"So, there's this neighbor of mine, a single mom of a little boy of 4 years. She moved in about 2 months ago when our former tenant moved out.
A very tall, slim, brown-skinned girl, very beautiful. But Most times, I sit & wonder why I haven't seen her with a man since she moved in, which has made me conclude that she's single. Which is exactly the problem I'm having with this lady - I see her more like a threat to my loving marriage.
I'm a housewife & currently a breastfeeding mother. My husband & i been married for 9 yrs now. We have 4 beautiful daughters, aged 8, 6, 4, and 6 months old. Even though my husband loves his girls so much, but deep down, I feel like he wants a son & regrets having only girls. Coz most often, I see the way he plays with our neighbor's 4-year-old son, & honestly it annoys me.
I've never seen my husband so happy & excited when playing with our daughters, especially the way he looks when playing football in the compound with the little boy. My husband also started a new habit of buying gifts alongside the boy's when buying for my daughters. At times, he'll even carry the boy along with my daughters to drop them off for school on his way to work.
I feel like there's more to it than us just being neighbors. Come to think of it, why would a woman of about 30 with a good job still be single? I got married at just 23, but at her age, she's already too old for marriage, yet she's still single, doing nothing about it, & worse, not even seeming worried. Is this normal!?
This makes me feel like there's something going on between her & my man, though I haven't caught them yet. But I feel uncomfortable with her presence in the compound. All these have made me generate so much hatred for her 4-year-old son.
Can you imagine, she wanted to get a driver for her son since she's often busy at work, but my husband refused & asked her not to bother. He offered to help her always pick up the boy together with our children from school since they attend the same school, coincidentally, it's also the time he closes from work.
Most times, the boy has to stay at my place while waiting for her mom to return, as she always does about an hour after my husband brings them home. So each time, I give my children food, when they return from school. I sit back & watch how the boy is swallowing saliva looking hungry & watching them eat. I always warn my kids not to share anything with him. And any of them who tries it always gets flogged, so now they're used to it & have learned not to share anything with the little boy.
The other day, my husband noticed the boy hadn't eaten & asked me why I hadn't given him food. I told him I didn't have enough food to fit an extra mouth, & he got angry, took the boy out, & bought him food. We even had issues over the matter, & my own husband started giving me the silent treatment for almost 2 days because of the same little boy. Even though I apologized, it also made me develop even more hatred for the boy. Because he has started causing problems in my marriage already barley 2 months in the compound.
Now, even when I give him food, I make sure that I mix it with my 6-month-old daughter's pøøp & watch him eat. This is the only way that I feel relieved & calm when he's eating food that I've sweated in the kitchen to prepare. All 3 of our other tenants are married, except for the single mom who moved in only with her 4-year-old son. I'm disturbed, & I'm no longer happy in my home. Any woman in my shoes will feel the same way..
For the past 9 years since we got married, my husband has been a sweet, loving, & gentle man. He takes good care of me & my family & even sponsors 3 of my siblings to school. i just can't afford to loose him. Honestly, i never knew a time would come when I'll be feeling this worried over the stability of my marriage"
"So, there's this neighbor of mine, a single mom of a little boy of 4 years. She moved in about 2 months ago when our former tenant moved out.
A very tall, slim, brown-skinned girl, very beautiful. But Most times, I sit & wonder why I haven't seen her with a man since she moved in, which has made me conclude that she's single. Which is exactly the problem I'm having with this lady - I see her more like a threat to my loving marriage.
I'm a housewife & currently a breastfeeding mother. My husband & i been married for 9 yrs now. We have 4 beautiful daughters, aged 8, 6, 4, and 6 months old. Even though my husband loves his girls so much, but deep down, I feel like he wants a son & regrets having only girls. Coz most often, I see the way he plays with our neighbor's 4-year-old son, & honestly it annoys me.
I've never seen my husband so happy & excited when playing with our daughters, especially the way he looks when playing football in the compound with the little boy. My husband also started a new habit of buying gifts alongside the boy's when buying for my daughters. At times, he'll even carry the boy along with my daughters to drop them off for school on his way to work.
I feel like there's more to it than us just being neighbors. Come to think of it, why would a woman of about 30 with a good job still be single? I got married at just 23, but at her age, she's already too old for marriage, yet she's still single, doing nothing about it, & worse, not even seeming worried. Is this normal!?
This makes me feel like there's something going on between her & my man, though I haven't caught them yet. But I feel uncomfortable with her presence in the compound. All these have made me generate so much hatred for her 4-year-old son.
Can you imagine, she wanted to get a driver for her son since she's often busy at work, but my husband refused & asked her not to bother. He offered to help her always pick up the boy together with our children from school since they attend the same school, coincidentally, it's also the time he closes from work.
Most times, the boy has to stay at my place while waiting for her mom to return, as she always does about an hour after my husband brings them home. So each time, I give my children food, when they return from school. I sit back & watch how the boy is swallowing saliva looking hungry & watching them eat. I always warn my kids not to share anything with him. And any of them who tries it always gets flogged, so now they're used to it & have learned not to share anything with the little boy.
The other day, my husband noticed the boy hadn't eaten & asked me why I hadn't given him food. I told him I didn't have enough food to fit an extra mouth, & he got angry, took the boy out, & bought him food. We even had issues over the matter, & my own husband started giving me the silent treatment for almost 2 days because of the same little boy. Even though I apologized, it also made me develop even more hatred for the boy. Because he has started causing problems in my marriage already barley 2 months in the compound.
Now, even when I give him food, I make sure that I mix it with my 6-month-old daughter's pøøp & watch him eat. This is the only way that I feel relieved & calm when he's eating food that I've sweated in the kitchen to prepare. All 3 of our other tenants are married, except for the single mom who moved in only with her 4-year-old son. I'm disturbed, & I'm no longer happy in my home. Any woman in my shoes will feel the same way..
For the past 9 years since we got married, my husband has been a sweet, loving, & gentle man. He takes good care of me & my family & even sponsors 3 of my siblings to school. i just can't afford to loose him. Honestly, i never knew a time would come when I'll be feeling this worried over the stability of my marriage"
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