This is your reminder that the love you want exists, and it doesn’t come with begging.

There’s a kind of love that doesn’t leave you questioning if you’re too much.

It doesn’t leave you doing everything alone. It doesn’t make you beg for help, or affection, or to be noticed. It meets you where you are, and stays.

So, wait for him.

Wait for the man who doesn’t let you carry the weight of everything on your own.

Wait for the man who sees when you’re tired without you even having to say it out loud.

Wait for the man that will carry you to bed when you fall asleep on the couch.

Wait for the man who will stay up with you and your scary thoughts, while the rest of the world is sleeping.

Wait for the man who will always kiss you at 6 am when he’s leaving for work.

Wait for the man who makes you crack a smile, even when you’re so annoyed with him.

Wait for the man who sees your mental health going back down, and pushes you to do things for yourself.

Wait for the man who wants to know your love language, and will put the effort into learning about it.

Wait for the man who is secure in himself, so he always pushes you to be yourself.

Wait for the man who doesn’t have an issue saying “I’m sorry, I should have handled that better..”

Wait for the man who cuddles you, and it makes you so feel safe, that you never want to let go.

Wait for the man that you would be proud of, if you’re daughter was with him.

Wait for the man who doesn’t like scary movies, but will stay up watching them with you because he knows you love them.

Wait for the man who has to fall asleep touching you, even if it’s just his feet.

Wait for the man who goes out with his friends, but calls to check in just to say he misses you.

Wait for the man who is so tired from working all day, but comes home with energy, and can instantly switch in to dad/husband mode.

Wait for the man who will sit on the same side of the booth as you at a restaurant, just to be closer to you.

Wait for the man who always does what he says he’s going to do.

Wait for the man who will drive the long road trips, because highways give you anxiety.

Wait for the man who doesn’t complete you.
Wait for the man that inspires you to complete yourself, with his support and guidance.

Wait for the man, who you think may not exist, because you are “asking for too much”.

When you wait for the right man, you will realize, you were never asking for too much.

When you wait for the right man, he will make all of the arguments and rough days, feel like just small bumps along the road.

When you wait for the right man, he will show you how warm, safe, and beautiful love really is.

I wish all my friends a good night sleep you shall all have a positive dream in Jesus mighty name amen

TEN ATTITUDES OF SMART PEOPLE

1. They are usually quiet than others – Smart people often prefer to listen and observe rather than dominate conversations.

2. They are aware of their own ignorance – Smart people recognize the limits of their knowledge and are open to learning more.

3. They avoid bragging – Instead of bragging, smart people let their actions speak for themselves.

4. They are humble – Despite their intelligence, they remain modest about their abilities.

5. They may have fewer close friends – They find it difficult to connect deeply with others because of their unique perspective.

6. They ask insightful questions – Smart people question deeply, seeking to understand and analyze.

7. They identify flaws and loopholes – They often examine systems or arguments to find imperfections.

8. They enjoy reading – A love of books and continuous learning is common among intelligent people.

9. They have strong intuition – They can often sense the true intentions and feelings of others.

10. They avoid confrontation – Intelligent individuals generally avoid unnecessary arguments and conflicts.

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HOW TO LOVE YOUR HUSBAND

1. Harden his penis, don't make his life hard

2. Praise him, don't praise other men

3. Cover his shame, don't cover up your mistakes

4. Hide in his arms, don't hide your sweet vagina from him

5.Buy him an expensive cologne, don't buy into the cheap rumors being spread about him

6. Lengthen the size of his penis as you arouse it erect from its relaxed size, don't lengthen his sorrows

7. Strengthen his character, don't strengthen his enemies by attacking him

8. Rub your butt on him, don't rub his failures to his face when he makes a mess

9. Let him marvel at the earings dangling from your pierced ears, don't pierce his heart

10. Shout out his goodness for the world to hear, don't shout at him

11. Push his penis deeper inside you when making love, don't push him away

12. Send him sweet messages, don't send gossip about him to your girlfriends

13. Give birth to his baby, don't order him around like a baby

14. Feed him good food, don't feed him lies

15. Empty his burden, don't empty his wallet

16. Address his fears, don't undress for another man

17. Build him up, don't build a wall between you and him

18. Ask him how his day has been, don't ask for things you know he can't currently give

19. Record his achievements, don't keep a record of his wrongs

20. Set a loving mood at home, don't become draining and moody

21. Be his number one fan, not his harshest critic

22. Challenge him to grow, don't challenge his position as head of the home

“Earlier, while I was doing music, I was still actively playing football. Hoping that if music doesn’t work, football will work. I was also hoping that someone will notice my great footballing skills and take me abroad to play. But, I was always having injuries. Sometimes when we were booked for a show, we’ll not be able to go because I’ll be limping from injury I got from football. My partner PRESH will be very angry with me. You know, we used to be a duo called KCPresh.

“One day Presh called me and said, KC, you need to choose between football or music. You can’t combine both of them. It won’t work. It was difficult, but I chose music. And I don’t regret it. Many of my footballer friends back in the day, couldn’t make it beyond the Ajegunle hood where we grew up, despite their great skills.

“Football in Nigeria is great luck and connection. You may be very talented, but you may not be able to make it beyond your village, that’s the fact. Maybe, if I had chosen football over music, I wouldn’t be the KCee I am today.” — KCee

A time will come in your life when you have to detach yourself from your friends in order to evaluate and re- evaluate the friendship and where it is taking you to.

Just imagine our police force been degraded in such way, #5000 that is not even up 25rmb and they filming and sharing it on their social media platform. Make i ever hear anyone anywhere again tell me that I'm ridiculing our paramilitary, or military forces. These idiots stupidly let themselves be captured on camera, and are obviously too daft to understand the implications. What is paining me most is the fact that this is akin to giving bananas to monkeys at the zoo because as we can see that money is of little value to the Chinese, and they are showing the whole world what is obtainable in Nigeria. Why wouldn't Canada deny those rogues, and their girlfriends visas? Mtcheeew! I'm almost in tears with anger! Yet these same buffoons will dare to arrest, and lock up a citizen for criticizing the government. Tufiakwa!

For those who rocked their childhood in the 70s, 80s and 90s. How can you ever forget those good old days?
where they spent most of there "growing up" life there and dey are very proud of there humble beginnings .. a time when everyone treated each other like family, dey went outside to play in the streets, played ema baba and climbed trees. Dey didn't eat fast food ....dey ate Groundnuts, Kulikuli, Puff Puff, Buns, agidi jollof with biscuit bone, choco milo sweets, Nasco or cabin biscuits and home made food and we got ice cream from the ice-cream man tied in a polythene bag. Dey played ten-ten, Suwe, game boy, hide and seek(bojo bojo), street football, tinkutinku little star, table soccer, kite, koso, open kolo, mama n papa, in and out police and thief, Pepsi Pepsi cola, etc. And then enjoyed visiting there neighbors, Families and friends.
There was no bottled water , dey drank water from the tap or bought Ice-water tied in a polythene bag, if we had a drink, dey would share the same bottle of juice...after giving it a wipe with our mucky sleeves, dey had analog tv, that can be open sideways like a wardrobe, only to be switched on at 4pm on weekdays and 10am on weekends; we ride our tyres, boris cart, or spoke wheel or played in the rain for hours. There was no such thing as a mobile phone or any other electronic device . Dey weren't AFRAID OF ANYTHING (except maybe the Nurse's injection, the Teachers at school and our parents ) If someone had a fight, that's what it was...a fist fight. Kids didn't have guns or knives, we played cowboys & crooks. The street lights were your curfew or until your Mom shouted out the window. School was mandatory, The days of going to school in groups just so we can gist, slab(walk) from our home to school, some cases 5 - 10 kilometers and buy dankuwa, Gudygudy and condense milk, babadudu with our pocket money. Ultimate power, and willi willi was our horror movie and nta channel 5 and BTV was our cartoon network. tales o

Good evening to all my friends, I pray the mighty God will protect us through the night in Jesus Christ name. Amen

I love my work, am passionate about it. A professional nurse.
My dm is active dear friends

TYPES OF WOMEN.

By Mr VIDAMBU Sam.

So many men see a Lady, like her, love and want to marry her without trying to find out what type of Lady she is and if she's the type they want to go down the high with. Beauty doesn't make a Lady, personality does and Ladies have so amazing personalities if only you can get to understand your Lady and she's the perfect match for your person, not a perfect Lady. There is no perfect human being.

There are different types of Ladies out there. We encounter them every day but pay little or no attention to their persons because we get carried away with their beauty, shapes, accents and worth. Sir, stop being distracted, stay focused.

In this article, I'm going to share with us, the types of women we encounter now and then so that we can have a better understanding of whom we are dealing with at the time.

Please, note that the level of religion your Lady operates in doesn't change or affect her personality. Men change spiritually, women don't because they are spiritually made and can operate simultaneously both spiritually and physically unlike men who are physically made.

1.FAMILY LADY.
This kind of woman is very emotional. She is very attached to every member of her family. You will come to identify her if she keeps on telling you about her cousins or relatives people you never met; on your date nights. They take a firm stand on political and equality issues. Pick your discussion topics very wisely.

2.MOMMY LADY.
You will not recognize her instantly. This kind of woman possesses motherly instincts that come out during the delicate or sensitive stages of your life. They are genuinely caring in nature. If you miss texting or calling her after reaching home, expect a minimum of Ten missed calls waiting for you. If you get a minor paper cut, she’ll appear with substantial first aid. A sneeze can end up with a thermometer in your mouth and at least three days of rest!

3.HUSTLER.
This kind of woman is very hard-working by nature. Her priority will always be her dreams. Don’t misjudge/doubt or condemn her if she cancels the date for any assignment/work. You may raise your expectations, but in reality, be mentally prepared to support her career decisions. You may wish to help her in any way possible, but this kind of woman prefers playing their game independently.

4.GOSSIP LADY.
This type of lady is Google in human skin. They usually have a record of everyone and everything including you. You may find it difficult at times when you want to have some deep, meaningful conversation, but on days when you want something to cheer up your mood, her enthusiastic voice would be enough.

5.THE LISTENER.
This is the favourite type for the majority of men in the world. She’ll always be there to listen to you without any judgment or interruption. She is the silent observer kind. These kinds of women are introverts or ambiverts. She takes her own time to open up to you. Once found, she’ll be your first go-to person whenever you are feeling low and just need someone to listen to you.

6.SUPER LADY.
These women are an upgraded version of the hustler types. They do work hard and no matter what they are going through physically, emotionally, mentally or financially they will never let you know. They are emotionally convincing. They hardly lose their calm during the emergency. They are experts in multi-tasking and hiding their emotions. If you have found someone of this kind, then you need to be very careful about your actions because no matter how strong they are, they also need someone to look after them.

7.Ms PERFECTIONIST.
A woman with all positive habits. Disciplined life, clean home, hygienic environment, healthy eating habits and, focused on goals. You are making the wrong choice if you are exactly opposite to her. Compatibility is going to be a significant issue. But if you are looking to improve your current lifestyle, then this kind of woman is your best choice.

8.PANDA LADY.
She is a cute, lazy, sloth bear who can be your great partner in crime to hang out with. Your weekends will never be the same after you have found her. Get ready for disappeared hoodies, unlimited pizza deliveries, and binge-watching during the weekends. If you are too lucky, then she will also be your video game and watching a football match partner.

9.BOSS LADY.
The dominating ones. The Ms. Always Right. If you are in a relationship with her, be ready to change your schedules, according to her. And of course! Never dare to end up with any kind of disagreement with her. However, if you are someone who has lost track in life, nobody is better than her to help you get back to find yourself. She may appear like the most aggressive one but stick to her till the end, and you may discover amazing facts about her that nobody else knows.

10. DRAMA QUEEN.
This type of lady is the one who will exaggerate the given situation. Be sure that you won’t be allowed to spend much of your time with friends or relatives. Forget about talking to other girls. Most of your time is spent in shopping malls or wiping her tears. No matter how much possessive she is for you, this action will make you adore her even more.

11. PARTY LADY.
This is the type of woman who can make you feel insecure if your personality is not understanding types, then she is the one. She spends most of her weekends at the disco parties. She’s the kind who will make time for you according to her mood. Be prepared for cancelled date nights. You can try to get involved in her inner circle of friends, which may take time, and you may not feel comfortable too. Anyways, stay safe.

12. FAIRYTALE LADY.
This is a Daydreamer Queen. For her, logical thinking is of the least priority. She’s the emotional kind who breaks down quickly. If she says Unicorns exist, just say yes. She still has a touch of innocence in her nature. Be there to take care of her, and she’ll treat you the same.

13.DIFFICULT LADY.
These women are ambitious and bold, adventurous and emotional, brainy and defiant, incorrigible and outlandish, determined and badass. They are about pleasing themselves as much as those around them. They don't say yes simply because it is expected of them.

14.STRONG MINDED LADY.
This is a courageous Lady, one who doesn't depend on anyone else. She knows who she is. She build herself and builds others up. She doesn't see showing emotion as a weakness. She follows her intuition and doesn't overthink everything. She is truly happy and knows what it takes to make her own happiness.

15.ELEGANT LADY.
This lady displays self-respect, class, appreciation, and etiquette. She does not allow her mood to affect her manners. She is wise to know that being an elegant lady doesn’t mean that one should be snobby or stuck up, but that one should have dignity, consideration, and moderation in one's daily actions.

No matter which kind of woman you may come across, just respect the way they are, and you will get the same treatment. And make sure, whoever you end up with, you won’t force her to change her current self.

Changing a Lady is indirectly creating a monster. You will not like the result. Your best bet is to leave her to herself. Accept her for who she is and find a means to manage her person. That is the only way you can have the best of her.

Marrying a good mother to your kids is better than marrying a good wife for yourself.

(You can forward this information to others but without removing Vidambu's name and put yours. This information has been copy righted under Sam Vidambu, any form of plagiarism will be regarded as an offence).

You Are Blessed.