The grace of God that brings salvation has been revealed to everyone. It encourages us to reject unrighteousness and worldly desires, and to live in a disciplined, moral and godly way in this present time.

The grace of God that brings salvation has been revealed to everyone. It encourages us to reject unrighteousness and worldly desires, and to live in a disciplined, moral and godly way in this present time.

On a more serious note no real man wants a lady with just a big bum bum... We live in a generation where attention has been reduced to angles, filters, and how much body you can show. The louder the curves, the more people assume you’re winning. But let’s be real for a moment because behind the trends and temptations, the truth still stands tall. No real man is looking for a woman with just a big bum bum. Yes, a woman’s body may attract the eye, but it is her mind, her values, her character, and her essence that hold a man’s soul. The internet may be flooded with men commenting “fire” emojis and heart eyes under BBL pictures, but when it’s time for real life, when it’s time to choose a wife, a mother, a business partner, a backbone, these same men go quiet on curves and start looking for substance. Because here’s what they won’t post online: They want a woman who has sense, not just shape. They want a woman who can sit in a room with kings and speak with wisdom. They want a woman who can raise children with values and discipline. They want a woman who can manage a home, not just show off an outfit. They want a woman who can lead a business when they are not there. They want a woman who can multiply whatever she’s given not one who needs to be constantly maintained like a car with no engine. This is the truth social media will not scream at you. So whether you have the body or not, what really matters is: do you have value? Do you have strength of character? Can you think for yourself? Can you build something out of your life even when no one is clapping for you? Can you build a family, a vision, a legacy? Because no real man is looking for a liability. Real men are looking for women who are whole, mentally, emotionally, spiritually. Not women who only offer their bodies but are empty in purpose and identity. So while you’re chasing body goals, don’t forget to chase life goals. Train your mind the same way you train your hips. Build your value the same way you build your wardrobe. Learn emotional intelligence the same way you learn makeup tutorials. Because in the end, the world may celebrate your bum bum, but your destiny will rise or fall based on your substance. You’re more than a body. You’re a builder. You’re a thinker. You’re a nurturer. You’re a world-shifter. So rise beyond what they see. Let your mind be sharper than your waistline. Let your presence shake rooms not because of how you walk, but because of the wisdom you carry. Because the kind of woman who changes generations doesn’t just have a bum bum, she has a brain and a spirit that cannot be ignored. _______ You want to be a woman of value?... Learn a skill. Click on the link in the comment section to learn how to write for impact, influence, and income. 📷 Internet Yours Inspiration, Kathryn Esther Clement

After you get what you prayed for, ask God for the discipline and wisdom to keep it.

"SHE GAVE YOU HER BODY, BUT TOOK YOUR DESTINY" – When sex is a transaction, the man always loses more. There are two types of men in this world: those who build their future and those who trade it away for temporary pleasure. Many men don’t even realize when they’ve been robbed, not of their money, but of their potential. She didn’t hold a gun to your head. She didn’t break into your house at night. But she walked away with your focus, your ambition, your discipline, and your financial future. And the worst part? You willingly handed it over. This is the silent robbery happening every day. Men think they are enjoying, but they are being emptied. BRUTAL THREAD: How Se-x Can Steal Your Future 1. THE COST OF FREE SE-X IS YOUR AMBITION You met a fine girl. She gave you her body for free. No stress, no commitment, just pure enjoyment. You thought you hit the jackpot? No, you entered the trap. Each time you’re with her, you’re spending hours, days, and nights chasing pleasure instead of chasing progress. You wake up late, you miss opportunities, your mind is distracted. You thought you were enjoying her body, but she was taking your focus, your time, and your hunger for success. 2. EVERY TIME YOU SLEEP WITH HER, YOU LOSE ENERGY—SHE GAINS IT There’s a reason great warriors, boxers, and kings of old practiced sexual discipline. They knew that their energy, clarity, and strength came from controlling their desires. When you release carelessly, you are losing more than just fluid. You are losing drive, willpower, and aggression—all the things you need to dominate in life. Now, check her: she is glowing, she is energized, she is more powerful. You are weaker. Why do you think they say "behind every successful man is a woman"? Because she collects his energy and multiplies it. But what happens when she takes your energy and leaves? She goes to multiply it elsewhere. 3. SHE TOOK YOUR MONEY, BUT YOU THOUGHT IT WAS LØVE At first, it was just small-small money—transport fare, lunch money, a little shopping. Then it became rent, hair, nails, and urgent 2K every week. You thought you were investing in her? No, you were funding your own downfall. She took your hard-earned money, but did she invest it back into you? No. She used it to look good for another man who had more focus than you. 4. SHE WASTED YOUR YEARS, NOW SHE'S GONE How many men have given their prime years to a woman who had no plans of staying? She took your time, your energy, your youth… then she moved on to the next best option. Now, you’re in your 30s or 40s, starting over while she has already secured her next destination. Reality check: A woman’s time is shorter, but a man’s wasted time is costlier. 5. YOU THOUGHT SHE WAS LOYAL, BUT YOU WERE JUST A PHASE Some women are seasonal lovers—they attach themselves to a man for a period, take what they need, then move on. You thought she was forever. She knew she was temporary. You were just a “right now” guy. And when she found a "forever" guy, she walked away without looking back. 6. YOUR FUTURE IS MORE VALUABLE THAN HER BODY Many men have traded their destiny for a few minutes of pleasure. Ask Samson. He had superhuman strength. Delilah used love and sex to take it away. Ask Solomon. The wisest king in history lost his throne because of vvomen. Even great men fall when they don’t control their desires. Now, look at yourself. What have you lost so far? 7. WAKE UP BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE If you keep trading your time, energy, money, and focus for sex, you will wake up one day and realize: The men you started life with are now ahead of you. Your bank account is empty. Your dreams never happened. And the women who wasted your years are now with better men. BOTTOM LINE: Sex is not free. It is always a transaction. Either you gain something from it, or you lose everything to it. Choose wisely. If this post hits you, you know what to do. #everyoneシ゚

🕌 Jumu'ah Reminder: The Prophet ﷺ said: “The best day the sun rises upon is Friday...” (Muslim) Today is not just another day, it's a gift. A weekly reset. A chance for forgiveness, renewal, and reward. 🌿 Make the most of it: Pray your Jumu'ah with full presence. Listen to the Khutbah attentively. Read Surah Al-Kahf. Make abundant du'a, especially before Maghrib it's a time when prayers are accepted. Let this Jumu'ah be a step closer to Allah ﷻ. Don't let it pass like any other day. اللهم اجعلنا من الذين يستمعون القول فيتبعون أحسنه Ameen. Here are the key benefits: 🌙 Spiritual Benefits: 1. Obligation and Reward: Attending Jumu'ah prayer is fard (obligatory) for adult Muslim men. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: “The five daily prayers and from one Jumu'ah to the next is an expiation for whatever (sins) come in between, so long as one avoids major sins.” (Sahih Muslim) 2. Opportunity for Forgiveness: The Prophet ﷺ said: “Whoever performs Ghusl on Friday, goes early, listens attentively to the Khutbah, and does not engage in idle talk—he will have his sins forgiven between that Friday and the next.” (Bukhari & Muslim) 3. Surah Al-Kahf Reward: Reciting Surah Al-Kahf on Friday brings light (guidance) for the week: “Whoever reads Surah Al-Kahf on the day of Jumu'ah will have a light that will shine from him from one Friday to the next.” (Al-Hakim) 🤝 Social and Community Benefits: 1. Unity and Brotherhood: Muslims gather weekly, reinforcing bonds of brotherhood, equality, and unity. 2. Educational Opportunity: The Khutbah (sermon) is a powerful means for spiritual reminders and community awareness. 🧘‍♂️ Mental and Personal Benefits: 1. Break from Routine: Jumu'ah offers a pause from daily work life, allowing for spiritual and mental refreshment. 2. Discipline and Focus: Preparing for and attending Jumu'ah develops consistency and mindfulness in one’s spiritual life. 3. Sense of Belonging: Attending regularly can reduce feelings of isolation and strengthen identity as a Muslim. May Almighty Allah makes it easy us and easy our Affairs. Ameen.

The Day a Parent $lapp€d a Teacher — And the School Asked Him to Apologize” By Uche I will never forget that day. It happened in one of the schools I once worked. A male teacher — calm, humble, and highly disciplined — had a mild issue with a student. The boy had mi$behaved, and as expected, the teacher corrected him firmly. Later that evening, the boy went home and told his mother. The next morning, the gates of the school hadn’t even opened fully when the mother stormed in like a w0unded lion. She pushed the gate man aside, barged into the school compound, and went straight for the teacher. She didn’t ask questions. She didn’t wait to hear his side. She raised her hand — and $lapped him. Not once. Twice. Two hot, di$respectful $lap$… delivered by a mother. To a man. To a teacher. In front of students. I was there. I saw it. I felt it. And till today, I don’t know how that teacher remained calm. Because if it were me, I don’t think I would have survived that moment with silence. I don’t think my body would have obeyed the command to stand still. But he stood still — not out of weakness, but out of something even deeper: dignity. You think that’s the worst part? No. When the case got to the school owner’s office, we expected justice. We expected the teacher to be defended. Instead, the owner begged the parent — and then turned to the teacher and said: “Just apologize… let’s end it here.” Apologize? Apologize… for being s$lapped? Apologize… for doing his job? Apologize… for being a teacher? That day, I felt something inside me break. I saw a man stripped of his dignity and asked to clap for it. I saw a teacher publicly humiliated — not just by a parent, but by the very system that should have protected him. We are teachers. And we deserve respect.

DECLARATION RECEIVEA FRESH GRACES ANDDISCIPLINE TO SAY NO TO WRONGAND YES TORIIGHT I JESUS NAME

*LEAVE YOUR FEMALE STUDENTS ALONE!* This is not just a warn!ng—this is a cry. A cry for the girl child. A cry for our schools. A cry for sanity. Dear young male teacher, You are gifted. You are admired. Your presence alone makes the girls sit up, eager to learn. You speak with passion, you dress smart, you explain well—and you may not know this—but many of those girls in your class are secretly cru$h!ng on you. But listen carefully: Their admiration is not permission. Their smiles are not an invitation. Their boldness is not maturity. They are still children. Tender. VulnerabI3. Still figuring out their emotions. What they feel is not love—it is confusion dressed in admiration. They trust you. They believe in you. And when you cross that sacred line… you k!II something in them. You kiIIher confidence. You kiII her future. You kiII her right to grow up whole and safe. Let me tell you what many don’t talk about. There are girls walking around today—empty, br0ken, hiding pa!n under their makeup—because a teacher who was supposed to protect them u$ed them. Some dropped out of school with swollen bellies. Some ended up in danger0u$ relationships they didn’t deserve. Some can no longer focus in class. Some lost their voice. Some have never healed. And what’s worse? Many of them still blame themselves. You were supposed to be her mentor. Her light. Her guide. Instead, you became her first heartbreak£ her first betrayal, her first $hame. Let me say this loud and clear: If a girl student ever gets bold enough to come close, it is because you have already given her the signal. Yes—you may not have touched her yet, but your boundary is already weak. And weak boundaries are a silent invitation to destruct!on. Don’t tell yourself “it’s love.” It’s not. Don’t say “she started it.” She didn’t. Don’t say “others have done it.” That’s no excuse. The truth is: many male teachers have ru!ned the destiny of the girl child in the name of love. And nobody talks about it enough. Be different. Don’t become another reason why a girl can’t look a male teacher in the eye without f£ar. Don’t become the face she remembers every time the word “trust” is mentioned. Don’t destr0y a child to satisfy your weakness. You are not just teaching a subject—you are shaping a soul. So protect her. Guard your role. Be disciplined. Be a real man. Be the teacher she’ll write about with pride—not pa!n. Let this be the end of this madn€$$. Let the classroom be a place of growth, not trau.ma. If this message touched your heart, share it like fire. We must shout it louder until every teacher hears it: Leave the girl child alone. Let her grow. Let her breathe. Let her be safe.

THE MOST EXPENSIVE BURDEN A MAN CAN CARRY: A BROKE WOMAN Let’s settle this like men. 1️⃣ A broke woman is not a partner — she’s a financial liability. The only thing she consistently brings to the table is sex. And truth is — you can get that cheaper, with zero emotional chaos, from a street corner than the toxic, expensive ride you're on now. 2️⃣ If her only source of income is her private parts and your wallet — you’re not a boyfriend, you’re a business plan. While you’re catching feelings and breaking your back to keep her afloat, she’s running a quiet hustle where YOU are the product. 3️⃣ Remove your money and watch the 'love' vanish. Stop funding her hair, nails, rent, data, and see how fast those midnight “I miss you” texts disappear. That ‘love’ was a lease — and payment just expired. 4️⃣ A woman who can’t fund her own survival is an irresponsible adult, not a partner. If she can’t handle her rent, bills, or upkeep — what makes you think she can build a future with you? She’s searching for a sponsor, not a soulmate. 5️⃣ Love without financial independence is modern slavery. You’ll stay trapped in a toxic cycle of guilt-tripping, fake affection, and sex used as a bargaining chip. Every argument will end with “you don’t care” just because you won’t finance nonsense. 6️⃣ Stop feeling guilty for refusing to carry dead weight. You’re not a charity organization. You’re a man with a destiny, a purpose, and standards. A broke, entitled woman will drag you into financial ruin while smiling in selfies. 7️⃣ The fastest way to know a woman’s true intentions? Cut off the money. No dates. No transfers. No surprise airtime. Watch how she moves when you’re ‘financially unavailable.’ 9 out of 10 will ghost. 8️⃣ Men don’t go broke chasing dreams — they go broke chasing broke women. You’ll wreck your savings, lose your focus, and mortgage your future trying to maintain a woman who contributes nothing but attitude and entitlement. 9️⃣ The right woman multiplies your peace, your money, and your mission. The wrong one multiplies your debts, your drama, and your regrets. Choose wisely. 🔟 Don’t confuse sex for value. Millions of women can spread their legs. Few can build legacies. Discipline yourself to know the damn difference. FINAL WARNING Brother — your time, energy, and money are weapons. Spend them like a king. A broke woman will drain your pockets, delay your destiny, and derail your progress. If she can’t solve her own problems, she’s got no business being in your life. Clear your circle. Guard your crown. Build your empire. Stop sponsoring liabilities. Start building legacies. ➥𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐤𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐦𝐰𝐞𝐲𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐌𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐢 𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐳𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐨😭🙏❤‍🩹

THE MOST EXPENSIVE BURDEN A MAN CAN CARRY: A BROKE WOMAN Let’s settle this like men. 1️⃣ A broke woman is not a partner — she’s a financial liability. The only thing she consistently brings to the table is sex. And truth is — you can get that cheaper, with zero emotional chaos, from a street corner than the toxic, expensive ride you're on now. 2️⃣ If her only source of income is her private parts and your wallet — you’re not a boyfriend, you’re a business plan. While you’re catching feelings and breaking your back to keep her afloat, she’s running a quiet hustle where YOU are the product. 3️⃣ Remove your money and watch the 'love' vanish. Stop funding her hair, nails, rent, data, and see how fast those midnight “I miss you” texts disappear. That ‘love’ was a lease — and payment just expired. 4️⃣ A woman who can’t fund her own survival is an irresponsible adult, not a partner. If she can’t handle her rent, bills, or upkeep — what makes you think she can build a future with you? She’s searching for a sponsor, not a soulmate. 5️⃣ Love without financial independence is modern slavery. You’ll stay trapped in a toxic cycle of guilt-tripping, fake affection, and sex used as a bargaining chip. Every argument will end with “you don’t care” just because you won’t finance nonsense. 6️⃣ Stop feeling guilty for refusing to carry dead weight. You’re not a charity organization. You’re a man with a destiny, a purpose, and standards. A broke, entitled woman will drag you into financial ruin while smiling in selfies. 7️⃣ The fastest way to know a woman’s true intentions? Cut off the money. No dates. No transfers. No surprise airtime. Watch how she moves when you’re ‘financially unavailable.’ 9 out of 10 will ghost. 8️⃣ Men don’t go broke chasing dreams — they go broke chasing broke women. You’ll wreck your savings, lose your focus, and mortgage your future trying to maintain a woman who contributes nothing but attitude and entitlement. 9️⃣ The right woman multiplies your peace, your money, and your mission. The wrong one multiplies your debts, your drama, and your regrets. Choose wisely. 🔟 Don’t confuse sex for value. Millions of women can spread their legs. Few can build legacies. Discipline yourself to know the damn difference. FINAL WARNING Brother — your time, energy, and money are weapons. Spend them like a king. A broke woman will drain your pockets, delay your destiny, and derail your progress. If she can’t solve her own problems, she’s got no business being in your life. Clear your circle. Guard your crown. Build your empire. Stop sponsoring liabilities. Start building legacies.

*A Cry for Our Children: A Wake-Up Call to Parents and a Return to Godly Parenting* With a heavy heart, I watched a video making rounds - the SS3 students, young minds who just concluded their WAEC exams, engaging in shameful and immoral displays in the name of celebration. What should have been a moment of reflection has been turned into a festival of indecency and mockery of values. This is not the generation our forefathers prayed for. We are raising a generation that seems to have lost its way—where vulgarity is called expression, and shame is dismissed as old-fashioned. These are not just "children having fun." These are warning signs of a decaying moral foundation. To every parent out there: do not assume your child knows better. Do not assume they are safe just because you provide, clothe, and send them to school. School can never ever do everything. The school can never be successful if a family foundation and culture are not already there. Cultivate moral principles at ages 1 and 12, then the school will build from there. Be close to your children. Talk to them. Know their friends. Know their struggles. Monitor their online habits. Most importantly—pray for them, and pray with them. The truth is painful: many parents are present in the home but absent in the lives of their children. We must return to the way of our grandparents—a way built on discipline, respect, fear of God, and community accountability. They didn’t need the internet to teach values. They taught it at dawn prayers, at family meals, with the rod of correction wrapped in deep love and concern. "Spare the rod and spoil the child." This is not just a saying—it’s a divine imperative as well as principle. A generation not corrected will surely correct itself in the street, behind bars, or on a viral video for the world to scorn. Dear parent, wake up. You are not just raising a child. You are shaping a future husband, a future wife, a future leader. Don’t leave that to chance. The enemy is not sleeping—why should you? We must return to God. We must return to prayer. We must return to values, a return to character moulding. It takes time, it needs time. It is cumbersome, it is not an easy job as many modern day parents think. It is painstaking. May God have mercy on this generation. May He open our eyes before it is too late. *Let this video not just make us shake our heads. Let it shake us back to responsibility.* Rev. Fr. Francis UNEGBU (PhD) Noble Mentor