12 NEGATIVE THINGS YOU MUST NEVER DO OR SAY DURING CONFLICT IN MARRIAGE📌📌📌📌📌📌📌📌📌 Disagreements in marriage are normal. Offense must come, no matter how holy and anointed you are. But we must learn to handle disputes with God's wisdom so that they won’t lead to MARITAL CRISIS AND DIVORCE. HERE ARE 12 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO DURING AN ARGUMENT WITH YOUR SPOUSE. 1. 📌Never say a word you may later regret. Never let your emotions control you. No matter how angry you are, never speak a word you will regret later. Avoid negative arguments. If you must argue, do it with love. Control your anger. Don’t abuse your tongue. Some couples are divorced today because they cannot control their tongues. Words spoken in anger can destroy a blissful marriage overnight. 2. 📌Never Be Too Proud To I Am Sorry. One thing that helped me and my wife and is still helping us is the ability to say I am sorry. This five-letter word (Sorry) is powerful. Learn to say I am sorry if you desire a peaceful and long-lasting marriage- There are two times you should say I am sorry. When you are right and when you are wrong. Why? So that peace can reign in your marriage. It’s better to be wrong and have a peaceful home than to be right and have a broken home. Don't be too arrogant to say “I am sorry” or “Please forgive me”. These are some of the most powerful words you will need to learn to use in your marriage. 3. 📌Never thr€aten your spouse with Divorce. There is no dignity in divorce. No thr€at of divorce or separation. Avoid mentioning divorce. Don’t even think of it because Love never fails. Decide to build a long-lasting marriage. God hates divorce. Every marriage has its challenges. True love is known in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there. So fight for your marriage. 4. 📌Never refer to the past offenses of your spouse. Forgive and move on. Don’t say, last year you did this and that. Old issues should pass away. 5. 📌Never forget the goodness of your spouse when there is an issue. Don't turn your spouse into an enemy because of one single argument. Never turn your spouse into a devil because of one single argument. That’s why it is not good to make a decision when there is an argument. You may make a decision you may later regret. 6. 📌NEVER Raise your voice whenever there is an argument. DON’T SHOUT AT YOUR SPOUSE NO MATTER THE OFFENCE. Never shout at your spouse no matter what happen. The only time you are permitted to shout in marriage is when the house is on fire. God forbid. You should Talk as lovers and friends in marriage 7. 📌Never place a curse on your spouse no matter the offence. I read a story about a woman who told her husband never to come back home, and he never returned. He had an accident and d!ed on the spot. The tongue has the power of life and d€ath. 8. 📌Avoid trying to win every argument in your marriage. YOUR HOME IS NOT A LAW COURT. Don’t be Defensive. If you discover you are wrong, acknowledge it. Don't try to "win" the argument. So many fights or marital crises can be ended once you admit you are wrong instead of trying to defend yourself. You must Choose happiness over being right. Also, you don't have to argue over every little disagreement. Sometimes you have to move on from the petty differences you have with your spouse and focus on more important things 9. 📌NEVER raise your hand on your spouse. Never start destr0ying your property because you are angry. Domestic vi0lence is unacceptable. No matter how angry you are, never beat your spouse. 10. 📌Never Stop Caring When You Are Having Issues With Your Spouse. Don't stop cooking and serving your spouse, never stop calling to know how your spouse's day is going, never stop praying for your spouse, and never stop dropping money at home because there is a misunderstanding. Don't stop eating at home. Never suspend all the good things you have always done for your spouse because there is an issue 11. 📌Never Compare Your Spouse With Anybody No perfect marriage. Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength. Focus on what your spouse is doing right in marriage. Focus on his/her strengths, not his/her weaknesses. Stop focusing on the mistakes or weaknesses of your spouse. Be patient with your spouse. Try to understand and accept your differences and celebrate them. Never compare your husband to old boyfriends, your brother, father, pastor, or anyone else. Never compare your wife to your ex, mother, sisters, or pastor’s wife Stop comparing your marriage with someone else’s. Invest in your marriage, 12. 📌NEVER STOP TO PRAYING TOGETHER Don't let conflict, anger, or offense destroy your prayer life. Many Married couples slowly stop praying together the moment they have an issue in marriage. You see, the best time to pray with your spouse is when there is an issue. Once you stop praying because of any offense, you have allowed the devil to take a place in your home. Fight for your marriage by praying without ceasing. Your spouse is not your enemy. The devil is your enemy. You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name Kindly share this message with your loved ones 🙏

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*Health Education* *Cockroaches* Can survive a week without its head. Can survive 2weeks without water. Can survive one month without food Can live in your house for 3½years (maximum life span) without been detected!! Defecates on human food. Can trigger severe asthma attack. Spreads bacteria that can cause food poisoning and typhoid. A cockroach can kill you. If you don’t kill it first. These things are capable of the worst things you can imagine. They eat almost anything even fellow insects. Hair, books, sweets, meat anything- they will eat. They are attracted to human food. They vomit on the food. They defecate on the food. Absolutely disgusting animals. Some young cockroaches have been documented to crawl over sleeping human beings and crawl inside the ears, noses, and even open mouths. So if you have cockroaches in your house and you sleep sometimes with your mouth open and drooling, a cockroach can scroll in for a kiss.😔 Cockroaches have been known to spread at least 33 kinds of bacteria, including E. coli and Salmonella, six parasitic worms and more than seven other types of human pathogens. E. coli and Salmonella for example are classic causes of serious food poisoning, typhoid and diarrhea. So what to do? Prevent the environment that helps them thrive. That’s the main answer. Keep your cupboards, sinks, tables and floors clean and free of dirty plates, unused utensils and old newspapers. Clean your dishes, food crumbs and oil spills right away once you cook. *Always store your food in airtight containers, and never leave your food out (even if it is pet food!).* *Storing up food in nylon bags and sacks like garri and rice is NOT the best for you. These idiots can eat through the sack and ruin that food for you.* *Don’t risk it at all.* Seal cracks and gaps in walls, floors and openings around or inside cabinets. Also make sure that you seal gaps around pipes, plumbing, wall outlets, and spaces under the doors to your house and kitchen. From time to time, run hot water in spare bathrooms and little used sinks. Always check your bag and your children's school bags when they return home, as well as your shopping items before storing them. If despite all these measures, you still have a cockroach problem at home, contact a pest professional for assistance with elimination and prevention. Smack with a broom. Squash with slippers. Boil in hot water. Spray with an insecticide. Kill with a gun.😂😂 Use whatever means you can. But don’t ever ignore. One cockroach can produce up to 1,000 new ones in a year to torment your life. Kill cockroaches now Before they kill you. So ladies and gentlemen. Do the world a favour: Kill a cockroach today. When you go to your friends house, as a show of goodwill, kill a cockroach. When you go to your partner’s house, as a show of love, kill a cockroach. Wherever you go, and you find one- kill it. Just do it.

Dearest friends, it is no new thing that death rate is on the increase these days. Inasmuch as we can’t stop it, there are still some little things we can do to help ourselves or at least live a pressure free life. In all your doings, guard your heart, thoughts and emotions first. Decide in you to be happy no matter what. The rate at which people breakdown and die these days will make you understand that allowing so many negative emotions, feelings and thoughts in your heart has a way of breaking your walls gradually, before you know it you begin to sink. Don’t blame yourself if you don’t have the best life or if others are doing better than you, don’t curse your life either, but always ask yourself this” what can I do to improve? How can I do better?” Insights will come, ideas will come, it will all shape your focus and help you stay positive. Do not strive to be like anyone but work hard to be a better version of yourself. Set targets for yourself, it’s ok not to meet them at once, but you’ll see how it will help you go farther. Try as much as possible to take your eyes off things that will put you under pressure, your peace of mind matters. It is not enough to live, but the most important is to live a peaceful and pressure free life. Above all, be contented, be prayerful and remember this. “. YOUR PRESENT SITUATION IS ANOTHER PERSONS PRAYER POINT.

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Check the people who have had things happen to them that they never thought or believed would happen to them, or those who have done things they swore they would never do. They don't rush to judge anyone for their choices or mistakes. They clearly understand that life has no manual. Bottom line: Do the best you can and learn along the way when mistakes happen.

*HOW TO SERVE YOUR HUSBAND'S MEAL.😋* Some wives are used to buying fanciful bowls, plates and serving dishes all to decorate their store/kitchens. They serve their husband with just any meal dish but when a visitor is around, they go into the store, to get a nice dish plate to serve a visitor. Listen to me, NOBODY IS SUPERIOR TO YOUR HUSBAND!!! 💥 To have the best of marriage, you must serve your husband's meal as a king!... If you haven't been to a palace to dine with a king before, watch movies to see it. ? Don't just put rice and stew in one dirty flat plate for your husband. Serve his stew separately, if possible, meat/fish separately. 💥 Get a beautiful cup for his water/juice. 💥 Don't let your kids, siblings, housemaid or anyone else serve your husband's meal (except for reasons).. Serve your king by yourself! 💥 *When you want to serve his meal, serve with honour and respect. Don't just dump his food on the table.* 💥 *You need to eat together with your husband sometimes and if by any reason, you have eaten before him, sometimes, ensure you sit with him, ask if he is okay with the meal*. Then pack the plates when he is done*.The only place most men experience excellent meal service is at the eatery or when they go to watch movies. When you serve /treat your husband like a King, then he sees you and treats you like a queen! *And when you serve/treat him as a slave,.. He might go out to get a better service..* Then you must not complain. I know some ladies would be like this teaching is odd.. Yes it would be odd to some but for those who seek a peaceful and longlasting marriage.. IT IS A SUCCESS DOSE. *Men's heart move to where they are treated with respect.* *Take note of this! Little things that we do ignore go a very long way keeping our home happy and successful*. *Husband and wife who eats together, prays together conquers all marital obstacles.👌🏾*

*NEVER FORGET THIS…* While you were crying for that person, they were smiling with someone else. While you couldn’t sleep, they were peacefully sleeping beside another. While you were breaking inside waiting for a message, they were busy texting someone new. And they did all of this without guilt. No remorse. No second thought about the pain they left behind. The truth? Sometimes a “sorry” isn’t enough. In fact, sometimes people don’t feel sorry, they just feel sorry they got caught. They don’t regret hurting you, only that you found out. When you truly love someone, loyalty isn’t optional it’s automatic. It means respect behind their back and honesty to their face. Forgive if you can. But if you can’t, don’t. Because not everything deserves forgiveness. Not lies. Not betrayal. Not disrespect. Not infidelity. And if you need to cry, cry. But when you’re done, get up. Fix your crown. And move forward. Because the best revenge is healing quietly, fully, and without needing to hurt anyone back.

Today for my bestie. Happy birthday to my gossip mate. my partner in crime, and one of the few I trust with my whole life ❤️ Life’s sweeter, louder with you in it. I Love you always #bestieforlife

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