What no one told me about marriage before I enter that I want to tell you.

This is for those planning to marry or those who just got married.
If you are open-minded, you can still read.
Nobody knows it all.

1. Immediately you get married, even before having a baby, go and register your family for health insurance.
NHIS is one of the common ones and the most available in hospitals.
It will save you a lot.
There are some things the rich won’t tell you.
With NHIS, you can walk into any hospital and get treated cheap depending on the package.
A friend of mine once did an operation and all he paid was ₦10k something that would have cost ₦400k.

2. Have a family doctor very very important.
See, no church will tell you this.
Even if you don’t have money for a family doctor, have someone you can call in case of emergency.
Especially a pediatrician when you start having kids.

3. Also, have a family lawyer.
Recently, our family lawyer saved us over ₦500k in rent that I wanted to forfeit.
But because she stepped in and did her job, money was refunded seamlessly.

4. If you can afford it, have at least one domestic staff.
Someone that can at least help ease the work in the house for you and madam.
My brother, ejiro kwa afufu anya isi.
Get help if you can.

5. Buy things in bulk.
The reason I live like a wealthy man today is because I buy everything I need down to toothpaste in bulk.
You spend more buying in bits than when you buy in bulk.
That’s one of the reasons I created my sharing platform to enable family men and women with common goals.
There is nothing we don’t share. Some of you reading this are in that group.

6. Pay your children’s school fees before school resumes.
As I’m talking to you now, I’ve already sent SGM the kids’ school fees that’ll be paid in September.
I don’t have to worry about it again.
It helps me plan myself.
Do everything possible to pay school fees before resumption. You won’t know what you’re doing until money goes on leave from your side.

7. Strive to have passive income.
Something that can generate at least ₦3-5k every day.
No matter what try and get something like that.
It will save you from a lot of stress.

8. See the friends and circle your kids will have tomorrow everything depends on the school they attend.
This one is very, very important.
Even if you don’t have money, find a way to send your children to one of the best schools.
You won’t realise what you’re doing until they come of age.

9.I learnt this one from my dad always have family meetings.
You, your wife, and your kids no matter how small they are.
Discuss problems, solutions, and way forward.
Allow the kids air their opinions.

Ask the kids:
Is there something mummy and daddy are doing that they don’t like?

Same thing with your wife.
Talk about what you both can do to have a stable and loving family.
This helps in uniting the family.

Every month is fine or even every 6 months.
Just make it a habit and a culture.
It’ll become a memory that sticks for the kids, and for you and madam too.

Everyone’s opinion in the family matters.
And as the man, it’s your job to hear everybody’s opinion and choose the best way to run the family.

This isn’t just for the man alone madam can initiate it too. There’s no perfect formula, yes. But this one I listed? It works every time.
I repeat if you try it, you’ll save yourself a lot of unnecessary headache and stress.
You can add yours... enjoy your weekend.

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Chelsea or PSG - who is winning it all?

When you're choosing a life partner, think beyond the romance.Think about the breakfast conversations, the quiet moments after a long day, the way they handle stress, money, mistakes, and growth.Look deeper than chemistry look at character. Because their mindset will influence your peace. Their decisions will affect your future. Their patience, or lack of it, will echo through your home.
You're not just choosing someone to laugh with
- you're choosing someone to struggle with, grow with, build a life with. Pick someone whose heart, habits, and vision match the life you want to live.
Love is more than feeling its partnership. It's foundation. It's everything.

*My name is Tomorrow "not my real name",

I own a company, none of my staff knew me as the owner except the Manager and the Secretary. (I had told them not to disclose my identity).*
*I don't usually go for a visit.*


*One day, I visited the company and I saw my Ex wife, who had thrown me out of my own house. I asked the Manager and he said she is one of their staff.*
*I instructed the Manager to promote her to Personnel Officer, gave her a car, a bungalow, garden boy, security and other emoluments. An undeserved position though, of which he did.*

*A month later, I went there as a job seeker. As soon as she saw me with my application and CV, she rejected me outright, threw my application at my face, and immediately retrieved it from the floor and tore it to pieces and threw it into the waste bin. After regaling me with all my past, she informed me I would never get employment nor an opportunity at the company. Also, she swore on heaven and the earth that all this would happen. She boldly declared that the only way I’d get employment at the company was over her cold dead body*.

*I came the following day with another application and went on my knees to beg her, but she refused and spat into the waste bin and said even if I was the only bridge to cross to come to work, she would opt for a boat and called the security men to throw me out, so I left.*

*One day, I went to the company in my real identity and entered her office with the Manager who introduced me to her, she quickly knelt down crying and begging me, "the proposed rejected bridge.” She informed me that her entire family depended on her for survival. If her employment was terminated, she added, life would be absolutely horrendous not only for her but also her entire family. She even promised to remarry me.*
*We both stood there motionless and speechless which left the Manager befuddled.*

*Many things started racing in my head. Should I call for the police? Should I strip her of her current position to her former position? Should I cancel the unqualified benefits given to her? Should I accept such a woman back?*
*I'm still standing at her office indecisive.*

*If you were in my shoes, what would you do?*

*THERE IS TOMORROW*
*Whenever you are dealing with people, you must always remember that there is tomorrow and you might néed them tomorrow. You may end up needing help from the people who are asking for your help today, so help as much as you can.*

*Life is like a moving wheel, sometimes you are up and sometimes you are down. Sometimes we destroy the bridges that we might need to help us cross back tomorrow. Sometimes we treat people as though there is never going to be tomorrow. We sometimes act as though we will never need help from anyone. Remember there's tomorrow.*

*Joseph helped the cupbearer in prison and later the cupbearer connected Joseph with Pharaoh. Imagine how Portiphar's wife felt when she heard that Joseph was now the Governor of Egypt, after she had falsely accused him. The brother who sold Joseph away ended up being fed by him. Don't ever think of going to the extreme with your offenders, they might be rescuers tomorrow. Always remember that there is tomorrow and it will surely come.*
*The little help you give to people today, will profit you tomorrow.*
*May the good Lord touch your heart to live your life knowing that there is tomorrow.*

*In Everything You Do, Always Remember That,There Is Tomorrow.*

*Have a blessed Sunday ahead, Pls share to others for them to know that THERE IS TOMORROW

Don’t Let people around you Stop You From Raising Your Boys Into Men

You’re not just raising boys.

You’re raising future protectors.

Future builders.

Future kings.

And if you let softness win in your home—if you let comfort replace character—you won’t just lose your sons…

You’ll unleash broken men into a world that already has too many of them.

Let’s be clear:

The world doesn’t care about a man’s feelings.

It only respects his function.

So if your wife thinks your discipline is “too harsh,” “too traditional,” or “too outdated”—remind her:

You’re not raising a pet. You’re preparing a warrior.

Let’s break it down:

—

1. You’re Not a Disciplinarian—You’re a Blacksmith

Your job isn’t to scold.

It’s to forge.

A boy’s ego must be shaped.

His emotions must be tempered.

His desires must be trained.

Because if you don’t train your son?

The streets will.

The courts will.

The morgue will.

And all that “gentle parenting” won’t mean a thing when he can’t hold a job, respect a woman, or lead his own family.

So stop letting softness sabotage strength.

And stop letting your wife treat your correction like cruelty.

—

2. Disagree in Private—Stand United in Front of the Kids

If she undercuts you in front of your son?

You lose him.

It’s that simple.

Because when Mom says “he’s too hard on you” or rolls her eyes when you speak?

She’s not protecting the boy.

She’s dividing the home.

A divided voice equals no voice.

And when your child sees you lose authority?

He stops listening.

Not just to you—but to all discipline.

So talk it out later.

But in front of the children?

You are the father. Period.

—

3. Provision Is More Than Money—It’s Authority

You want to lead?

Provide.

You want to enforce discipline?

Provide.

You want your sons to listen when you speak?

Provide.

Because the man who carries the weight has the right to set the rules.

You don’t need to buy Ferraris.

But you need to be the reason the lights stay on and the fridge isn’t empty.

Your wife can supplement.

But never surrender provision.

Because a man who doesn’t provide?

Gets parented by his own children.

—

4. Don’t Raise Another Man’s Child and Ignore Your Own

You’re not the savior.

You’re not Jesus in sandals.

You don’t need to “fix” the broken family she walked away from.

You need to build your own.

Every second you spend raising someone else’s child while yours goes without?

You’re training a son who will one day ask:

“Where were you when I needed you?”

And he won’t care about your noble intentions.

He’ll only remember your absence.

So unless he shares your DNA or your last name?

Let that child’s father do his job.

And do yours with your own.

—

5. Fight for Custody Like Their Lives Depend on It—Because They Do

Don’t let courts rob you.

Don’t let systems silence you.

Don’t let her take them away because “you’re not emotionally available.”

You are their father.

And the presence of a strong father reduces crime, depression, suicide, and dropout rates.

When Dad stays?

Kids thrive.

Especially boys.

So if they take them from you?

Fight.

With everything.

Your name.

Your legacy.

Your money.

Because your sons don’t just need a parent—they need a model.

And you are that model.

—

Final Word: You’re Not Raising Sons—You’re Building a Civilization

Don’t apologize for being firm.

Don’t shrink because she cries.

Don’t surrender because she calls it “toxic.”

The world is falling apart because men stopped fathering.

And wives started interfering.

Be gentle, yes.

But never passive.

Because one day your son will face storms you can’t stop.

And the only thing that will protect him…

Is the strength you had the courage to build into him.

So raise your voice.

Raise your standard.

Raise your boys into men.

We gather dey gadachat to make cool money. Long live gada CEO, long live gadachat, long live Nigeria.

278 IN UTME. I CHOSE EDUCATION. AND EVERYONE LOST THEIR MINDS.

"Why would someone so intelligent waste a score like that on Education?"
"You should be studying Medicine."
"You deserve better."

NO.
Education is not a waste. I didn’t deserve “better.” I deserved my DREAM.

And my dream was to TEACH. To build minds. To change lives.
But in Nigeria, when you say you want to teach, people act like you’ve failed, like you're unintelligent

First semester -12 courses: 11 A’s, 1 B.
Boom. HOD of Physics offered me a department switch and a future job after M.Sc.
I said NO. Not because the offer wasn’t tempting.
But because I knew myself - and I knew I wasn’t called to just chase titles.
I was born to build futures.

But guess what?

Now, JAMB just released the 2025 UTME cut-off for Colleges of Education: 100.
Let that sink in. NOT AVERAGE! NOT 150! NOT 140!

ONE HUNDRED.

And we’re out here screaming about “half-baked teachers”?
How won’t they be half-baked when we admit students with 100 marks to train the nation’s future?

You need over 200 to study Law or Medicine…
But just 100 to teach those who will become lawyers and doctors?

This is madness.

Let me be blunt:

👉🏽 A country that treats education like a dustbin for rejected students will never rise.
👉🏽 A system where “intelligent” people are told they’re too smart to teach is doomed.
👉🏽 A nation that sets the bar so low for teacher training is signing its own death sentence.

When NECO visited my school and saw 70% of teachers were B.Sc holders, they raised eyebrows.
But any school that’s truly intentional about excellence won’t gamble with teachers’ quality.
We’re raising thinkers, not just filling periods.

Why is this hard to understand?

TEACHERS are not plan B.
TEACHERS are the MAIN PLAN.
A country that undervalues its educators has no business dreaming of development.

Stop telling brilliant students that “they deserve better than Education.”
Make EDUCATION deserve brilliant students.

Until we fix this narrative, we are going nowhere.

278 for Education. And I REGRET NOTHING.

I didn’t settle.
I CHOSE. And I’m still choosing - every single day.

Share this if you believe Nigeria’s education system needs a reset.

I am Owoade Mariam and I know that the Nigerian education system deserves better.

*EIGHT (8) GROUPS OF PRETENDERS AND DANGEROUS PEOPLE. YOU NEED TO KNOW AND HANDLE WITH WISDOM AND KNOWLEDGE (NOT TO HATE THEM)*

(1) *Thomas Group*- They walk with you, eat with you and possibly live with you but don't really believe in you. They keep on delaying your vision and mission. (John 20:24-29)

(2) *Judas Group*- They walk with you, eat with you and possibly live with you but are after what they can get from you or elsewhere. They are not loyal and can easily betray you. (Matthew 26:14-16)

(3) *Demas Group* - They walk with you and possibly live with you; but once you start facing challenges and difficulties, they run away and forsake you. (2 Timothy 4:10)

(4) *Korah Group* - They pretend to be walking with you but when GOD begins to bless you, they will be jealous of your success. They challenge your influence and authority. They have issues when others acknowledge you. _(Numbers 16:1-3)_

(5) *Ham Group* - They are close to you, yet they expose your secrets and nakedness. The day you made a mistake or committed an error and find yourself in a sinful situation, they tell everyone of your weaknesses and exposing you to ridicules. (Genesis 9:20-24)

(6) *Absalom Group* - They are very close to you. They are impatiently ambitious. They detest your rising profile. They secretly position themselves to hijack and cut off those who believe in you and win them over by saying that they are better than you. They say all things about you, as being unfair, insensitive, wicked and incompetent. (2 Samuel 15:1-6)

(7) *Gehazi Group* - They are excessive greedy and insatiable. They collect money behind your back. They ask for financial assistance and make people to feel you are not taking good care of them. (2 Kings 5:20-24)

(8) *Diotrephes Group*- This is the most dangerous group. They have a voice and influence amongst the people. They can come up with fabricated stories that could destroy your image and position. They are highly territorial. They are the false accusers and forgers of lies. (3 John vv 9-10)

NOTE: These groups of people are found everywhere: In Families, Friends, Businesses, Offices, Work place and Churches.

*On the flip-side, do you belong to any of these groups? If you do, kindly remove yourself from such a group because these groups are not for decent and righteous people. God loves you. Good morning. Enjoy your day that the Lord has made; rejoice and be glad in it

...AS FOR ME, THIS MOVE BY THE SO-CALLED PELLER IS ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL NONSENSE, SO YOU CARRY YOUR MSC TO MEET A CLOWN JUST SHOWS YOU ARE A WASTE OF TIME AND MONEY TO YOUR PARENT AND THE SOCIETY AT LARGE...

Lady with master's degree cries out after Peller snubbed her and other graduates who applied for his job offer.

If this is true, it's really not nice of Peller; he should have at least informed them that it's all content. But the participants can also make use of the opportunity and advertise their brands to the world.

Peller is the biggest streamer from Africa, and appearing on his livestream is a blessing.

If you want live 4forever be Holy