Ibrahim Traore has officially banned Same Sex Marriage in Burkina Faso. Anyone caught practicing that will face the law. Ibrahim Traore believes it is against the African culture and should not be tolerated

He was 54. She was just 18. A 36-year gap stood between them — but something much greater brought them together. When Charlie Chaplin proposed to young Oona O’Neill, he said: “Marry me so I can teach you how to live, and you can teach me how to die.” With a smile, Oona replied: “No, Charlie. I’ll marry you so you can teach me how to grow up and enjoy life, and I’ll teach you how to stay young — until the very end.” It wasn’t just a love story. It was a partnership of hearts. They spent 34 years in marriage. Raised eight children. And despite the age difference — she stayed by his side until his final breath. — You don’t need to be the same age to love deeply. Sometimes, all it takes is to find your person — the one who helps you grow wiser, but keeps your soul young, no matter the years.

"I was married to my ex-wife, Hiba Abouk, from 2020 to 2023, but I realized she was after my money just two months into our marriage. I then transferred everything to my mother and patiently waited for her to file for d!vorce. I can never trust a woman again, except my mother. My mother and I danced together after my dívorce." ___ ARCHRAF HAKIMI "I registered all my assets in my mother's name the moment I started suspecting my wife, Hiba Abouk. This was about a year into our marriage, before our divorce. We had a minor f*ght one morning, and she told me that I should know she could file for d!vorce anytime, and if she did, we would share my wealth equally. Upon hearing this, I realized I was living with a gold-d*gger. Then I started thinking about what to do, and all of a sudden, the idea of registering my assets in a trust in my mother's name came to me. So, I went to my mother and explained everything to her. She told me, "Son, I carried you in my womb for nine months, and I can never let anything happen to you. We worked so hard to get you where you are today, and no woman is going to come out of nowhere and bring you down." We immediately transferred everything I owned to her, so much so that even my clothes and the jersey I use to play football belonged to her. When my wife filed for d!vorce and demanded half of my wealth, I was unbothered. She even told me I was going to go br0ke after our d!vorce, but I just laughed in my heart. As we always say, "Failure to plan is planning to fail." She failed to plan, and I succeeded in planning. She was shocked to realize I had nothing, and my mother had been the one taking care of us. She w3pt in court, not because we were dívorcing, but because she left empty-handed, just as she came. Dear men, friends will betr∆y you, wives will betr∆y you, but a mother's love is supreme." _____ ARCHRAF HAKIMI Legendary Achraf Hakimi explains to the brotherhood how he devised the HAKIMI THEORY 😁‼️ "This is just a throwback to the incident, so you should be wise and apply Hakimi's Principle when falling inlove😊."

If You Marry for Love—You Lose. Marriage Is Not Romance. It’s a Strategic Investment. Let’s stop deceiving ourselves. Love is not enough. Romance won’t sustain you. And marriage built on feelings will collapse under pressure. Because marriage isn’t an emotional experiment. It’s a power move. 1. Feelings Fade—Structure Stays You’re happy today. Great. But what happens when money gets tight? What happens when you lose your job? What happens when she wakes up and says, “I’m not in love anymore”? If your marriage was built on butterflies, expect it to collapse once the wind changes. Love is a spark. But marriage needs fuel. Vision. Structure. Alignment. Sacrifice. Strategy. 2. If You’re 70 and You Marry 30—Your Household Is 50 Let’s talk logic. You’re wise. She’s fresh. But instead of raising your stock, she drops the average. You’re thinking legacy—she’s thinking TikTok. You’re building wealth—she’s building “influencer reels.” (She’s not even ready to build it into a media business.) You’ve seen war—she’s crying because you forgot to comment on her new selfie. And now you’re stuck in a marriage that drags you backward. Because you married vibes—not vision. 3. Marriage Is a Merger—Not a Movie When two become one, it’s not about hugs and kisses. It’s about merging empires. Consolidating influence. Combining assets. Multiplying momentum. Even the Bible said: “One will chase a thousand, two will chase ten thousand.” But what if the “two” is a liability? What if she’s chasing dopamine instead of purpose? What if she’s more obsessed with matching pajamas than matching values? Now, you’re running with dead weight. Fighting alone. Providing alone. Planning alone. And she’s somewhere saying, “I don’t like forcing things.” 4. Modern Girls Don’t Grind—They Ghost Let’s be real. Many modern women want: • Love with no labor • Comfort with no contribution • Leadership with no loyalty She wants a soft life—but won’t lift a finger. She’s jobless, but has high taste. She’s broke, but her demands come in six figures. She says you’re stressing her mental health—because you asked about her career goals. Try to build with her, and she’ll say, “This isn’t flowing naturally. I need space.” 5.Her Submission Is a “Maybe” Her obligations are “Optional” Today’s woman wants: • To reply when she feels like • To submit if the vibe is right • To bear children only when convenient • To pause the relationship if she’s “not in the mood” Any hint of hardship, she’s gone. Any serious talk, she’s “emotionally unavailable.” Any call for accountability, she’s “being controlled.” And if you dare lead with firmness? She’ll tell Twitter you’re a narcissist. 6. Dysfunction Is the New Normal Many modern girls were raised in chaos. Divorced parents. Absent fathers. Traumatized mothers. And instead of healing, they brought that chaos into dating. So when you show up with purpose and structure? She calls it “too much.” She wants a soft man who’s strong. A rich man who’s humble. A loyal man who doesn’t ask questions. She wants everything—but gives almost nothing. So Here’s the Brutal Truth: Marriage is a system. If you don’t build it with strategy, it will collapse in drama. Stop marrying for butterflies. Start marrying for alignment. For values. For vision. Pick a partner who multiplies your purpose—not one who multiplies your pain. Because at the end of the day… It’s not who makes your heart skip. It’s who helps you finish the race. Marry wisely. Remember—when it finally comes to a divorce, obligations are enforceable by law, but no one can compel her to keep loving you and riding your joystick that’s insisting she’s the best rider it has ever seen. Speak with wisdom in the comments, I will like to have your opinions. Copied. You can connect with me on WhatsApp by clicking the link below. https://wa.link/at9gji Follow 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐬𝐎𝐟𝐀𝐆𝐨𝐝𝐥𝐲𝐥𝐚𝐝𝐲

Please is it the right thing to go pick a girl from the village and bring her to town for marriage,,

Since I got married, I have never one day thought of sharing my primary responsibility with my husband. He is the man of the house, the head for that matter. I am a support to him, to love, to uplift and to encourage him. But these days, a wrong narrative of gender equality is what has destroyed many marriages. Young couple who just get married, before you know, they are divorced or the marriage has been called off. My sister, if you claim to be equal to a man, marry yourself then. But if you truly understand the beauty of divine roles, you’ll know that leadership is not dictatorship. I have been implementing this and I have never regretted. My husband who also know his responsibility does it 100% and he never stops honoring me and replicating the love. So, my sister, don’t let the noise out there confuse you. Know who you are, and walk in it with grace. When you marry right, you won’t feel suppressed, you’ll feel cherished. And when you play your part with love, the man God gave you will move mountains for you. - Mercy Johnson

Ladies, understand this clearly: men pursue women for two main reasons — sex and love. But here’s the reality that’s often overlooked. Most men do not marry for sex, and they do not marry solely for love. Men marry for stability. Let me break this down. A man can love you with all his heart and still not marry you. He can enjoy your company, share intimate moments, and even spend years with you without ever making you his wife. But the moment he encounters a woman who brings stability into his life — true, undeniable stability — he will marry her. And when I say stability, I’m talking about peace of mind. I’ve heard men confess, “I love her, but I don’t think I can spend the rest of my life with her.” Why? Because love alone is not enough. Sex is not enough. Men are visionaries when it comes to marriage. They don’t fantasize about wedding dresses, flower arrangements, or the color scheme of the big day. Instead, they ask themselves essential questions: Can this woman build a home with me? Can she nurture me and our future children? Can she give me the peace of mind I crave? Men run from discomfort. They avoid chaos. This is exactly why a man can stay with a woman for years without commitment, and then meet another woman and marry her within a month. It’s not about how long you’ve known him — it’s about the comfort and calm she brings to his life. Sex is pleasure. Love is affection. But respect — respect is stability. And stability is what ultimately leads a man to say, “This is the woman I want to build my life with. This is my wife.” So ladies, don’t just aim to be loved or desired — aim to be a woman of peace. Aim to be the calm in his storm, the stability in his vision, the respect in his heart. Because when a man finds peace with you, he finds his forever in you.

Marriage is not 4 every woman, if u are 2big 2 respect a man, marriage is not 4 u, if u believe in gender equality, Aunty leave marriage alone, if u are not submissive pls stay single. In marriage a Man & a Woman are not the same & will never be. Aisha Yusuf drop her opinion on this trending issue.

As a lady, you are free to marry a guy who is abûsive, mean and also chéats on you. In fact, when you see a man that fîghts in public and is always ready to qûarel, just to get his rights, my dear, marry him. As long as you love him and want to spend the rest of your life with him, it doesn't really matter. After all, you are meant to love people the way they are and not try to fórce them to become who you want. Hehehehehe, I see you giving me that ‘Coach, what are you saying? ' look. Smiles. Ok, let's get this straight. You are always quick to tell a guy that as long as he loves you as a lady, he should be able to put up with your weaknesses. But when it's about the guy and his weaknesses, we always put up a wide eye, that screams ‘NO WAY!' Yesterday, I made a random funny post about how Bro Theo ended up not proposing to sister Nkechi because he saw her dragging food at a wedding. And then, some ladies were saying that Bro Theo doesn't love sister Nkechi, that if he does, he would have put up with that attitude. Smiles. It's easier to tell a guy to put up with a négative attitude that a lady displays than to tell the lady to do the same thing. When it's the lady displaying the attitude, we call it being herself, but when it's a guy, we call it réd flags. We have gradually started applauding attitudinal issûes as part of being ourselves, and that is why we have refused to work on them. The end point is this 👇 If you can't marry a guy because he smókes, fîghts in public and even abûses you; you shouldn't expect a guy to go ahead and marry you when you are always disgràcing your village people in public by dràgging and fîghting for food, just because you are a lady. Oh! You call it T.Pàin? Smiles... A guy can as well excusé his attitude to be a psychological result of T. Paîn too 😂 You are getting it now, right? Just the way you want a great guy with demure and steeze, this is the same way a guy wants to see that in you too. What is good for the goose is also good for the gander. Be the kind of lady a guy will be proud to call his, just the way you want to proudly call him yours. Be unto your partner what you would like your partner to be unto you. I hope this makes sense to you ❣️ #wholisticcoach #TMAcademy #relationship #love #marriage #purpose #women #ladies

Juliet Okonkwo (E-money's wife) remembers that “When we started dating, my friends were surprised that I sidestepped all the rich guys in Lekki, where I was resident for a man who lived in Ajegunle, but I was not bothered. I looked forward to getting a good job upon my graduation from the University. He didn't even have enough money to take us back to Lagos after our traditional marriage. KCee was the one who lent me N20,000. I used it to pay our fare in Lagos.”..........Me:For those waiting for a Man to make it in life before you marry him listen!Men don't fall in Love after making money.

Great relationships don’t just happen — they’re built. Whether you’re dating or married, a strong and sweet relationship takes time, patience, and the right principles. Here are 5 simple reminders that’ll help you grow together and build something beautiful: 1. Pray together, grow together – Keep God at the center of your journey. If it’s not God then it’s not good. 2. Communicate with love and honesty – Communication is the blood of the union. Talk, listen and enjoy each other’s company. 3. Give, Give, Give - relationship and marriage is sweet when both parties are givers and not the other way round. 4. Respect each other’s differences – You’re a team, not twins, so don’t fight each other. 5. Invest in friendship, not just feelings – Deep friendship sustains what passion starts. Take it one day at a time — love built right is always worth the wait. 📸 this fine girl decided to plait tomatoes after cutting her hair to start afresh 😂 ©️ I am Nicholas Michael Oriarewo #relationshipcoach #marriagecounselor #lovebankers #nicholasmichaeloriarewo

Marriage is not 4 every woman, if u are 2big 2 respect a man, marriage is not 4 u, if u believe in gender equality, Aunty leave marriage alone, if u are not submissive pls stay single. In marriage a Man & a Woman are not the same & will never be. Aisha Yusuf drop her opinion on this trending issue.