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*BREAKING NEWS: SHOCKING* *Man shortage all over the world* UN publishes 1st quarter Demography Report 2025. There are 7.8Billion people on planet . (earth). The report shows:- Women = 5.6Billion, Men = 2.2Billion. So, they advised women to be careful in showing attitudes to any man because out of the 2.2 Billion men: • One billion are married already. • 130 million are in prison. • 70 million are mentally ill. That means that we have just about 1 billion men available for marriage and out of the 1billion: • 50% are jobless • 3% are gay • 5% are Catholic Priests • 10% are your relatives • 32% are above 66years. So, ladies both the married and singles should handle men with respect. Cause. *Man shortage all over the world*

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LADIES, CHERISH THIS KIND OF MAN: 1. Cherish the man who loves his mum. He has been brought up well. 2. Cherish the man who loves you deeply. 3. Cherish the man who is funny. You will never be bored. 4. Cherish the man who treats strangers and the less privileged with dignity. He has a kind heart. 5. Cherish the man who listens. You will be understood. 6. Cherish the man whose idea of fun is constructive, not endless drinking and clubbing. He is mature. 7. Cherish the man who is a family man ready for the responsibility and clear about what he wants with you. Your time will not be wasted. 8. Cherish the man who respects his father no matter how his dad is. He has learned true manhood. 9. Cherish the man who doesn't insult his ex or your ex even if the breakup was messy. He is someone who enters into love for the right reasons. 10. Cherish the man who needs you. He will hold on to you. 11. Cherish the man who lets you love him, who lets you see the nakedness of his weaknesses and strengths. He trusts you. 12. Cherish the man who accepts correction and changes his ways if he offends you. He will make himself better to love you. 13. Cherish the man who prays for you. He knows you are a gift from God. 14. Cherish the man who treats other women with respect. He will show you even more respect. 15. Cherish the man who loves the children you and also is a father figure to those not his. That man will have an honorable legacy. 16. Cherish the man with a vision. He will challenge and build you, he knows where he is going. 17. Cherish the man who has a good set of friends. You can tell the character of a man by the friends he keeps. 18. Cherish the man who values intimacy above sex. He will be faithful to you. 19. Cherish the man who is interested in your dreams. He cares about your future. 20. Cherish the man who respects your decisions and doesn't rush you. He sees you as a life partner, not someone to dominate. 21. Cherish the man who corrects you when you are wrong and inspires and pushes you to do better. He sees your potential and will not rest until your potential is lived out. That man is a keeper. 22. Cherish the man who has been consistent in his focus. You can depend on him. 23. Cherish the man who works hard, is self-motivated, and is diligent even when he has little. That man is going places and one day he will make you proud 24. Cherish the man who is not intimidated by other men when they notice your beauty. He is a secure man ➥𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐤𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐦𝐰𝐞𝐲𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐌𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐢 𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐳𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐨😭🙏❤‍🩹

*16 Texts Every Man Wishes His Lady Would Send Him* https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaGhjo07tkjCfXdy322U 1. "You are looking good today" Yes, lady, men need compliments too 2. "Yesterday was amazing" Tell him how much you enjoyed spending time with him yesterday. If you two made love, tell your husband how great he was in bed last night. It boosts his ego 3. "I am blessed to have you" Show him you appreciate how fortunate you are to have him. It makes him feel valued 4. "Please pray for me" This shows you need him and his prayers. Involving God in your love shows how serious and sacred your love is 5. "What do I cook for you tonight?" Men love to eat. That you would ask him what he wants, makes him excited 6. "I love you" No matter how macho men try to be, they love being told this by the woman they love 7. "Can I take you out?" Surprise him. Treat him. A Queen can also plan a date for her King. Men love women who take charge sometimes. It's not every time things should be left to him 8. "I am so wet" Men love it when the woman they are faithful to reveals she is sexually aroused. Lady, show him that when you think of sex you think of him and are not shy about it. A man who loves you enjoys receiving breaking news of your sexuality 9. "Thank you for the phone call" The moment after he gives you a phone-call that makes you laugh, smile, or shows care; send him a text that demonstrates your gratitude 10. "I will be late, I'll make it up to you" Some women tend to delay when going on a date or event. Don't keep him waiting and expect him to undersrand because he is your man. Inform him you will be late 11. "I am wearing your favourite underwear" Tell him when you are wearing his favourite underwear, that black thong that he likes, that bra he likes to unstrap. Let him know when you are not wearing any underwear, no bra, when your nipples get hard. This playful and intimate info makes his blood run 12. "Are you OK?" Many women want the man to care and ask how she is but don't do the same for the man. Find out how your man is, how his day has gone. Many men are stresssed in need of their woman/wife to show concern. So many men have issues and need a safe place to vent 13. "You are a good man" In a world where women talk badly about men and have given up on men, this is the greatest compliment. If you have a good man, appreciate him. Him being a good man doesn't mean he is perfect, but the more you praise him, the better he will become, and the more effort he will put 14. "I can't wait for us to leave this place and be alone with you" When you are both in the same venue full of people, send him this text. He will read it, smile, look at you and your eyes meet with intense passion. Show him you look forward to private moments with him 15. "God bless your day, you are blessed" As his woman/wife, even without him asking; bless his day. Send him a message when he is at work; blessing him, calling him blessed. Your words are powerful and shape him 16. "You are an amazing father" He is there, doing the best he can for your child/children; thank him and constantly recognize his greatness, and greatness will never leave him Have a wonderful and blessed day!

As a man, if you're finding it difficult to make it in life, try marry first because some women comes with blessings.

When a Father Walks Away—Everyone Pays the Price Let’s say it loud: The greatest crisis a child can face isn’t poverty. It’s not bullying. It’s not the cost of college. It’s a father who left. Whether he left through cheating, cowardice, or being pushed out— the result is the same: A child with no compass. A future with no blueprint. A legacy with no foundation. Let’s talk about it. — 1. Fathers Who Cheat Don’t Just Betray Their Wives—They Break Their Children That affair you had? It didn’t just destroy trust. It disrupted an entire bloodline. Because the day you became a father, you weren’t just a lover. You became a leader. And when the leader abandons the structure? The whole kingdom collapses. — 2. Women Who Weaponize the Law Are No Better Let’s not pretend: The law is on your side. The courts favor you. The world will call you brave—even if you’re petty. But just because you can destroy a man legally doesn’t mean you should. Pushing a father out because your emotions changed isn’t power. It’s generational sabotage. Children don’t care about your ego. They care about consistency. — 3. Science Confirms It—Kids Do Better With Fathers Present You can’t rewrite this. Studies show: – Boys raised without fathers are more likely to be violent. – Girls raised without fathers are more likely to be exploited. – And all children suffer emotionally when dad becomes a ghost. Single motherhood may be normalized. But it’s not ideal. And if you’re offended? Check the prison stats. Check the dropout stats. Check the depression stats. Father absence is not just a wound. It’s a curse. — 4. Men: Stop Starting Families You’re Not Ready to Lead You want to be a father? Then stop acting like a frat boy with responsibilities. – You don’t get to cheat because “she let herself go.” – You don’t get to start over and pretend your first family doesn’t exist. – You don’t get to “heal” by disappearing from your children’s lives. Leadership isn’t convenience. It’s covenant. And a man who can’t keep his vows shouldn’t expect loyalty from his children later in life. — 5. Women: Stop Removing the Father Just Because the Marriage Died You fell out of love? Cool. But that doesn’t cancel his role. You moved on? Great. But that doesn’t mean he disappears. When you turn your child against their father, you’re not protecting them. You’re punishing them. And they’ll resent you for it when they grow up. — 6. Children Aren’t Resilient—They’re Just Quiet Don’t be fooled. That smile is covering confusion. That silence is hiding trauma. That “I’m fine” is rehearsed. They notice: – When your new partner gets more attention. – When they stop being invited to things. – When love starts feeling like a competition. They’re not “adapting.” They’re breaking quietly. — 7. Masculinity Must Be Modeled—Not Just Taught Boys don’t become men through lectures. They become men by watching one. And if you’re not around? They’ll find masculinity in the streets, the screen, or the chaos. And none of those places build men you’d be proud of. — Final Word: You Don’t Stop Being a Father Because You Failed as a Husband Men: You may have lost the marriage. But don’t lose your mission. Women: You may be hurt. But don’t hijack your child’s future to soothe your ego. Because when a father walks away— Or is pushed out— Everyone pays. The kids. The legacy. The soul of the next generation. So whether you're the man who strayed, Or the woman who shut the door… Fix it. Because children don’t care who was right. They just want both parents to stay in the fight.

Women are no longer fighting over men because they are busy fighting for their future & they're busy making their own money.

20 LIES WOMEN USE TO CONTROL MEN — AND WHY MOST MEN NEVER SEE THEM COMING INTRO MESSAGE: Most men don’t get destroyed by one big betrayal. They get chipped away little by little — by words disguised as care, guilt wrapped as love, and manipulation dressed up as “concern.” You start doubting your instincts. You stop enforcing your standards. You let things slide. And before you know it… You’re a shell of who you used to be. This isn’t about blaming women. It’s about seeing the game for what it is and refusing to be a pawn. Here’s the raw truth most men never hear: BRUTAL THREAD: 1️⃣ “You’re overthinking it.” A classic gaslight. It makes you doubt your gut so she can set the narrative. 2️⃣ “All my exes were toxic.” If everyone she dated was a demon, she’s either lying, the problem, or both. 3️⃣ “I’ve never felt this way before.” Translation: Let me hit you with intense love bombing so you won’t notice the games later. 4️⃣ “Why ruin this with labels?” She wants the benefits of loyalty without the burden of accountability. 5️⃣ “You’re too good for me.” Fake vulnerability that pressures you to work harder for her bare minimum. 6️⃣ “I need time to figure things out.” Stalling tactic. She’s buying time while keeping you hooked. 7️⃣ “I don’t want to ruin our friendship.” She wants boyfriend benefits without boyfriend responsibility. 8️⃣ “I didn’t mean it like that.” A get-out-of-jail-free card to avoid owning her words or actions. 9️⃣ “You’re insecure.” A way to shame you into silence when you question shady behavior. 🔟 “You should trust me.” Trust is earned, not demanded. Red flag when there’s nothing to back it up. 1️⃣1️⃣ “I’ve never done this before.” Faking innocence so you’ll excuse reckless behavior. 1️⃣2️⃣ “I just want communication.” Many don’t want truth — they want ammo. Watch what you give them. 1️⃣3️⃣ “I was just busy.” Once is life. Repeatedly is a pattern. Don’t ignore patterns. 1️⃣4️⃣ “I would never do that to you.” If you didn’t accuse her, why’s she defending herself? Unprompted means something’s up. 1️⃣5️⃣ “My phone died.” Phones die. Batteries recharge. Patterns don’t lie. 1️⃣6️⃣ “You’re so much better than my ex.” Flattery disguised as manipulation. Now you’re competing with a ghost. 1️⃣7️⃣ “My last relationship really hurt me.” Her pain isn’t your burden. You’re not her therapist. 1️⃣8️⃣ “I don’t care about money.” Wait ‘til the expectations creep in. Watch actions, not cheap words. 1️⃣9️⃣ “I’m fine.” Passive-aggressive silence to make you chase and fold first. 2️⃣0️⃣ “I’m not like other girls.” Every manipulator swears she’s different. Real quality never needs to announce itself. FINAL WARNING: Every man has two choices: Wake up and take control of his mind, standards, and peace. Or get quietly dismantled by subtle lies and fake sweetness disguised as love. This isn’t about bitterness. It’s about wisdom. A man who stands on his truth — unshaken, unmanipulated, and unapologetic — becomes untouchable in a world that profits off weak men. Guard your mind. Respect your instincts. Enforce your standards. Your peace is non-negotiable. ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅

**HOW TO LOVE AND HELP YOUR HUSBAND 👱‍♀💃** *"An excellent wife is the crown of her husband." - Proverbs 12:4* 1. **Respect Him Unconditionally.** Listen to him and ask for his opinion. Value his advice and follow his guidance. Men have a deep need for respect, so show it in your tone of voice during conversations and how you approach him, especially when you disagree. Ensure your children respect their dad in the same way. Prioritize him over the children and teach them to do the same. Let him know his thoughts matter and that you truly value his input. 2. **Accept Your Husband as Your Spiritual Leader.** Men are created to lead the family, which doesn’t imply that women are any less significant. It means God has equipped men with certain skills to effectively guide their families. As stated in Ephesians 5:22-23, “the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church.” Accepting your husband as your spiritual leader involves recognizing and supporting his role in guiding the family’s spiritual life. Allow him to lead in prayer, Bible study, and spiritual decisions while also contributing your own insights to enrich your family’s faith journey. If he’s struggling in this area, offer your support and encourage him to seek guidance from trusted sources or professional help if necessary. 3. **Listen More.** Engage and listen when he speaks. While you might want to make him smile, your willingness to listen can be even more impactful. 4. **Be the Best Version of Yourself.** Show love by striving to become the best person you can be. Your happiness will positively affect your husband’s well-being too. 5. **Contribute Financially.** Marriage is teamwork; be willing to share your financial resources to help pay the bills. Avoid being stingy with your money. 6. **Be Caring and Compassionate.** Support him when he has a bad day or celebrate with him on a good day. Show your love and care without waiting for him to get sick or need assistance. Simple gestures like a cup of coffee in bed or a cuddle can mean a lot. 7. **Support His Dreams.** Be flexible and willing to sacrifice for your husband’s goals. A supportive wife allows a man to push his limits and achieve success. Stand by him as a team, working together toward daily routines and long-term ambitions. 8. **Love Him Unconditionally.** Be there for him through good times and bad, demonstrating unwavering love. 9. **Give Small Gifts.** Make your husband feel special every day, not just on special occasions. 10. **Maintain His Wardrobe.** Wash and iron his clothes, including underwear. 11. **Celebrate His Achievements.** Recognize and celebrate his successes, no matter how small. 12. **Discipline Your Children Together.** Avoid saying, “I will report you to your daddy.” Work as a team in parenting. 13. **Spend Money Wisely.** Utilize any money he gives you judiciously, showing you value his contributions. 14. **Submit to Him** as your lord and king. 15. **Pray for Him Regularly.** Let him know you’re praying for his well-being, demonstrating care for his spiritual life. 16. **Comfort and Console Him.** Be there to provide strength and support whenever he needs it. 17. **Be Intimate.** Prioritize your physical relationship and do not neglect your s€xual intimacy. 18. **Keep a Clean Home.** Maintain a tidy and organized living space. 19. **Prepare Timely Meals.** Ensure he is fed and nourished regularly. 20. **Show Appreciation.** Praise him and express gratitude. Encouragement can motivate him to go the extra mile for you. 21. **Make Him Laugh.** Lighten the mood by making him laugh daily. **COUPLES WHO HELP EACH OTHER CAN NEVER BE HELPLESS** You will not fail in marriage, in Jesus' name. Please share this message with your loved ones. 🙏

*What to Have Before You Become a Wife📌 👇* Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire. But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience. So before you become a wife; Have 1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions. Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else. Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself. Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure. 2. Emotional Maturity Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love? In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband. There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills. Learn Good Communication Skills too. Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man. Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough. Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence. A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom. 3. Financial Wisdom You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that. You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally. Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you❓ Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both. Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain! • 4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose? Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife? It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision. Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep. If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met. Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort. 5. Sound Marital Knowledge You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage? In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent. You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it. You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible. All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing 🙄 Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ? Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront. Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can. 6. Healing from Past Wounds Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage. Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married. Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage. Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow. 7. The Right Community Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage. Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage. Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them. 8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed? Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them. Start building them now— the right habits. Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids. 9. Hobbies and Passions In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow. Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season. When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home. 10. A Prayer Life Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God. A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan. A kneeling woman is a winning woman! Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it. Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole. So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman. A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key. Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it. Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED ✅, not to be ENDURED ❌. You are worth the wait. PEACE!🕊️