DON'T MARRY FOR LOVE, IT'S A SCAM, YOU WILL LOOSE If You Marry for Love—You Are A Loser. Marriage is not romance. It’s a strategic investment. Let’s stop deceiving ourselves. Love is not enough. Romance won’t sustain you. And marriage built on feelings will collapse under pressure. Because marriage isn’t an emotional experiment. It’s a power move. 1. Feelings Fade—Structure Stays You’re happy today. Great. But what happens when money gets tight? What happens when you lose your job? What happens when she wakes up and says, “I’m not in love anymore”? If your marriage was built on butterflies, expect it to collapse once the wind changes. Love is a spark. But marriage needs fuel. Vision. Structure. Alignment. Sacrifice. Strategy. 2. If You’re 70 and You Marry 30—Your Household Is 50 Let’s talk logic. You’re wise. She’s fresh. But instead of raising your stock, she drops the average. You’re thinking legacy—she’s thinking TikTok. You’re building wealth—she’s building “influencer reels.” (She’s not even ready to build it into a media business.) You’ve seen war—she’s crying because you forgot to comment on her new selfie. And now you’re stuck in a marriage that drags you backward. Because you married vibes—not vision. 3. Marriage Is a Merger—Not a Movie When two become one, it’s not about hugs and kisses. It’s about merging empires. Consolidating influence. Combining assets. Multiplying momentum. Even the Bible said: “One will chase a thousand, two will chase ten thousand.” But what if the “two” is a liability? What if she’s chasing dopamine instead of purpose? What if she’s more obsessed with matching pajamas than matching values? Now, you’re running with dead weight. Fighting alone. Providing alone. Planning alone. And she’s somewhere saying, “I don’t like forcing things.” 4. Modern Girls Don’t Grind—They Ghost Let’s be real. Many modern women want: • Love with no labor • Comfort with no contribution • Leadership with no loyalty She wants a soft life—but won’t lift a finger. She’s jobless, but has high taste. She’s broke, but her demands come in six figures. She says you’re stressing her mental health—because you asked about her career goals. Try to build with her, and she’ll say, “This isn’t flowing naturally. I need space.” 5.Her Submission Is a “Maybe” Her obligations are “Optional” Today’s woman wants: • To reply when she feels like • To submit if the vibe is right • To bear children only when convenient • To pause the relationship if she’s “not in the mood” Any hint of hardship, she’s gone. Any serious talk, she’s “emotionally unavailable.” Any call for accountability, she’s “being controlled.” And if you dare lead with firmness? She’ll tell Twitter you’re a narcissist. 6. Dysfunction Is the New Normal Many modern girls were raised in chaos. Divorced parents. Absent fathers. Traumatized mothers. And instead of healing, they brought that chaos into dating. So when you show up with purpose and structure? She calls it “too much.” She wants a soft man who’s strong. A rich man who’s humble. A loyal man who doesn’t ask questions. She wants everything—but gives almost nothing. So Here’s the Brutal Truth: Marriage is a system. If you don’t build it with strategy, it will collapse in drama. Stop marrying for butterflies. Start marrying for alignment. For values. For vision. Pick a partner who multiplies your purpose—not one who multiplies your pain. Because at the end of the day… It’s not who makes your heart skip. It’s who helps you finish the race. Marry wisely. Remember—when it finally comes to a divorce, obligations are enforceable by law, but no one can compel her to keep loving you and riding your joystick that’s insisting she’s the best rider it has ever seen. Speak with wisdom in the comments, I will like to have your opinions. #marriage #modernrelationships #masculinity

TO GET ALONG WITH WOMEN, YOU NEED TO DEVELOP A THICK SKIN If you want to get along with weemen and maintain your power, influence, respect and authority over them in your relationship and interactions with them... You MUST learn to be emotionally tough and have a "stone heart. Here's what I mean... You must learn to be comfortable with her silent treatment, and even be tough enough to be able to return the energy to her, even more than the measure which she is giving it to you. That is NOT t0xicity. That is NOT malice. That is NOT childish. No, it is NOT. Because weemen are very smart and manipulative... when they give you a certain energy, they expect you to feel bad, bend over backwards for them, and crawl your way into submission to her frame. And for men who are either naive, ignorant about Game or inexperienced in the affairs of dealing with weemen... they become emotionally weak and cannot handle the pressure, so they are forced to succumb to the whoman's whims of manipulations and bend into her frame. A whoman will piss you off, and when you get angry and yell at her, she will get angry at you for getting angry at her, put all the blame on you, and expect you to apologize to her. Then when you refuse to apologize... she ignores you and gives you silent treatment. You think she doesn't know what she's doing? But then... when you are equal to the task and you're emotionally tough enough to match her energy... she begins to tell you that you are insensitive, weekehd, t0xic, and that you are keeping malice with her... that men don't keep malice, and since you're doing that - then you are childish. Bro! Don't ever fall for this. If she ignores or ghosts you for 1 day, ghost her for 3 days or even more. If she gives you silent treatment for 1 week, return the energy to her and give her the same silent treatment for 3 extra weeks. All the BS (bullish!t) that weemen give to men... when the energy is returned to them, they cannot handle it. Weemen are emotional beings, and everything about the interaction with them is centered on emotional intelligence. So, you the man can either be emotionally sound, mature and tough... or emotionally weak, dumb and feeble. Weemen use their own emotional circus to punish men that are emotionally weak, and submit to, and follow the leadership of the men that are emotionally tough and rugged. But I know that SIMPle men are not strong enough to apply my teachings, because they are scared that they will lose the whoman. But the truth is... that whoman you're scared of losing by being emotionally weak and unable to punish her for her misbehaviour... you have already lost her. And the worse part is that, you have not only lost her, but you have also lost your Frame, your Coordination, and Masculinity. Cos you will breathe dust, choke and d!e, and she will move on to the next man to test his Masculinity. When she finally meets a Vamos Oriented man... she will lay down her frame and follow the man. This is the kind of man I am training you to become. My job is to teach you. Your job is to either learn and apply, or ignore and breathe dust.

If You Make It Too Comfortable for Her to Love You—You’ll Never Know If She Does. Because comfort hides character. And ease erases effort. Let’s stop acting naive. She didn’t love you. She loved how easy it was to be with you. You brought the car. You picked the bills. You paid the rent. You moved her into the good life. And now you’re surprised she vanished when things got hard? She didn’t change. You just never made her prove anything to begin with. Because if you make it too comfortable for her to love you, you’ll never know if she actually does. 1. You Should Have Hidden Your Hand—Not Played It All at Once You showed her your wallet before you saw her heart. You revealed your status before you saw her substance. You led with lifestyle, not leadership. You were busy trying to win her… while she was watching if someone better was coming. You didn’t date her. You sponsored her. And when the lifestyle paused, so did the affection. 2. Every Woman Is Sweet in Soft Life—Wait Until the Pressure Hits She cooked. She cleaned. She moaned like a lovebird. But that was before rent was due, and your business dipped. Now she sighs every time you talk. Now “you’ve changed.” Now she “needs space.” She didn’t lose feelings. She lost benefits. She was never tested, never strained, never asked to choose you without comfort. So when real life entered—she exited. 3. If You Want Loyalty, Create Conditions That Reveal It Say no. Delay gratification. Hold back your resources. Slow down the rewards. Let her meet the man—not the gifts. Let her see the work—not just the wins. If she only claps when you’re balling, she’s not your wife. She’s your fan. And fans don’t stay when the performance ends. 4. You’re Playing by the Heart—She’s Learning from the Pros You’re out here thinking, “If I love her enough, she’ll stay.” But she’s studying the algorithm. Learning from TikTok therapists, divorced aunties, and girls who say: “Never settle.” “If he slips—dip.” “Upgrade, don’t wait.” You’re loving from the chest. She’s planning with her checklist. You’re thinking about forever. She’s thinking about her next option. You’re loyal. She’s strategic. And if you pause, she’ll replace you—before you even finish explaining yourself. 5. The Substitute Strategy Works Because Every New Man Overperforms She knows: Every new man starts with his best self. New man = new effort = new benefits. So why should she struggle with a man in “grind mode” when a fresh suitor is flying her out by Thursday? Why endure… when substitution brings faster results? She’s not in it for the process. She’s in it for the payoff. 6. Her Circle Is the Whispering Wind Behind the Exit You think she’s just “overthinking.” No, she’s being influenced. By friends who already left. By single mothers who want her free. By social media stars who preach quitting over building. “Girl, you too fine to be suffering.” “He’s not your only option.” “You deserve soft life.” Now your hard-working hands look like punishment. Your discipline looks like control. Your vision feels like a burden. She’s no longer yours— she’s theirs. 7. Her Loyalty Is Built on Lifestyle, Not Love You gave her the best. Now she can’t even manage the average. You brought her up from struggle— Now she calls that struggle “toxic.” You turned her life around— Now she sees you as the bare minimum. She never wanted to grow with you. She just wanted to benefit from your elevation. And once the stream dries up, so does the “I love you.” 8. She Doesn’t Want the Builder—She Wants the Finished Product She’s not waiting for the house to be complete. She wants the mansion, furnished, scented, and photo-ready. If your money isn’t loud, if your life isn’t soft, if your timing isn’t perfect— She’s gone. And when you finally make it, she’ll return as a “changed woman.” But brother, don’t fall for the remix of what already failed the first audition. Final Truth: You Thought You Were Her Blessing—She Saw You as a Bridge You gave her ease. She gave you attitude. You gave her stability. She gave you silence. Because you made it too easy. Too sweet. Too convenient. And in a world where options are endless, easy love is easily replaced. Final Word to Men: Discipline yourself. Slow down your yes. Don’t offer the palace before you test the peasant. Make her show up when the lights are off. Make her prove herself when there’s nothing to post. Make her stay when the world says she should leave. Because if she can’t endure pressure, she doesn’t deserve the palace. And if she’s only sweet when it’s easy, she’s a luxury guest—not a life partner. Let the comments fly. We’ve all got a story. #Masculinity #TestHerFirst #SacrificeVsSubstitute #ModernWomen #BuildSmart

We live in a world where men are naturally the providers, shouldering responsibilities from a young age. Kudos to those whose parents paved a path of wealth, but I feel for the ones that are forced to mature too quickly. The pressure intensified after Adam's curse. Men often ask, 'Who will save me?' They prioritize others' needs over their own, struggling to make ends meet, lest they face mockery and financial shame, even from fellow men. Masculinity is often measured by responsibilities taken , love received is based by financial status, and friendships by what they can offer. Daily, many compromise their values to be called 'Odogwu'. Some delay starting families, believing 'a man without money shouldn't have an erection. In this world, men are often told, No excuses for failure; be strong and make money. Even sisters may money-shame and belittle them. Dear young man, remember you're human first, regardless of gender. Don't let societal expectations define you. Do your best, seek Christ's guidance, try various good paths, and expect the best. Life is challenging, but remember, you are a human, deserving of love and respect. Remind yourself, all will be well. IF YOU DON’T EARN LIKE THEM, DON’T SPEND LIKE THEM. Appreciate life's gift, stay where you're valued, find joy in simple things, love yourself and God. You won't fail, the lifter of men is still changing and blessing lives! #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice

Let me tell you for free, bro, there are rules every man must respect if he wants to live like a king and not a clown. If you don’t follow these, you’ll find yourself stuck, weak, and wondering why life keeps slapping you in the face. 1. Respect yourself first If you don’t value yourself, no one else will. Self-respect is the foundation of every strong man. Weakness is a choice, strength is a decision. 2. Never tolerate disrespect From anyone, women, men, family, or friends. What you tolerate becomes your standard. 3. Purpose over pleasure Chasing women, parties, or fleeting highs won’t build you into a man of value. Lock in on your goals. Simps don’t survive here. 4. Control your emotions Get out of your feelings and into your focus. A man who can’t control his emotions is a man who will always be controlled by others. 5. Never explain your masculinity You don’t owe anyone an apology for being strong, assertive, and focused. Be a strong man, and let them deal with it. 6. Protect your time Don’t waste it chasing people who bring no value to your life. Time is the one thing you can’t get back. 7. Don’t argue with fools If you disappoint, you must appear before the council of brotherhood and explain why you’ve decided to waste your energy on people who aren’t worth it. 8. Walk away from toxic women and people Breast and ass are not good enough reasons to tolerate disrespect or manipulation. Let the truth be told, you’re either building or destroying yourself every day. 9. Build your body and your mind Hit the gym, read books, and learn new skills. A weak man, mentally or physically, will always finish last. 10. Live by your own rules Step up or step aside. The world will always try to control you, don’t let it. Be the master of your own destiny. Stay solid. Learn or perish. And remember, if you fail, fail forward. But if you quit, you’re done. 11. Never underestimate the power of God As a man,put all you do,your work and struggles on God bcos he is the only one who can make all your doings come through with his power. Stay solid and take notes

Let me tell you for free, bro, there are rules every man must respect if he wants to live like a king and not a clown. If you don’t follow these, you’ll find yourself stuck, weak, and wondering why life keeps slapping you in the face. 1. Respect yourself first If you don’t value yourself, no one else will. Self-respect is the foundation of every strong man. Weakness is a choice, strength is a decision. 2. Never tolerate disrespect From anyone, women, men, family, or friends. What you tolerate becomes your standard. 3. Purpose over pleasure Chasing women, parties, or fleeting highs won’t build you into a man of value. Lock in on your goals. Simps don’t survive here. 4. Control your emotions Get out of your feelings and into your focus. A man who can’t control his emotions is a man who will always be controlled by others. 5. Never explain your masculinity You don’t owe anyone an apology for being strong, assertive, and focused. Be a strong man, and let them deal with it. 6. Protect your time Don’t waste it chasing people who bring no value to your life. Time is the one thing you can’t get back. 7. Don’t argue with fools If you disappoint, you must appear before the council of brotherhood and explain why you’ve decided to waste your energy on people who aren’t worth it. 8. Walk away from toxic women and people Breast and ass are not good enough reasons to tolerate disrespect or manipulation. Let the truth be told, you’re either building or destroying yourself every day. 9. Build your body and your mind Hit the gym, read books, and learn new skills. A weak man, mentally or physically, will always finish last. 10. Live by your own rules Step up or step aside. The world will always try to control you, don’t let it. Be the master of your own destiny. Stay solid. Learn or perish. And remember, if you fail, fail forward. But if you quit, you’re done. 11. Never underestimate the power of God As a man,put all you do,your work and struggles on God bcos he is the only one who can make all your doings come through with his power. Stay solid and take notes

Let me tell you for free, bro, there are rules every man must respect if he wants to live like a king and not a clown. If you don’t follow these, you’ll find yourself stuck, weak, and wondering why life keeps slapping you in the face. 1. Respect yourself first If you don’t value yourself, no one else will. Self-respect is the foundation of every strong man. Weakness is a choice, strength is a decision. 2. Never tolerate disrespect From anyone, women, men, family, or friends. What you tolerate becomes your standard. 3. Purpose over pleasure Chasing women, parties, or fleeting highs won’t build you into a man of value. Lock in on your goals. Simps don’t survive here. 4. Control your emotions Get out of your feelings and into your focus. A man who can’t control his emotions is a man who will always be controlled by others. 5. Never explain your masculinity You don’t owe anyone an apology for being strong, assertive, and focused. Be a strong man, and let them deal with it. 6. Protect your time Don’t waste it chasing people who bring no value to your life. Time is the one thing you can’t get back. 7. Don’t argue with fools If you disappoint, you must appear before the council of brotherhood and explain why you’ve decided to waste your energy on people who aren’t worth it. 8. Walk away from toxic women and people Breast and ass are not good enough reasons to tolerate disrespect or manipulation. Let the truth be told, you’re either building or destroying yourself every day. 9. Build your body and your mind Hit the gym, read books, and learn new skills. A weak man, mentally or physically, will always finish last. 10. Live by your own rules Step up or step aside. The world will always try to control you, don’t let it. Be the master of your own destiny. Stay solid. Learn or perish. And remember, if you fail, fail forward. But if you quit, you’re done. 11. Never underestimate the power of God As a man,put all you do,your work and struggles on God bcos he is the only one who can make all your doings come through with his power. Stay solid and take notesk

Let me tell you for free, bro, there are rules every man must respect if he wants to live like a king and not a clown. If you don’t follow these, you’ll find yourself stuck, weak, and wondering why life keeps slapping you in the face. 1. Respect yourself first If you don’t value yourself, no one else will. Self-respect is the foundation of every strong man. Weakness is a choice, strength is a decision. 2. Never tolerate disrespect From anyone, women, men, family, or friends. What you tolerate becomes your standard. 3. Purpose over pleasure Chasing women, parties, or fleeting highs won’t build you into a man of value. Lock in on your goals. Simps don’t survive here. 4. Control your emotions Get out of your feelings and into your focus. A man who can’t control his emotions is a man who will always be controlled by others. 5. Never explain your masculinity You don’t owe anyone an apology for being strong, assertive, and focused. Be a strong man, and let them deal with it. 6. Protect your time Don’t waste it chasing people who bring no value to your life. Time is the one thing you can’t get back. 7. Don’t argue with fools If you disappoint, you must appear before the council of brotherhood and explain why you’ve decided to waste your energy on people who aren’t worth it. 8. Walk away from toxic women and people Breast and ass are not good enough reasons to tolerate disrespect or manipulation. Let the truth be told, you’re either building or destroying yourself every day. 9. Build your body and your mind Hit the gym, read books, and learn new skills. A weak man, mentally or physically, will always finish last. 10. Live by your own rules Step up or step aside. The world will always try to control you, don’t let it. Be the master of your own destiny. Stay solid. Learn or perish. And remember, if you fail, fail forward. But if you quit, you’re done. 11. Never underestimate the power of God As a man,put all you do,your work and struggles on God bcos he is the only one who can make all your doings come through with his power. Stay solid and take notes

Let me tell you for free, bro, there are rules every man must respect if he wants to live like a king and not a clown. If you don’t follow these, you’ll find yourself stuck, weak, and wondering why life keeps slapping you in the face. 1. Respect yourself first If you don’t value yourself, no one else will. Self-respect is the foundation of every strong man. Weakness is a choice, strength is a decision. 2. Never tolerate disrespect From anyone, women, men, family, or friends. What you tolerate becomes your standard. 3. Purpose over pleasure Chasing women, parties, or fleeting highs won’t build you into a man of value. Lock in on your goals. Simps don’t survive here. 4. Control your emotions Get out of your feelings and into your focus. A man who can’t control his emotions is a man who will always be controlled by others. 5. Never explain your masculinity You don’t owe anyone an apology for being strong, assertive, and focused. Be a strong man, and let them deal with it. 6. Protect your time Don’t waste it chasing people who bring no value to your life. Time is the one thing you can’t get back. 7. Don’t argue with fools If you disappoint, you must appear before the council of brotherhood and explain why you’ve decided to waste your energy on people who aren’t worth it. 8. Walk away from toxic women and people Breast and ass are not good enough reasons to tolerate disrespect or manipulation. Let the truth be told, you’re either building or destroying yourself every day. 9. Build your body and your mind Hit the gym, read books, and learn new skills. A weak man, mentally or physically, will always finish last. 10. Live by your own rules Step up or step aside. The world will always try to control you, don’t let it. Be the master of your own destiny. Stay solid. Learn or perish. And remember, if you fail, fail forward. But if you quit, you’re done. 11. Never underestimate the power of God As a man,put all you do,your work and struggles on God bcos he is the only one who can make all your doings come through with his power. Stay solid and take notes

Let me tell you for free, bro, there are rules every man must respect if he wants to live like a king and not a clown. If you don’t follow these, you’ll find yourself stuck, weak, and wondering why life keeps slapping you in the face. 1. Respect yourself first If you don’t value yourself, no one else will. Self-respect is the foundation of every strong man. Weakness is a choice, strength is a decision. 2. Never tolerate disrespect From anyone, women, men, family, or friends. What you tolerate becomes your standard. 3. Purpose over pleasure Chasing women, parties, or fleeting highs won’t build you into a man of value. Lock in on your goals. Simps don’t survive here. 4. Control your emotions Get out of your feelings and into your focus. A man who can’t control his emotions is a man who will always be controlled by others. 5. Never explain your masculinity You don’t owe anyone an apology for being strong, assertive, and focused. Be a strong man, and let them deal with it. 6. Protect your time Don’t waste it chasing people who bring no value to your life. Time is the one thing you can’t get back. 7. Don’t argue with fools If you disappoint, you must appear before the council of brotherhood and explain why you’ve decided to waste your energy on people who aren’t worth it. 8. Walk away from toxic women and people Breast and ass are not good enough reasons to tolerate disrespect or manipulation. Let the truth be told, you’re either building or destroying yourself every day. 9. Build your body and your mind Hit the gym, read books, and learn new skills. A weak man, mentally or physically, will always finish last. 10. Live by your own rules Step up or step aside. The world will always try to control you, don’t let it. Be the master of your own destiny. Stay solid. Learn or perish. And remember, if you fail, fail forward. But if you quit, you’re done. 11. Never underestimate the power of God As a man,put all you do,your work and struggles on God bcos he is the only one who can make all your doings come through with his power. Just a cool messages for your perusal !