Bishop David Olatunji Abioye: The Pastor of Generals By Daniel Breakforth In the year 1983, a new church called the Living Faith World Outreach Centre was commissioned by Pastor Enoch Adeboye in Ilorin, Kwara State of Nigeria. Shortly after the commission date, the Church moved by divine instruction to Kaduna instead of the initial plan to start off at Jos, Plateau State. The new Church was led by Pastor (later Bishop) David Oyedepo. Oyedepo was not a stranger to Kaduna. In the year 1973, he had attempted to join the Nigerian Air Force at the age of 19 through the Nigerian Defence Academy (NDA) just after the Civil War. Now a young pastor, he sometimes visited his military friends at the NDA as well as other collocated units within the massive Ribadu Cantonment. However it appears that God had other plans for Oyedepo. In 1987, one of his young pastors, David Abioye who had joined the Church as a staff at the end of his National Youth Service Corps period was sent to Maiduguri to open up a new branch. Shortly after this, by 1988, Living Faith was considered the largest Pentecostal Church in northern Nigeria. In 1989, Bishop David Oyedepo announced to the 3000 members that the Church intended to build Garden of Faith-the largest Church auditorium in Northern Nigeria. The Church opened up a new branch at Iyana Ipaja in 1989 called Winners' Chapel in response to a divine call to Oyedepo-Get down to Lagos and raise me a people. That was not all, in his own words, Bishop Oyedepo explains the change of baton that soon transpired. THE CHANGE OF THE KADUNA CHURCH PASTORATE "In view of the enormous work on ground at Kaduna in the early days of the Lagos church, I was shuttling between Lagos and Kaduna; Lagos this Sunday, Kaduna next. I was always in Kaduna anytime I had any outreach up north. On a particular day in May 1990, concluding a seminar in the city of Jos on Saturday night, I started racing down to minister at the Sunday service in the Kaduna church. Suddenly, I heard the voice of the Lord, saying, ‘When you were the Pastor of the Kaduna church’. Immediately, I questioned, ‘Were?’ I did not have the patience to listen to what followed; I shouted, ‘Who then is the Pastor?’ And God said, ‘Send for my servant, David (Abioye), he shall be the shepherd of the flock’. While I ministered at the church that Sunday morning, in my characteristic manner, I shared with the congregation exactly what the Lord told me, and that was how the pastorate of the Kaduna church changed hands by divine order. From that very day, I ceased to see myself as the Pastor of that church. The good news is, there was no rethink or regret but testimonies of growth and expansion. Today, the Kaduna church is a beauty to behold". Pastor David Abioye was then transferred from Maiduguri to Kaduna in the early days of the Living Faith Church’s national expansion. This seemed like a routine ministerial reassignment. However, what followed was not just a chapter in church growth—it was the quiet unfolding of a legacy that would deeply influence Nigeria’s military elite. Kaduna is home to several of Nigeria’s most critical military institutions, including the Nigerian Defence Academy (NDA), Armed Forces Command and Staff College (AFCSC) Jaji, Infantry Centre and School Jaji, Headquarters 1 Division Nigerian Army, Nigerian Air Force (NAF) Base, Training and Tactical Group (TTG), other NAF units, and the famed Depot Nigerian Army in Zaria, among others. Into this unique military atmosphere, Pastor Abioye was posted as resident pastor of Living Faith Church Barnawa—popularly known as the Garden of Faith. He was then consecrated Bishop in 1993 at the age of 32. He remains the youngest to be consecrated Bishop of a mainline Church globally Humorously, Abioye just like Oyedepo had also previously attempted to join the military from Kaduna. At a time when spiritual depth and moral guidance were quietly sought by many gentlemen officer cadets of the NDA and in fact, many young and seasoned officers alike, Bishop Abioye’s life and message stood out. His disciplined lifestyle, gentle demeanor and commanding yet humble pulpit presence drew men and women in uniform to the church in large numbers. For almost two decades, the Garden of Faith remained the largest megachurch in northern Nigeria and one of the most spiritually influential. NDA was, very tough...to say it very nicely. Consequently, week after week, cadets from the NDA having endured grueling training sessions all week, would find refuge and refreshing on Sundays at the Barnawa church. Midweek services were an unaffordable luxury! For the gentleman officer cadet, 'Heaven at last' was simply not enough as the daily sufferings and challenges otherwise known as Punishment Tutorials Endurance ( PUTTEE) always stretched them physically and spiritually to the limits. They needed reassurance, they needed words of Hope, they needed encouragement and they needed a purpose to stay alive. The Catholic Church is known to be very disciplined with time. Service times are fixed and start and end promptly. However majority of Christian cadets at the time were either non Catholics or at least did not attend the Barracks Catholic Church. Imagine a situation where a Rev Father complains during mass of sounds of 'up, up, up, up up...while voices under duress were counting...33, 34, 35...101, 102 etc behind the Altar (Very few, will understand this). The only other church which had the combined qualities of timeliness and promptness at the time was 'Living Faith'. The cadets could not afford a church that had no respect for time. Time was of essence and the time to come out through Abakpa, Equitation, Kurumashi or Silver Jubilee Gate was not fixed. With the 3 services at Garden of Faith which was the only Living Faith Church at the time, one could always find an early or late morning service that would fit into their 'Up' plans and Bishop Abioye was always on hand and bellowing... There is Hope for you! At the time Bishop Abioye took over in Kaduna, members of the NDA 37RC were passing out cadets. General Gwabin Musa would have been a 4th termer and gradually transforming from 'Kati Kati' to Acting Period. Also by the time Bishop Abioye was moved to Abuja in 2004, the members of 55th RC were second termers. This implies that Bishop Abioye oversaw about 18 Academy (Regular) courses (asides various short service courses) as the longest serving Living Faith Church pastor over Garden of Faith. Bishop Abioye’s messages were not only encouraging—they were stabilizing. They offered hope, moral clarity and spiritual courage, reinforcing the discipline instilled during military training but anchoring it in godly values. His altar call would always begin with... Say with me Dear God... Beyond the cadets, officers stationed across military formations in Kaduna and beyond—AFCSC, ICS, NAF Base, Depot NA Chindit Barracks/NASMP Zaria and even more remote military units—made it a routine to worship under his leadership. His consistency, integrity and rare ability to relate the gospel to leadership and purpose earned him the respect and loyalty of Nigeria’s rising military brass. In 2002, he was invited to minister at the Fellowship of Christian Cadets within the NDA. That service made history: For the first time, the NDA’s garrison protestant church auditorium was filled to overflowing. Cadets, officers, administrative staff and even civilians came en masse to hear him minister—a moment that solidified his role as a spiritual compass to many within the armed forces. Though eventually represented by one Pastor Victor Olafisoye, the message he personally sent was well received. Over the years, many of those cadets have risen through the ranks to become 1-star, 2-star, 3-star and even 4-star generals in the Nigerian Armed Forces and many other countries within Africa. Yet, they continue to hold Bishop Abioye in the highest esteem—not just as a preacher from their youth, but as a father in the faith whose words and character deeply shaped their journey. Some regularly consult him for prayer and counsel; others simply draw strength from his continued presence, teachings and landmark example of stewardship and loyalty. The Transfer of Bishop David Abioye to Abuja Bishop David Abioye was transferred from Kaduna to Abuja during a period of rapid church expansion and reactions as well as to douse some inflammable situations that had arisen. At the time, the Church was transitioning from a regional ministry centered in northern Nigeria to a national and international force and strategic placement of senior leaders was essential. Bishop David Oyedepo, founder and presiding bishop of the Church, needed to solidify the church's presence in Nigeria’s new Federal Capital Territory and neutralise efforts at rebellion in some quarters. He appointed Bishop Abioye to lead the growing work in Abuja, a move that proved to be both strategic and transformative. Upon arriving in Abuja, Bishop Abioye began pastoring at Durumi which was then the only branch in Abuja. This would eventually lead to him pioneering the Church work in the suburbs at Goshen City, the church’s massive 700 acre mission headquarters in the northern region which was built within 13 months with no assistance from the International headquarters and broke the record of Garden of Faith, Kaduna as the largest Church facility in northern Nigeria by 2010 However, even before the establishment of the Goshen facility in 2010, Abioye’s ministry had already gained deep roots in Abuja. His influence in the city, particularly among military officers and senior civil servants, began to grow in a quiet yet profound way. This rise in influence among military personnel can be attributed to several factors. First, Abuja is not just Nigeria’s administrative capital—it is also home to major military installations, including the Defense Headquarters, Army, Navy and Airforce Headquarters, National Defence College and numerous officers’ quarters. The proximity of Abioye’s ministry to these centers meant his church was physically accessible to officers seeking spiritual direction and balance amid the demands of national service. After his move to Goshen, they were also willing to do the 30km+ drive out of Abuja metropolis to Goshen on Sundays. Second, and perhaps more critically, Bishop Abioye’s personality and leadership style deeply resonated with military culture. He is known for his calm demeanor, disciplined approach to ministry and unshakable loyalty to his spiritual leader, Bishop Oyedepo. These traits mirrored the military’s values of order, hierarchy, loyalty, and self-control—values that often determine who an officer chooses to follow or confide in. Abioye’s messages frequently emphasized honor, service, integrity, and responsibility—not only in spiritual matters but in daily life and leadership. His teachings avoided controversy and remained grounded in scripture and character development. For many officers, this was both refreshing and reassuring. He did not pander to status or power but modeled consistency and humility, which earned him long-term trust. Moreover, the structure of the Living Faith Church itself—with its protocol-driven services, cell systems and clear chains of authority—created an environment that felt orderly and familiar to those from military backgrounds. It’s no surprise that over the years, many high-ranking officers not only became members of the Abuja church but developed close spiritual affiliations with Bishop Abioye himself. Essentially, Bishop David Abioye’s transfer to Abuja was a pivotal moment in the growth of the Living Faith Church in Nigeria’s capital. His personal integrity, disciplined leadership and spiritual consistency made him a natural magnet for military officers and government elites alike. Today, he remains one of the most respected spiritual voices in the region—both within and beyond Pentecostal circles. Remarkably, his influence has grown beyond church walls. Bishop Abioye has ministered and lectured at the National Defence College in Abuja, addressing elite military officers from Nigeria and across the world. He continues to engage actively in both physical and virtual fora where military personnel seek spiritual and ethical guidance. Recently, Nigeria’s only serving 4-star general was spotted worshipping at the Living Word Conquerors Global Assembly, the new phase of Bishop Abioye"'s ministry—an unassuming but telling sign of how enduring and respected Bishop Abioye’s pastoral role remains within military circles. Yet, in all of this, he has remained profoundly humble. Never one to boast or seek titles, Bishop Abioye continues to walk with quiet dignity, reflecting the servant leadership he has modeled for about 4 decades. His life is a testament to the truth that divine influence is not always loud—but it is lasting. Indeed, his posting to Kaduna and later Abuja was more than a church assignment; it was a divine deployment. In the process, Bishop David Abioye became, almost inadvertently, the Pastor of Generals. #ChurchGist

The grace of God that brings salvation has been revealed to everyone. It encourages us to reject unrighteousness and worldly desires, and to live in a disciplined, moral and godly way in this present time.

The grace of God that brings salvation has been revealed to everyone. It encourages us to reject unrighteousness and worldly desires, and to live in a disciplined, moral and godly way in this present time.

On a more serious note no real man wants a lady with just a big bum bum... We live in a generation where attention has been reduced to angles, filters, and how much body you can show. The louder the curves, the more people assume you’re winning. But let’s be real for a moment because behind the trends and temptations, the truth still stands tall. No real man is looking for a woman with just a big bum bum. Yes, a woman’s body may attract the eye, but it is her mind, her values, her character, and her essence that hold a man’s soul. The internet may be flooded with men commenting “fire” emojis and heart eyes under BBL pictures, but when it’s time for real life, when it’s time to choose a wife, a mother, a business partner, a backbone, these same men go quiet on curves and start looking for substance. Because here’s what they won’t post online: They want a woman who has sense, not just shape. They want a woman who can sit in a room with kings and speak with wisdom. They want a woman who can raise children with values and discipline. They want a woman who can manage a home, not just show off an outfit. They want a woman who can lead a business when they are not there. They want a woman who can multiply whatever she’s given not one who needs to be constantly maintained like a car with no engine. This is the truth social media will not scream at you. So whether you have the body or not, what really matters is: do you have value? Do you have strength of character? Can you think for yourself? Can you build something out of your life even when no one is clapping for you? Can you build a family, a vision, a legacy? Because no real man is looking for a liability. Real men are looking for women who are whole, mentally, emotionally, spiritually. Not women who only offer their bodies but are empty in purpose and identity. So while you’re chasing body goals, don’t forget to chase life goals. Train your mind the same way you train your hips. Build your value the same way you build your wardrobe. Learn emotional intelligence the same way you learn makeup tutorials. Because in the end, the world may celebrate your bum bum, but your destiny will rise or fall based on your substance. You’re more than a body. You’re a builder. You’re a thinker. You’re a nurturer. You’re a world-shifter. So rise beyond what they see. Let your mind be sharper than your waistline. Let your presence shake rooms not because of how you walk, but because of the wisdom you carry. Because the kind of woman who changes generations doesn’t just have a bum bum, she has a brain and a spirit that cannot be ignored. _______ You want to be a woman of value?... Learn a skill. Click on the link in the comment section to learn how to write for impact, influence, and income. 📷 Internet Yours Inspiration, Kathryn Esther Clement

After you get what you prayed for, ask God for the discipline and wisdom to keep it.

"SHE GAVE YOU HER BODY, BUT TOOK YOUR DESTINY" – When sex is a transaction, the man always loses more. There are two types of men in this world: those who build their future and those who trade it away for temporary pleasure. Many men don’t even realize when they’ve been robbed, not of their money, but of their potential. She didn’t hold a gun to your head. She didn’t break into your house at night. But she walked away with your focus, your ambition, your discipline, and your financial future. And the worst part? You willingly handed it over. This is the silent robbery happening every day. Men think they are enjoying, but they are being emptied. BRUTAL THREAD: How Se-x Can Steal Your Future 1. THE COST OF FREE SE-X IS YOUR AMBITION You met a fine girl. She gave you her body for free. No stress, no commitment, just pure enjoyment. You thought you hit the jackpot? No, you entered the trap. Each time you’re with her, you’re spending hours, days, and nights chasing pleasure instead of chasing progress. You wake up late, you miss opportunities, your mind is distracted. You thought you were enjoying her body, but she was taking your focus, your time, and your hunger for success. 2. EVERY TIME YOU SLEEP WITH HER, YOU LOSE ENERGY—SHE GAINS IT There’s a reason great warriors, boxers, and kings of old practiced sexual discipline. They knew that their energy, clarity, and strength came from controlling their desires. When you release carelessly, you are losing more than just fluid. You are losing drive, willpower, and aggression—all the things you need to dominate in life. Now, check her: she is glowing, she is energized, she is more powerful. You are weaker. Why do you think they say "behind every successful man is a woman"? Because she collects his energy and multiplies it. But what happens when she takes your energy and leaves? She goes to multiply it elsewhere. 3. SHE TOOK YOUR MONEY, BUT YOU THOUGHT IT WAS LØVE At first, it was just small-small money—transport fare, lunch money, a little shopping. Then it became rent, hair, nails, and urgent 2K every week. You thought you were investing in her? No, you were funding your own downfall. She took your hard-earned money, but did she invest it back into you? No. She used it to look good for another man who had more focus than you. 4. SHE WASTED YOUR YEARS, NOW SHE'S GONE How many men have given their prime years to a woman who had no plans of staying? She took your time, your energy, your youth… then she moved on to the next best option. Now, you’re in your 30s or 40s, starting over while she has already secured her next destination. Reality check: A woman’s time is shorter, but a man’s wasted time is costlier. 5. YOU THOUGHT SHE WAS LOYAL, BUT YOU WERE JUST A PHASE Some women are seasonal lovers—they attach themselves to a man for a period, take what they need, then move on. You thought she was forever. She knew she was temporary. You were just a “right now” guy. And when she found a "forever" guy, she walked away without looking back. 6. YOUR FUTURE IS MORE VALUABLE THAN HER BODY Many men have traded their destiny for a few minutes of pleasure. Ask Samson. He had superhuman strength. Delilah used love and sex to take it away. Ask Solomon. The wisest king in history lost his throne because of vvomen. Even great men fall when they don’t control their desires. Now, look at yourself. What have you lost so far? 7. WAKE UP BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE If you keep trading your time, energy, money, and focus for sex, you will wake up one day and realize: The men you started life with are now ahead of you. Your bank account is empty. Your dreams never happened. And the women who wasted your years are now with better men. BOTTOM LINE: Sex is not free. It is always a transaction. Either you gain something from it, or you lose everything to it. Choose wisely. If this post hits you, you know what to do. #everyoneシ゚

🕌 Jumu'ah Reminder: The Prophet ﷺ said: “The best day the sun rises upon is Friday...” (Muslim) Today is not just another day, it's a gift. A weekly reset. A chance for forgiveness, renewal, and reward. 🌿 Make the most of it: Pray your Jumu'ah with full presence. Listen to the Khutbah attentively. Read Surah Al-Kahf. Make abundant du'a, especially before Maghrib it's a time when prayers are accepted. Let this Jumu'ah be a step closer to Allah ﷻ. Don't let it pass like any other day. اللهم اجعلنا من الذين يستمعون القول فيتبعون أحسنه Ameen. Here are the key benefits: 🌙 Spiritual Benefits: 1. Obligation and Reward: Attending Jumu'ah prayer is fard (obligatory) for adult Muslim men. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: “The five daily prayers and from one Jumu'ah to the next is an expiation for whatever (sins) come in between, so long as one avoids major sins.” (Sahih Muslim) 2. Opportunity for Forgiveness: The Prophet ﷺ said: “Whoever performs Ghusl on Friday, goes early, listens attentively to the Khutbah, and does not engage in idle talk—he will have his sins forgiven between that Friday and the next.” (Bukhari & Muslim) 3. Surah Al-Kahf Reward: Reciting Surah Al-Kahf on Friday brings light (guidance) for the week: “Whoever reads Surah Al-Kahf on the day of Jumu'ah will have a light that will shine from him from one Friday to the next.” (Al-Hakim) 🤝 Social and Community Benefits: 1. Unity and Brotherhood: Muslims gather weekly, reinforcing bonds of brotherhood, equality, and unity. 2. Educational Opportunity: The Khutbah (sermon) is a powerful means for spiritual reminders and community awareness. 🧘‍♂️ Mental and Personal Benefits: 1. Break from Routine: Jumu'ah offers a pause from daily work life, allowing for spiritual and mental refreshment. 2. Discipline and Focus: Preparing for and attending Jumu'ah develops consistency and mindfulness in one’s spiritual life. 3. Sense of Belonging: Attending regularly can reduce feelings of isolation and strengthen identity as a Muslim. May Almighty Allah makes it easy us and easy our Affairs. Ameen.

The Day a Parent $lapp€d a Teacher — And the School Asked Him to Apologize” By Uche I will never forget that day. It happened in one of the schools I once worked. A male teacher — calm, humble, and highly disciplined — had a mild issue with a student. The boy had mi$behaved, and as expected, the teacher corrected him firmly. Later that evening, the boy went home and told his mother. The next morning, the gates of the school hadn’t even opened fully when the mother stormed in like a w0unded lion. She pushed the gate man aside, barged into the school compound, and went straight for the teacher. She didn’t ask questions. She didn’t wait to hear his side. She raised her hand — and $lapped him. Not once. Twice. Two hot, di$respectful $lap$… delivered by a mother. To a man. To a teacher. In front of students. I was there. I saw it. I felt it. And till today, I don’t know how that teacher remained calm. Because if it were me, I don’t think I would have survived that moment with silence. I don’t think my body would have obeyed the command to stand still. But he stood still — not out of weakness, but out of something even deeper: dignity. You think that’s the worst part? No. When the case got to the school owner’s office, we expected justice. We expected the teacher to be defended. Instead, the owner begged the parent — and then turned to the teacher and said: “Just apologize… let’s end it here.” Apologize? Apologize… for being s$lapped? Apologize… for doing his job? Apologize… for being a teacher? That day, I felt something inside me break. I saw a man stripped of his dignity and asked to clap for it. I saw a teacher publicly humiliated — not just by a parent, but by the very system that should have protected him. We are teachers. And we deserve respect.

DECLARATION RECEIVEA FRESH GRACES ANDDISCIPLINE TO SAY NO TO WRONGAND YES TORIIGHT I JESUS NAME

*LEAVE YOUR FEMALE STUDENTS ALONE!* This is not just a warn!ng—this is a cry. A cry for the girl child. A cry for our schools. A cry for sanity. Dear young male teacher, You are gifted. You are admired. Your presence alone makes the girls sit up, eager to learn. You speak with passion, you dress smart, you explain well—and you may not know this—but many of those girls in your class are secretly cru$h!ng on you. But listen carefully: Their admiration is not permission. Their smiles are not an invitation. Their boldness is not maturity. They are still children. Tender. VulnerabI3. Still figuring out their emotions. What they feel is not love—it is confusion dressed in admiration. They trust you. They believe in you. And when you cross that sacred line… you k!II something in them. You kiIIher confidence. You kiII her future. You kiII her right to grow up whole and safe. Let me tell you what many don’t talk about. There are girls walking around today—empty, br0ken, hiding pa!n under their makeup—because a teacher who was supposed to protect them u$ed them. Some dropped out of school with swollen bellies. Some ended up in danger0u$ relationships they didn’t deserve. Some can no longer focus in class. Some lost their voice. Some have never healed. And what’s worse? Many of them still blame themselves. You were supposed to be her mentor. Her light. Her guide. Instead, you became her first heartbreak£ her first betrayal, her first $hame. Let me say this loud and clear: If a girl student ever gets bold enough to come close, it is because you have already given her the signal. Yes—you may not have touched her yet, but your boundary is already weak. And weak boundaries are a silent invitation to destruct!on. Don’t tell yourself “it’s love.” It’s not. Don’t say “she started it.” She didn’t. Don’t say “others have done it.” That’s no excuse. The truth is: many male teachers have ru!ned the destiny of the girl child in the name of love. And nobody talks about it enough. Be different. Don’t become another reason why a girl can’t look a male teacher in the eye without f£ar. Don’t become the face she remembers every time the word “trust” is mentioned. Don’t destr0y a child to satisfy your weakness. You are not just teaching a subject—you are shaping a soul. So protect her. Guard your role. Be disciplined. Be a real man. Be the teacher she’ll write about with pride—not pa!n. Let this be the end of this madn€$$. Let the classroom be a place of growth, not trau.ma. If this message touched your heart, share it like fire. We must shout it louder until every teacher hears it: Leave the girl child alone. Let her grow. Let her breathe. Let her be safe.

THE MOST EXPENSIVE BURDEN A MAN CAN CARRY: A BROKE WOMAN Let’s settle this like men. 1️⃣ A broke woman is not a partner — she’s a financial liability. The only thing she consistently brings to the table is sex. And truth is — you can get that cheaper, with zero emotional chaos, from a street corner than the toxic, expensive ride you're on now. 2️⃣ If her only source of income is her private parts and your wallet — you’re not a boyfriend, you’re a business plan. While you’re catching feelings and breaking your back to keep her afloat, she’s running a quiet hustle where YOU are the product. 3️⃣ Remove your money and watch the 'love' vanish. Stop funding her hair, nails, rent, data, and see how fast those midnight “I miss you” texts disappear. That ‘love’ was a lease — and payment just expired. 4️⃣ A woman who can’t fund her own survival is an irresponsible adult, not a partner. If she can’t handle her rent, bills, or upkeep — what makes you think she can build a future with you? She’s searching for a sponsor, not a soulmate. 5️⃣ Love without financial independence is modern slavery. You’ll stay trapped in a toxic cycle of guilt-tripping, fake affection, and sex used as a bargaining chip. Every argument will end with “you don’t care” just because you won’t finance nonsense. 6️⃣ Stop feeling guilty for refusing to carry dead weight. You’re not a charity organization. You’re a man with a destiny, a purpose, and standards. A broke, entitled woman will drag you into financial ruin while smiling in selfies. 7️⃣ The fastest way to know a woman’s true intentions? Cut off the money. No dates. No transfers. No surprise airtime. Watch how she moves when you’re ‘financially unavailable.’ 9 out of 10 will ghost. 8️⃣ Men don’t go broke chasing dreams — they go broke chasing broke women. You’ll wreck your savings, lose your focus, and mortgage your future trying to maintain a woman who contributes nothing but attitude and entitlement. 9️⃣ The right woman multiplies your peace, your money, and your mission. The wrong one multiplies your debts, your drama, and your regrets. Choose wisely. 🔟 Don’t confuse sex for value. Millions of women can spread their legs. Few can build legacies. Discipline yourself to know the damn difference. FINAL WARNING Brother — your time, energy, and money are weapons. Spend them like a king. A broke woman will drain your pockets, delay your destiny, and derail your progress. If she can’t solve her own problems, she’s got no business being in your life. Clear your circle. Guard your crown. Build your empire. Stop sponsoring liabilities. Start building legacies. ➥𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐤𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐦𝐰𝐞𝐲𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐌𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐢 𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐳𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐨😭🙏❤‍🩹

THE MOST EXPENSIVE BURDEN A MAN CAN CARRY: A BROKE WOMAN Let’s settle this like men. 1️⃣ A broke woman is not a partner — she’s a financial liability. The only thing she consistently brings to the table is sex. And truth is — you can get that cheaper, with zero emotional chaos, from a street corner than the toxic, expensive ride you're on now. 2️⃣ If her only source of income is her private parts and your wallet — you’re not a boyfriend, you’re a business plan. While you’re catching feelings and breaking your back to keep her afloat, she’s running a quiet hustle where YOU are the product. 3️⃣ Remove your money and watch the 'love' vanish. Stop funding her hair, nails, rent, data, and see how fast those midnight “I miss you” texts disappear. That ‘love’ was a lease — and payment just expired. 4️⃣ A woman who can’t fund her own survival is an irresponsible adult, not a partner. If she can’t handle her rent, bills, or upkeep — what makes you think she can build a future with you? She’s searching for a sponsor, not a soulmate. 5️⃣ Love without financial independence is modern slavery. You’ll stay trapped in a toxic cycle of guilt-tripping, fake affection, and sex used as a bargaining chip. Every argument will end with “you don’t care” just because you won’t finance nonsense. 6️⃣ Stop feeling guilty for refusing to carry dead weight. You’re not a charity organization. You’re a man with a destiny, a purpose, and standards. A broke, entitled woman will drag you into financial ruin while smiling in selfies. 7️⃣ The fastest way to know a woman’s true intentions? Cut off the money. No dates. No transfers. No surprise airtime. Watch how she moves when you’re ‘financially unavailable.’ 9 out of 10 will ghost. 8️⃣ Men don’t go broke chasing dreams — they go broke chasing broke women. You’ll wreck your savings, lose your focus, and mortgage your future trying to maintain a woman who contributes nothing but attitude and entitlement. 9️⃣ The right woman multiplies your peace, your money, and your mission. The wrong one multiplies your debts, your drama, and your regrets. Choose wisely. 🔟 Don’t confuse sex for value. Millions of women can spread their legs. Few can build legacies. Discipline yourself to know the damn difference. FINAL WARNING Brother — your time, energy, and money are weapons. Spend them like a king. A broke woman will drain your pockets, delay your destiny, and derail your progress. If she can’t solve her own problems, she’s got no business being in your life. Clear your circle. Guard your crown. Build your empire. Stop sponsoring liabilities. Start building legacies.