• As you go out today, Every thing shall work out for your good Romans 8:28
    Your blessings shall multiply, Your Health shall improve, Your family beloved, Your loved ones shall be blessed,Pain lessen, Your worries disappear and this new week bring you closer to your dream and aspirations said the Lord God of Host. I wish you a new week of Happiness, Success, Peace, Prosperity, Good Health and wealth in Jesus mighty name Amen. Happy New week.
    As you go out today, Every thing shall work out for your good Romans 8:28 Your blessings shall multiply, Your Health shall improve, Your family beloved, Your loved ones shall be blessed,Pain lessen, Your worries disappear and this new week bring you closer to your dream and aspirations said the Lord God of Host. I wish you a new week of Happiness, Success, Peace, Prosperity, Good Health and wealth in Jesus mighty name Amen. Happy New week.
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  • PLEASE FAITHFULLY MAKE THESE SEVEN POWERFUL DECLARATION FOR YOUR CHILDREN BEFORE YOU SHARE IT TO SEVEN PARENTS.

    1. NO MATTER
    HOW LONG I
    STAY ON
    EARTH, I WILL
    NEVER
    EXPERIENCE
    THE AGONY
    AND TEARS
    OF LOSING MY
    CHILDREN TO
    DEATH.

    2. I WILL NEVER
    KNOW THE
    GRAVE OF MY
    CHILDREN.

    3. SICKNESS OF
    CHILDREN WILL
    NOT DRY ME
    FINANCIALLY.

    4. A CAR THAT IS
    ACCOMPANIED
    WITH PALM
    FRONDS
    WILL NEVER
    ENTER MY
    COMPOUND.

    5. THE SAME
    HAND I USED
    TO BUY BOOKS
    PEN AND
    CLOTHES FOR
    MY CHILDREN,
    WILL NEVER BE
    USED TO BUY
    THEIR
    CASKETS.

    6. THE STAR OF
    MY GLORIOUS
    CHILDREN WILL
    NOT FALL
    SUDDENLY.

    7. MY GLORIOUS
    CHILDREN
    WILL NOT BE
    KIDNAPPED.

    8. AS I USE MY
    HANDS TO
    SHARE THESE
    DECLARATIONS
    TO MY LOVED
    ONES, I WILL
    NOT USE THE
    SAME HANDS
    TO COLLECT
    THE DEAD
    BODY OF MY
    CHILDREN
    FROM THE
    MORTUARY.,
    AMEN

    *PLEASE SHARE THESE PRAYERS WITH SEVEN PARENTS OR GROUPS
    PLEASE FAITHFULLY MAKE THESE SEVEN POWERFUL DECLARATION FOR YOUR CHILDREN BEFORE YOU SHARE IT TO SEVEN PARENTS. 1. NO MATTER HOW LONG I STAY ON EARTH, I WILL NEVER EXPERIENCE THE AGONY AND TEARS OF LOSING MY CHILDREN TO DEATH. 2. I WILL NEVER KNOW THE GRAVE OF MY CHILDREN. 3. SICKNESS OF CHILDREN WILL NOT DRY ME FINANCIALLY. 4. A CAR THAT IS ACCOMPANIED WITH PALM FRONDS 🌿 WILL NEVER ENTER MY COMPOUND. 5. THE SAME HAND I USED TO BUY BOOKS PEN AND CLOTHES FOR MY CHILDREN, WILL NEVER BE USED TO BUY THEIR CASKETS. 6. THE STAR OF MY GLORIOUS CHILDREN WILL NOT FALL SUDDENLY. 7. MY GLORIOUS CHILDREN WILL NOT BE KIDNAPPED. 8. AS I USE MY HANDS TO SHARE THESE DECLARATIONS TO MY LOVED ONES, I WILL NOT USE THE SAME HANDS TO COLLECT THE DEAD BODY OF MY CHILDREN FROM THE MORTUARY., AMEN *PLEASE SHARE THESE PRAYERS WITH SEVEN PARENTS OR GROUPS
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  • At a mechanic’s workshop, I noticed a particular car that had been parked there for nearly four years. It was quite expensive and still looked in good shape the first time I saw it. But with time, it began to deteriorate. One of the windows got broken, the tyres deflated and wore out completely, and rust slowly crept over what was once a beautiful machine.

    Curious, I asked the mechanic why such an expensive vehicle had been left to rot.

    He confirmed that the car had indeed been in perfect condition when I first saw it. But even he had become helpless as to what to do. The vehicle belonged to someone from the Republic of Tchad. The man’s driver had been the one bringing it into Nigeria for repairs. On that last occasion, the driver dropped it off, paid for the repairs, and returned to Tchad, saying he would come back to collect the car once the required part being sourced from Lagos was fixed.

    The mechanic bought the part, fixed the car, and waited. He had already been paid. But the driver never came back. It turned out he had been on his way to pick up the car when he was attacked by insurgents and killed. The mechanic didn’t know much about him, only his name, and had no idea where exactly in Tchad he was from. So the car remained there, abandoned. The owner likely has no idea where it is or how to recover it.

    At a certain car wash, there was another case. Another expensive vehicle. This one had been brought in by a customer who patronised them occasionally. They didn’t know much about him either. He lived in another city but always came for business, and each time, he brought the car to be washed.

    On his last visit, he dropped it off as usual and said he was going into town and would return later that evening. He never did. That was three years ago. Still, no sign of him. The car wash owner continues to wash and maintain the vehicle daily, keeping it spotless. But no one has come for it. They didn’t even know his name, and a search of the vehicle turned up no documents that could trace it to anyone. So, it remains abandoned.

    Just last week, a friend of mine died after a brief illness. Before falling sick, he had taken some clothes to the laundry. He never returned to collect them. Thankfully, the laundryman knew his family and brought the clothes to his wife last night. She had no idea he had even taken anything to be laundered.

    These situations made me think deeply.

    Do our families and friends know the people we deal with, our mechanics, our laundrymen, or the businesses we patronise? Do we tell them about the errands we run or the transactions we make? Or do we go about our lives with no one aware of the little details that might matter in the end?

    Shouldn’t someone at least know?

    One day, you will take your car to the mechanic but you will not be the one to bring it back.
    Your clothes will be at the laundry but you will not return to pick them up.
    Do you have some pieces or parcels of land? Does your family know about them?
    Do you have house or houses any where? Does your family know about it or them?
    How many banks do you
    have accounts in?
    Does your family know about all of them?

    Sometimes, the things you worked hard for, the things you loved and valued, will be left lying somewhere, useless and out of reach, because no one knew where you kept them or how to find them. That should be enough to give one the creeps and make one think deeply. Today, tomorrow, it shall come for you.

    One day......

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    At a mechanic’s workshop, I noticed a particular car that had been parked there for nearly four years. It was quite expensive and still looked in good shape the first time I saw it. But with time, it began to deteriorate. One of the windows got broken, the tyres deflated and wore out completely, and rust slowly crept over what was once a beautiful machine. Curious, I asked the mechanic why such an expensive vehicle had been left to rot. He confirmed that the car had indeed been in perfect condition when I first saw it. But even he had become helpless as to what to do. The vehicle belonged to someone from the Republic of Tchad. The man’s driver had been the one bringing it into Nigeria for repairs. On that last occasion, the driver dropped it off, paid for the repairs, and returned to Tchad, saying he would come back to collect the car once the required part being sourced from Lagos was fixed. The mechanic bought the part, fixed the car, and waited. He had already been paid. But the driver never came back. It turned out he had been on his way to pick up the car when he was attacked by insurgents and killed. The mechanic didn’t know much about him, only his name, and had no idea where exactly in Tchad he was from. So the car remained there, abandoned. The owner likely has no idea where it is or how to recover it. At a certain car wash, there was another case. Another expensive vehicle. This one had been brought in by a customer who patronised them occasionally. They didn’t know much about him either. He lived in another city but always came for business, and each time, he brought the car to be washed. On his last visit, he dropped it off as usual and said he was going into town and would return later that evening. He never did. That was three years ago. Still, no sign of him. The car wash owner continues to wash and maintain the vehicle daily, keeping it spotless. But no one has come for it. They didn’t even know his name, and a search of the vehicle turned up no documents that could trace it to anyone. So, it remains abandoned. Just last week, a friend of mine died after a brief illness. Before falling sick, he had taken some clothes to the laundry. He never returned to collect them. Thankfully, the laundryman knew his family and brought the clothes to his wife last night. She had no idea he had even taken anything to be laundered. These situations made me think deeply. Do our families and friends know the people we deal with, our mechanics, our laundrymen, or the businesses we patronise? Do we tell them about the errands we run or the transactions we make? Or do we go about our lives with no one aware of the little details that might matter in the end? Shouldn’t someone at least know? One day, you will take your car to the mechanic but you will not be the one to bring it back. Your clothes will be at the laundry but you will not return to pick them up. Do you have some pieces or parcels of land? Does your family know about them? Do you have house or houses any where? Does your family know about it or them? How many banks do you have accounts in? Does your family know about all of them? Sometimes, the things you worked hard for, the things you loved and valued, will be left lying somewhere, useless and out of reach, because no one knew where you kept them or how to find them. That should be enough to give one the creeps and make one think deeply. Today, tomorrow, it shall come for you. One day...... Copied
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  • I've been in an emotionally difficult relationship for over 15 years, 5 kids. My husband is highly critical, screams at me, screams at the kids, spanks them constantly over minutia, anything I question I'm an argumentative c***, feminism has seeped its poison into me, ect. I kept trying and reaching out, if I just did better, if he would just trust me, its pain and fear talking, all the things.

    Well, I finally left last week. I've left before for a couple weeks, but I always end up back because I know God hates a broken marriage, your to sacrifice for your spouse and so on. So I leave, take a breather, he gets nicer, I keep trying, classic cycle.

    Well, after almost 2 decades, I said screw it, I'm out, my kids are messed up, they flinch when you try to hug them and are non stop angry, Their dad just keeps trying to beat it out of them, I got to go.

    So I walked. I stopped responding to him, anything. When I told the kids we weren't living with Daddy anymore, they cheered.

    Well, now God's Got ahold of him. He's seen the light. He sees now that I was never the one abusing him and he's destroyed his family. He stole our joy, he never loved me, ext, and now apparently he's going to. He gave an in depth heartfelt apology to all the kids, to me, and promised to be different. Disney Dad. Its been a week, so far he's been exemplary.

    I am not running back into that. I believe he's sincere, but I'm not sure he's going to stick and I'm ready to bounce. My mom is very mad at me because I am thinking that a 4 months is around when I'll go back, IF it sticks. She says thats not enough and my kids need to heal and I should take 2 years, if he really loves us, he will wait.

    Am I crazy to think 2 years is unreasonable? If it were me and I'd really made a true change or shift, 2 years seems a long time. Whats a reasonable time line?

    Edit- I'm not asking is he can change, I know its unlikely. I'm saying if he is a unicorn who DOES change, how long does it make sense to stay away? The kids are super excited they have a "new dad."
    I've been in an emotionally difficult relationship for over 15 years, 5 kids. My husband is highly critical, screams at me, screams at the kids, spanks them constantly over minutia, anything I question I'm an argumentative c***, feminism has seeped its poison into me, ect. I kept trying and reaching out, if I just did better, if he would just trust me, its pain and fear talking, all the things. Well, I finally left last week. I've left before for a couple weeks, but I always end up back because I know God hates a broken marriage, your to sacrifice for your spouse and so on. So I leave, take a breather, he gets nicer, I keep trying, classic cycle. Well, after almost 2 decades, I said screw it, I'm out, my kids are messed up, they flinch when you try to hug them and are non stop angry, Their dad just keeps trying to beat it out of them, I got to go. So I walked. I stopped responding to him, anything. When I told the kids we weren't living with Daddy anymore, they cheered. Well, now God's Got ahold of him. He's seen the light. He sees now that I was never the one abusing him and he's destroyed his family. He stole our joy, he never loved me, ext, and now apparently he's going to. He gave an in depth heartfelt apology to all the kids, to me, and promised to be different. Disney Dad. Its been a week, so far he's been exemplary. I am not running back into that. I believe he's sincere, but I'm not sure he's going to stick and I'm ready to bounce. My mom is very mad at me because I am thinking that a 4 months is around when I'll go back, IF it sticks. She says thats not enough and my kids need to heal and I should take 2 years, if he really loves us, he will wait. Am I crazy to think 2 years is unreasonable? If it were me and I'd really made a true change or shift, 2 years seems a long time. Whats a reasonable time line? Edit- I'm not asking is he can change, I know its unlikely. I'm saying if he is a unicorn who DOES change, how long does it make sense to stay away? The kids are super excited they have a "new dad."
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  • **Smith Wigglesworth – “Apostle of Faith”**

    **Early Transformation & First Miracle**

    Now, there was a time when Smith Wigglesworth was quite busy with his plumbing tools in Leeds, where the pipes would creak and leak, just like the conversations in the neighborhood. But amidst all that hustle, he found himself drawn to healing meetings. It was a curious affair indeed! One day, his dear wife Polly, who had been struggling with a chronic ailment, experienced what can only be described as a miraculous healing. This unexpected turn of events set Smith on a path of faith that would change everything, leading him directly into the heart of healing ministry.

    Imagine this: during a meeting one evening, the regular pastor was absent, and our dear Smith thought it fitting to take the stage. With a nervous heart and a stuttered sermon, he somehow found his voice and—lo and behold!—fifteen people were healed right then and there. You could say it fanned the flames of his passion for this miraculous work!

    **Baptism in the Spirit**

    Now, fast forward to 1907, where Smith, with wide eyes and an eager spirit, stumbled into a peculiar Pentecostal gathering in Sunderland. With a few enthusiastic questions about “tongues” (not the type you find in a good meal, mind you), he was promptly shown the door. But did that stop him? Not at all! After a heartfelt prayer in the speaker’s wife’s living room, he found himself speaking in tongues—a thrilling escapade back to that meeting, where fifty souls were filled with the Spirit. Quite the show, I’d say!

    **Miraculous Healings & Spiritual Confrontations**

    Now, there are stories, and then there are stories! One particularly remarkable episode involved a young woman on the brink of death from consumption. Smith, full of determination and perhaps a dash of desperation, prayed over her for four whole hours. Suddenly, a vision of Jesus appeared to him, and wouldn’t you know it? The young lady sprang back to life, resuming her piano playing that very morning as if nothing had happened!

    And then there was Mitchell, a man at death’s door. Sadly, when Smith arrived, it seemed Mitchell had taken the ultimate plunge. But Smith wasn’t one to take a loss quietly; he boldly commanded death to release him. To everyone’s surprise, Mitchell revived and went on to recover as well! Talk about a scene straight out of a play!

    Now, Smith had an unconventional approach—he believed in hitting the afflicted parts of the body, claiming he was “hitting the devil, not them.” Well, if you ask me, it’s quite a daring way to send sickness packing!

    **Trials of Faith & Physical Ailments**

    In a rather self-assured manner, our Smith vowed never to take medicine. But life had other plans, and when appendicitis struck with a vengeance, doctors considered his case hopeless. With a commanding spirit, he once again told the “devil” to leave, and lo! He was healed instantly, returning to work the very next day, tools in hand.

    Smith faced a long battle with kidney stones, sciatica, and eventually a stroke. Despite the pain, he believed these trials were like fine clay molding him for greater things. And you know, he didn’t let a little discomfort keep him from ministering across the globe!

    **Public Campaigns & Legacy**

    From the bustling streets of the U.K. to the wide-open skies of Australia, Smith took his ministry far and wide. Stories of blind eyes opening, crippled legs walking, and cancers disappearing became the tales that traveled with him. In 1937, while in South Africa, he even prophesied a grand revival, telling David du Plessis, “the day I pass away, then you can begin to think about it.” Such confidence!

    **Final Moments & Death**

    On the 12th of March, 1947, while attending the funeral of his friend Wilf Richardson, Smith had an unexpected final act—he collapsed and bid goodbye to the earthly stage, continuing to preach until the very end! A grand finale, one might say.

    At his funeral, he left behind four guiding principles for those who remained:

    1. Read God’s Word.
    2. Let it consume you.
    3. Believe it.
    4. Act on it.

    His voice still echoes in the hearts of many within the Pentecostal and charismatic communities.

    ---

    **Summary of Key Exploits**

    Smith's legacy is dotted with miraculous healings—tumors, tuberculosis, and even those pesky appendicitis troubles. Some even say he managed to resurrect loved ones, a claim that made more than a few heads turn.

    His spirit-led and confrontational approach—casting out tricky spirits through audacious prayer—stands as a testament to his unwavering faith. Despite battling illness, he thrived in service and inspired many. And let’s not forget his prophecies of future revivals, which many credit in shaping the charismatic movements.
    **Smith Wigglesworth – “Apostle of Faith”** 🎯 **Early Transformation & First Miracle** Now, there was a time when Smith Wigglesworth was quite busy with his plumbing tools in Leeds, where the pipes would creak and leak, just like the conversations in the neighborhood. But amidst all that hustle, he found himself drawn to healing meetings. It was a curious affair indeed! One day, his dear wife Polly, who had been struggling with a chronic ailment, experienced what can only be described as a miraculous healing. This unexpected turn of events set Smith on a path of faith that would change everything, leading him directly into the heart of healing ministry. Imagine this: during a meeting one evening, the regular pastor was absent, and our dear Smith thought it fitting to take the stage. With a nervous heart and a stuttered sermon, he somehow found his voice and—lo and behold!—fifteen people were healed right then and there. You could say it fanned the flames of his passion for this miraculous work! 🔥 **Baptism in the Spirit** Now, fast forward to 1907, where Smith, with wide eyes and an eager spirit, stumbled into a peculiar Pentecostal gathering in Sunderland. With a few enthusiastic questions about “tongues” (not the type you find in a good meal, mind you), he was promptly shown the door. But did that stop him? Not at all! After a heartfelt prayer in the speaker’s wife’s living room, he found himself speaking in tongues—a thrilling escapade back to that meeting, where fifty souls were filled with the Spirit. Quite the show, I’d say! 💥 **Miraculous Healings & Spiritual Confrontations** Now, there are stories, and then there are stories! One particularly remarkable episode involved a young woman on the brink of death from consumption. Smith, full of determination and perhaps a dash of desperation, prayed over her for four whole hours. Suddenly, a vision of Jesus appeared to him, and wouldn’t you know it? The young lady sprang back to life, resuming her piano playing that very morning as if nothing had happened! And then there was Mitchell, a man at death’s door. Sadly, when Smith arrived, it seemed Mitchell had taken the ultimate plunge. But Smith wasn’t one to take a loss quietly; he boldly commanded death to release him. To everyone’s surprise, Mitchell revived and went on to recover as well! Talk about a scene straight out of a play! Now, Smith had an unconventional approach—he believed in hitting the afflicted parts of the body, claiming he was “hitting the devil, not them.” Well, if you ask me, it’s quite a daring way to send sickness packing! 🧩 **Trials of Faith & Physical Ailments** In a rather self-assured manner, our Smith vowed never to take medicine. But life had other plans, and when appendicitis struck with a vengeance, doctors considered his case hopeless. With a commanding spirit, he once again told the “devil” to leave, and lo! He was healed instantly, returning to work the very next day, tools in hand. Smith faced a long battle with kidney stones, sciatica, and eventually a stroke. Despite the pain, he believed these trials were like fine clay molding him for greater things. And you know, he didn’t let a little discomfort keep him from ministering across the globe! 🎤 **Public Campaigns & Legacy** From the bustling streets of the U.K. to the wide-open skies of Australia, Smith took his ministry far and wide. Stories of blind eyes opening, crippled legs walking, and cancers disappearing became the tales that traveled with him. In 1937, while in South Africa, he even prophesied a grand revival, telling David du Plessis, “the day I pass away, then you can begin to think about it.” Such confidence! 💀 **Final Moments & Death** On the 12th of March, 1947, while attending the funeral of his friend Wilf Richardson, Smith had an unexpected final act—he collapsed and bid goodbye to the earthly stage, continuing to preach until the very end! A grand finale, one might say. At his funeral, he left behind four guiding principles for those who remained: 1. Read God’s Word. 2. Let it consume you. 3. Believe it. 4. Act on it. His voice still echoes in the hearts of many within the Pentecostal and charismatic communities. --- ✨ **Summary of Key Exploits** Smith's legacy is dotted with miraculous healings—tumors, tuberculosis, and even those pesky appendicitis troubles. Some even say he managed to resurrect loved ones, a claim that made more than a few heads turn. His spirit-led and confrontational approach—casting out tricky spirits through audacious prayer—stands as a testament to his unwavering faith. Despite battling illness, he thrived in service and inspired many. And let’s not forget his prophecies of future revivals, which many credit in shaping the charismatic movements.
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  • HOW TO HANDLE FIGHTS IN A RELATIONSHIP....✍🏾

    1. Know that it is normal for two people in love to disagree, offend each other, fall short, or misunderstand each other.

    2. Always remember how much you love and need each other. Remembering this will give you the incentive to resolve any conflict between you two. Don't throw away true love because of a passing storm.

    3. Know each other's temperaments. If you are a hot-tempered person, tell your partner/spouse so that your partner/spouse will prepare incase you spark off. But work on your temper still.

    4. Agree how to handle fights before fights emerge. A nation develops a constitution to guide its operation, partners/spouses agree on what to do to guide in relations.

    5. Don't let the fear of fighting or disagreeing with your partner/spouse keep you two from confronting each other and expressing your feelings.

    Too many are tired, bored, frustrated or angry in their relationship/marriage but pretend all is well because they are afraid of talking about heavy and uneasy stuff with their partner. Slowly their relationship/marriage collapses, you can't pretend for long.

    6. Before you confront and blame your partner/spouse, analyze the situation and see if you have played a role in causing the problem.

    7. When a fight between you two is approaching or something happens that inflames tempers, walk away, cool off. Don't talk in anger. Cool down then talk rationally.

    8. Remember you are in the same team. Fighting your partner/spouse is fighting what you two have, which in effect is fighting yourself.

    9. Avoid insults. Hold and control your tongue, hurtful words only complicate matters, once they are spoken they can't be taken back.

    10. Don't be tempted to use the information your partner/spouse shared with you in trust to get your way. Don't use the secrets your partner/spouse shared with you to attack or intimidate your partner/spouse.

    11. Don't disclose matters to a third party. Solve the matter the two of you. Don't gossip about the short comings of your partner/spouse to your family or friends. Don't air your dirty linen in public. Cover each other from outsiders as you two remain naked to each other.

    12. Pray together. Prayer clears up the air, restores love and order, brings unity of purpose and reminds you that God is watching and you both are God's children.

    13. When talking about the matter, fully talk about it, look for its root cause, lay everything on the table. A problem that is not fully addressed or understood will keep recurring.

    14. Give each other a chance to speak. None should feel silenced.

    15. Be mindful of your body language. You may not insult but your partner/spouse is paying attention to your body language. Don't sneer, click or show contempt.

    16. Never use your child/children to settle scores in a cold war with each other. You are both loved the same by the child/children.

    17. Conclude the matter quickly. The longer tension exists between you two, the more dangerous it grows.

    18. Accept responsibility. Being mature doesn't mean you won't do wrong or fall short; it means that when you do mess you are wise enough to apologize. Say sorry if you are on the wrong, forgive when you are wronged.

    19. Come up with a way forward to prevent the matter from happening again or from causing much damage in the future.

    20. Hug. Kiss. Make up. Make love.

    21. Laugh about it. Find comedy in your difficult times. No storm lasts always. You two will come out through it closer and stronger. Stay focused, your love is worth fighting for, not fighting each other.
    HOW TO HANDLE FIGHTS IN A RELATIONSHIP....✍🏾 1. Know that it is normal for two people in love to disagree, offend each other, fall short, or misunderstand each other. 2. Always remember how much you love and need each other. Remembering this will give you the incentive to resolve any conflict between you two. Don't throw away true love because of a passing storm. 3. Know each other's temperaments. If you are a hot-tempered person, tell your partner/spouse so that your partner/spouse will prepare incase you spark off. But work on your temper still. 4. Agree how to handle fights before fights emerge. A nation develops a constitution to guide its operation, partners/spouses agree on what to do to guide in relations. 5. Don't let the fear of fighting or disagreeing with your partner/spouse keep you two from confronting each other and expressing your feelings. Too many are tired, bored, frustrated or angry in their relationship/marriage but pretend all is well because they are afraid of talking about heavy and uneasy stuff with their partner. Slowly their relationship/marriage collapses, you can't pretend for long. 6. Before you confront and blame your partner/spouse, analyze the situation and see if you have played a role in causing the problem. 7. When a fight between you two is approaching or something happens that inflames tempers, walk away, cool off. Don't talk in anger. Cool down then talk rationally. 8. Remember you are in the same team. Fighting your partner/spouse is fighting what you two have, which in effect is fighting yourself. 9. Avoid insults. Hold and control your tongue, hurtful words only complicate matters, once they are spoken they can't be taken back. 10. Don't be tempted to use the information your partner/spouse shared with you in trust to get your way. Don't use the secrets your partner/spouse shared with you to attack or intimidate your partner/spouse. 11. Don't disclose matters to a third party. Solve the matter the two of you. Don't gossip about the short comings of your partner/spouse to your family or friends. Don't air your dirty linen in public. Cover each other from outsiders as you two remain naked to each other. 12. Pray together. Prayer clears up the air, restores love and order, brings unity of purpose and reminds you that God is watching and you both are God's children. 13. When talking about the matter, fully talk about it, look for its root cause, lay everything on the table. A problem that is not fully addressed or understood will keep recurring. 14. Give each other a chance to speak. None should feel silenced. 15. Be mindful of your body language. You may not insult but your partner/spouse is paying attention to your body language. Don't sneer, click or show contempt. 16. Never use your child/children to settle scores in a cold war with each other. You are both loved the same by the child/children. 17. Conclude the matter quickly. The longer tension exists between you two, the more dangerous it grows. 18. Accept responsibility. Being mature doesn't mean you won't do wrong or fall short; it means that when you do mess you are wise enough to apologize. Say sorry if you are on the wrong, forgive when you are wronged. 19. Come up with a way forward to prevent the matter from happening again or from causing much damage in the future. 20. Hug. Kiss. Make up. Make love. 21. Laugh about it. Find comedy in your difficult times. No storm lasts always. You two will come out through it closer and stronger. Stay focused, your love is worth fighting for, not fighting each other.
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  • HOW TO HANDLE FIGHTS IN A RELATIONSHIP....✍🏾

    1. Know that it is normal for two people in love to disagree, offend each other, fall short, or misunderstand each other.

    2. Always remember how much you love and need each other. Remembering this will give you the incentive to resolve any conflict between you two. Don't throw away true love because of a passing storm.

    3. Know each other's temperaments. If you are a hot-tempered person, tell your partner/spouse so that your partner/spouse will prepare incase you spark off. But work on your temper still.

    4. Agree how to handle fights before fights emerge. A nation develops a constitution to guide its operation, partners/spouses agree on what to do to guide in relations.

    5. Don't let the fear of fighting or disagreeing with your partner/spouse keep you two from confronting each other and expressing your feelings.

    Too many are tired, bored, frustrated or angry in their relationship/marriage but pretend all is well because they are afraid of talking about heavy and uneasy stuff with their partner. Slowly their relationship/marriage collapses, you can't pretend for long.

    6. Before you confront and blame your partner/spouse, analyze the situation and see if you have played a role in causing the problem.

    7. When a fight between you two is approaching or something happens that inflames tempers, walk away, cool off. Don't talk in anger. Cool down then talk rationally.

    8. Remember you are in the same team. Fighting your partner/spouse is fighting what you two have, which in effect is fighting yourself.

    9. Avoid insults. Hold and control your tongue, hurtful words only complicate matters, once they are spoken they can't be taken back.

    10. Don't be tempted to use the information your partner/spouse shared with you in trust to get your way. Don't use the secrets your partner/spouse shared with you to attack or intimidate your partner/spouse.

    11. Don't disclose matters to a third party. Solve the matter the two of you. Don't gossip about the short comings of your partner/spouse to your family or friends. Don't air your dirty linen in public. Cover each other from outsiders as you two remain naked to each other.

    12. Pray together. Prayer clears up the air, restores love and order, brings unity of purpose and reminds you that God is watching and you both are God's children.

    13. When talking about the matter, fully talk about it, look for its root cause, lay everything on the table. A problem that is not fully addressed or understood will keep recurring.

    14. Give each other a chance to speak. None should feel silenced.

    15. Be mindful of your body language. You may not insult but your partner/spouse is paying attention to your body language. Don't sneer, click or show contempt.

    16. Never use your child/children to settle scores in a cold war with each other. You are both loved the same by the child/children.

    17. Conclude the matter quickly. The longer tension exists between you two, the more dangerous it grows.

    18. Accept responsibility. Being mature doesn't mean you won't do wrong or fall short; it means that when you do mess you are wise enough to apologize. Say sorry if you are on the wrong, forgive when you are wronged.

    19. Come up with a way forward to prevent the matter from happening again or from causing much damage in the future.

    20. Hug. Kiss. Make up. Make love.

    21. Laugh about it. Find comedy in your difficult times. No storm lasts always. You two will come out through it closer and stronger. Stay focused, your love is worth fighting for, not fighting each other.
    HOW TO HANDLE FIGHTS IN A RELATIONSHIP....✍🏾 1. Know that it is normal for two people in love to disagree, offend each other, fall short, or misunderstand each other. 2. Always remember how much you love and need each other. Remembering this will give you the incentive to resolve any conflict between you two. Don't throw away true love because of a passing storm. 3. Know each other's temperaments. If you are a hot-tempered person, tell your partner/spouse so that your partner/spouse will prepare incase you spark off. But work on your temper still. 4. Agree how to handle fights before fights emerge. A nation develops a constitution to guide its operation, partners/spouses agree on what to do to guide in relations. 5. Don't let the fear of fighting or disagreeing with your partner/spouse keep you two from confronting each other and expressing your feelings. Too many are tired, bored, frustrated or angry in their relationship/marriage but pretend all is well because they are afraid of talking about heavy and uneasy stuff with their partner. Slowly their relationship/marriage collapses, you can't pretend for long. 6. Before you confront and blame your partner/spouse, analyze the situation and see if you have played a role in causing the problem. 7. When a fight between you two is approaching or something happens that inflames tempers, walk away, cool off. Don't talk in anger. Cool down then talk rationally. 8. Remember you are in the same team. Fighting your partner/spouse is fighting what you two have, which in effect is fighting yourself. 9. Avoid insults. Hold and control your tongue, hurtful words only complicate matters, once they are spoken they can't be taken back. 10. Don't be tempted to use the information your partner/spouse shared with you in trust to get your way. Don't use the secrets your partner/spouse shared with you to attack or intimidate your partner/spouse. 11. Don't disclose matters to a third party. Solve the matter the two of you. Don't gossip about the short comings of your partner/spouse to your family or friends. Don't air your dirty linen in public. Cover each other from outsiders as you two remain naked to each other. 12. Pray together. Prayer clears up the air, restores love and order, brings unity of purpose and reminds you that God is watching and you both are God's children. 13. When talking about the matter, fully talk about it, look for its root cause, lay everything on the table. A problem that is not fully addressed or understood will keep recurring. 14. Give each other a chance to speak. None should feel silenced. 15. Be mindful of your body language. You may not insult but your partner/spouse is paying attention to your body language. Don't sneer, click or show contempt. 16. Never use your child/children to settle scores in a cold war with each other. You are both loved the same by the child/children. 17. Conclude the matter quickly. The longer tension exists between you two, the more dangerous it grows. 18. Accept responsibility. Being mature doesn't mean you won't do wrong or fall short; it means that when you do mess you are wise enough to apologize. Say sorry if you are on the wrong, forgive when you are wronged. 19. Come up with a way forward to prevent the matter from happening again or from causing much damage in the future. 20. Hug. Kiss. Make up. Make love. 21. Laugh about it. Find comedy in your difficult times. No storm lasts always. You two will come out through it closer and stronger. Stay focused, your love is worth fighting for, not fighting each other.
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  • Blessed Sunday to us all beloved people of God Almighty.
    How was service at your end?
    Blessed Sunday to us all beloved people of God Almighty. How was service at your end?
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  • For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son, that whosoever believeth in Him will not perish but have everlasting life.
    John 3v16

    Happy Sunday
    For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son, that whosoever believeth in Him will not perish but have everlasting life. John 3v16 Happy Sunday
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  • For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son, that whosoever believeth in Him will not perish but have everlasting life.
    John 3v16

    Happy Sunday
    For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son, that whosoever believeth in Him will not perish but have everlasting life. John 3v16 Happy Sunday
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  • As our loved ones age, it's essential to show them love, respect, and care. Taking care of the elderly involves:

    1. Providing physical support and assistance
    2. Listening to their stories and experiences
    3. Offering emotional support and companionship
    4. Ensuring their safety and well-being
    5. Showing gratitude for their wisdom and contributions

    By caring for the elderly, we demonstrate our love and appreciation for the generations that came before us.

    JB WORLD.
    As our loved ones age, it's essential to show them love, respect, and care. Taking care of the elderly involves: 1. Providing physical support and assistance 2. Listening to their stories and experiences 3. Offering emotional support and companionship 4. Ensuring their safety and well-being 5. Showing gratitude for their wisdom and contributions By caring for the elderly, we demonstrate our love and appreciation for the generations that came before us. JB WORLD.
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  • DAVID BECKHAM: “I knew one day I was going to hang up my boots. And I didn’t want that to be the end of my story.”

    “I loved playing. The ball, the pitch, the fans. That energy is unlike anything else. But I also knew that one day I was going to hang up my boots. And I didn’t want that to be the final chapter of my story.

    That’s why, while others were celebrating with watches or new cars, I preferred to invest in learning. Every contract, every sponsorship—I approached it like a long-term partnership. I wasn’t just looking for visibility. I was trying to build something that would last. I paid attention to everything: how clubs were run, how brands were born, how leaders thought. I didn’t talk much, but I was always taking notes.

    When I got to Los Angeles, I already had one thing clear in my mind. I asked for something no one had ever asked for before: the right to start my own team in MLS, at a symbolic price. A lot of people didn’t get it. It took me twelve years to make it happen.

    There were rejections, legal hurdles, tough decisions—like having to fire my friend Phil Neville. But I kept going. I learned from Sir Alex Ferguson the importance of building from the ground up. And from Florentino Pérez, the necessity of dreaming big and working until you make it real.
    Today, I have Inter Miami. And when I see Messi linking up with a kid from our academy… I feel like I’ve accomplished what I truly wanted in this life.”
    🗣️ DAVID BECKHAM: “I knew one day I was going to hang up my boots. And I didn’t want that to be the end of my story.” “I loved playing. The ball, the pitch, the fans. That energy is unlike anything else. But I also knew that one day I was going to hang up my boots. And I didn’t want that to be the final chapter of my story. That’s why, while others were celebrating with watches or new cars, I preferred to invest in learning. Every contract, every sponsorship—I approached it like a long-term partnership. I wasn’t just looking for visibility. I was trying to build something that would last. I paid attention to everything: how clubs were run, how brands were born, how leaders thought. I didn’t talk much, but I was always taking notes. When I got to Los Angeles, I already had one thing clear in my mind. I asked for something no one had ever asked for before: the right to start my own team in MLS, at a symbolic price. A lot of people didn’t get it. It took me twelve years to make it happen. There were rejections, legal hurdles, tough decisions—like having to fire my friend Phil Neville. But I kept going. I learned from Sir Alex Ferguson the importance of building from the ground up. And from Florentino Pérez, the necessity of dreaming big and working until you make it real. Today, I have Inter Miami. And when I see Messi linking up with a kid from our academy… I feel like I’ve accomplished what I truly wanted in this life.”
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