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PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE
THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START
- Bishop David Oyedepo
While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very ****** man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame."
He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START - Bishop David Oyedepo While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very stupid man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame." He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."0 Reacties 0 aandelen 54 Views -
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PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE
THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START
- Bishop David Oyedepo
While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very ****** man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame."
He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START - Bishop David Oyedepo While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very stupid man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame." He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."0 Reacties 0 aandelen 63 Views -
PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE
THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START
- Bishop David Oyedepo
While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very ****** man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame."
He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START - Bishop David Oyedepo While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very stupid man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame." He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."0 Reacties 0 aandelen 62 Views -
*Cognitive Biases*
💁🏻♀️ *Master Them Before They Master You!* 🫵🏻
*Confirmation Bias:*
💁🏻♀️ We seek information that confirms existing beliefs, and ignore contrary evidence.
*Example:* Only following news sources you agree with.
*Fix:* Actively seek opposing viewpoints; before decisions, assign a "devil's advocate"
*Sunk Cost Fallacy:*
💁🏻♀️ We keep investing because we already have, even when it's not rational.
*Example:* A company pours money into a failing product because they've already invested.
*Fix:* Ask, "If I were starting today, would I still invest?"
*Halo Effect:*
💁🏻♀️ Our impression of one trait impacts how we see unrelated ones.
*Example:* A well-dressed candidate is assumed to be more competent.
*Fix:* Seek evidence, not reputation, appearance, or confidence.
*Recency Bias:*
💁🏻♀️ Recent events have a stronger influence on decisions.
*Example:* A manager rates an employee based on their last two weeks, ignoring consistent performance all year.
*Fix:* Pull back and look long-term.
*Optimism Bias:*
💁🏻♀️ We believe we're less likely to experience negative outcomes.
*Example:* Founders assume their business won't fail, even though most do.
*Fix:* Consider worst-case scenarios before making big decisions.
*Anchoring Bias:*
💁🏻♀️ We rely too heavily on the first piece of information we receive.
*Example:* A job candidate struggles to negotiate upward from a lowball offer.
*Fix:* Don't accept an initial value as your reference point - find independent sources.
*Self-Serving Bias:*
💁🏻♀️ We take credit for successes but blame external factors for failures.
*Example:* A manager takes credit for a project's success but blames the team if it fails.
*Fix:* Force yourself to own mistakes, not just successes.
*Negativity Bias:*
💁🏻♀️ We give more weight to negative experiences than positive ones.
*Example:* An employee gets 10 positive comments and I negative, but only remembers the latter
*Fix:* Keep a list of past successes to balance your perception.
*Availability Heuristic:*
💁🏻♀️ We judge the likelihood of events based on how easily examples come to mind
*Example:* Avoiding flying after seeing a plane crash in the news
*Fix:* If you're using anecdotes, ask: "Is this actually common, or just memorable?""
*Dunning-Kruger Effect:*
💁🏻♀️ Incompetent people overestimate abilities, experts underestimate
*Example:* Attempting to rewire your house after watching one YouTube video house
*Fix:* If you're a confident novice, assume you're overestimating and get feedback
*Framing Effect:*
💁🏻♀️ The way information is presented influences our decisions
*Example:* "90% fat-free" sounds healthier than "10% fat"
*Fix:* Ask, "Would I feel different if this was worded another way?"
*Bandwagon Effect:*
💁🏻♀️ We adopt beliefs or behaviors just because others do.
*Example:* Consumers rush to buy a trendy item without considering if they actually like it.
*Fix:* Ask, "Would I still believe this if no one else did?"
*Endowment Effect:*
💁🏻♀️ We overvalue things just because we own them.
*Example:* A person believes their car is worth more than market value just because it's theirs
*Fix:* Ask, "Would I pay this much for it if I didn't already own it?"
🙆🏻♀️ *Thanks for reading .
💁🏻♀️ Share with your friends as well.🧠 *Cognitive Biases* 🧠 💁🏻♀️ *Master Them Before They Master You!* 🫵🏻 🔰 *Confirmation Bias:* 💁🏻♀️ We seek information that confirms existing beliefs, and ignore contrary evidence. ❇️ *Example:* Only following news sources you agree with. ✅ *Fix:* Actively seek opposing viewpoints; before decisions, assign a "devil's advocate" 🔰 *Sunk Cost Fallacy:* 💁🏻♀️ We keep investing because we already have, even when it's not rational. ❇️ *Example:* A company pours money into a failing product because they've already invested. ✅ *Fix:* Ask, "If I were starting today, would I still invest?" 🔰 *Halo Effect:* 💁🏻♀️ Our impression of one trait impacts how we see unrelated ones. ❇️ *Example:* A well-dressed candidate is assumed to be more competent. ✅ *Fix:* Seek evidence, not reputation, appearance, or confidence. 🔰 *Recency Bias:* 💁🏻♀️ Recent events have a stronger influence on decisions. ❇️ *Example:* A manager rates an employee based on their last two weeks, ignoring consistent performance all year. ✅ *Fix:* Pull back and look long-term. 🔰 *Optimism Bias:* 💁🏻♀️ We believe we're less likely to experience negative outcomes. ❇️ *Example:* Founders assume their business won't fail, even though most do. ✅ *Fix:* Consider worst-case scenarios before making big decisions. 🔰 *Anchoring Bias:* 💁🏻♀️ We rely too heavily on the first piece of information we receive. ❇️ *Example:* A job candidate struggles to negotiate upward from a lowball offer. ✅ *Fix:* Don't accept an initial value as your reference point - find independent sources. 🔰 *Self-Serving Bias:* 💁🏻♀️ We take credit for successes but blame external factors for failures. ❇️ *Example:* A manager takes credit for a project's success but blames the team if it fails. ✅ *Fix:* Force yourself to own mistakes, not just successes. 🔰 *Negativity Bias:* 💁🏻♀️ We give more weight to negative experiences than positive ones. ❇️ *Example:* An employee gets 10 positive comments and I negative, but only remembers the latter ✅ *Fix:* Keep a list of past successes to balance your perception. 🔰 *Availability Heuristic:* 💁🏻♀️ We judge the likelihood of events based on how easily examples come to mind ❇️ *Example:* Avoiding flying after seeing a plane crash in the news ✅ *Fix:* If you're using anecdotes, ask: "Is this actually common, or just memorable?"" 🔰 *Dunning-Kruger Effect:* 💁🏻♀️ Incompetent people overestimate abilities, experts underestimate ❇️ *Example:* Attempting to rewire your house after watching one YouTube video house ✅ *Fix:* If you're a confident novice, assume you're overestimating and get feedback 🔰 *Framing Effect:* 💁🏻♀️ The way information is presented influences our decisions ❇️ *Example:* "90% fat-free" sounds healthier than "10% fat" ✅ *Fix:* Ask, "Would I feel different if this was worded another way?" 🔰 *Bandwagon Effect:* 💁🏻♀️ We adopt beliefs or behaviors just because others do. ❇️ *Example:* Consumers rush to buy a trendy item without considering if they actually like it. ✅ *Fix:* Ask, "Would I still believe this if no one else did?" 🔰 *Endowment Effect:* 💁🏻♀️ We overvalue things just because we own them. ❇️ *Example:* A person believes their car is worth more than market value just because it's theirs ✅ *Fix:* Ask, "Would I pay this much for it if I didn't already own it?" 🙆🏻♀️ *Thanks for reading 📖. 💁🏻♀️ Share with your friends as well.0 Reacties 2 aandelen 114 Views -
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PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE
THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START
- Bishop David Oyedepo
While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very ****** man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame."
He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START - Bishop David Oyedepo While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very stupid man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame." He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."0 Reacties 0 aandelen 55 Views -
PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE
THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START
- Bishop David Oyedepo
While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very ****** man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame."
He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START - Bishop David Oyedepo While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very stupid man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame." He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."0 Reacties 0 aandelen 54 Views -
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PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE
THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START
- Bishop David Oyedepo
While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very ****** man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame."
He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START - Bishop David Oyedepo While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very stupid man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame." He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."1 Reacties 3 aandelen 121 Views -
PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE
THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START
- Bishop David Oyedepo
While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very ****** man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame."
He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START - Bishop David Oyedepo While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very stupid man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame." He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."1 Reacties 0 aandelen 61 Views -
PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE
THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START
- Bishop David Oyedepo
While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very ****** man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame."
He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START - Bishop David Oyedepo While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very stupid man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame." He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."1 Reacties 0 aandelen 57 Views -
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PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE
THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START
- Bishop David Oyedepo
While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very ****** man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame."
He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START - Bishop David Oyedepo While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very stupid man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame." He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."1 Reacties 2 aandelen 101 Views -
PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE
THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START
- Bishop David Oyedepo
While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very ****** man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame."
He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START - Bishop David Oyedepo While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very stupid man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame." He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."2 Reacties 2 aandelen 104 Views -
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PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE
THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START
- Bishop David Oyedepo
While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very ****** man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame."
He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME, THAT IS WHY THEY REMAIN IN THE SAME PLACE THERE IS NO ONE IN MY FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A DIME FOR THIS MINISTRY TO START - Bishop David Oyedepo While speaking on UNVEILING THE EVER WINNING WEAPON OF WISDOM, Bishop Oyedepo charged the congregation to avoid blaming anyone for the outcomes of their lives. He said "You are absolutely responsible for the outcome of your life. I caught it. No one to blame. People have people to blame, that is why they remain in the same place. 'If not that my uncle is a very stupid man, can I be like this now?' 'That my cousin is a devil. He is in UK and I am here. He is not sending me anything.' Church Gist. Do you know what he is going through where he is? 'My mother is my problem. If she had money and I went abroad like that other person, will I be like this now?' Sell your mother and travel abroad. People just keep looking for who to blame." He furthered buttressed his point with this illustration, "When you point one finger at any man who is troubling you, there are three pointing at you. So even if the man doesn't trouble me and I still trouble myself, I am still going to be a failure. You can't cause me more than 25 per cent of my troubles. 75 per cent of my troubles are my own. A man's enemies are the people of his own household. You are your problem, it is not your background. Church Gist. You have joined another family, a family of Jesus. Your background has no more reference. Wake up my friend. There is no one in my family that put a dime for this ministry to start. Not one. They were not even privileged to know because they can discourage me. The closest to me that knew only found out on the day of Commissioning. I told them it is 9:00am that morning. You have counted so much on this ephemerals, that you miss the substance. You can't have God's backing and be backward."2 Reacties 1 aandelen 99 Views -
WHY SHARES IS VERY IMPORTANT.
LET'S START WITH FACEBOOK.
Facebook earnings
To calculate Facebook's hourly revenue, let's use the annual revenue figure for 2024, which is $164.5 billion.
First, let's break down the annual revenue to daily revenue:
$164,500,000,000 ÷ 365 days = approximately $450,684,931 per day
Now, let's calculate the hourly revenue:
$450,684,931 ÷ 24 hours = approximately $18,778,539 per hour
So, Facebook makes around $18.78 million every hour ¹ ² ³.
Mark Zuckerberg is indeed one of the richest people in the world. As of October 2024, his net worth is approximately $206 billion, making him the second-richest person globally, surpassed only by Elon Musk's $265 billion. Zuckerberg's wealth primarily comes from his 13% stake in Meta, the parent company of Facebook, Instagram, and WhatsApp.
Here's a brief overview of the top 2 richest people:
- *1. Elon Musk*: $265 billion (Tesla CEO)
- *2. Mark Zuckerberg*: $206 billion (Meta CEO)
Gada chat is next in line just matter of time
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Gada.Chat Official Online Launching was a success.
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My Husband's Wife Is His Mother (EPISODE 1)
If someone had told me that I wouldn’t get to spend my wedding night alone with my husband, I would have laughed in disbelief. But that night—my wedding night—was the first time I realized something was very wrong. And it all started with the sound of her slippers.
Flip. Flop. Flip. Flop.
I was in the bathroom, changing into my silk nightgown. I had planned this night down to the details. Candles. Perfume. The perfect playlist. After all the stress of wedding planning, I just wanted to hold the man I loved and breathe in the beginning of forever.
But the knock came.
It was soft at first. Then firmer. Then the voice.
“Oya open the door jare, make I lie down small. My waist is paining me.”
My husband laughed. Laughed.
“Shey I told you my mama doesn’t like hard beds,” he said, already heading for the door.
I peeked out from behind the bathroom door, confused. “What do you mean lie down?”
“She’ll just rest a bit. Don’t worry,” he said, brushing it off like it was normal. “She does this when she travels. The bed in the guest room is too small.”
“But... this is our wedding night,” I whispered, heart sinking.
He looked at me like I was being unreasonable. “Babe, it’s just for a bit. You know she’s old.”
Old? His mother was barely 60. Active. Loud. Controlling. She ran a shop, led the women’s group in church, and made sure to remind everyone that she raised her son "without a single coin from any useless man."
Still in disbelief, I watched as he opened the door and let her in.
She entered like she owned the room. Like she built it with her hands. She didn’t even look at me. Just removed her wrapper, fluffed a pillow, and slid into the middle of our bed.
My side.
“Put off that candle abeg,” she said, fanning herself. “You want to burn this house?”
I stood there frozen. My chest tightened. I looked at my husband, silently begging for support.
He sat beside her and smiled. “She’s just tired. Tomorrow, everything will be normal.”
But it wasn’t.
I barely slept that night. The three of us lay in that bed like sardines in a can. Every time I shifted, her leg brushed mine. At one point, she even snored. Loudly. I turned to face the wall, hot tears forming in my eyes.
This wasn’t what I signed up for.
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The next morning, she woke before us and clapped her hands loudly.
“Wake up, wake up! This is not honeymoon o, this is my son’s house. I want to boil water.”
I sat up, dazed. My husband stretched lazily and gave her the same smile he gave me during our vows.
“Mama, you want me to carry the pot?”
“Ehen, now you’re talking.”
And just like that, they left me in the room. Alone. In my own marriage.
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Later that day, I tried to talk to him.
“Why did she sleep in our room?” I asked gently, not wanting to seem disrespectful.
He sighed. “Babe, you know how close I am to my mom. It’s just for a while. She said she wants to be around until you're strong enough to manage things.”
“I’m not sick,” I replied, trying to control my voice. “And we just got married. Shouldn’t we be alone?”
He shrugged. “Just give her time. She’s adjusting too.”
Adjusting? She was adjusting?
What about me?
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That evening, it happened again. She brought her wrapper, pillow, and blanket. No questions asked. She even had the audacity to say, “Ah, I like this mattress. Very firm. Good for my back.”
I stood by the bed, still in my wrapper, and didn’t know what to do.
“Mama,” I tried to speak, “maybe you can try the guest room again? We just—”
She turned her head sharply. “You want to chase me away from my son’s room? Is it now a sin for a mother to sleep beside her child?”
My husband kept quiet.
Dead silence.
I looked at him, pleading with my eyes.
He avoided my gaze and said, “Let’s not make this a big issue tonight. We’ll talk about it tomorrow.”
But tomorrow never came.
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I started noticing little things. How she always sat between us when we watched TV. How she would call him to come lie down beside her during the day and rub her back. How she took over my kitchen and rearranged everything without asking. How she spoke to me like I was the house girl.
I wanted to be respectful. I was raised to honor elders. But this? This was not honor. This was intrusion. This was something else entirely.
A twisted triangle. A marriage with three corners.
And somehow, I was the outsider.
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That night, I called my elder sister.
“Sis, she sleeps between us. Every night. She won’t leave.”
She paused. “What does your husband say?”
“Nothing. He acts like it’s normal. Like I’m overreacting.”
She hissed. “That’s witchcraft. Or madness. Or both.”
I laughed bitterly. “It’s not funny.”
“No, I know. But you need to take control before it gets worse.”
“How?” I whispered. “How do I fight a mother-in-law on her son’s bed?”
There was silence. And then her voice was firm. “You’re the wife. Start acting like it. Don’t let her settle.”
But it was already too late.
She had settled.
She had brought her pillow. Her slippers. Her authority.
And on the first night of my marriage, I learned that love is not always a fairytale.
Sometimes, it’s a bed with three people—and one of them isn’t going anywhere.
End of Episode 1
To Be Continue in Episode 2
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