• Listen up, Men! This “I Owe Nobody” Mentality Is Why Modern Women Are Broken—Here’s the Harsh Truth

    Women today love to scream, “I owe nobody this, I owe nobody that,” like it’s some badge of honor. That’s how we got to this level of irresponsibility, broken relationships, broken marriages, and a society full of reckless women who hit 35 without a man and a body count that makes a calculator sweat. Let’s be real—this mentality is pure poison.

    Here’s the truth they don’t want to hear: you owe people plenty. Respect, empathy, compassion, good character, and accountability aren’t optional—they’re the bare minimum for being a decent human. But let’s not stop there. You owe your husband virginity, submission, and obedience—period. That’s not oppression—that’s order. Society crumbles without it.

    1. “I Owe Nobody Respect” Is Why No Man Wants You

    Respect isn’t something you give based on your mood—it’s the foundation of any relationship. Women who refuse to respect men wonder why they keep getting ghosted. When a woman thinks she’s above showing respect, what she’s really saying is, “I’m entitled to everything without earning anything.” Men see that mentality from a mile away and run. And they should. No man should have to beg for basic respect.

    2. “I Owe Nobody Empathy” Is Why Your Friendships Are Trash

    Empathy is about understanding the other person’s point of view—not about making everything about you. Women who scream about not owing anyone empathy are the same ones who can’t keep friends for longer than six months because every conversation turns into “me, me, me.”

    That’s why they spend their nights on TikTok live streams instead of having meaningful conversations. No empathy, no real connections—simple.

    3. “I Owe Nobody My Virginity”—And That’s Why You’re Single at 35

    Here’s the hard truth—a woman’s virginity is a gift, not a given. A man who works his entire life to build a legacy deserves a woman who has the discipline to save herself. You owe your husband
    Listen up, Men! This “I Owe Nobody” Mentality Is Why Modern Women Are Broken—Here’s the Harsh Truth Women today love to scream, “I owe nobody this, I owe nobody that,” like it’s some badge of honor. That’s how we got to this level of irresponsibility, broken relationships, broken marriages, and a society full of reckless women who hit 35 without a man and a body count that makes a calculator sweat. Let’s be real—this mentality is pure poison. Here’s the truth they don’t want to hear: you owe people plenty. Respect, empathy, compassion, good character, and accountability aren’t optional—they’re the bare minimum for being a decent human. But let’s not stop there. You owe your husband virginity, submission, and obedience—period. That’s not oppression—that’s order. Society crumbles without it. 1. “I Owe Nobody Respect” Is Why No Man Wants You Respect isn’t something you give based on your mood—it’s the foundation of any relationship. Women who refuse to respect men wonder why they keep getting ghosted. When a woman thinks she’s above showing respect, what she’s really saying is, “I’m entitled to everything without earning anything.” Men see that mentality from a mile away and run. And they should. No man should have to beg for basic respect. 2. “I Owe Nobody Empathy” Is Why Your Friendships Are Trash Empathy is about understanding the other person’s point of view—not about making everything about you. Women who scream about not owing anyone empathy are the same ones who can’t keep friends for longer than six months because every conversation turns into “me, me, me.” That’s why they spend their nights on TikTok live streams instead of having meaningful conversations. No empathy, no real connections—simple. 3. “I Owe Nobody My Virginity”—And That’s Why You’re Single at 35 Here’s the hard truth—a woman’s virginity is a gift, not a given. A man who works his entire life to build a legacy deserves a woman who has the discipline to save herself. You owe your husband
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  • MY FATHER'S ADVICE...
    1. Not everything will go as you expect in your life. This is why you need to drop expectations and go with the flow.
    2.Reduce bitterness from your life, that **** delays blessings!
    3. Dating a supportive woman is everything.
    4. If you want to be successful, you must respect one rule - Never lie to yourself.
    5. If your parents always count on you, don't play the same game with those who count on their parents.
    6. Chase goals, not people.
    7. Your 20's are your selfish years, build yourself, choose yourself first at all cost.
    8. Detachment is power. Release anything that doesn't bring you peace.
    9. Only speak when your words are more beautiful than your silence.
    10. Invest in your looks. Do it for no one else but yourself. When you look good, you feel good. Normalize dressing well, you're broke not mad.
    11. Some people want to see everything go wrong for you because nothing is going right for them.
    12. Being a good person doesn't get you loved. It gets you used.
    13. Don't be afraid of losing people, be afraid of losing yourself by trying to please everyone around you.
    14. Keep your move private. Don't announce it until it's SEALED! Premature announcements attract bad spirits. Best thing you can do is stop telling people what's going on in your life.
    15. For the sake of your mental health don't love too hard, therapy sessions are expensive. Also, marry when you're ready, not when you're lonely.
    16. Your thoughts are very powerful, make them positive.
    17. Social media will make you envy someone you should actually pity.
    18. Nobody owes you anything on your birthday, learn to save money and spoil yourself.
    19. That move you're scared to make might just be the one that changes everything. Do it. Move.
    20. Dont mess up your progress trying to rush the process.
    21. No matter how thirsty you are, there are some people you should never ask for water.
    22. Add value to your life, learn a skill, develop yourself.
    23. Never love someone to the point where you no longer mind them hurting you.
    24. You are your own best friend. Never ever, put yourself down.
    25. Sometimes people come back in your life just to check if you're still ******.
    26. The sooner you figure out which chairs don't belong at your table, the more peaceful your meals become.
    27. If you want to run, first you must learn to walk. Yes, the dreams are big, but you have to start somewhere, and doing something is better than nothing at all. Start small, stay consistent and watch it get bigger.
    28. Before spending money on someone else, make sure your family is good.
    29. What comes easy, won't last. What lasts, won't come easy.
    30. Normalize lying to people who ask you lots of questions about your personal life.
    31. One day you'll test HIV positive because of forgiving cheating partners.
    32. Some Ex's need to understand that even if we hear they now drive a plane or own the world, we will never regret leaving them.
    33. Avoid peer pressure.
    34. Do not abuse and kill women. Respect yourself.
    35. Not everyone at your work place is your friend.
    ~ Do your job.
    ~ Get paid.
    ~ Go home.
    MY FATHER'S ADVICE... 1. Not everything will go as you expect in your life. This is why you need to drop expectations and go with the flow. 2.Reduce bitterness from your life, that shit delays blessings! 3. Dating a supportive woman is everything. 4. If you want to be successful, you must respect one rule - Never lie to yourself. 5. If your parents always count on you, don't play the same game with those who count on their parents. 6. Chase goals, not people. 7. Your 20's are your selfish years, build yourself, choose yourself first at all cost. 8. Detachment is power. Release anything that doesn't bring you peace. 9. Only speak when your words are more beautiful than your silence. 10. Invest in your looks. Do it for no one else but yourself. When you look good, you feel good. Normalize dressing well, you're broke not mad. 11. Some people want to see everything go wrong for you because nothing is going right for them. 12. Being a good person doesn't get you loved. It gets you used. 13. Don't be afraid of losing people, be afraid of losing yourself by trying to please everyone around you. 14. Keep your move private. Don't announce it until it's SEALED! Premature announcements attract bad spirits. Best thing you can do is stop telling people what's going on in your life. 15. For the sake of your mental health don't love too hard, therapy sessions are expensive. Also, marry when you're ready, not when you're lonely. 16. Your thoughts are very powerful, make them positive. 17. Social media will make you envy someone you should actually pity. 18. Nobody owes you anything on your birthday, learn to save money and spoil yourself. 19. That move you're scared to make might just be the one that changes everything. Do it. Move. 20. Dont mess up your progress trying to rush the process. 21. No matter how thirsty you are, there are some people you should never ask for water. 22. Add value to your life, learn a skill, develop yourself. 23. Never love someone to the point where you no longer mind them hurting you. 24. You are your own best friend. Never ever, put yourself down. 25. Sometimes people come back in your life just to check if you're still stupid. 26. The sooner you figure out which chairs don't belong at your table, the more peaceful your meals become. 27. If you want to run, first you must learn to walk. Yes, the dreams are big, but you have to start somewhere, and doing something is better than nothing at all. Start small, stay consistent and watch it get bigger. 28. Before spending money on someone else, make sure your family is good. 29. What comes easy, won't last. What lasts, won't come easy. 30. Normalize lying to people who ask you lots of questions about your personal life. 31. One day you'll test HIV positive because of forgiving cheating partners. 32. Some Ex's need to understand that even if we hear they now drive a plane or own the world, we will never regret leaving them. 33. Avoid peer pressure. 34. Do not abuse and kill women. Respect yourself. 35. Not everyone at your work place is your friend. ~ Do your job. ~ Get paid. ~ Go home.
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  • I got married at 25, finished my PhD at 27 and became a Professor at 40.

    So fast you see! Yes, everything around me worked fast. It is now that I realise that it was a misplaced priority.

    My ambition blindfolded me and I got it all wrong, that is why I am sharing my experience through this medium to warn and encourage our young mothers not to be careless as I was back then.

    I worked very hard as a lecturer and as an administrator, always so busy that it became my language to my children...."I'm busy"

    My mum was around to nurse the children for me for some time. The moment they clocked ten, I sent them to boarding schools, though my husband was not in support of this. I always found my way.

    I had no warm relationship with my children, 2 boys and a girl.

    I never knew it was a bad idea not to have time for my husband, children and the household, until 5 years ago, when guilt, loneliness and restlessness filled my heart.

    I sent for my children to rejoice with me on my 60th birthday.

    The two boys, living in Canada said they are "busy" and that their sister will come down from South Africa.

    Two days to my birthday, my daughter sent this message to me, "Mum, I am very sorry not to be around over there, there is no time to squeeze out, my husband needs my attention at his newly established clinic and presently, I'm pregnant. "I'm very very busy,
    I'm also lonely in a strange land. Please pray for us mum. Happy birthday". I could not recover from the meaning I got from the message.. "First-things-First". When they needed me for warmth and discussion, I was not available, now I needed them for warmth and discussion I could not get them, rather they returned my slogan back to me, "I'm busy"

    To worsen the matter, my dear husband died in his sleep a month after. ...Only one of the children came without his family to the burial ceremony.

    I was dumbfounded!!! Considered Opinion: it is good to work and be a hard working fellow.
    But hear this important and salient truth:

    Parenting is sacrificial work, give it all it takes. Avoid any work that will take away your attention too much from your home - Avoid it and be careful!

    SOLIDIFY YOUR HOME FIRST, CREATE TIME FOR YOUR SPOUSE AND CHILDREN.

    ESTABLISH THE FEAR OF GOD IN THEIR HEARTS THROUGH YOUR ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR.

    THOUGH IT IS COSTLY NOW, THE FUTURE REWARD IS WORTH IT.

    THIS IS AN EYE OPENER FOR BOTH MEN & WOMEN.

    LET'S BE SELFLESSLY AVAILABLE WHEN OUR CHILDREN NEED US.
    I got married at 25, finished my PhD at 27 and became a Professor at 40. So fast you see! Yes, everything around me worked fast. It is now that I realise that it was a misplaced priority. My ambition blindfolded me and I got it all wrong, that is why I am sharing my experience through this medium to warn and encourage our young mothers not to be careless as I was back then. I worked very hard as a lecturer and as an administrator, always so busy that it became my language to my children...."I'm busy" My mum was around to nurse the children for me for some time. The moment they clocked ten, I sent them to boarding schools, though my husband was not in support of this. I always found my way. I had no warm relationship with my children, 2 boys and a girl. I never knew it was a bad idea not to have time for my husband, children and the household, until 5 years ago, when guilt, loneliness and restlessness filled my heart. I sent for my children to rejoice with me on my 60th birthday. The two boys, living in Canada said they are "busy" and that their sister will come down from South Africa. Two days to my birthday, my daughter sent this message to me, "Mum, I am very sorry not to be around over there, there is no time to squeeze out, my husband needs my attention at his newly established clinic and presently, I'm pregnant. "I'm very very busy, I'm also lonely in a strange land. Please pray for us mum. Happy birthday". I could not recover from the meaning I got from the message.. "First-things-First". When they needed me for warmth and discussion, I was not available, now I needed them for warmth and discussion I could not get them, rather they returned my slogan back to me, "I'm busy" To worsen the matter, my dear husband died in his sleep a month after. ...Only one of the children came without his family to the burial ceremony. I was dumbfounded!!! Considered Opinion: it is good to work and be a hard working fellow. But hear this important and salient truth: Parenting is sacrificial work, give it all it takes. Avoid any work that will take away your attention too much from your home - Avoid it and be careful! SOLIDIFY YOUR HOME FIRST, CREATE TIME FOR YOUR SPOUSE AND CHILDREN. ESTABLISH THE FEAR OF GOD IN THEIR HEARTS THROUGH YOUR ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR. THOUGH IT IS COSTLY NOW, THE FUTURE REWARD IS WORTH IT. THIS IS AN EYE OPENER FOR BOTH MEN & WOMEN. LET'S BE SELFLESSLY AVAILABLE WHEN OUR CHILDREN NEED US.
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  • H A P P Y WOMEN’S W E E K

    I salute the strength of a WOMAN
    ● changes her name
    ● changes her home
    ● leaves her family
    ● moves in with you
    ● builds a home with you
    ● gets pregnant for you
    ● pregnancy changes her body
    ● she gets fat
    ● almost gives up in the labour room due to the
    unbearable
    pain of child birth
    ● even the kids she delivers bear your name
    till the day she dies... everything she does...are.......
    cooking delicious meals,
    cleaning your house,
    taking care of your parents,
    bringing
    up your children,
    earning to support you,
    advising you, ensuring
    you are comfortable, you can relax while she works without a moment of rest,
    maintaining all family relations,
    does everything that u
    benefit from..... sometimes at the cost of her own
    health,
    hobbies and beauty.
    So who is really doing whom a favour?
    Dear men, appreciate the women in your lives always,
    because it is not easy to be a woman.
    *Being a woman is priceless*
    Happy women's week!
    Pass this to every woman in your contact to
    make her feel
    proud of herself.
    Rock the world ladies!
    Salute to you ladies!
    MY DEFINITION OF A WOMAN WOULD BE:-
    W WONDERFUL WIFE
    O OUTSTANDING MOTHER
    M MARVELLOUS HELP MEET
    A ADMIRABLE COUNSELOR
    N NICEST CONFIDANT GIFT FROM GOD TO MAN
    Pass to every man to know the value of women
    &
    Pass to every woman to feel proud!
    H A P P Y WOMEN’S W E E K I salute the strength of a WOMAN ● changes her name ● changes her home ● leaves her family ● moves in with you ● builds a home with you ● gets pregnant for you ● pregnancy changes her body ● she gets fat ● almost gives up in the labour room due to the unbearable pain of child birth ● even the kids she delivers bear your name till the day she dies... everything she does...are....... cooking delicious meals, cleaning your house, taking care of your parents, bringing up your children, earning to support you, advising you, ensuring you are comfortable, you can relax while she works without a moment of rest, maintaining all family relations, does everything that u benefit from..... sometimes at the cost of her own health, hobbies and beauty. So who is really doing whom a favour? Dear men, appreciate the women in your lives always, because it is not easy to be a woman. *Being a woman is priceless* Happy women's week! Pass this to every woman in your contact to make her feel proud of herself. Rock the world ladies! Salute to you ladies! MY DEFINITION OF A WOMAN WOULD BE:- W ➖ WONDERFUL WIFE O ➖ OUTSTANDING MOTHER M ➖ MARVELLOUS HELP MEET A ➖ ADMIRABLE COUNSELOR N ➖ NICEST CONFIDANT GIFT FROM GOD TO MAN Pass to every man to know the value of women & Pass to every woman to feel proud!
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  • I got married at 25, finished my PhD at 27 and became a Professor at 40.

    So fast you see! Yes, everything around me worked fast. It is now that I realise that it was a misplaced priority.

    My ambition blindfolded me and I got it all wrong, that is why I am sharing my experience through this medium to warn and encourage our young mothers not to be careless as I was back then.

    I worked very hard as a lecturer and as an administrator, always so busy that it became my language to my children...."I'm busy"

    My mum was around to nurse the children for me for some time. The moment they clocked ten, I sent them to boarding schools, though my husband was not in support of this. I always found my way.

    I had no warm relationship with my children, 2 boys and a girl.

    I never knew it was a bad idea not to have time for my husband, children and the household, until 5 years ago, when guilt, loneliness and restlessness filled my heart.

    I sent for my children to rejoice with me on my 60th birthday.

    The two boys, living in Canada said they are "busy" and that their sister will come down from South Africa.

    Two days to my birthday, my daughter sent this message to me, "Mum, I am very sorry not to be around over there, there is no time to squeeze out, my husband needs my attention at his newly established clinic and presently, I'm pregnant. "I'm very very busy,
    I'm also lonely in a strange land. Please pray for us mum. Happy birthday". I could not recover from the meaning I got from the message.. "First-things-First". When they needed me for warmth and discussion, I was not available, now I needed them for warmth and discussion I could not get them, rather they returned my slogan back to me, "I'm busy"

    To worsen the matter, my dear husband died in his sleep a month after. ...Only one of the children came without his family to the burial ceremony.

    I was dumbfounded!!! Considered Opinion: it is good to work and be a hard working fellow.
    But hear this important and salient truth:

    Parenting is sacrificial work, give it all it takes. Avoid any work that will take away your attention too much from your home - Avoid it and be careful!

    SOLIDIFY YOUR HOME FIRST, CREATE TIME FOR YOUR SPOUSE AND CHILDREN.

    ESTABLISH THE FEAR OF GOD IN THEIR HEARTS THROUGH YOUR ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR.

    THOUGH IT IS COSTLY NOW, THE FUTURE REWARD IS WORTH IT.

    THIS IS AN EYE OPENER FOR BOTH MEN & WOMEN.

    LET'S BE SELFLESSLY AVAILABLE WHEN OUR CHILDREN NEED US.
    I got married at 25, finished my PhD at 27 and became a Professor at 40. So fast you see! Yes, everything around me worked fast. It is now that I realise that it was a misplaced priority. My ambition blindfolded me and I got it all wrong, that is why I am sharing my experience through this medium to warn and encourage our young mothers not to be careless as I was back then. I worked very hard as a lecturer and as an administrator, always so busy that it became my language to my children...."I'm busy" My mum was around to nurse the children for me for some time. The moment they clocked ten, I sent them to boarding schools, though my husband was not in support of this. I always found my way. I had no warm relationship with my children, 2 boys and a girl. I never knew it was a bad idea not to have time for my husband, children and the household, until 5 years ago, when guilt, loneliness and restlessness filled my heart. I sent for my children to rejoice with me on my 60th birthday. The two boys, living in Canada said they are "busy" and that their sister will come down from South Africa. Two days to my birthday, my daughter sent this message to me, "Mum, I am very sorry not to be around over there, there is no time to squeeze out, my husband needs my attention at his newly established clinic and presently, I'm pregnant. "I'm very very busy, I'm also lonely in a strange land. Please pray for us mum. Happy birthday". I could not recover from the meaning I got from the message.. "First-things-First". When they needed me for warmth and discussion, I was not available, now I needed them for warmth and discussion I could not get them, rather they returned my slogan back to me, "I'm busy" To worsen the matter, my dear husband died in his sleep a month after. ...Only one of the children came without his family to the burial ceremony. I was dumbfounded!!! Considered Opinion: it is good to work and be a hard working fellow. But hear this important and salient truth: Parenting is sacrificial work, give it all it takes. Avoid any work that will take away your attention too much from your home - Avoid it and be careful! SOLIDIFY YOUR HOME FIRST, CREATE TIME FOR YOUR SPOUSE AND CHILDREN. ESTABLISH THE FEAR OF GOD IN THEIR HEARTS THROUGH YOUR ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR. THOUGH IT IS COSTLY NOW, THE FUTURE REWARD IS WORTH IT. THIS IS AN EYE OPENER FOR BOTH MEN & WOMEN. LET'S BE SELFLESSLY AVAILABLE WHEN OUR CHILDREN NEED US.
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  • https://guardian.ng/life/whatsnew-entertainment-celebrity-gist-and-so-on/we-are-offspring-of-women-warriors-kate-henshaw-backs-natasha/
    https://guardian.ng/life/whatsnew-entertainment-celebrity-gist-and-so-on/we-are-offspring-of-women-warriors-kate-henshaw-backs-natasha/
    GUARDIAN.NG
    We are offspring of women-warriors, Kate Henshaw backs Natasha
    Nollywood actress Kate Henshaw has thrown her weight behind Kogi Central Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan after the lawmaker accused Senate President Godswill Akpabio of sexual harassment.
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  • PASTOR WOMEN WILL COME AFTER U O
    PASTOR WOMEN WILL COME AFTER U O🤣🤣🤣
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  • You can marry the right person and not marry the person right.

    Having the right partner doesn’t guarantee a successful marriage if you don’t work on yourself and the relationship.

    Some people have direct revelation/ convictions that their spouse is perfect for them, yet they are struggling in their marriage to understand themselves.

    God can show you that someone is destined for you, but he won't come down to treat them well for you. God provides guidance, not control.

    He has given you the key to a successful marriage. Men love your wives, and women submit to your husband.

    You also need to understand that submission and love don't just happen if you don't give room for it.

    Stop blaming God for your own mistakes. Take responsibility of your shortcomings.

    Find what works for you and your partner to foster a healthy, and loving relationship.

    It takes commitment from both partners to make healthy and loving marriage.

    Can two work together unless they agree?

    #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾
    #TheVoice
    You can marry the right person and not marry the person right. Having the right partner doesn’t guarantee a successful marriage if you don’t work on yourself and the relationship. Some people have direct revelation/ convictions that their spouse is perfect for them, yet they are struggling in their marriage to understand themselves. God can show you that someone is destined for you, but he won't come down to treat them well for you. God provides guidance, not control. He has given you the key to a successful marriage. Men love your wives, and women submit to your husband. You also need to understand that submission and love don't just happen if you don't give room for it. Stop blaming God for your own mistakes. Take responsibility of your shortcomings. Find what works for you and your partner to foster a healthy, and loving relationship. It takes commitment from both partners to make healthy and loving marriage. Can two work together unless they agree? #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice
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  • I got married at 25, finished my PhD at 27 and became a Professor at 40.

    So fast you see! Yes, everything around me worked fast. It is now that I realise that it was a misplaced priority.

    My ambition blindfolded me and I got it all wrong, that is why I am sharing my experience through this medium to warn and encourage our young mothers not to be careless as I was back then.

    I worked very hard as a lecturer and as an administrator, always so busy that it became my language to my children...."I'm busy"

    My mum was around to nurse the children for me for some time. The moment they clocked ten, I sent them to boarding schools, though my husband was not in support of this. I always found my way.

    I had no warm relationship with my children, 2 boys and a girl.

    I never knew it was a bad idea not to have time for my husband, children and the household, until 5 years ago, when guilt, loneliness and restlessness filled my heart.

    I sent for my children to rejoice with me on my 60th birthday.

    The two boys, living in Canada said they are "busy" and that their sister will come down from South Africa.

    Two days to my birthday, my daughter sent this message to me, "Mum, I am very sorry not to be around over there, there is no time to squeeze out, my husband needs my attention at his newly established clinic and presently, I'm pregnant. "I'm very very busy,
    I'm also lonely in a strange land. Please pray for us mum. Happy birthday". I could not recover from the meaning I got from the message.. "First-things-First". When they needed me for warmth and discussion, I was not available, now I needed them for warmth and discussion I could not get them, rather they returned my slogan back to me, "I'm busy"

    To worsen the matter, my dear husband died in his sleep a month after. ...Only one of the children came ​without​ his family to the burial ceremony.

    I was dumbfounded!!! Considered Opinion: it is good to work and be a hard working fellow.
    But hear this important and salient truth:

    Parenting is sacrificial work, give it all it takes. Avoid any work that will take away your attention too much from your home - Avoid it and be careful!

    SOLIDIFY YOUR HOME FIRST, CREATE TIME FOR YOUR SPOUSE AND CHILDREN.

    ESTABLISH THE FEAR OF GOD IN THEIR HEARTS THROUGH YOUR ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR.

    THOUGH IT IS COSTLY NOW, THE FUTURE REWARD IS WORTH IT.

    THIS IS AN EYE OPENER FOR BOTH MEN & WOMEN.

    LET'S BE SELFLESSLY AVAILABLE WHEN OUR CHILDREN NEED US.

    Copied
    May God bless our families. Amen
    I got married at 25, finished my PhD at 27 and became a Professor at 40. So fast you see! Yes, everything around me worked fast. It is now that I realise that it was a misplaced priority. My ambition blindfolded me and I got it all wrong, that is why I am sharing my experience through this medium to warn and encourage our young mothers not to be careless as I was back then. I worked very hard as a lecturer and as an administrator, always so busy that it became my language to my children...."I'm busy" My mum was around to nurse the children for me for some time. The moment they clocked ten, I sent them to boarding schools, though my husband was not in support of this. I always found my way. I had no warm relationship with my children, 2 boys and a girl. I never knew it was a bad idea not to have time for my husband, children and the household, until 5 years ago, when guilt, loneliness and restlessness filled my heart. I sent for my children to rejoice with me on my 60th birthday. The two boys, living in Canada said they are "busy" and that their sister will come down from South Africa. Two days to my birthday, my daughter sent this message to me, "Mum, I am very sorry not to be around over there, there is no time to squeeze out, my husband needs my attention at his newly established clinic and presently, I'm pregnant. "I'm very very busy, I'm also lonely in a strange land. Please pray for us mum. Happy birthday". I could not recover from the meaning I got from the message.. "First-things-First". When they needed me for warmth and discussion, I was not available, now I needed them for warmth and discussion I could not get them, rather they returned my slogan back to me, "I'm busy" To worsen the matter, my dear husband died in his sleep a month after. ...Only one of the children came ​without​ his family to the burial ceremony. I was dumbfounded!!! Considered Opinion: it is good to work and be a hard working fellow. But hear this important and salient truth: Parenting is sacrificial work, give it all it takes. Avoid any work that will take away your attention too much from your home - Avoid it and be careful! SOLIDIFY YOUR HOME FIRST, CREATE TIME FOR YOUR SPOUSE AND CHILDREN. ESTABLISH THE FEAR OF GOD IN THEIR HEARTS THROUGH YOUR ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR. THOUGH IT IS COSTLY NOW, THE FUTURE REWARD IS WORTH IT. THIS IS AN EYE OPENER FOR BOTH MEN & WOMEN. LET'S BE SELFLESSLY AVAILABLE WHEN OUR CHILDREN NEED US. Copied 🤍🥰 May God bless our families. Amen
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  • MY FATHER'S ADVICE...
    1. Not everything will go as you expect in your life. This is why you need to drop expectations and go with the flow.
    2.Reduce bitterness from your life, that **** delays blessings!
    3. Dating a supportive woman is everything.
    4. If you want to be successful, you must respect one rule - Never lie to yourself.
    5. If your parents always count on you, don't play the same game with those who count on their parents.
    6. Chase goals, not people.
    7. Your 20's are your selfish years, build yourself, choose yourself first at all cost.
    8. Detachment is power. Release anything that doesn't bring you peace.
    9. Only speak when your words are more beautiful than your silence.
    10. Invest in your looks. Do it for no one else but yourself. When you look good, you feel good. Normalize dressing well, you're broke not mad.
    11. Some people want to see everything go wrong for you because nothing is going right for them.
    12. Being a good person doesn't get you loved. It gets you used.
    13. Don't be afraid of losing people, be afraid of losing yourself by trying to please everyone around you.
    14. Keep your move private. Don't announce it until it's SEALED! Premature announcements attract bad spirits. Best thing you can do is stop telling people what's going on in your life.
    15. For the sake of your mental health don't love too hard, therapy sessions are expensive. Also, marry when you're ready, not when you're lonely.
    16. Your thoughts are very powerful, make them positive.
    17. Social media will make you envy someone you should actually pity.
    18. Nobody owes you anything on your birthday, learn to save money and spoil yourself.
    19. That move you're scared to make might just be the one that changes everything. Do it. Move.
    20. Dont mess up your progress trying to rush the process.
    21. No matter how thirsty you are, there are some people you should never ask for water.
    22. Add value to your life, learn a skill, develop yourself.
    23. Never love someone to the point where you no longer mind them hurting you.
    24. You are your own best friend. Never ever, put yourself down.
    25. Sometimes people come back in your life just to check if you're still ******.
    26. The sooner you figure out which chairs don't belong at your table, the more peaceful your meals become.
    27. If you want to run, first you must learn to walk. Yes, the dreams are big, but you have to start somewhere, and doing something is better than nothing at all. Start small, stay consistent and watch it get bigger.
    28. Before spending money on someone else, make sure your family is good.
    29. What comes easy, won't last. What lasts, won't come easy.
    30. Normalize lying to people who ask you lots of questions about your personal life.
    31. One day you'll test HIV positive because of forgiving cheating partners.
    32. Some Ex's need to understand that even if we hear they now drive a plane or own the world, we will never regret leaving them.
    33. Avoid peer pressure.
    34. Do not abuse and kill women. Respect yourself.
    35. Not everyone at your work place is your friend.
    ~ Do your job.
    ~ Get paid.
    ~ Go home.
    MY FATHER'S ADVICE... 1. Not everything will go as you expect in your life. This is why you need to drop expectations and go with the flow. 2.Reduce bitterness from your life, that shit delays blessings! 3. Dating a supportive woman is everything. 4. If you want to be successful, you must respect one rule - Never lie to yourself. 5. If your parents always count on you, don't play the same game with those who count on their parents. 6. Chase goals, not people. 7. Your 20's are your selfish years, build yourself, choose yourself first at all cost. 8. Detachment is power. Release anything that doesn't bring you peace. 9. Only speak when your words are more beautiful than your silence. 10. Invest in your looks. Do it for no one else but yourself. When you look good, you feel good. Normalize dressing well, you're broke not mad. 11. Some people want to see everything go wrong for you because nothing is going right for them. 12. Being a good person doesn't get you loved. It gets you used. 13. Don't be afraid of losing people, be afraid of losing yourself by trying to please everyone around you. 14. Keep your move private. Don't announce it until it's SEALED! Premature announcements attract bad spirits. Best thing you can do is stop telling people what's going on in your life. 15. For the sake of your mental health don't love too hard, therapy sessions are expensive. Also, marry when you're ready, not when you're lonely. 16. Your thoughts are very powerful, make them positive. 17. Social media will make you envy someone you should actually pity. 18. Nobody owes you anything on your birthday, learn to save money and spoil yourself. 19. That move you're scared to make might just be the one that changes everything. Do it. Move. 20. Dont mess up your progress trying to rush the process. 21. No matter how thirsty you are, there are some people you should never ask for water. 22. Add value to your life, learn a skill, develop yourself. 23. Never love someone to the point where you no longer mind them hurting you. 24. You are your own best friend. Never ever, put yourself down. 25. Sometimes people come back in your life just to check if you're still stupid. 26. The sooner you figure out which chairs don't belong at your table, the more peaceful your meals become. 27. If you want to run, first you must learn to walk. Yes, the dreams are big, but you have to start somewhere, and doing something is better than nothing at all. Start small, stay consistent and watch it get bigger. 28. Before spending money on someone else, make sure your family is good. 29. What comes easy, won't last. What lasts, won't come easy. 30. Normalize lying to people who ask you lots of questions about your personal life. 31. One day you'll test HIV positive because of forgiving cheating partners. 32. Some Ex's need to understand that even if we hear they now drive a plane or own the world, we will never regret leaving them. 33. Avoid peer pressure. 34. Do not abuse and kill women. Respect yourself. 35. Not everyone at your work place is your friend. ~ Do your job. ~ Get paid. ~ Go home.
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  • WHAT HURTS A WIFE

    1. It hurts a wife when her husband listens to the advice of other women but ignores hers

    2. It hurts a wife when her husband carries himself in public as if he is not married, as if he is not proud of the love he shares with her.

    3. It hurts a wife when her husband would rather watch pornography and touch himself than make love to her.

    4. It hurts a wife when her husband would defend the privacy of his phone, and attack his wife because of his phone activity as if what is in his phone is more important than his marriage.

    5. It hurts a wife when she tries her best to cover her husband, only to keep hearing others telling her about the dishonourable things her husband is doing.

    6. It hurts a wife when her husband would rather confide in another woman and praise another woman than her.

    7. It hurts a wife when she tries her best to be a good wife, cook for him, serve him, stay sexy for him, stay faithful to him; but he just doesn't notice her effort.

    8. It hurts a wife when her husband allows his mother to bully her and micro manage their home.

    9. It hurts a wife when her husband uses the secrets she confided in him to insult her, mock her, and attack her.

    10. It hurts a wife when he expects her to do everything to support his dream and yet he has never cared to find out and support her dreams.

    11. It hurts a wife when her husband mistreats her but then expects great sex.

    12. It hurts a wife when she has to beg her own husband for attention, and she is reduced to competing against his friends for his priority spot.

    13. It hurts a wife when her husband openly stares and flirts with other women, yet he barely notices her beauty, new hairstyle or compliment her body.

    14. It hurts a wife when her husband who promised her a great marriage and to grow old together, is the one person breaking the home.
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    WHAT HURTS A WIFE😩 1. It hurts a wife when her husband listens to the advice of other women but ignores hers 2. It hurts a wife when her husband carries himself in public as if he is not married, as if he is not proud of the love he shares with her. 3. It hurts a wife when her husband would rather watch pornography and touch himself than make love to her. 4. It hurts a wife when her husband would defend the privacy of his phone, and attack his wife because of his phone activity as if what is in his phone is more important than his marriage. 5. It hurts a wife when she tries her best to cover her husband, only to keep hearing others telling her about the dishonourable things her husband is doing. 6. It hurts a wife when her husband would rather confide in another woman and praise another woman than her. 7. It hurts a wife when she tries her best to be a good wife, cook for him, serve him, stay sexy for him, stay faithful to him; but he just doesn't notice her effort. 8. It hurts a wife when her husband allows his mother to bully her and micro manage their home. 9. It hurts a wife when her husband uses the secrets she confided in him to insult her, mock her, and attack her. 10. It hurts a wife when he expects her to do everything to support his dream and yet he has never cared to find out and support her dreams. 11. It hurts a wife when her husband mistreats her but then expects great sex. 12. It hurts a wife when she has to beg her own husband for attention, and she is reduced to competing against his friends for his priority spot. 13. It hurts a wife when her husband openly stares and flirts with other women, yet he barely notices her beauty, new hairstyle or compliment her body. 14. It hurts a wife when her husband who promised her a great marriage and to grow old together, is the one person breaking the home. Ccto:
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  • the framework of ideas and practices
    Fertility of agriculture, of edible animals, and of the human population was a paramount factor in the life and religion of the ancient Middle East. The forms that the fertility rites assumed varied from region to region, depending on climate and geography. Rain and dew were all-important in Canaan but of little significance in Egypt. In both areas water was crucial, but the source of the life-giving water was entirely different. The agricultural year varied in the two regions. In Egypt the year was divided into three seasons: inundation, sowing, and harvest. In Canaan there were two seasons: the winter, characterized by rain

    The population desired the normal pattern of times and seasons, so that “seedtime and harvest, cold and heat, summer and winter, day and night, shall not cease” (Genesis 8:22). But since the seasonal pattern is not dependable, the need for order evoked a system of cycles, notably the sabbatical, or seven-year, cycle. The sabbatical year was the seventh year, and the jubilee year followed seven sabbatical cycles. This was a pervasive system in the ancient Middle East. A Ugaritic liturgical text specially designed for this phenomenon aims at terminating a sabbatical cycle of privation and ushering in one of fertility by celebrating the birth and triumphal entrance of the deities Shahar (“Dawn”) and Shalim (“Dusk”), whose advent brings an abundance of food and wine.

    Related Topics: Mesopotamian religion ancient Egyptian religion ancient Iranian religion Syrian and Palestinian religion Anatolian religion
    It was only natural that fertility rites should include sexual myths that were acted out dramatically. The Ugaritic text just alluded to describes El, the head of the pantheon, copulating with two human women. This has echoes in Hosea and Ezekiel where God, as in the Canaanite literary tradition, is referred to as having a love affair with two women, symbolizing Judah and Israel. The Hebrews, however, eventually eliminated sex from their official theology as well as from their religious practices. Up to the time of King Josiah’s reform (621 bc) there was a women’s cult of Asherah (under qedeshim auspices [consecrated for fertility practices], according to 2 Kings 23:7) in the Jerusalem Temple, alongside the male cult of Yahweh. Asherah’s devotees considered her the chief wife of Yahweh, even as she was the wife of El, head of the Canaanite pantheon, for in the Bible El is identified with Yahweh. But Josiah eliminated the cult of Asherah, and official Judaism has since then left no place for other gods, which meant the elimination of every goddess. Popular religion, to be sure, persisted in the female fertility principle until the destruction of the Temple in 586 bc. In Judaean excavations Astarte figurines were found in private homes down to that time. Further purification of the Hebrew religion, which was intensified by the catastrophe of 586, put an end to the practice of pagan fertility rites, including the use of goddess figurines. Without goddesses there could be no sexual activity in the pantheon, and thus Judaism has developed without a divine mother figure.

    The ancient Middle East made a place for homosexuality and bestiality in its myths and rites. In the Asherah cult the qedeshim priests had a reputation for homosexual practices, even as the qedeshot priestesses for prostitution. Israel eventually banned both the qedeshim and qedeshot, while in Ugarit the qedeshim and kohanim were priestly guilds in equally good standing. Baal is portrayed in Ugaritic mythology as impregnating a heifer to sire the young bull god. The biblical book of Leviticus (18:22–27) bans homosexuality and bestiality expressly because the Canaanite population had been practicing those rites, which the Hebrews rejected as abominations.

    Phoenician/Punic sites include an area called the tophet that contains large numbers of infant burials. One explanation of the tophet is that it reflects a major aspect of a fertility cult in which the first-born child belonged to the deity. The deity rewarded the parents who had sacrificed their child with future fertility. In the Hebrew Bible, just as the firstfruits of the harvest belong to God, so do the first-born of the people and their domestic animals (Exodus 13:1, 12–13, 15).

    The actual cases in the literature do not always specify infant sacrifice. The Bible describes how King Mesha of Moab sacrificed his crown prince to avert a military disaster (2 Kings 3:27). King Ahaz of Judah sacrificed his son in pagan fashion (2 Kings 16:3). King Manasseh of Judah sacrificed his sons by fire (2 Chronicles 33:6), filling Jerusalem with innocent blood.

    The Jewish practice of redeeming a first-born son at the age of one month (Numbers 18:16–17) appears to be a milder substitute for the practice of child sacrifice. Another alternative to sacrificing a child was to dedicate it to the service of God. Hannah, by fulfilling her vow to dedicate her first-born, Samuel, to God’s service (1 Samuel 1:27–28) was rewarded by the birth of five other children whom she and her husband could keep for themselves (1 Samuel 2:20–21).

    According to ancient views, the myth came first, and the rite imitated or reenacted it. This sequence, however, is not necessarily the order in which religion develops. Rites can be very tenacious, and when the origin of a rite has been forgotten, a myth has often been invented to explain it.

    Types of religious organization and authority
    Religion occurs at different levels of society: personal, familial, local, national, and international. At the personal and international extremes there is need for but little organization. And yet in religion, as the people of the ancient Middle East saw it, there was a progression from one stage to the next. In the early myths of Genesis, God and Noah have direct personal relations. This leads to a covenant between God and all who went out of the ark: birds and beasts as well as mankind (Genesis 9:9–10). Through the sons of Noah and their descendants, who form the nations of the world (Genesis 10), there is a theoretical progress to international religion. This scheme of the relations between God and mankind, from the personal to the universal level, mirrors the historical record of religion. Judaism (followed later by Christianity and Islām) traces “the Religion” back to Abraham, who had personal and direct relations with God, as was customary in the ancient Middle Eastern milieu. Abraham’s intimacy with God is similar to the intimacy between Odysseus and the Greek goddess Athena. The next step is a covenant between a particular deity and a particular person, binding the two together in a contractual relationship for all eternity from generation to generation. Such covenants were not rare; the Hittite King Hattusilis III made such a covenant with Ishtar. Abraham’s covenant is unique simply because it was the only one destined to last in history.

    The descendants of able men who established a dynasty or tradition would worship the God of their father, or fathers, and adhere to the original covenant. Genesis 31 portrays Jacob and Laban swearing by their respective ancestral gods: Jacob by the god(s) of Abraham and Laban by the god(s) of Nahor. Once a group expanded into a federation of clans or tribes, religious organization became necessary. A central shrine (such as the one at Shiloh in Israel) for amphictyonic (religious confederational) pilgrimage festivals required a professional priesthood and other religious personnel to take care of sacrifices, give oracular guidance, interpret dreams and omens, as well as to provide instruction. In an amphictyony of 12 tribes, each tribe could render federal service for religious and secular purposes, one month each year. A special tribe (such as the Levites in Israel, or the Magians in Iran) could be dedicated full-time to cultic duties.
    the framework of ideas and practices Fertility of agriculture, of edible animals, and of the human population was a paramount factor in the life and religion of the ancient Middle East. The forms that the fertility rites assumed varied from region to region, depending on climate and geography. Rain and dew were all-important in Canaan but of little significance in Egypt. In both areas water was crucial, but the source of the life-giving water was entirely different. The agricultural year varied in the two regions. In Egypt the year was divided into three seasons: inundation, sowing, and harvest. In Canaan there were two seasons: the winter, characterized by rain The population desired the normal pattern of times and seasons, so that “seedtime and harvest, cold and heat, summer and winter, day and night, shall not cease” (Genesis 8:22). But since the seasonal pattern is not dependable, the need for order evoked a system of cycles, notably the sabbatical, or seven-year, cycle. The sabbatical year was the seventh year, and the jubilee year followed seven sabbatical cycles. This was a pervasive system in the ancient Middle East. A Ugaritic liturgical text specially designed for this phenomenon aims at terminating a sabbatical cycle of privation and ushering in one of fertility by celebrating the birth and triumphal entrance of the deities Shahar (“Dawn”) and Shalim (“Dusk”), whose advent brings an abundance of food and wine. Related Topics: Mesopotamian religion ancient Egyptian religion ancient Iranian religion Syrian and Palestinian religion Anatolian religion It was only natural that fertility rites should include sexual myths that were acted out dramatically. The Ugaritic text just alluded to describes El, the head of the pantheon, copulating with two human women. This has echoes in Hosea and Ezekiel where God, as in the Canaanite literary tradition, is referred to as having a love affair with two women, symbolizing Judah and Israel. The Hebrews, however, eventually eliminated sex from their official theology as well as from their religious practices. Up to the time of King Josiah’s reform (621 bc) there was a women’s cult of Asherah (under qedeshim auspices [consecrated for fertility practices], according to 2 Kings 23:7) in the Jerusalem Temple, alongside the male cult of Yahweh. Asherah’s devotees considered her the chief wife of Yahweh, even as she was the wife of El, head of the Canaanite pantheon, for in the Bible El is identified with Yahweh. But Josiah eliminated the cult of Asherah, and official Judaism has since then left no place for other gods, which meant the elimination of every goddess. Popular religion, to be sure, persisted in the female fertility principle until the destruction of the Temple in 586 bc. In Judaean excavations Astarte figurines were found in private homes down to that time. Further purification of the Hebrew religion, which was intensified by the catastrophe of 586, put an end to the practice of pagan fertility rites, including the use of goddess figurines. Without goddesses there could be no sexual activity in the pantheon, and thus Judaism has developed without a divine mother figure. The ancient Middle East made a place for homosexuality and bestiality in its myths and rites. In the Asherah cult the qedeshim priests had a reputation for homosexual practices, even as the qedeshot priestesses for prostitution. Israel eventually banned both the qedeshim and qedeshot, while in Ugarit the qedeshim and kohanim were priestly guilds in equally good standing. Baal is portrayed in Ugaritic mythology as impregnating a heifer to sire the young bull god. The biblical book of Leviticus (18:22–27) bans homosexuality and bestiality expressly because the Canaanite population had been practicing those rites, which the Hebrews rejected as abominations. Phoenician/Punic sites include an area called the tophet that contains large numbers of infant burials. One explanation of the tophet is that it reflects a major aspect of a fertility cult in which the first-born child belonged to the deity. The deity rewarded the parents who had sacrificed their child with future fertility. In the Hebrew Bible, just as the firstfruits of the harvest belong to God, so do the first-born of the people and their domestic animals (Exodus 13:1, 12–13, 15). The actual cases in the literature do not always specify infant sacrifice. The Bible describes how King Mesha of Moab sacrificed his crown prince to avert a military disaster (2 Kings 3:27). King Ahaz of Judah sacrificed his son in pagan fashion (2 Kings 16:3). King Manasseh of Judah sacrificed his sons by fire (2 Chronicles 33:6), filling Jerusalem with innocent blood. The Jewish practice of redeeming a first-born son at the age of one month (Numbers 18:16–17) appears to be a milder substitute for the practice of child sacrifice. Another alternative to sacrificing a child was to dedicate it to the service of God. Hannah, by fulfilling her vow to dedicate her first-born, Samuel, to God’s service (1 Samuel 1:27–28) was rewarded by the birth of five other children whom she and her husband could keep for themselves (1 Samuel 2:20–21). According to ancient views, the myth came first, and the rite imitated or reenacted it. This sequence, however, is not necessarily the order in which religion develops. Rites can be very tenacious, and when the origin of a rite has been forgotten, a myth has often been invented to explain it. Types of religious organization and authority Religion occurs at different levels of society: personal, familial, local, national, and international. At the personal and international extremes there is need for but little organization. And yet in religion, as the people of the ancient Middle East saw it, there was a progression from one stage to the next. In the early myths of Genesis, God and Noah have direct personal relations. This leads to a covenant between God and all who went out of the ark: birds and beasts as well as mankind (Genesis 9:9–10). Through the sons of Noah and their descendants, who form the nations of the world (Genesis 10), there is a theoretical progress to international religion. This scheme of the relations between God and mankind, from the personal to the universal level, mirrors the historical record of religion. Judaism (followed later by Christianity and Islām) traces “the Religion” back to Abraham, who had personal and direct relations with God, as was customary in the ancient Middle Eastern milieu. Abraham’s intimacy with God is similar to the intimacy between Odysseus and the Greek goddess Athena. The next step is a covenant between a particular deity and a particular person, binding the two together in a contractual relationship for all eternity from generation to generation. Such covenants were not rare; the Hittite King Hattusilis III made such a covenant with Ishtar. Abraham’s covenant is unique simply because it was the only one destined to last in history. The descendants of able men who established a dynasty or tradition would worship the God of their father, or fathers, and adhere to the original covenant. Genesis 31 portrays Jacob and Laban swearing by their respective ancestral gods: Jacob by the god(s) of Abraham and Laban by the god(s) of Nahor. Once a group expanded into a federation of clans or tribes, religious organization became necessary. A central shrine (such as the one at Shiloh in Israel) for amphictyonic (religious confederational) pilgrimage festivals required a professional priesthood and other religious personnel to take care of sacrifices, give oracular guidance, interpret dreams and omens, as well as to provide instruction. In an amphictyony of 12 tribes, each tribe could render federal service for religious and secular purposes, one month each year. A special tribe (such as the Levites in Israel, or the Magians in Iran) could be dedicated full-time to cultic duties.
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