According to your birthday month which personality do you have ?
1. January: romantic ❤‍🩹
2. February: Emotional 🥹
3. March : Genius
4. April: loving
5. May : Attraction
6. June : Respectful
7. July: Funny
8. August: cute
9. September: Dangerous
10. October: Intelligent
11. November: Brave 🫡
12. December: Calm

Duties of a Chief Bridesmaid



BEFORE THE WEDDING

There are a wide range of jobs for the Chief Brides Maid to do during the months of the bride’s engagement, for instance:

1. Help the bride choose and shop for her wedding dress and accessories, as well as any change of clothes on the wedding day.

2. Help select the dresses and accessories for the bridesmaids.

3. Manage and oversee the bridesmaids, making sure they coordinate and are kept updated on all appointments, trials, fittings, decisions and schedules.

4. Act as the bride’s problem solver should any bridesmaids have any issues relating to their own roles and responsibilities.

TIP: most problems arise over money so it’s sensible to establish early on who is paying for the bridesmaid’s dresses and accessories. Nowadays there is no set rule and depends on the requirements and flexibility of the bride and the cost of the dresses. For example if the bridesmaid is a student or unemployed without an income and the bride wants her to wear an unaffordable bridesmaid’s dress that will only be worn once it is not the best idea to expect the bridesmaid to pay for her dress. Whereas if the bride is flexible and is happy for the bridesmaid to choose a dress of her own that fits the brides ideas, style and colour scheme, then it is reasonable to ask her to pay for the dress, since it is likely it will be worn again.

5. Help the bride with any wedding related DIY, for example personal signs, decorations etc.

6. Help the bride source any suppliers if asked.

7. Help coordinate and clarify travel arrangements and arrival times for wedding party with the best man.

8. Attend the wedding rehearsal if required.

DAY OF THE WEDDING

The chief bridesmaid has one of the most notable and important roles on the wedding day. Primarily she will help ensure the smooth running of the schedule on the day. She will also coordinate and work with the best man to carefully manage any potential problems, issues or areas of concern on the day.

Tasks to undertake:

1. Be prepared to act as the bride’s go-to-girl, problem solver or main point of contact.
Stay calm and be there to offer assistance to the wedding party or guests as required.

2. Help guide the other bridesmaids, flower girl and page boys when getting ready.

3. Ensure the bride eats and stays hydrated on the morning of the wedding day.

4. Be with the bride whilst she has her hair and make-up done.

5. Help the bride get into her dress.

6. Ensure the bride, bridesmaids and flower girl have and hold their bouquets.

7. Reconfirm all ceremony duties for bridesmaids, flower girls and page boys.

8. Help guide the bridal party to their respective cars to take them to the ceremony venue.

9. Leave for church in the car with the bride’s mother and the other bridesmaids.

10. Await the arrival of the bride and help her out of the car.

11. Help the bride out of the car, paying careful attention to the bouquet, dress, veil and train.

CEREMONY

1. Ensure the procession is lined up correctly.

2. Assist the bride with arranging/adjusting her dress, train and veil before she walks down the aisle.

3. Follow the bride and her father in the Processional, along with the bridesmaids down the aisle.

4. Help the bride arrange her train and veil at the altar.
Possibly take back the brides veil during the ceremony.

5. Hold the bride’s bouquet during the ceremony.

6. Make sure the other bridesmaids, flower girls and page boys are in place.
Be responsible for the flower girl (if there is one).

7. Witness the signing of the register if required.

8. Replace the bride’s veil, if requested.
Hand back the bride’s bouquet before she departs with her new husband during the Recessional.

9. Depart the ceremony venue with the best man, along with the bridesmaids and ushers.

10. Help distribute confetti after the ceremony for photo opportunities.

11. Be prepared to help guide and assist guests to the reception.

12. Leave the church accompanied by the best man after the bride and groom.

13. Depart for the reception with any other bridesmaids and best man after the bride and groom.

RECEPTION

1. Be on hand to assist the bride as required throughout the wedding day, making sure she has everything she needs.

2. Assist the bride throughout the day to ensure her appearance, hair, makeup, dress, train and veil are in order.

3. Be responsible for the bride’s bouquet.

4. Help get people organised for photographs.

5. Help receive and store the wedding gifts.

6. Be part of the receiving line, if there is one.

7. Maybe make a short speech and a toast to the bride and groom.

8. Help the bride with a change of clothes, if required, after the reception and before the evening celebrations.

9. Assist the bride (and groom) when they depart at the end of the night. For example, a change of clothes; managing any special requests or surprises; ensuring all guests know the bride and groom are departing and to gather them for a final send-off; ensuring their transport is punctual and as required.

10. Ensure the bride and groom’s luggage, champagne and flowers are delivered to their bridal suite and that the bridal suite is as required.

11. Ensure wedding gifts are removed accordingly or stored safely.

12. Ensure any items left behind by wedding party or guests are stored safely.

AFTER THE WEDDING
1. Assist the bride in returning any hired items.

2. Help the bride retrieve any personal items stored at the venue.

Duties of a Chief Bridesmaid


BEFORE THE WEDDING

There are a wide range of jobs for the Chief Brides Maid to do during the months of the bride’s engagement, for instance:

1. Help the bride choose and shop for her wedding dress and accessories, as well as any change of clothes on the wedding day.

2. Help select the dresses and accessories for the bridesmaids.

3. Manage and oversee the bridesmaids, making sure they coordinate and are kept updated on all appointments, trials, fittings, decisions and schedules.

4. Act as the bride’s problem solver should any bridesmaids have any issues relating to their own roles and responsibilities.

TIP: most problems arise over money so it’s sensible to establish early on who is paying for the bridesmaid’s dresses and accessories. Nowadays there is no set rule and depends on the requirements and flexibility of the bride and the cost of the dresses. For example if the bridesmaid is a student or unemployed without an income and the bride wants her to wear an unaffordable bridesmaid’s dress that will only be worn once it is not the best idea to expect the bridesmaid to pay for her dress. Whereas if the bride is flexible and is happy for the bridesmaid to choose a dress of her own that fits the brides ideas, style and colour scheme, then it is reasonable to ask her to pay for the dress, since it is likely it will be worn again.

5. Help the bride with any wedding related DIY, for example personal signs, decorations etc.

6. Help the bride source any suppliers if asked.

7. Help coordinate and clarify travel arrangements and arrival times for wedding party with the best man.

8. Attend the wedding rehearsal if required.

DAY OF THE WEDDING

The chief bridesmaid has one of the most notable and important roles on the wedding day. Primarily she will help ensure the smooth running of the schedule on the day. She will also coordinate and work with the best man to carefully manage any potential problems, issues or areas of concern on the day.

Tasks to undertake:

1. Be prepared to act as the bride’s go-to-girl, problem solver or main point of contact.
Stay calm and be there to offer assistance to the wedding party or guests as required.

2. Help guide the other bridesmaids, flower girl and page boys when getting ready.

3. Ensure the bride eats and stays hydrated on the morning of the wedding day.

4. Be with the bride whilst she has her hair and make-up done.

5. Help the bride get into her dress.

6. Ensure the bride, bridesmaids and flower girl have and hold their bouquets.

7. Reconfirm all ceremony duties for bridesmaids, flower girls and page boys.

8. Help guide the bridal party to their respective cars to take them to the ceremony venue.

9. Leave for church in the car with the bride’s mother and the other bridesmaids.

10. Await the arrival of the bride and help her out of the car.

11. Help the bride out of the car, paying careful attention to the bouquet, dress, veil and train.

CEREMONY

1. Ensure the procession is lined up correctly.

2. Assist the bride with arranging/adjusting her dress, train and veil before she walks down the aisle.

3. Follow the bride and her father in the Processional, along with the bridesmaids down the aisle.

4. Help the bride arrange her train and veil at the altar.
Possibly take back the brides veil during the ceremony.

5. Hold the bride’s bouquet during the ceremony.

6. Make sure the other bridesmaids, flower girls and page boys are in place.
Be responsible for the flower girl (if there is one).

7. Witness the signing of the register if required.

8. Replace the bride’s veil, if requested.
Hand back the bride’s bouquet before she departs with her new husband during the Recessional.

9. Depart the ceremony venue with the best man, along with the bridesmaids and ushers.

10. Help distribute confetti after the ceremony for photo opportunities.

11. Be prepared to help guide and assist guests to the reception.

12. Leave the church accompanied by the best man after the bride and groom.

13. Depart for the reception with any other bridesmaids and best man after the bride and groom.

RECEPTION

1. Be on hand to assist the bride as required throughout the wedding day, making sure she has everything she needs.

2. Assist the bride throughout the day to ensure her appearance, hair, makeup, dress, train and veil are in order.

3. Be responsible for the bride’s bouquet.

4. Help get people organised for photographs.

5. Help receive and store the wedding gifts.

6. Be part of the receiving line, if there is one.

7. Maybe make a short speech and a toast to the bride and groom.

8. Help the bride with a change of clothes, if required, after the reception and before the evening celebrations.

9. Assist the bride (and groom) when they depart at the end of the night. For example, a change of clothes; managing any special requests or surprises; ensuring all guests know the bride and groom are departing and to gather them for a final send-off; ensuring their transport is punctual and as required.

10. Ensure the bride and groom’s luggage, champagne and flowers are delivered to their bridal suite and that the bridal suite is as required.

11. Ensure wedding gifts are removed accordingly or stored safely.

12. Ensure any items left behind by wedding party or guests are stored safely.

AFTER THE WEDDING
1. Assist the bride in returning any hired items.

2. Help the bride retrieve any personal items stored at the venue.

Breaking News: “Nothing Wrong If An Actor Wants S£x From An Actress for Movie Roles So Far He Doesn’t Force Her”–Yoruba Actor Dele Odule

–Lagos Reporters

Veteran Yoruba actor, Dele Odule, has stirred public debate following his remarks on the controversial issue of s£x-for-roles in the Nigerian movie industry, saying it is not wrong for an actor to request a relationship from an actress in exchange for a movie role provided there is no coercion involved.

Odule made the statement during an interview on Oyinmomo TV’s official YouTube channel, where he offered a personal perspective on what has become a recurring concern in Nollywood.

“I don't agree that actors can ask actresses to have an affair with them before giving them movie roles because if such happens, it means the actress already has an interest in doing it,” he said.

The actor, known for his decades-long contributions to the Yoruba film industry, clarified that in any normal society where men and women interact, romantic or sexual advances are bound to happen. According to him, what matters is mutual consent.

“In a society where there are men and women, it is normal that they will approach each other for relationships, but it has to come with mutual agreement between a man and a woman because a woman always has the choice to agree or disagree,” he stated.

Odule emphasized that it only becomes a legal or moral issue when force is applied, noting that coercion or exploitation is punishable under the law.

“Nothing wrong if an actor wants s£x from an actress for movie roles so far he doesn't force her. It only becomes illegal when force is applied, which is punishable under law.”

His remarks have sparked mixed reactions online, with some Nigerians accusing the actor of normalizing exploitation in the industry, while others argue that his comments simply reflect the reality of adult relationships and consent.

As the entertainment industry continues to wrestle with issues of ethics, professionalism, and abuse of power, Odule’s comments may further ignite conversations around how boundaries are defined and respected in Nollywood.

Lagos Reporters will continue to follow public and industry responses to this developing story.

"MY DRIVER’S TONGUE KNOWS MY BODY MORE THAN MY HUSBAND DOES"

Episode 1: The Night It All Began

It started with a storm—literal and emotional.

My husband had just left for another offshore trip—six weeks on the oil rig, leaving me alone in our duplex in Port Harcourt. The silence in the house was always louder when he left. No affection. No goodbye kiss. Just a nod and a suitcase.

Enter Tony—our new driver.
Tall. Built like a man carved from hardwood. Dark-skinned with a tribal mark that only made his eyes more intense. Quiet. Respectful. But there was something under the surface. A tension. A hunger.

He never said more than “Good morning, ma” or “We don reach, ma.”
But his eyes?
They said everything.

One Thursday evening, the rain started early. Heavy. Loud. My car broke down at Genesis Junction, and Tony came down, shirt soaked, muscles pressing against the thin fabric.

“Madam, the fan belt don cut,” he said, breathless.

I was cold. Shivering. Drenched.
“I can’t sit here in this rain. What now?” I snapped.

“Make we go hotel small, make rain stop,” he offered.

We checked into a small place—one bed, one fan, no questions.
I changed into the only dry thing available—his white shirt.
No bra. No shame.
He watched me fr"MY DRIVER’S TONGUE KNOWS MY BODY MORE THAN MY HUSBAND DOES"

Episode 1: The Night It All Began

It started with a storm—literal and emotional.

My husband had just left for another offshore trip—six weeks on the oil rig, leaving me alone in our duplex in Port Harcourt. The silence in the house was always louder when he left. No affection. No goodbye kiss. Just a nod and a suitcase.

Enter Tony—our new driver.
Tall. Built like a man carved from hardwood. Dark-skinned with a tribal mark that only made his eyes more intense. Quiet. Respectful. But there was something under the surface. A tension. A hunger.

He never said more than “Good morning, ma” or “We don reach, ma.”
But his eyes?
They said everything.

One Thursday evening, the rain started early. Heavy. Loud. My car broke down at Genesis Junction, and Tony came down, shirt soaked, muscles pressing against the thin fabric.

“Madam, the fan belt don cut,” he said, breathless.

I was cold. Shivering. Drenched.
“I can’t sit here in this rain. What now?” I snapped.

“Make we go hotel small, make rain stop,” he offered.

We checked into a small place—one bed, one fan, no questions.
I changed into the only dry thing available—his white shirt.
No bra. No shame.
He watched me from the corner. His hands in his pockets. His jaw clenched.

“You want to keep pretending you’re not looking?” I asked.

He said nothing. Just walked toward me slowly.
When he reached me, he didn’t ask permission.

His lips met mine with a force that melted the cold away.
His tongue—hot, commanding—searched me like he had studied my body in dreams.

I gasped as he carried me to the bed, shirt open, nipplés already begging.
He knelt before me, spread my thighs like scripture, and began to worship.

He took his time. Like he knew no man had ever done it right.
And when I came, legs trembling, fingers clutching the sheets, I knew...

Tony wasn’t just a driver.
He was a deliverance.

Part 2: Rainy Day Confessions

We stayed in that room foom the corner. His hands in his pockets. His jaw clenched.

“You want to keep pretending you’re not looking?” I asked.

He said nothing. Just walked toward me slowly.
When he reached me, he didn’t ask permission.

His lips met mine with a force that melted the cold away.
His tongue—hot, commanding—searched me like he had studied my body in dreams.

I gasped as he carried me to the bed, shirt open, nipplés already begging.
He knelt before me, spread my thighs like scripture, and began to worship.

He took his time. Like he knew no man had ever done it right.
And when I came, legs trembling, fingers clutching the sheets, I knew...

Tony wasn’t just a driver.
He was a deliverance.

Part 2: Rainy Day Confessions

We stayed in that room fo

*ARISE AND SHINE *
*[Ephesians 5:8]*
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*[ALL THINGS MADE NEW]*
*[WHAT IS YOUR MOTIVATION TO SUCCEED?]*
To succeed is a right intention, but the
motivation to succeed may be wrong...
*[NLT- Ecclesiastes 4:4 Then I observed that most people are motivated to succeed because they envy their neighbors. But this, too, is meaningless-like chasing the wind.]*
Some pray to be blessed by God "so that my enemies shall be put to shame." Others strive to succeed 'so that my mates will respect me.'
Still others, become diligent "so that I'l be greater than my mate." These are not proper motivations for success.
Beloved, as you strive for excellence unto the glory of our excellent God, may the grace to excel be multiplied unto you, in Jesus' name.
Amen.
*#ChildrenOfLight*

Dear Broken Heart, You Still Deserve Gentle Things”

Just because someone didn’t value your love doesn’t mean your love wasn’t valuable.

Heartbreak can make us hard. It teaches us to guard, to retreat, to expect the worst. But your softness is not a weakness. Your openness is not a flaw. You loved with depth, and that is a gift.

Allow yourself to grieve the dream, the future you imagined, the time you gave. But don’t let the pain convince you that you are not worthy of love again. You are. Not just any love—but a steady, respectful, honest kind of love. The kind that doesn’t play with your heart, doesn’t silence your needs, doesn’t require shrinking.

Rest. Cry. Laugh again when you’re ready. The right person won’t just love you—they’ll recognize the strength it took to still believe in love.

I hope you meet someone who is unafraid to tell you how they feel. I hope you meet someone who means it when they say, ‘I love you’. Someone who is all actions and honest gestures rather than excuses and silence. Someone who is generous with everything that they do for you.

I hope you meet someone who doesn’t think twice before picking up the phone to call you and apologize even if it wasn’t their fault.
Someone who puts their ego aside so they can put your relationship first.
I hope you meet someone who has no boundaries when it comes to their love and respect for you, but also knows where to draw the line if you’re testing their patience.

I hope you meet someone who is as crazy about starry nights and wild adventures as they are about you.
Someone who secretly cries during sad movies and gets upset when you don’t say ‘I love you’ before you cut the phone.
I hope you meet someone who isn’t perfect but tries hard to be a better person for themselves, and for you.
Someone who accepts that relationships aren’t easy but they choose to work on this one over and over again.

I hope you meet someone who never gives up on you, no matter what. I hope you meet someone who means it when they say that they will stay.

SEASONS TO NOTE WHEN DATING
Not Every “Sweet” Season Leads To Marriage!

Dating isn’t just a straight road to the altar. It comes in seasons, and if you’re not discerning, you may commit to the wrong person or leave someone right for you.

Here are the 4 key seasons every dating couple goes through and what to watch out for:

1. THE HONEY SEASON (Excitement Phase)

This is when everything feels perfect. The frequent late-night calls, butterflies in your tummy, sweet words, constant attention, and nothing is ever wrong about this person at this phase.

They seem like your answered prayer and the best thing that has ever happened to you.

At this phase, you need to be aware of those that show their best side, not their real side.
NEVER make long-term decisions in this phase. Enjoy it, but stay alert.

2. THE STORMY SEASON (Conflict Phase)

Here, disagreements begin to arise. You begin to see attitudes, temper, communication style and how they react under pressure.

This is the time to note if they handle conflict with maturity or manipulation.

You should find out if both of you talk things through respectfully.

This season reveals emotional intelligence, which is a must for marriage.

3. THE SILENT SEASON (Distance Phase)

At this phase, the energy suddenly drops. Calls are reduced. Excitement fades, and It feels like something’s wrong.

This is when to find out if you are emotionally connected beyond physical attraction.

Do you still enjoy each other’s company without constant entertainment?

This season tests depth. It is at this point that shallow relationships usually die.

4. THE DECISION SEASON (Clarity Phase)

This is the phase where you see them clearly. Their strengths, weaknesses, and patterns.

At this phase, you need to evaluate if you are aligned spiritually, emotionally and mentally?

Do you share the same values, goals, and faith convictions?

This is where you decide if this person is your future spouse or just a distraction.

However, you need to know that if you introduce s.e.x too early, these seasons become harder to discern, your judgement may be biased, emotions get clouded and red flags get ignored. You will begin to confuse lust for love.

Dating is not a game, it’s preparation for destiny.

*_ Atletico Madrid are negotiating with Villarreal to sign Alex Baena._*

*"Atletico's offer includes €30 million plus Riquelme, but Villarreal considers it insufficient and prefers a higher sum.*

*Baena prioritizes a move to Atletico, and Villarreal will try to respect his wishes.*

*_FOOTBALL LATEST UPDATES_*

20 UNSPOKEN RULES FOR MEN

1. Always keep your word - if you make a promise, keep it.

2. Respect women - treat them with dignity and respect.

3. Take care of your appearance - dress appropriately and maintain good hygiene.

4. Be honest - don't lie or deceive others.

5. Show respect for elders - listen to their advice and guidance.

6. Be loyal - stand by your friends and family.

7. Be responsible - take ownership of your actions and their consequences.

8. Be self-sufficient - learn to take care of yourself.

9. Learn to forgive - holding grudges only hurts you in the long run.

10. Be humble - don't brag or boast about your accomplishments.

11. Be patient - good things come to those who wait.

12. Don't be a bully - treat others with kindness and compassion.

13. Be a good listener - pay attention to what others are saying.

14. Be a good communicator - express yourself clearly and effectively.

15. Be confident - believe in yourself and your abilities.

16. Act with integrity - do the right thing, even when no one is watching.

17. Be disciplined - have self-control and focus on your goals.

18. Show gratitude - appreciate the people and things in your life.

19. Be open-minded - consider different perspectives and ideas.

20. Be a lifelong learner - never stop growing and improving yourself.