A word for you today.

"Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, Lord, my Rock and my Redeemer" - Psalm 19:14.

This verse beautifully captures the essence of starting our day with God. It's a heartfelt prayer that asks God to guide our thoughts, words, and actions, ensuring they align with His will. By prioritizing God's presence in our mornings, we can navigate the day with wisdom, confidence, and peace.

16 BEST GIFTS YOU CAN GIVE TO YOUR CHILDREN


By focusing on these areas, you can create a supportive and loving home environment that fosters your child's overall development and well-being.

1. **A Good Home**
One of the best gifts you can give to your children is a good home. Creating a positive environment involves supporting their physical, emotional, and psychological development. Nothing stresses a child more than a home where parents are in turmoil.

Provide your child with a safe haven.
Ensure the home is safe and free from hazards, addressing both physical safety (like childproofing) and emotional safety (offering a non-judgmental space for self-expression).

Parent together as a couple to model teamwork. Children learn by observing, so demonstrate values you want them to adopt, such as honesty, kindness, and responsibility.

2. **Health and Well-being**
Ensure your children have access to nutritious food, regular medical check-ups, and opportunities for physical activity.

Provide a variety of healthy foods, including fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean proteins, and dairy, and encourage them to drink plenty of water throughout the day. Promote regular physical activities, such as playing outside, participating in sports, or dancing.

Establish a consistent bedtime routine to help them wind down, ensuring they get enough sleep according to their age (e.g., 8-10 hours for school-aged children). Teach good hygiene practices, such as regular handwashing, brushing teeth twice a day, and bathing regularly.
Keep their living space clean and organized to promote well-being and prevent illness.

3. **A Good Community**
Surround your child with positive influences. Choose friends who are supportive, good role models, and can mentor your child.

4. **A Good Name**
Living out a good name for your children means setting a positive example and creating a legacy they can admire and aspire to. Exhibit behaviors such as kindness, patience, and responsibility. Demonstrate honesty, reliability, and strong moral principles through your actions.

Show respect for others, including your children, family members, and the community. Be known for your positive contributions and interactions within your community. Actively teach your children about the importance of values such as honesty and responsibility. Live honorably so that your child will be proud to call themselves yours.

5. **Wisdom**
Demonstrate wisdom in your own life and share your insights and experiences with your children. Encourage open-ended questions, problem-solving, and critical thinking skills. Teach your children about important values and ethics, discussing how to apply them in real-life situations.

Share life lessons you have learned to help your children avoid the mistakes you made. Provide opportunities for your children to make decisions and take responsibility for their choices. Teach them how to handle and create wealth, socialize, develop emotional intelligence, solve problems, grow spiritually, and take care of their bodies.

6. **Quality Time**
Your children need your presence. Spend quality time engaging in activities they enjoy, which strengthens your bond and creates lasting memories. Maintain open lines of communication, encouraging them to express their thoughts and feelings.

7. **Fond Memories**
Build strong family bonds by spending quality time together. Family is about shared experiences—focus on creating positive memories for your child.

8. **Stable Routine**
Establish a consistent daily routine that includes regular times for meals, homework, chores, and bedtime. This helps children feel secure and develop good habits.

9. **A Listening Ear**
Maintain open and honest communication. Listen to your child's concerns, validate their feelings, and provide guidance when needed. You should be the person your child feels comfortable approaching—be approachable and easy to talk to. Many children suffer in silence without support.

10. **A Good Education**
Provide your child with access to the best schools you can afford. Foster a love for reading by offering age-appropriate books and reading together.
Invest in educational materials that promote growth, and if you provide your child with a digital device, guide them towards sites that enhance learning. Make education fun.

11. **A Vision**
Support your children's passions and interests, helping them develop a sense of purpose and direction.
Guide them in forming their vision, understanding their "why." Discuss the importance of education, hard work, and pursuing goals. Don’t just tell them to succeed; help them understand the reasons behind their efforts.

**12. Patience and Understanding**
Don’t give up on your child; remember that nurturing takes time. Avoid setting unrealistic expectations or hoping for immediate results. It's important not to pressure your child excessively, as this can lead to feelings of inadequacy or depression.

**13. Unconditional Love**
Provide your child with unconditional love, support, and affection. This helps to build their self-esteem and sense of security. Pay attention to their emotional well-being and offer support when needed. Encourage open conversations about feelings, and provide praise and encouragement to boost their confidence. Avoid comparing your child to others.

**14. Encouragement and Support**
Support your child's interests and activities, and encourage them to try new things. This approach fosters confidence and resilience. Create a conducive learning environment at home to support their education, nurture curiosity, and assist with homework or projects when necessary. Be your child’s biggest cheerleader. When they experience setbacks, help them to get back up. Take deliberate actions to show your support, such as celebrating their achievements, praising them publicly, being present during significant moments, and affirming their efforts.

**15. Setting Boundaries**
Establish clear and fair rules and boundaries that are consistently enforced. This helps children understand expectations and promotes self-discipline.

**16. Teach Your Children the Way of the Lord**
Teaching your children about faith and spirituality can be a rewarding experience. Demonstrate your faith through your actions, words, and values. Read and discuss Bible stories with your children, highlighting key lessons and principles. Establish a prayer routine, teaching them how to communicate with God. Attend church services together, participating in worship and community activities. Teach them important biblical values, such as love, kindness, and forgiveness.

Support your children's spiritual growth by providing opportunities for Bible study, prayer, and service. Lead by example, demonstrating forgiveness and grace in your own life. Surround your children with faith-filled music, books, and conversations. Pray for their spiritual growth and well-being, asking God to guide and bless them.

May God give us more understanding

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*Kingdom Matters Devotional*

Topic: Things That Belong to Your Peace (1)

_Main Text: Luke 19:42 – “If you had known, even you, especially in this your day, the things that make for your peace! But now they are hidden from your eyes.”_

Brethren, join me to return all praise to our Lord Jesus Christ for the gift of a new week and the privilege to share this edition of Kingdom Matters Devotional (KMD) with you. I pray that your days ahead will be filled with divine accomplishments, in Jesus’ name.

Let me start by reminding you that peace is one of the most precious treasures anyone can possess. It is no surprise that humanity constantly yearns for it. As a matter of fact, God, in His wisdom, knows how unbalanced and chaotic life becomes without peace, this is why His Word encourages us to “pursue peace with all people.” Sadly, many people have lost their joy, their homes, and even their sanity in the desperate search for peace. Some go to great lengths, even compromising their values and faith, all in a bid to find peace.

Friends, though, pursuing peace is crucial, however, the real question is where does true peace come from, and how can we find it? Kindly read the main text for this edition and join me to examine the truths revealed by Jesus as captured below.

1. That, there are provisions already made for your peace.

2. That, many persons are unable to experience this peace because their eyes are closed to those provisions.

Child of God, I may not know your story, your struggles, or the battles you are fighting right now. But one thing is certain, there are things that belong to your peace. They may be hidden from your sight at the moment, but by God’s grace, this new series will uncover them for you. I encourage you to stay committed to this journey throughout the week. Pray for divine insight, and ask the Holy Spirit to illuminate your heart and guide our team as we prepare each message.

Kindly extend this invitation to those who are weary, anxious, or searching for peace to join this devotional series. Share it widely. As you become a channel of peace to others, God will continue to reward you.

See you in the next edition. Stay blessed and stay in peace.

Bro. Williams Elogun,
Gospel Flame Ministry,
Worldwide.

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*ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO THAT DON'T INVOLVE S*X...✍🏾*



When romance is often mentioned, many think it is all about s*x. But romance is actually anything you do to your partner that communicate and show that him/her is special to you. Here are a few examples.

1. Calling your partner a special name that you wouldn't call any other person such "Honey", "Sweetheart"

2. Cooking together. This activity actually gives you two a chance to bond closer

3. Going out on dates to intimate places (not clubs) where you can look into each other's eyes and have heart to heart conversations

4. Pulling up her seat or holding her hand when she climbs up a stair case. Even though she can do this on her own, this makes her feel like you are mindful of her

5. Singing love songs together. This warms the heart

6. Covering each other in prayer. The most romantic thing is taking care of each other's spirit

7. Holding each other's hand as you walk.

8. Going out for walks, picnics and plays

9. If you have children, planning dates just for you two as you make plans for someone to take care of the kids. Children tend to kill romance if you are not deliberate about maintaining the fire

10. Talking on the phone till late about heart matters if you two are far from each other. If all you talk about till late is s*x then you are missing out on depth

11. Writing each other love letters. Yes, there is something special about reading each other's handwriting in this digital age. Leave a note for your partner on the pillow or post a letter if your partner is far away

12. Making him a warm drink as he works or going to see him with packed lunch. This shows that you have him in mind

13. Sending a parcel. There is something special about opening up a physical gift from the one you love

14. Praising each other publicly, whether in front of your friends, on social media or in social gatherings. But do this only when you love your partner well in private, otherwise it is just pretense

15. Writing each other poems, love songs or warm messages of how much you mean to each other

16. Sitting next to each other in church services as you read from the same Bible

17. Talking with your child/children about how you two met. Children love those stories of mom and dad. This reminds you two of how far your love has come

18. Wishing each other a good night and a good morning. Simple words but they mean alot

19. Having pillow talks on your marriage bed as you cuddle and be vulnerable with each other

Remember that is your life partner. Do and say things that communicate love. If you two are dating and your coming together is because of sex, then you are missing out on a chance to build on a strong foundation on which your future will be built.

If you two are married and you stopped making each other feel special especially since the children came, or the only time you pay attention to each other is when you want sex then you are weakening your marriage.

Bring true romance back.

*READY FOR YOUR APPOINTMENT WITH THE GOD OF RESTORATION TODAY?*

Here are a few guidelines on how to prepare:

*Prepare your Heart:* Begin your day in prayers. Ask the Lord to touch and heal you today, and to restore to you all that the enemy has stolen, as you encounter Him today.

- *Dress your best:* You are meeting with the God of Restoration, how else should you be dressed? Your best!

- *Come with your Family:* Every member of your family should benefit from today's healing and restoration appointment. Come along with them or send them the service link if they live outside of Lagos.

- *Be Prompt:* Service begins by 8:15am GMT+1, don't be a second late.

We can't wait to celebrate your testimony of healing and restoration with you at the end of service!

Proverbs 16:3

“Commit to the lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.”

When you surrender your plans and dreams to the lord , he provides clarity and direction. Begin each day by praying for guidance, trusting that he will lead you towards the best path. This surrender can help you motivated, knowing he is working behind the scenes

*THE RESTORER'S DAILY GUIDE*

DATE: SUNDAY 25TH MAY 2025

THEME: *KNOW YOUR PASTOR*

MEMORIZE
Luke 24:15-16
[15]And while they were conversing and discussing together, Jesus Himself caught up with them and was already accompanying them.
[16]But their eyes were held, so that they did not recognize Him. (Amplified Bible)

READ
Luke 24
5. (13-16) That same day, two of them were walking to the village Emmaus, about seven miles out of Jerusalem. They were deep in conversation, going over all these things that had happened. In the middle of their talk and questions, Jesus came up and walked along with them. But they were not able to recognize who he was.
6. (17-18) He asked, "What's this you're discussing so intently as you walk along?"
They just stood there, long-faced, like they had lost their best friend. Then one of them, his name was Cleopas, said, "Are you the only one in Jerusalem who hasn't heard what's happened during the last few days?"
7. (19-24) He said, "What has happened?"
They said, "The things that happened to Jesus the Nazarene. He was a man of God, a prophet, dynamic in work and word, blessed by both God and all the people. Then our high priests and leaders betrayed him, got him sentenced to death, and crucified him. And we had our hopes up that he was the One, the One about to deliver Israel. And it is now the third day since it happened. But now some of our women have completely confused us. Early this morning, they were at the tomb and couldn't find his body. They came back with the story that they had seen a vision of angels who said he was alive. Some of our friends went off to the tomb to check and found it empty just as the women said, but they didn't see Jesus."
8. (25-27) Then he said to them, "So thick-headed! So slow-hearted! Why can't you simply believe all that the prophets said? Don't you see that these things had to happen, that the Messiah had to suffer and only then enter into his glory?" Then he started at the beginning, with the Books of Moses, and went on through all the Prophets, pointing out everything in the Scriptures that referred to him.
9. (28-31) They came to the edge of the village where they were headed. He acted as if he were going on, but they pressed him: "Stay and have supper with us. It's nearly evening; the day is done." So he went in with them. And here is what happened: He sat down at the table with them. Taking the bread, he blessed and broke and gave it to them. At that moment, open-eyed, wide-eyed, they recognized him. And then he disappeared.
10. Back and forth, they talked. "Didn't we feel on fire as he conversed with us on the road as he opened up the Scriptures for us?"
11. (33-34) They didn't waste a minute. They were up and on their way back to Jerusalem. They found the Eleven and their friends gathered together, talking away: "It's really happened! The Master has been raised up—Simon saw him!"
12. Then the two went over everything that happened on the road and how they recognized him when he broke the bread.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
*Your Eternity with God may be determined by who pastors you.*

MESSAGE
Some years ago, a young lady walked into my office after one of our sunday services. As my custom, I asked smilingly what she would want the Lord to do for her.

"Well," she said; "I want to know my pastor, and I want my pastor to know me."

The disciples in today's text had been with the Lord Jesus Christ for more than three years. And never truly knew their pastor.

It is really strange to sit under a pastor on daily basis for more than three years listening to a pastor and never really know him or her...

If these men were not seemingly consequential disciples, they would not have attracted the visitation of the LORD even after His Resurrection.

To think that the LORD had to include the visit to these blind disciples amongst His last busy schedules on earth speaks volumes of their degree of commitments to His ministry. I figure that the LORD consider His erstwhile labours on these disciples a loss if He left without a serious post Resurrection follow-up on them...

It is important to know your pastor for the following reasons.

1. Your prosperity is connected to your pastor from the Lord.

Jeremiah 23:4
And I will set up shepherds over them which shall feed them: and they shall fear no more, nor be dismayed, neither shall they be lacking, saith the LORD.

2. Your destiny is largely dependent on the pastor that God has given to you.

Jeremiah 23:4
And I will set up shepherds over them which shall feed them: and they shall fear no more, nor be dismayed, neither shall they be lacking, saith the LORD.

3. Your spiritual growth and devotional life may be largely determined by the kind of spiritual meals that your pastor serves you.

Jeremiah 3:15-16
And I will give you pastors according to mine heart, which shall feed you with knowledge and understanding.
And it shall come to pass, when ye be multiplied and increased in the land, in those days, saith the LORD, they shall say no more, The ark of the covenant of the LORD: neither shall it come to mind: neither shall they remember it; neither shall they visit it; neither shall that be done any more.

In other words, you may be malformed by following a wrong pastor.

*The wrong pastor with the wrong message can mar your life and destiny for life.*

It is unfortunate that many people are sitting on the wrong pews listening to the wrong pastors because of their personal proclivities and idiosyncrasies.

It is vitally important to know the pastor that God has ordained to pastor you in life.

*Your Eternity with God may be determined by who pastors you.*

ACTION STEPS
1. Prayerfully meditate on today's devotional guide again.
2. Thank God for His mercies and blessings through holy men and women in your life.
3. Pray that God will open your eyes to see your pastor and the wisdom to relate profitably with him.

REMEMBER
*Your Eternity with God may be determined by who pastors you.*

PRAYERS
Dear heavenly Father, Thank you for today's devotional guide. Open my eyes that I may always see you and to see men from the platform of your grace. Help me to separate men from men knowing them that deserve honour from you in Jesus name. Amen

AUTHOR: JEDIDIAH DAVID

DAILY READING: Isaiah 62-64; Mark 7-9; Jude 1;

HYMN
Fade, fade, each earthly joy; Jesus is mine !
Break every tender tie; Jesus is mine !
Dark is the wilderness, earth has no resting-place,
Jesus alone can bless, Jesus is mine !

2
Tempt not my soul away; Jesus is mine !
Here would I ever stay; Jesus is mine !
Perishing things of clay, bora but for one brief day,
Pass from my heart away ! Jesus is mine !

3
Farewell, ye dreams of night; Jesus is mine !
Lost in this dawning light; Jesus is mine!
All that my soul has tried left but a dismal void,
Jesus has satisfied ; Jesus is mine !

4
Farewell, mortality ; Jesus is mine !
Welcome, eternity ; Jesus is mine !
Welcome, O loved and blest ; welcome, sweet scenes of rest ;
Welcome, my Saviour's breast; Jesus is mine !

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*ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO THAT DON'T INVOLVE S*X...✍🏾*

When romance is often mentioned, many think it is all about s*x. But romance is actually anything you do to your partner that communicate and show that him/her is special to you. Here are a few examples.

1. Calling your partner a special name that you wouldn't call any other person such "Honey", "Sweetheart"

2. Cooking together. This activity actually gives you two a chance to bond closer

3. Going out on dates to intimate places (not clubs) where you can look into each other's eyes and have heart to heart conversations

4. Pulling up her seat or holding her hand when she climbs up a stair case. Even though she can do this on her own, this makes her feel like you are mindful of her

5. Singing love songs together. This warms the heart

6. Covering each other in prayer. The most romantic thing is taking care of each other's spirit

7. Holding each other's hand as you walk.

8. Going out for walks, picnics and plays

9. If you have children, planning dates just for you two as you make plans for someone to take care of the kids. Children tend to kill romance if you are not deliberate about maintaining the fire

10. Talking on the phone till late about heart matters if you two are far from each other. If all you talk about till late is s*x then you are missing out on depth

11. Writing each other love letters. Yes, there is something special about reading each other's handwriting in this digital age. Leave a note for your partner on the pillow or post a letter if your partner is far away

12. Making him a warm drink as he works or going to see him with packed lunch. This shows that you have him in mind

13. Sending a parcel. There is something special about opening up a physical gift from the one you love

14. Praising each other publicly, whether in front of your friends, on social media or in social gatherings. But do this only when you love your partner well in private, otherwise it is just pretense

15. Writing each other poems, love songs or warm messages of how much you mean to each other

16. Sitting next to each other in church services as you read from the same Bible

17. Talking with your child/children about how you two met. Children love those stories of mom and dad. This reminds you two of how far your love has come

18. Wishing each other a good night and a good morning. Simple words but they mean alot

19. Having pillow talks on your marriage bed as you cuddle and be vulnerable with each other

Remember that is your life partner. Do and say things that communicate love. If you two are dating and your coming together is because of sex, then you are missing out on a chance to build on a strong foundation on which your future will be built.

If you two are married and you stopped making each other feel special especially since the children came, or the only time you pay attention to each other is when you want sex then you are weakening your marriage.

Bring true romance back.

Always pray for protection, they is a lot we can't see

16 BEST GIFTS YOU CAN GIVE TO YOUR CHILDREN


By focusing on these areas, you can create a supportive and loving home environment that fosters your child's overall development and well-being.

1. **A Good Home**
One of the best gifts you can give to your children is a good home. Creating a positive environment involves supporting their physical, emotional, and psychological development. Nothing stresses a child more than a home where parents are in turmoil.

Provide your child with a safe haven.
Ensure the home is safe and free from hazards, addressing both physical safety (like childproofing) and emotional safety (offering a non-judgmental space for self-expression).

Parent together as a couple to model teamwork. Children learn by observing, so demonstrate values you want them to adopt, such as honesty, kindness, and responsibility.

2. **Health and Well-being**
Ensure your children have access to nutritious food, regular medical check-ups, and opportunities for physical activity.

Provide a variety of healthy foods, including fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean proteins, and dairy, and encourage them to drink plenty of water throughout the day. Promote regular physical activities, such as playing outside, participating in sports, or dancing.

Establish a consistent bedtime routine to help them wind down, ensuring they get enough sleep according to their age (e.g., 8-10 hours for school-aged children). Teach good hygiene practices, such as regular handwashing, brushing teeth twice a day, and bathing regularly.
Keep their living space clean and organized to promote well-being and prevent illness.

3. **A Good Community**
Surround your child with positive influences. Choose friends who are supportive, good role models, and can mentor your child.

4. **A Good Name**
Living out a good name for your children means setting a positive example and creating a legacy they can admire and aspire to. Exhibit behaviors such as kindness, patience, and responsibility. Demonstrate honesty, reliability, and strong moral principles through your actions.

Show respect for others, including your children, family members, and the community. Be known for your positive contributions and interactions within your community. Actively teach your children about the importance of values such as honesty and responsibility. Live honorably so that your child will be proud to call themselves yours.

5. **Wisdom**
Demonstrate wisdom in your own life and share your insights and experiences with your children. Encourage open-ended questions, problem-solving, and critical thinking skills. Teach your children about important values and ethics, discussing how to apply them in real-life situations.

Share life lessons you have learned to help your children avoid the mistakes you made. Provide opportunities for your children to make decisions and take responsibility for their choices. Teach them how to handle and create wealth, socialize, develop emotional intelligence, solve problems, grow spiritually, and take care of their bodies.

6. **Quality Time**
Your children need your presence. Spend quality time engaging in activities they enjoy, which strengthens your bond and creates lasting memories. Maintain open lines of communication, encouraging them to express their thoughts and feelings.

7. **Fond Memories**
Build strong family bonds by spending quality time together. Family is about shared experiences—focus on creating positive memories for your child.

8. **Stable Routine**
Establish a consistent daily routine that includes regular times for meals, homework, chores, and bedtime. This helps children feel secure and develop good habits.

9. **A Listening Ear**
Maintain open and honest communication. Listen to your child's concerns, validate their feelings, and provide guidance when needed. You should be the person your child feels comfortable approaching—be approachable and easy to talk to. Many children suffer in silence without support.

10. **A Good Education**
Provide your child with access to the best schools you can afford. Foster a love for reading by offering age-appropriate books and reading together.
Invest in educational materials that promote growth, and if you provide your child with a digital device, guide them towards sites that enhance learning. Make education fun.

11. **A Vision**
Support your children's passions and interests, helping them develop a sense of purpose and direction.
Guide them in forming their vision, understanding their "why." Discuss the importance of education, hard work, and pursuing goals. Don’t just tell them to succeed; help them understand the reasons behind their efforts.

**12. Patience and Understanding**
Don’t give up on your child; remember that nurturing takes time. Avoid setting unrealistic expectations or hoping for immediate results. It's important not to pressure your child excessively, as this can lead to feelings of inadequacy or depression.

**13. Unconditional Love**
Provide your child with unconditional love, support, and affection. This helps to build their self-esteem and sense of security. Pay attention to their emotional well-being and offer support when needed. Encourage open conversations about feelings, and provide praise and encouragement to boost their confidence. Avoid comparing your child to others.

**14. Encouragement and Support**
Support your child's interests and activities, and encourage them to try new things. This approach fosters confidence and resilience. Create a conducive learning environment at home to support their education, nurture curiosity, and assist with homework or projects when necessary. Be your child’s biggest cheerleader. When they experience setbacks, help them to get back up. Take deliberate actions to show your support, such as celebrating their achievements, praising them publicly, being present during significant moments, and affirming their efforts.

**15. Setting Boundaries**
Establish clear and fair rules and boundaries that are consistently enforced. This helps children understand expectations and promotes self-discipline.

**16. Teach Your Children the Way of the Lord**
Teaching your children about faith and spirituality can be a rewarding experience. Demonstrate your faith through your actions, words, and values. Read and discuss Bible stories with your children, highlighting key lessons and principles. Establish a prayer routine, teaching them how to communicate with God. Attend church services together, participating in worship and community activities. Teach them important biblical values, such as love, kindness, and forgiveness.

Support your children's spiritual growth by providing opportunities for Bible study, prayer, and service. Lead by example, demonstrating forgiveness and grace in your own life. Surround your children with faith-filled music, books, and conversations. Pray for their spiritual growth and well-being, asking God to guide and bless them.

May God give us more understanding

Kindly share this message with your loved ones

The best thing I ever did for myself was praying for my heart, asking God to cleanse it and give me peace 🥹 praying to God with a pure heart is a game changer. And when the devil sees that you're no longer an angry bird harbouring grudges. He will introduce a different sin to occupy your heart. Pray Again, never stop praying 🥹🙏🏿❤‍🩹❤‍🩹