10 TOXIC traits women secretly LOVE in men:

1. Being Emotionally Unavailable (At First)

If you’re texting her nonstop, always expressing your feelings—she will get bored fast.

The moment she feels she has you figured out, the chase is over.

Instead, be unpredictable. Stay focused on your mission. Let her wonder.

2. Being Blunt & Unapologetic:

Women love a man who says what he means and doesn’t sugarcoat.

Most guys tiptoe around, afraid to offend her. That’s weak.

If she asks, “Do I look fat in this?”—be honest. If she acts out, call it out.

3. Having a Little Bit of Arrogance

Confidence is hot. Arrogance (when done right) is magnetic.

When you carry yourself like a man who knows his worth, women can’t resist it.

You don’t need to prove anything. You just exist as the prize—and she will naturally want to win you.

4. Being Hard to Impress:

The average guy pedestalizes women he puts them above himself, and treats them like a prize.

A high-value man? He is not easily impressed.

She’s attractive? So what?

When you don’t react like every other guy, she will work harder to win your approval.

5. Teasing & Challenging Her:

Nice guys compliment her all day. Weak men tell her what she wants to hear. Boring.

The man she desires? He challenges her. He teases her. He makes her work for his validation.

if you do this you'll stand out from every other guy feeding her ego.

6. Keeping Other Women Around:

Women are competitive by nature. If she feels like she’s the only one chasing you, she won’t value you.

But the second she senses other women desire you, her attraction skyrockets.

Social proof is real.

7. Making Her Jealous (But in Control of It):

Jealousy is a weapon, and if used right, it keeps a woman hooked.

Subtly mention that another woman complimented you. Post a picture of you having fun with female friends. Show that you're wanted.

8. Being a Little Bit Selfish:

A woman doesn’t want a man who gives her everything—she wants a man who prioritizes himself.

She needs to see that you are on your own path, and if she wants to be a part of it, she has to earn her place.

Never sacrifice your goals for her.

9. Show Selectiveness:

Most guys try to impress every attractive woman they meet. But the ones who stand out are the ones who are not easily impressed themselves.

Instead of chasing her, ask yourself: “Does she even meet my standards?”

10. Being Mysterious & Unpredictable:

Women don’t fantasize about the guy who spills his entire life story on the first date. They crave the unknown.

Keep her guessing.

Don’t text back instantly.

Don’t tell her everything.

Let her wonder what you’re thinking.

Breaking News

Davido becomes the first African artiste to buy the 2 door 2026 Mercedes Maybach SL680 worth 1.2 billion Naira .

The car is not yet available in the market . You can only preorder it and you must show prove that you are capable of maintaining it and buying an extra 2 .

The level of money Nigerian artistes have now is crazy . Just this year Davido has bought more than 6 luxury cars with none costing less than a billion .

Moral lesson : God abeg , bless my followers too . Them suppose enjoy .

Days after death.
3 Days: nails start to fall off
4 days: hairs decay
5 days: brains melts vigorously
6 days: stomach melts out from mouth and private parts
60 Days: Flesh is separated from bones and becomes acidic
Even the animals would not wish to stand near the graves due to the unbearable smell of rotten bodies.
So Much Pride!
So Much Greed!
So Much anger!
So much Evil!
For What?

Where is your money?
Where is your power?
Where is your arrogance?
Where's your beauty?
Where's your handsomeness?
Where's your anointing?
Where's your mansions?
Where's your PHD?
Where's your political power?
Where's your power in military?
Where's your Chief judge?
Where's your talent?
Where's do you know who I am?
Where's I will use my money to punish you?
Where's your pride?
Where's without me there's no one that can do it,
Where's without me you will not eat?
Where's your cars
Ask yourself questions
Where will you be 80 years from now?

The end is near

Enjoy your life but set limits & be always humble.
Because one day there is no way back anymore.
May the lord forgive us for our sins.
May the lord forgive our beloved ones in Jesus mighty name Amen.

When an elephant needs to be transported by plane from one country to another—for example, from India to the United States—its crate is filled with… tiny chicks.

Yes, you read that right: little, fragile chicks.

Why?

Because despite their enormous size, elephants are deeply afraid of causing harm. Throughout the entire flight, the elephant stands perfectly still, not daring to move, so as not to risk stepping on a single chick.

That’s how the plane stays balanced.
And for the elephant, it’s the first test of its noble nature.

Fascinated by this behavior, scientists have studied the elephant’s brain and discovered spindle cells—rare neurons also found in humans.
These are associated with self-awareness, empathy, and complex social perception.

In other words, an elephant is not only physically huge; it’s an emotional giant, too.
It feels, understands, and acts with silent wisdom.

Leonardo da Vinci, deeply fascinated by nature, once wrote about elephants:

“The elephant embodies righteousness, reason, and temperance.”

He also noted:
The elephant enters the river and bathes with a certain dignity, as if wishing to purify itself from all evil.
If it finds a lost person, it gently guides them back to the right path.
It never walks alone: always in a group, always led by a guide.

It is modest.
Mating happens only at night, away from the herd, and before returning to the group, the elephant bathes.
If it encounters another herd on its way, it gently moves them aside with its trunk, careful not to hurt anyone.

But perhaps the most touching thing is this:
When an elephant senses the end is near, it leaves the herd and goes to die alone, in a secluded place.

Why?

To spare the younger ones the pain of watching it die.

Out of modesty. Out of compassion. Out of dignity.

Three rare virtues.
Even among humans.

Even though I don't look worth celebrating yet. Happy democracy day

It's important we change our mindset to money and material things as a nation to Growth Mindset

Jumu'ah Reminder:

The Prophet ﷺ said:
“The best day the sun rises upon is Friday...” (Muslim)

Today is not just another day, it's a gift. A weekly reset. A chance for forgiveness, renewal, and reward.

Make the most of it:

Pray your Jumu'ah with full presence.

Listen to the Khutbah attentively.

Read Surah Al-Kahf.

Make abundant du'a, especially before Maghrib it's a time when prayers are accepted.


Let this Jumu'ah be a step closer to Allah ﷻ. Don't let it pass like any other day.

اللهم اجعلنا من الذين يستمعون القول فيتبعون أحسنه

Ameen.

Here are the key benefits:

Spiritual Benefits:

1. Obligation and Reward:
Attending Jumu'ah prayer is fard (obligatory) for adult Muslim men. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said:
“The five daily prayers and from one Jumu'ah to the next is an expiation for whatever (sins) come in between, so long as one avoids major sins.” (Sahih Muslim)

2. Opportunity for Forgiveness:
The Prophet ﷺ said:
“Whoever performs Ghusl on Friday, goes early, listens attentively to the Khutbah, and does not engage in idle talk—he will have his sins forgiven between that Friday and the next.” (Bukhari & Muslim)

3. Surah Al-Kahf Reward:
Reciting Surah Al-Kahf on Friday brings light (guidance) for the week:
“Whoever reads Surah Al-Kahf on the day of Jumu'ah will have a light that will shine from him from one Friday to the next.” (Al-Hakim)

Social and Community Benefits:

1. Unity and Brotherhood:
Muslims gather weekly, reinforcing bonds of brotherhood, equality, and unity.

2. Educational Opportunity:
The Khutbah (sermon) is a powerful means for spiritual reminders and community awareness.

Mental and Personal Benefits:

1. Break from Routine:
Jumu'ah offers a pause from daily work life, allowing for spiritual and mental refreshment.

2. Discipline and Focus:
Preparing for and attending Jumu'ah develops consistency and mindfulness in one’s spiritual life.

3. Sense of Belonging:
Attending regularly can reduce feelings of isolation and strengthen identity as a Muslim. May Almighty Allah makes it easy us and easy our Affairs. Ameen.

Never give up, we move

Who go help you no go stress you gada no go stress us if you believe say Amen

*THE RESTORER'S DAILY GUIDE*

DATE: FRIDAY 13TH JUNE 2025

THEME: *KEEP YOURSELF*

MEMORIZE
1 John 5:18
We know that whosoever is born of God sinneth not; but he that is begotten of God keepeth himself, and that wicked one toucheth him not.

READ
John 10:17-18
Therefore doth my Father love me, because I lay down my life, that I might take it again.
No man taketh it from me, but I lay it down of myself. I have the power to lay it down, and I have the power to take it again. This commandment have I received of my Father.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
*You will be kept by God if you keep yourself.*

MESSAGE
The wicked one is not permitted to touch lives that are kept by their owners.

If you keep yourself, you will be kept by God.

One of the greatest privileges of those born of God is the power to keep themselves from the enemy of their souls and lives.

A life that is kept is secured, strong, safe, and unscathed.

The bold assertion of the LORD in today's text is a testimony of the fact that the Lord Jesus Christ kept His life from being taken by the enemy.

It is only what we keep from the enemy that enjoys divine preservation. Satan steals, kills, and destroys cheaply what we fail to keep.

Those who fail to keep themselves have announced to Satan their availability for destruction.

When men fail to keep themselves, they make themselves available for death and destruction.

It is important to note that the only people that God has on earth are those who have kept themselves.

Knowing what to keep yourself from, where to keep yourself, how to keep yourself, and keeping yourself is superior intelligence than that of the serpent that eats fallen men and women.

Those who know how to keep themselves are smarter than the serpent. God keeps them from evil and preserves them for His mighty works on the earth and for posterity.

A life that is kept is not easily touched by the enemy.

Many people are battling with so many unsavoury issues today due to the fact that they were not able to keep themselves.

For instance, those who fail to keep themselves from alcohol may face alcohol related issues in their health progressively, those who expose themselves to immorality are likely to be infested with sexually transmitted diseases, those who expose themselves to cigarettes are not likely to escape certain illnesses related to smoking of cigarettes, those who expose themselves to violence and reckless living are likely to die young. The list is endless of the things people expose themselves to and entangled themselves with in life, leading to so many issues and painful regrets.

Beloved, take my counsel today whilst your life is still whole in you, keep yourself free from sin, and you will be exempted from its ugly consequences.

The truth is that you can keep yourself. It's within your divine powers.

*You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you.*

ACTION STEPS
1. Prayerfully meditate on today's devotional guide.
2. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you keep yourself from everything that destroys men
3. Be determined to stay kept by God.

REMEMBER
*You will be kept by God if you keep yourself.*

PRAYERS
Dear heavenly Father, Thank you for today's devotional guide. I receive grace to be kept by God from every evil and to stay preserved by God in Jesus' name. Amen.

AUTHOR: JEDIDIAH DAVID

DAILY READING:
2 Chronicles 1-2; Psalms 67-78; Mark 14-16; Ephesians 1-2;

HYMN
What a Friend we have in Jesus,
All our sins and griefs to bear !
What a privilege to carry
Everything to God in prayer !
Oh, what peace we often forfeit,
Oh, what needless pain we bear------
All because we do not carry
Everything to God in prayer !

2
Have we trials and temptations ?
Is there trouble anywhere ?
We should never be discouraged ;
Take it to the Lord in prayer.
Can we find a Friend so faithful,
Who will all our sorrows share?
Jesus knows our every weakness-----
Take it to the Lord in prayer !

3
Are we weak and heavy-laden,
Cumbered with a load of care ?
Precious Saviour, still our refuge-----
Take it to the Lord in prayer.
Do thy friends despise, forsake thee ?
Take it to the Lord in prayer ;
In His arms He'll take and shield thee.
Thou wilt find a solace there,

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