the faithful seems foreign or even man-made. But when we turn to Scripture and early Christian tradition, we find that the role of the Catholic priesthood is deeply rooted in the Bible and in the life of the early Church.

Let’s begin with the Old Testament. God established a priesthood through Aaron and the Levites (see Exodus 28–29). Their role was clear: to offer sacrifices, intercede for the people, and teach the law. This priesthood, while temporary and imperfect, foreshadowed the eternal priesthood of Jesus Christ, the true High Priest (Hebrews 4:14).

When Jesus came, He didn’t abolish the priesthood—He fulfilled it. At the Last Supper, He instituted the Eucharist and told His apostles, “Do this in memory of me” (Luke 22:19). This wasn’t a symbolic act—it was a sacrificial command. The Greek word for “do” (poiein) in that context is priestly language. Christ was entrusting His apostles with the power to make present His once-for-all sacrifice.

After the Resurrection, Jesus breathed on the apostles and said, “Whose sins you forgive are forgiven” (John 20:23). He was giving them divine authority to act in His name—something that continued in the early Church. In Acts, we see the apostles laying hands on new leaders (Acts 6:6, 13:3), and James instructing believers to call the “elders” (presbyters) of the Church to pray and anoint the sick (James 5:14).

That word—presbyteros—is where we get the English word “priest.” These ordained men were spiritual fathers who offered the Eucharist, administered sacraments, and shepherded the faithful. From the earliest Christian writings outside the Bible—like those of St. Ignatius of Antioch (around A.D. 107)—we see a Church structured with bishops, priests, and deacons, just as the Catholic Church has today.

Far from being a later invention, the priesthood flows directly from the ministry of Christ and the mission of the apostles. Catholic priests do not replace Jesus—they act in persona Christi, in the person of Christ, especially in the sacraments.

So yes, the Catholic priesthood is biblical, historical, and spiritual—a living continuation of Christ’s ministry on earth.

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There comes a day when you realize that the fear never really goes away,
that if you really want something,
you have to be willing to do it afraid.
And maybe this is the only way you ever get to discover your fullest potential.
Maybe you just have to dive right in and face the thing that scares you the most.
Because in the end,
it's not the rejections and so-called failures that will haunt you.
It will be your own potential left unexplored.
So maybe you don't need to wait until you overcome your fears to take the first step forward.
Maybe you just need to know there's something more important than fear. Something greater.
Something worth fighting for.
And maybe overcoming your fears is the least important part of your story anyway.
Maybe what matters is that you're scared but still determined.
Shaky but still standing.
Afraid but still willing to try.
- Zanna Keithley
Artist: Skategirl