*DEAR WOMEN,*

Sometimes I feel nature is unfair to you. But you are a miracle.

It's you who bleeds blood every month with severe pains and cramps. Even in those pains, you still have to put things together for a normal day. The cooking, washing, etc.

It's you who carry another human inside you for 9 months including the saviour of this world Jesus Christ. The inconvenience, the discomfort, the sacrifice, and the carefulness. You sacrifice what makes you happy just to keep another life healthy.

When it's time to deliver, your life is on the line. It's a 50/50 chance for you. You may live and you may die. But being the life-giver you are, you will choose the life of a new stranger over yours.

Even if the process is not favorable to you. Either the pains of childbirth or surgery.

After it all, you still carry yourself up and continue life activities with bandages and pains. But what is miraculous about this all is the smile you put on your face while facing all this.

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May God bless every woman and give you more grace and peace in your endeavors.

Real Truth.
The Ability of Women.

Taking care of yourself is important, seeing yourself as God sees you is "important-er."

When we understand ourselves we get to own our power and live unafraid.

Here's what this is about:
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1. Divørced: She can’t keep a man

2. Råpëd: What was she wearing??

3. Childless Marriage: She is bårrën 🤰🏿

4. Doesn't give birth to a male child: it's all her fault, there's no son in her wømb

5. Rich and Independent: she's a prøstïtutë 💃🏿

6. A båd child: It's all the mother’s fault because she spøilt him

7. She wants to play some sports: You're a girl!! It's too difficult for you, that's not your purpose in life

8. She is single and drives a car: she would drive away all potential suitors.

9. She speaks her mind: She is bøssy.🙎🏿

10. Unmarried in her /30s/40s: She is irrespønsible. 🤦🏿

11. Married: Becomes her husband's property.

12. Chëâting spouse: Its her fāult, She made him do it, she should be prayerful

13. Widøwëd: She kïlléd her husband to take over his properties.

14. Remarries: She didn’t Møürn her lâte husband enough

15. Dømëstìc Abüse: What did the woman do?.

It ain't easy being a woman in this part of the world..

Respect to Every women out there!!!! -The Love Doctor Ken.

Choose your mental wellness every single time else you'll spiral into darkness. I love you and welcome to a blissful week.

Keep unveiling your uniqueness because it is within you that BLISS is found. I love you
Stella E. Eyabi

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“Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success.

Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women.

The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent.
I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand.

I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you.

If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.”
— Veekee James

“Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success.

Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women.

The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent.
I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand.

I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you.

If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.”
— Veekee James

Episode 3: MY EXPERIENCE WITH ABUJA SÚGAR MÚMMI£S

Episode 3: The Second Flame

Mrs. K came into my life like a thunderstorm in dry season.

She was nothing like Mrs. T. While Mrs. T was calm, sensual, and sophisticated — Mrs. K was wild, sharp-tongued, younger in both age and energy. She was divorced, powerful, and walked into rooms like she owned the floor and everyone on it.

I met her at a rooftop party in Maitama. One of those high-end events where the champagne flows, the music hums low, and the women wear silk like second skin. Mrs. T had invited me, but left early for “a board meeting in the morning.” I stayed behind, half-tipsy, legs spread, sipping Hennessy with my shirt half-open.

She walked in wearing a tight emerald green gown that hugged her body in all the right places. High heels, dark lips, and eyes that locked with mine like she’d already decided what she wanted.

I knew I was in trouble when she said, “I hope you’re not Mrs. T’s handbag. She’s not the type to share.”

I laughed nervously. She didn’t.

Then she leaned in, whispered into my ear: “But I am.”

That night, she took me to her penthouse apartment — a glass box in the sky overlooking Abuja. From the moment we walked in, she became someone else.

She kissed like she wanted to consume me — biting, tugging, pulling my clothes off like she was angry at them. She pushed me onto the couch, got on her knees, and showed me what it meant to be worshipped by a woman who didn’t need you but wanted you badly.

No words. Just heat. Wet, hungry heat.

She climbed on top of me, grinding slow with no underwear beneath her dress, her eyes never leaving mine.

“Don’t fall in love,” she whispered, her voice hoarse, as she rode me hard and fast, her nails scratching down my back. “That’s not what this is.”

And yet… her hands trembled when I touched her face. Her moans softened when I slowed down, kissed her neck, and whispered her name like it meant something.

We climaxed like strangers desperate to forget who we were — loud, fast, messy.

Afterward, she lay beside me, naked and satisfied, and asked, “How long have you been with T?”

I hesitated.

She smirked. “You boys are never loyal. But it’s fine. I won’t ask you to choose. Abuja has many beds. You’ll warm mine whenever I say.”

And so I found myself trapped between two worlds — one slow, sweet, and dangerously emotional. The other wild, thrilling, and shameless.

Mrs. T offered me comfort, structure, a dangerous kind of intimacy that was beginning to taste like love.

Mrs. K offered me chaos, heat, and the kind of sex that left me broken and breathless.

I was living every young man’s fantasy — money in my pocket, two powerful women calling my name, and a growing addiction to pleasure.

But something was shifting.

My nights became heavier. My conscience, louder.

I missed real laughter. Missed a woman calling me babe, not boy. I missed holding someone and not being told when to leave. I missed the simplicity of love — real love, with flaws, fights, and forgiveness.

One evening, as I left Mrs. K’s penthouse with a swollen lip and scratch marks on my chest, I passed a young couple on the street. They were holding hands, walking barefoot, laughing like the world was soft.

That night, in my room, I broke down.

Not because I was ashamed of the s*x. But because I’d sold something sacred — my freedom to love — for the illusion of power and pleasure.

Moral Lesson:

Young men, I won’t lie to you. The life I lived was thrilling. S*x so good it made you dizzy. Money that came fast and clean. Gifts. Clothes. Power.

But it came at a price.

You become a tool. A toy. A shadow of yourself. Your heart starts to rot from the inside, little by little, every time you say yes when your soul screams no.

And to the young women searching for love in older pockets — know this: money can buy attention, lust, and a night of pleasure. But it can’t fill your emptiness. It can’t kiss your forehead and mean it. It can’t sit through your breakdowns or wipe your tears after sex.

Don’t mistake desire for devotion. Don’t confuse luxury for love.

To be continued...

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LETTER TO MEN

Listen up, Men!

Love Her If You Want, But Never Forget She’ll Leave When the Value Runs Dry.

Let me etch this into your mind like scripture:
Women will always leave when there's nothing left to gain.
Not always out of evil—but out of nature.

They love value. They’re wired for survival. And they’re ruthless with their choices.
Meanwhile, you—the average man—you value love.
You value connection. Loyalty. Sacrifice.
And that’s exactly what sets you up for pain if you don’t WAKE UP.

Read this slowly:

Lose your job? She’s gone.

Go broke trying to impress her? She’ll use your downfall as a warning to others.

Lose your ability to provide? She’ll remind you she “deserves better.”

Another man shows up with more money, power, or status? She won’t even look back.

That’s not love—it’s transaction.
To her, love means “What can I get from him?”
And once the benefits dry up, you’re just a chapter in her story of “lessons learned.”

This is why I tell you—be RUTHLESS.
Not cruel. Not abusive.
But smart. Relentless. Unapologetically masculine.
Protect your purpose like a lion guards his pride.
Don’t lose yourself trying to win her heart.
Because the moment you make her your priority over your purpose, you’re finished.

Don’t give her your bank account.

Don’t let her drain your time with endless demands.

Don’t build your empire around her emotions.

Protect your grind. Guard your mission. Defend your masculinity.
Because when the storm hits, it won’t be her holding the umbrella—it’ll be YOU, alone, rebuilding from the ashes while she’s with someone else.

Brother, be wise as a serpent. Be cold when necessary. Be focused always.
Love her—but never forget:
If you lose your value, she’ll forget your name.

Stay sharp!

➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅



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WISDOM TIPS FOR SINGLES AND MARRIED...!

1. Wedding is a day but marriage is a lifetime.

2. A stingy man who is single will still be stingy when married.

3. Silence can never be misquoted.

4. If you want what no one ever had, you must do what no one ever did.

5. When God wants to bless you, He puts a person in your life. When Satan wants to destroy someone, he puts a person in his life.

6. It's better to be single and alone than to be married to the wrong person.

7. Avoid a contentious woman.

8. Three kinds of men to avoid:

a. A hot tempered man.
b. A womanizer.
c. A drunkard.

9. Marrying a comedian does not guarantee a happy marriage.

10. Marry someone of similar religious beliefs.

11. Three words that echo peace in a marriage:

a. I love you .
b. I am sorry.
c. Thank you.

12. Don't waste your time meditating or dwelling on your singleness. It won't last forever. Be happy and get busy with your life.

13. Cohabitation is a recipe for marital failure.

14. Masturbation can affect your marriage negatively.

15. Marriage without friendship is like a sky without the sun.

16. If you rush into marriage, you may end up with someone who will bury your destiny.

17. Why you marry is as important as who you marry.

18. Much happiness in life depends on your marital choice.

19. A man and women need wisdom in choosing who to marry.

20. Do not place your priority on good looks; no woman is ugly, she just needs rebranding.

May you not fail in Marriage...!

*CHEATING IS A CHOICE, STAYING FAITHFUL IS ALSO A CHOICE.*

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You will always meet ladies who are more attractive than your woman, you will meet ladies with more vibes, you will meet women who are more informed, you will meet women who acts as though they care more than your woman.

Also as a woman you will meet men who are far richer than your man, you will meet men with more attractive body than your man, you will meet men with more vibes, you will meet men who act more caring than your spouse, you will meet men who talks better than your man;

I mean men who knows how to say sweet words, crack jokes. Etc.
Note. People must always be better than others in some areas of life.

And sometimes the people we see as being better than our spouses may not even be what we feel they're. Note. People show you what they want you to see and most of the time it is not their true self they reveal outside.

Learn to appreciate your partner
Love your partner without any reservations.
Whenever you feel unsatisfied regarding any aspect your partner is not doing well, be willing enough to open up to him/her.

Be satisfied please.
It takes commitment, and self control and discipline to stay faithful, and believe me it is achievable.

Love is never enough, self-discipline and relentless commitment is very essential when it comes to relationship/marriage.
Stay Faithful.

One Woman Is Enough!
One Man Is Enough!

TODAY TOPIC: HUMAN TRAFFICKING
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Human trafficking is a form of modern-day slavery where individuals are exploited and forced into labor, sex work, or other forms of servitude. It involves:

Key Elements:

1. Recruitment: Traffickers lure victims through deception, coercion, or force.
2. Transportation: Victims are moved to new locations, often across borders.
3. Exploitation: Victims are subjected to forced labor, sex work, or other forms of exploitation.

Types of Human Trafficking:

1. Sex Trafficking: Forced prostitution, sex work, or exploitation.
2. Labor Trafficking: Forced labor, domestic servitude, or exploitation in industries.
3. Child Trafficking: Recruitment, transportation, or exploitation of children.
4. Organ Trafficking: Forced removal and sale of organs.

Indicators of Human Trafficking:

1. Unusual or unexplained behavior
2. Fear, anxiety, or intimidation
3. Lack of freedom or control
4. Poor living conditions
5. Injuries or signs of abuse

Who is Affected:

1. Women and girls (disproportionately affected)
2. Children
3. Men and boys
4. Migrants and refugees
5. Vulnerable populations (e.g., those in poverty, marginalized communities)

Consequences:

1. Physical harm and abuse
2. Emotional trauma and psychological distress
3. Loss of autonomy and freedom
4. Risk of disease and health problems
5. Stigma and social isolation

*SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 22/05/2025*

No Zamfara lady on trial for converting to Christianity – Govt

We have Boko Haram informants among politicians, soldiers – Zulum

NCoS offers N5m reward for information on fleeing inmates in Osun

JAMB announces mop-up examinations for absentee candidates

Benue NASS APC Caucus endorses Tinubu for 2027

Naira appreciates to N1,615/$ in parallel market

Tottenham beat United to win first European title since 1984

Fortnite returns to Apple store after five-year ban

US singer Chris Brown freed on £5m bail in UK assault case

Ex-Ukraine MP with pro-Russian ties assassinated in Madrid

Trump ambushes South Africa president Ramaphosa with ‘genocide’ accusation

UK inflation hits 15-month high as utility bills soar

Germany warns Nigeria, neighbours against Russia alliance

Petrol price war closes nearly 5,000 fuel stations


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*DID YOU KNOW?*

* The Empire State Building is the most photographed building in the world. At 102 stories, it stands prominently among the New York City skyline with other skyscrapers and a distant view of the water.

* Raphael Nadal holds the title for the most Grand Slams ever won on Clay. He won the French Open 14 times.
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Tinubu celebrates Nigerian-born new mayors in London

Dangote’s $19bn Refinery investment could have yielded $120bn in tech – Shettima

Nigeria among Africa’s top investment destinations – Speaker Abbas

Senate seeks Military base in Adamawa amid Boko Haram attacks

Senate moves to formalise casual jobs in informal sector

Senate summons NAFDAC over unwholesome fruit ripening practices

Reps move to curb bank profiteering, push for support to real sectors

Reps to probe driver’s licence issuance irregularities

Reps to investigate non-payment of presidential wage award to pensioners

Senator calls for relocation of old buildings near Abuja airport

Rep Dasuki Asks FG To Allocate Seized 753 Duplexes To Military

Natasha accuses police of bias in handling petitions against Akpabio, Yahaya Bello

Shadow Government: Court slates June 25 for hearing, orders service on Utomi

Court warns Nnamdi Kanu’s lawyer against unprofessionalism

Three internet fraudsters bag 30-month jail term in Rivers

Internet fraudster jailed 24 months, forfeits N124m in Kwara

Music teacher bags life jail for raping 9-year-old pupil in Lagos

IG orders probe of slain Oyo WASSCE candidate

N45,000 quarterly imprest inadequate for police operations, says Sheidu

Minister, EFCC boss inspect 753-unit estate recovered from Emefiele

I almost resigned after UTME error – Oloyede

Oyetola rallies France for Nigeria’s IMO bid

Keyamo, stakeholders set for aviation book launch

FG urges oil firms to shore up production to meet OPEC quota

FG bans night driving for fuel tankers

Nigeria spends $2bn on external debt in four months

Salary crisis: FG plans intervention funds for 109 foreign missions

No more jobs for uncertified engineers in oil sector — FG

CBN sets 12-month deadline for new AML standards

2025 Hajj: NAHCON airlifts 32,549 pilgrims

FRSC, Actors Guild to unveil first road safety film festival

Ogun Customs rake in N15bn in Q1

Immigration warns of maritime insecurity

AFRIMA plans to empower 1.2 million youths

7,000 jobs created through Ogoni clean-up — HYPREP

Wike defends FCTA’s N1. 78 trillion 2025 statutory budget

NCC hands over digital ICT park to varsity in Katsina

Lawyers oppose compulsory voting bill

BudgIT: NASS Inserted 11,122 Projects Worth N6.9trn In 2025 Budget

Lagos transport policy best in Nigeria, says institute

Groups submit MoU to National Assembly for Ibadan state

I’m still on FG’s wanted list — Igboho

₦1bn constituency allocations: Onjeh challenges lawmakers to publish list

Telcos battle 33 outages in May

Fidelity Bank CEO invests over N760m in shares

Taravest: Dangote, Elumelu pledge fresh investments in Taraba

Luft Pay TV debuts in Lagos

Dangote supports Benue women entrepreneurs with cash grants

Tinubu’s meeting with Pope, insult to Christianity — Babachir Lawal

Ajaero vows to take over LP secretariats, Abure kicks

Defections: I won’t abandon PDP, says Makinde

Kano gov approves N6.8bn for dam construction

Gov Sani appoints two new Commissioners, revives Ministry of Information

Cult-related violence: Edo loses over $1b worth of investments yearly – Okpebholo

Lagos loses N19bn properties to fire incidents

Lagos unveils drone surveillance to boost security

Oyo unveils annual schools census report

Protesting Edo youths barricade highway over insecurity, bad roads

Five arrested after police dismantled illicit fertiliser production in Bauchi

Man arrested for stealing neighbour’s car in Lagos

Adamawa man nabbed for dressing like a woman

Family seeks N30m to save Ogun graduate with failing kidneys

Adamawa NSCDC officer promoted for returning pilgrim’s lost N850,000

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*TODAY IN HISTORY*

* On this day in 1973, the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) was established in Nigeria order to foster peace and unity. Under the one-year scheme, graduates of higher institutions below the age of 30 are drafted to serve the motherland.

* On this day in 1960, the most violent earthquake in recorded history hit Chile. The Great Chilean Earthquake rated 9.5 on the moment magnitude scale. According to estimates, between 2230 and 6000 people were killed.

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You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free. – Nhat Hanh

Good morning


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