MARRIAGE IS FOR PEACEMAKERS 1. Marriage is for two people who would rather maintain their love than win arguments against each other 2. Marriage is for people who know when not to speak till tempters cool 3. Marriage is for emotionally stable people who are able to not act or say irrational things just because they feel like it 4. Marriage is not a place for wars, settling scores and tit for tats, but a place for seeking solutions 5. Marriage is not a place that adds to your stress but a safe haven, where you run to after a hard day 6. Marriage is for two people who choose not to react to issues but to respond to them. Reacting is self seeking, instant and not thought through the consequences; responding is looking out for the best interest of the both of you and being prudent 7. Marriage is a place where anger is seen as a normal human emotion but that anger gets neutralized with love so that it doesn't become a threat 8. Marriage is not a place for shouting matches, insults, violence and the throwing of glasses; but a place for mature conversations, mutual understanding and the willingness to learn 9. Marriage is a place where the two prefer to talk about sensitive issues when they are both calm, not defensive 10. Marriage is a place for constantly making up, not going to bed mad at each other 11. Marriage is a place for exercising patience, the two don't put pressure on each other 12. Marriage is a place for kisses, hugs, gifts and words of affection that bring down walls 13. Marriage is a place where pride and ego is put down and the two are caring enough to reach out to each and initiate reconciliation when they have wounded each other 14. Marriage is a place of perspective. You don't destroy your entire marriage that you have built all these years just because of a misunderstanding The strongest marriages are made of husbands and wives who are peace makers. Do you love peace enough to give it to your spouse? Blessed are the peace makers for they shall be called children of God.

WHY SINGERS SOMETIMES GO OFF-KEY Singing off-key is an experience that nearly every vocalist has encountered at some point, whether during rehearsal, performance, or even while humming along to a song. While it can feel embarrassing or frustrating, it is essential to understand that going off-key is often a result of specific, correctable issues, not just a lack of talent. Recognizing why this happens can help you grow as a more confident, consistent, and pitch-accurate singer. Below are some common causes and helpful insights: --- TOP REASONS PEOPLE SING OFF-KEY: 1. POOR PITCH AWARENESS Some singers haven’t yet developed the ability to recognize and match pitches. Without this “ear training,” it’s easy to stray off-key. 2. WEAK BREATH SUPPORT Proper breath control gives stability to your voice. Without it, holding pitch—especially on long or high notes—can become difficult. 3. SINGING OUTSIDE YOUR RANGE Attempting notes that are too high or too low can cause you to go flat or sharp due to vocal strain. 4. LACK OF VOCAL WARM-UP Jumping into a song without warming up can lead to stiffness and tension, which affects your pitch control. 5. NERVOUSNESS OR STAGE FRIGHT When you're anxious, your muscles tighten, and your focus shifts. This tension can impact your ability to stay on pitch. 6. POOR SOUND MONITORING If you can’t hear yourself clearly (especially on stage), it’s easy to drift off-key without realizing it. 7. NO INSTRUMENTAL REFERENCE Singing a cappella without a reference note can be tricky if your tonal memory isn’t strong yet. 8. LIMITED EAR TRAINING Singers who haven’t practiced identifying intervals and notes may struggle to hear when they’re off-pitch. 9. VOCAL FATIGUE OR STRAIN A tired or overworked voice loses control. Pitch suffers when the vocal cords aren’t functioning at their best. 10. BAD TECHNIQUE Posture, mouth shape, tension, and breath placement all affect pitch. Poor technique often leads to pitch instability. --- In Summary: Singing off-key is not the end of the world — it’s a signal that something needs attention, not a sign that you can’t sing. With proper training, consistent practice, and a willingness to listen and adjust, any singer can improve their pitch accuracy. Your pitch can be trained. Your ear can be sharpened. And your confidence can grow. Don’t fear being off-key — learn from it, and keep singing. On my next post, I'll be presenting useful tips on how one can prevent singing off-key. Stay tuned 📍

Discovering your own Gift 🎁 involves introspection, self-assessment, and a willingness to learn and adapt. Here are some strategies to help you get started: 1. Set clear goals: Establish what you want to achieve in different areas of your life, such as career, relationships, or personal growth. 2. Track your progress: Keep a journal, log your accomplishments, or use a habit-tracking app to monitor your progress. 3. Reflect on your strengths and weaknesses: Identify areas where you excel and areas that need improvement. 4. Seek feedback: Ask for constructive feedback from trusted friends, family, or colleagues. 5. Practice self-awareness: Recognize your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, and how they impact your productivity and quality of work. 6. Develop a growth mindset: Be open to learning, experimenting, and taking calculated risks. 7. Prioritize tasks: Focus on high-impact activities that align with your goals and values. 8. Eliminate distractions: Minimize procrastination and optimize your workflow. 9. Celebrate small wins: Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. 10. Continuously learn and improve: Stay updated with industry trends, best practices, and new skills to enhance your quality and efficiency. By implementing these strategies, you'll be better equipped to discover your strengths, weaknesses, and areas for improvement, ultimately enhancing your overall quality and efficiency. What specific area of your life do you want to improve?

Dear Son, No Woman is easy to get No Woman is hard to get. She is not interested in you. A Woman who wants you Will make everything easy for YOU. You are with the wrong Woman If she makes things difficult for you Accept her unwillingness and move on The right Woman is there waiting beside your purpose Get hold of your purpose And get hold of the right Woman It is that simple

CHURCH MEMBERSHIP ETHICS ⛪ “Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it.” – 1 Corinthians 12:27 Being a faithful and committed church member reflects your love for Christ and maturity as a believer. Church membership is not a mere formality—it is a covenant responsibility before God. Below are essential principles that govern healthy, biblical church membership: 1. BE A MEMBER OF ONLY ONE CHURCH “No one can serve two masters...” – Matthew 6:24 Being planted in one local church is a mark of loyalty and order. Divided loyalty weakens your spiritual growth and creates confusion. Choose where God has led you, plant yourself there, and flourish. Dual membership is like a divided heart—it brings instability and robs both churches of your full commitment. 2. RESPECT OTHER CHURCHES “Let nothing be done through selfish ambition...” – Philippians 2:3 Never fish from another church’s pond. Evangelism is about reaching the unsaved, not draining other congregations. God honors soul-winning, not sheep-stealing. Instead of trying to attract members from smaller churches, invest your energy into outreach. Strengthen the Body by building, not by weakening others. 3. HELP MAKE YOUR CHURCH BETTER “Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” – Matthew 6:21 Every church has room to grow—including yours. Don't jump ship because of imperfections. Be part of the solution. Serve with joy, contribute your gifts, and work with leadership to make things better. God places you in a church not to observe, but to contribute. 4. STOP LOOKING FOR THE PERFECT CHURCH “There is none righteous, no, not one.” – Romans 3:10 A perfect church doesn’t exist—because people aren’t perfect. The goal isn’t perfection, but progress. Every church is a work in progress, just like you. Rather than chasing perfection, commit to growth and maturity where you are. 5. MAKING SUGGESTIONS WITH THE RIGHT HEART “Let all things be done decently and in order.” – 1 Corinthians 14:40 As a member, your voice matters. Offer your ideas with humility and a willingness to participate in their implementation. And if leadership doesn’t take them on board, respond with grace. Suggestions are not commands; they are offerings, not ultimatums. 6. YOUR ACTIONS IMPACT THE BODY “If one member suffers, all the members suffer with it.” – 1 Corinthians 12:26 The church is not a club—it’s a body. Every act of faithfulness or carelessness sends a ripple through the entire congregation. Your absence, presence, encouragement, or discouragement has an effect. Think beyond yourself. You are part of something much bigger. 7. GIVE TO YOUR LOCAL CHURCH “Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse...” – Malachi 3:10 Your financial giving should support the church that feeds and shepherds you. Supporting other ministries is good, but your first responsibility is your local church. Like eating at one restaurant and paying at another—misplaced giving weakens the house that serves you. 8. LET YOUR PASTOR OFFICIATE YOUR LIFE EVENTS “Let the elders who rule well be counted worthy of double honor...” – 1 Timothy 5:17 For weddings, dedications, or blessings, involve your own pastor. This shows honor, consistency, and accountability. Your pastor is spiritually responsible for you—so they should be present in your major life milestones. 9. LEAVE A CHURCH HONORABLY, IF YOU MUST “First go and be reconciled to them...” – Matthew 5:24 If God leads you to another church, do not disappear quietly. Speak to your leaders. Seek peace and receive their blessing. Don't gossip, criticize, or take others with you. Leaving in offense creates spiritual baggage. Leave as a peacemaker, not a troublemaker. 10. DON’T LEAVE BECAUSE OF CORRECTION “If someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently.” – Galatians 6:1 Rebuke is a sign of care. When your leaders confront your sin, receive it with humility. Running away only hardens your heart and delays growth. True discipleship requires correction. A loving church disciplines because it desires your restoration. 11. IMPERFECT PASTORS STILL SERVE A PERFECT GOD “We have this treasure in jars of clay...” – 2 Corinthians 4:7 Your pastor will make mistakes. Don’t expect flawless leadership. God uses flawed vessels to accomplish His perfect will. What matters most is their heart for God, not their human limitations. Extend the same grace you want to receive. 12. DISCIPLESHIP IS NOT A BURDEN—IT’S A BLESSING “Go therefore and make disciples...” – Matthew 28:19 Discipleship is the heartbeat of spiritual maturity. If you are offended by structure, correction, or accountability, ask yourself if you truly want to grow. Emotion is not a good compass—let God’s Word guide your decisions. Growth requires intentional effort and sometimes discomfort. LOVE, SERVE, AND BUILD “They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship...” – Acts 2:42 Your church is your spiritual family. Love it, serve it, and build it. Your faithfulness strengthens others. Your consistency honors God. Don’t be a visitor in your own house—be a pillar in the house of the Lord. Support your church. Celebrate your church. Be the church. God bless you!

CHILDISH HABITS OF AN IMMATURE WIFE... 1. GOING TO SLEEP IN KIDS' OR SPARE BEDROOM OR SITTING ROOM WHEN THE COUPLE HAVE A MISUNDERSTANDING: This is a sign of avoidance and unwillingness to resolve conflicts. A mature partner would stay and work through the issue, rather than running away from it. childish behavior. 2. TELLING HER HUSBAND HE IS NOT MAN ENOUGH: This is a form of emotional abuse and undermines the partner's self-esteem. A mature partner would communicate constructively about issues without personal attacks. Very few men can survive this injury, yes very few men! 3. "THERE ARE MANY MEN OUT THERE WHO CAN MARRY ME WHEN I LEAVE THIS MARRIAGE": This is a threat and a form of emotional blackmail. A mature partner would address problems in the relationship directly and work towards a solution, and she has forgotten that many single mum and unmarried women are outside there, and the queue is long. 4. BEING QUICK TO GET ANGRY ABOUT EVERYTHING: Excessive anger and overreaction to minor issues is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would respond with more patience and understanding. 5. CAN'T JUST FORGIVE, KEEPS HURTS HER HEART: Holding onto grudges and resentment is a barrier to healthy conflict resolution. A mature partner would be able to forgive and move forward. 6. ALWAYS BEING RIGHT , UNABLE TO ADMIT BEING WRONG : Lack of humility and unwillingness to compromise is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would be open to different perspectives and willing to acknowledge their own mistakes. 7. LOVING PARENTS AND SIBLINGS MORE THAN SPOUSE: This indicates a lack of emotional investment in the marriage and a failure to prioritize the spousal relationship. 8. FEELING ENTITLED TO EVERYTHING: A sense of entitlement and unrealistic expectations is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would have a more balanced view of the give and take in a relationship. #boychildadvocate #GrowUpLadies

*"GOING ALL THE WAY WITH GOD"* *"Obedience isn't legalism - it's LOVE IN ACTION!"* (John 14:15) As we journey together in faith, let's draw inspiration from Abraham's unwavering obedience to God (Genesis 22:1-24). True obedience requires humility, commitment, and a willingness to follow God's will wholeheartedly. *How can we stay the course?* - Through PRAYER - By the POWER OF GOD'S HOLY SPIRIT - In the STRENGTH OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST *Let's strive to delight in doing GOD'S WILL* - not just at the start, but all the way to the end! (Psalm 40:8) *"Even so, come, Lord Jesus."* (Revelation 22:20) May God's grace guide and empower us as we seek to obey His commandments and follow His will. *Share this message with someone who needs encouragement!* #Faith #Obedience #LoveInAction #GodsWill #SpiritualJourney

BEYOND RELIGION: EMBRACING THE EASY YOKE OF JESUS CHRIST The blood of Jesus Christ is pure, sinless, spotless, precious, and perfect (1 Peter 1:19). It cleanses from sin, wipes away iniquities, and transforms sinners into saints (Hebrews 9:14, 1 John 1:7). This blood surrenders its identities to the saint, and these identities become the saint's character (2 Peter 1:4). Salvation, also known as to be born again is not merely reciting the sinner's prayer at the point of altar call or following rules; it's a conviction by the Holy Spirit that one is a sinner condemned to eternal doom (John 16:8-11). It's a response to this conviction by surrendering one's life to Jesus Christ and trusting in His finished work on the cross (Romans 3:24-25, Ephesians 2:8-9). Believers experience a transformed life, living by faith and confidence in the forgiveness of their sins (2 Corinthians 5:17, Romans 5:1). As saints, believers are clothed with the righteousness and purity of Jesus Christ's blood (Revelation 7:14, 1 John 1:7). Though still prone to mistakes and errors due to the flesh, the blood of redemption continually cleanses, wipes and purifies them (1 John 2:1-2, 1 John 1:9). In contrast to religion, which entangles, enslaves and keeps in legalism and bondage, Jesus' yoke is easy, and His burden is light (Matthew 11:28-30). Entrance into the Redeemer's kingdom is based on faith in His finished work, not on works or adherence to man-made rules (Ephesians 2:8-9, Romans 3:28). Redemption justifies, sanctifies, acquits, translates from kingdom of doom and darkness into kingdom of light, frees believers from legalism ( sets of rigid religious rules, man made traditions, if you don't do this you won't get that, this qualifies you to get that), bringing them into freedom ( cheerfulness, willingness, freewill) service, agape love, and a personal (father-child) relationship with their Redeemer (Galatians 5:1, Romans 8:15). The Redeemer now guides, supports, and helps them effortlessly navigate life's challenges (Psalm 23:4, Galatians 2:20; Hebrews 13:5-6). *Even when believers sin and lose fellowship with God, their relationship remains intact,* and they can return to Him through confession and repentance (1 John 1:9, Psalm 51:1-12). You received God's beloved Son, Jesus Christ the greatest gift life has to offer without merit or expectation. He willingly, happily and cheerfully sacrificed Himself for our redemption and salvation. John 10:17,18. John 15:13;1 John 3:16. He has shown us an example that we may willingly, happily and cheerfully serve Him. 2 Corinthians 9:6,7 Don't let your mind be held captive by transactional(based on trading, give this before you get that, it most cost you something) theories, hypotheses or legalistic ideologies that fuel a relentless pursuit of self-righteousness(attempts to please or appease God through human efforts, gifts and donations). Remember and always have in mind: God has graciously given us everything we need for life and godliness, including His only begotten Son (John 3:16, 2 Peter 1:3).

BEYOND RELIGION: EMBRACING THE EASY YOKE OF JESUS CHRIST The blood of Jesus Christ is pure, sinless, spotless, precious, and perfect (1 Peter 1:19). It cleanses from sin, wipes away iniquities, and transforms sinners into saints (Hebrews 9:14, 1 John 1:7). This blood surrenders its identities to the saint, and these identities become the saint's character (2 Peter 1:4). Salvation, also known as to be born again is not merely reciting the sinner's prayer at the point of altar call or following rules; it's a conviction by the Holy Spirit that one is a sinner condemned to eternal doom (John 16:8-11). It's a response to this conviction by surrendering one's life to Jesus Christ and trusting in His finished work on the cross (Romans 3:24-25, Ephesians 2:8-9). Believers experience a transformed life, living by faith and confidence in the forgiveness of their sins (2 Corinthians 5:17, Romans 5:1). As saints, believers are clothed with the righteousness and purity of Jesus Christ's blood (Revelation 7:14, 1 John 1:7). Though still prone to mistakes and errors due to the flesh, the blood of redemption continually cleanses, wipes and purifies them (1 John 2:1-2, 1 John 1:9). In contrast to religion, which entangles, enslaves and keeps in legalism and bondage, Jesus' yoke is easy, and His burden is light (Matthew 11:28-30). Entrance into the Redeemer's kingdom is based on faith in His finished work, not on works or adherence to man-made rules (Ephesians 2:8-9, Romans 3:28). Redemption justifies, sanctifies, acquits, translates from kingdom of doom and darkness into kingdom of light, frees believers from legalism ( sets of rigid religious rules, man made traditions, if you don't do this you won't get that, this qualifies you to get that), bringing them into freedom ( cheerfulness, willingness, freewill) service, agape love, and a personal (father-child) relationship with their Redeemer (Galatians 5:1, Romans 8:15). The Redeemer now guides, supports, and helps them effortlessly navigate life's challenges (Psalm 23:4, Galatians 2:20; Hebrews 13:5-6). *Even when believers sin and lose fellowship with God, their relationship remains intact,* and they can return to Him through confession and repentance (1 John 1:9, Psalm 51:1-12). You received God's beloved Son, Jesus Christ the greatest gift life has to offer without merit or expectation. He willingly, happily and cheerfully sacrificed Himself for our redemption and salvation. John 10:17,18. John 15:13;1 John 3:16. He has shown us an example that we may willingly, happily and cheerfully serve Him. 2 Corinthians 9:6,7 Don't let your mind be held captive by transactional(based on trading, give this before you get that, it most cost you something) theories, hypotheses or legalistic ideologies that fuel a relentless pursuit of self-righteousness(attempts to please or appease God through human efforts, gifts and donations). Remember and always have in mind: God has graciously given us everything we need for life and godliness, including His only begotten Son (John 3:16, 2 Peter 1:3).

Influence of Culture on Health Culture and health are intricately linked, influencing one another in complex ways. What is Culture? Culture refers to the shared patterns of ideas, customs, and behaviors of a particular group or society. It's dynamic, evolving, and learned through generations. Culture encompasses various aspects, including: • Ethnicity: Shared heritage, traditions, and values • Language: Verbal and non-verbal communication • Religion and Spiritual Beliefs: Faith, rituals, and practices • Socio-economic Class: Economic status, education, and occupation • Age: Generational differences and experiences • Sexual Orientation: Identity, community, and relationships • Geographic Origin: Regional customs, climate, and environment • Group History: Collective experiences, memories, and narratives • Education: Formal and informal learning, knowledge, and skills • Upbringing: Family, community, and socialization How Culture Influences Health Culture affects health in numerous ways¹: • Perceptions of Health and Illness: Cultural beliefs shape understanding of health, disease, and wellness • Health-seeking Behavior: Cultural factors influence when and how patients seek medical help • Treatment Adherence: Cultural values impact patients' willingness to follow treatment plans • Communication: Cultural differences affect patient-provider interactions and understanding • Health Outcomes: Cultural factors contribute to health disparities and inequities

EFCC ARRESTS AISHA ACHIMUGU AT ABUJA AIRPORT, SEE WHAT SHE DID As reported by DAILY POST, Operatives of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) arrested prominent businesswoman and socialite, Aisha Sulaiman Achimugu, early Tuesday morning at the Nnamdi Azikiwe International Airport, Abuja. According to her legal team, Achimugu returned voluntarily from London and was taken into custody at approximately 5:00 a.m. The arrest comes amid an ongoing EFCC investigation into alleged criminal conspiracy and money laundering. Her lawyer confirmed that she had informed the Federal High Court in Abuja, through sworn documents, of her intent to visit the EFCC on Tuesday, April 29, 2025. This was in compliance with a court order issued by Justice Inyang Ekwo, mandating her appearance before the anti-graft agency. Justice Ekwo had ruled earlier that Achimugu must present herself before the EFCC to assist in its inquiries. Additionally, the court instructed that she appear before it on Wednesday, April 30, 2025, to continue legal proceedings tied to the case. Details of the specific allegations remain unclear, but the case has drawn public attention given Achimugu’s profile in both the business and social circles. The EFCC has yet to release an official statement regarding the arrest or charges. However, sources close to the investigation suggest that her questioning is connected to financial transactions flagged during broader anti-corruption probes. Achimugu’s legal team has urged respect for her rights and emphasized her willingness to cooperate fully with the authorities. As of press time, she remains in EFCC custody. #breakingnews #news

🚨 Kevin De Bruyne Wanted to Stay at Man City, But the Club Didn’t OFFER Him a Contract Despite His Willingness to Continue on the Same Terms 🥺💔⬇️ 🗣️ Kevin De Bruyne: "There was a bit of shock when I found out. I hadn’t received any offer from them the entire year, and Manchester City made their decision. Obviously, I was a bit surprised, but I have to accept it. Honestly, I still believe I can perform at a high level, like I’ve been showing, but I understand that clubs have to make decisions…" "I still feel I have a lot to offer. I know I'm not 25 anymore, but I still feel capable of doing my job." "I’m open to anything next because I need to consider the bigger picture — sporting reasons, family, everything together. I’ll make the decision that makes the most sense for me and my family." "Man City told me their decision, but I can’t really speak to what they’re thinking internally. I still feel good, I've played more than I did last season, except for the hernia. I’m in good shape, and my rhythm is coming back." "I don’t feel the need to share the exact reasons behind their decision because, at the end of the day, it’s more about business for them. It wasn’t really a long conversation; they just told me their decision. I have to accept the situation, even though I believe I can still do a good job. That’s it." 💔 Thoughts? ⬇️