My dear, let’s be real, looking sexy and having curves everywhere might attract men, but it won’t keep them. If that’s all you’re banking on, you’re only deceiving yourself. Being hot might get their attention, but it takes more than a banging body to build something lasting.

Men, the serious ones are looking for value. They want a woman who has sense, who can hold a meaningful conversation, who can contribute to growth and be a partner, not just a trophy. What happens when beauty fades or when they meet someone even hotter?

So instead of relying on your hips and fine face alone, work on your character. Build your mind. Add skills. Have something that gives you confidence beyond your looks. Let them stay because of how you make them feel, how you support them, how you handle life, not just how you look in a dress. Remember, beauty might catch the eye, but value keeps the heart. Don’t sell yourself short.

- Chioma Akpotha