• Long-distance relationships are emotional traps for untrained men.

    You sit there texting, calling, promising her forever,
    While she’s out there collecting attention like it’s oxygen.

    You think she’s yours because of “love”?
    No, bro.
    She’s loyal to her options. Her environment. Her emotions.
    And when the right guy shows up and touches the right nerve,
    Your long-distance promise means nothing.

    Let me burn the fantasy:

    You’re in bed dreaming of her.
    Some other man is in her bed, giving her what you only type.

    You send good morning texts.
    He sends dopamine with eye contact and masculine presence.

    You plan FaceTime dates.
    He plans real ones, with his hands around her waist, not emojis on a screen.

    Women don’t stay loyal to absence. They stay loyal to presence, pressure, and power.

    And a man who lets distance test loyalty
    Is a man who's gambling with a loaded gun pointed at his pride.

    You think you're “building trust”?
    You’re just feeding her attention-starved ego while she's busy entertaining "just friends."

    You think love will carry the weight?
    No. Only masculine presence, real-world imprinting, and boundaries keep her in check.

    At Girls Approach, we teach men how to dominate the room, not text their worth across borders.

    If you can’t show up in person, you better show up in power.
    Otherwise? You're just emotionally funding her connection with the next bold guy in her city.

    Let the truth be told:

    A woman’s loyalty is as stable as the attention she receives.
    Distance doesn’t protect your bond.
    It exposes the illusion of one.

    If you disappoint, you must appear before the council of brotherhood, and explain why you've decided to disgrace everybody.

    No whining.
    This is Girls Approach energy. This is dominance without desperation.
    If you’re not in her world physically, someone else will be.
    Step up or step aside.

    This is warfare. Get hard or go home.

    #girlsapproach

    ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅
    Long-distance relationships are emotional traps for untrained men. You sit there texting, calling, promising her forever, While she’s out there collecting attention like it’s oxygen. You think she’s yours because of “love”? No, bro. She’s loyal to her options. Her environment. Her emotions. And when the right guy shows up and touches the right nerve, Your long-distance promise means nothing. Let me burn the fantasy: You’re in bed dreaming of her. Some other man is in her bed, giving her what you only type. You send good morning texts. He sends dopamine with eye contact and masculine presence. You plan FaceTime dates. He plans real ones, with his hands around her waist, not emojis on a screen. Women don’t stay loyal to absence. They stay loyal to presence, pressure, and power. And a man who lets distance test loyalty Is a man who's gambling with a loaded gun pointed at his pride. You think you're “building trust”? You’re just feeding her attention-starved ego while she's busy entertaining "just friends." You think love will carry the weight? No. Only masculine presence, real-world imprinting, and boundaries keep her in check. At Girls Approach, we teach men how to dominate the room, not text their worth across borders. If you can’t show up in person, you better show up in power. Otherwise? You're just emotionally funding her connection with the next bold guy in her city. Let the truth be told: A woman’s loyalty is as stable as the attention she receives. Distance doesn’t protect your bond. It exposes the illusion of one. If you disappoint, you must appear before the council of brotherhood, and explain why you've decided to disgrace everybody. No whining. This is Girls Approach energy. This is dominance without desperation. If you’re not in her world physically, someone else will be. Step up or step aside. This is warfare. Get hard or go home. #girlsapproach ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅
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  • https://www.news18.com/viral/kerala-travel-vlogger-applies-sindoor-on-womens-foreheads-in-viral-video-draws-netizens-ire-9374079.html
    https://www.news18.com/viral/kerala-travel-vlogger-applies-sindoor-on-womens-foreheads-in-viral-video-draws-netizens-ire-9374079.html
    WWW.NEWS18.COM
    Kerala Travel Vlogger Applies Sindoor On Women’s Foreheads In Viral Video, Draws Netizens Ire
    The vlogger, identified as Maheen Shajahan shared the video on his Instagram handle where he was seen entering the temple with his friends and greeting them by placing sindoor.
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  • S€X AND SUCCESS DON’T MIX – WHY UNDISCIPLINED MEN NEVER BECOME GREAT

    Some men dream of success.
    Some men work for success.
    Some men destroy their success before it even starts.

    And guess what? For many men, the biggest distraction is S€X.

    A man who chases pleasure over purpose will always be left behind.
    A man who controls his desires will always be ahead.

    Success requires discipline.
    Sexual indulgence destroys discipline.

    If you can’t control your lust, you will never control your future.

    BRUTAL THREAD:

    1. POWERFUL MEN AVOID S€XUAL DISTRACTIONS, WEAK MEN CAN’T SAY NO

    Every great man in history had one thing in common: They had discipline.

    Alexander the Great conquered the world by 30—he didn’t waste time chasing women.
    Elon Musk works 100 hours a week—he doesn’t waste time texting girls.

    Muhammad Ali refused s€x before fights—he knew discipline was power.
    But look at many men today:

    Wasting hours daily on p0rn and m@sturbation.
    Spending their last money just to impress women.

    Crying over a girl instead of building their future.
    No great man was ever a slave to lust.

    2. S£X DRAINS YOUR ENERGY, FOCUS, AND DRIVE

    Every time you release, you are losing more than just a few seconds of pleasure.
    You are losing:
    Testosterone (your natural energy for success).

    Motivation (your hunger to win).
    Mental clarity (your ability to stay focused).
    That’s why after s£x, many men feel weak and lazy.

    Now imagine:
    Doing this every day.
    Wasting hours texting, chasing, and begging women.
    Spending money just to get a few minutes of pleasure.
    That’s why broke men chase s£x, and rich men chase success.

    3. EVERY MINUTE SPENT CHASING WOMEN IS A MINUTE LOST BUILDING YOUR FUTURE

    Look at your daily habits.
    How much time do you spend scrolling through women’s pictures?
    How much time do you waste flirting and simping in DMs?

    How much time do you spend watching p0rn and draining your strength?
    Now imagine using that time to:
    Learn a high-income skill.
    Work on your business or career.

    Go to the gym and improve your body.
    If you focused on building, you wouldn’t need to chase—women would come to you.

    4. HISTORY PROVES THAT S£XUAL WEAKNESS DESTROYS GREAT MEN

    Ask yourself: What destroyed the strongest men in history?
    Not war. Not enemies. Not poverty.
    It was s£xual weakness.
    Samson lost his power because of Delilah.

    King Solomon was the wisest man, but women led him to destruction.

    Tiger Woods lost millions in endorsements due to a s£x scandal.

    Bill Clinton’s career was almost ruined by a woman.

    A man without discipline is a man waiting for destruction.

    5. WOMEN DON’T RESPECT MEN WHO CAN’T CONTROL THEMSELVES

    You think a woman respects a man who chases her all day?
    You think she values a man who is always available and begging?

    No.
    A woman respects men who have:
    Purpose.
    Self-control.
    A bigger mission in life.

    When you focus on your purpose, women will focus on you.

    6. P0RN, M@STURBATION & CASUAL S£X ARE MAKING MEN WEAKER

    The modern man is weak, lazy, and broke because he is addicted to cheap pleasure.

    P0rn kills your brain.
    M@sturbation destroys your energy.
    Casual s£x makes you indisciplined.
    That’s why so many men are:

    Unmotivated.
    Struggling financially.
    Depressed and directionless.

    If you want to be great, you must cut off s£xual distractions.

    7. A MAN WHO CAN’T CONTROL HIS URGES CAN’T CONTROL HIS DESTINY

    You say you want to be rich, powerful, and successful.
    But you can’t even:
    Go a week without s£x or p0rn.

    Focus on work without being distracted by women.
    Stop simping and chasing after every woman you see.
    If you can’t master your own body, how can you master the world?

    8. SUCCESSFUL MEN CONTROL S£X, BROKE MEN ARE CONTROLLED BY S€X

    S€x is a tool.
    The weak use it for pleasure.
    The strong use it for power.

    A successful man controls when and how he engages in s€x.
    A broke man lets s€x control him.
    That’s why the world is run by disciplined men, not by men who chase pleasure.

    9. WOMEN COME AND GO, BUT SUCCESS STAYS

    A man can have 100 women today, and they can all leave tomorrow.
    But if you have money, power, and status, even more women will come.

    That’s why powerful men never lack women.
    And that’s why weak men are always chasing.

    10. DISCIPLINE FIRST, PLEASURE LATER

    There is nothing wrong with s£x.

    But if you put pleasure before purpose, you will always struggle.
    If you master self-control, you will always be ahead.

    The choice is yours.

    BOTTOM LINE:

    If you want to be great, wealthy, and powerful, learn to control your lust.

    Because in the end…

    Men who control their desires, control their future.
    Men who chase pleasure, lose everything.
    @highlight
    @topfans
    S€X AND SUCCESS DON’T MIX – WHY UNDISCIPLINED MEN NEVER BECOME GREAT Some men dream of success. Some men work for success. Some men destroy their success before it even starts. And guess what? For many men, the biggest distraction is S€X. A man who chases pleasure over purpose will always be left behind. A man who controls his desires will always be ahead. Success requires discipline. Sexual indulgence destroys discipline. If you can’t control your lust, you will never control your future. BRUTAL THREAD: 1. POWERFUL MEN AVOID S€XUAL DISTRACTIONS, WEAK MEN CAN’T SAY NO Every great man in history had one thing in common: They had discipline. Alexander the Great conquered the world by 30—he didn’t waste time chasing women. Elon Musk works 100 hours a week—he doesn’t waste time texting girls. Muhammad Ali refused s€x before fights—he knew discipline was power. But look at many men today: Wasting hours daily on p0rn and m@sturbation. Spending their last money just to impress women. Crying over a girl instead of building their future. No great man was ever a slave to lust. 2. S£X DRAINS YOUR ENERGY, FOCUS, AND DRIVE Every time you release, you are losing more than just a few seconds of pleasure. You are losing: Testosterone (your natural energy for success). Motivation (your hunger to win). Mental clarity (your ability to stay focused). That’s why after s£x, many men feel weak and lazy. Now imagine: Doing this every day. Wasting hours texting, chasing, and begging women. Spending money just to get a few minutes of pleasure. That’s why broke men chase s£x, and rich men chase success. 3. EVERY MINUTE SPENT CHASING WOMEN IS A MINUTE LOST BUILDING YOUR FUTURE Look at your daily habits. How much time do you spend scrolling through women’s pictures? How much time do you waste flirting and simping in DMs? How much time do you spend watching p0rn and draining your strength? Now imagine using that time to: Learn a high-income skill. Work on your business or career. Go to the gym and improve your body. If you focused on building, you wouldn’t need to chase—women would come to you. 4. HISTORY PROVES THAT S£XUAL WEAKNESS DESTROYS GREAT MEN Ask yourself: What destroyed the strongest men in history? Not war. Not enemies. Not poverty. It was s£xual weakness. Samson lost his power because of Delilah. King Solomon was the wisest man, but women led him to destruction. Tiger Woods lost millions in endorsements due to a s£x scandal. Bill Clinton’s career was almost ruined by a woman. A man without discipline is a man waiting for destruction. 5. WOMEN DON’T RESPECT MEN WHO CAN’T CONTROL THEMSELVES You think a woman respects a man who chases her all day? You think she values a man who is always available and begging? No. A woman respects men who have: Purpose. Self-control. A bigger mission in life. When you focus on your purpose, women will focus on you. 6. P0RN, M@STURBATION & CASUAL S£X ARE MAKING MEN WEAKER The modern man is weak, lazy, and broke because he is addicted to cheap pleasure. P0rn kills your brain. M@sturbation destroys your energy. Casual s£x makes you indisciplined. That’s why so many men are: Unmotivated. Struggling financially. Depressed and directionless. If you want to be great, you must cut off s£xual distractions. 7. A MAN WHO CAN’T CONTROL HIS URGES CAN’T CONTROL HIS DESTINY You say you want to be rich, powerful, and successful. But you can’t even: Go a week without s£x or p0rn. Focus on work without being distracted by women. Stop simping and chasing after every woman you see. If you can’t master your own body, how can you master the world? 8. SUCCESSFUL MEN CONTROL S£X, BROKE MEN ARE CONTROLLED BY S€X S€x is a tool. The weak use it for pleasure. The strong use it for power. A successful man controls when and how he engages in s€x. A broke man lets s€x control him. That’s why the world is run by disciplined men, not by men who chase pleasure. 9. WOMEN COME AND GO, BUT SUCCESS STAYS A man can have 100 women today, and they can all leave tomorrow. But if you have money, power, and status, even more women will come. That’s why powerful men never lack women. And that’s why weak men are always chasing. 10. DISCIPLINE FIRST, PLEASURE LATER There is nothing wrong with s£x. But if you put pleasure before purpose, you will always struggle. If you master self-control, you will always be ahead. The choice is yours. BOTTOM LINE: If you want to be great, wealthy, and powerful, learn to control your lust. Because in the end… Men who control their desires, control their future. Men who chase pleasure, lose everything. @highlight @topfans
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  • When we first met, he told me he was living with his parents. His father's house had many rooms, so he didn’t need to rent. The girl I was five years ago would have said, "Thank you, but I don’t date a man who lives with his parents." But there’s one thing that comes with maturing or experiencing different shades of life: it makes you understand that the same situations can bring different stories.

    I said yes, hoping our story wouldn’t be like that failed relationship story I read on Silent Beads.

    He would come to my place bearing gifts and smiles. He would help around while telling me stories of how it feels to live with your parents at thirty. "They don’t respect your age ooo. They can send you to go and buy charcoal when you’ve just returned from buying pepper from the street."

    After three months of dating, I realized he’d met my friends and my mom, but I hadn’t met anyone from his side. He told me he didn’t have friends. I said fine. He told me he would take me home to say hi to his parents one day. I said okay.

    It didn’t sit well with me that I would date a man for three months and not know where he lived, so I started pressing him to take me home. He gave me excuses. He said his father hates to see him with a woman and that once he takes me home, his father might think he’s going to sleep with me and won’t respect me or our relationship again.

    I said, "That’s fine, but I want to see the brick-and-mortar you live in. I want to know the area, the color of your building, the color of the gate. Do you have a dog in there? I want to hear how it barks."

    Six months later, he decided to take me home. Not only to see the color of the building but to visit his room and spend the night.

    The Uber stopped right in front of his gate. He said, "You see, it’s a brown gate and a yellow house. Easy to see." He walked in as I followed. It was around 8 p.m. Immediately, we stepped into the compound, his demeanor changed. He murmured something loud enough for me to hear: "Why’s the light in my parents’ room on?"

    He asked me to wait while he went in to check. I was standing in the compound when a man walked up to me from behind the house. He asked who I was looking for. You look at his face and the way he walks, and you realize it’s the father. I answered respectfully, "I came with Kojo, but he’s inside."

    He changed from nonchalant to concerned. He asked, "Kojo is in the house?" I nodded. He asked again, "Who are you? Who are you to him?" I answered while bowing, "He’s my friend."

    I said friend, but he got angry. Then he shouted Kojo’s name. When Kojo was coming out, his mom followed, and then a boy, and later a girl. His face didn’t look cheerful—like he had encountered a ghost and wanted to run. His father said, "So you thought we hadn’t returned, so you were sneaking in your new victim, right?"

    His mom asked who I was, and I said a friend. She asked, "A friend, and you’re being sneaked in at this time? What kind of friends are you?" I stood there watching while those two kids kept calling him Daddy and asking him a series of questions, like children always do. I was getting the message. All was not well.

    His mom said, "These two kids are his. I hope you know that already?" His dad added, "He had them with two different women. I hope you also know that? He impregnated the women in the same month, so these two kids were born days apart. Do you know all that?"

    I started smiling shyly. His dad wasn’t having it. His mom kept smiling. She said, "If you know all that and you’re still happy, then welcome home."

    I took two steps backward. I looked at Kojo’s face, but he avoided my gaze. I thanked his parents and told them I didn’t know all that because he hadn’t told me. I mentioned his name and said goodbye to him. I walked out of the gate with a heavy head and a heart that was falling apart.

    When I got home, I texted him, "Thank you for letting me know your house. At least, I now know which house to avoid the next time I’m in the vicinity."

    He said sorry. He said he was going to tell me the truth but slowly. He said he didn’t want to lose me and that he was serious when he said he was going to marry me.

    My response was, "Do me a favor. Please lose my number and miss your way to my place. I can’t be your third baby mama."

    End.
    When we first met, he told me he was living with his parents. His father's house had many rooms, so he didn’t need to rent. The girl I was five years ago would have said, "Thank you, but I don’t date a man who lives with his parents." But there’s one thing that comes with maturing or experiencing different shades of life: it makes you understand that the same situations can bring different stories. I said yes, hoping our story wouldn’t be like that failed relationship story I read on Silent Beads. He would come to my place bearing gifts and smiles. He would help around while telling me stories of how it feels to live with your parents at thirty. "They don’t respect your age ooo. They can send you to go and buy charcoal when you’ve just returned from buying pepper from the street." After three months of dating, I realized he’d met my friends and my mom, but I hadn’t met anyone from his side. He told me he didn’t have friends. I said fine. He told me he would take me home to say hi to his parents one day. I said okay. It didn’t sit well with me that I would date a man for three months and not know where he lived, so I started pressing him to take me home. He gave me excuses. He said his father hates to see him with a woman and that once he takes me home, his father might think he’s going to sleep with me and won’t respect me or our relationship again. I said, "That’s fine, but I want to see the brick-and-mortar you live in. I want to know the area, the color of your building, the color of the gate. Do you have a dog in there? I want to hear how it barks." Six months later, he decided to take me home. Not only to see the color of the building but to visit his room and spend the night. The Uber stopped right in front of his gate. He said, "You see, it’s a brown gate and a yellow house. Easy to see." He walked in as I followed. It was around 8 p.m. Immediately, we stepped into the compound, his demeanor changed. He murmured something loud enough for me to hear: "Why’s the light in my parents’ room on?" He asked me to wait while he went in to check. I was standing in the compound when a man walked up to me from behind the house. He asked who I was looking for. You look at his face and the way he walks, and you realize it’s the father. I answered respectfully, "I came with Kojo, but he’s inside." He changed from nonchalant to concerned. He asked, "Kojo is in the house?" I nodded. He asked again, "Who are you? Who are you to him?" I answered while bowing, "He’s my friend." I said friend, but he got angry. Then he shouted Kojo’s name. When Kojo was coming out, his mom followed, and then a boy, and later a girl. His face didn’t look cheerful—like he had encountered a ghost and wanted to run. His father said, "So you thought we hadn’t returned, so you were sneaking in your new victim, right?" His mom asked who I was, and I said a friend. She asked, "A friend, and you’re being sneaked in at this time? What kind of friends are you?" I stood there watching while those two kids kept calling him Daddy and asking him a series of questions, like children always do. I was getting the message. All was not well. His mom said, "These two kids are his. I hope you know that already?" His dad added, "He had them with two different women. I hope you also know that? He impregnated the women in the same month, so these two kids were born days apart. Do you know all that?" I started smiling shyly. His dad wasn’t having it. His mom kept smiling. She said, "If you know all that and you’re still happy, then welcome home." I took two steps backward. I looked at Kojo’s face, but he avoided my gaze. I thanked his parents and told them I didn’t know all that because he hadn’t told me. I mentioned his name and said goodbye to him. I walked out of the gate with a heavy head and a heart that was falling apart. When I got home, I texted him, "Thank you for letting me know your house. At least, I now know which house to avoid the next time I’m in the vicinity." He said sorry. He said he was going to tell me the truth but slowly. He said he didn’t want to lose me and that he was serious when he said he was going to marry me. My response was, "Do me a favor. Please lose my number and miss your way to my place. I can’t be your third baby mama." End.
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  • Long-distance relationships are emotional traps for untrained men.

    You sit there texting, calling, promising her forever,
    While she’s out there collecting attention like it’s oxygen.

    You think she’s yours because of “love”?
    No, bro.
    She’s loyal to her options. Her environment. Her emotions.
    And when the right guy shows up and touches the right nerve,
    Your long-distance promise means nothing.

    Let me burn the fantasy:

    You’re in bed dreaming of her.
    Some other man is in her bed, giving her what you only type.

    You send good morning texts.
    He sends dopamine with eye contact and masculine presence.

    You plan FaceTime dates.
    He plans real ones, with his hands around her waist, not emojis on a screen.

    Women don’t stay loyal to absence. They stay loyal to presence, pressure, and power.

    And a man who lets distance test loyalty
    Is a man who's gambling with a loaded gun pointed at his pride.

    You think you're “building trust”?
    You’re just feeding her attention-starved ego while she's busy entertaining "just friends."

    You think love will carry the weight?
    No. Only masculine presence, real-world imprinting, and boundaries keep her in check.

    At Girls Approach, we teach men how to dominate the room, not text their worth across borders.

    If you can’t show up in person, you better show up in power.
    Otherwise? You're just emotionally funding her connection with the next bold guy in her city.

    Let the truth be told:

    A woman’s loyalty is as stable as the attention she receives.
    Distance doesn’t protect your bond.
    It exposes the illusion of one.

    If you disappoint, you must appear before the council of brotherhood, and explain why you've decided to disgrace everybody.

    No whining.
    This is Girls Approach energy. This is dominance without desperation.
    If you’re not in her world physically, someone else will be.
    Step up or step aside.

    This is warfare. Get hard or go home.

    #girlsapproach

    ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅
    Long-distance relationships are emotional traps for untrained men. You sit there texting, calling, promising her forever, While she’s out there collecting attention like it’s oxygen. You think she’s yours because of “love”? No, bro. She’s loyal to her options. Her environment. Her emotions. And when the right guy shows up and touches the right nerve, Your long-distance promise means nothing. Let me burn the fantasy: You’re in bed dreaming of her. Some other man is in her bed, giving her what you only type. You send good morning texts. He sends dopamine with eye contact and masculine presence. You plan FaceTime dates. He plans real ones, with his hands around her waist, not emojis on a screen. Women don’t stay loyal to absence. They stay loyal to presence, pressure, and power. And a man who lets distance test loyalty Is a man who's gambling with a loaded gun pointed at his pride. You think you're “building trust”? You’re just feeding her attention-starved ego while she's busy entertaining "just friends." You think love will carry the weight? No. Only masculine presence, real-world imprinting, and boundaries keep her in check. At Girls Approach, we teach men how to dominate the room, not text their worth across borders. If you can’t show up in person, you better show up in power. Otherwise? You're just emotionally funding her connection with the next bold guy in her city. Let the truth be told: A woman’s loyalty is as stable as the attention she receives. Distance doesn’t protect your bond. It exposes the illusion of one. If you disappoint, you must appear before the council of brotherhood, and explain why you've decided to disgrace everybody. No whining. This is Girls Approach energy. This is dominance without desperation. If you’re not in her world physically, someone else will be. Step up or step aside. This is warfare. Get hard or go home. #girlsapproach ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅
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  • Lîsten up, Mên! Here’s Why Yóu Don’t Marry a W0man Over 35 The Math, the Biology, the Reality

    Whelên I tell you don’t marry a woman over 35, I’m nôt just throwing opinions.
    I’m giving you cold logic, fãcts, and brutal masculine truth that society is too scared to say out loud.
    Let’s brêak it down.

    Let’s say she became sêxua||y active at 18.
    She’s nôw 35. That’s 17 years of sêxual activity.
    If she ãveraged just 10 men per year and believe me, that’s modest for many in this era of “exploring” and “experiencing” that’s 170 men.

    Yes, 170 dîfferent men have had access to her body.
    170 opportunities to pair-bond, create soul ties, and destroy her ability to submit to one man.
    Yôu want peace with a woman like that?
    Bro, you’ll be fighting emotîônal ghosts and soul trauma daily.

    Nôw let’s talk biology.

    By age 35, she’s a|ready lost over 90% of her egg supply.
    That’s not speculation. That’s science.
    The peak fertility window for women is between 18 and 28. After that, fertility drops drastica||y, and after 35, it’s a dangerous gamble.
    You’ll spend mi||lions chasing IVF, praying for miracles, or end up childless with a woman who has nothing to give but complaints and comparison.

    Now let’s get darker.

    If she was hãving unprotected sex often (which is common in “serious” or “long-term” re|ationships) she may have had multiple abortions.
    At 20 pôtential pregnancy events over those years?
    You’re looking at a wôman who could’ve terminated 20 lives, and now wants to settle down like it’s just anôther phase.
    And you? You’re supposed to be the fool who gîves her a ring and raises her leftover future?

    Let’s be rea| you’re not her dream man.
    You’re just the last option now that the games are over and the clock is ticking.

    You don’t bui|d a dynasty on a used foundation.
    You don’t marry history, you marry future potential.
    And the o|der she is, the more of her value is already behind her.

    Choose wise|y or suffer silently.

    Crêdit: EMMACK
    moral lesson:To whom it may concern
    Lîsten up, Mên! Here’s Why Yóu Don’t Marry a W0man Over 35 The Math, the Biology, the Reality Whelên I tell you don’t marry a woman over 35, I’m nôt just throwing opinions. I’m giving you cold logic, fãcts, and brutal masculine truth that society is too scared to say out loud. Let’s brêak it down. Let’s say she became sêxua||y active at 18. She’s nôw 35. That’s 17 years of sêxual activity. If she ãveraged just 10 men per year and believe me, that’s modest for many in this era of “exploring” and “experiencing” that’s 170 men. Yes, 170 dîfferent men have had access to her body. 170 opportunities to pair-bond, create soul ties, and destroy her ability to submit to one man. Yôu want peace with a woman like that? Bro, you’ll be fighting emotîônal ghosts and soul trauma daily. Nôw let’s talk biology. By age 35, she’s a|ready lost over 90% of her egg supply. That’s not speculation. That’s science. The peak fertility window for women is between 18 and 28. After that, fertility drops drastica||y, and after 35, it’s a dangerous gamble. You’ll spend mi||lions chasing IVF, praying for miracles, or end up childless with a woman who has nothing to give but complaints and comparison. Now let’s get darker. If she was hãving unprotected sex often (which is common in “serious” or “long-term” re|ationships) she may have had multiple abortions. At 20 pôtential pregnancy events over those years? You’re looking at a wôman who could’ve terminated 20 lives, and now wants to settle down like it’s just anôther phase. And you? You’re supposed to be the fool who gîves her a ring and raises her leftover future? Let’s be rea| you’re not her dream man. You’re just the last option now that the games are over and the clock is ticking. You don’t bui|d a dynasty on a used foundation. You don’t marry history, you marry future potential. And the o|der she is, the more of her value is already behind her. Choose wise|y or suffer silently. Crêdit: EMMACK moral lesson:To whom it may concern
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  • BILLIONAIRE CHOSE HIS MAID OVER HIS FIANCÉE — AND PAID THE PRICE

    Darlington Obi, the sole heir to the OB group holdings, had never been one for surprises.
    Yet, on that breezy Wednesday afternoon, he arrived at his estate without alerting anyone. Not his staff, not his fianceé, not even his mother, who usually micromanaged his every step. His flight from London had landed earlier than expected, and for the first time in years, he wanted to walk into his mansion without the burden of fanfare or formal greetings.
    The towering black gates slid open silently, and his convoy remained outside while he stepped in alone, holding just a leather bag and wearing a simple black polo with navy blue slacks. The stillness inside was unsettling. The chandelier above the entrance cast soft shadows on the white marble floor as he made his way toward the kitchen, drawn by the faint sound of music and laughter.
    It was not the kind of laughter that came from privilege or pretense. It was genuine, pure, melodic and strangely contagious. And there she was, barefoot on the tiled floor, her wrapper tied loosely around her waist, headscarf swaying as she spun in slow circles with a mop in one hand and her other hand lifted toward the ceiling like a ballerina.
    She danced like someone who didn't know the world was watching, like someone whose joy wasn't dependent on money or fame. The Bluetooth speaker beside the pantry hummed with a soft tune by Asa, and every step she took fell in rhythm with the song Darlington froze. Not because she was the most beautiful woman he had seen, though her smooth dark skin and natural smile lit something within him, but because her freedom, her joy, and her authenticity struck him like lightning in a dry season.
    For a man who had seen the world closed billionaire deals and walked red carpets with women who wore diamonds like clothing, this moment felt like a window into a life he had forgotten existed. It wasn't just about attraction. It was about something deeper. peace, purity, and presence. He didn't say a word, just watched until she twirled, startled to see him standing there.
    She gasped, fumbled with the mop, and almost slipped. "Oga, I'm sorry," she stammered, her voice trembling. "I didn't know you were back." Her eyes widened with fear, perhaps thinking she would be scolded or fired for using the speaker. "But Darlington only smiled and shook his head gently." Don't stop," he said softly, stepping further into the room.
    "I've never seen someone dance like that so free." Her eyes dropped to the floor as she apologized again, reaching to turn off the music. But he stopped her hand. That moment marked a shift, a dangerous one. In that small space of silence between her heartbeat and his, something unspoken was born.
    and neither of them knew that everything in their world was about to change because of a dance upstairs in a bedroom laced with velvet curtains and French perfume. Cassandra Au scrolled through her tablet while a maid painted her toenails a radiant shade of wine. She had no idea Darlington had returned.
    And even if she did, she wouldn't have rushed downstairs to welcome him. That wasn't her style. Love to her was about possession, a calculated alliance between her family's legacy and his. She was a daughter of Chief Au, an oil tycoon whose influence ran through political veins like blood. The engagement between Cassandra and Darlington was a merger of powerhouses.

    To be continued...
    BILLIONAIRE CHOSE HIS MAID OVER HIS FIANCÉE — AND PAID THE PRICE Darlington Obi, the sole heir to the OB group holdings, had never been one for surprises. Yet, on that breezy Wednesday afternoon, he arrived at his estate without alerting anyone. Not his staff, not his fianceé, not even his mother, who usually micromanaged his every step. His flight from London had landed earlier than expected, and for the first time in years, he wanted to walk into his mansion without the burden of fanfare or formal greetings. The towering black gates slid open silently, and his convoy remained outside while he stepped in alone, holding just a leather bag and wearing a simple black polo with navy blue slacks. The stillness inside was unsettling. The chandelier above the entrance cast soft shadows on the white marble floor as he made his way toward the kitchen, drawn by the faint sound of music and laughter. It was not the kind of laughter that came from privilege or pretense. It was genuine, pure, melodic and strangely contagious. And there she was, barefoot on the tiled floor, her wrapper tied loosely around her waist, headscarf swaying as she spun in slow circles with a mop in one hand and her other hand lifted toward the ceiling like a ballerina. She danced like someone who didn't know the world was watching, like someone whose joy wasn't dependent on money or fame. The Bluetooth speaker beside the pantry hummed with a soft tune by Asa, and every step she took fell in rhythm with the song Darlington froze. Not because she was the most beautiful woman he had seen, though her smooth dark skin and natural smile lit something within him, but because her freedom, her joy, and her authenticity struck him like lightning in a dry season. For a man who had seen the world closed billionaire deals and walked red carpets with women who wore diamonds like clothing, this moment felt like a window into a life he had forgotten existed. It wasn't just about attraction. It was about something deeper. peace, purity, and presence. He didn't say a word, just watched until she twirled, startled to see him standing there. She gasped, fumbled with the mop, and almost slipped. "Oga, I'm sorry," she stammered, her voice trembling. "I didn't know you were back." Her eyes widened with fear, perhaps thinking she would be scolded or fired for using the speaker. "But Darlington only smiled and shook his head gently." Don't stop," he said softly, stepping further into the room. "I've never seen someone dance like that so free." Her eyes dropped to the floor as she apologized again, reaching to turn off the music. But he stopped her hand. That moment marked a shift, a dangerous one. In that small space of silence between her heartbeat and his, something unspoken was born. and neither of them knew that everything in their world was about to change because of a dance upstairs in a bedroom laced with velvet curtains and French perfume. Cassandra Au scrolled through her tablet while a maid painted her toenails a radiant shade of wine. She had no idea Darlington had returned. And even if she did, she wouldn't have rushed downstairs to welcome him. That wasn't her style. Love to her was about possession, a calculated alliance between her family's legacy and his. She was a daughter of Chief Au, an oil tycoon whose influence ran through political veins like blood. The engagement between Cassandra and Darlington was a merger of powerhouses. To be continued...
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  • “6 THINGS MEN WHO NEVER SIMP UNDERSTAND (THAT SIMPS WILL NEVER GET)”

    Some of you think you’re “nice guys.”

    Nah, bro—you’re a SIMP.

    Always chasing, begging, paying, pleading…
    And still not getting what you want.

    But there’s a class of men who NEVER go through that humiliation.

    Let me tell you the 6 codes those men live by.

    BRUTAL THREAD:

    1. “ATTENTION IS CURRENCY—NEVER SPEND IT FOOLISHLY”
    A non-simp knows: the more you give a woman unnecessary attention, the less she values it.

    Simps? Always double texting, calling 10 times, replying stories in 2 seconds.

    Real men? They respond, not chase.
    They’re BUSY. They don’t overinvest attention.

    Result? Women respect them because their attention is rare.

    2. “A MAN WHO WORSHIPS A WOMAN CAN NEVER LEAD HER”
    A non-simp knows: once you place her on a pedestal, you’ve put yourself under her feet.

    Simps? “My queen,” “You’re my world,” “I’m nothing without you.”

    Bro… even SHE will start believing you’re beneath her.

    Real men? They love, but they don’t worship.
    They admire, but they don’t lose frame.

    Women can only follow men they respect, not men who beg.

    3. “A MAN WHO CAN’T WALK AWAY HAS ALREADY LOST POWER”
    A non-simp understands:
    The power to walk away is the power to lead.

    Simps?
    “I’ll do anything to keep her.”
    “She’s all I have.”
    “I can’t live without her.”

    Bro, you’ve surrendered your balls.

    Real men? They’re ready to walk away if respect is lost.
    They know: staying where you’re not valued is self-abuse.

    4. “YOUR MONEY MUST SERVE YOUR MISSION—NOT HER EMOTIONS”
    A non-simp’s money builds himself first.

    Simps?
    “Babe needs money.”
    “Babe wants hair.”
    “Babe’s rent is due.”

    Their account balance = ATM for her lifestyle.

    Real men? They fund purpose, not parasitism.

    They help, but they never cripple their finances to sponsor a princess lifestyle.

    5. “A MAN WHO CHASES WOMEN HAS NO TIME TO BUILD KINGDOMS”
    A non-simp knows: the more you chase, the more you waste time.

    Simps are marathon runners:
    From one DM to another.
    From one date to another.

    Meanwhile… kings are busy building empires.
    Money. Power. Value.

    And guess what?
    Women chase men who build.

    6. “A WOMAN MUST QUALIFY FOR YOUR LEADERSHIP—NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND”
    A non-simp doesn’t audition for women’s approval.

    Simps?
    “Do you like me now?”
    “Am I good enough?”
    “Please give me a chance.”

    Bro… why are you applying for a job you created?

    Real men?
    They ARE the prize.
    Their standards select.

    A woman must qualify to sit beside him, not the other way around.

    BOTTOM LINE:

    If you’re still simping, you’re living life upside down.

    Stop chasing validation.
    Stop funding entitlement.
    Stop surrendering power.

    Start building YOU.
    Respect flows from strength.

    Women don’t follow men who beg.
    They follow men who lead.

    If this post burns you—it’s because you need it.

    ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅
    “6 THINGS MEN WHO NEVER SIMP UNDERSTAND (THAT SIMPS WILL NEVER GET)” Some of you think you’re “nice guys.” Nah, bro—you’re a SIMP. Always chasing, begging, paying, pleading… And still not getting what you want. But there’s a class of men who NEVER go through that humiliation. Let me tell you the 6 codes those men live by. BRUTAL THREAD: 1. “ATTENTION IS CURRENCY—NEVER SPEND IT FOOLISHLY” A non-simp knows: the more you give a woman unnecessary attention, the less she values it. Simps? Always double texting, calling 10 times, replying stories in 2 seconds. Real men? They respond, not chase. They’re BUSY. They don’t overinvest attention. Result? Women respect them because their attention is rare. 2. “A MAN WHO WORSHIPS A WOMAN CAN NEVER LEAD HER” A non-simp knows: once you place her on a pedestal, you’ve put yourself under her feet. Simps? “My queen,” “You’re my world,” “I’m nothing without you.” Bro… even SHE will start believing you’re beneath her. Real men? They love, but they don’t worship. They admire, but they don’t lose frame. Women can only follow men they respect, not men who beg. 3. “A MAN WHO CAN’T WALK AWAY HAS ALREADY LOST POWER” A non-simp understands: The power to walk away is the power to lead. Simps? “I’ll do anything to keep her.” “She’s all I have.” “I can’t live without her.” Bro, you’ve surrendered your balls. Real men? They’re ready to walk away if respect is lost. They know: staying where you’re not valued is self-abuse. 4. “YOUR MONEY MUST SERVE YOUR MISSION—NOT HER EMOTIONS” A non-simp’s money builds himself first. Simps? “Babe needs money.” “Babe wants hair.” “Babe’s rent is due.” Their account balance = ATM for her lifestyle. Real men? They fund purpose, not parasitism. They help, but they never cripple their finances to sponsor a princess lifestyle. 5. “A MAN WHO CHASES WOMEN HAS NO TIME TO BUILD KINGDOMS” A non-simp knows: the more you chase, the more you waste time. Simps are marathon runners: From one DM to another. From one date to another. Meanwhile… kings are busy building empires. Money. Power. Value. And guess what? Women chase men who build. 6. “A WOMAN MUST QUALIFY FOR YOUR LEADERSHIP—NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND” A non-simp doesn’t audition for women’s approval. Simps? “Do you like me now?” “Am I good enough?” “Please give me a chance.” Bro… why are you applying for a job you created? Real men? They ARE the prize. Their standards select. A woman must qualify to sit beside him, not the other way around. BOTTOM LINE: If you’re still simping, you’re living life upside down. Stop chasing validation. Stop funding entitlement. Stop surrendering power. Start building YOU. Respect flows from strength. Women don’t follow men who beg. They follow men who lead. If this post burns you—it’s because you need it. ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅
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  • *What to Have Before You Become a Wife *

    Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire.

    But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience.

    So before you become a wife; Have

    1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself

    Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions.

    Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else.

    Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself.

    Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure.

    2. Emotional Maturity

    Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love?

    In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband.
    There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills.

    Learn Good Communication Skills too.

    Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man.

    Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough.

    Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence.

    A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom.

    3. Financial Wisdom

    You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that.

    You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally.

    Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you

    Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both.

    Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain!



    4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life

    What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose?

    Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife?

    It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision.

    Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep.

    If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met.

    Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort.


    5. Sound Marital Knowledge

    You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage?

    In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent.

    You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it.

    You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible.

    All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing

    Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ?

    Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront.

    Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can.

    6. Healing from Past Wounds

    Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage.

    Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married.

    Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage.

    Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow.

    7. The Right Community

    Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage.

    Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage.

    Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them.


    8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility

    Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed?

    Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them.
    Start building them now— the right habits.

    Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids.

    9. Hobbies and Passions

    In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow.

    Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season.

    When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home.

    10. A Prayer Life

    Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God.

    A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan.

    A kneeling woman is a winning woman!


    Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it.

    Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole.

    So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman.

    A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key.

    Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it.

    Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED , not to be ENDURED .

    You are worth the wait. PEACE!
    *What to Have Before You Become a Wife📌 👇* Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire. But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience. So before you become a wife; Have 1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions. Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else. Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself. Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure. 2. Emotional Maturity Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love? In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband. There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills. Learn Good Communication Skills too. Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man. Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough. Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence. A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom. 3. Financial Wisdom You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that. You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally. Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you❓ Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both. Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain! • 4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose? Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife? It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision. Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep. If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met. Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort. 5. Sound Marital Knowledge You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage? In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent. You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it. You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible. All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing 🙄 Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ? Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront. Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can. 6. Healing from Past Wounds Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage. Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married. Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage. Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow. 7. The Right Community Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage. Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage. Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them. 8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed? Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them. Start building them now— the right habits. Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids. 9. Hobbies and Passions In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow. Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season. When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home. 10. A Prayer Life Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God. A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan. A kneeling woman is a winning woman! Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it. Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole. So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman. A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key. Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it. Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED ✅, not to be ENDURED ❌. You are worth the wait. PEACE!🕊️
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  • *A true life story meant for women or men who always taught it's done with them when their marriage doesn't bring forth children.*

    *She Adopted 5 Boys Nobody Wanted — 27 Years Later, They Did Something She Never Expected.*

    *Gloria Adebayo was 35 when life tested her strength. After five years of marriage and multiple failed fertility treatments, her husband walked away — no explanation, just a short note on the kitchen table:-*
    *“I can’t do this anymore. I’m sorry.”*

    *The silence that followed was deafening. Gloria battled loneliness, shame, and the heavy weight of dreams unfulfilled. But she wasn’t the kind of woman to stay down for long.*

    *In 1997, during a volunteer shift at a local child welfare center in Lagos, she met a set of brothers — five boys, all under the age of 10, abandoned by their relatives after the death of their parents.*
    *No one wanted to adopt them because they came as a group. And so, they stayed… waiting.*

    *Something in Gloria’s heart stirred.*

    *She didn’t have the resources. She didn’t have a husband. But she had love — so much love, and she knew it wasn’t meant to stay locked up in her heart.*

    *One by one, she brought them home. First Segun, then Tunde, then the twins, Ikenna and Ifeanyi, and finally, baby Chuka. Raising them wasn’t easy — there were hospital visits, school fees, tears, and teenage drama. But there was also laughter, dancing in the rain, and Sunday mornings filled with jollof rice and gospel music.*

    *Years passed. The boys grew. One became a civil engineer. Another started a non-profit. One moved abroad and became a teacher. Two others joined the police force. But they all remained close to home… and close to Mama Gloria.*

    *In December 2024, on her 62nd birthday, they gathered in her small compound — and surprised her with a key.*

    *A brand-new house. Bought and built by all five of them.*

    *“We know you never had much,” Segun said, holding her trembling hands. “But you gave us everything. You gave us a home when we were forgotten. And now, it’s our turn.”*

    *Gloria couldn’t speak.*
    *The woman who once cried herself to sleep wondering if she’d ever be called “Mama” now sat surrounded by five grown men calling her “The greatest mother in the world.”*

    *She didn’t just adopt five boys.*
    *She raised five kings.*

    *Source: Rosy world CRN*

    *A true life story meant for women or men who always taught it's done with them when their marriage doesn't bring forth children.* *She Adopted 5 Boys Nobody Wanted — 27 Years Later, They Did Something She Never Expected.* *Gloria Adebayo was 35 when life tested her strength. After five years of marriage and multiple failed fertility treatments, her husband walked away — no explanation, just a short note on the kitchen table:-* *“I can’t do this anymore. I’m sorry.”* *The silence that followed was deafening. Gloria battled loneliness, shame, and the heavy weight of dreams unfulfilled. But she wasn’t the kind of woman to stay down for long.* *In 1997, during a volunteer shift at a local child welfare center in Lagos, she met a set of brothers — five boys, all under the age of 10, abandoned by their relatives after the death of their parents.* *No one wanted to adopt them because they came as a group. And so, they stayed… waiting.* *Something in Gloria’s heart stirred.* *She didn’t have the resources. She didn’t have a husband. But she had love — so much love, and she knew it wasn’t meant to stay locked up in her heart.* *One by one, she brought them home. First Segun, then Tunde, then the twins, Ikenna and Ifeanyi, and finally, baby Chuka. Raising them wasn’t easy — there were hospital visits, school fees, tears, and teenage drama. But there was also laughter, dancing in the rain, and Sunday mornings filled with jollof rice and gospel music.* *Years passed. The boys grew. One became a civil engineer. Another started a non-profit. One moved abroad and became a teacher. Two others joined the police force. But they all remained close to home… and close to Mama Gloria.* *In December 2024, on her 62nd birthday, they gathered in her small compound — and surprised her with a key.* *A brand-new house. Bought and built by all five of them.* *“We know you never had much,” Segun said, holding her trembling hands. “But you gave us everything. You gave us a home when we were forgotten. And now, it’s our turn.”* *Gloria couldn’t speak.* *The woman who once cried herself to sleep wondering if she’d ever be called “Mama” now sat surrounded by five grown men calling her “The greatest mother in the world.”* *She didn’t just adopt five boys.* *She raised five kings.* *Source: Rosy world CRN* 💟💖💝❤️‍🩹💟
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