Two days ago we celebrated mother's day, come to think of it who is a mother?

A mother is someone who nurtures, cares for, and provides love and support to a child. This can be biological, adoptive, or even in a chosen family dynamic. A mother isn’t just defined by giving birth but by the role she plays in a child's life—offering guidance, protection, and unconditional love.

Characteristics of a mother

A mother is often characterized by a mix of emotional, psychological, and practical qualities. While every mother is unique, some common characteristics include:

1. Unconditional Love – A mother’s love is deep, unwavering, and not based on conditions. She cares for her children regardless of their flaws.

2. Nurturing Nature – She provides emotional and physical support, ensuring her children feel safe, loved, and cared for.

3. Patience – Raising children requires immense patience, from teaching life lessons to handling tantrums.

4. Selflessness – A mother often puts her child’s needs before her own, sacrificing time, sleep, and personal desires for their well-being.

5. Strength and Resilience – She remains strong through challenges, whether emotional, financial, or personal, to support her family.

6. Guidance and Wisdom – A mother imparts life lessons, values, and knowledge, helping her children navigate life’s ups and downs.

7. Protectiveness – She instinctively protects her child from harm, whether emotional or physical.

8. Compassion and Empathy – Understanding her child’s feelings and struggles, she provides comfort and reassurance.

9. Dedication and Hard Work – Whether she’s a stay-at-home mom, a working mother, or balancing both, she is committed to providing a better life for her child.

10. Forgiveness – Even when children make mistakes, a mother forgives and continues to support them.

While these characteristics are common, motherhood looks different for everyone. Some mothers may express love through actions rather than words, while others may be more emotional.

What do you think defines a mother best?

Let's have your opinion on this

Listen son, women do not fall in love based on logic. They always do it being guided by th3ir emotion. They enter a relationship being guided by their feelings, depending on what they feel that very moment. This is why they will always leave an engineer to date a tout. This is why you cannot advice them in their prime. They wanna date the bad boy who is not serious with them because he stirs their feelings. This is why advising your teenage daughter about marrying certain type of men will prove futile.

Always understand that this strategy changes with phases, time and age. They will now stop following their emotions when loving a man when they have already made mistakes of their lives. When their prime have lapsed and they are now single modas with baggage, when their value has depleted. They will now tend to use logic in dating because they want security. Only f00l!sh meπ will offer this security when they are done done messing.

Let them carry their own crosses. As a father, you will find yourself feeling sad because of your daughter who could not listen to you and now she married the wrong man. This happened in my family. My grandfather warned one of his daughters about marrying into a certain family. According to my grandmother, he told her,

"I know these people. Do not dare, my daughter. You will cry and I will hear in my grave." This came to pass. My grandfather was long dead when our aunt saw shege in broad daylight.

When women are young and wild, they follow their desires, they give themselves to whomever makes them go gaga! They follow where pleasure is served until it is time to settle down when they change moves.

This is why as a man you should never lie to yourself that you are the one she loves not that she agreed to marry you, no! You can afford to pay her bills, you have a house, some money and security. This is why she forego the other guy she truly loved for you. Her love for you is intentional.

She may be seeing her ex. And she might sleep with any other man she had before you. She married you because she needed the security which other men who made her go gaga could not fulfil. So, you were accepted because you came with a package others could not afford. So stop bragging, eh.

This is why you should strive in looking for a younger woman who've had no history with men because all of them will always live engraved in her soul. They will live rent free in her mind. It is like a form of digital print in a dark web that cannot be erased.

Whoever has found himself a womaπ with zero body count has found himself a good thing. The relationship is likely to be more solid than the one the womaπ is a retired veteran..

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband
2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband
3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances
4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings

5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend
6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood
7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband
8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him
9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly

10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time
11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids
12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments
13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband
14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves

15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband
16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty
17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her
18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together
Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage.
Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own.

Greetings to all submissive Women

A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN MARRIAGE - Proverbs 31:10 - 31

In this month of April, Every good things that God has said concerning your life shall come to manifestation.

No matter the power of your enemies, they will never turn your joy into saddens, may you be endowed with long and healthy life ahead.
Henceforth, God will shower you, your family and your loved ones with unusual kindness and abundant blessings in Jesus precious Name. Amen.

*FOBCARES *

Creating a close-knit family takes time and effort. It's all about communication, trust, and quality time. Make sure to check in with your loved ones regularly, and prioritize spending time together. #FamilyFirst #SifonSambo #WomensHealth

A man can be the only provider in the house and still be a family oriented man.

He will hustle and still make out time for family, and still value his home.

Being a career woman is never an excuse to neglect your home, or to be less accessible by loved ones .

Success shouldn't pave the core values of life.

Unless you don't desire marriage or having a family, which is fine; otherwise, learn to balance your desire for success with being lovable.

Many children have been emotionally traumat!zèd by their career driven parents. These parents seems to be physically present, but act like absent parents.

Maintain a balance between fame, wealth, success, and being family oriented.

You can be a loving mother and wife and still be a great woman of valor.

You can be anything you want to be and still be lovely

Just find a supportive partner, it makes it easier for you.

#Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾
#TheVoice

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband
2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband
3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances
4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings

5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend
6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood
7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband
8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him
9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly

10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time
11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids
12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments
13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband
14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves

15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband
16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty
17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her
18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together
Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage.
Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own.

Greetings to all submissive Women

A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN MARRIAGE - Proverbs 31:10 - 31

Happy mother's day to all our Amazing mothers.

"Ensuring the health of your family starts with taking care of yourself. A healthy lifestyle, regular check-ups, and staying active are key to being the best version of yourself for your loved ones. Together, we can create a supportive environment for family well-being. #SifonSambo #YoureNotAlone #WomensHealth"

Taking care of the whole family means focusing on the health of every member. From nutrition to mental well-being, every small change can have a big impact on our loved ones. Remember, you're never alone in this journey—together we can achieve better health. #SifonSambo #YoureNotAlone #WomensHealth

Ensuring the health of your family starts with taking care of yourself. A healthy lifestyle, regular check-ups, and staying active are key to being the best version of yourself for your loved ones. Together, we can create a supportive environment for family well-being. #Sifon Sambo #YoureNotAlone #WomensHealth

You can’t settle for less right?
I hope you are not female version of the ‘less’ you don’t want to settle for?

If everyone should marry someone in the same status and level with them, will you still be able to marry your dream man?

I hope you are not the female version of the kind of ‘Less’ you don’t want to settle with?

While you are avoiding men who are financially struggling, many successful men are avoiding ladies with no direction or purpose in life.

I shaa hope you are not someone else’s version of ‘less’.

Be productive!

Happy new week beloved

#Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾
#TheVoice

"My name is Kanayo O. Kanayo, but my real name is Anayo Modestus Onyekwere. I was born in Mbaise, Imo State, and I grew up in a humble home. Life was not easy, but I was determined to succeed.

In 1992, I got my big break in Nollywood with the movie Living in Bondage. That movie changed my life. People loved my acting, especially my role as a wealthy man involved in rituals. After that, I became famous for playing ritualist roles in movies like Blood Money and Rituals. Many people even believed I was a ritualist in real life! But I was just a good actor.

Even with my success in Nollywood, I wanted more. So, I went back to school to study Law. In 2020, I became a lawyer. Now, I balance my career as both an actor and a lawyer.

My message to young people is simple: Work hard, stay focused, and never stop learning. Say no to exam malpractice! Education is the key to success."

— Kanayo O. Kanayo