Hey all! My husband and I have been married for 9 years but together for 17. We’ve had many ups and downs and almost didn’t make it a few times prior to getting married. To make a VERY long story short..over the years of being together I’ve started resenting him for the way he treats me. It’s not abusive or anything..he’s just a business man and has that mentality in life. He also claims he wants his wife to be his best friend but really doesn’t treat me that way. He hardly ever responds to text, is judgmental, compares us/me to other couples/wives, etc… The past 2 or so years our relationship has really gone downhill..more recently he has made comments about the possibility of separating for a bit. He also says things like, I’m in my 40s, if this is not what you want anymore just let me go..he said this again last night and was genuine, not harsh, not argumentative..just truthful. I almost felt like he wanted me to say ok, then I’m done. This has happened multiple times. He acts like it’s not what he wants but it basically seeing if it’s what I want..or at least it feels that way. I was telling my one person that I can confide in and she was PISSED for me. Saying it’s very manipulative and mentally abusive. I absolutely respect her judgement and I can be a bit naive at times.
Thoughts?! Is she right? She knows him well so maybe there isn’t enough context here to judge. She has always thought he was sort of manipulative.

"Thank you, Mr. Tunji Malomo, for your bold and well-articulated piece. Only those who truly know our political history and are not blinded by loyalty to individuals over the truth will understand the weight of your words.

When people accuse His Excellency Rauf Aregbesola of betrayal, one wonders: "*How long must a man be loyal before he is allowed to have a mind of his own?"* l Is loyalty slavery? Or is it mutual respect?

*Let’s take a journey through the forgotten pages of history:*

1. *Tinubu's Betrayal of Afenifere:*
The Yoruba elders of Afenifere gave Tinubu a platform when he was a political nobody. But what happened after he tasted power? He threw them aside like yesterday’s newspaper and built his personal empire. That was the first great betrayal.

2. *The Abacha Chapter* :
Many may not remember, but Tinubu once sought favour from the same Abacha he later pretended to fight against. His exile was not born of sacrifice but of disappointment when Abacha refused him. He didn’t run because of democracy; he ran because his expectations were cut short.

3. *The June 12 Deceit:*
Even the late MKO Abiola’s family can not forget how Tinubu traded the June 12 struggle for personal gain. Kola Abiola himself exposed these betrayals. While some bled for the cause, others bargained for personal survival.

4. *Oyetola vs Aregbesola - Family Over Party:*
Aregbesola built Osun APC with sweat and sacrifice. But when it was time for succession, Tinubu chose blood over merit. Oyetola, his cousin, was handed the ticket. Even the one-term gentleman’s agreement was broken. If this isn’t betrayal, then what is?

5. *Alpha Beta and the Empire of Greed:*
How many bright minds brought ideas to the Lagos political table, only for Tinubu to pocket them and claim them as his own? Alpha Beta is just one of the many examples where brains were stolen, and loyalty was betrayed for profit.

6. *Aregbesola's Years of Service:*
For almost 30 years, Aregbesola served Tinubu with unquestionable loyalty. From the trenches of NADECO to the corridors of Lagos State, from Osun’s political storms to APC’s national battles. Yet, when he asked for fairness, he was branded a traitor...."

And Esabod Cried

Today, for the first time, I find myself writing about Mama Esabod (Madam Tokunbo Aboderin).

I saw her cry, and it moved me deeply. It brought tears to my own eyes.

Behind the bold, outspoken persona that many see is a woman who had to fight really hard to be heard.

Her tears peeled back the layers, revealing years of oppression, lack, and the struggle to find her voice in a world that often silences women like her.

I’m not a fan; just an observer. But what I take from this moment is a quiet truth: everyone has a story. Life hasn’t been fair to many, and people adopt different survival tactics just to rise from the rubble.

May God help us.

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Chinedu scored 375—the highest JAMB score in history. Instead of celebrating him, JAMB is trying to erase his brilliance with talk of “state of origin and mercenary.”

Why does Nigeria fight its geniuses?

This is why the best minds flee. Our problem isn’t brain drain—it’s brain rejection.

*JUST IN *

*GODFREY OKOYE UNIVERSITY (GOUNI), ENUGU POST-UTME/DE FORM 2025/2026 IS OUT!*

Applications are now open for admission into full-time undergraduate degree programmes at Godfrey Okoye University, Enugu for the 2025/2026 academic session.

Candidates can apply via UTME, Direct Entry, JUPEB, or 1st Degree.
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I deleted the old post because the slip contained their home address.

Here is Chinedu Okeke’s local government identification letter, UNN screening slip, and WAEC result he obtained in 2021.

His local government is Njikoka Local Government in Anambra State. His place of residence is in Amuwo Odofin, Lagos.

Amuwo Odofin as his local government. He has always maintained Njikoka Local Government in Anambra State.

JAMB will pay for this reputational damage they are inflicting on this boy.

His only crime is that he is the best in the history of JAMB exams in Nigeria.

This is unfair to this hardworking youngster!


I thought Anambra State had a governor and a commissioner for education.
Why are they silent on Chinedu’s case?

~@winexviv

At a university, a professor asked his students: "If there are four birds on a tree and three of them decided to fly away, how many are left on the tree?"

Everyone answered, "One."

They were surprised when one student disagreed and said, "Four birds remain." This caught everyone's attention.

The professor asked him: "How so?"

He replied: "You said they decided to fly, but you didn't say they actually flew. Making a decision doesn't mean taking action."

And indeed, that was the correct answer.

This story reflects the lives of some people — they have many slogans and catchy words, and they shine in gatherings and among friends, but in reality, their lives don’t reflect those words.

Many people talk, but only a few act..!

Making a (decision) is one thing...

Taking (action) is something else entirely.

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