• This Is Not 2013: Why the ADC Coalition Can’t Mirror the APC

    The promoters of the new coalition like to draw parallels with what the APC achieved in 2013. But let’s be clear: this is not 2013—and this is not the APC.

    In 2013, the merger that birthed the APC was driven by selflessness, national interest, and strategic discipline. The leaders at the time were willing to set aside personal ambitions for the greater good. Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, despite commanding the loyalty of several sitting governors, chose to wait. He bided his time, played the long game, and focused on building a viable political platform. He had never lost an election, and he didn’t have to force his way in.

    Now contrast that with today’s coalition. The chief promoter is a serial election loser, clutching at what he clearly sees as his last shot at the presidency. Unlike Tinubu, he enters the coalition alone—without the backing of his state governor, his region, or any meaningful political structure. His ambition is personal, not patriotic. So also that of his many co-travelers.
    This Is Not 2013: Why the ADC Coalition Can’t Mirror the APC The promoters of the new coalition like to draw parallels with what the APC achieved in 2013. But let’s be clear: this is not 2013—and this is not the APC. In 2013, the merger that birthed the APC was driven by selflessness, national interest, and strategic discipline. The leaders at the time were willing to set aside personal ambitions for the greater good. Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, despite commanding the loyalty of several sitting governors, chose to wait. He bided his time, played the long game, and focused on building a viable political platform. He had never lost an election, and he didn’t have to force his way in. Now contrast that with today’s coalition. The chief promoter is a serial election loser, clutching at what he clearly sees as his last shot at the presidency. Unlike Tinubu, he enters the coalition alone—without the backing of his state governor, his region, or any meaningful political structure. His ambition is personal, not patriotic. So also that of his many co-travelers.
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  • HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN ABOUT A SENSITIVE ISSUE

    We sometimes complain that the men don't want to talk or listen. Here's some things that could help..

    WATCH YOUR TONE
    When upset or frustrated, your tone could easily become sharp, harsh, condescending and full of coldness. A man doesn't like engaging anyone with such a tone. Approach him with peace and the issue will be resolved in peace

    TIMING
    Straight after work is not the time for a deep talk. One is mentally and physically tired. Let him relax first, put his feet up and approach the subject at a good time

    WATCH YOUR EYES
    Men get repelled by condescending and mean eyes. I'm sure you would too

    DON'T ENGAGE HIM WHEN HE IS DRUNK
    If your man is they type that gets intoxicated, don't bother yourself to talk serious issues. Wait till he is sober to have a meaningful talk

    DON'T CONFRONT HIM IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD(REN)
    Infront of the kids be cordial, smile, show unity and when it's just you and him, then talk about the issue

    DON'T ACCUSE HIM FALSELY
    Some women do this. However, this is the easiest way to make him feel attacked and to break the delicate fabric of trust between you two. Before you jump into conclusions, ask him questions politely. Talk with facts. Don't interrogate, politely ask.

    DON'T CAUSE A SCENE
    A man loses respect for a woman who causes a scene in public or in front of family or friends

    SOOTHE HIM
    If you want to introduce a topic that has been bothering you, hold on to it. Prepare him his favourite meal, do things that make him feel good. While he is in a good mood, lovingly introduce the issue for discussion

    BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS
    If the issue is heavy, be prepared for a conversation that will be heavy on your heart but remain calm and collected. Being frantic and delirious will not aid your cause.

    NO INSULTS
    Watch your tongue. Keep calm. Insulting him or parading his weaknesses and past mistakes will complicate things. You need him to know you are on the same team

    DON'T INTRODUCE OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS
    Don't tell him things like 'Even my mum thinks you should...', 'My friend Kajwang who is a man thinks we should...", "Zamira says her husband..." Don't show him you talk about your personal issues with outsiders. Don't show him you value other people's opinion more than his. Don't show him your motivation is based on comparing you two with other couples

    BOOST HIS EGO A TAD ;)
    Appreciate him more than you criticize him. If you want a man to grow in doing good, praise him for the good he does big and small. When you make him feel like a hero each time he pleases you, he will love pleasing you and will listen moreBest gifts for your loved ones

    DON'T BOY HIM
    Don't talk down at him. He should never feel disrespected by the woman he has committed to. He hates it when you baby-sit him

    DON'T TALK AT HIM
    Talk with him. Give him time to speak, don't run your mouth. It should be a two way conversation, not an order

    TALK AFTER MAKING LOVE
    You can choose to talk about the issue after making love. At that time, both of you are feeling most in love. Talk intimately and peacefully about the issue, he is so receptive to all you say at that timeBest gifts for your loved ones

    TAKE HIM ON A DATE
    Or you can take him to a place outside home where he will be more conscious of his demeanour in public. An outside setting also breaks the monotony of home. Talk about the issue over a date

    DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL UNEASY
    Men get unsettled by the words 'We need to talk'. Ease off the pressure by not putting him on the hot seat

    DON'T PUSH HIM
    Don't pressure him to conclude the issue. If he needs time to think through what you have talked with him about, give him time. Sometimes a man needs to arrange his thoughts in his "me" time. You have had ample time to think about the issue, probably more time than him

    BE FLEXIBLE
    Perhaps after you talk, he might not see things your way or the outcome may not be as you anticipated. Don't have a fixed mind, you two have to come to a joint agreement. Some times also you will need to exercise patience
    Read less.

    Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽

    Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved.

    Date nights are a must.
    Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in.

    Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important.

    Learn each others love language. Best gifts for your loved ones
    We all don’t perceive love the same way.

    Go to bed mad sometimes.
    Don’t force a resolution.
    Sleeping on it does help.

    When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time.

    It will get boring sometimes. Best gifts for your loved ones
    Every couple goes through the “boring” stage.
    It’s normal.
    It will fade.
    This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in.

    Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa.

    It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health.

    It’s okay to go to couples counselling.
    It helps.
    It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing.

    Talk about money.
    Talk about your financial goals.
    Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa.

    Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other.

    Ask questions like

    “What do you need to see more of from me?”
    “How can we understand each other better?”

    And most importantly, be kind to each other.

    Love each other. Best gifts for your loved ones

    Fight for each other.

    Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride.

    But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it..
    ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒>
    HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN ABOUT A SENSITIVE ISSUE We sometimes complain that the men don't want to talk or listen. Here's some things that could help.. WATCH YOUR TONE When upset or frustrated, your tone could easily become sharp, harsh, condescending and full of coldness. A man doesn't like engaging anyone with such a tone. Approach him with peace and the issue will be resolved in peace TIMING Straight after work is not the time for a deep talk. One is mentally and physically tired. Let him relax first, put his feet up and approach the subject at a good time WATCH YOUR EYES Men get repelled by condescending and mean eyes. I'm sure you would too DON'T ENGAGE HIM WHEN HE IS DRUNK If your man is they type that gets intoxicated, don't bother yourself to talk serious issues. Wait till he is sober to have a meaningful talk DON'T CONFRONT HIM IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD(REN) Infront of the kids be cordial, smile, show unity and when it's just you and him, then talk about the issue DON'T ACCUSE HIM FALSELY Some women do this. However, this is the easiest way to make him feel attacked and to break the delicate fabric of trust between you two. Before you jump into conclusions, ask him questions politely. Talk with facts. Don't interrogate, politely ask. DON'T CAUSE A SCENE A man loses respect for a woman who causes a scene in public or in front of family or friends SOOTHE HIM If you want to introduce a topic that has been bothering you, hold on to it. Prepare him his favourite meal, do things that make him feel good. While he is in a good mood, lovingly introduce the issue for discussion BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS If the issue is heavy, be prepared for a conversation that will be heavy on your heart but remain calm and collected. Being frantic and delirious will not aid your cause. NO INSULTS Watch your tongue. Keep calm. Insulting him or parading his weaknesses and past mistakes will complicate things. You need him to know you are on the same team DON'T INTRODUCE OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS Don't tell him things like 'Even my mum thinks you should...', 'My friend Kajwang who is a man thinks we should...", "Zamira says her husband..." Don't show him you talk about your personal issues with outsiders. Don't show him you value other people's opinion more than his. Don't show him your motivation is based on comparing you two with other couples BOOST HIS EGO A TAD ;) Appreciate him more than you criticize him. If you want a man to grow in doing good, praise him for the good he does big and small. When you make him feel like a hero each time he pleases you, he will love pleasing you and will listen moreBest gifts for your loved ones DON'T BOY HIM Don't talk down at him. He should never feel disrespected by the woman he has committed to. He hates it when you baby-sit him DON'T TALK AT HIM Talk with him. Give him time to speak, don't run your mouth. It should be a two way conversation, not an order TALK AFTER MAKING LOVE You can choose to talk about the issue after making love. At that time, both of you are feeling most in love. Talk intimately and peacefully about the issue, he is so receptive to all you say at that timeBest gifts for your loved ones TAKE HIM ON A DATE Or you can take him to a place outside home where he will be more conscious of his demeanour in public. An outside setting also breaks the monotony of home. Talk about the issue over a date DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL UNEASY Men get unsettled by the words 'We need to talk'. Ease off the pressure by not putting him on the hot seat DON'T PUSH HIM Don't pressure him to conclude the issue. If he needs time to think through what you have talked with him about, give him time. Sometimes a man needs to arrange his thoughts in his "me" time. You have had ample time to think about the issue, probably more time than him BE FLEXIBLE Perhaps after you talk, he might not see things your way or the outcome may not be as you anticipated. Don't have a fixed mind, you two have to come to a joint agreement. Some times also you will need to exercise patience Read less. Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽 Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved. Date nights are a must. Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in. Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important. Learn each others love language. Best gifts for your loved ones We all don’t perceive love the same way. Go to bed mad sometimes. Don’t force a resolution. Sleeping on it does help. When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time. It will get boring sometimes. Best gifts for your loved ones Every couple goes through the “boring” stage. It’s normal. It will fade. This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in. Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa. It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health. It’s okay to go to couples counselling. It helps. It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing. Talk about money. Talk about your financial goals. Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa. Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other. Ask questions like “What do you need to see more of from me?” “How can we understand each other better?” And most importantly, be kind to each other. Love each other. Best gifts for your loved ones Fight for each other. Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride. But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it.. ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒>
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  • Today in Ilorin, I had the honour of paying a courtesy visit to the Chairman of the Nigeria Governors’ Forum (NGF) and Executive Governor of Kwara State, His Excellency Mallam Abdulrahman Abdulrasaq.

    As Chairman of the Conference of Speakers of State Legislatures of Nigeria, our discussion centered on ongoing reforms under my leadership which are aimed at repositioning State Legislatures for greater efficiency, autonomy, and impact.

    I used the opportunity to seek the continued partnership and support of the NGF in actualizing these reforms, and also emphasized the need for alignment between Governors and Speakers as we work towards the success of the ongoing constitutional amendment process.

    Governor Abdulrasaq’s reception and thoughtful engagement reflect his deep commitment to democratic development and institutional synergy across all levels of governance.

    I look forward to a stronger collaboration between both bodies for the good of our States and the nation at large.

    Earlier today, I also visited the Speaker of the Kwara State House of Assembly, Rt. Hon. Yakubu Danladi-Salihu, where we shared insights on inter-legislative collaboration and the priorities of the Conference going forward.

    Thank you, Your Excellencies, for your leadership.

    #StateLegislatures
    #NGF
    #SynergicCollaboration
    #KwaraStateAssembly
    Today in Ilorin, I had the honour of paying a courtesy visit to the Chairman of the Nigeria Governors’ Forum (NGF) and Executive Governor of Kwara State, His Excellency Mallam Abdulrahman Abdulrasaq. As Chairman of the Conference of Speakers of State Legislatures of Nigeria, our discussion centered on ongoing reforms under my leadership which are aimed at repositioning State Legislatures for greater efficiency, autonomy, and impact. I used the opportunity to seek the continued partnership and support of the NGF in actualizing these reforms, and also emphasized the need for alignment between Governors and Speakers as we work towards the success of the ongoing constitutional amendment process. Governor Abdulrasaq’s reception and thoughtful engagement reflect his deep commitment to democratic development and institutional synergy across all levels of governance. I look forward to a stronger collaboration between both bodies for the good of our States and the nation at large. Earlier today, I also visited the Speaker of the Kwara State House of Assembly, Rt. Hon. Yakubu Danladi-Salihu, where we shared insights on inter-legislative collaboration and the priorities of the Conference going forward. Thank you, Your Excellencies, for your leadership. #StateLegislatures #NGF #SynergicCollaboration #KwaraStateAssembly
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  • HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN ABOUT A SENSITIVE ISSUE

    We sometimes complain that the men don't want to talk or listen. Here's some things that could help..

    WATCH YOUR TONE
    When upset or frustrated, your tone could easily become sharp, harsh, condescending and full of coldness. A man doesn't like engaging anyone with such a tone. Approach him with peace and the issue will be resolved in peace

    TIMING
    Straight after work is not the time for a deep talk. One is mentally and physically tired. Let him relax first, put his feet up and approach the subject at a good time

    WATCH YOUR EYES
    Men get repelled by condescending and mean eyes. I'm sure you would too

    DON'T ENGAGE HIM WHEN HE IS DRUNK
    If your man is they type that gets intoxicated, don't bother yourself to talk serious issues. Wait till he is sober to have a meaningful talk

    DON'T CONFRONT HIM IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD(REN)
    Infront of the kids be cordial, smile, show unity and when it's just you and him, then talk about the issue

    DON'T ACCUSE HIM FALSELY
    Some women do this. However, this is the easiest way to make him feel attacked and to break the delicate fabric of trust between you two. Before you jump into conclusions, ask him questions politely. Talk with facts. Don't interrogate, politely ask.

    DON'T CAUSE A SCENE
    A man loses respect for a woman who causes a scene in public or in front of family or friends

    SOOTHE HIM
    If you want to introduce a topic that has been bothering you, hold on to it. Prepare him his favourite meal, do things that make him feel good. While he is in a good mood, lovingly introduce the issue for discussion

    BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS
    If the issue is heavy, be prepared for a conversation that will be heavy on your heart but remain calm and collected. Being frantic and delirious will not aid your cause.

    NO INSULTS
    Watch your tongue. Keep calm. Insulting him or parading his weaknesses and past mistakes will complicate things. You need him to know you are on the same team

    DON'T INTRODUCE OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS
    Don't tell him things like 'Even my mum thinks you should...', 'My friend Kajwang who is a man thinks we should...", "Zamira says her husband..." Don't show him you talk about your personal issues with outsiders. Don't show him you value other people's opinion more than his. Don't show him your motivation is based on comparing you two with other couples

    BOOST HIS EGO A TAD ;)
    Appreciate him more than you criticize him. If you want a man to grow in doing good, praise him for the good he does big and small. When you make him feel like a hero each time he pleases you, he will love pleasing you and will listen moreBest gifts for your loved ones

    DON'T BOY HIM
    Don't talk down at him. He should never feel disrespected by the woman he has committed to. He hates it when you baby-sit him

    DON'T TALK AT HIM
    Talk with him. Give him time to speak, don't run your mouth. It should be a two way conversation, not an order

    TALK AFTER MAKING LOVE
    You can choose to talk about the issue after making love. At that time, both of you are feeling most in love. Talk intimately and peacefully about the issue, he is so receptive to all you say at that timeBest gifts for your loved ones

    TAKE HIM ON A DATE
    Or you can take him to a place outside home where he will be more conscious of his demeanour in public. An outside setting also breaks the monotony of home. Talk about the issue over a date

    DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL UNEASY
    Men get unsettled by the words 'We need to talk'. Ease off the pressure by not putting him on the hot seat

    DON'T PUSH HIM
    Don't pressure him to conclude the issue. If he needs time to think through what you have talked with him about, give him time. Sometimes a man needs to arrange his thoughts in his "me" time. You have had ample time to think about the issue, probably more time than him

    BE FLEXIBLE
    Perhaps after you talk, he might not see things your way or the outcome may not be as you anticipated. Don't have a fixed mind, you two have to come to a joint agreement. Some times also you will need to exercise patience
    Read less.

    Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽

    Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved.

    Date nights are a must.
    Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in.

    Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important.

    Learn each others love language. Best gifts for your loved ones
    We all don’t perceive love the same way.

    Go to bed mad sometimes.
    Don’t force a resolution.
    Sleeping on it does help.

    When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time.

    It will get boring sometimes. Best gifts for your loved ones
    Every couple goes through the “boring” stage.
    It’s normal.
    It will fade.
    This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in.

    Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa.

    It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health.

    It’s okay to go to couples counselling.
    It helps.
    It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing.

    Talk about money.
    Talk about your financial goals.
    Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa.

    Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other.

    Ask questions like

    “What do you need to see more of from me?”
    “How can we understand each other better?”

    And most importantly, be kind to each other.

    Love each other. Best gifts for your loved ones

    Fight for each other.

    Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride.

    But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it..
    ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒>
    HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN ABOUT A SENSITIVE ISSUE We sometimes complain that the men don't want to talk or listen. Here's some things that could help.. WATCH YOUR TONE When upset or frustrated, your tone could easily become sharp, harsh, condescending and full of coldness. A man doesn't like engaging anyone with such a tone. Approach him with peace and the issue will be resolved in peace TIMING Straight after work is not the time for a deep talk. One is mentally and physically tired. Let him relax first, put his feet up and approach the subject at a good time WATCH YOUR EYES Men get repelled by condescending and mean eyes. I'm sure you would too DON'T ENGAGE HIM WHEN HE IS DRUNK If your man is they type that gets intoxicated, don't bother yourself to talk serious issues. Wait till he is sober to have a meaningful talk DON'T CONFRONT HIM IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD(REN) Infront of the kids be cordial, smile, show unity and when it's just you and him, then talk about the issue DON'T ACCUSE HIM FALSELY Some women do this. However, this is the easiest way to make him feel attacked and to break the delicate fabric of trust between you two. Before you jump into conclusions, ask him questions politely. Talk with facts. Don't interrogate, politely ask. DON'T CAUSE A SCENE A man loses respect for a woman who causes a scene in public or in front of family or friends SOOTHE HIM If you want to introduce a topic that has been bothering you, hold on to it. Prepare him his favourite meal, do things that make him feel good. While he is in a good mood, lovingly introduce the issue for discussion BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS If the issue is heavy, be prepared for a conversation that will be heavy on your heart but remain calm and collected. Being frantic and delirious will not aid your cause. NO INSULTS Watch your tongue. Keep calm. Insulting him or parading his weaknesses and past mistakes will complicate things. You need him to know you are on the same team DON'T INTRODUCE OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS Don't tell him things like 'Even my mum thinks you should...', 'My friend Kajwang who is a man thinks we should...", "Zamira says her husband..." Don't show him you talk about your personal issues with outsiders. Don't show him you value other people's opinion more than his. Don't show him your motivation is based on comparing you two with other couples BOOST HIS EGO A TAD ;) Appreciate him more than you criticize him. If you want a man to grow in doing good, praise him for the good he does big and small. When you make him feel like a hero each time he pleases you, he will love pleasing you and will listen moreBest gifts for your loved ones DON'T BOY HIM Don't talk down at him. He should never feel disrespected by the woman he has committed to. He hates it when you baby-sit him DON'T TALK AT HIM Talk with him. Give him time to speak, don't run your mouth. It should be a two way conversation, not an order TALK AFTER MAKING LOVE You can choose to talk about the issue after making love. At that time, both of you are feeling most in love. Talk intimately and peacefully about the issue, he is so receptive to all you say at that timeBest gifts for your loved ones TAKE HIM ON A DATE Or you can take him to a place outside home where he will be more conscious of his demeanour in public. An outside setting also breaks the monotony of home. Talk about the issue over a date DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL UNEASY Men get unsettled by the words 'We need to talk'. Ease off the pressure by not putting him on the hot seat DON'T PUSH HIM Don't pressure him to conclude the issue. If he needs time to think through what you have talked with him about, give him time. Sometimes a man needs to arrange his thoughts in his "me" time. You have had ample time to think about the issue, probably more time than him BE FLEXIBLE Perhaps after you talk, he might not see things your way or the outcome may not be as you anticipated. Don't have a fixed mind, you two have to come to a joint agreement. Some times also you will need to exercise patience Read less. Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽 Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved. Date nights are a must. Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in. Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important. Learn each others love language. Best gifts for your loved ones We all don’t perceive love the same way. Go to bed mad sometimes. Don’t force a resolution. Sleeping on it does help. When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time. It will get boring sometimes. Best gifts for your loved ones Every couple goes through the “boring” stage. It’s normal. It will fade. This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in. Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa. It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health. It’s okay to go to couples counselling. It helps. It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing. Talk about money. Talk about your financial goals. Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa. Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other. Ask questions like “What do you need to see more of from me?” “How can we understand each other better?” And most importantly, be kind to each other. Love each other. Best gifts for your loved ones Fight for each other. Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride. But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it.. ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒>
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  • HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN ABOUT A SENSITIVE ISSUE

    We sometimes complain that the men don't want to talk or listen. Here's some things that could help..

    WATCH YOUR TONE
    When upset or frustrated, your tone could easily become sharp, harsh, condescending and full of coldness. A man doesn't like engaging anyone with such a tone. Approach him with peace and the issue will be resolved in peace

    TIMING
    Straight after work is not the time for a deep talk. One is mentally and physically tired. Let him relax first, put his feet up and approach the subject at a good time

    WATCH YOUR EYES
    Men get repelled by condescending and mean eyes. I'm sure you would too

    DON'T ENGAGE HIM WHEN HE IS DRUNK
    If your man is they type that gets intoxicated, don't bother yourself to talk serious issues. Wait till he is sober to have a meaningful talk

    DON'T CONFRONT HIM IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD(REN)
    Infront of the kids be cordial, smile, show unity and when it's just you and him, then talk about the issue

    DON'T ACCUSE HIM FALSELY
    Some women do this. However, this is the easiest way to make him feel attacked and to break the delicate fabric of trust between you two. Before you jump into conclusions, ask him questions politely. Talk with facts. Don't interrogate, politely ask.

    DON'T CAUSE A SCENE
    A man loses respect for a woman who causes a scene in public or in front of family or friends

    SOOTHE HIM
    If you want to introduce a topic that has been bothering you, hold on to it. Prepare him his favourite meal, do things that make him feel good. While he is in a good mood, lovingly introduce the issue for discussion

    BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS
    If the issue is heavy, be prepared for a conversation that will be heavy on your heart but remain calm and collected. Being frantic and delirious will not aid your cause.

    NO INSULTS
    Watch your tongue. Keep calm. Insulting him or parading his weaknesses and past mistakes will complicate things. You need him to know you are on the same team

    DON'T INTRODUCE OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS
    Don't tell him things like 'Even my mum thinks you should...', 'My friend Kajwang who is a man thinks we should...", "Zamira says her husband..." Don't show him you talk about your personal issues with outsiders. Don't show him you value other people's opinion more than his. Don't show him your motivation is based on comparing you two with other couples

    BOOST HIS EGO A TAD ;)
    Appreciate him more than you criticize him. If you want a man to grow in doing good, praise him for the good he does big and small. When you make him feel like a hero each time he pleases you, he will love pleasing you and will listen moreBest gifts for your loved ones

    DON'T BOY HIM
    Don't talk down at him. He should never feel disrespected by the woman he has committed to. He hates it when you baby-sit him

    DON'T TALK AT HIM
    Talk with him. Give him time to speak, don't run your mouth. It should be a two way conversation, not an order

    TALK AFTER MAKING LOVE
    You can choose to talk about the issue after making love. At that time, both of you are feeling most in love. Talk intimately and peacefully about the issue, he is so receptive to all you say at that timeBest gifts for your loved ones

    TAKE HIM ON A DATE
    Or you can take him to a place outside home where he will be more conscious of his demeanour in public. An outside setting also breaks the monotony of home. Talk about the issue over a date

    DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL UNEASY
    Men get unsettled by the words 'We need to talk'. Ease off the pressure by not putting him on the hot seat

    DON'T PUSH HIM
    Don't pressure him to conclude the issue. If he needs time to think through what you have talked with him about, give him time. Sometimes a man needs to arrange his thoughts in his "me" time. You have had ample time to think about the issue, probably more time than him

    BE FLEXIBLE
    Perhaps after you talk, he might not see things your way or the outcome may not be as you anticipated. Don't have a fixed mind, you two have to come to a joint agreement. Some times also you will need to exercise patience
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    Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽

    Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved.

    Date nights are a must.
    Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in.

    Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important.

    Learn each others love language. Best gifts for your loved ones
    We all don’t perceive love the same way.

    Go to bed mad sometimes.
    Don’t force a resolution.
    Sleeping on it does help.

    When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time.

    It will get boring sometimes. Best gifts for your loved ones
    Every couple goes through the “boring” stage.
    It’s normal.
    It will fade.
    This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in.

    Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa.

    It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health.

    It’s okay to go to couples counselling.
    It helps.
    It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing.

    Talk about money.
    Talk about your financial goals.
    Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa.

    Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other.

    Ask questions like

    “What do you need to see more of from me?”
    “How can we understand each other better?”

    And most importantly, be kind to each other.

    Love each other. Best gifts for your loved ones

    Fight for each other.

    Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride.

    But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it..
    ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒>
    HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN ABOUT A SENSITIVE ISSUE We sometimes complain that the men don't want to talk or listen. Here's some things that could help.. WATCH YOUR TONE When upset or frustrated, your tone could easily become sharp, harsh, condescending and full of coldness. A man doesn't like engaging anyone with such a tone. Approach him with peace and the issue will be resolved in peace TIMING Straight after work is not the time for a deep talk. One is mentally and physically tired. Let him relax first, put his feet up and approach the subject at a good time WATCH YOUR EYES Men get repelled by condescending and mean eyes. I'm sure you would too DON'T ENGAGE HIM WHEN HE IS DRUNK If your man is they type that gets intoxicated, don't bother yourself to talk serious issues. Wait till he is sober to have a meaningful talk DON'T CONFRONT HIM IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD(REN) Infront of the kids be cordial, smile, show unity and when it's just you and him, then talk about the issue DON'T ACCUSE HIM FALSELY Some women do this. However, this is the easiest way to make him feel attacked and to break the delicate fabric of trust between you two. Before you jump into conclusions, ask him questions politely. Talk with facts. Don't interrogate, politely ask. DON'T CAUSE A SCENE A man loses respect for a woman who causes a scene in public or in front of family or friends SOOTHE HIM If you want to introduce a topic that has been bothering you, hold on to it. Prepare him his favourite meal, do things that make him feel good. While he is in a good mood, lovingly introduce the issue for discussion BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS If the issue is heavy, be prepared for a conversation that will be heavy on your heart but remain calm and collected. Being frantic and delirious will not aid your cause. NO INSULTS Watch your tongue. Keep calm. Insulting him or parading his weaknesses and past mistakes will complicate things. You need him to know you are on the same team DON'T INTRODUCE OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS Don't tell him things like 'Even my mum thinks you should...', 'My friend Kajwang who is a man thinks we should...", "Zamira says her husband..." Don't show him you talk about your personal issues with outsiders. Don't show him you value other people's opinion more than his. Don't show him your motivation is based on comparing you two with other couples BOOST HIS EGO A TAD ;) Appreciate him more than you criticize him. If you want a man to grow in doing good, praise him for the good he does big and small. When you make him feel like a hero each time he pleases you, he will love pleasing you and will listen moreBest gifts for your loved ones DON'T BOY HIM Don't talk down at him. He should never feel disrespected by the woman he has committed to. He hates it when you baby-sit him DON'T TALK AT HIM Talk with him. Give him time to speak, don't run your mouth. It should be a two way conversation, not an order TALK AFTER MAKING LOVE You can choose to talk about the issue after making love. At that time, both of you are feeling most in love. Talk intimately and peacefully about the issue, he is so receptive to all you say at that timeBest gifts for your loved ones TAKE HIM ON A DATE Or you can take him to a place outside home where he will be more conscious of his demeanour in public. An outside setting also breaks the monotony of home. Talk about the issue over a date DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL UNEASY Men get unsettled by the words 'We need to talk'. Ease off the pressure by not putting him on the hot seat DON'T PUSH HIM Don't pressure him to conclude the issue. If he needs time to think through what you have talked with him about, give him time. Sometimes a man needs to arrange his thoughts in his "me" time. You have had ample time to think about the issue, probably more time than him BE FLEXIBLE Perhaps after you talk, he might not see things your way or the outcome may not be as you anticipated. Don't have a fixed mind, you two have to come to a joint agreement. Some times also you will need to exercise patience Read less. Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽 Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved. Date nights are a must. Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in. Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important. Learn each others love language. Best gifts for your loved ones We all don’t perceive love the same way. Go to bed mad sometimes. Don’t force a resolution. Sleeping on it does help. When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time. It will get boring sometimes. Best gifts for your loved ones Every couple goes through the “boring” stage. It’s normal. It will fade. This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in. Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa. It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health. It’s okay to go to couples counselling. It helps. It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing. Talk about money. Talk about your financial goals. Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa. Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other. Ask questions like “What do you need to see more of from me?” “How can we understand each other better?” And most importantly, be kind to each other. Love each other. Best gifts for your loved ones Fight for each other. Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride. But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it.. ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒>
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  • *LIFE IS A CIRCLE OF CONTRIBUTIONS:*
    _..... you gat to do your part!_

    I Contribute by sharing.
    You Contribute by sharing.
    We Contribute by sharing.
    They Contribute by sharing.
    When any party ceases to Contribute/share, the circle will be broken and leakages will be discovered.

    *[Whatever you are enjoying today, is someone else's Contribution.]*

    Whatever you are lacking today, is because someone (may be You) who's suppose to Contribute didn't.

    Don't be that person, who because he refuses to Contribute, causes leakages to the circle. Don't be the "cheat"

    *Every person on earth is here to Contribute to make the world a better place.* What are you doing? Search your mind.

    Contribution is the essence of living.

    You can Contribute anything useful.

    *You can Contribute in*
    knowledge,
    in understanding,
    in wisdom,
    in love,
    in peace,
    in resources, and
    in finances.

    *Also, you can Contribute*
    physically,
    spiritually,
    intellectually,
    financially,
    morally etc.

    When you Contribute, people will eat,

    *when people Contribute, you will eat*.

    *ASK YOURSELF*:
    What is my Contribution in that place that I am?
    What have you Contributed to make progress?

    What is lacking as a result of your refusal to Contribute?
    What is the way forward?

    *The answer explains the scarcity or abundance in that place.*

    *YOUR PRESENCE IS IRRELEVANT if you have nothing to Contribute.*

    *Even Nature Contribute.*

    *CONTRIBUTION is the way to go*

    In your place of worship,
    Contribute...
    In your workplace, where you earn your daily living, Contribute...

    In the school e.g. Old boys\girls.
    Contribute...
    In the *house,* Contribute...
    In the market, Contribute...

    In the *society*, Contribute...
    In the village, Contribute...
    In the community, Contribute...
    In the family, Contribute...
    In your street, Contribute..

    In your Fellowship or Association Contribute.
    Wherever you find yourself, contribute for impact.
    Everywhere, try to Contribute...

    *WE ALL HAVE SOMETHING TO CONTRIBUTE:*
    Contribute in love...
    Instead of complaining,
    Contribute.
    Instead of destructive criticism,
    Contribute.
    Instead of being embittered,
    Contribute.
    Instead of watching,

    *Contribution is the right use of energy*
    *Nobody destroys where he has contributed to build.*

    THE WORLD WILL BE WORTH LIVING, IF EVERYONE CONTRIBUTES MEANINGFULLY.

    *START CONTRIBUTING POSITIVELY NOW!!!*

    Start making impact from today and may God bless us all.

    Thank You!
    *LIFE IS A CIRCLE OF CONTRIBUTIONS:* _..... you gat to do your part!_ I Contribute by sharing. You Contribute by sharing. We Contribute by sharing. They Contribute by sharing. When any party ceases to Contribute/share, the circle will be broken and leakages will be discovered. *[Whatever you are enjoying today, is someone else's Contribution.]* Whatever you are lacking today, is because someone (may be You) who's suppose to Contribute didn't. Don't be that person, who because he refuses to Contribute, causes leakages to the circle. Don't be the "cheat" *Every person on earth is here to Contribute to make the world a better place.* What are you doing? Search your mind. Contribution is the essence of living. You can Contribute anything useful. *You can Contribute in* ▪️knowledge, ▪️in understanding, ▪️in wisdom, ▪️in love, ▪️in peace, ▪️in resources, and ▪️in finances. *Also, you can Contribute* ▪️physically, ▪️spiritually, ▪️intellectually, ▪️financially, ▪️morally etc. When you Contribute, people will eat, *when people Contribute, you will eat*. *ASK YOURSELF*: What is my Contribution in that place that I am? What have you Contributed to make progress? What is lacking as a result of your refusal to Contribute? What is the way forward? *The answer explains the scarcity or abundance in that place.* *YOUR PRESENCE IS IRRELEVANT if you have nothing to Contribute.* *Even Nature Contribute.* *CONTRIBUTION is the way to go* In your place of worship, Contribute... In your workplace, where you earn your daily living, Contribute... In the school e.g. Old boys\girls. Contribute... In the *house,* Contribute... In the market, Contribute... In the *society*, Contribute... In the village, Contribute... In the community, Contribute... In the family, Contribute... In your street, Contribute.. In your Fellowship or Association Contribute. Wherever you find yourself, contribute for impact. Everywhere, try to Contribute... *WE ALL HAVE SOMETHING TO CONTRIBUTE:* Contribute in love... Instead of complaining, Contribute. Instead of destructive criticism, Contribute. Instead of being embittered, Contribute. Instead of watching, *Contribution is the right use of energy* *Nobody destroys where he has contributed to build.* THE WORLD WILL BE WORTH LIVING, IF EVERYONE CONTRIBUTES MEANINGFULLY. *START CONTRIBUTING POSITIVELY NOW!!!* Start making impact from today and may God bless us all. Thank You!
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  • *LIFE IS A CIRCLE OF CONTRIBUTIONS:*
    _..... you gat to do your part!_

    I Contribute by sharing.
    You Contribute by sharing.
    We Contribute by sharing.
    They Contribute by sharing.
    When any party ceases to Contribute/share, the circle will be broken and leakages will be discovered.

    *[Whatever you are enjoying today, is someone else's Contribution.]*

    Whatever you are lacking today, is because someone (may be You) who's suppose to Contribute didn't.

    Don't be that person, who because he refuses to Contribute, causes leakages to the circle. Don't be the "cheat"

    *Every person on earth is here to Contribute to make the world a better place.* What are you doing? Search your mind.

    Contribution is the essence of living.

    You can Contribute anything useful.

    *You can Contribute in*
    knowledge,
    in understanding,
    in wisdom,
    in love,
    in peace,
    in resources, and
    in finances.

    *Also, you can Contribute*
    physically,
    spiritually,
    intellectually,
    financially,
    morally etc.

    When you Contribute, people will eat,

    *when people Contribute, you will eat*.

    *ASK YOURSELF*:
    What is my Contribution in that place that I am?
    What have you Contributed to make progress?

    What is lacking as a result of your refusal to Contribute?
    What is the way forward?

    *The answer explains the scarcity or abundance in that place.*

    *YOUR PRESENCE IS IRRELEVANT if you have nothing to Contribute.*

    *Even Nature Contribute.*

    *CONTRIBUTION is the way to go*

    In your place of worship,
    Contribute...
    In your workplace, where you earn your daily living, Contribute...

    In the school e.g. Old boys\girls.
    Contribute...
    In the *house,* Contribute...
    In the market, Contribute...

    In the *society*, Contribute...
    In the village, Contribute...
    In the community, Contribute...
    In the family, Contribute...
    In your street, Contribute..

    In your Fellowship or Association Contribute.
    Wherever you find yourself, contribute for impact.
    Everywhere, try to Contribute...

    *WE ALL HAVE SOMETHING TO CONTRIBUTE:*
    Contribute in love...
    Instead of complaining,
    Contribute.
    Instead of destructive criticism,
    Contribute.
    Instead of being embittered,
    Contribute.
    Instead of watching,

    *Contribution is the right use of energy*
    *Nobody destroys where he has contributed to build.*

    THE WORLD WILL BE WORTH LIVING, IF EVERYONE CONTRIBUTES MEANINGFULLY.

    *START CONTRIBUTING POSITIVELY NOW!!!*

    Start making impact from today and may God bless us all.

    Thank You!
    *LIFE IS A CIRCLE OF CONTRIBUTIONS:* _..... you gat to do your part!_ I Contribute by sharing. You Contribute by sharing. We Contribute by sharing. They Contribute by sharing. When any party ceases to Contribute/share, the circle will be broken and leakages will be discovered. *[Whatever you are enjoying today, is someone else's Contribution.]* Whatever you are lacking today, is because someone (may be You) who's suppose to Contribute didn't. Don't be that person, who because he refuses to Contribute, causes leakages to the circle. Don't be the "cheat" *Every person on earth is here to Contribute to make the world a better place.* What are you doing? Search your mind. Contribution is the essence of living. You can Contribute anything useful. *You can Contribute in* ▪️knowledge, ▪️in understanding, ▪️in wisdom, ▪️in love, ▪️in peace, ▪️in resources, and ▪️in finances. *Also, you can Contribute* ▪️physically, ▪️spiritually, ▪️intellectually, ▪️financially, ▪️morally etc. When you Contribute, people will eat, *when people Contribute, you will eat*. *ASK YOURSELF*: What is my Contribution in that place that I am? What have you Contributed to make progress? What is lacking as a result of your refusal to Contribute? What is the way forward? *The answer explains the scarcity or abundance in that place.* *YOUR PRESENCE IS IRRELEVANT if you have nothing to Contribute.* *Even Nature Contribute.* *CONTRIBUTION is the way to go* In your place of worship, Contribute... In your workplace, where you earn your daily living, Contribute... In the school e.g. Old boys\girls. Contribute... In the *house,* Contribute... In the market, Contribute... In the *society*, Contribute... In the village, Contribute... In the community, Contribute... In the family, Contribute... In your street, Contribute.. In your Fellowship or Association Contribute. Wherever you find yourself, contribute for impact. Everywhere, try to Contribute... *WE ALL HAVE SOMETHING TO CONTRIBUTE:* Contribute in love... Instead of complaining, Contribute. Instead of destructive criticism, Contribute. Instead of being embittered, Contribute. Instead of watching, *Contribution is the right use of energy* *Nobody destroys where he has contributed to build.* THE WORLD WILL BE WORTH LIVING, IF EVERYONE CONTRIBUTES MEANINGFULLY. *START CONTRIBUTING POSITIVELY NOW!!!* Start making impact from today and may God bless us all. Thank You!
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  • Discipline becomes normal when you remind yourself where you're going. Purpose makes boring pains meaningful.

    ```#KEEP GOING```
    Discipline becomes normal when you remind yourself where you're going. Purpose makes boring pains meaningful. ```🎯#KEEP GOING```
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  • My dear, let’s be real, looking sexy and having curves everywhere might attract men, but it won’t keep them. If that’s all you’re banking on, you’re only deceiving yourself. Being hot might get their attention, but it takes more than a banging body to build something lasting.

    Men, the serious ones are looking for value. They want a woman who has sense, who can hold a meaningful conversation, who can contribute to growth and be a partner, not just a trophy. What happens when beauty fades or when they meet someone even hotter?

    So instead of relying on your hips and fine face alone, work on your character. Build your mind. Add skills. Have something that gives you confidence beyond your looks. Let them stay because of how you make them feel, how you support them, how you handle life, not just how you look in a dress. Remember, beauty might catch the eye, but value keeps the heart. Don’t sell yourself short.

    - Chioma Akpotha
    My dear, let’s be real, looking sexy and having curves everywhere might attract men, but it won’t keep them. If that’s all you’re banking on, you’re only deceiving yourself. Being hot might get their attention, but it takes more than a banging body to build something lasting. Men, the serious ones are looking for value. They want a woman who has sense, who can hold a meaningful conversation, who can contribute to growth and be a partner, not just a trophy. What happens when beauty fades or when they meet someone even hotter? So instead of relying on your hips and fine face alone, work on your character. Build your mind. Add skills. Have something that gives you confidence beyond your looks. Let them stay because of how you make them feel, how you support them, how you handle life, not just how you look in a dress. Remember, beauty might catch the eye, but value keeps the heart. Don’t sell yourself short. - Chioma Akpotha
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  • *SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 01/07/2025*

    Over 25m naturalised Americans at risk as U.S. begin revoking citizenship

    Dangote refinery slashes petrol price from N880 to N840 per litre

    Students reject renaming of Ibadan Poly, appeal to Oyo Assembly

    Umar unveils 38 ‘unsung June 12 heroes’ in military

    NEMA distributes food items to victims of fire disasters in Taraba

    Kidnappings: Youths set Emir’s palace, NDLEA office ablaze in Kwara

    2027 ambition: I’m willing to serve for four years only — Peter Obi

    Lagos enforces ban on single-use plastics today

    Messi considering leaving Inter Miami after Club World Cup exit

    Jury to deliberate Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs’s fate

    US approves $510m sale of bomb guidance kits to Israel

    Rockets fired at Iraq airport, two wounded

    Our ancestors traced to Nigeria – Saint Lucian Senate President

    Dantata’s Burial Postponed Till Tuesday

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    *DID YOU KNOW?*

    * M-Pesa, launched in Kenya in 2007, made it possible to send and receive money via mobile phones – even without internet access. Today, mobile money is a multi-billion-dollar industry and M-Pesa is a case studey at Harvard.

    * Tyromancy is the practice of predicting the future with cheese.
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    Scholarship for Caribbean students to begin next year – Tinubu

    Tinubu proposes formal Nigeria-OECS pact to deepen bilateral ties

    Wike has made Renewed Hope Agenda meaningful to rural communities – Tinubu

    Emergency rule: Tinubu may restore Fubara, Rivers lawmakers in July

    Akpabio seeks increased investment in human capital development

    Reps query Rivers N1.48tn budget, demand CCTV, gunboat details

    Rep Oke urges INEC to sanitize political space, calls for deregistration of dormant parties

    Court refuses CBEX promoters bail in $1bn fraud case

    Okuama: Court orders military to produce detained leader

    Alleged cybercrime: Trial begins September as court grants Natasha bail

    Alleged terrorist negotiator, Mamu, files fresh application for bail

    Abuja youths sue FCTA over teachers, health workers’ strike

    Defamation: Popular female Islamic scholar remanded in Kwara prison

    Cleric jailed 53 years for sexually assaulting 14-year-old daughter

    Police launch School Protection Squad to combat terrorism , banditry in schools

    Sultan, Ihejirika to grace NDA’s Course 18 golden anniversary

    Africa faces 40% surge in drug use, Marwa warns

    Badaru-led delegation in Saudi Arabia ahead of Dantata’s funeral

    Oyetola inaugurates NPA governing board, calls for a reform-driven body

    E-visa system processes over 14,000 applications in six weeks, says minister

    Interior ministry has reduced passport delays, says minister

    W’Bank approves $65m extra loan for Nigeria’s procurement reform

    NNPCL revenue hits ₦6tn in May, profit jumps 14%

    Oil firms remitted N57bn to host communities – FG

    N4.7tn debt: FG yet to meet Gencos despite promises

    N611.7bn spent on dollar bond service in March – DMO

    FG, UNODC partner to tackle terrorist financing, money laundering

    NCAA grounds Rano Air aircraft over engine failure

    FG trains Edo women in CNG conversion

    NAPTIP adds Speed Darlington to watchlist, mulls N50m bounty

    Governors’ wives support cancer control to boost treatment access

    Protest rocks FCT over unpaid allowances, teachers’ strike

    Wike Slashes UniAbuja Land From 11000 To 4000 Hectares

    SSANU to FG: release two-month withheld salaries of our members

    FG intervenes in UNIUYO, UNICAL crisis over VC selection

    NBA defends Ogun judge over comments on traditional rulers burial rites

    Anioma people laud FG as state creation gains momentum

    Mayflower alumni seek Ogun support for school upgrade

    Equipping nurses with obstetric skills will reduce maternal deaths – Doctors

    Sterling Holdings records 102% profit surge, hits ₦43.68bn in 2024

    Telcos roll out $1bn network upgrade as new equipment lands

    Bank employee rejects $7000 bribe to compromise company’s system

    Arik loan non-performing despite N96bn injection — Ex-AMCON director

    Police deny sealing PDP Secretariat

    PDP factions close ranks, affirm Anyanwu as National Secretary

    Ganduje’s replacement likely at July 24 APC NEC’s meeting

    APC pegs fees for senatorial bye-election at N20m, Reps N10m

    2027: No discussion on joint ticket with Atiku, says Obi

    Ganduje’s ex-aide defects to NNPP, alleges marginalisation

    Lagos council chairmen will perform, says Sanwo-Olu

    Uzodimma to showcase Imo’s economic innovations at UN roundtable in Spain

    Kano gov warns LG chairmen against fertiliser diversion

    Kwara gov files defamation charges against two brothers

    Ondo confirms petitions seeking coroner’s inquest into Akeredolu’s death

    REA: Zamfara to convene roundtable on energy access

    Bauchi allocates N200m relief for storm victims

    Polio: UNICEF targets vaccination for one million Taraba children

    Kano police arraign man who climbed billboard

    Rivers women hail Tinubu’s role in resolving political crisis

    Edo pastor, woman stripped naked over alleged infidelity

    Sex worker dies after dispute over N15,000 refund in Ondo

    Tragedy as 23-year-old dies by self-stabbing in Delta

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    *TODAY IN HISTORY*

    * On this day in 1959, the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) issued the country’s first currency – Nigerian Pound – which was at par with the British Pound.

    * On this day in 1908 SOS is adopted as the International Distress Signal. The 2nd International Radiotelegraphic Convention, which was signed in December 1906, made the Morse code distress signal (· · · – – – · · ·), the standard international maritime distress signal.

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    Hope is a renewable option: If you run out of it at the end of the day, you get to start over in the morning. – Barbara Kingsolver

    Good morning

    Happy New Month

    *Compiled by Hon. Osuji George osujis@yahoo.com +234-8122200446*
    *SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 01/07/2025* Over 25m naturalised Americans at risk as U.S. begin revoking citizenship Dangote refinery slashes petrol price from N880 to N840 per litre Students reject renaming of Ibadan Poly, appeal to Oyo Assembly Umar unveils 38 ‘unsung June 12 heroes’ in military NEMA distributes food items to victims of fire disasters in Taraba Kidnappings: Youths set Emir’s palace, NDLEA office ablaze in Kwara 2027 ambition: I’m willing to serve for four years only — Peter Obi Lagos enforces ban on single-use plastics today Messi considering leaving Inter Miami after Club World Cup exit Jury to deliberate Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs’s fate US approves $510m sale of bomb guidance kits to Israel Rockets fired at Iraq airport, two wounded Our ancestors traced to Nigeria – Saint Lucian Senate President Dantata’s Burial Postponed Till Tuesday ----------------------------- *DID YOU KNOW?* * M-Pesa, launched in Kenya in 2007, made it possible to send and receive money via mobile phones – even without internet access. Today, mobile money is a multi-billion-dollar industry and M-Pesa is a case studey at Harvard. * Tyromancy is the practice of predicting the future with cheese. ----------------------------- Scholarship for Caribbean students to begin next year – Tinubu Tinubu proposes formal Nigeria-OECS pact to deepen bilateral ties Wike has made Renewed Hope Agenda meaningful to rural communities – Tinubu Emergency rule: Tinubu may restore Fubara, Rivers lawmakers in July Akpabio seeks increased investment in human capital development Reps query Rivers N1.48tn budget, demand CCTV, gunboat details Rep Oke urges INEC to sanitize political space, calls for deregistration of dormant parties Court refuses CBEX promoters bail in $1bn fraud case Okuama: Court orders military to produce detained leader Alleged cybercrime: Trial begins September as court grants Natasha bail Alleged terrorist negotiator, Mamu, files fresh application for bail Abuja youths sue FCTA over teachers, health workers’ strike Defamation: Popular female Islamic scholar remanded in Kwara prison Cleric jailed 53 years for sexually assaulting 14-year-old daughter Police launch School Protection Squad to combat terrorism , banditry in schools Sultan, Ihejirika to grace NDA’s Course 18 golden anniversary Africa faces 40% surge in drug use, Marwa warns Badaru-led delegation in Saudi Arabia ahead of Dantata’s funeral Oyetola inaugurates NPA governing board, calls for a reform-driven body E-visa system processes over 14,000 applications in six weeks, says minister Interior ministry has reduced passport delays, says minister W’Bank approves $65m extra loan for Nigeria’s procurement reform NNPCL revenue hits ₦6tn in May, profit jumps 14% Oil firms remitted N57bn to host communities – FG N4.7tn debt: FG yet to meet Gencos despite promises N611.7bn spent on dollar bond service in March – DMO FG, UNODC partner to tackle terrorist financing, money laundering NCAA grounds Rano Air aircraft over engine failure FG trains Edo women in CNG conversion NAPTIP adds Speed Darlington to watchlist, mulls N50m bounty Governors’ wives support cancer control to boost treatment access Protest rocks FCT over unpaid allowances, teachers’ strike Wike Slashes UniAbuja Land From 11000 To 4000 Hectares SSANU to FG: release two-month withheld salaries of our members FG intervenes in UNIUYO, UNICAL crisis over VC selection NBA defends Ogun judge over comments on traditional rulers burial rites Anioma people laud FG as state creation gains momentum Mayflower alumni seek Ogun support for school upgrade Equipping nurses with obstetric skills will reduce maternal deaths – Doctors Sterling Holdings records 102% profit surge, hits ₦43.68bn in 2024 Telcos roll out $1bn network upgrade as new equipment lands Bank employee rejects $7000 bribe to compromise company’s system Arik loan non-performing despite N96bn injection — Ex-AMCON director Police deny sealing PDP Secretariat PDP factions close ranks, affirm Anyanwu as National Secretary Ganduje’s replacement likely at July 24 APC NEC’s meeting APC pegs fees for senatorial bye-election at N20m, Reps N10m 2027: No discussion on joint ticket with Atiku, says Obi Ganduje’s ex-aide defects to NNPP, alleges marginalisation Lagos council chairmen will perform, says Sanwo-Olu Uzodimma to showcase Imo’s economic innovations at UN roundtable in Spain Kano gov warns LG chairmen against fertiliser diversion Kwara gov files defamation charges against two brothers Ondo confirms petitions seeking coroner’s inquest into Akeredolu’s death REA: Zamfara to convene roundtable on energy access Bauchi allocates N200m relief for storm victims Polio: UNICEF targets vaccination for one million Taraba children Kano police arraign man who climbed billboard Rivers women hail Tinubu’s role in resolving political crisis Edo pastor, woman stripped naked over alleged infidelity Sex worker dies after dispute over N15,000 refund in Ondo Tragedy as 23-year-old dies by self-stabbing in Delta ----------------------------- *TODAY IN HISTORY* * On this day in 1959, the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) issued the country’s first currency – Nigerian Pound – which was at par with the British Pound. * On this day in 1908 SOS is adopted as the International Distress Signal. The 2nd International Radiotelegraphic Convention, which was signed in December 1906, made the Morse code distress signal (· · · – – – · · ·), the standard international maritime distress signal. ----------------------------- Hope is a renewable option: If you run out of it at the end of the day, you get to start over in the morning. – Barbara Kingsolver Good morning Happy New Month *Compiled by Hon. Osuji George osujis@yahoo.com +234-8122200446*
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  • HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN ABOUT A SENSITIVE ISSUE

    We sometimes complain that the men don't want to talk or listen. Here's some things that could help..

    WATCH YOUR TONE
    When upset or frustrated, your tone could easily become sharp, harsh, condescending and full of coldness. A man doesn't like engaging anyone with such a tone. Approach him with peace and the issue will be resolved in peace

    TIMING
    Straight after work is not the time for a deep talk. One is mentally and physically tired. Let him relax first, put his feet up and approach the subject at a good time

    WATCH YOUR EYES
    Men get repelled by condescending and mean eyes. I'm sure you would too

    DON'T ENGAGE HIM WHEN HE IS DRUNK
    If your man is they type that gets intoxicated, don't bother yourself to talk serious issues. Wait till he is sober to have a meaningful talk

    DON'T CONFRONT HIM IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD(REN)
    Infront of the kids be cordial, smile, show unity and when it's just you and him, then talk about the issue

    DON'T ACCUSE HIM FALSELY
    Some women do this. However, this is the easiest way to make him feel attacked and to break the delicate fabric of trust between you two. Before you jump into conclusions, ask him questions politely. Talk with facts. Don't interrogate, politely ask.

    DON'T CAUSE A SCENE
    A man loses respect for a woman who causes a scene in public or in front of family or friends

    SOOTHE HIM
    If you want to introduce a topic that has been bothering you, hold on to it. Prepare him his favourite meal, do things that make him feel good. While he is in a good mood, lovingly introduce the issue for discussion

    BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS
    If the issue is heavy, be prepared for a conversation that will be heavy on your heart but remain calm and collected. Being frantic and delirious will not aid your cause.

    NO INSULTS
    Watch your tongue. Keep calm. Insulting him or parading his weaknesses and past mistakes will complicate things. You need him to know you are on the same team

    DON'T INTRODUCE OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS
    Don't tell him things like 'Even my mum thinks you should...', 'My friend Kajwang who is a man thinks we should...", "Zamira says her husband..." Don't show him you talk about your personal issues with outsiders. Don't show him you value other people's opinion more than his. Don't show him your motivation is based on comparing you two with other couples

    BOOST HIS EGO A TAD ;)
    Appreciate him more than you criticize him. If you want a man to grow in doing good, praise him for the good he does big and small. When you make him feel like a hero each time he pleases you, he will love pleasing you and will listen moreBest gifts for your loved ones

    DON'T BOY HIM
    Don't talk down at him. He should never feel disrespected by the woman he has committed to. He hates it when you baby-sit him

    DON'T TALK AT HIM
    Talk with him. Give him time to speak, don't run your mouth. It should be a two way conversation, not an order

    TALK AFTER MAKING LOVE
    You can choose to talk about the issue after making love. At that time, both of you are feeling most in love. Talk intimately and peacefully about the issue, he is so receptive to all you say at that timeBest gifts for your loved ones

    TAKE HIM ON A DATE
    Or you can take him to a place outside home where he will be more conscious of his demeanour in public. An outside setting also breaks the monotony of home. Talk about the issue over a date

    DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL UNEASY
    Men get unsettled by the words 'We need to talk'. Ease off the pressure by not putting him on the hot seat

    DON'T PUSH HIM
    Don't pressure him to conclude the issue. If he needs time to think through what you have talked with him about, give him time. Sometimes a man needs to arrange his thoughts in his "me" time. You have had ample time to think about the issue, probably more time than him

    BE FLEXIBLE
    Perhaps after you talk, he might not see things your way or the outcome may not be as you anticipated. Don't have a fixed mind, you two have to come to a joint agreement. Some times also you will need to exercise patience
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    Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽

    Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved.

    Date nights are a must.
    Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in.

    Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important.

    Learn each others love language. Best gifts for your loved ones
    We all don’t perceive love the same way.

    Go to bed mad sometimes.
    Don’t force a resolution.
    Sleeping on it does help.

    When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time.

    It will get boring sometimes. Best gifts for your loved ones
    Every couple goes through the “boring” stage.
    It’s normal.
    It will fade.
    This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in.

    Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa.

    It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health.

    It’s okay to go to couples counselling.
    It helps.
    It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing.

    Talk about money.
    Talk about your financial goals.
    Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa.

    Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other.

    Ask questions like

    “What do you need to see more of from me?”
    “How can we understand each other better?”

    And most importantly, be kind to each other.

    Love each other. Best gifts for your loved ones

    Fight for each other.

    Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride.

    But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it..
    ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒>
    HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN ABOUT A SENSITIVE ISSUE We sometimes complain that the men don't want to talk or listen. Here's some things that could help.. WATCH YOUR TONE When upset or frustrated, your tone could easily become sharp, harsh, condescending and full of coldness. A man doesn't like engaging anyone with such a tone. Approach him with peace and the issue will be resolved in peace TIMING Straight after work is not the time for a deep talk. One is mentally and physically tired. Let him relax first, put his feet up and approach the subject at a good time WATCH YOUR EYES Men get repelled by condescending and mean eyes. I'm sure you would too DON'T ENGAGE HIM WHEN HE IS DRUNK If your man is they type that gets intoxicated, don't bother yourself to talk serious issues. Wait till he is sober to have a meaningful talk DON'T CONFRONT HIM IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD(REN) Infront of the kids be cordial, smile, show unity and when it's just you and him, then talk about the issue DON'T ACCUSE HIM FALSELY Some women do this. However, this is the easiest way to make him feel attacked and to break the delicate fabric of trust between you two. Before you jump into conclusions, ask him questions politely. Talk with facts. Don't interrogate, politely ask. DON'T CAUSE A SCENE A man loses respect for a woman who causes a scene in public or in front of family or friends SOOTHE HIM If you want to introduce a topic that has been bothering you, hold on to it. Prepare him his favourite meal, do things that make him feel good. While he is in a good mood, lovingly introduce the issue for discussion BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS If the issue is heavy, be prepared for a conversation that will be heavy on your heart but remain calm and collected. Being frantic and delirious will not aid your cause. NO INSULTS Watch your tongue. Keep calm. Insulting him or parading his weaknesses and past mistakes will complicate things. You need him to know you are on the same team DON'T INTRODUCE OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS Don't tell him things like 'Even my mum thinks you should...', 'My friend Kajwang who is a man thinks we should...", "Zamira says her husband..." Don't show him you talk about your personal issues with outsiders. Don't show him you value other people's opinion more than his. Don't show him your motivation is based on comparing you two with other couples BOOST HIS EGO A TAD ;) Appreciate him more than you criticize him. If you want a man to grow in doing good, praise him for the good he does big and small. When you make him feel like a hero each time he pleases you, he will love pleasing you and will listen moreBest gifts for your loved ones DON'T BOY HIM Don't talk down at him. He should never feel disrespected by the woman he has committed to. He hates it when you baby-sit him DON'T TALK AT HIM Talk with him. Give him time to speak, don't run your mouth. It should be a two way conversation, not an order TALK AFTER MAKING LOVE You can choose to talk about the issue after making love. At that time, both of you are feeling most in love. Talk intimately and peacefully about the issue, he is so receptive to all you say at that timeBest gifts for your loved ones TAKE HIM ON A DATE Or you can take him to a place outside home where he will be more conscious of his demeanour in public. An outside setting also breaks the monotony of home. Talk about the issue over a date DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL UNEASY Men get unsettled by the words 'We need to talk'. Ease off the pressure by not putting him on the hot seat DON'T PUSH HIM Don't pressure him to conclude the issue. If he needs time to think through what you have talked with him about, give him time. Sometimes a man needs to arrange his thoughts in his "me" time. You have had ample time to think about the issue, probably more time than him BE FLEXIBLE Perhaps after you talk, he might not see things your way or the outcome may not be as you anticipated. Don't have a fixed mind, you two have to come to a joint agreement. Some times also you will need to exercise patience Read less. Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship...✍🏽 Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved. Date nights are a must. Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in. Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important. Learn each others love language. Best gifts for your loved ones We all don’t perceive love the same way. Go to bed mad sometimes. Don’t force a resolution. Sleeping on it does help. When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time. It will get boring sometimes. Best gifts for your loved ones Every couple goes through the “boring” stage. It’s normal. It will fade. This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in. Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa. It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health. It’s okay to go to couples counselling. It helps. It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing. Talk about money. Talk about your financial goals. Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa. Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other. Ask questions like “What do you need to see more of from me?” “How can we understand each other better?” And most importantly, be kind to each other. Love each other. Best gifts for your loved ones Fight for each other. Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride. But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it.. ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒>
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  • *"As smoke vanisheth, so let them vanish away: as wax melteth before the fire, so let the wicked perish at the presence of God."*
    _✝Psalm 67:3_

    You will be visited by divine opportunities. Your labour shall not be in futility. Every journey of yours shall be accompanied by God's divine protection. You will forever remember this month for greatness. As this Month of June ends today, every door of sorrow is closed. Almighty Jehovah will bless you beyond imagination. Every crooked way before you is made straight. Your secret prayers are given public answers. Your hope shall not be dashed. Your life shall be meaningful. Every power assigned to end your life shall be condemned and disgraced. Your journey this month shall end in praise. Almighty God will bless your finances and make you live in abundance. Your source of joy shall not be tearful. You will never lack any good thing in the Mighty Name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
    I pray for you this last day of the Month of June that the Lord God Almighty will grant you Grace to overcome every challenge of life. This beautiful day and beyond God will grant you favour in the sight of men and women, old and young. I break into pieces the gates of bronze and cut asunder the bars of iron in your life.
    You will walk in glory and beauty of HIS might. As you step out this week, the wealth that is stored in the secret places and hidden treasures will be released unto you and your family. The Almighty God, the burden bearer, will hear your humble cry and fill your heart with peace. You will get to your destination in life. You will prosper in all that you do and you shall be a blessing to your generation in the Mighty Name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

    *Have A Pleasant, Blissful And Successful Monday And Week Ahead.*

    _GOOD AFTERNOON
    *"As smoke vanisheth, so let them vanish away: as wax melteth before the fire, so let the wicked perish at the presence of God."* _✝Psalm 67:3_ You will be visited by divine opportunities. Your labour shall not be in futility. Every journey of yours shall be accompanied by God's divine protection. You will forever remember this month for greatness. As this Month of June ends today, every door of sorrow is closed. Almighty Jehovah will bless you beyond imagination. Every crooked way before you is made straight. Your secret prayers are given public answers. Your hope shall not be dashed. Your life shall be meaningful. Every power assigned to end your life shall be condemned and disgraced. Your journey this month shall end in praise. Almighty God will bless your finances and make you live in abundance. Your source of joy shall not be tearful. You will never lack any good thing in the Mighty Name of Jesus Christ. Amen. I pray for you this last day of the Month of June that the Lord God Almighty will grant you Grace to overcome every challenge of life. This beautiful day and beyond God will grant you favour in the sight of men and women, old and young. I break into pieces the gates of bronze and cut asunder the bars of iron in your life. You will walk in glory and beauty of HIS might. As you step out this week, the wealth that is stored in the secret places and hidden treasures will be released unto you and your family. The Almighty God, the burden bearer, will hear your humble cry and fill your heart with peace. You will get to your destination in life. You will prosper in all that you do and you shall be a blessing to your generation in the Mighty Name of Jesus Christ. Amen. *Have A Pleasant, Blissful And Successful Monday And Week Ahead.* _GOOD AFTERNOON
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