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HOW TO BECOME MORE CLASSY AND INTELLIGENT AS A WOMAN


Being classy is not about bleaching your skin, wearing designer bags, or speaking through your nose.

And intelligence? It’s not about speaking big grammar and forming British accent.

If you want to truly be a classy and intelligent woman, start here,

1. Read, sis.

I’m not saying become a professor overnight.

But carry books. Read. Listen to podcasts.

Watch YouTube videos that feed your brain, not just celebrity gossips.

2. Speak with sense.

You don’t have to talk all the time. But when you do, let people feel your wisdom.

Speak gently. Speak with respect. Speak to add value, not to scatter everywhere.

3. Dress like you respect yourself.

You don’t need a wardrobe full of clothes.

Just know how to package yourself with confidence, decency, and class.

4. Maturity in how you handle things.

Not everything requires quarrels. Not every insult deserves a reply.

Sometimes, your silence is the loudest clapback.

5. Improve your mindset.
The way you think affects how you act. Stop thinking small.

Stop seeing yourself as a victim. You’re a woman with power. Think big. Think wise.

6. Don’t move with noise makers.
Classy women are intentional about their company.

Hang around women who lift your standards, not those who drag you into drama every day.


7. Pray and glow differently.

Spiritual depth gives you peace that shows in your walk, your talk, and your decisions.

Real elegance comes from the inside out.HOW TO BECOME MORE CLASSY AND INTELLIGENT AS A WOMAN


Being classy is not about bleaching your skin, wearing designer bags, or speaking through your nose.

And intelligence? It’s not about speaking big grammar and forming British accent.

If you want to truly be a classy and intelligent woman, start here,

1. Read, sis.

I’m not saying become a professor overnight.

But carry books. Read. Listen to podcasts.

Watch YouTube videos that feed your brain, not just celebrity gossips.

2. Speak with sense.

You don’t have to talk all the time. But when you do, let people feel your wisdom.

Speak gently. Speak with respect. Speak to add value, not to scatter everywhere.

3. Dress like you respect yourself.

You don’t need a wardrobe full of clothes.

Just know how to package yourself with confidence, decency, and class.

4. Maturity in how you handle things.

Not everything requires quarrels. Not every insult deserves a reply.

Sometimes, your silence is the loudest clapback.

5. Improve your mindset.
The way you think affects how you act. Stop thinking small.

Stop seeing yourself as a victim. You’re a woman with power. Think big. Think wise.

6. Don’t move with noise makers.
Classy women are intentional about their company.

Hang around women who lift your standards, not those who drag you into drama every day.


7. Pray and glow differently.

Spiritual depth gives you peace that shows in your walk, your talk, and your decisions.

Real elegance comes from the inside out.

Every lady in the channel let's gather here with a blue

Women love to be married, but many of them don't know how to keep their husbands, I celebrate does that know.

Before money was introduce, what did de women find attractive in men

This is for my sisters

As tough as it is you need to put yourself first in everything,you need to know your value,how much you worth,you need to protect your feelings,your emotions and you need to protect yourself from crying over and over again about the same thing in your relationships.❤

Try to build yourself first before you build a man,sei ndirikudaro because you will build a man for another womanyou will build a man for someone to come and eat zvawakadyara
Dzimwe nguva varume vane mari tend to treat vakadzi sema objects,dont be objectified varume vakaziva kuti iwewe semukadzi hauna chauinacho worse your family kwawakabva they rely on your marriage or relationship vanokuita chikorobhoakaziva kuti your family is as low as your life anokuita saga.
You will never have a say in your relationship kana your boyfriend asinga kuremekedza as an equal
Some women are fortunate kuti vakawana varume vanonzwisisa kuti marriage is partnership/ friendship...ko ukasava fortunate?

As a woman you have to build yourself first so that zvikazodhakwa mu relationship you will leave and find peace
Don't be a woman who is afraid of losing a man because you fear being alone dont be afraid to move on because you feel no one will take care of youdont be afraid to call it quit when love isn't there anymore.Usatye kubuda mu marriage nekutya kuti vanhu vanozoti chii ndopakuzouraiwa nemurumene GBV.
It's only you who suffers that's why you have to build yourself before a man comes to build you,build yourself first❤before you build a man
Vamwe vakadzi are in abusive relationships because of money,material things hanzi because ndine mwana...that's rubbish when it comes to your life...taneta nema suicidal thoughts

Don't accept to be treated like nothing because you have nothing ❤It's not too late kudzokera ku chikoro,it's not too late kuita course ye dressmaking or hair dressing or any other course so you empower yourself. Don't let pride get in your way kuti vanhu vanoziva ndichi Slayer saka ndikaramba murume who will maintain my life style....if the relationship is toxic leave uchiri mupenyu 🙏🏽

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*DID YOU KNOW?*

* The world’s most translated author is Agatha Christie. Her books have been translated into at least 103 languages. She is best known for her detective novels featuring characters like Miss Marple and Hercule Poirot, and has sold over 2 billion copies of her books worldwide.

* A group of flamingos is called a flamboyance.
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*TODAY IN HISTORY*

* On this day in 1667, the first human blood transfusion was administered. Jean-Baptiste Denys, physician to King Louis XIV of France, transfused sheep blood into a 15-year-old boy. He survived, most likely due to the relatively small amount of blood used.

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The most exhausting activity is pretending to be what you know you aren’t. – Rick Warren

Happy Father’s Day

*Compiled by Hon. Osuji George [email protected], +234-8122200446*

IF YOU KEEP PICKING WRONG, READ THIS.


Choosing a partner is one of the most important decisions of your life. But many good women are making bad decisions because something deeper is influencing their choices.

These are 5 things that can cause you to choose the wrong partner even when you’re praying, fasting, and “doing everything.”

1. YOUR EMOTIONS

The moment you feel something strong, you stop seeing clearly. You start making excuses to cover up red flags because you don't want to lose this thing you feel for him.

If emotions are driving the car, wisdom is probably tied up in the boot. And that is exactly the case for many ladies.

Your emotions are good and what makes you human but you need to gain mastery over it else it will keep making you choose the wrong partners.

2. UNMET NEEDS

Some of the worst relationships you’ll ever enter are the ones you walk into with an empty cup.
Because when you’re thirsty, even p0ison can look like water.

When you have unmet needs, your definition and perception of love are altered and you will confuse so many things for love.

3. YOU’RE STILL IN YOUR FANTASY STAGE

A lot of women fall in love with the idea of a man, not the reality of who he is. You picture a wedding with him, future kids, matching Ankara, and couple selfies…

But you never stopped to ask: Is this man truly ready for what I’m praying for? Sometimes, you’re not choosing him - you’re choosing your hope.

So as long as he matches the idea of the man you fantasize about, you intentionally close your eyes to other important things and hope that helps changes later.

4. TRAUMA YOU HAVEN’T HEALED FROM

Unhealed trauma can distort a lot. You’ll think you’re following your heart, and even feel “peace” and use it as a confirmation….

But it’s your w0unds that are choosing for you because it has seen something “familiar”.

Your nervous system isn’t looking for love… it’s looking for what it knows. And until you do the healing work, your past will keep hijacking your future.

5. PRESSURE (FROM SOCIETY, FRIENDS, FAMILY OR EVEN YOURSELF)

When you’re close to your 30s and people keep asking “when are you getting married?”, it messes with your peace.

You start feeling like you’re behind. You lower your standards. You rush, settle, and pick out of fear. And the worst part? You start seeing the wrong person as “good enough” After all no one is perfect, right? All because you’re trying to meet a deadline.
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For how long will you keep allowing your emotions to affect your relationship choices? What unmet need is influencing your choice?

Is something from the past making you reject what is safe, good, and real? Then making you choose what isn't good for you?

How about pressure to be married? Are you giving in already?

*LESSONS FOR WOMEN IN MARRIAGE! +18*
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Most women complain of sexual dissatisfaction but the question you should be asking yourself is: Are you playing your part as a woman? Do you know the things that turn your man on? Do you know that a man needs to be caressed and complimented in order to feel like making love to you?

May You Try This It May Help:

1. Be romantic, playful, and spontaneous. Touch your man play with his body flirt with him on the phone compliment him always tell him you love him send him dirty suggestive messages.


2. Please do not be afraid: Ashamed or irritated to take him into your mouth it's exciting once you get the hang of it.

3. Allow him unlimited access to your body: Allow him to go down on you. Do not hide your sensitive areas: surely why do hide your breasts ears and womanhood then claim he can't turn me on.

4. Show him you like sex too: It kills a man's ego when he struggles to get it by the time he starts doing it he will be tired from wrestling with you and talking to you to convince you to have it please please if you can convince your man that you also like it and enjoy it it's very important.

Your man thrives to bring you the latest album of your favorite musician which will stop him from bringing you a new style of sex if he knows you like it.

5. Respond to his lovemaking: Do not lie there like you are dead run your hands on his back and spread out those legs for him and move up to meet him, moan and groan, hiss like a snake.

6. If he hits the right spot say it and show it: Urge him on and hold him tight there, speak in tongues.

7. Suggest positions: And fully participate in your favorite position do not be afraid to go on top.

8. Satisfy him first he will eventually satisfy you: Make him happy and allow him to enjoy you he will return the compliment.

9. Do everything he likes and enjoy pleasing him: You think most men leave you because they got what they wanted: No they would have discovered that you are not enjoying what they are offering you so enjoy what is offered first!

Listen up, son.

There’s no story more emotional, more dramatic, or more manipulative than that of a broke woman looking to fleece you.

A broke woman is a walking crisis. Today it’s her gas. Tomorrow it’s her mother’s surgery. Next week it’s her little brother’s school fees. After that, her auntie’s dog was kidnapped by boko haram.

Real problems. Fake problems. Imaginary ones too. All on your small, struggling head. You will age quickly.

Why? Because she doesn’t work. She doesn’t build. She’s lazy, entitled, and broke but she still has needs. She still wants to eat, dress up, take selfies, and live soft. And since she can’t provide, she survives by lying, crying, and seducing men.

The worst part is you’re not the only one she’s running this game on. You’re just one of many. No company runs and survives on just one customer. Una many!

She targets men with soft hearts. Men with a savior complex. Men who feel guilty saying “no.” and in return, she offers her body because in her mind, that’s her only currency.

Let me be blunt: A broke girl doesn’t love you, she loves what you can do for her and the moment you stop doing it or can’t provide anymore, she vanishes and finds another man who can.

Don’t build with a liability. Choose a woman who’s financially responsible. I didn’t say rich; I said responsible for her own good. A woman who can feed herself, transport herself, recharge her phone, buy her own toiletries and fill her own gas, all without turning her needs into prayer points or a pity party.

That’s the barest minimum because the truth is this, a broke woman will always monetize love. She'll turn her body into an office to survive.

You were not born to be an emergency fund for irresponsible women. Build with value. Love a woman with dignity, not desperation. Leave broke women alone!

Clear?