Some of you are not dating to connect — you're dating to collect. Collect sex. Collect attention. Collect ego points. You’re not building anything. You’re just two bored, broke people sexting and stress-testing each other’s boundaries. You can’t hold a conversation. You don’t ask real questions. You don’t know what books they read, what fears they carry, or what they dream about. But you’ve already been in bed—3 times. That’s not dating. That’s bad customer service. Whatever happened to good old connection? 🟩 Go out. 🟩 Sit down. 🟩 Ask them about their childhood, not just their body count. 🟩 Be interested. Be curious. Be present. Because if you’re broke, horny, and spiritually confused… Don’t drag someone’s daughter into your emotional chaos and call it a relationship. Sex without depth is just noise. You’re sleeping with people you don’t even like. You don’t respect them. You don’t understand them. You just got used to their presence. Maybe that’s why it feels empty every time. And ladies — if all he ever wants to do is “chill at your place,” He’s not courting you. He’s squatting.

I see you—the way you keep showing up even when it feels like nothing is moving, when the weight of everything you’ve been hoping and praying for feels heavier than usual. I know the quiet battles you fight, the little wins you keep to yourself, the days when simply getting out of bed is an act of courage. You’re not just working hard; you’re holding on, staying soft in a world that often feels too loud and too fast. And that takes a kind of strength most people don’t see, but I do. I want you to know that every small step matters. Every time you choose to keep going, even with tired eyes and a heart full of questions, you are building the life you dream of. It might not feel like it yet, but nothing you’re doing is wasted. I’m proud of you—not just for your progress, but for your persistence. For your faith, even when the answers don’t come. One day, it will all make sense. But for now, just know that who you are, and how you keep going, is already something to celebrate.....

LOVE AND BULLET PART 2 The music pulsed like a heartbeat—loud, relentless, alive. Ava didn’t blink as Obinna’s dark eyes studied her, his gaze sharp enough to cut glass. The cigar smoke curled between them like a silent challenge. "Sit," he finally said, nodding to the empty space beside him. Not an invitation. A command. Ava forced herself to move slowly, her hips swaying just enough to sell the act. Lola wouldn’t be nervous. Lola would own this moment. She sank onto the plush couch, the leather cool against her bare thighs. Obinna didn’t touch her. Didn’t lean closer. He just watched. "You have five minutes," he said, his voice low. "Tell me why I shouldn’t throw you out." Ava’s pulse spiked, but she laughed—a rich, throaty sound she’d practiced in the mirror for weeks. "Five minutes? Na wa o! You must think too much of yourself." A muscle in Obinna’s jaw twitched. Silence. Then— A slow, dangerous smile spread across his face. "You’ve got mouth," he murmured. "I like that." One of his bodyguards shifted, his hand resting on the gun tucked into his waistband. Ava didn’t miss it. She also didn’t miss the way Obinna flicked his fingers—stand down. "So, Lola," Obinna continued, swirling his whiskey. "Who sent you? The cops? My enemies? Or are you just another gold digger?" Ava leaned forward, letting her dress dip just enough to tease. "Maybe I just wanted to meet the famous Lion." His eyes dropped to her lips. "And now that you have?" "I’m… impressed." Obinna chuckled, but there was no warmth in it. "You’re lying." Ava’s stomach tightened. Shit. Before she could respond, the club’s doors burst open. Chaos. Shouting. Glass shattering. Ava spun around just in time to see three armed men storm in—rival gang. Gunshots exploded. Screams tore through the air as people dropped to the floor. Obinna didn’t flinch. He simply reached under the table and pulled out a pistol, his movements calm, practiced. "Stay down," he ordered Ava, his voice ice-cold. But Ava wasn’t some damsel. As the first bullet whizzed past her ear, she ducked, rolled, and— BANG. One of the attackers dropped. Obinna’s head snapped toward her, his eyes wide. Because Lola Adebayo wasn’t supposed to know how to shoot. And definitely not like a trained professional. Ava’s blood ran cold. She’d just blown her cover. TO BE CONTINUED...

Me and my bestie's goal is to be madly rich. My bestie is already mad so we are halfway there 🤭🥹😂

27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG-LASTING MARRIAGE 👩🧑💖 Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice. No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages. What Should you do? 1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage 2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses. 3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together. 4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day. 5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other. 6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment. 7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis. 8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her. 9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills. 10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc. Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her. 11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear. 12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say. 13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day. 14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you. 15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x. Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage. 16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend. 17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse. 18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry. 19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself. 20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere 21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation 22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too! 23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate, and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone. Remember, it is your marriage, and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever. 24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance, which leads to future problems. 25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go. 26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist. 27. Above all: Serve God together, pray together & pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse. You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus' name

Good night, my loves 🌙💖 You did your best today — and that’s more than enough. Rest your mind, calm your heart, and let peace wrap around you like a blanket 💤🩷 Tomorrow is a fresh start, and you’re already glowing into it ✨💫 Sweet dreams, lovelies 😍🫶

The words of God is our daily bread

THAT MOUTH ODOR IS NOT JUST YOUR MOUTH. It’s your metabolism dragging you by the gum. Let me explain before you spray mint all over this post. Some of you think your toothbrush is your salvation… But you’re brushing a mouth that’s leaking inflammation, insulin resistance, and undigested trauma. You don’t just have bad breath. You have bad metabolic signals. And your mouth — that same mouth you use to eat bread and lie — is snitching. ✅ Bleeding gums ✅ Constant mouth odor ✅ Gum pain or swelling ✅ You “brush daily” but still can’t kiss with confidence? That’s not just dental wahala. That’s a full-body health alert. You’re not just fighting mouth bacteria. You’re feeding them. With your sugar. With your processed junk. With the constant eating. With the stress you refuse to rest from. With the bread you swear by, even though your gums are dying. Gum disease is linked to: – Type 2 diabetes – High blood pressure – Belly fat – Alzheimer’s – PCOS – Chronic fatigue – Fertility problems Yes. You’re brushing your way to infertility. Because those bacteria in your mouth don’t stay in your mouth. They enter your blood. They enter your brain. They enter your gut. They enter your destiny. This is why DOF screams: – Water floss. – Eat better. – Kill sugar. – Check your gums. – Don’t kiss with insulin resistance. Because you can’t unfat yourself if your mouth is still leaking chaos into your bloodstream. Your breath is data. Your gums are gossiping. And your toothbrush is overwhelmed. So what should you do? ✅ Eat protein and vegetables ✅ Use a water flosser (life changer!) ✅ Stop eating nonsense before bed ✅ Hydrate, don’t soda-ate ✅ Heal your gut = Heal your mouth ✅ Take mouth hygiene serious like you take skincare ✅ Get a diet plan that works WITH your healing, not against it

💪🔥 Nick Vujicic was born into a life most would see as impossible. No arms. No legs. Just obstacles everywhere. ▪️▪️Even his parents struggled to accept him. ▪️By age 10, he felt like a burden and nearly gave up completely — even attempting suicide. ▪️But at his lowest moment, Nick had a revelation: his life still had meaning. His presence still had value. ▪️From that moment, Nick chose not to be a victim but a victor. ▪️He failed, tried again, fell, and kept rising. ▪️He discovered a powerful truth: "Obstacles are opportunities in disguise." 💪Today, Nick is a global motivational speaker, an entrepreneur, a husband, and a father of four. ✨He’s physically active, full of joy, and impacting millions. ✨His organization, Attitude is Altitude, is inspiring young people to build resilience and emotional strength. Nick teaches us this: ➡️ Your limitations do not define your destiny. ➡️ Pain is not the end — it's often the beginning of purpose. ➡️ Action, not excuses, turns setbacks into stepping stones. ▪️So, no matter what you're facing — don’t wait for ideal conditions. Use what you have. Start where you are. Rise. Speak. Act. Win. ▪️Like Nick, you already have what you need inside you. Now it’s time to live like it. A blessed evening to you all family, how is your Sunday?

LISTEN UP, MEN — MASTURBATI0N IS DESTROYING YOU AND YOU DON’T EVEN SEE IT. Read before you react👏 They told you it’s normal. They told you it’s harmless. They even told you it’s healthy. Let me tell you what they won’t: Masturbation is silently wrecking your mind, your confidence, and your future. Those promoting it aren’t helping you — they’re grooming you for failure. Because tomorrow when your mind’s foggy, your energy’s gone, your confidence dead, and your body wrecked — they’ll sell you the cure. 📌 The truth? Prevention is power. 📌 Brutal Thread: 1️⃣ It’s a silent addiction. You tell yourself you can quit anytime — but it’s already controlling you. 2️⃣ It makes you weak. A man addicted to cheap pleasure loses discipline. And without discipline, you’ll fail at everything that matters. 3️⃣ It destroys your confidence. After every session, you feel guilty. Ashamed. Like a man who abandoned his greatness for a temporary high. 4️⃣ It kills your energy. Your drive, your focus, your hunger — wiped out. You feel lazy, tired, uninspired. 5️⃣ It turns you socially awkward. Too much self-pleasure makes you anxious in real-life conversations. You start craving fantasy over authentic human connection. 6️⃣ It rewires your brain. Your mind gets addicted to instant pleasure, making it impossible to chase long-term goals. 7️⃣ It ruins real relationships. You get so used to fake digital highs; you lose interest in real intimacy and meaningful connection. 8️⃣ It breeds extreme cravings. What started as “once in a while” becomes daily slavery. And soon, normal content isn’t enough — you chase darker, more damaging material. 9️⃣ It wastes your time. Countless hours gone. No value added. No progress made. Just lost potential. 🔟 It crushes your masculinity. A man who trades his life force for pixels and lotion loses his natural dominance, confidence, and warrior spirit. 1️⃣1️⃣ It makes you settle. A man satisfied with fake pleasure is a man too numb to chase real purpose. 📌 FINAL WARNING: If you don’t kill the habit, it will kill your potential. The most dangerous man isn’t broke — it’s the one enslaved by his own lust. Discipline is the gatekeeper of destiny. No man addicted to self-pleasure will build an empire or command respect. Your future’s not in your hands — it’s in your discipline.

There are three faithful friends - an old wife, an old dog, and ready money.

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