“I got married at 22. People say that’s too early. But in our time, we were not afraid of responsibility. We didn’t need big weddings or social media validation. We understood that marriage is not just love; it’s patience, respect, and endurance. I’ve been married for over 50 years. Have we had problems? Yes. But we never saw divorce as the first option. Young people today want perfection, but marriage is not for perfect people. It’s for people who are ready to grow together. That’s why I’m still standing strong—not just in film, but in family too.” — Pete Edochie

MY BEST FRIEND SLEPT WITH MY HUSBAND… ON OUR WEDDING NIGHT. They danced at my wedding like angels. But they had already shared a bed before the cake was even cut… Weddings are supposed to be magical, right? Mine was. The dress was white. The hall sparkled. The guests cried. My best friend, Sheila, held my hand while I did my makeup, whispering, “You’re about to live every girl’s dream, Amara.” She was my best friend for 14 years. We shared clothes, secrets, and even heartbreaks. She was the one who introduced me to Deji, my now-husband. And the moment he walked into my life, I should have known — something would break. But love is blind. And sometimes… love is also stupid. The wedding was perfect. Almost too perfect. Deji looked like a prince in his white agbada. He couldn’t stop smiling when I walked down the aisle. I saw tears in his eyes — or maybe I imagined them. Sheila was my maid of honor. She kept fixing my veil, making sure everything was flawless. We even joked about her being next. But that night, after the crowd had gone… something strange happened. Deji said he was exhausted. We didn’t even… you know. On our wedding night. He kissed my forehead and said, “Let’s rest. It’s been a long day.” I brushed it off. Maybe he was tired. At 2:13 AM, I woke up. Deji wasn’t in bed. I went downstairs. The house was quiet. Until I heard a soft giggle from the guest room. Sheila’s voice. I froze. I didn’t open the door. I couldn’t. Instead, I tiptoed back upstairs, heart pounding like a funeral drum. Maybe I was paranoid. Maybe she was on the phone? But the next morning, Sheila avoided eye contact. Deji barely touched me. The honeymoon we planned to Mauritius was postponed suddenly — work issues, he claimed. Sheila left that afternoon, saying, “I’m proud of you, bestie. Enjoy your new life.” She hugged me tightly. She smelled like Deji’s cologne. I didn’t confront anyone. I wasn’t even sure of what I felt. But six months into the marriage, I found out the truth — not from Deji, not from Sheila… But from a message. An anonymous account sent me screenshots. A picture of them — in my wedding room. On the bed that still had petals from my bridal night. The caption read: “Your best friend took her share first.” I stared at the image for five hours. I couldn’t breathe. My stomach twisted. My body felt cold. When Deji got home, I showed him the image. He said nothing. Just stared. “Say something!” I screamed. He whispered, “It was a mistake… she came into the room to check something. It just happened. We were drunk.” I slapped him. Mistake? On our wedding night? I called Sheila. She denied nothing. “I loved him before you,” she said coldly. “I introduced him to you because I thought he’d get over me. But he didn’t.” “Then why stand beside me as I married him?” I screamed. Her answer? “So I could watch him say vows I knew he’d break.” I packed my bags that night. I needed air. Clarity. Peace. But peace doesn’t come when betrayal breathes down your neck. It wasn’t just about sex. It was about trust. It was about standing in front of two people I called my forever — and realizing I was just the placeholder. But the real shock? A month after I left, Sheila sent me a wedding invitation. She’s marrying Deji. In the same hall. Wearing my dress. But she doesn’t know… I never really left. And on her wedding night, I’ll be the one holding the camera. Let’s see how betrayal tastes on her tongue To be continued

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CHURCH MEMBERSHIP ETHICS ⛪ “Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it.” – 1 Corinthians 12:27 Being a faithful and committed church member reflects your love for Christ and maturity as a believer. Church membership is not a mere formality—it is a covenant responsibility before God. Below are essential principles that govern healthy, biblical church membership: 1. BE A MEMBER OF ONLY ONE CHURCH “No one can serve two masters...” – Matthew 6:24 Being planted in one local church is a mark of loyalty and order. Divided loyalty weakens your spiritual growth and creates confusion. Choose where God has led you, plant yourself there, and flourish. Dual membership is like a divided heart—it brings instability and robs both churches of your full commitment. 2. RESPECT OTHER CHURCHES “Let nothing be done through selfish ambition...” – Philippians 2:3 Never fish from another church’s pond. Evangelism is about reaching the unsaved, not draining other congregations. God honors soul-winning, not sheep-stealing. Instead of trying to attract members from smaller churches, invest your energy into outreach. Strengthen the Body by building, not by weakening others. 3. HELP MAKE YOUR CHURCH BETTER “Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” – Matthew 6:21 Every church has room to grow—including yours. Don't jump ship because of imperfections. Be part of the solution. Serve with joy, contribute your gifts, and work with leadership to make things better. God places you in a church not to observe, but to contribute. 4. STOP LOOKING FOR THE PERFECT CHURCH “There is none righteous, no, not one.” – Romans 3:10 A perfect church doesn’t exist—because people aren’t perfect. The goal isn’t perfection, but progress. Every church is a work in progress, just like you. Rather than chasing perfection, commit to growth and maturity where you are. 5. MAKING SUGGESTIONS WITH THE RIGHT HEART “Let all things be done decently and in order.” – 1 Corinthians 14:40 As a member, your voice matters. Offer your ideas with humility and a willingness to participate in their implementation. And if leadership doesn’t take them on board, respond with grace. Suggestions are not commands; they are offerings, not ultimatums. 6. YOUR ACTIONS IMPACT THE BODY “If one member suffers, all the members suffer with it.” – 1 Corinthians 12:26 The church is not a club—it’s a body. Every act of faithfulness or carelessness sends a ripple through the entire congregation. Your absence, presence, encouragement, or discouragement has an effect. Think beyond yourself. You are part of something much bigger. 7. GIVE TO YOUR LOCAL CHURCH “Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse...” – Malachi 3:10 Your financial giving should support the church that feeds and shepherds you. Supporting other ministries is good, but your first responsibility is your local church. Like eating at one restaurant and paying at another—misplaced giving weakens the house that serves you. 8. LET YOUR PASTOR OFFICIATE YOUR LIFE EVENTS “Let the elders who rule well be counted worthy of double honor...” – 1 Timothy 5:17 For weddings, dedications, or blessings, involve your own pastor. This shows honor, consistency, and accountability. Your pastor is spiritually responsible for you—so they should be present in your major life milestones. 9. LEAVE A CHURCH HONORABLY, IF YOU MUST “First go and be reconciled to them...” – Matthew 5:24 If God leads you to another church, do not disappear quietly. Speak to your leaders. Seek peace and receive their blessing. Don't gossip, criticize, or take others with you. Leaving in offense creates spiritual baggage. Leave as a peacemaker, not a troublemaker. 10. DON’T LEAVE BECAUSE OF CORRECTION “If someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently.” – Galatians 6:1 Rebuke is a sign of care. When your leaders confront your sin, receive it with humility. Running away only hardens your heart and delays growth. True discipleship requires correction. A loving church disciplines because it desires your restoration. 11. IMPERFECT PASTORS STILL SERVE A PERFECT GOD “We have this treasure in jars of clay...” – 2 Corinthians 4:7 Your pastor will make mistakes. Don’t expect flawless leadership. God uses flawed vessels to accomplish His perfect will. What matters most is their heart for God, not their human limitations. Extend the same grace you want to receive. 12. DISCIPLESHIP IS NOT A BURDEN—IT’S A BLESSING “Go therefore and make disciples...” – Matthew 28:19 Discipleship is the heartbeat of spiritual maturity. If you are offended by structure, correction, or accountability, ask yourself if you truly want to grow. Emotion is not a good compass—let God’s Word guide your decisions. Growth requires intentional effort and sometimes discomfort. LOVE, SERVE, AND BUILD “They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship...” – Acts 2:42 Your church is your spiritual family. Love it, serve it, and build it. Your faithfulness strengthens others. Your consistency honors God. Don’t be a visitor in your own house—be a pillar in the house of the Lord. Support your church. Celebrate your church. Be the church. God bless you!

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"She looks like Priscilla o" Nigerians react to billionaire Obi Jackson's daughter's custom-made dress for her Traditional Wedding. The cost of oil magnate Obi Jackson's daughter's traditional wedding dress has made its way online. The beautiful union between Kene, the bride, and her groom has been the talk of the town as the couple reportedly shut down Anambra. There were several highlights, and the wedding trended for various reasons, but the cost of the bride’s traditional ceremony topped the list. Photo credit - Igboweddings, Tubo__ (Instagram)

Obi Jackson's daughter, Kenchukwu, recently got married to Emma Bishop Okonkwo in a grand ceremony held at Obi Jackson's Estate in Okija, Anambra State. The wedding was a lavish affair that showcased the family's wealth and cultural heritage. Here are some highlights ¹ ²: - *Grand Entrance*: Kenchukwu made a stunning entrance on a 24-carat gold-plated palanquin, styled like a throne, carried by six men. The grand entrance was accompanied by traditional drummers and was captured in a viral video that racked up over 3 million views on social media. - *Luxurious Celebrations*: The wedding welcomed over 500 A-list guests, including governors, business moguls, Nollywood stars, and international dignitaries. Luxury cars lined the compound, and security was tight, reflecting the status of one of Nigeria's most influential families. - *Cultural Significance*: The ceremony held strong cultural relevance, incorporating core Igbo rites and traditions. Elders performed blessings, while dancers and masquerades entertained guests, reinforcing the family's roots in Igbo culture. - *Social Media Buzz*: The wedding generated significant attention on social media, with many praising the bride's grand entrance and the family's display of wealth and cultural pride. Some notable comments include ³ ⁴: - *"This isn't a wedding, this is a coronation!"* - *"Only Obi Jackson's daughter can pull this off in gold and still look like an angel."* - *"What I see is competitive wedding all around."* Overall, the wedding was a testament to the family's wealth, influence, and cultural heritage, and it will likely be remembered as one of the most extravagant weddings of the year.

SHOULD YOU DO A COURT WEDDING? (PART 1) Dear Anonymous Brother, There are three recognized types of marriages in Nigeria: 1. Statutory Marriage (or marriage Under the Act) • Conducted under the Marriage Act in a government-approved registry (not court) or church licensed for statutory weddings. (Some churches have government licenses to conduct this however, most churches don’t have license for this). 2. Customary Marriage • Conducted according to the traditions and customs of the ethnic groups involved. • Typically includes the payment of bride price and traditional rites. 3. Islamic Marriage • Performed according to Islamic (Sharia) law. • Requires a bride price (Sadaq) and a Nikah (marriage contract). I want to believe that the reason you’re having reservations about statutory wedding or marriage under the act (not court wedding as people call it) is because of the consequences and rigors of divorce. Most men are scared of statutory wedding because, in the case of divorce, properties are bound to be split, child custody laws may not favour them, and the consequence of polygamy (because the law prohibits that). If this is the case, I can boldly tell you that you’re entering marriage with the wrong mentality. You’re most likely going to end in divorce when conflict arises because you created room for it before entering the marriage. (Don’t forget that conflict must arise whether you like it or not). Note: Statutory weddings are not legally called court weddings. They are conducted in a marriage registry, a place of worship or any place of your choice by an authorized marriage registrar or licensed minister of a church. However, divorce can only take place in a high court or court with a higher jurisdiction. To be continued……… #relationshipcoach #marriagecounselor #lovebankers

WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT, READ THIS AND LEARN. "Dad, can you loan me Five Hundred Thousand Naira?" Kola asked his father. "What for son?", his father asked. "For my wedding. By our calculations, we're falling short meeting the cost". Kola had come to meet his parents with his fiancé. "Your wedding? How much is the total cost of the wedding?", his father asked. "N3.6 million. We're thinking of starting the committee next week. We can together give about eight hundred thousand and expect our friends to help us raise about two million. I remember you told me if ever I need help I can come to you" Kola answered. His father held him by the shoulder and said "Go get your wife and come meet me at my study room". "Yes dad", Kola obliged. Minutes later, Kola and his fiancé,Tomilayo walked into his father's study room. "Having a good time my daughter?" Kola's father asked. "Yes I am. You and your wife are so hospitable. I pray that Kola and I can emulate your marriage. You are an admirable couple" answered Kola's fiance. "Thank you. I am delighted to have you as my daughter. This is your home, you're welcome anytime", said father. They sat down. "Thank you dad" "So, I hear you want to spend N3.6 million for your wedding and you need me to help with five hundred thousand?", asked father. "Yes, we will greatly appreciate" said the fiancé. "The wedding will be at the Total Garden Ibadan in about six months time", said Kola. "Why do you want to have a big wedding?", father asked. "Well, it's our big day. She's always dreamt of a big wedding", Kola replied. "Have you dreamt of a big wedding or a strong marriage?", The father asked the fiancé. "When you put it that way, it's more of a strong marriage" said the fiancé. "Good. You've answered wisely. So who do you expect to come for your wedding?", asked the father. "Friends and relatives. About seven hundred people", answered Kola. "How many true friends do you really have?", I mean friends who have been tried and tested to be there for you through thick and thin?, asked the father. Kola and Tomilayo looked at each other. "Countable", the fiancé answered. "So who are these other people who will come to your wedding?", asked the father. Silence. "OK. Let's go to the relatives. I know you love your relatives, but how many are really close to you? You barely talk with the many relatives you have", said the father. "What are you trying to say dad?" asked Kola. "My son, my daughter; why do you want to spend N3.6 million on a wedding, a one day event yet you need the money in your marriage? Look, you are actually coming to ask me for money, you will form a committee to ask people for money; all to show off and please people who will not even matter in your marriage" Silence. The father continued, "Let me share with you my experience. When I married your mother, we spent about a million for the wedding. That was a lot of money then. We fed people, got stressed by service providers, just so that we put up a wedding that will win the applause of a crowd. But as soon as we got married, the crowd disappeared. All the issues that your mother and I went through, no one cared, even family couldn't do much. Every one is busy living their life. When things got tough, the crowd gossiped about us, some even seemed happy that our marriage was in trouble" Silence. "I have seen this script repeated over and over. Brides get stressed on their wedding day, they can't even enjoy, couples being angry at friends who don't support them financially, the worst part is starting marriage in debt or struggling financially. Do you know a wedding doesn't have to cost so much, it doesn't have to be stressful, it doesn't have to be full of people who perhaps will never talk to you again?" added the father. "But dad, what will people think if we do a small wedding or we don't invite them?"asked the fiancé. "Are you getting married for people? If you have a small wedding with only the witnesses who matter, will you two not be married? What is all this competition of who has a grand wedding for? People are competing on Facebook, in weddings; why this need to show off? You know that money you are about to blow in one day, you can use it to invest in your marriage, you can start the process of buying or building a home, you can save up for the needs of the children you will have because you need money to raise a family. Why not start your marriage financially healthy and not in debt? Marriage is what is more important than a wedding", continued the father. "Dad, if you don't want to support us it's okay", said Kola. The fiancé stopped him saying, "No my love, dad has a point. I actually find the idea of a small wedding not just wise and economical, but also intimate. Marriage is just you and me, not people". The father spoke, "My son, in all the years you have been a man, you have never come to me asking for money, but now you are asking for money to put up a show? I look further, I look at your marriage. I admire how people come together in a wedding committee to raise money and I wonder, what if couples and people use that same energy to put up a business that will uplift families. Those members who will be part of your wedding committee, imagine if they become your investors, imagine if you build a company where you can make profit and feed your homes. Something sustainable." Kola and his fiancé nodded. "My son, I have longed for the day you would come and ask me to invest in your business idea. But today I will make the first move", the father said taking his cheque book from his drawer. He wrote on the cheque then gave it to the fiancé. "Here my son, this is a cheque of five million naira, not for your wedding but as start up capital for a business of your choice. I am giving the cheque to your wife because as the Proverbs 31 woman said, she is to walk with you in building an empire for your family. Focus on your family, give your family the best; forget about the public and opinions of people who don't matter. Build a future for your family. Build your family on a foundation of surplus not debt". "Thank you so much" said the fiancé. Kola stood up with tears in his eyes. His father stood up too. The father and son hugged. "Thank you dad for being a great figure and your counsel. I don't know what to say. You have challenged me not to merely get married but to have a vision, a vision for my family. I don't know what to say" he spoke. The father held his shoulder, "You will make a great husband and father. I wish I had the same counsel when I was getting married, all those people I fed on my wedding day didn't add value to my marriage. 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