• Listen up, Men! A Woman Submits to the Man She Fears—Not the One Who Loves or Spends on Her

    You’ve been lied to. They told you that if you love a woman, spend on her, and protect her, she will respect and submit to you. But reality tells a different story.

    A man who leads with love and provision alone is setting himself up for disrespect. He asks his wife for water, and she points at the dispenser, telling him she’s not his slave. Yet, when she gets to work, her boss barely coughs, and she’s rushing to make him coffee, smiling like an obedient servant.

    Now here’s the irony—her husband gives her 10 TIMES the amount she makes at work. But who does she respect more? The boss.

    Why? Because submission is triggered by authority, not by love or financial provision. Women don’t submit to love—they submit to power.

    A woman must FEAR losing you. She must recognize that you are above her, not beside her. If she senses that you are too emotionally invested, too giving, too “understanding,” she will begin to disrespect you.

    Stop thinking money and kindness will buy loyalty. Set boundaries, demand respect, and make her EARN everything. That’s how a woman stays in her place.

    If she doesn’t respect you, walk away and let her chase a weaker man. But never become that weaker man.

    Aklahyel Goni

    #XploreGoniHQ #AklahyelGoni #XploreGoni #AlphaMindset #NoMoreSimping #MenLeadWomenFollow
    Listen up, Men! A Woman Submits to the Man She Fears—Not the One Who Loves or Spends on Her You’ve been lied to. They told you that if you love a woman, spend on her, and protect her, she will respect and submit to you. But reality tells a different story. A man who leads with love and provision alone is setting himself up for disrespect. He asks his wife for water, and she points at the dispenser, telling him she’s not his slave. Yet, when she gets to work, her boss barely coughs, and she’s rushing to make him coffee, smiling like an obedient servant. Now here’s the irony—her husband gives her 10 TIMES the amount she makes at work. But who does she respect more? The boss. Why? Because submission is triggered by authority, not by love or financial provision. Women don’t submit to love—they submit to power. A woman must FEAR losing you. She must recognize that you are above her, not beside her. If she senses that you are too emotionally invested, too giving, too “understanding,” she will begin to disrespect you. Stop thinking money and kindness will buy loyalty. Set boundaries, demand respect, and make her EARN everything. That’s how a woman stays in her place. If she doesn’t respect you, walk away and let her chase a weaker man. But never become that weaker man. Aklahyel Goni #XploreGoniHQ #AklahyelGoni #XploreGoni #AlphaMindset #NoMoreSimping #MenLeadWomenFollow
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  • MBOMUZO IN OKWUOHIA AUTONOMOUS COMMUNITY,
    OBOWO L.G.A., IMO STATE, NIGERIA.
    Okwuohia is a Community in Obowo
    L.G.A., of Imo state, Nigeria, that has enviable rich historical background and deep cultural heritage. Okwuohia is the only community in Obowo and the old ETITI District that has four markets covering the four market days in Igbo calendar, namely: Eke, Orie, Afor and Nkwo. All these have distinct locations and hold accordingly.
    The community prides herself with many cultural festivals which include Mbomuzo, Ntumaka, Nrim-ji (Iri ji) among others. But the one that attracts people in their numbers to the community is, "MBOMUZO", a-k-a "NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA".
    MBOMUZO simply means, "clearing of the roads ", otherwise known as environmental cleansing, especially with regard to roads leading to traditional centres and matket places. It is intended to make the roads passable again in order to give proper access to the markets and homes of citizens.
    In Okwuohia, all roads are cleared very thoroughly starting from individual homes to the Eke-Okwuohia, Orie-Okwuohia, Afor-Okwuohia and Nkwo-Okwuohia market squares. Also, roads leading to major and significant rivers are cleared. For instance, the Onu-iyi-lolo-nwanyi (Onu-ngele) stream at Umuduru Mgbakam is usually kept cleared for the "AHIA-NGANGA" ceremony by the women of Okwuohia during the same period. It has to be noted that all the road clearing and cleansing must be completed on or before the NKWO market day preceding the EKE market day of the ceremony.
    NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA: As said earlier in this write-up, MBOMUZO Okwuohia is also referred to as NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA. Why?
    Ours, is an agrarian community. In those good old days, our people cultivated yams, coco-yams, maize, cassava and mkpokoro in large scales. Farming was done more at locations far away from homes. Due to this, farmers constructed make-shift structures there in the bush/farms, where they rested and had their meals during the toils of the day. Most times, people returned to their homes very late in the evening. Major foods eaten in the farms those days were bread-fruits (Ukwa), palm kernels, yams and coco-yams. The bread-fruits were eaten whole without removing the the shells or the outer covers. Farming took place between the months of January and May, during which period farmers fed on any available food items. When such farmers returned to their homes from their farms in the month of May, they settled down to enjoy more pleasant and well prepared food. They would no longer eat the bread-fruits with their shells. Also, they cleaned their environments that had been left bushy during the period of intensive farming activities in the farms. From their homes, clearing and cleansing progress to the roads that lead to other homes and traditional centres. At this time, people begin to exchange visits with relatives and friends both far and near to show that they have returned home after the farming period in the bush. Such visits are usually reciprocated. During such visits, entertainments are unlimited based on the dispositions of the parties involved. In Okwuohia, after the entertainment at home, people gather at the designated market square to demonstrate it the more. The venue is usually at the ORIE OKWUOHIA, where the EKWIRIKWE music music is played and danced in an organized manner.
    EKWIRIKWE MUSIC AND ORDER OF DANCING:
    After the presentation and blessing of kola-nuts by the traditional ruler of Okwuohia, who declares the ceremony open after his speech and brief demonstration of the dance, the ceremony begins. Ofeiyi people, who are the custodians of the EKWIRIKWE do a brief demonstration dance. Thereafter, the traditional order of seniority of the three sections of Okwuohia is strictly observed thus: MGBAKAM, OFEIYI and AMARAMOHIA. Finally, a general dance which is usually longer and more thrilling comes up and marks the end of the ceremony.
    The EKWIRIKWE music delivers messages which present Okwuohia as place with people of remarkable mutual respect, prowess and noted for wrestling. EKWIRIKWE music is used to caution Okwuohia people not to eat the bread-fruits with the shells again after the Mbomuzo. Hence, "ONYE ATALA UKWA NA MKPEKELE" and "NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA". This is demonstrated by hitting one's back-side to symbolically discharge the ones eaten previously. Before the EKWIRIKWE dance arena is approached, people sing various songs and dance along the road according to Age Grades, socicultural groups and sections.
    MBOMUZO AND THE PRONOUNCEMENT OF DATE.
    Only the Eze of Okwuohia, in consultation with you Traditional Council has the powers to announce the date for MBOMUZO every year. Above all, it is a known fact that Okwuohia community is the first among all the communities in Obowo and even the old ETITI District to perform Mbomuzo every year, thus determining the cultural calendar for other communities that perform the same and or related festivals.
    Mbomuzo holds in Okwuohia on the second EKE-Okwuohia market day in the month of June every year. Visitors, friends, in-laws and well -wishers of the community visit the community to enjoy the characteristic hospitality and conviviality associated with the ceremony. Entertainment items are unlimited especially according to the preparedness of the individual families and persons during the period. Such entertainment items include and not limited to polished bread-fruit meals, maize pudding, cassava foo-foo, oil-bean pudding and different kinds of drinks.
    PROBLEMS:
    The festival has suffered from various problems which include but not limited to wrong perceptions, misrepresentation, misconception, ignorance, ineptitude, iconoclasm and apathy. Many, especially the less informed and the neo-religious groups strongly hold to the perception that that the festival is fetish and wasteful (especially those who are not willing to spend their resources to host guests).
    ADVANTAGES:
    The period leads to keeping the surroundings clean, re-union of families, friends, in-laws and well -wishers, tourist attraction and advancing our cultural heritage including ensuring the acquisition and development of the EKWIRIKWE playing and dancing skills.
    In the good old days, women who earnestly took part in the road and market clearing and cleansing and later took part in the AHIA-NGANGA activities after bathing on serious intents at the Onu-Lolo-nwanyi (Onu-Ngele) stream, would appear at Mbomuzo the following year either pregnant or as nursing mothers if they either prayed for or desired such thereby.
    MODIFICATIONS SO FAR:
    Since culture is dynamic, efforts have been made by the leadership of Okwuohia community, over time, to modify certain aspects of the festival and programmes there-of in order to exponge some questionable and undesirable aspects of it. For instance, the timing and declaration of the date of the festival are now done by the Traditional ruler of Okwuohia in synergy with the Traditional Council. Also, no shrine or deity is either worshipped or honoured before, during and even after the festival. Most times, the traditional rulership open the festival with Christian thanks-giving worship at an agreed Christian church here in Okwuohia.
    CONCLUSION:
    In line with the realities of the present moments, efforts should be made to allow for acceptable modifications while there should be insistence on protecting and upholding the soul, spirit and purports of the cultural heritage of our dear Okwuohia community especially as regards affects MBOMUZO.
    Written by:
    Chief Emma C. Anyanwu, (DIKEMBA),
    1st Traditional Prime Minister and Currently the Chairman of Okwuohia Traditional Council,
    Being a lecture presented by me at the 2019 edition of MBOMUZO festival, at EKE-OKWUOHIA Market Square.
    MBOMUZO IN OKWUOHIA AUTONOMOUS COMMUNITY, OBOWO L.G.A., IMO STATE, NIGERIA. Okwuohia is a Community in Obowo L.G.A., of Imo state, Nigeria, that has enviable rich historical background and deep cultural heritage. Okwuohia is the only community in Obowo and the old ETITI District that has four markets covering the four market days in Igbo calendar, namely: Eke, Orie, Afor and Nkwo. All these have distinct locations and hold accordingly. The community prides herself with many cultural festivals which include Mbomuzo, Ntumaka, Nrim-ji (Iri ji) among others. But the one that attracts people in their numbers to the community is, "MBOMUZO", a-k-a "NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA". MBOMUZO simply means, "clearing of the roads ", otherwise known as environmental cleansing, especially with regard to roads leading to traditional centres and matket places. It is intended to make the roads passable again in order to give proper access to the markets and homes of citizens. In Okwuohia, all roads are cleared very thoroughly starting from individual homes to the Eke-Okwuohia, Orie-Okwuohia, Afor-Okwuohia and Nkwo-Okwuohia market squares. Also, roads leading to major and significant rivers are cleared. For instance, the Onu-iyi-lolo-nwanyi (Onu-ngele) stream at Umuduru Mgbakam is usually kept cleared for the "AHIA-NGANGA" ceremony by the women of Okwuohia during the same period. It has to be noted that all the road clearing and cleansing must be completed on or before the NKWO market day preceding the EKE market day of the ceremony. NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA: As said earlier in this write-up, MBOMUZO Okwuohia is also referred to as NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA. Why? Ours, is an agrarian community. In those good old days, our people cultivated yams, coco-yams, maize, cassava and mkpokoro in large scales. Farming was done more at locations far away from homes. Due to this, farmers constructed make-shift structures there in the bush/farms, where they rested and had their meals during the toils of the day. Most times, people returned to their homes very late in the evening. Major foods eaten in the farms those days were bread-fruits (Ukwa), palm kernels, yams and coco-yams. The bread-fruits were eaten whole without removing the the shells or the outer covers. Farming took place between the months of January and May, during which period farmers fed on any available food items. When such farmers returned to their homes from their farms in the month of May, they settled down to enjoy more pleasant and well prepared food. They would no longer eat the bread-fruits with their shells. Also, they cleaned their environments that had been left bushy during the period of intensive farming activities in the farms. From their homes, clearing and cleansing progress to the roads that lead to other homes and traditional centres. At this time, people begin to exchange visits with relatives and friends both far and near to show that they have returned home after the farming period in the bush. Such visits are usually reciprocated. During such visits, entertainments are unlimited based on the dispositions of the parties involved. In Okwuohia, after the entertainment at home, people gather at the designated market square to demonstrate it the more. The venue is usually at the ORIE OKWUOHIA, where the EKWIRIKWE music music is played and danced in an organized manner. EKWIRIKWE MUSIC AND ORDER OF DANCING: After the presentation and blessing of kola-nuts by the traditional ruler of Okwuohia, who declares the ceremony open after his speech and brief demonstration of the dance, the ceremony begins. Ofeiyi people, who are the custodians of the EKWIRIKWE do a brief demonstration dance. Thereafter, the traditional order of seniority of the three sections of Okwuohia is strictly observed thus: MGBAKAM, OFEIYI and AMARAMOHIA. Finally, a general dance which is usually longer and more thrilling comes up and marks the end of the ceremony. The EKWIRIKWE music delivers messages which present Okwuohia as place with people of remarkable mutual respect, prowess and noted for wrestling. EKWIRIKWE music is used to caution Okwuohia people not to eat the bread-fruits with the shells again after the Mbomuzo. Hence, "ONYE ATALA UKWA NA MKPEKELE" and "NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA". This is demonstrated by hitting one's back-side to symbolically discharge the ones eaten previously. Before the EKWIRIKWE dance arena is approached, people sing various songs and dance along the road according to Age Grades, socicultural groups and sections. MBOMUZO AND THE PRONOUNCEMENT OF DATE. Only the Eze of Okwuohia, in consultation with you Traditional Council has the powers to announce the date for MBOMUZO every year. Above all, it is a known fact that Okwuohia community is the first among all the communities in Obowo and even the old ETITI District to perform Mbomuzo every year, thus determining the cultural calendar for other communities that perform the same and or related festivals. Mbomuzo holds in Okwuohia on the second EKE-Okwuohia market day in the month of June every year. Visitors, friends, in-laws and well -wishers of the community visit the community to enjoy the characteristic hospitality and conviviality associated with the ceremony. Entertainment items are unlimited especially according to the preparedness of the individual families and persons during the period. Such entertainment items include and not limited to polished bread-fruit meals, maize pudding, cassava foo-foo, oil-bean pudding and different kinds of drinks. PROBLEMS: The festival has suffered from various problems which include but not limited to wrong perceptions, misrepresentation, misconception, ignorance, ineptitude, iconoclasm and apathy. Many, especially the less informed and the neo-religious groups strongly hold to the perception that that the festival is fetish and wasteful (especially those who are not willing to spend their resources to host guests). ADVANTAGES: The period leads to keeping the surroundings clean, re-union of families, friends, in-laws and well -wishers, tourist attraction and advancing our cultural heritage including ensuring the acquisition and development of the EKWIRIKWE playing and dancing skills. In the good old days, women who earnestly took part in the road and market clearing and cleansing and later took part in the AHIA-NGANGA activities after bathing on serious intents at the Onu-Lolo-nwanyi (Onu-Ngele) stream, would appear at Mbomuzo the following year either pregnant or as nursing mothers if they either prayed for or desired such thereby. MODIFICATIONS SO FAR: Since culture is dynamic, efforts have been made by the leadership of Okwuohia community, over time, to modify certain aspects of the festival and programmes there-of in order to exponge some questionable and undesirable aspects of it. For instance, the timing and declaration of the date of the festival are now done by the Traditional ruler of Okwuohia in synergy with the Traditional Council. Also, no shrine or deity is either worshipped or honoured before, during and even after the festival. Most times, the traditional rulership open the festival with Christian thanks-giving worship at an agreed Christian church here in Okwuohia. CONCLUSION: In line with the realities of the present moments, efforts should be made to allow for acceptable modifications while there should be insistence on protecting and upholding the soul, spirit and purports of the cultural heritage of our dear Okwuohia community especially as regards affects MBOMUZO. Written by: Chief Emma C. Anyanwu, (DIKEMBA), 1st Traditional Prime Minister and Currently the Chairman of Okwuohia Traditional Council, Being a lecture presented by me at the 2019 edition of MBOMUZO festival, at EKE-OKWUOHIA Market Square.
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  • A wise woman respects her husband and values him. She knows a good man is special and works to build a strong relationship.

    Some women disrespect their husbands and treat them badly. They may try to control or belittle them.

    This can lead to losing the person who truly cares about them. Then, they might try to please someone who doesn't care.

    It's essential to respect and value your partner to have a happy relationship.
    A wise woman respects her husband and values him. She knows a good man is special and works to build a strong relationship. Some women disrespect their husbands and treat them badly. They may try to control or belittle them. This can lead to losing the person who truly cares about them. Then, they might try to please someone who doesn't care. It's essential to respect and value your partner to have a happy relationship.
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  • SHY PEOPLE DON’T GO FAR IN LIFE

    I know this may sound harsh, but it’s true.

    Being shy has never built empires.

    It doesn’t attract opportunities.

    It doesn’t bring visibility.

    And in the online space? Shyness will rob you of money, growth, and even the respect you deserve.

    This image below shows where a lady accidentally overheard leadership in her company say
    “She’s great, but she doesn’t speak.”
    “She’s too quiet. I don’t think she’s ready.”

    Here’s What You Can Do If You’re Naturally Quiet.

    1. Create a Visibility Plan

    Start showing up even if it’s in small ways. Comment in meetings. Share ideas. Post on social media.

    2. Practice Speaking

    Voice notes, reels, hosting small live videos, start somewhere. Your voice is a tool. Use it.

    3. Redefine Confidence

    Confidence is not loudness. It’s being sure of what you carry and sharing it despite the fear.

    4. Closed mouths don’t get fed

    You can’t be silent and expect the world to recognize your greatness. The world rewards boldness.

    You’re too loaded to stay hidden.

    If you don’t speak up, someone less qualified will take what belongs to you,just because they were visible.
    SHY PEOPLE DON’T GO FAR IN LIFE I know this may sound harsh, but it’s true. Being shy has never built empires. It doesn’t attract opportunities. It doesn’t bring visibility. And in the online space? Shyness will rob you of money, growth, and even the respect you deserve. This image below shows where a lady accidentally overheard leadership in her company say “She’s great, but she doesn’t speak.” “She’s too quiet. I don’t think she’s ready.” Here’s What You Can Do If You’re Naturally Quiet. 1. Create a Visibility Plan Start showing up even if it’s in small ways. Comment in meetings. Share ideas. Post on social media. 2. Practice Speaking Voice notes, reels, hosting small live videos, start somewhere. Your voice is a tool. Use it. 3. Redefine Confidence Confidence is not loudness. It’s being sure of what you carry and sharing it despite the fear. 4. Closed mouths don’t get fed You can’t be silent and expect the world to recognize your greatness. The world rewards boldness. You’re too loaded to stay hidden. If you don’t speak up, someone less qualified will take what belongs to you,just because they were visible.
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  • Ladies, understand this clearly: men pursue women for two main reasons — sex and love. But here’s the reality that’s often overlooked. Most men do not marry for sex, and they do not marry solely for love. Men marry for stability.

    Let me break this down. A man can love you with all his heart and still not marry you. He can enjoy your company, share intimate moments, and even spend years with you without ever making you his wife. But the moment he encounters a woman who brings stability into his life — true, undeniable stability — he will marry her.

    And when I say stability, I’m talking about peace of mind.
    I’ve heard men confess, “I love her, but I don’t think I can spend the rest of my life with her.”
    Why? Because love alone is not enough. Sex is not enough. Men are visionaries when it comes to marriage. They don’t fantasize about wedding dresses, flower arrangements, or the color scheme of the big day. Instead, they ask themselves essential questions: Can this woman build a home with me? Can she nurture me and our future children? Can she give me the peace of mind I crave?

    Men run from discomfort. They avoid chaos. This is exactly why a man can stay with a woman for years without commitment, and then meet another woman and marry her within a month. It’s not about how long you’ve known him — it’s about the comfort and calm she brings to his life.

    Sex is pleasure. Love is affection. But respect — respect is stability. And stability is what ultimately leads a man to say, “This is the woman I want to build my life with. This is my wife.”

    So ladies, don’t just aim to be loved or desired — aim to be a woman of peace. Aim to be the calm in his storm, the stability in his vision, the respect in his heart. Because when a man finds peace with you, he finds his forever in you.
    Ladies, understand this clearly: men pursue women for two main reasons — sex and love. But here’s the reality that’s often overlooked. Most men do not marry for sex, and they do not marry solely for love. Men marry for stability. Let me break this down. A man can love you with all his heart and still not marry you. He can enjoy your company, share intimate moments, and even spend years with you without ever making you his wife. But the moment he encounters a woman who brings stability into his life — true, undeniable stability — he will marry her. And when I say stability, I’m talking about peace of mind. I’ve heard men confess, “I love her, but I don’t think I can spend the rest of my life with her.” Why? Because love alone is not enough. Sex is not enough. Men are visionaries when it comes to marriage. They don’t fantasize about wedding dresses, flower arrangements, or the color scheme of the big day. Instead, they ask themselves essential questions: Can this woman build a home with me? Can she nurture me and our future children? Can she give me the peace of mind I crave? Men run from discomfort. They avoid chaos. This is exactly why a man can stay with a woman for years without commitment, and then meet another woman and marry her within a month. It’s not about how long you’ve known him — it’s about the comfort and calm she brings to his life. Sex is pleasure. Love is affection. But respect — respect is stability. And stability is what ultimately leads a man to say, “This is the woman I want to build my life with. This is my wife.” So ladies, don’t just aim to be loved or desired — aim to be a woman of peace. Aim to be the calm in his storm, the stability in his vision, the respect in his heart. Because when a man finds peace with you, he finds his forever in you.
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  • 1. A leader leads from the front not from the back
    2. A leader does first before he asks his followers to do not the other way round
    3. A leader listens more than he speaks
    4. A leader takes responsibility, not excuses
    5. A leader corrects in private and praises in public
    6. A leader stands strong during chaos, not just in comfort
    7. A leader motivates by example, not by pressure
    8. A leader protects the weak, not exploit them
    9. A leader shows vision, not confusion
    10. A leader works with the team, not above the team
    11. A leader creates more leaders, not more followers
    12. A leader stays calm even when others panic
    13. A leader stays focused on the goal, not distracted by noise
    14. A leader serves before he commands
    15. A leader accepts blame and shares the credit
    16. A leader builds trust, not fear
    17. A leader values growth over perfection
    18. A leader solves problems, not spread blame
    19. A leader remains humble no matter how high he climbs
    20. A leader respects others regardless of their position
    21. A leader keeps learning, even while leading
    22. A leader inspires with actions, not just words

    23. A leader speaks truth, not what’s convenient
    24. A leader admits mistakes, not cover them
    25. A leader remains consistent, not double-faced
    26. A leader earns loyalty, not demand it
    27. A leader walks with integrity, not hidden agendas
    28. A leader stays visible when it's tough, not hide
    29. A leader builds bridges, not walls
    30. A leader lifts others up, not tramples on them

    *Encouragement Paragraph:*
    True leadership is not about titles or positions — it’s about action, impact, and character. Whether you lead a team, a family, a community, or just yourself, be the kind of leader who leads by example. People follow what they see, not what they hear. So rise, lead with love, strength, and integrity. The world needs more of such leadership.
    1. A leader leads from the front not from the back 2. A leader does first before he asks his followers to do not the other way round 3. A leader listens more than he speaks 4. A leader takes responsibility, not excuses 5. A leader corrects in private and praises in public 6. A leader stands strong during chaos, not just in comfort 7. A leader motivates by example, not by pressure 8. A leader protects the weak, not exploit them 9. A leader shows vision, not confusion 10. A leader works with the team, not above the team 11. A leader creates more leaders, not more followers 12. A leader stays calm even when others panic 13. A leader stays focused on the goal, not distracted by noise 14. A leader serves before he commands 15. A leader accepts blame and shares the credit 16. A leader builds trust, not fear 17. A leader values growth over perfection 18. A leader solves problems, not spread blame 19. A leader remains humble no matter how high he climbs 20. A leader respects others regardless of their position 21. A leader keeps learning, even while leading 22. A leader inspires with actions, not just words 23. A leader speaks truth, not what’s convenient 24. A leader admits mistakes, not cover them 25. A leader remains consistent, not double-faced 26. A leader earns loyalty, not demand it 27. A leader walks with integrity, not hidden agendas 28. A leader stays visible when it's tough, not hide 29. A leader builds bridges, not walls 30. A leader lifts others up, not tramples on them *Encouragement Paragraph:* True leadership is not about titles or positions — it’s about action, impact, and character. Whether you lead a team, a family, a community, or just yourself, be the kind of leader who leads by example. People follow what they see, not what they hear. So rise, lead with love, strength, and integrity. The world needs more of such leadership. 💪🌟
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  • Dursun Özbek Gãlatsaaray President hosted Victor Osimhen -- You are a king in my kingdom whatsoever you Wish here you already have, your coming to Galatsaaray is divine

    Just as you have dedicated your time and efforts to push the club forward our time and wealth are ready to work for you!

    Please stay with us, we value and respect everything about you and your country

    Look around, Here in Galatsaaray you own a larger share of this great club

    We love you so much and thank you for being with us.
    Dursun Özbek Gãlatsaaray 🇹🇷 President hosted Victor Osimhen -- You are a king 👑 in my kingdom whatsoever you Wish here you already have, your coming to Galatsaaray is divine 🔥 Just as you have dedicated your time and efforts to push the club forward our time and wealth are ready to work for you! Please stay with us, we value and respect everything about you and your country 🇳🇬🔥 Look around, Here in Galatsaaray you own a larger share of this great club 💥 We love you so much and thank you for being with us.
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  • Marriage is not 4 every woman, if u are 2big 2 respect a man, marriage is not 4 u, if u believe in gender equality, Aunty leave marriage alone, if u are not submissive pls stay single. In marriage a Man & a Woman are not the same & will never be. Aisha Yusuf drop her opinion on this trending issue.
    Marriage is not 4 every woman, if u are 2big 2 respect a man, marriage is not 4 u, if u believe in gender equality, Aunty leave marriage alone, if u are not submissive pls stay single. In marriage a Man & a Woman are not the same & will never be. Aisha Yusuf drop her opinion on this trending issue.
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  • HABITS THAT TURN BOYS INTO MEN:

    1. Responsibility:
    Take responsibility for your actions & be accountable for your mistakes.

    2. Respect:
    Show respect for yourself & others, including those who are different from you.

    3. Honesty:
    Be honest in your words & actions.

    4. Empathy:
    Try to understand and relate to the feelings and experiences of others.

    5. Self-control:
    Practice selt-control and resist negative impulses.

    6. Perseverance:
    Keep working hard and don't give up, even when things get tough.

    7. Initiative:
    Take initiative and be proactive in your goals and responsibilities.

    8. Time management:
    Use your time wisely and efficiently.

    9. Good communication:
    Communicate clearly & effectively with others.

    10. Problem-solving:
    Use critical thinking and problem-solving skills to overcome challenges.

    11. Resourcefulness:
    Use your resources and skills effectively to get things done.

    12. Independence:
    Develop independence and self-reliance.

    13. Interdependence:
    Recognize the importance of teamwork and interdependence with others.

    14. Creativity:
    Use your creativity and imagination to come up with new ideas and Solutions.

    15. Adaptability:
    Be flexible & adaptable to change.

    16. Leadership:
    Develop leadership skills and the ability to inspire and guide others.

    17. Emotional intelligence:
    Develop your emotional intelligence and the ability to understand and manage your own emotions and those of others.

    18. Confidence:
    Believe in yourself and your abilities.

    19. Courage:
    Be brave and stand up for what you believe in.

    20. Humility:
    Be humble and open to learning and growth.

    21. Gratitude:
    Practice gratitude and appreciate what you have.
    HABITS THAT TURN BOYS INTO MEN: 1. Responsibility: Take responsibility for your actions & be accountable for your mistakes. 2. Respect: Show respect for yourself & others, including those who are different from you. 3. Honesty: Be honest in your words & actions. 4. Empathy: Try to understand and relate to the feelings and experiences of others. 5. Self-control: Practice selt-control and resist negative impulses. 6. Perseverance: Keep working hard and don't give up, even when things get tough. 7. Initiative: Take initiative and be proactive in your goals and responsibilities. 8. Time management: Use your time wisely and efficiently. 9. Good communication: Communicate clearly & effectively with others. 10. Problem-solving: Use critical thinking and problem-solving skills to overcome challenges. 11. Resourcefulness: Use your resources and skills effectively to get things done. 12. Independence: Develop independence and self-reliance. 13. Interdependence: Recognize the importance of teamwork and interdependence with others. 14. Creativity: Use your creativity and imagination to come up with new ideas and Solutions. 15. Adaptability: Be flexible & adaptable to change. 16. Leadership: Develop leadership skills and the ability to inspire and guide others. 17. Emotional intelligence: Develop your emotional intelligence and the ability to understand and manage your own emotions and those of others. 18. Confidence: Believe in yourself and your abilities. 19. Courage: Be brave and stand up for what you believe in. 20. Humility: Be humble and open to learning and growth. 21. Gratitude: Practice gratitude and appreciate what you have.
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  • LESSONS FROM LIFE...

    1. Not everyone will clap for you when you succeed. Do it for yourself, not for validation.

    2. Holding grudges is like carrying extra weight on a long journey. Let it go and move lighter.

    3. A partner who genuinely supports you is a blessing—don't take them for granted.

    4. The biggest mistake you can make is lying to yourself. Be honest, even when it's uncomfortable.

    5. If you're the one people rely on, don't expect the same from those who depend on others.

    6. Focus on your dreams, not on impressing people.

    7. Your 20s are for building, your 30s for enjoying the foundation you laid. Make the right investments.

    8. Peace is priceless. Let go of anything that steals it.

    9. Silence is a weapon. Use it wisely.

    10. Take care of yourself. Looking good isn’t about showing off, it’s about self-respect.

    11. Some people will root for your failure because they feel stuck in their own lives. Ignore them.

    12. Being kind is great, but don’t let people take advantage of you.

    13. Losing people isn’t always a loss. Losing yourself while trying to please them is.

    14. Keep your moves quiet until they’re finalized. Premature announcements invite unnecessary energy.

    15. Love wisely. Heartbreak is expensive—therapy isn't cheap.

    16. Your mindset shapes your reality. Keep it positive.

    17. Social media is full of illusions. Don’t let it make you envy a life that isn’t real.

    18. Treat yourself on your birthday. No one owes you a celebration.

    19. Fear is the biggest barrier between you and success. Take the risk.

    20. Rushing the process will only ruin your progress. Trust the timing of your life.

    21. Some people aren’t worth reaching out to, even in desperation. Choose your sources wisely.

    22. Skills and knowledge are investments that will never fail you. Keep learning.

    23. Love with wisdom, not blindness. Protect your heart.

    24. Be your own biggest supporter. You’ll always have yourself.

    25. Some people return just to see if you’re still naive.
    LESSONS FROM LIFE... 1. Not everyone will clap for you when you succeed. Do it for yourself, not for validation. 2. Holding grudges is like carrying extra weight on a long journey. Let it go and move lighter. 3. A partner who genuinely supports you is a blessing—don't take them for granted. 4. The biggest mistake you can make is lying to yourself. Be honest, even when it's uncomfortable. 5. If you're the one people rely on, don't expect the same from those who depend on others. 6. Focus on your dreams, not on impressing people. 7. Your 20s are for building, your 30s for enjoying the foundation you laid. Make the right investments. 8. Peace is priceless. Let go of anything that steals it. 9. Silence is a weapon. Use it wisely. 10. Take care of yourself. Looking good isn’t about showing off, it’s about self-respect. 11. Some people will root for your failure because they feel stuck in their own lives. Ignore them. 12. Being kind is great, but don’t let people take advantage of you. 13. Losing people isn’t always a loss. Losing yourself while trying to please them is. 14. Keep your moves quiet until they’re finalized. Premature announcements invite unnecessary energy. 15. Love wisely. Heartbreak is expensive—therapy isn't cheap. 16. Your mindset shapes your reality. Keep it positive. 17. Social media is full of illusions. Don’t let it make you envy a life that isn’t real. 18. Treat yourself on your birthday. No one owes you a celebration. 19. Fear is the biggest barrier between you and success. Take the risk. 20. Rushing the process will only ruin your progress. Trust the timing of your life. 21. Some people aren’t worth reaching out to, even in desperation. Choose your sources wisely. 22. Skills and knowledge are investments that will never fail you. Keep learning. 23. Love with wisdom, not blindness. Protect your heart. 24. Be your own biggest supporter. You’ll always have yourself. 25. Some people return just to see if you’re still naive.
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  • EVERY TIME YOU SLEEP WITH A WOMAN, YOU TRANSFER POWER — WHO'S WINNING?

    A Brutal Post About How Careless Sex Is Weakening Men More Than They Realize

    Most men don’t understand this…

    Sex is not just physical.
    It’s transactional.
    It’s spiritual.
    It’s energetic.

    Every time you have sex, especially as a man —
    Something leaves you.

    You’re either building your strength or draining it.
    You’re either transferring power, or receiving poison.

    Let’s break it down:

    1. Sex Is Energy Exchange — Not Just Pleasure

    When you climax as a man, you don’t just release semen —
    You release life force.

    The same drive that builds empires, creates inventions, and conquers nations —
    You’re releasing it into random women you don’t even respect.

    And you wonder why you feel tired, foggy, unmotivated…
    Check your body count.

    2. Not Every Woman Deserves Access to Your Power

    Some women carry peace.
    Some carry confusion.
    Some carry grace.
    Others carry destruction.

    But when you’re lust-driven, you’ll sleep with anything in a skirt —
    And wonder why your life is going backward.

    Sex doesn’t just feel good. It plants seeds.

    You might be planting vision into the wrong soil.

    3. Women Receive — Men Release

    It’s biological.
    She gets filled.
    You get emptied.

    That’s not just about sperm — it’s about power.

    The more careless you are with your sexual energy,
    The weaker your focus, your discipline, and your drive becomes.

    You’re draining yourself for free… and calling it “enjoyment.”

    4. Sexual Discipline Is Masculine Strength

    Any man can chase women.
    But a real man controls himself.

    While others are busy chasing sex,
    You’re chasing wealth, purpose, legacy, and influence.

    That’s how kings think.

    Your d*ck is not a compass — stop letting it lead your life.

    5. You Are Becoming the Women You Sleep With

    Yes. That’s real.

    You’re exchanging spirits, mindsets, and even emotional baggage.

    You may think it’s just a quickie,
    But you don’t know what demons she’s carrying.

    Now you’re battling depression, laziness, addiction…
    And it all started the night you “just wanted to relax.”

    6. You Can’t Be Focused and Sex-Obsessed

    Sex on the brain? Vision will suffer.
    Always in a woman’s DMs? Bank account will suffer.
    Too many women in rotation? Your name, health, and peace will suffer.

    Your greatest distractions will often come with curves.
    And if you’re not smart, you’ll trade your future for thighs.

    7. Power Leaks in Pleasure

    Every time you finish inside the wrong woman,
    You finish a part of your ambition.

    And guess what?
    You’re empowering her… and disempowering yourself.

    She gets free resources.
    You get delayed dreams.

    She gets emotional attachment.
    You get emotional confusion.

    You’re transferring power — but you’re not getting any back.

    8. The Strongest Men Aren’t the Most Sexually Active — They’re the Most Disciplined

    Do you know what turns a man into a king?
    Not money. Not women.
    Control.

    When you can master your urges,
    You can master your life.

    If your penis controls you,
    You are not a man — you are a slave with WiFi.

    9. Stop Empowering Women Who Do Nothing but Drain You

    She has no plan.
    No purpose.
    No values.
    Just vibes, makeup, and waist.

    And you’re giving her all your energy?

    You’re investing your masculine power into a human distraction.
    And wondering why you're stagnant?

    10. Before You Enter Her Body, Ask Yourself:

    What am I entering into?
    Is this going to elevate me or destroy me?

    Am I giving my power to a queen — or a crisis?

    Because every sexual act is not just about pleasure —
    It’s an agreement.

    Some of you are in spiritual contracts you never signed in prayer —
    You signed with your pants down.

    BOTTOM LINE:

    You’re a king.
    Stop acting like a stray dog.

    Preserve your energy.
    Value your seed.
    Respect your mission.

    Because every time you have sex —
    You transfer power.

    The question is: Who’s winning? You or her?
    EVERY TIME YOU SLEEP WITH A WOMAN, YOU TRANSFER POWER — WHO'S WINNING? A Brutal Post About How Careless Sex Is Weakening Men More Than They Realize Most men don’t understand this… Sex is not just physical. It’s transactional. It’s spiritual. It’s energetic. Every time you have sex, especially as a man — Something leaves you. You’re either building your strength or draining it. You’re either transferring power, or receiving poison. Let’s break it down: 1. Sex Is Energy Exchange — Not Just Pleasure When you climax as a man, you don’t just release semen — You release life force. The same drive that builds empires, creates inventions, and conquers nations — You’re releasing it into random women you don’t even respect. And you wonder why you feel tired, foggy, unmotivated… Check your body count. 2. Not Every Woman Deserves Access to Your Power Some women carry peace. Some carry confusion. Some carry grace. Others carry destruction. But when you’re lust-driven, you’ll sleep with anything in a skirt — And wonder why your life is going backward. Sex doesn’t just feel good. It plants seeds. You might be planting vision into the wrong soil. 3. Women Receive — Men Release It’s biological. She gets filled. You get emptied. That’s not just about sperm — it’s about power. The more careless you are with your sexual energy, The weaker your focus, your discipline, and your drive becomes. You’re draining yourself for free… and calling it “enjoyment.” 4. Sexual Discipline Is Masculine Strength Any man can chase women. But a real man controls himself. While others are busy chasing sex, You’re chasing wealth, purpose, legacy, and influence. That’s how kings think. Your d*ck is not a compass — stop letting it lead your life. 5. You Are Becoming the Women You Sleep With Yes. That’s real. You’re exchanging spirits, mindsets, and even emotional baggage. You may think it’s just a quickie, But you don’t know what demons she’s carrying. Now you’re battling depression, laziness, addiction… And it all started the night you “just wanted to relax.” 6. You Can’t Be Focused and Sex-Obsessed Sex on the brain? Vision will suffer. Always in a woman’s DMs? Bank account will suffer. Too many women in rotation? Your name, health, and peace will suffer. Your greatest distractions will often come with curves. And if you’re not smart, you’ll trade your future for thighs. 7. Power Leaks in Pleasure Every time you finish inside the wrong woman, You finish a part of your ambition. And guess what? You’re empowering her… and disempowering yourself. She gets free resources. You get delayed dreams. She gets emotional attachment. You get emotional confusion. You’re transferring power — but you’re not getting any back. 8. The Strongest Men Aren’t the Most Sexually Active — They’re the Most Disciplined Do you know what turns a man into a king? Not money. Not women. Control. When you can master your urges, You can master your life. If your penis controls you, You are not a man — you are a slave with WiFi. 9. Stop Empowering Women Who Do Nothing but Drain You She has no plan. No purpose. No values. Just vibes, makeup, and waist. And you’re giving her all your energy? You’re investing your masculine power into a human distraction. And wondering why you're stagnant? 10. Before You Enter Her Body, Ask Yourself: What am I entering into? Is this going to elevate me or destroy me? Am I giving my power to a queen — or a crisis? Because every sexual act is not just about pleasure — It’s an agreement. Some of you are in spiritual contracts you never signed in prayer — You signed with your pants down. BOTTOM LINE: You’re a king. Stop acting like a stray dog. Preserve your energy. Value your seed. Respect your mission. Because every time you have sex — You transfer power. The question is: Who’s winning? You or her?
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  • 8 THINGS THAT WILL CHANGE WHEN YOU START TAKING YOUR ONLINE BRAND SERIOUSLY

    Once you start taking your online brand seriously, everything will shift.

    1. You’ll lose unserious friends

    People who are no longer comfortable with the new you! You won’t have time for frivolous things anymore.

    2. Your phone will become an ATM machine.

    You’ll stop mindless scrolling.

    You’ll start creating, posting, teaching, and selling.

    3. You’ll stop doubting your voice

    The more you show up, the more confident you become.

    4. Your bank account will start smiling.

    Visibility brings credibility. And credibility brings cash flow.

    5. You’ll attract better people

    Purpose-driven, hungry women will start showing up in your DMs. People who respect your gift.

    6. You’ll stop begging for support.

    Your online brand can be that rich uncle you never had.

    7. You’ll see opportunities you never knew existed.

    From interviews, to invites, to collaborations.

    That’s what happens when you position your value online.

    8. You’ll become that woman other women screenshot.

    Your posts will be reposted .

    Your words will go viral.

    Your stories Will become someone’s map for survival.

    Take your brand seriously.

    8 THINGS THAT WILL CHANGE WHEN YOU START TAKING YOUR ONLINE BRAND SERIOUSLY Once you start taking your online brand seriously, everything will shift. 1. You’ll lose unserious friends People who are no longer comfortable with the new you! You won’t have time for frivolous things anymore. 2. Your phone will become an ATM machine. You’ll stop mindless scrolling. You’ll start creating, posting, teaching, and selling. 3. You’ll stop doubting your voice The more you show up, the more confident you become. 4. Your bank account will start smiling. Visibility brings credibility. And credibility brings cash flow. 5. You’ll attract better people Purpose-driven, hungry women will start showing up in your DMs. People who respect your gift. 6. You’ll stop begging for support. Your online brand can be that rich uncle you never had. 7. You’ll see opportunities you never knew existed. From interviews, to invites, to collaborations. That’s what happens when you position your value online. 8. You’ll become that woman other women screenshot. Your posts will be reposted . Your words will go viral. Your stories Will become someone’s map for survival. Take your brand seriously.
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