What no one told me about marriage before I enter that I want to tell you.

This is for those planning to marry or those who just got married.
If you are open-minded, you can still read.
Nobody knows it all.

1. Immediately you get married, even before having a baby, go and register your family for health insurance.
NHIS is one of the common ones and the most available in hospitals.
It will save you a lot.
There are some things the rich won’t tell you.
With NHIS, you can walk into any hospital and get treated cheap depending on the package.
A friend of mine once did an operation and all he paid was ₦10k something that would have cost ₦400k.

2. Have a family doctor very very important.
See, no church will tell you this.
Even if you don’t have money for a family doctor, have someone you can call in case of emergency.
Especially a pediatrician when you start having kids.

3. Also, have a family lawyer.
Recently, our family lawyer saved us over ₦500k in rent that I wanted to forfeit.
But because she stepped in and did her job, money was refunded seamlessly.

4. If you can afford it, have at least one domestic staff.
Someone that can at least help ease the work in the house for you and madam.
My brother, ejiro kwa afufu anya isi.
Get help if you can.

5. Buy things in bulk.
The reason I live like a wealthy man today is because I buy everything I need down to toothpaste in bulk.
You spend more buying in bits than when you buy in bulk.
That’s one of the reasons I created my sharing platform to enable family men and women with common goals.
There is nothing we don’t share. Some of you reading this are in that group.

6. Pay your children’s school fees before school resumes.
As I’m talking to you now, I’ve already sent SGM the kids’ school fees that’ll be paid in September.
I don’t have to worry about it again.
It helps me plan myself.
Do everything possible to pay school fees before resumption. You won’t know what you’re doing until money goes on leave from your side.

7. Strive to have passive income.
Something that can generate at least ₦3-5k every day.
No matter what try and get something like that.
It will save you from a lot of stress.

8. See the friends and circle your kids will have tomorrow everything depends on the school they attend.
This one is very, very important.
Even if you don’t have money, find a way to send your children to one of the best schools.
You won’t realise what you’re doing until they come of age.

9.I learnt this one from my dad always have family meetings.
You, your wife, and your kids no matter how small they are.
Discuss problems, solutions, and way forward.
Allow the kids air their opinions.

Ask the kids:
Is there something mummy and daddy are doing that they don’t like?

Same thing with your wife.
Talk about what you both can do to have a stable and loving family.
This helps in uniting the family.

Every month is fine or even every 6 months.
Just make it a habit and a culture.
It’ll become a memory that sticks for the kids, and for you and madam too.

Everyone’s opinion in the family matters.
And as the man, it’s your job to hear everybody’s opinion and choose the best way to run the family.

This isn’t just for the man alone madam can initiate it too. There’s no perfect formula, yes. But this one I listed? It works every time.
I repeat if you try it, you’ll save yourself a lot of unnecessary headache and stress.
You can add yours... enjoy your weekend.

Modern feminism taught women they don’t need anyone. Now millions are facing life alone, exhausted, emotionally burnt out, and quietly longing for the safety of a healthy masculine presence.

Modern feminism told women they don’t need a man. Now many are overworked, overwhelmed, and emotionally drained

Facing life alone while pretending as if everything is ok.

But deep down?

They’re craving rest, safety, and the calm that only healthy masculinity can provide.

The truth is, a real man doesn’t compete with a woman; he covers her.

And a real woman doesn’t lose her strength by needing a man; she multiplies it.

Independence is powerful. But partnership builds empires and legacies.

I will never be a modern feminist. My mother submitted to my father; I will submit to my MAN.

Queen Ammy

Namibia is the only country in the world where women occupy the Top 3 highest government positions

President: Netumbo Nandi-Ndaitwah

Vice President: Lucia Witbooi

Speaker of the National Assembly: Saara Kuugongelwa-Amadhila

Namibia is currently rated the second most law-abiding country in Africa after Rwanda.

"I am Addîcted to women, I can spend or do anything just to Smãsh." Future

"Just last year, I dated about 1000 women I spent about 2 to 3 million dollars on women and this year I'm gonna double it. My addîction for women is my drive to work hard. But I make so much money so I can be a T0xic, Cruêl Chêatêr and women will still love me." ~ Future

American rapper, Future who has 8 baby-mamas reveals he works so hard because he's gotta pay up child support and spend on new women

My husband brags to his friends how am a strong woman and how I have been with him since he had nothing till now he still has nothing but he shamelessly tells them how i can endure anything.

Meanwhile this his friends don’t treat their wife like he does yet he cant learn from them. I’ve been keeping quiet but today broke the camels back.

Today is my 30th birthday and all my husband could do is post happy birthday Iron Lady on WhatsApp and facebook.

All this because i try to be patient with him or not nag him. Now i believe why is important to give men small High BP and less peace of mind so they can sit up because being an understanding wife only makes them relax and leads to this type of treatment meanwhile the wicked women are steady enjoying their home

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Do you remember the firebrand man of God, *Benson Idahosa*
*who declared that the planned meeting of*
*Witches and Wizards in Benin cannot hold*
*while he was alive.*
*People like Katherine kulhman, Billy Graham,*
*Smith Wiggleswoth and those great men and*
*women of God. ........* *ASK THOSE WHO SAW *THE REVIVAL OF 1930s,1970s AND 1980s, THEY WILL *TELL YOU WHY WE*
*ARE CRYING OVER THIS "FIRE LESS NESS" WE ARE SEEING IN OUR*
*GENERATION OF BELIEVERS.*
*John Knox prayed:* *"Lord, Give me Scotland or I die"...*

*St Patrick, a rugged Believer that Brought*
*even Dead Animals* *And Trees Back To Life*
*Prayed: "God, Give Me souls or Give Me*
*Nothing Else"....*

*Brethren, The Hebrides revival prayed: "Lord, if you will not use us, please, kill us"...*

*The brethren from England who brought the Fire from Azusa Street revival*
*Gathered everyday under the terrible cold.*
*Their only prayer topic was: "Lord, give us*
*Men that will spread Your Fire in the streets of England".*

*During the Indonesia Revival,, Those Hungry*
*Hearts were seen* *Praying day and Night:*
*"Lord, The harvest is ripe... If it pleases You,*
*Please use us".*

*One prayer that was common during the days of William Seymour was: "Lord, this is another day that hell must lose men and women.*
*Please, we are here use us".*

*Paul said:" Woe is me if I preach not the gospel"*

*Rachel said to her husband, Jacob: "Give me children or I die".*

*But unfortunately, our churches are filled*
*Today with people who are not ashamed of spiritual barrenness.*

*We are asking "God give me money. God give me spouse.*
*God give me Visa".*

*Where do we see believers again that will be praying and fasting, and when you Listen to them, you will be hearing:* *"Lord, let Your Fire fall in my community and*
*Let their be revival"?*

*When Paul encountered Christ, he fell and rose. What He asked was:" Lord, what will You have me do".*

*But today, when we fall under anointing,* *We start expecting marriage proposals,*
*Visas and Employment letters.*
*This generation of members in our churches have not had a genuine* *Encounter with the*
*Man of Calvary.*

*No generation has* *Carried Bibles like us*
*Without opening it.*

*No generation is materially driven like ours and we expect the lord to obey us.*

*Jesus said, pray to the Father that He brings*
*His Kingdom on Earth.*

*GOD help us to get it on time. Amen.*

*Let's build up our spiritual life cos its very necessary.*

*If you miss heaven you can never miss hell. Think about it. Hell isn't a pretty place.*

*Do the work of an*
*Evangelist now by* *sharing this message* *with all your contacts.*
*Have you ever wondered*
*what would have happened if we treat the Holy Bible the way we treat our* *Mobile*
*Phone?*

*And we really can't live without the BIBLE.*
*Don't send later, send now.*

*May the Almighty* *God grant good success to*
*every one who reads and sends this message.*
*AMEN!, AMEN!!, AMEN!!!.*

“Before She Say She Be 35, Just Know Say She Don Dey 45… And Na Una Cause Am!”

These days ehn, woman no fit talk her real age again without fear. Before one babe go open mouth talk say she don reach 33+, she go first look left, look right, check who dey the group chat, calculate who go judge her… then she go settle for “I’m just 29 going on 30.”

But who cause am?
Na some of una!

Yes, you!
You wey dey always open mouth dey shout:
— “33+ women na iron condemm
— “She don old.”
— “Na desperation age.”
— “She go soon rush go marry.”

Una don use una mouth finish 33+, now women dey use filter for birthday age. You go jam 45-year-old wey dey say:
“I’m celebrating 35 for the 3rd time!”

But guess what?
33+ women na the real deal!
Na dem strong pass.
Dem don cry, wipe tears, wear makeup and still show up looking like success.

How to Know a Real 33+ Babe (Wey No Get Time for Nonsense):

1. Her Peace of Mind Na Full Package – She no dey do “talking stage” wey go last 6 months. You either show working or shift.

2. Her Skin No Be Noise – She dey glow with confidence, not clout. Her stretch marks na tiger stripes of survival.

3. She Go Love You and Still Chase Her Bag – She no dey wait for man to define her life. She go support you, invest in you, and still slay on a budget.

4. She Don Outgrow Rubbish – If you carry childish behavior come her side, she go air you like bad network.

So before you open mouth ask woman “how old are you sef?” like na job interview, remember say age no be disease.

Some of you wey dey drag 33+ women never even figure una life at 28.
Dem wey una dey mock don already build business, raise children, and still look finer than una 21-year-old crush wey dey use Snapchat filter like face mask.

Moral of the storpllloy:
No dey pressure women to lie about age.
Na age wey show strength, growth, and beauty.
33+ no be end of the road — na where wise women start to shine without apology.
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Support her. Respect her. And no ask her age if you no fit handle the answer.

Hope you learnt something.??

“I don’t believe i am strong enough to be with one person. So i think women will run away from me for being truthful. I will not be dating you and telling you that you’re the only person. People who have the strength to turn off being attracted to other woman once they meet the right woman, i hail them. But me, you are a beautiful lady and it doesn’t stop me from admiring another woman who is beautiful.” ~ Don Jazzy finally reveals why he is yet to settle down on The Nancy Isime Show.

*SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 11/07/2025*

Autonomy standoff: Govs get N4.5tn LG funds one year after S’Court ruling

Nurses, midwives give FG 15-day ultimatum, threaten nationwide strike

210 beggars detained as operation sweep Abuja enters day 4

Over one million Nigerians benefiting from business, student loan — FG

NNPC refineries may never work again — Dangote

NCDMB okays over 440 expatriate slots in oil sector

INEC confirms 129 party applications, launches digital portal

Lagos Police deploys 30,000 Officers for LG Polls

No intention to push away state chairmen – ADC leadership

Trump birthright citizenship order halted in class-action suit

Mali junta chief approves law giving him unlimited mandate

Russia offers to increase scholarships for Nigerian students

Nigerian on bicycle trip from Lagos to U.S., arrives in Ghana after 10 days

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*DID YOU KNOW?*

* The full Bible has been translated into over 3,000 languages. Among those include fictional languages like Elvish, Klingon, and Na’vi.

* Eating grapefruit can restrict the effects of 43 different kinds of medications.
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Tinubu hails Niger Delta youths, women for supporting Renewed Hope Agenda

Shettima to public officials: document your stewardship

Akpabio sacks Natasha as diaspora committee chair

Stop enriching Discos with public funds, Senate tells FG

Senate summons NNPC boss over unaccounted N210tn

Senate wants NDLEA to pay N200m for slain Delta toddler
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Reps begin probe into student loan discrepancies

S’Court dismisses Ighodalo’s appeal, affirms Okpebholo Edo gov

Shadow govt: Court fixes Sep. 29 for judgment in DSS’ suit against Pat Utomi

Court nullifies Shell, AFC, others’ ICC arbitration against Tempo

Suspected Killers Of Wedding Travellers Arraigned In Jos

Nigeria police repatriate Chinese fugitive wanted for $5m tax fraud

Corrupt politicians now hide loot in cryptocurrencies – EFCC

N1.3tn CBEX scam: Forfeiture process begins as EFCC recovers funds

Chief of Army Staff advocates ranching to address food insecurity

NAF airstrikes kill Zamfara terrorists

Troops kill 24 terrorists in Borno, repel Kebbi bandits

Customs foil donkey genitals smuggling, intercepts 40ft container

Police summon Iyabo Ojo over alleged cyberbullying

Akume denies APC chair bid, pledges Tinubu’s loyalty

Climate change: We are running out of time, Akume warns

If not for Tinubu, Buhari wouldn’t have won APC primary — Presidency

Nigeria rejected US push to accept Venezuelan deportees — Tuggar

WAPCo, govt agencies partner on cross-border gas distribution

FG rakes in N12tn from oil royalties after naira falls

Renewed Hope Agenda attracts over $500m FDI to steel sector in 20 months – Minister

Minister calls for unified communication strategy to amplify Tinubu’s agenda

Fed govt to conduct nationwide audit of skills centres

FG recommits to education growth as Sani unveils blueprint

Blocked rail embankment caused Niger flood tragedy — NIRSAL

Security investments driving up crude production cost – NNPC

FCTA expresses concerns over families renting their children out to beggars

Wigwe varsity to enrol PAP scholarship beneficiaries

Buhari govt went after my allies post-2015 election, Jonathan alleges

Alaoji power plant begins operations next month – NDPHC

Ecobank plans $250m capital raise via private placement

GTCO plans fresh expansion after London Stock Exchange listing

SEC orders probe, restatement of Ikeja Hotel’s debt

Coleman invested N7bn over 20 years, says CEO

2027: 10,000 artisans endorse Tinubu, Oborevwori for second term

Supreme Court Judgement: I Feel Betrayed – Ighodalo

2027: PDP won’t field Northerner for presidency – Bode George

2027: ADC’ll dislodge Tinubu, APC — Aregbesola

Osun 2026: Ogunbiyi declare guber ambition

Ortom insists on southern presidency for 2027

Otti launches Security Trust Fund to boost fight against crime

Bauchi gov warns cabinet members against unnecessary trips, politicking

Lagos Assembly moves to reform tenancy laws as bill passes second reading

Lagos assembly moves to regulate marriages

Kebbi settles ex-councillors’ N2.18bn entitlements

Imo govt demolishes criminal hideout, arrests suspects in major security operation

Abia signs MoU With UNDP to accelerate development

Oyo approves 116 new staff appointments for nursing college

Katsina hails NGO for enrolling over 6,000 out-of-school children

LG poll: Ballot snatching will trigger by-election, says LASIEC

Ogun issues banks 30-day ultimatum over unapproved structures

Patients lament as Ondo hospitals scale down services over doctors’ strike

Kogi doctors decry poor remuneration, lack of promotions

Over 200 households displaced as flood hits Kebbi community

Six pregnant Ogun Amotekun recruits dismissed over health concerns

Gunmen abduct two palace officials, burn houses in Plateau

A’Ibom man to die by hanging for killing brother

Lagos worker seeks N30m for teenage son’s surgery

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*TODAY IN HISTORY*

* Nigeria Airways Flight 2120, a chartered flight from Jeddah, Saudi Arabia to Sokoto, Nigeria, crashed chortly after take-off, killing all 247 Muslim pilfrims and 14 crew members on board.

* On this day in 2010, the FIFA World Cup Final held in Johannesburg, South Africa. The Netherlands and Spain fought out for the prestigious football trophy. Spain won the match 1-0.

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Do not let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do. – John Wooden

Good morning



*Compiled by Hon. Osuji George osujis@yahoo.com +234-8122200446*

*THE RESTORER'S DAILY GUIDE*

DATE: FRIDAY 11TH JULY 2025

THEME: *PRAY FOR NIGERIA*

MEMORISE
Ezekiel 22:30
And I sought for a man among them, that should make up the hedge, and stand in the gap before me for the land, that I should not destroy it: but I found none.

READ
Ezekiel 22:24-30
Son of man, say unto her, Thou art the land that is not cleansed, nor rained upon in the day of indignation.
There is a conspiracy of her prophets in the midst thereof, like a roaring lion ravening the prey; they have devoured souls; they have taken the treasure and precious things; they have made her many widows in the midst thereof.
Her priests have violated my law, and have profaned mine holy things: they have put no difference between the holy and profane, neither have they shewed difference between the unclean and the clean, and have hid their eyes from my sabbaths, and I am profaned among them.
Her princes in the midst thereof are like wolves ravening the prey, to shed blood, and to destroy souls, to get dishonest gain.
And her prophets have daubed them with untempered morter, seeing vanity, and divining lies unto them, saying, Thus saith the Lord GOD, when the LORD hath not spoken.
The people of the land have used oppression, and exercised robbery, and have vexed the poor and needy: yea, they have oppressed the stranger wrongfully.
And I sought for a man among them, that should make up the hedge, and stand in the gap before me for the land, that I should not destroy it: but I found none.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
*When the wicked rules, people mourn.*

MESSAGE
In the last three years, our country has gone from bad to worse. Considering the rising tempo of happenings within the nation, it is clear that war is imminent if nothing is done to reverse the negative present state of things.
According to our text today, when the leaders in a nation are corrupt and wicked before the Lord, we can only expect sorrows.

The Bible says: "When the wicked rules, the people mourn."

Nigeria has been mourning and groaning for some time now, and I think it grew worse since this regime stepped into power. Things have not been the same.

Unemployment, hardships, hunger, and worse still the killings of innocent farmers whose only hope of sustenance is their farm produce calls for serious prayers and fasting.
For a nation whose economy depends largely on agriculture to watch farmers being killed, it shows that the nation is on the verge of collapsing economically and otherwise.

Beloved, we cannot continue to pretend that all is well with our nation. We must all rise up and pray for this country. We need to ask God to step into the affairs of this nation as He had done in history.

Let it be known that He rules in the affairs of men. Daniel 4:17.

People with burden and concerns must arise and weep for Nigeria and our leaders. We need God now more than ever before.

We need to ask God to send mighty angels into the camp of the enemies of God's purpose for Nigeria. God used His angels to judge the enemies of His people in history. Exodus 12:13,23. 2Kings 19:35,
God sent His angels to judge evil leaders in history. Acts 12:23. This is the time for us to call upon our God to answer us by fire.

ACTION STEPS
1. Plead for God's mercy upon Nigeria. Ask God to forgive the sins of all Nigerians and her leaders.
2. Pray that God will remove evil leaders from the throne and replace them with those who will do His will in this nation.
3. Ask God to send His mighty angels to defend the cause of the oppressed and fight for the restoration of Nigeria's glory.

PRAYERS
Dear heavenly Father, Thank you for today's devotional guide. Oh God of hosts, deliver Nigeria from the hands of evil men and women and let your counsel concerning us as a nation be established in Jesus' name. Amen.

REMEMBER
*When the wicked rules, people mourn.*

AUTHOR: JEDIDIAH DAVID

DAILY READING: Ecclesiastes 7-8, 2Thess 1-2.

HYMN
A mighty fortress is our God,
A bulwark never failing :
Our Helper He, amid the flood
Of mortal ills prevailing.
For still our ancient foe
Doth seek to work his woe ;
His craft and power are great,
And armed with cruel hate "
On earth is not his equal.

2
Did we in our own strength confide,
Our striving would be losing,
Were not the right Man on our side,
The Man of God's own choosing.
Dost ask who that may be ?
Christ Jesus, it is He !
Lord Sabaoth is His name,
From age to age the same :
And He must win the battle.

3
And though this world, with devils
filled,
Should threaten to undo us:
We will not fear; for God hath willed
His truth to triumph through us.
Let goods and kindred go,
This mortal life also ;
The body they may kill :
God's truth abideth still,
His Kingdom is for ever.

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"I am tired of girls thinking dating a rich guy makes them entitled to his money. Why would you be asking me for money, or gifts just days after I met you? I only date Strong Independent women and the moment she starts becoming dependent, I Break Up with her and move on so fast. Yes I can Love You but my money isn't yours. Call me stîngy if you want but I don't care at all and I ain't sorry." ~ Drake

Dear men, the moment women start calling you a Stîngy man, just know you're doing the right thing

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