IF YOU KEEP PICKING WRONG, READ THIS. Choosing a partner is one of the most important decisions of your life. But many good women are making bad decisions because something deeper is influencing their choices. These are 5 things that can cause you to choose the wrong partner even when you’re praying, fasting, and “doing everything.” 📌 1. YOUR EMOTIONS The moment you feel something strong, you stop seeing clearly. You start making excuses to cover up red flags because you don't want to lose this thing you feel for him. If emotions are driving the car, wisdom is probably tied up in the boot. And that is exactly the case for many ladies. Your emotions are good and what makes you human but you need to gain mastery over it else it will keep making you choose the wrong partners. 📌 2. UNMET NEEDS Some of the worst relationships you’ll ever enter are the ones you walk into with an empty cup. Because when you’re thirsty, even p0ison can look like water. When you have unmet needs, your definition and perception of love are altered and you will confuse so many things for love. 📌 3. YOU’RE STILL IN YOUR FANTASY STAGE A lot of women fall in love with the idea of a man, not the reality of who he is. You picture a wedding with him, future kids, matching Ankara, and couple selfies… But you never stopped to ask: Is this man truly ready for what I’m praying for? Sometimes, you’re not choosing him - you’re choosing your hope. So as long as he matches the idea of the man you fantasize about, you intentionally close your eyes to other important things and hope that helps changes later. 📌 4. TRAUMA YOU HAVEN’T HEALED FROM Unhealed trauma can distort a lot. You’ll think you’re following your heart, and even feel “peace” and use it as a confirmation…. But it’s your w0unds that are choosing for you because it has seen something “familiar”. Your nervous system isn’t looking for love… it’s looking for what it knows. And until you do the healing work, your past will keep hijacking your future. 📌 5. PRESSURE (FROM SOCIETY, FRIENDS, FAMILY OR EVEN YOURSELF) When you’re close to your 30s and people keep asking “when are you getting married?”, it messes with your peace. You start feeling like you’re behind. You lower your standards. You rush, settle, and pick out of fear. And the worst part? You start seeing the wrong person as “good enough” After all no one is perfect, right? All because you’re trying to meet a deadline. ========= For how long will you keep allowing your emotions to affect your relationship choices? What unmet need is influencing your choice? Is something from the past making you reject what is safe, good, and real? Then making you choose what isn't good for you? How about pressure to be married? Are you giving in already?

Tinubu has handed over ECOWAS leadership to Sierra Leonian president. ECOWAS needs a sound leader. There could be a positive change now across ECOWAS region.

If we could see the miracle of a single flower clearly, our whole life would change.

*"I want to remember your face so that when I meet you in heaven, I will be able to recognise you and thank you once again."* When Nigerian billionaire Femi Otedola in a telephone interview, was asked by the radio presenter, "Sir what can you remember made you a happiest man in life?" Femi said: "I have gone through four stages of happiness in life and finally I understood the meaning of true happiness." The first stage was to accumulate wealth and means. But at this stage I did not get the happiness I wanted. Then came the second stage of collecting valuables and items. But I realised that the effect of this thing is also temporary and the lustre of valuable things does not last long. Then came the third stage of getting big projects. That was when I was holding 95% of diesel supply in Nigeria and Africa. I was also the largest vessel owner in Africa and Asia. But even here I did not get the happiness I had imagined. The fourth stage was the time a friend of mine asked me to buy wheelchair for some disabled children. Just about 200 kids. At the friend's request, I immediately bought the wheelchairs. But the friend insisted that I go with him and hand over the wheelchairs to the children. I got ready and went with him. There I gave these wheel chairs to these children with my own hands. I saw the strange glow of happiness on the faces of these children. I saw them all sitting on the wheelchairs, moving around and having fun. It was as if they had arrived at a picnic spot where they are sharing a jackpot winning. I felt REAL joy inside me. When I decided to leave one of the kids grabbed my legs. I tried to free my legs gently but the child stared at my face and held my legs tightly. I bent down and asked the child: Do you need something else? The answer this child gave me not only made me happy but also changed my attitude to life completely. This child said: "I want to remember your face so that when I meet you in heaven, I will be able to recognise you and thank you once again." What would you be remembered for after you leave that office or place? Will anyone desire to see your face again where it all matters? *This is a must read piece. It got me thinking. I am sending it to all my friends. I pray it does same to everyone.* Try to touch lives , God bless you.

My husband’s “life stamina” bothers me. He can’t seem to keep up and maintain with everything life demands. He complains about being overweight, but never does anything to change it. He says he’s always tired but won’t do anything to fix it besides drinking several coffees a day. He hates how he hasn’t gotten where he wanted to be in life at this point, but never goal sets. I’ve tried the “you change and maybe he’ll join you”, i work out M-F for a year now, i goal set and take daily steps to work towards them. Its hard but having an enjoyable life is worth the work. I have hypertension at 33 & i’ve taken steps to try to figure out why. He complains to me & I am just sick of hearing it, knowing he doesn’t do anything to change. It’s classic self sabotage. Any advice?

When we are in love, our entire personality changes. We become new!

As a mother, if you know your baby has running nose, dry catarrh stains and patches on her face, scattered hair gummed with sand and water, dirty clothes on a dirty body with an offensive odour oozing from the center of her head, don't hand the baby to anyone in church or in public transit to help you carry. Even if you're in a haste, take time to tidy your child up before stepping out. If it's not necessary or if you can't, stay at home. No matter how dirty you are please don't transfer it to your child because it always reflect on your child. I'm saying this because of the experience I had today. It's the baby that came and held me, he was stretching his hands for me to carry him after he had already stained my dress with all the dirt. At that point, I couldn't just help it, I had to carry him like that. Put them good clothes, dip face towel inside clean water to clean your baby's face atleast before carrying her along, change the pampers when it is wet, bath them before leaving the house. Don't attribute this to poverty because poverty and dirtiness are two different things. Make cleanliness a habit. Don't transfer your dirty lifestyle to an innocent child please. I have delivered my message. THANK YOU🙏🏽

This self is neither born nor dies, Neither grows nor decays, Nor does it suffer any change. When a pot is broken, the space within it is not, And similarly, when the body dies the Self in it remains eternal.

✝️🕯️The story of the two thieves on the cross is a poignant moment in the New Testament, specifically found in the Gospel of Luke (23:32-43). When Jesus was crucified, he wasn’t alone; he was flanked by two criminals, often referred to as thieves. As they hung there, one of the thieves mocked Jesus, questioning why he couldn’t save himself if he was truly the Messiah. The other thief, however, had a change of heart. He rebuked the first, recognizing that they were being punished justly for their crimes, while Jesus was innocent. This thief then turned to Jesus and asked to be remembered when He entered His kingdom. In a beautiful response, Jesus assured him, “Truly, I say to you, today you will be with me in paradise.” This moment highlights themes of repentance, grace, and salvation, showing that it's never too late to seek forgiveness and that Jesus’s mercy is available to all, even in our final moments. It’s a powerful reminder that faith can lead to redemption, no matter our past🤍

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

*INFERTILITY* Infertility is a medical condition where a couple or individual is unable to conceive after having regular, unprotected sex for a certain period, typically a year or more. *Causes of infertility in male* Here are the causes. Medical Conditions 1. *Low sperm count (oligospermia)*: Reduced sperm production. 2. *Poor sperm motility (asthenospermia)*: Sperm have difficulty moving. 3. *Abnormal sperm morphology*: Sperm have abnormal shape or structure. 4. *Varicocele*: Enlarged veins in the scrotum. 5. *Infections*: Epididymitis, orchitis, or prostatitis. Lifestyle Factors 1. *Smoking*: Damages sperm DNA and reduces sperm quality. 2. *Excessive alcohol consumption*: Affects hormone production and sperm quality. 3. *Obesity*: Linked to reduced sperm count and motility. 4. *Stress*: Chronic stress can affect hormone production. 5. *Exposure to toxins*: Certain chemicals, pesticides, or heavy metals. Hormonal Imbalances 1. *Testosterone deficiency*: Low testosterone levels. 2. *Thyroid disorders*: Hypothyroidism or hyperthyroidism. Anatomical Issues 1. *Blockages*: Blockages in the epididymis, vas deferens, or ejaculatory ducts. 2. *Injury or trauma*: Damage to the reproductive organs. Other Factors 1. *Genetic factors*: Certain genetic conditions. 2. *Medications*: Certain medications can affect sperm production or quality. 3. *Age*: Advanced age can affect sperm quality. *#What Causes Infertility in female ?* 1. **Hormonal Imbalance**: If your hormones are not functioning properly, it can lead to difficulties in conceiving. Irregular periods, mood swings, and low libido can all be signs of hormonal issues. 2. **Ovarian Cysts**: These are fluid-filled sacs on the ovaries that can interfere with ovulation, making it harder to conceive. 3. **Fibroids**: These are non-cancerous growths in the uterus that can grow large enough to mimic pregnancy symptoms and affect fertility. 4. **Infections**: Conditions like Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID) can cause pain and lead to infertility, especially if you've previously had sexually transmitted infections. 5. **Uterine Issues**: Conditions such as a retroverted uterus or a prolapsed uterus can affect your ability to carry a pregnancy. 6. **Toxins**: Exposure to harmful substances in the reproductive system can also impact fertilities. 3. *Unexplained infertility*: No identifiable cause. Treatment Options 1. *Medications*: Fertility medications to stimulate ovulation or improve sperm quality. 2. *Intrauterine insemination (IUI)*: Placing sperm directly into the uterus. 3. *In vitro fertilization (IVF)*: Fertilizing eggs with sperm outside the body and transferring the embryo to the uterus. 4. *Surgery*: Correcting underlying anatomical issues. Emotional Support 1. *Counseling*: Emotional support and guidance throughout the treatment process. 2. *Support groups*: Connecting with others experiencing similar challenges. Lifestyle Changes 1. *Healthy diet*: Maintaining a balanced diet and healthy weight. 2. *Stress management*: Reducing stress through relaxation techniques. 3. *Avoiding toxins*: Minimizing exposure to environmental toxins. The medical procedure before treatment,, Advice both of them to do necessary medical check up. For men.(Husband) Before semen analysis test He must follow this important information below 👇 stay away from sex for at least for 4 days No any antibiotics No alcohol Before the test Semen analysis and culture... For women Abdominal pelvic scan Hvs Hormonal profiles 1. *Fertility treatment herbal*: Women treatment Before treatment of infertility in female. Deworm come first it's very important Secondly treat infection with this herbs 👇 👇 👇 Baka Bara small Eru awoka Eru Alamo. Cook it with ordinary water and drink it before menstruation. Or Buy nri products D3 orignic Cuminus oil Nourish Naturegifts

*INFERTILITY* Infertility is a medical condition where a couple or individual is unable to conceive after having regular, unprotected sex for a certain period, typically a year or more. *Causes of infertility in male* Here are the causes. Medical Conditions 1. *Low sperm count (oligospermia)*: Reduced sperm production. 2. *Poor sperm motility (asthenospermia)*: Sperm have difficulty moving. 3. *Abnormal sperm morphology*: Sperm have abnormal shape or structure. 4. *Varicocele*: Enlarged veins in the scrotum. 5. *Infections*: Epididymitis, orchitis, or prostatitis. Lifestyle Factors 1. *Smoking*: Damages sperm DNA and reduces sperm quality. 2. *Excessive alcohol consumption*: Affects hormone production and sperm quality. 3. *Obesity*: Linked to reduced sperm count and motility. 4. *Stress*: Chronic stress can affect hormone production. 5. *Exposure to toxins*: Certain chemicals, pesticides, or heavy metals. Hormonal Imbalances 1. *Testosterone deficiency*: Low testosterone levels. 2. *Thyroid disorders*: Hypothyroidism or hyperthyroidism. Anatomical Issues 1. *Blockages*: Blockages in the epididymis, vas deferens, or ejaculatory ducts. 2. *Injury or trauma*: Damage to the reproductive organs. Other Factors 1. *Genetic factors*: Certain genetic conditions. 2. *Medications*: Certain medications can affect sperm production or quality. 3. *Age*: Advanced age can affect sperm quality. *#What Causes Infertility in female ?* 1. **Hormonal Imbalance**: If your hormones are not functioning properly, it can lead to difficulties in conceiving. Irregular periods, mood swings, and low libido can all be signs of hormonal issues. 2. **Ovarian Cysts**: These are fluid-filled sacs on the ovaries that can interfere with ovulation, making it harder to conceive. 3. **Fibroids**: These are non-cancerous growths in the uterus that can grow large enough to mimic pregnancy symptoms and affect fertility. 4. **Infections**: Conditions like Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID) can cause pain and lead to infertility, especially if you've previously had sexually transmitted infections. 5. **Uterine Issues**: Conditions such as a retroverted uterus or a prolapsed uterus can affect your ability to carry a pregnancy. 6. **Toxins**: Exposure to harmful substances in the reproductive system can also impact fertilities. 3. *Unexplained infertility*: No identifiable cause. Treatment Options 1. *Medications*: Fertility medications to stimulate ovulation or improve sperm quality. 2. *Intrauterine insemination (IUI)*: Placing sperm directly into the uterus. 3. *In vitro fertilization (IVF)*: Fertilizing eggs with sperm outside the body and transferring the embryo to the uterus. 4. *Surgery*: Correcting underlying anatomical issues. Emotional Support 1. *Counseling*: Emotional support and guidance throughout the treatment process. 2. *Support groups*: Connecting with others experiencing similar challenges. Lifestyle Changes 1. *Healthy diet*: Maintaining a balanced diet and healthy weight. 2. *Stress management*: Reducing stress through relaxation techniques. 3. *Avoiding toxins*: Minimizing exposure to environmental toxins. The medical procedure before treatment,, Advice both of them to do necessary medical check up. For men.(Husband) Before semen analysis test He must follow this important information below 👇 stay away from sex for at least for 4 days No any antibiotics No alcohol Before the test Semen analysis and culture... For women Abdominal pelvic scan Hvs Hormonal profiles 1. *Fertility treatment herbal*: Women treatment Before treatment of infertility in female. Deworm come first it's very important Secondly treat infection with this herbs 👇 👇 👇 Baka Bara small Eru awoka Eru Alamo. Cook it with ordinary water and drink it before menstruation. Or Buy nri products D3 orignic Cuminus oil Nourish Naturegifts