Just imagine our police force been degraded in such way, #5000 that is not even up 25rmb and they filming and sharing it on their social media platform. Make i ever hear anyone anywhere again tell me that I'm ridiculing our paramilitary, or military forces. These idiots stupidly let themselves be captured on camera, and are obviously too daft to understand the implications. What is paining me most is the fact that this is akin to giving bananas to monkeys at the zoo because as we can see that money is of little value to the Chinese, and they are showing the whole world what is obtainable in Nigeria. Why wouldn't Canada deny those rogues, and their girlfriends visas? Mtcheeew! I'm almost in tears with anger! Yet these same buffoons will dare to arrest, and lock up a citizen for criticizing the government. Tufiakwa!

For those who rocked their childhood in the 70s, 80s and 90s. How can you ever forget those good old days?
where they spent most of there "growing up" life there and dey are very proud of there humble beginnings .. a time when everyone treated each other like family, dey went outside to play in the streets, played ema baba and climbed trees. Dey didn't eat fast food ....dey ate Groundnuts, Kulikuli, Puff Puff, Buns, agidi jollof with biscuit bone, choco milo sweets, Nasco or cabin biscuits and home made food and we got ice cream from the ice-cream man tied in a polythene bag. Dey played ten-ten, Suwe, game boy, hide and seek(bojo bojo), street football, tinkutinku little star, table soccer, kite, koso, open kolo, mama n papa, in and out police and thief, Pepsi Pepsi cola, etc. And then enjoyed visiting there neighbors, Families and friends.
There was no bottled water , dey drank water from the tap or bought Ice-water tied in a polythene bag, if we had a drink, dey would share the same bottle of juice...after giving it a wipe with our mucky sleeves, dey had analog tv, that can be open sideways like a wardrobe, only to be switched on at 4pm on weekdays and 10am on weekends; we ride our tyres, boris cart, or spoke wheel or played in the rain for hours. There was no such thing as a mobile phone or any other electronic device . Dey weren't AFRAID OF ANYTHING (except maybe the Nurse's injection, the Teachers at school and our parents ) If someone had a fight, that's what it was...a fist fight. Kids didn't have guns or knives, we played cowboys & crooks. The street lights were your curfew or until your Mom shouted out the window. School was mandatory, The days of going to school in groups just so we can gist, slab(walk) from our home to school, some cases 5 - 10 kilometers and buy dankuwa, Gudygudy and condense milk, babadudu with our pocket money. Ultimate power, and willi willi was our horror movie and nta channel 5 and BTV was our cartoon network. tales o

Good evening to all my friends, I pray the mighty God will protect us through the night in Jesus Christ name. Amen

I love my work, am passionate about it. A professional nurse.
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TYPES OF WOMEN.

By Mr VIDAMBU Sam.

So many men see a Lady, like her, love and want to marry her without trying to find out what type of Lady she is and if she's the type they want to go down the high with. Beauty doesn't make a Lady, personality does and Ladies have so amazing personalities if only you can get to understand your Lady and she's the perfect match for your person, not a perfect Lady. There is no perfect human being.

There are different types of Ladies out there. We encounter them every day but pay little or no attention to their persons because we get carried away with their beauty, shapes, accents and worth. Sir, stop being distracted, stay focused.

In this article, I'm going to share with us, the types of women we encounter now and then so that we can have a better understanding of whom we are dealing with at the time.

Please, note that the level of religion your Lady operates in doesn't change or affect her personality. Men change spiritually, women don't because they are spiritually made and can operate simultaneously both spiritually and physically unlike men who are physically made.

1.FAMILY LADY.
This kind of woman is very emotional. She is very attached to every member of her family. You will come to identify her if she keeps on telling you about her cousins or relatives people you never met; on your date nights. They take a firm stand on political and equality issues. Pick your discussion topics very wisely.

2.MOMMY LADY.
You will not recognize her instantly. This kind of woman possesses motherly instincts that come out during the delicate or sensitive stages of your life. They are genuinely caring in nature. If you miss texting or calling her after reaching home, expect a minimum of Ten missed calls waiting for you. If you get a minor paper cut, she’ll appear with substantial first aid. A sneeze can end up with a thermometer in your mouth and at least three days of rest!

3.HUSTLER.
This kind of woman is very hard-working by nature. Her priority will always be her dreams. Don’t misjudge/doubt or condemn her if she cancels the date for any assignment/work. You may raise your expectations, but in reality, be mentally prepared to support her career decisions. You may wish to help her in any way possible, but this kind of woman prefers playing their game independently.

4.GOSSIP LADY.
This type of lady is Google in human skin. They usually have a record of everyone and everything including you. You may find it difficult at times when you want to have some deep, meaningful conversation, but on days when you want something to cheer up your mood, her enthusiastic voice would be enough.

5.THE LISTENER.
This is the favourite type for the majority of men in the world. She’ll always be there to listen to you without any judgment or interruption. She is the silent observer kind. These kinds of women are introverts or ambiverts. She takes her own time to open up to you. Once found, she’ll be your first go-to person whenever you are feeling low and just need someone to listen to you.

6.SUPER LADY.
These women are an upgraded version of the hustler types. They do work hard and no matter what they are going through physically, emotionally, mentally or financially they will never let you know. They are emotionally convincing. They hardly lose their calm during the emergency. They are experts in multi-tasking and hiding their emotions. If you have found someone of this kind, then you need to be very careful about your actions because no matter how strong they are, they also need someone to look after them.

7.Ms PERFECTIONIST.
A woman with all positive habits. Disciplined life, clean home, hygienic environment, healthy eating habits and, focused on goals. You are making the wrong choice if you are exactly opposite to her. Compatibility is going to be a significant issue. But if you are looking to improve your current lifestyle, then this kind of woman is your best choice.

8.PANDA LADY.
She is a cute, lazy, sloth bear who can be your great partner in crime to hang out with. Your weekends will never be the same after you have found her. Get ready for disappeared hoodies, unlimited pizza deliveries, and binge-watching during the weekends. If you are too lucky, then she will also be your video game and watching a football match partner.

9.BOSS LADY.
The dominating ones. The Ms. Always Right. If you are in a relationship with her, be ready to change your schedules, according to her. And of course! Never dare to end up with any kind of disagreement with her. However, if you are someone who has lost track in life, nobody is better than her to help you get back to find yourself. She may appear like the most aggressive one but stick to her till the end, and you may discover amazing facts about her that nobody else knows.

10. DRAMA QUEEN.
This type of lady is the one who will exaggerate the given situation. Be sure that you won’t be allowed to spend much of your time with friends or relatives. Forget about talking to other girls. Most of your time is spent in shopping malls or wiping her tears. No matter how much possessive she is for you, this action will make you adore her even more.

11. PARTY LADY.
This is the type of woman who can make you feel insecure if your personality is not understanding types, then she is the one. She spends most of her weekends at the disco parties. She’s the kind who will make time for you according to her mood. Be prepared for cancelled date nights. You can try to get involved in her inner circle of friends, which may take time, and you may not feel comfortable too. Anyways, stay safe.

12. FAIRYTALE LADY.
This is a Daydreamer Queen. For her, logical thinking is of the least priority. She’s the emotional kind who breaks down quickly. If she says Unicorns exist, just say yes. She still has a touch of innocence in her nature. Be there to take care of her, and she’ll treat you the same.

13.DIFFICULT LADY.
These women are ambitious and bold, adventurous and emotional, brainy and defiant, incorrigible and outlandish, determined and badass. They are about pleasing themselves as much as those around them. They don't say yes simply because it is expected of them.

14.STRONG MINDED LADY.
This is a courageous Lady, one who doesn't depend on anyone else. She knows who she is. She build herself and builds others up. She doesn't see showing emotion as a weakness. She follows her intuition and doesn't overthink everything. She is truly happy and knows what it takes to make her own happiness.

15.ELEGANT LADY.
This lady displays self-respect, class, appreciation, and etiquette. She does not allow her mood to affect her manners. She is wise to know that being an elegant lady doesn’t mean that one should be snobby or stuck up, but that one should have dignity, consideration, and moderation in one's daily actions.

No matter which kind of woman you may come across, just respect the way they are, and you will get the same treatment. And make sure, whoever you end up with, you won’t force her to change her current self.

Changing a Lady is indirectly creating a monster. You will not like the result. Your best bet is to leave her to herself. Accept her for who she is and find a means to manage her person. That is the only way you can have the best of her.

Marrying a good mother to your kids is better than marrying a good wife for yourself.

(You can forward this information to others but without removing Vidambu's name and put yours. This information has been copy righted under Sam Vidambu, any form of plagiarism will be regarded as an offence).

You Are Blessed.

Happy Birthday to My Father's Daughter

May your days be long and beautiful Mailuv.

Say a prayer for her, friends.

Good morning my friends I love you all, let us make money together

Nollywood Actress, Toke Makinwa Reveals The Reason Why She's Still Single In A Recent Interview

In her words, She said Men of nowadays don't put efforts in relationships anymore...

"I remember times you'll block your man and she'll start calling and texting with his friends number and even email but now they won't even move an inch. Love has become really worthless" - Toke says

If You Make It Too Comfortable for Her to Love You—You’ll Never Know If She Does.

Because comfort hides character. And ease erases effort.

Let’s stop acting naive.

She didn’t love you.
She loved how easy it was to be with you.

You brought the car.
You picked the bills.
You paid the rent.
You moved her into the good life.

And now you’re surprised she vanished when things got hard?

She didn’t change.
You just never made her prove anything to begin with.

Because if you make it too comfortable for her to love you,
you’ll never know if she actually does.

1. You Should Have Hidden Your Hand—Not Played It All at Once

You showed her your wallet before you saw her heart.
You revealed your status before you saw her substance.

You led with lifestyle, not leadership.
You were busy trying to win her… while she was watching if someone better was coming.

You didn’t date her.
You sponsored her.

And when the lifestyle paused,
so did the affection.

2. Every Woman Is Sweet in Soft Life—Wait Until the Pressure Hits

She cooked.
She cleaned.
She moaned like a lovebird.
But that was before rent was due, and your business dipped.

Now she sighs every time you talk.
Now “you’ve changed.”
Now she “needs space.”

She didn’t lose feelings.
She lost benefits.

She was never tested, never strained, never asked to choose you without comfort.
So when real life entered—she exited.

3. If You Want Loyalty, Create Conditions That Reveal It

Say no.
Delay gratification.
Hold back your resources.
Slow down the rewards.

Let her meet the man—not the gifts.
Let her see the work—not just the wins.

If she only claps when you’re balling,
she’s not your wife.
She’s your fan.

And fans don’t stay when the performance ends.

4. You’re Playing by the Heart—She’s Learning from the Pros

You’re out here thinking,
“If I love her enough, she’ll stay.”

But she’s studying the algorithm.
Learning from TikTok therapists, divorced aunties, and girls who say:
“Never settle.”
“If he slips—dip.”
“Upgrade, don’t wait.”

You’re loving from the chest.
She’s planning with her checklist.

You’re thinking about forever.
She’s thinking about her next option.

You’re loyal.
She’s strategic.

And if you pause, she’ll replace you—before you even finish explaining yourself.

5. The Substitute Strategy Works Because Every New Man Overperforms

She knows:
Every new man starts with his best self.
New man = new effort = new benefits.

So why should she struggle with a man in “grind mode”
when a fresh suitor is flying her out by Thursday?

Why endure…
when substitution brings faster results?

She’s not in it for the process.
She’s in it for the payoff.

6. Her Circle Is the Whispering Wind Behind the Exit

You think she’s just “overthinking.”
No, she’s being influenced.

By friends who already left.
By single mothers who want her free.
By social media stars who preach quitting over building.

“Girl, you too fine to be suffering.”
“He’s not your only option.”
“You deserve soft life.”

Now your hard-working hands look like punishment.
Your discipline looks like control.
Your vision feels like a burden.

She’s no longer yours—
she’s theirs.

7. Her Loyalty Is Built on Lifestyle, Not Love

You gave her the best.
Now she can’t even manage the average.

You brought her up from struggle—
Now she calls that struggle “toxic.”

You turned her life around—
Now she sees you as the bare minimum.

She never wanted to grow with you.
She just wanted to benefit from your elevation.

And once the stream dries up,
so does the “I love you.”

8. She Doesn’t Want the Builder—She Wants the Finished Product

She’s not waiting for the house to be complete.
She wants the mansion, furnished, scented, and photo-ready.

If your money isn’t loud,
if your life isn’t soft,
if your timing isn’t perfect—

She’s gone.

And when you finally make it,
she’ll return as a “changed woman.”

But brother, don’t fall for the remix of what already failed the first audition.

Final Truth: You Thought You Were Her Blessing—She Saw You as a Bridge

You gave her ease.
She gave you attitude.
You gave her stability.
She gave you silence.

Because you made it too easy.
Too sweet.
Too convenient.

And in a world where options are endless,
easy love is easily replaced.

Final Word to Men:

Discipline yourself.
Slow down your yes.
Don’t offer the palace before you test the peasant.

Make her show up when the lights are off.
Make her prove herself when there’s nothing to post.
Make her stay when the world says she should leave.

Because if she can’t endure pressure,
she doesn’t deserve the palace.

And if she’s only sweet when it’s easy,
she’s a luxury guest—not a life partner.

Let the comments fly.
We’ve all got a story.

#Masculinity
#TestHerFirst
#SacrificeVsSubstitute
#ModernWomen
#BuildSmart

*NOT ALL MEDICINES ARE IN PHARMACIES!!!*

*1 - Exercise is medicine.*
*2 - Fasting is medicine.*
*3 - Natural food is medicine.*
*4 - Laughter is medicine.*
*5 - Vegetables and fruits are medicine.*
*6 - Sleep is medicine.*
*7 - Sunlight is medicine.*
*8 - Loving others is medicine*
*9 - Loving yourself is medicine.*
*10 - Gratitude is medicine.*
*11 - Letting go of offense is medicine.*
*12 - Meditation is medicine.*
*13 - Reading and studying the Word of God is medicine.*
*14 - Eating well, on time and without excess is medicine.*
*15 - Right thinking and with a good *mindset is medicine.*
*16 - Trusting in God is medicine*
*17 - Good friends are medicine.*
*18 -. Forgiving yourself and forgiving others is medicine.*
*19 - Drinking plenty of water is medicine.*
*20 - A peaceful heart is medicine*
*21- Allowing others grow is medicine*

*Take enough of these medications and you will rarely need the ones from pharmacies.*

*Do well by sharing this medicine to your loved ones if you really care.*

*Because natural medicine is better than pharmaceutical medicine!*

Care for your health.

How good it is to commun with the saints, happy Sunday friends.

TRUE LIFE STORY: A newly married last went to the market to buy vegetab, (ugu). Her husband invited his friends for dinner. On getting to the market, she bought ugu . The ugu seller dip the already paid for ugu into the water ( as they usually do) to make it look fresh. On getting home the lady cooked the vegetable soup without washing it. The soup was so Sandy that the husband and his friends couldn't eat the food. Her husband was angry with her so much that he said that he will take to mother for training. This did not go well with her. The next day , the lady we to the market to ask the ugu seller the she though that she the ugu seller washed the ugu.. If you are the husband what would you do.