MISTAKES FOOLISH MEN MAKE 🚨 Some men think they are wise, but their foolishness is louder than a generator at 2 AM. They spend on random women, ignore their families, and behave like big boys until reality humbles them. If you want a peaceful and successful life, avoid these 15 foolish mistakes: 1. YOU FEED STRANGERS, BUT YOUR FAMILY IS HUNGRY Your wife asks for money to cook, you say “manage things.” Your children need new shoes, you tell them “things are tough.” But when a slay queen sends “Hey baby, I’m craving pizza”, you’re already on your way to Domino’s like a delivery man. 🚨 BREAKING NEWS: Your own family is suffering, but you’re feeding someone who is only with you because of your money. Who really needs deliverance here? 2. YOU ENJOY LIFE OUTSIDE, BUT YOUR HOME IS A WAR ZONE You’re “outside” every weekend, drinking, dancing, calling yourself “big man”, while your wife is at home, thinking about how to pay rent and feed the kids. 🚨 REALITY CHECK: One day, you’ll return home broke, and the woman you abandoned will be the only one standing by you. By then, it might be too late. 3. YOU’RE INVESTING IN SOMEONE ELSE’S WIFE You think you’re helping a “babe” grow by sending her money? She’s just waiting for a serious man to marry her. You’re paying her bills, sponsoring her hair, nails, and data. But when she’s ready to settle down, she will marry another man. 🚨 CONGRATULATIONS IN ADVANCE: You just built up another man’s wife. Hope you’ll attend the wedding! 😂 4. YOU THINK ASHAWO LOVES YOU – NO, SHE LOVES YOUR WALLET She calls you “baby” because you’re spending money, not because she actually cares. 🚨 WAKE UP! The moment you go broke, she will disappear faster than free WiFi in a crowded area. Oga, you’re not her type – your money is! 5. YOU’RE A BIG MAN OUTSIDE, BUT BROKE IN YOUR OWN HOUSE Outside, you’re a chairman. Inside, you’re a charity case. Your friends see you drinking expensive whiskey, but your children are drinking garri with no sugar. 🚨 EVEN YOUR ANCESTORS ARE SHOCKED. Fix your priorities before life resets you. 6. YOU SMOKE, DRINK, GAMBLE, BUT CAN’T PAY SCHOOL FEES Every weekend, you spend ₦50k on smoking and drinking, but when school fees arrive, you start telling your wife “times are hard.” Oga, times are not hard, you are just stupid. Instead of investing in your children, you’re investing in alcohol. 🚨 REALITY WILL HUMBLE YOU. The same children you abandoned will be the ones to abandon you in old age. 7. YOU’RE CHASING GIRLS WHILE YOUR LIFE IS FALLING APART Your mates are building businesses, but you’re building a catalog of side chicks. You know all the girls in town, but you don’t know how to make money. 🚨 BE SERIOUS WITH YOUR LIFE, BRO. Girls will not help you when you’re broke. Focus on success first – the right woman will come. 8. YOU’RE SPENDING MONEY ON A GIRL WHO’S SAVING FOR ANOTHER MAN You send her urgent 2K, she tells you “thanks baby 😍” But the money goes straight into her savings account for her real boyfriend. 🚨 ONE DAY, YOU WILL UNDERSTAND. When she gets married, don’t be surprised if the husband is the same guy you thought was “just a friend.” 9. YOU CALL YOURSELF A “BIG BOY” BUT YOU HAVE NO INVESTMENTS You wear designers, use the latest iPhone, but your account balance is on life support. 🚨 TRUE WEALTH IS SILENT. If your money is only for show, you’ll be broke before you hit 40. 10. YOU’RE COMPETING WITH YOUR MATES WHO HAVE MULTIPLE INCOME SOURCES Your friends invest in real estate, stocks, and businesses, but you’re busy competing over who can pop the most bottles at the club. 🚨 LIFE IS NOT A COMPETITION OF STUPIDITY. If you don’t invest now, you’ll be begging your mates for help later. 11. YOU SLEEP AROUND, BUT EXPECT A FAITHFUL WIFE You cheat with everything in a skirt, but the day you see your wife talking to another man, you become a motivational speaker on loyalty. 🚨 KARMA IS NOT A MYTH. If you want a good woman, be a good man first. 12. YOU KEEP BORROWING TO IMPRESS PEOPLE WHO DON’T CARE You take loans just to live large, but those people you’re impressing won’t help you when you’re in debt. 🚨 STOP LIVING FAKE LIFE. Wealthy men don’t borrow money for luxury – they invest and multiply it. 13. YOU CHOOSE WOMEN BASED ON LOOKS, NOT CHARACTER She’s fine, but does she have sense? She’s sexy, but does she have self-respect? 🚨 A PRETTY FOOL WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE. Choose wisely before you end up with a liability, not a wife. 14. YOU ALLOW WOMEN TO CONTROL YOUR LIFE A woman asks for money, you empty your account. She tells you to stop talking to your friends, you obey like a child. 🚨 BE A MAN, NOT A PUPPET. A woman should complement your life, not control it. 15. YOU NEGLECT YOUR SPIRITUAL LIFE You believe in money, women, and vibes, but when problems come, who will fight for you? 🚨 EVEN BILLIONAIRES PRAY. If you think money is everything, you’ll learn the hard way that life is deeper than cash.

Two days ago we celebrated mother's day, come to think of it who is a mother? A mother is someone who nurtures, cares for, and provides love and support to a child. This can be biological, adoptive, or even in a chosen family dynamic. A mother isn’t just defined by giving birth but by the role she plays in a child's life—offering guidance, protection, and unconditional love. Characteristics of a mother A mother is often characterized by a mix of emotional, psychological, and practical qualities. While every mother is unique, some common characteristics include: 1. Unconditional Love – A mother’s love is deep, unwavering, and not based on conditions. She cares for her children regardless of their flaws. 2. Nurturing Nature – She provides emotional and physical support, ensuring her children feel safe, loved, and cared for. 3. Patience – Raising children requires immense patience, from teaching life lessons to handling tantrums. 4. Selflessness – A mother often puts her child’s needs before her own, sacrificing time, sleep, and personal desires for their well-being. 5. Strength and Resilience – She remains strong through challenges, whether emotional, financial, or personal, to support her family. 6. Guidance and Wisdom – A mother imparts life lessons, values, and knowledge, helping her children navigate life’s ups and downs. 7. Protectiveness – She instinctively protects her child from harm, whether emotional or physical. 8. Compassion and Empathy – Understanding her child’s feelings and struggles, she provides comfort and reassurance. 9. Dedication and Hard Work – Whether she’s a stay-at-home mom, a working mother, or balancing both, she is committed to providing a better life for her child. 10. Forgiveness – Even when children make mistakes, a mother forgives and continues to support them. While these characteristics are common, motherhood looks different for everyone. Some mothers may express love through actions rather than words, while others may be more emotional. What do you think defines a mother best? Let's have your opinion on this

𝗗𝗼 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗻𝗲𝗴𝗹𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗳 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 When God has given you a word of prophecy about your life, He takes you through a season of preparation to empower you so that the prophetic word comes to pass. Gold has to go through a purification (refining) process so that it becomes pure gold, free from impurities. God prepares you so that any character in you that is inconsistent with His nature would die. For example, pride, anger, envy, jealousy, and lust would die, allowing you to fully express the character of God, which is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. The process of preparation is characterized by waiting on God, spending time studying the word of God, praying, and experiencing pain. The process of preparation is not an easy one, but it's worth it. Child of God, don't neglect your season of preparation. Don't give up, stay focused on what God is doing in your life. Follow Mefor Zenny #christianwriter

“What Have You Ever Done for Me?” — The Final Slap Every Simp Receives This is the bitter reality simps refuse to accept until it’s too late. You break your back, you sacrifice, you play sponsor, you pay her fees, you fund her dreams, and the moment she levels up, the words that pierce your soul are: “What have you ever done for me?” Or worse… “Did I ask you to do it?” This is the currency of an ungrateful woman. And it is the death sentence every simp receives after investing in a woman who never respected him in the first place. You see, you thought by giving, funding, and sacrificing, you were securing love. Wrong. You were only paying for temporary company. She’ll smile while she’s broke. She’ll act submissive when she needs help. But the second that degree is in her hand, and she steps into a new circle, you instantly become “too local,” “too small,” “too average.” Now, you’re just the illiterate mechanic, the village boy, the one who was “just helping,” not the man she wants to build with. Make no mistake—women don’t stay with men out of pity. They stay with men they admire. When you sponsor her without demanding accountability, without vetting her character, you are setting yourself up for humiliation. The Code Is Simple: Stop playing philanthropist to ungrateful women. Invest in yourself first. Build your empire before you attempt to build anyone else’s. If you’re not a king, don’t be surprised when she jumps ship for one. Simping is not love—it’s self-inflicted slavery. Be wise. Be ruthless. Be Alpha.

"Don’t let your emotions write checks your character can’t cash."

"Don’t let your emotions write checks your character can’t cash."

A youngster asked his grandfather - "Grandpa! How did you people live before with - No technology No aeroplanes No internet No computers No dramas No TVs No aircons No cars No mobile phones?" Grandpa replied: "Just like how your generation live today - No prayers No compassion No honor No respect No character No shame No modesty" We, the people born between 1950-1970, or by extension 1977-1986. are really the blessed ones ... Our life is living proof. 👉While playing and riding "rented" bicycles in our youth, we never wore helmets. 👉After school, we played until dusk; we never watched TV. 👉We played with real friends, not internet friends. 👉 If we ever felt thirsty, we drank public tap water not bottled water. 👉We never got ill sharing the same glass of juice with four friends. 👉We never gained weight eating plates of rice and eba everyday. 👉Nothing happened to our feet despite roaming barefoot. Very few had shoes !. 👉We never used any vitamin supplements to keep ourselves healthy. 👉We used to create our own toys and play with them. 👉Most parents were not rich. They gave love .. not worldly material things. 👉We never had cellphones, DVDs, play station, XBox, video games, personal computers, internet, chat - but we had real friends. 👉We visited our friend's home uninvited and enjoyed their meals with them. 👉We holidayed with relations & Relatives lived close by, so family time was enjoyed. 👉We may have been priviledged to appear in black and white photos but you can find colourful memories in those photographs. 👉 We are a unique and most understanding generation, because we may be the last generation who respected & listened to our own parents. AND also the first generation who have to listen to their own children. We are a LIMITED edition ! Enjoy us. Learn from us. Treasure us.

12 Reasons Why Reading Books Should Be Part of Your Life: 1. Knowledge Highway: Books offer a vast reservoir of knowledge on virtually any topic imaginable. Dive deep into history, science, philosophy, or explore new hobbies and interests. 2. Enhanced Vocabulary: Regular reading exposes you to a wider range of vocabulary, improving your communication skills and comprehension. 3. Memory Boost: Studies suggest that reading can help sharpen your memory and cognitive function, keeping your mind active and engaged. 4. Stress Reduction: Curling up with a good book can be a form of mental escape, offering a temporary reprieve from daily anxieties and a chance to unwind. 5. Improved Focus and Concentration: In today's fast-paced world filled with distractions, reading strengthens your ability to focus and concentrate for extended periods. 6. Empathy and Perspective: Stepping into the shoes of fictional characters allows you to develop empathy and gain a deeper understanding of different perspectives. 7. Enhanced Creativity: Reading exposes you to new ideas and thought processes, potentially sparking your own creativity and problem-solving skills. 8. Stronger Writing Skills: Immersing yourself in well-written prose can improve your writing style, sentence structure, and overall communication clarity. 9. Improved Sleep Quality: Swap screen time for a book before bed. The calming nature of reading can help you relax and unwind, promoting better sleep quality.

"Character is who you are when no one is watching."

"Character is who you are when no one is watching."

What foundation is to a building is what character is to a man. Character is the invisible part of success that holds the visible.

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