How I Slept on a Cybercafé Floor to Finish School "I used to sleep on a cybercafé floor just to finish school, no mattress, no money, just stubborn hope & faith." Let me give some context for Gen Zs. There used to be this booming business in the early 2000s until about maybe 2016, especially in Cameroon, before mobile phone penetration scaled. That business was the cybercafé. Around 2011, I used to work in a cybercafé in Bamenda, and I mostly took the night shifts. I was not on any salary. The guy who owned the cybercafé did not need any extra worker, so I negotiated my way through. I told him I would work for free so I could have access to the internet because I was doing my undergraduate program through a distance learning program. On top of that, I had computer repair skills. So, I struck a deal, I’d promote my services to customers with home computers, and they could call me for repairs. That’s how I planned to earn some money. So, some nights, I would sleep on the floor of that cybercafé. At the time, internet speed was higher at night, so we had clients who would buy internet time from 10 p.m. till 5 a.m. That is why I had to sleep on the floor sometimes. At that age of 21, I was broke, half starved and sleeping on the floor of cybercafe most nights just to finish my undergraduate. No mattress, no steady income, just stubborn faith and hopes that after my undergraduate life will be better. Now? I advise executives across nations, I design curriculums for institutions, I help leaders build institutions that can compete across nations, I have travelled 20+ nations across 4 continents to speak, train and consult and more. But back then, I was just a hungry boy living most at times on borrowed money. That particular season of my life always play so fresh in my memories. Seasons like that will reveal a lot to you and me. a) Comfort is not a requirement for calling and destiny Many wait for ideal conditions before building their lives and destinies. Destiny blueprints and capacity are often handed and developed in wilderness seasons. Ask Jesus Christ, ask Joseph, ask David etc. b) Honor your obscurity While others chased applause and reasons to impress others, build discipline in that season that will sustain you for life. That hidden season shaped my capacity and more. What I am saying is, do not resent your silence or your season of obscurity, use it to your advantage. Reminder: Join Skills & Knowledge Monetization Academy cohort 3. Admission opens in the next few days. Join the admission waitlist. I only take 15 people. https://chat.whatsapp.com/DL4xFWYLUZDEj53fxwmW1T Identify, Extract, Package, and Make Money Your Skills & Experience in 21 Days. Join now c) Education isn't just academic The cybercafe floor taught me resourcefulness, resilience, negotiation, survival, relationships and more. Lessons no university can match. d) Experiences are your real destiny CV (resume) Years later, I still reference that floor, that cybercafe experience, I still remember the fights etc. Not as trauma, but as my training ground. I learned a lot from the streets during that season. Put me anywhere, I will build. That floor became part of my foundation. Free download Skill to Value to Income Starter Pack: https://stan.store/Joybert Dr. Joybert Javnyuy

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Beloved, Whatever petition you place before the Almighty shall be answered and performed speedily in Jesus name, Amen. What has been causing you deep anxiety, sleepless nights and heartaches, the way Maker will make a way for you. The mighty man in battle will make you triumphant in Jesus mighty name Amen. Have a beautiful week a head. *Good morning. Please remain blessed 🙏♥️

🍒🌽 SEEDS OF DESTINY DAILY DEVOTIONAL GUIDE BY DR PST PAUL ENENCHE THURSDAY, 17TH JULY 2025. TOPIC: OUR RESPONSIBILITY IN FAITH BUILDING SCRIPTURE: Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked. EPHESIANS 6:16. THOUGHT FOR THE DAY: If you are interested in your life and destiny, you must be interested in building your faith. It has been confirmed that the walk of faith is a journey in responsibility. The maintenance of a life of faith leaves us with responsibilities. There is no reach without a stretch, and no flight without a fight. Today we shall be exploring a counsel that enhances our faith and guides us on how to live in faith so we can exist in permanent victory in life: Accept responsibility for building your faith (Romans 1:17). Beloved, if you are interested in your life and destiny, you must be interested in building your faith (Ephesians 6:16). The responsibility of building your faith must be accepted. Build your faith by studying and meditating on the Word of God (Romans 10:17). Build your faith by praying in the Holy Ghost (Jude 20) and taking scriptural faith actions. Show me a hard worker, a man who knows how to labour in the Word of God, and I will show you someone who is a giant in the faith. The truth is, we do not have the same weight in the realm of the spirit. There are some demons that God would never allow to go near some people because if He did, the demons would destroy such persons. There are people who cannot stand their village demons because their spiritual weight is too small. For example, for Job, it was satan himself who confronted him (Job 1:7-12) because Job’s faith was equal to the task. For Jesus Christ, satan himself confronted Him in temptation because Jesus could handle satan squarely (Matthew 4:5). Beloved, to remain in the realm of victory, building your faith is a non-negotiable requirement. As you take the responsibility of building and deploying your faith, you shall not be a victim of faith failure in Jesus’ Name. Remember this: If you are interested in your life and destiny, you must be interested in your faith. ASSIGNMENT(S): 1. Study and meditate on the Word of God daily. You can also get a soft copy of the Bible and let it be playing while you are resting, sleeping or eating. 2. Get faith-building books and messages for the strengthening of your faith. 3. Take appropriate action when you see fresh light. PRAYER: Lord, I receive the grace to take the responsibility for building my faith. Keep me in the realm of victory permanently, Lord, in Jesus’ Name. FOR FURTHER UNDERSTANDING, GET THIS MESSAGE: THE MYSTERIES OF FAITH DAILY BIBLE READING: Isaiah 7-9 QUOTE: Anyone who does not take the Bible seriously can never operate in faith. Such a person negotiates everything God says. Culled from the book, 15 Kingdom Strategies for Survival by Dr Paul Enenche. AMAZING FACT: Dr. Barry J. Marshall was convinced that H. pylori bacteria caused stomach ulcers, but no one believed him. Since it was illegal to test his theory on humans, he drank the bacteria himself, developed ulcer within days, treated him with antibiotics, and he went on to win a Nobel Prize. PROPHETIC DECLARATION/WORD: Grace to accept the responsibility to build your faith is released in Jesus Name.

HOW TO BE POOR AND HOW TO GET RICH — The Choice is Yours 🚨 If after 4 years in a higher institution you’re still roaming the streets looking for a job, you need to hear this: you’ve failed—monumentally. Let’s stop pampering mediocrity. We’re in a country where truth sounds like hate because too many people are emotionally allergic to accountability. How do we explain that someone who studied Business Administration is now begging a secondary school dropout for job opportunities? How do we have graduates of Agriculture going hungry, when food is gold? Here's the bitter truth: poverty is not always a curse from the devil; often, it’s a system we’ve bought into with our mindset, our ego, and our excuses. Let’s break this down: 1️⃣ Pride: The Graduate Mentality Trap We want soft life. AC offices. Clean suits. Titles. But reality doesn’t pay you for your degree; it pays you for value. Artisan jobs are dying. In 10 years, Nigeria may have no more plumbers, welders, painters—everyone is chasing office jobs. Yet, the ones creating generational wealth are those with tools in their hands and solutions in their heads. Being a graduate shouldn’t stop you from picking up a skill. The world is changing, but are you? 2️⃣ Get-Rich-Quick Syndrome Everyone wants to hammer, but no one wants to suffer. There was a lady in my former church who kept disturbing me about venturing into tech because she heard I make good money. What she didn’t see were my 7 years of trials, the 2 years of no clients, the cancelled N2M deals, the sleepless nights, the rejections. You want what people have, but can you handle what they went through? Wealth takes time. 5 to 7 years of focused grind—minimum. Stop starting today and expecting harvest tomorrow. That’s not entrepreneurship; that’s fantasy. 3️⃣ Lack of Mentorship We spend millions to learn how to drive. But who teaches us how to make money, live purposefully, or build wealth? When Dr. Stephen Akintayo charges for mentorship, people cry scam. Yet they spend the same amount on phones, parties, and clothes. Poverty thrives where knowledge is undervalued. Mentorship is not free—it demands money or service. But it shortens your journey by years. Find someone ahead of you and serve your way into wisdom. 4️⃣ The “Only Me” Mentality We compete instead of collaborate. We want to outshine, not uplift. But the wealthiest communities—like the Jews—grow as a unit. Africa needs to understand: teamwork will take you farther than talent. 5️⃣ Lack of Integrity Our handshake is not worth a promise. We lie, we cheat, we scam—then pray for breakthrough. We must return to honesty, accountability, and trust. You can’t build lasting wealth without a name people can vouch for. 6️⃣ The Mentality Problem Survival Mentality: Just eating and breathing is not the goal of life. Receiver’s Mentality: Always collecting, never creating. Hunter’s Mentality: Eat today, die tomorrow. No long-term vision. 7️⃣ The Bandwagon Effect You start what’s trending, not what’s purposeful. That’s why we have failed forex traders, half-baked tech bros, and abandoned POS kiosks everywhere. Purpose is personal. You must find your lane, not just follow the noise. 8️⃣ False Priorities We put all hope in: God (without work) Classroom education (without skills) Government (without responsibility) Faith without works is dead. Education without action is useless. Government without personal accountability is hopeless. 9️⃣ Mindset is Everything Until your mind changes, your life can’t. You cannot carry a poor man’s mentality into a rich man’s future. Wealth starts from within. 🔟 Environment Shapes Destiny Your location can limit your vision. Surroundings influence success. You can’t live in a dump and dream of a palace without mental relocation first. Move. Change your crowd. Redesign your inputs. 💥 Until you break these chains, you will remain exactly where you are: educated, frustrated, and broke. The choice is yours. Be poor. Or rise. Your future is not a prophecy; it’s a decision. ✅ If this message stirred something in you, do this: 👍 Like this post 💬 Drop a comment that says “I choose wealth!” 🔁 Share with someone who needs this brutal truth 👣 Follow me — Damilola Adewuyi — your personal and business development partner 📍Let’s walk this journey together. I share real truths, real strategies, and real steps for growth — no fluff, no gimmicks.

*Your Real Life Partner Is Not Your Spouse!* Not your mom. Not your dad. Not your spouse. Not your dear friend Not even your children. *It’s Your Body!* The one thing that stays with you from birth till death is the one you often ignore — Your Body. When your body is tired, it whispers. When you don’t listen, it screams. And when it finally gives up, no one else can carry that consequence but you. What you eat. How you sleep. The way you handle stress. The exercise you avoid. The sugar you won’t stop eating. They are all love letters or hate mails to your body. And your body is always reading them. You can replace a job. You can marry someone else. You can disown whosoever. You can borrow money. But you can’t trade bodies. So start showing up for your realest partner... —Eat with intention. —Move daily. —Sleep like it’s sacred. —Think thoughts that nourish, not that which poison. —Say no to stress that’s killing you slowly. Your body is not a container. It’s a companion. Treat it like it matters — because it does. Indeed, *Your body is where you live... Take very good care of it!*

*INDEED NO ONE HAS IT ALL* *AJARAT* a mad woman, sleeps under the bridge, but in her hands are twin handsome boys she gave birth to some weeks ago. *AISHA*, living in a posh house, drives posh cars, went to the best hospital in town for ante-natal care, but see her crying for she has another miscarriage. *HALIMA*, beautiful, good job, good house, good husband yet her pillow *suffers* every night with wetness of her *tears*, because she is yet to *conceive*. Hmmmmmmmmmm! *Life* is deep, who can *understand* it? *FRANCIS*, lives with his parents, his father is a poor *carpenter*, he goes to school on foot every morning with empty stomach, yet he is exceptionally *brilliant*. *TONY*, a son of a wealthy *politician*, goes to school, with escorts and assorted food and drinks, yet he cannot *assimilate* what he is being *taught*. *PETER*, son of a medical *doctor*, *crippled*, he cannot help himself, his *father* cannot help him yet he *treats* others and they get *healed*. *What* *is* *in* *this* *life* *self*? *We* all have it in *bits*, that is the irony of life. So why the *bitterness*, the *envy* , the *anger*, let's learn to *manage* our bit and see how we can make it *better*. *FUNMI*, *virgin*, focused, *intelligent*, but she was *raped* on her way to school, she became *pregnant*, and life was on hold for a *moment*. *Life* ! *Life* !!! *Life* !!! *JANE* a prostitute, nothing to write home about, *married* to a *good* man, have *four* lovely kids and doing *great*. *TEMITOPE*, rich *family*, *beautiful*, good *job*, *humble*, but yet have no *man* to call her *own*. *No* one should *think* he is *better* than the next *person* because we have it in *bits*, as we try to *manage* our bit, let us also *try* to be a *support* *system*. *No* one is *more*, no one is *less*, we are all *unique* in our *own* *way*. * It is so *funny* and indeed *pitiable* to see *someone* acting so *proud* and *inhumane* just because he or she has a *slight* *advantage* over *others* in a particular *area* of *life*. *Someday* when *death* beckons, *you* will *respond* with all your cluttering *material* *possessions*. *We* live by *His* *Grace*. So be *thankful* to *God* and remember your salary is someone's tithe. *LEARN TO BE HUMBLE AND KIND. MORE IMPORTANTLY, DEEPEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD* *Life has nothing good to offer, but if you have GOD, all good things will be yours, if you trust Him*. Have a pleasant day ahead.

12 COMMANDMENTS OF A HEALTHY MARRIAGE🔥 Marriage is a journey, not a sprint. These timeless principles, if practiced sincerely, can make your love life rich, fulfilling, and long-lasting. 1. 🌹Never Stop Communicating 🗣️ A relationship d!es the moment communication breaks down. Talk often. Talk openly. Talk honestly. Whether it’s laughter, serious talks, or simply checking in during the day—keep the conversation flowing. Silence builds walls. 💡Action Tip: Have daily "heart-to-heart" moments, even if it’s just 10 minutes before bed. 2. 🌹Pray Together 🙏 Couples that kneel together, stand stronger together. Prayer invites God into your relationship as a counselor, protector, and teacher. Submitting to God helps you submit in love to one another. 💡Action Tip: Create a shared prayer list and pray over it together weekly. 3. 🌹Don't W€aponize $ex ❌🍑 $ex is not a reward or a punishment—it's a covenant bond. Using it to manipulate your partner causes deep emotional wounds. Keep $ex sacred, frequent, and full of mutual affection. 💡Action Tip: Talk about your $exual needs openly without judgment. 4. 🌹No Secrets, No Lies 🚫🤐 Hiding things destr0ys trust. Lies may feel small today, but they erode intimacy tomorrow. Transparency builds safety. 💡Action Tip: Commit to “full disclosure” zones—times when you speak openly with no fear of judgment. 5. 🌹Grow Together, Not Apart 📈💑 Compatibility is not just about shared interests—it's about growing side-by-side spiritually, emotionally, financially, and professionally. Don’t let one partner evolve while the other stagnates. 💡Action Tip: Take a course, budget together, join a group, or set shared goals every quarter. 6. 🌹Make Decisions Together 🤝 Marriage is not a solo career. Major decisions must be mutual. When one person leads without the other, resentment builds. 💡Action Tip: Have a “couples board meeting” monthly to discuss finances, plans, and life decisions. 7. 🌹Keep Emotional Intimacy Reserved for Each Other 💞 Let no one be closer to you emotionally than your partner. Don’t let a friend, colleague, or even family member take your spouse’s emotional seat. 💡Action Tip: Share your deepest thoughts, fears, and joys with your spouse before anyone else. 8. 🌹Don’t Stop Being the Lover You Were at the Start 💐 Keep the charm, compliments, and sweet gestures alive. Familiarity should not breed laziness. Keep watering the plant of love. 💡Action Tip: Bring back “dating days”—even if it’s just a walk, movie night, or surprise text. 9. 🌹Don’t Sleep Angry 😠💤 Bittern€ss multiplies overnight. Don’t give anger a place to sleep in your bed. Resolve issues before you rest. 💡Action Tip: Use this phrase often: “I value us more than this fight. Let’s talk.” 10. 🌹Do Not Cheat, Flirt, or Entertain Infidelity 🚫💔 Even the strongest love will collapse under the weight of betrayal. Faithfulness is not just physical—it’s emotional, digital, and mental. 💡Action Tip: Avoid private, flirty conversations with the opposite $ex, and set clear boundaries. 11. 🌹Support Each Other’s Dreams and Purpose 🌱✨ Your partner is not just a spouse—they are a person with dreams, goals, and a divine calling. When one pursues purpose and the other doesn’t care, frustration sets in. Be their cheerleader, not their critic. 💡Action Tip: Ask, “How can I help you get closer to your dream this year?” and follow through. 12. 🌹Forgive Quickly and Completely 💔➡️❤️ Every relationship will experience hurt. The difference between a lasting marriage and a broken one is how quickly and sincerely you forgive. Holding grudges pois0ns your connection. 💡Action Tip: Practice saying, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.” And be quick to extend grace when your spouse says the same. Which of these do you think couples struggle with the most? Share your thoughts 👇 ❤️ FINAL THOUGHT: A thriving relationship takes intention, prayer, humility, and consistency. Love isn’t built in a day, but it can be broken in a moment. Guard it, nurture it, and grow in it together. Which of these commandments speaks to you most today? You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name

SUCCESS NOW BELONGS TO THE MOST FOCUSED, NOT THE MOST TALENTED. In this generation, it’s no longer about survival of the fittest. It’s now survival of the most focused. It’s now about who knows what they want, and refuses to be distracted. You can be talented and still fail. You can be smart and still stuck. Why? Because without focus, you’ll keep starting and never finishing. Everyone is busy. Everyone is trying. But only the focused ones are building empires, creating impact, and making money consistently. Focus is now the real currency. So what’s stealing your focus? EXTERNAL DISTRACTIONS •Social media scrolling •Endless WhatsApp chats and group messages •Phone notifications every 5 minutes •Unnecessary calls •Excessive watching of movies •Trying to keep up with every trend •Consuming too much content without action •Jumping from course to course •Attending every training without implementing •Always being available to everyone INTERNAL DISTRACTIONS •Overthinking and second-guessing •Fear of missing out (FOMO) •Comparison syndrome •Perfectionism •Procrastination disguised as “planning” •Imposter syndrome •Emotional baggage •No clarity or defined goals •Trying to please everyone •Saying “yes” to everything LIFESTYLE DISTRACTIONS •Poor time management •No structure or routine •Toxic relationships •Multitasking everything, finishing nothing •Inconsistent sleep or rest If you want to win in this season, Mute the noise. Pick your lane. Protect your focus like your life depends on it because it does. The world is loud. You don’t need to do everything. You just need to do the right thing, and do it consistently.

🌙 "As the stars light up the night sky, may your dreams be peaceful and your rest be refreshing. Let go of today’s worries and embrace the calm of the night. Good night and sleep well." 💫#larryB'spen