Can’t believe I’m seeing Mikel Arteta out on social media, his a great manager who has made Arsenal into a good team, I for one want him to stay, if he goes then who will buy our players?

What no one told me about marriage before I enter that I want to tell you.

This is for those planning to marry or those who just got married.
If you are open-minded, you can still read.
Nobody knows it all.

1. Immediately you get married, even before having a baby, go and register your family for health insurance.
NHIS is one of the common ones and the most available in hospitals.
It will save you a lot.
There are some things the rich won’t tell you.
With NHIS, you can walk into any hospital and get treated cheap depending on the package.
A friend of mine once did an operation and all he paid was ₦10k something that would have cost ₦400k.

2. Have a family doctor very very important.
See, no church will tell you this.
Even if you don’t have money for a family doctor, have someone you can call in case of emergency.
Especially a pediatrician when you start having kids.

3. Also, have a family lawyer.
Recently, our family lawyer saved us over ₦500k in rent that I wanted to forfeit.
But because she stepped in and did her job, money was refunded seamlessly.

4. If you can afford it, have at least one domestic staff.
Someone that can at least help ease the work in the house for you and madam.
My brother, ejiro kwa afufu anya isi.
Get help if you can.

5. Buy things in bulk.
The reason I live like a wealthy man today is because I buy everything I need down to toothpaste in bulk.
You spend more buying in bits than when you buy in bulk.
That’s one of the reasons I created my sharing platform to enable family men and women with common goals.
There is nothing we don’t share. Some of you reading this are in that group.

6. Pay your children’s school fees before school resumes.
As I’m talking to you now, I’ve already sent SGM the kids’ school fees that’ll be paid in September.
I don’t have to worry about it again.
It helps me plan myself.
Do everything possible to pay school fees before resumption. You won’t know what you’re doing until money goes on leave from your side.

7. Strive to have passive income.
Something that can generate at least ₦3-5k every day.
No matter what try and get something like that.
It will save you from a lot of stress.

8. See the friends and circle your kids will have tomorrow everything depends on the school they attend.
This one is very, very important.
Even if you don’t have money, find a way to send your children to one of the best schools.
You won’t realise what you’re doing until they come of age.

9.I learnt this one from my dad always have family meetings.
You, your wife, and your kids no matter how small they are.
Discuss problems, solutions, and way forward.
Allow the kids air their opinions.

Ask the kids:
Is there something mummy and daddy are doing that they don’t like?

Same thing with your wife.
Talk about what you both can do to have a stable and loving family.
This helps in uniting the family.

Every month is fine or even every 6 months.
Just make it a habit and a culture.
It’ll become a memory that sticks for the kids, and for you and madam too.

Everyone’s opinion in the family matters.
And as the man, it’s your job to hear everybody’s opinion and choose the best way to run the family.

This isn’t just for the man alone madam can initiate it too. There’s no perfect formula, yes. But this one I listed? It works every time.
I repeat if you try it, you’ll save yourself a lot of unnecessary headache and stress.
You can add yours... enjoy your weekend.

Gada.chat is alive in social media platform like Facebook.

*WISDOM TIPS FOR SINGLES AND MARRIED...!*

1. Wedding is a day but marriage is a lifetime.

2. A stingy man who is single will still be stingy when married.

3. Silence can never be misquoted.

4. If you want what no one ever had, you must do what no one ever did.

5. When God wants to bless you, He puts a person in your life. When Satan wants to destroy someone, he puts a person in his life.

6. It's better to be single and alone than to be married to the wrong person.

7. Avoid a contentious woman.

8. Three kinds of men to avoid:

a. A hot tempered man.
b. A womanizer.
c. A drunkard.

9. Marrying a comedian does not guarantee a happy marriage.

10. Marry someone of similar religious beliefs.

11. Three words that echo peace in a marriage:

a. I love you .
b. I am sorry.
c. Thank you.

12. Don't waste your time meditating or dwelling on your singleness. It won't last forever. Be happy and get busy with your life.

13. Cohabitation is a recipe for marital failure.

14. Masturbation is can affect your marriage negatively.

15. Marriage without friendship is like a sky without the sun.

16. If you rush into marriage, you may end up with someone who will bury your destiny.

17. Why you marry is as important as who you marry.

18. Much happiness in life depends on your marital choice.

19. A man and women need wisdom in choosing who to marry.

20. Do not place your priority on good looks; no woman is ugly, she just needs rebranding.

May you not fail in Marriage...!

GOD BLESS YOU

'I have interviewed Prime Boy, Spending and the driver. I know Wunmi, Darosha and Adura will not come for the interview but one person knows the truth of how Mohbad d!ed and that is INSTABLOG. The blog was the first to post that he passed away from an ear infection which means they got it from a source in the house. Who told Instablog it was an ear infection? It will be between Wunmi and Adura. The following day(Sept 13)after Instablog posted, Wunmi too posted on her status and Instablog reposted. Wunmi did not counter instablog that it wasn't an ear infection which means she gave Instablog the information

She then pushed another narrative out by saying 'They took him away from me'. Who were the 'THEY'. Nigerians then became confused. Prime boy and Spending were detained for 4 months. Wunmi never came out to say they were innocent. She kept quiet after the posts she made. Immediately, the video of Bully!ng started flying and nobody thought of what happened in the house anymore. Wunmi why did you not speak out when everyone was protesting to know what k!lled MOHBAD and why did you not mention the 'THEY' at the coroner. There was a deliberate act to hide what actually happened in the house. Nigerians can you see the game?' -VeryDarkman

Coalition not a threat to PDP, Makinde declares
.As S/West PDP leaders reaffirm support for party

Oyo State governor, ‘Seyi Makinde, has declared that the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) is an institution that cannot be threatened by talks about an emerging coalition, noting that the party remains united and undivided in the South-West geopolitical zone.

The governor said that PDP leaders in the South-West have resolved that as responsible leaders, they would stay in the party and fix whatever challenges arise, adding that the PDP will deal with its issues and come out stronger as the only credible political alternative for Nigerians.

Governor Makinde stated this on Friday, while speaking with newsmen shortly after a meeting of the South-West PDP Caucus, held at the South-West PDP Secretariat named after Hon. Soji Adagunodo.

He said: "We want the whole world to know that the PDP in the South-West is united and we are together and that the coalition is not a threat to the PDP.

“Who are these people in this coalition? They were in some parties before, whether PDP or APC. What are their antecedents? Does it mean that anytime they move from one party to the other, they have repented or they have something new to offer the people? These are salient questions.

"This Soji Adagunodo House is for the PDP South-West. If the roof is leaking, as leaders of PDP in the South-West, are we going to abandon the building and go somewhere else to take refuge? No. We will stay inside here and fix it to let the people know that we are responsible leaders and we have the interest of the people at heart.

"So, a lot of people can say whatever they like, but in a party like the PDP, which is an institution, we have our own ways and means of dealing with such issues. When we get to the point where we have to deal with such issues, I give you the assurance that we will."

Earlier, the meeting which comprised the Osun State governor, Senator Nurudeen Ademola Adeleke, who was represented by his deputy, Prince Kola Adewusi, former Governor of Osun State, Prince Olagunsoye Oyinlola and other key leaders, issued a communique, stressing that the leadership of the party in the zone distanced itself from the coalition.

Noting that the leaders reaffirmed their loyalty to the PDP and commitment to the unity, stability, progress and success of the party at all levels in the zone and across the country, the communiqué added that the PDP South-West Caucus threw its weight behind the party’s National Working Committee (NWC) that the party would be open to working with other like-minded citizens desirous of rescuing Nigeria from the stranglehold of the All Progressives Congress (APC).

It added that the the Caucus commended and appreciated Governors Makinde and Adeleke and other leaders of the PDP in the South-West Zone for their untiring roles in ensuring the stability and growth of the PDP, noting that the “PDP in South-West is intact and urges all organs and relevant bodies of the party to remain focused and continue to work assiduously towards the successful conduct of the scheduled National Convention to further strengthen and reposition the PDP for the task ahead.”

The communiqué read further: “The Caucus resolves to intensify efforts to ensure the victory of our great Party in the upcoming by-elections in Oyo and Ogun States as well as Local Government Council election in Lagos State. The Caucus is confident that the PDP as a party of choice in the South West and Nigeria at large will record sweeping victory in the coming elections.

“The Caucus demands that the Federal Government immediately release the withheld Osun State Local Government allocation. The withholding of the Osun State Local Government allocation by the Federal Government is unconstitutional, unwarranted and a violation of the rights and wellbeing of the people of Osun State.

“The Caucus expresses very serious concern over the worsening insecurity and economic hardship in the country under the APC administration. The Caucus reechoes the declaration of Governor Makinde that the 2027 election will be between Nigerians and the APC, with Nigerians ultimately triumphing under the banner of the PDP.

“The Caucus again commends Governor Makinde and Governor Adeleke for their people-oriented leadership in ensuring peace, stability, security and infrastructural development in the South West Zone.

“The Caucus urges Nigerians not to lose hope but remain resolute and continue to rally with the PDP as our party leads the charge to rescue our nation from the misrule of the APC.”

Leaders in attendance at the meeting also include the PDP Deputy National Chairman (South), Amb. Taofeek Arapaja; Dr Eddy Olafeso; Senator Monsurat Sunmonu; Dr Saka Balogun; PDP National Vice Chairman (South-West), Barr. Kamorudeen Ajisafe; and Oyo State PDP Secretary, Alhaji Wasiu Adeleke, among others.

A Guarantor is not a Surety and definitely not a Referee

Let’s get this straight.

A lot of people confuse these terms.
Some even think they all mean the same thing.

They don’t.

When you stand as a Guarantor, you are giving the lender a promise that you will pay if the borrower fails to pay after all steps have been taken to recover the debt from the borrower first.

The borrower must first default.

The lender must first exhaust all means to get the borrower to pay.

Only then can they come for you as the guarantor.

But when you stand as a Surety, it’s more serious.

A surety is like saying, “If this person doesn’t pay on the due date, come straight to me. No need to chase them first.”

In other words, as a surety, you’re equally and immediately liable once there’s default.

Now, let’s talk about Referees.

Some people think being a guarantor is the same thing as being a referee.
It’s not.

A referee is simply someone who confirms that the person applying for a job, loan, or apartment is known to them and has good character.
That’s all.

A referee is not taking on any financial responsibility. A referee is not liable to pay any debt.They are just vouching for the person’s behaviour, not their ability to repay loans.

So next time you’re asked to be a guarantor, surety, or referee understand exactly what you’re signing up for.

One carries serious financial risk.

One comes with immediate liability.

The other? Just character reference.

Be wise. Read before you sign. Don’t let friendship or emotions drag you into debt.

While I am not a legal expert, it has become apparent that Senator Natasha H. Akpoti's educational background raises questions. There are claims suggesting she either attended night classes or had her schooling at Kogi Central Park, which could imply a non traditional educational path.

Recently, her supporters, including Akpoti herself, were celebrating a federal high court judgment that ruled in her favor, marking a significant victory in her ongoing legal battles. However, following this decision, she filed an appeal for a stay of execution, indicating her intent to challenge any immediate effects of the ruling.

Furthermore, in a related development, Senator Akpoti has taken the federal government to court again regarding the same issue, seeking to clarify and possibly overturn decisions that she believes are unjust.
This series of actions reflects her determination to advocate for her position and highlights the ongoing legal complexities surrounding her case.

Normally Natasha H Akpoti doesn't know what she's doing, but rather she's dancing around to entice her followers