"All Fingers Are Not Equal—A Mental Health Lesson for Nigerians" In the picture attached, 3 measuring tapes are placed side by side. All are meant to measure the same thing—but look closely. The starting points are not aligned. Even though they are designed for the same purpose, their results will always differ because they don’t start from the same place. This image teaches us a powerful life lesson, especially about mental health and personal struggles. 🏮The Nigerian Reality: The Pressure of Comparison: In Nigeria today, people constantly compare themselves with others. "My mate has built a house; why haven’t I?" "She has two cars, and I’m still trekking." "Look at his business booming, and mine is crawling." We forget that everyone's starting point is different. Just like the measuring tapes in the picture, some people start life with better opportunities, resources, or support systems, while others face setbacks from day one. 🏮Mental Health and Silent Battles: Many Nigerians suffer silently because of these unfair comparisons. They fall into depression, anxiety, or self-doubt, forgetting that: Some people are battling illnesses you can’t see. Some are healing from emotional wounds you don’t know about. Some are fighting family problems, financial hardships, or traumas quietly. Key Message: “All Fingers Are Not Equal” Just like fingers on the hand, no two lives are the same. 🏮 Accept your journey. Don’t measure your success with someone else’s ruler. Focus on personal growth, not competition. Seek help when you’re mentally overwhelmed. (It’s not weakness—it’s wisdom.) 🏮 A Call to Action Dear Nigerians, let’s normalize: Talking about mental health without shame. Supporting each other without judgment. Understanding that life’s measurements are never the same for everyone. Remember, the goal is progress, not perfection. Be kind to yourself. Your race is unique. #MentalHealthAwarenessNigeria #AllFingersAreNotEqual #MentalHealthMatters #StopTheComparison #SeekHelpWhenNeeded

Everytime you choose Progress over Correctness, you're exhibiting the highest level of maturity and Clarity for your Unique Life's Journey.

*HEAR THIS* Life Is A Journey And Not A Race....! ........TINK TANK DG

Sometimes you're going to have to say goodbye to your loved ones. Not for anything but for the fact that you'd need to find your own path in life. At first you'll be unsure if you're doing the right thing, if you'll survive the harsh reality of life in independence. But once you realize that you want more in life, you're going to push every timid, scared little girl/boy inside of you and GROW UP. Moving away from home is not an easy step. We'll remember mama's food anytime we go hungry, we'll think of how daddy always paid the bills when we're behind deadline to meet up with our bills, etc etc. We'll even get tempted to go back home. It won't be easy. It's a tough journey. But we cope. We manage. Cos we understand that we want more in life. We are determined to pave our own path in life. To start over. To set ourselves on a path of our future. It's gonna get lonely at first, but you'll get used to it Starting life isn't always easy but it gets better with time and turns out to be one of the best decision one can make. Cos being able to shoulder responsibilities, is another way to shape you into responsible human beings....

Don't neglect a single step to you greatness,cos the journey of a thousand miles begins with a step

Ladoja, the great ruler… A man of wisdom, strength, and undying love for Ibadanland. As he prepares to ascend the sacred throne as the incoming Olubadan, we honor his journey, his sacrifices, and his enduring legacy. AJEPE AYE BABA ADEWOLU – The one who preserves life, father of many, may your reign be long, peaceful, and filled with divine grace. Ibadan salutes you. May the ancestors walk with you. 🙏🏾👑 #OlubadanInWaiting #LadojaTheGreat #IbadanRoyalty #MotherlandRealityTV

BREAKING NEWS: The Federal Government has announced that July 15, 2025 will be observed as a public holiday.... MINISTRY OF INTERIOR PRESS STATEMENT FG DECLARES TUESDAY, 15 JULY, 2025 PUBLIC HOLIDAY IN HONOUR OF LATE FORMER PRESIDENT MUHAMMADU BUHARI In futherance to the seven days of National mourning declared by President Bola Ahmed Tinubu GCFR, the Federal Government has declared Tuesday, 15 July, 2025, as a Public Holiday in honour of the late former President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, Muhammadu Buhari, GCFR. The Honourable Minister of Interior, Dr. Olubunmi Tunji-Ojo, made the declaration on behalf of the Federal Government, following the approval of His Excellency, President Bola Ahmed Tinubu, GCFR. The Minister stated that the holiday is a mark of respect for the late President’s service to the nation, his contributions to Nigeria’s democratic journey, and his enduring legacy in governance and national development. “President Muhammadu Buhari served Nigeria with dedication, integrity, and an unwavering commitment to the unity and progress of our great nation. This public holiday provides an opportunity for all Nigerians to reflect on his life, leadership, and the values he upheld,” the Minister said. He urged citizens to use the day to honour the late President’s memory by promoting peace, patriotism, and national cohesion, in line with his vision for a prosperous and united Nigeria. As earlier announced, the National flags are to fly at half mast for the seven days of mourning period from Sunday 13th July, 2025. The Federal Government extends its deepest condolences to the family of the late President, the people of Katsina State, and all Nigerians, while praying for the peaceful repose of his soul. Signed: Dr. Magdalene Ajani Permanent Secretary 15 July, 2025

25 SURE SIGNS YOU ARE READY FOR MARRIAGE 📍 Marriage is not for boys and girls. It’s for adults—emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and financially. Many people walk into marriage unprepared and end up walking out confused. So before you say “I do,” here are 25 signs that you are truly ready for a lifelong commitment: 1. 📍You are emotionally stable. You're not ruled by anger, lust, jealousy, or insecurity. You know how to express emotions in healthy ways. 2. 📍You’ve dropped d€structive habits. You no longer struggle with addictions, irresponsibility, or patterns that could damage your future home. 3. 📍You have a strong spiritual foundation. You can hear God's voice, discern His will, and walk in obedience. 4. 📍You are mature in age and mindset. Ladies, you’re at least 23. Men, you’re at least 25. Not just biologically grown but mentally mature. 5. 📍You are financially responsible. You have a job, a business, or steady income that can sustain you and a family. 6. 📍You live independently. As a man, you don’t live off your parents. You pay your own bills and live in your own space. 7. 📍You know how to care for others. As a woman, you can manage yourself and others with joy—not with stress or complaints. 8. 📍You love children. You don’t just tolerate kids; you look forward to nurturing the next generation. 9. 📍You’re domestically skilled. Cooking, cleaning, and organizing are not strange to you—they’re part of your daily life. 10. 📍You can thrive far from your family. You're not emotionally dependent on mummy and daddy to function or make decisions. 11. 📍You take full responsibility for your life. You own your choices and can deal with the consequences maturely. 12. 📍You are not controlled by your parents. You honor them, but your life isn't dictated by their preferences. 13. 📍You don’t yield to peer pressure. You do what's right, even when it's unpopular. 14. 📍You’re $exually disciplined. You can say NO to premarital $ex—not because you’re forced, but because you value purity. 15. 📍You honor authority. Ladies, you're respectful and submissive—not just to a man, but to God and legitimate authority. 16. 📍You respect women. Men, you love your mother, honor your sisters, and treat every woman with dignity. 17.📍 You understand money. You know how to earn, save, invest, and manage finances without being reckless. 18. 📍You are generous and kind. You give with joy—not grudgingly. You're not stingy with your time, love, or money. 19. 📍You are faithful. You're not dating two or three people “just in case.” You're loyal and intentional. 20. 📍You are purpose-driven. You know what God has called you to do, and you’re taking steps daily to get there. 21. 📍You desire to build others. You're not just looking for someone to make you happy—you want to help your spouse fulfill destiny. 22. 📍You have control over your $ex drive. Your body doesn't control you—you control your body. 23. 📍You have healed from past relationships. You’re not bitter, wounded, or suspicious. You’ve forgiven, grown, and moved forward. 24. 📍You’re willing to learn and grow. You’re teachable, open to correction, and you seek wise counsel. 25. 📍You understand that marriage is ministry. You see marriage as a place to serve, grow, and honor God—not just to be loved or have sex. 🔔 Marriage is not an emergency. It’s a journey that requires maturity—physical, emotional, spiritual, financial, and psychological. Don’t rush into it because of pressure, age, or loneliness. Wait until you’re ready. You’ll thank yourself later. 🙏 May God grant you the wisdom to prepare and the grace to build a godly home when the time comes. 🔁 Share this with a single friend who’s serious about preparing for a purposeful marriage

Each person, at some point in life, encounters challenges, setbacks, and makes mistakes. It’s part of the human journey. No matter how sincere or well-intentioned someone is, even the most faithful heart can falter. But that doesn’t define their worth. Mistakes are not signs of failure — they are stepping stones to wisdom, strength, and self-awareness. Every difficulty we face holds a lesson, and every wrong turn is an opportunity to find a better direction. Growth often comes not in moments of ease, but through trials that shape our character. What matters most is not perfection, but progress. Embrace your journey, learn from your missteps, and keep moving forward with grace and resilience. person, at some point in life, encounters challenges, setbacks, and makes mistakes. It’s part of the human journey. No matter how sincere or well-intentioned someone is, even the most faithful heart can falter. But that doesn’t define their worth. Mistakes are not signs of failure — they are stepping stones to wisdom, strength, and self-awareness. Every difficulty we face holds a lesson, and every wrong turn is an opportunity to find a better direction. Growth often comes not in moments of ease, but through trials that shape our character. What matters most is not perfection, but progress. Embrace your journey, learn from your missteps, and keep moving forward with grace and resilience.

HOW TO BE POOR AND HOW TO GET RICH — The Choice is Yours 🚨 If after 4 years in a higher institution you’re still roaming the streets looking for a job, you need to hear this: you’ve failed—monumentally. Let’s stop pampering mediocrity. We’re in a country where truth sounds like hate because too many people are emotionally allergic to accountability. How do we explain that someone who studied Business Administration is now begging a secondary school dropout for job opportunities? How do we have graduates of Agriculture going hungry, when food is gold? Here's the bitter truth: poverty is not always a curse from the devil; often, it’s a system we’ve bought into with our mindset, our ego, and our excuses. Let’s break this down: 1️⃣ Pride: The Graduate Mentality Trap We want soft life. AC offices. Clean suits. Titles. But reality doesn’t pay you for your degree; it pays you for value. Artisan jobs are dying. In 10 years, Nigeria may have no more plumbers, welders, painters—everyone is chasing office jobs. Yet, the ones creating generational wealth are those with tools in their hands and solutions in their heads. Being a graduate shouldn’t stop you from picking up a skill. The world is changing, but are you? 2️⃣ Get-Rich-Quick Syndrome Everyone wants to hammer, but no one wants to suffer. There was a lady in my former church who kept disturbing me about venturing into tech because she heard I make good money. What she didn’t see were my 7 years of trials, the 2 years of no clients, the cancelled N2M deals, the sleepless nights, the rejections. You want what people have, but can you handle what they went through? Wealth takes time. 5 to 7 years of focused grind—minimum. Stop starting today and expecting harvest tomorrow. That’s not entrepreneurship; that’s fantasy. 3️⃣ Lack of Mentorship We spend millions to learn how to drive. But who teaches us how to make money, live purposefully, or build wealth? When Dr. Stephen Akintayo charges for mentorship, people cry scam. Yet they spend the same amount on phones, parties, and clothes. Poverty thrives where knowledge is undervalued. Mentorship is not free—it demands money or service. But it shortens your journey by years. Find someone ahead of you and serve your way into wisdom. 4️⃣ The “Only Me” Mentality We compete instead of collaborate. We want to outshine, not uplift. But the wealthiest communities—like the Jews—grow as a unit. Africa needs to understand: teamwork will take you farther than talent. 5️⃣ Lack of Integrity Our handshake is not worth a promise. We lie, we cheat, we scam—then pray for breakthrough. We must return to honesty, accountability, and trust. You can’t build lasting wealth without a name people can vouch for. 6️⃣ The Mentality Problem Survival Mentality: Just eating and breathing is not the goal of life. Receiver’s Mentality: Always collecting, never creating. Hunter’s Mentality: Eat today, die tomorrow. No long-term vision. 7️⃣ The Bandwagon Effect You start what’s trending, not what’s purposeful. That’s why we have failed forex traders, half-baked tech bros, and abandoned POS kiosks everywhere. Purpose is personal. You must find your lane, not just follow the noise. 8️⃣ False Priorities We put all hope in: God (without work) Classroom education (without skills) Government (without responsibility) Faith without works is dead. Education without action is useless. Government without personal accountability is hopeless. 9️⃣ Mindset is Everything Until your mind changes, your life can’t. You cannot carry a poor man’s mentality into a rich man’s future. Wealth starts from within. 🔟 Environment Shapes Destiny Your location can limit your vision. Surroundings influence success. You can’t live in a dump and dream of a palace without mental relocation first. Move. Change your crowd. Redesign your inputs. 💥 Until you break these chains, you will remain exactly where you are: educated, frustrated, and broke. The choice is yours. Be poor. Or rise. Your future is not a prophecy; it’s a decision. ✅ If this message stirred something in you, do this: 👍 Like this post 💬 Drop a comment that says “I choose wealth!” 🔁 Share with someone who needs this brutal truth 👣 Follow me — Damilola Adewuyi — your personal and business development partner 📍Let’s walk this journey together. I share real truths, real strategies, and real steps for growth — no fluff, no gimmicks.

HOW TO BE POOR AND HOW TO GET RICH — The Choice is Yours 🚨 If after 4 years in a higher institution you’re still roaming the streets looking for a job, you need to hear this: you’ve failed—monumentally. Let’s stop pampering mediocrity. We’re in a country where truth sounds like hate because too many people are emotionally allergic to accountability. How do we explain that someone who studied Business Administration is now begging a secondary school dropout for job opportunities? How do we have graduates of Agriculture going hungry, when food is gold? Here's the bitter truth: poverty is not always a curse from the devil; often, it’s a system we’ve bought into with our mindset, our ego, and our excuses. Let’s break this down: 1️⃣ Pride: The Graduate Mentality Trap We want soft life. AC offices. Clean suits. Titles. But reality doesn’t pay you for your degree; it pays you for value. Artisan jobs are dying. In 10 years, Nigeria may have no more plumbers, welders, painters—everyone is chasing office jobs. Yet, the ones creating generational wealth are those with tools in their hands and solutions in their heads. Being a graduate shouldn’t stop you from picking up a skill. The world is changing, but are you? 2️⃣ Get-Rich-Quick Syndrome Everyone wants to hammer, but no one wants to suffer. There was a lady in my former church who kept disturbing me about venturing into tech because she heard I make good money. What she didn’t see were my 7 years of trials, the 2 years of no clients, the cancelled N2M deals, the sleepless nights, the rejections. You want what people have, but can you handle what they went through? Wealth takes time. 5 to 7 years of focused grind—minimum. Stop starting today and expecting harvest tomorrow. That’s not entrepreneurship; that’s fantasy. 3️⃣ Lack of Mentorship We spend millions to learn how to drive. But who teaches us how to make money, live purposefully, or build wealth? When Dr. Stephen Akintayo charges for mentorship, people cry scam. Yet they spend the same amount on phones, parties, and clothes. Poverty thrives where knowledge is undervalued. Mentorship is not free—it demands money or service. But it shortens your journey by years. Find someone ahead of you and serve your way into wisdom. 4️⃣ The “Only Me” Mentality We compete instead of collaborate. We want to outshine, not uplift. But the wealthiest communities—like the Jews—grow as a unit. Africa needs to understand: teamwork will take you farther than talent. 5️⃣ Lack of Integrity Our handshake is not worth a promise. We lie, we cheat, we scam—then pray for breakthrough. We must return to honesty, accountability, and trust. You can’t build lasting wealth without a name people can vouch for. 6️⃣ The Mentality Problem Survival Mentality: Just eating and breathing is not the goal of life. Receiver’s Mentality: Always collecting, never creating. Hunter’s Mentality: Eat today, die tomorrow. No long-term vision. 7️⃣ The Bandwagon Effect You start what’s trending, not what’s purposeful. That’s why we have failed forex traders, half-baked tech bros, and abandoned POS kiosks everywhere. Purpose is personal. You must find your lane, not just follow the noise. 8️⃣ False Priorities We put all hope in: God (without work) Classroom education (without skills) Government (without responsibility) Faith without works is dead. Education without action is useless. Government without personal accountability is hopeless. 9️⃣ Mindset is Everything Until your mind changes, your life can’t. You cannot carry a poor man’s mentality into a rich man’s future. Wealth starts from within. 🔟 Environment Shapes Destiny Your location can limit your vision. Surroundings influence success. You can’t live in a dump and dream of a palace without mental relocation first. Move. Change your crowd. Redesign your inputs. 💥 Until you break these chains, you will remain exactly where you are: educated, frustrated, and broke. The choice is yours. Be poor. Or rise. Your future is not a prophecy; it’s a decision. ✅ If this message stirred something in you, do this: 👍 Like this post 💬 Drop a comment that says “I choose wealth!” 🔁 Share with someone who needs this brutal truth 👣 Follow me — Damilola Adewuyi — your personal and business development partner 📍Let’s walk this journey together. I share real truths, real strategies, and real steps for growth — no fluff, no gimmicks.

LEAD CITY UNIVERSITY (LCU) RELEASES ADMISSION FORM FOR 2025/2026 ACADEMIC SESSION LEAD CITY UNIVERSITY (LCU) RELEASES ADMISSION FORM FOR 2025/2026 ACADEMIC SESSION July 10, 2025 Marvellous Private Universities 0 Comments LEAD CITY UNIVERSITY (LCU) RELEASES ADMISSION FORM FOR 2025/2026 ACADEMIC SESSION Admissions Now Open at Lead City University Are you ready to begin your university journey? Lead City University is excited to announce that admissions are now open for the 2025/26 academic session. With a UTME score of 150, you can secure your spot at Lead City University and pursue your dream course. About Lead City University Lead City University is a reputable institution that prioritizes academic excellence, innovation, and student development. Our university offers a wide range of accredited undergraduate programs designed to shape tomorrow’s leaders in various fields. Courses Offered We offer a variety of courses in different fields, including: – Science and Technology – Arts and Education – Management and Social Sciences – Law – Medical and Health Sciences Our programs are designed to equip students with the knowledge, skills, and competencies needed to succeed in their chosen careers. Why Choose Lead City University? Lead City University is an excellent choice for students who want to pursue higher education. Our university offers: – A conducive learning environment that fosters academic excellence – Experienced and qualified faculty members who are dedicated to teaching and research – State-of-the-art facilities that support learning and innovation – A vibrant campus community that promotes student development and growth How to Apply If you’re interested in applying to Lead City University, you can follow these steps: – Visit our website at www.admissions.lcu.edu.ng – Fill out the online application form – Upload the required documents, including your UTME result and O’level certificates – Pay the application fee Contact Us If you have any questions or need more information about our programs, please don’t hesitate to contact us. You can reach us through: – Email: admissions@lcu.edu.ng – Phone: +234 815 331 8708, 0815 331 8709, 0815 331 8708, 0201 414 3228, 0815 331 8763, 0806 163 3228 – WhatsApp: +234 815 331 8702 We look forward to welcoming you to Lead City University! Studying at Lead City University offers several benefits, including: – Access to quality education and training – Opportunities to develop your skills and competencies – A supportive and inclusive learning environment – A vibrant campus community that promotes student development and growth In conclusion, Lead City University is an excellent choice for students who want to pursue higher education. LEAD CITY UNIVERSITY (LCU) RELEASES ADMISSION FORM FOR 2025/2026 ACADEMIC SESSION July 10, 2025 Marvellous Private Universities 0 Comments LEAD CITY UNIVERSITY (LCU) RELEASES ADMISSION FORM FOR 2025/2026 ACADEMIC SESSION Admissions Now Open at Lead City University Are you ready to begin your university journey? Lead City University is excited to announce that admissions are now open for the 2025/26 academic session. With a UTME score of 150, you can secure your spot at Lead City University and pursue your dream course. About Lead City University Lead City University is a reputable institution that prioritizes academic excellence, innovation, and student development. Our university offers a wide range of accredited undergraduate programs designed to shape tomorrow’s leaders in various fields. Courses Offered We offer a variety of courses in different fields, including: – Science and Technology – Arts and Education – Management and Social Sciences – Law – Medical and Health Sciences Our programs are designed to equip students with the knowledge, skills, and competencies needed to succeed in their chosen careers. Why Choose Lead City University? Lead City University is an excellent choice for students who want to pursue higher education. Our university offers: – A conducive learning environment that fosters academic excellence – Experienced and qualified faculty members who are dedicated to teaching and research – State-of-the-art facilities that support learning and innovation – A vibrant campus community that promotes student development and growth How to Apply If you’re interested in applying to Lead City University, you can follow these steps: – Visit our website at www.admissions.lcu.edu.ng – Fill out the online application form – Upload the required documents, including your UTME result and O’level certificates – Pay the application fee Contact Us If you have any questions or need more information about our programs, please don’t hesitate to contact us. You can reach us through: – Email: admissions@lcu.edu.ng – Phone: +234 815 331 8708, 0815 331 8709, 0815 331 8708, 0201 414 3228, 0815 331 8763, 0806 163 3228 – WhatsApp: +234 815 331 8702 We look forward to welcoming you to Lead City University! Studying at Lead City University offers several benefits, including: – Access to quality education and training – Opportunities to develop your skills and competencies – A supportive and inclusive learning environment – A vibrant campus community that promotes student development and growth In conclusion, Lead City University is an excellent choice for students who want to pursue higher education. For Enquiries & Guidance, Contact Aridunnu Consult Academy 📞 WhatsApp: ✅ Chat on WhatsApp 2347050649040 🌍 Join Our Community 🔹 WhatsApp Group: https://chat.whatsapp.com/LuvoxpALi2ZCk1DWOb5nrD?mode=r_t 🔹 Telegram Channel: https://t.me/all_school_update_aridunnu © 2025 Aridunnu Consult Academy. All Rights Reserved.