THE DANGEROUS & COSTLY MISTAKES THAT THE MAJORITY OF GEN Zs' ARE MAKING
TODAY

Let’s be honest — Gen Z is bold, intelligent, creative, and filled with untapped potential. But greatness requires wisdom, discipline, and intentional living. If these mistakes go unchecked, they can sabotage futures before they even begin.

Let’s dive in.

1. LIVING FOR THE INTERNET, NOT FOR IMPACT;

Mistake: Chasing trends instead of transformation.

Wisdom:
In a digital age, it’s tempting to measure worth by likes, followers, and viral moments. But the internet has a short memory. What it remembers are those who made a difference, not those who made noise. Purpose outlives popularity. Build a life that leaves footprints, not just impressions.

Key Thought:
Legacy matters more than likes.

2. MOCKING THE PROCESS, BUT DESIRING THE RESULT;

Mistake: Entitlement without effort.

Wisdom:
You can’t harvest where you haven’t sown. Many want a millionaire lifestyle without embracing a laborer’s discipline. Mocking the hustle while coveting the reward is a self-inflicted curse. Every result you admire was born in hidden, hard places. Embrace the grind — it’s the gate to greatness.

Key Thought:
Desire must be matched by discipline.

3. REPLACING HARD WORK WITH AESTHETICS;

Mistake: Valuing appearance over substance.

Wisdom:
Looking wealthy is not being wealthy. Flaunting lifestyles you haven’t earned is deception to self and others. Clothes, cars, and curated feeds can’t cover empty bank accounts and shallow legacies. Invest your time in developing skills, building assets, and adding value. Substance sustains — aesthetics fade.

Key Thought:
Image fades, value endures.

4. PRIORITIZING FUN OVER FOUNDATION;

Mistake: Sacrificing tomorrow for temporary thrills.

Wisdom:
Youth is a gift, but what you do with it is your offering to the future. Fun has its place, but when pleasure takes priority over preparation, destruction is near. Lay a solid foundation now — in character, skills, relationships, and spiritual depth. Fun without foresight is fatal.

Key Thought:
Your future is the harvest of today’s habits.

5. THINKING YOU STILL HAVE TIME;

Mistake: Delaying destiny.

Wisdom:
Time waits for no one. While you hesitate, someone else your age is already leading, building, and shaping history. Starting early is an advantage, not a burden. Greatness isn’t scheduled for the future — it begins the moment you decide to grow. Don’t wait for the ‘perfect time.’ It doesn’t exist.

Key Thought:
The earlier you start, the stronger you finish.

6. TALKING MORE THAN DOING;

Mistake: Replacing execution with inspiration.

Wisdom:
Inspiration is everywhere, but action is rare. The gap between your dreams and your reality is called discipline. Stop being a motivational addict and start being a transformational leader. Speak less, do more. Let your results be louder than your quotes.

Key Thought:
Execution outperforms excitement.

7. RUNNING FROM CORRECTION;

Mistake: Canceling accountability.

Wisdom:
Correction is not rejection; it’s protection. Those who tell you uncomfortable truths are your true allies. Surrounding yourself with only those who applaud you is the fastest road to destruction. Value mentors, accept rebuke, and welcome growth conversations. Pride resists correction — wisdom craves it.

Key Thought:
Correction today saves catastrophe tomorrow.

8. CONFUSING ATTENTION FOR AFFECTION;

Mistake: Seeking applause over authentic connection.

Wisdom:
The culture rewards clout-chasing, but attention is shallow currency. Don’t dress, speak, or live for applause while starving for meaning. Real affection is built on character, trust, and value — not viral trends. Pursue depth over display. Attention fades fast; authentic relationships last.

Key Thought:
Be known for who you are, not just what you show.

9. BELIEVING YOU’RE TOO YOUNG TO FALL;

Mistake: Assuming immunity because of early success.

Wisdom:
Success without humility is a ticking time bomb. No one is untouchable. Pride blinds, and it always precedes a fall. Stay teachable, stay grounded. Let your head bow as your platform rises. Arrogance disqualifies faster than ignorance.

Key Thought:
Success unmanaged is a silent threat.

10. SLEEPING ON YOUR GIFTS;

Mistake: Letting fear bury potential.

Wisdom:
Talent unused is purpose wasted. The world doesn’t need another copy, it needs the original you. Stop hiding behind fear, perfectionism, or excuses. Wake up your gifts. Refuse to be buried with your greatness still locked inside you.

Key Thought:
Unused potential is a tragedy.

FINAL CHARGE TO GEN Z;

You are the future, but only if you survive the present. Refuse to let laziness, entitlement, pride, or fear sabotage your destiny. The world is watching — but more importantly, your generation is counting on you.

Rise with wisdom. Build with intention. Lead with humility.

Your future isn’t promised, it’s prepared. Start now.

Oga Jim Iyk. Talk say. "No woman has ever walked into my room and left unchanged. Once you step in, I must lay it down. Simple." — Jim Iyke

"I don’t do pretense. If I’m with a woman, it’s for one reason — s£x. I don’t have time for emotional games. I’m direct. If I invite you over, it’s to knack, not to be a therapist for your problems."

"I’m the Pied Piper — my job is to pipe. I don’t sing love songs or play emotional notes. That’s for musicians. I just pipe and move on." — Jim Iyke

Something must kpai a man...tuface na totø Mechanic while Jim na Pied Piper ladies to your heels ooo .

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1. A leader leads from the front not from the back
2. A leader does first before he asks his followers to do not the other way round
3. A leader listens more than he speaks
4. A leader takes responsibility, not excuses
5. A leader corrects in private and praises in public
6. A leader stands strong during chaos, not just in comfort
7. A leader motivates by example, not by pressure
8. A leader protects the weak, not exploit them
9. A leader shows vision, not confusion
10. A leader works with the team, not above the team
11. A leader creates more leaders, not more followers
12. A leader stays calm even when others panic
13. A leader stays focused on the goal, not distracted by noise
14. A leader serves before he commands
15. A leader accepts blame and shares the credit
16. A leader builds trust, not fear
17. A leader values growth over perfection
18. A leader solves problems, not spread blame
19. A leader remains humble no matter how high he climbs
20. A leader respects others regardless of their position
21. A leader keeps learning, even while leading
22. A leader inspires with actions, not just words

23. A leader speaks truth, not what’s convenient
24. A leader admits mistakes, not cover them
25. A leader remains consistent, not double-faced
26. A leader earns loyalty, not demand it
27. A leader walks with integrity, not hidden agendas
28. A leader stays visible when it's tough, not hide
29. A leader builds bridges, not walls
30. A leader lifts others up, not tramples on them

*Encouragement Paragraph:*
True leadership is not about titles or positions — it’s about action, impact, and character. Whether you lead a team, a family, a community, or just yourself, be the kind of leader who leads by example. People follow what they see, not what they hear. So rise, lead with love, strength, and integrity. The world needs more of such leadership.

Let me tell you a secret.

The early stages of your growth are usually the hardest.

Let me use social media as an example.

It’s harder to get your first 10k followers.

I struggled with hitting 10k followers for many many years. I was just stuck.

I opened this account in 2017. That’s about 7 years ago. For the first five to six years, growth was so difficult. I was stuck at less than 10k followers.

I think things started changing last year. As soon as I passed the 10k mark, it became way easier from there. The same 10k followers I struggled to get in years, I could now hit within a few weeks.

It’s the same thing with money. The first million will likely be one of the hardest to make. But once you make it, things begin to flow more easily.

It's the same with building anything worthwhile.

Why is the beginning always tough?

Because in that phase, you’re still trying to figure things out. You’re experimenting, doing trial and error. But there comes a time when you finally find your winning formula. At that point, you stop guessing. You simply apply what works, and the results keep coming in.

Now, here's why I’m sharing this.

At that point where you’re trying to break through, there’s always the temptation to cut corners and look for an easy way out.

Please, resist it.

The process, the lessons, the mistakes, and everything you encounter in that difficult season are what make your future success easier.

If you follow shortcuts, you’ll never build anything substantial.

Let me not talk too much.

Bottom line is this. If you’re going through a tough phase right now, no matter what you’re building, it’s totally normal.

Just keep going.

You’re gaining experiences that will make your growth tomorrow look like magic.

People will see you and say, “Is it not this girl? How did she grow so fast?”

But when you were struggling with 1k followers and 5k in your account, they didn’t know o.

We all have our breakthrough moments.

Patiently wait for yours.

Let's keep doing wonders together.

How to Build an Offer Staircase that Makes You Millions…


Last year, I helped my client in SA to build an offer staircase that makes her $599 dollars, daily. No jokes!

Every business needs an offer staircase: whether you sell physical, digital products, coaching, or paid services, you need an offer staircase.

Your offer staircase (also known as a value ladder) is the step by step journey your customer takes from their very first interaction with your brand to becoming a high ticket or loyal long term client.

Think of it like this:

Each step of the staircase moves your customer closer to deeper transformation, and higher investment.


Let’s break it down.


1. Free Value (The Welcome Mat)

This is where they discover you, trust you, and get a quick win.

Examples:

• Your posts
• Free guide, checklist, or mini-course
• Free webinar or challenge
• Lead magnet like a 30 Days of Content Idea guide
• Free community or newsletter

The goal here is to build trust and grow your audience.


2. Low Ticket Offer (The First Step)

This is a no brainer offer that gives a taste of your expertise.

Create any of the following and price it at 1k, 2k or 3k.

• A paid template or workbook
• A short masterclass or workshop replay
• A mini eBook or cheat sheet
• Low-cost digital product bundle

Turn followers into buyers and filter serious people.

Imagine making 50k daily from one low ticket product.
That’s 1.5m in 30 days.

10k daily is 310k in 30 days.

Create it once and it continues making millions for you.


3. Core Offer (Your Signature Transformation)

This is your main offer, the one that gets clients real results.

Price range can be from 10,000 to 150,000 Naira.

Examples:

• A self-paced course or group program
• Monthly subscription
• Done for you service, like web design, content calendar setup, etc.
• 1:1 strategy session

Goal: Deliver big transformation and position yourself as an expert.


4. High-Ticket Offer (Your Premium Room)

This is for your top tier clients who want deeper access, results, or done for you service.

Price range should be from 200,000 Naira upwards.

Examples:

• VIP Days or intensives
• Full service package, like complete marketing funnel setup, rebrand + strategy
• High level coaching or mentorship
• Corporate consulting or retainer packages

Goal: Maximise income and serve fewer people at a higher level.


5. Continuity / Membership (Ongoing Support)

This keeps your best clients in your ecosystem long-term.

Examples:

• Monthly membership or subscription community
• Inner circle mastermind
• Content club or strategy vault
• Alumni group coaching

Goal: Create recurring revenue and lifetime customer value.


Visual Summary of your Million Offer Staircase:

Step 5: Ongoing Membership / Retainer
Step 4: High-Ticket Offer
Step 3: Core Offer
Step 2: Low-Ticket Product
Step 1: Free Value / Lead Magnet


Your Turn:

Ask yourself:

• What do I currently offer at each level?
• Where are the gaps?
• What’s one product/service I can create to fill that gap?


I’m rooting for you.
You feel me?

Stargt Egbo News

18-year-old Peller becomes the fastest African streamer to reach 10 million followers on T!kTok!

In less than 2 years, T!kTok has made him a billionaire, helped him find a girlfriend, built him a house, and bought him three cars.

Congratulations, Peller!

Abike Dabiri Reacts After Hearing The Name That The Supporters Of VeryDarkMan Are Called
After hearing the name that the followers of the social media influencer VeryDarkMan are called, Abike Dabiri-Erewa, the Chairman of the Nigerians in Diaspora Commission, NIDCOM, has responded to the situation.

The post that he made on Wednesday, which was shared on his official X handle, contained his response to the situation. Following the fact that VeryDarkMan issued her with an ultimatum to remove some Nigerian women from Ivory Coast, this is the immediate result.

An X user informed Abike Dabiri that the social media influencer's most devoted followers are referred to as "Ratels," and she responded to this information using her own words.

Following is the content that the user of X posted on his official X handle:
Ratels are the mobsters who are staunch individuals who support each and every action taken by VDM. They possess the characteristics of a wolf. Constantly pushing their victim out of the way. Acting on impulse, they are prepared to attack anyone who comes their way.”

Laughter was the response that Abike Dabiri gave in response to the statement that was made by the X user. She stated that she is completely unfamiliar with the name in question.

HERE ARE 10 MONEY HABITS YOU NEED TO LEARN BEFORE 30!

It might not be easy as a Nigerian but you have to tryyyyyyy.

1. Live Below Your Means
Just because your salary got a glow-up doesn’t mean your lifestyle needs to. Chill. Upgrade slowly.

2. Budget Like a Baddie
Know where your money goes o, rent, food, vibes, savings… It’s giving organized and rich auntie energy.

3. Build That Emergency Fund
Life is wild. Have 3-6 months of expenses saved so you don’t have to call your ex or your parents when stuff hits the fan.

4. Start Investing Early
Even if it’s small, your future self will be sending you thank-you notes (with dividends).

5. Ditch Bad Debt
High-interest loans and credit card debt? Nah. That’s a trap. Only take debt that makes you money.

6. Pay Yourself First
Before you buy that cute shoe or order shawarma, stash something for Future You.

7. Learn the Money Basics
Compound interest, inflation, taxes—don’t let these things catch you off guard. Google is your friend.

8. Know Your Net Worth
Assets minus liabilities = net worth. Keep tabs on it like you do your followers count.

9. Set Financial Goals
Want to buy a car? Start a biz? Travel? Write it down and plan it out. Money moves need direction.

10. Get More Than One Bag
One income stream? In this economy?? Nah. Start that side hustle. Monetize your skills.

HOW TO BUILD A CEO MINDSET AS AN ONLINE BRAND OWNER

Sweetheart, if you don’t start thinking like a CEO, your online brand will forever remain a hobby.

And hobbies don’t pay bills!

When you see fellow women making mind blowing money online? It’s not magic.

They have something you might be overlooking, a CEO mindset.

That’s the difference between running your brand like a side hustle and running it like a business that funds your dream life.

Let me break it down for you:

1. STOP SEEING YOUR BRAND AS “JUST ONLINE”

A lot of women make the mistake of thinking, “It’s just social media. It’s not that deep.”

Big mistake!

You need to start seeing your online brand as a real business.

If you take it seriously, others will too.

Show up like a boss.

Be intentional about your content.

Stop running it when you feel like, have a strategy.

2. KNOW YOUR NUMBERS, KNOW YOUR MONEY

You’re not just a content creator, you’re a businesswoman.

Do you know how much you made last month?

Do you track your sales? If not, you’re running your brand blindfolded.

Have clear income goals.

Track every naira you make and spend.

Charge your worth!

Stop underpricing yourself out of fear.

3. MOVE FROM EMPLOYEE THINKING TO CEO THINKING

If you’re waiting for someone to tell you what to do, you’re still thinking like an employee.

CEOs take charge!

Invest in learning new skills (marketing, branding, sales).

Make bold decisions without fear.

4. BRAND POSITIONING IS EVERYTHING.

A CEO doesn’t just “post and pray.”

She positions herself to attract the right audience and clients.

Speak with authority in your niche.

Show social proof, testimonials, success stories, results!

Network with other high-value women (your circle matters).

5. CONSISTENCY IS YOUR BEST FRIEND

Sis, if you show up today and disappear for two weeks, how will people take you seriously?

Consistency is what turns followers into buyers.

Plan your content ahead.

Show up even when you don’t feel like it.

Keep refining and improving your content.

6. DEVELOP A GROWTH MINDSET

A CEO doesn’t cry over low engagement or failed launches, she learns and improves.

See challenges as lessons, not roadblocks.

Be adaptable (social media change fast).

Never stop evolving!

If you want a profitable online brand, you need to start thinking and acting like a CEO today.

No more playing small.

As for me, I’m here to play the big game!

My husband earns about 800k monthly. He gives me 200k for the home, and we have three kids. Then he gives me 60k to give to the kids to take to school till it's finished and then he gives 100k for me to use for petty expenses (electricity and other unforseen needs that may rise, like buying a pill or socks or anything petty). That makes a total of 360k. So he keeps 440k for himself.

So recently, I asked him to show me his account balance since he has always kept that much to himself, but he ignored me. So I later went to check the account myself and saw he had just about 14M there. Meanwhile it's been over three years and I was expecting to see more.

He eats at home except lunch. He doesn't do anything except send money to his parents and mine once a while and pay the kids school fees thrice in a year and it's nothing more than 300k for a term. He may help his siblings, but that's also once a while.

So I demanded he explain how he had only 14M in his account. This man started to gaslight me. Asking if he ever asked me how much I had in my account and talking about my 130k salary. We haven't spoke for days because of this issue and he won't even apologise and explain himself.

Can you believe he told me this morning to leave the marriage if I want to because he's never going to talk about the money with me? Is this a serious man who wants a future for his family?

How can I stay with a man who is not accountable with finances?? I am leaving

#highlightseveryonefollowers2025 #everyone

BREAKING NEWS

Toni Braxton files for DÎV0RCE with Birdman just 1-month after their marriage because she's B0red and Tîred of the marriage

Toni Braxton and Birdman dated for over 16-years and got married last month in sēcrêt but today, Toni Braxton got tîred of the marriage and filed for a Dîv0rce.

Birdman will have to pay her more than half of his over $160-million fortune for investing so much in their 1-month marriage.

Out of 24-hours in a day, use 22-hours to FÊAR W0men and the remaining 2-hours to FÊAR those who don't FÊAR W0men

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1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband
2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband
3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances
4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings

5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend
6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood
7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband
8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him
9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly

10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time
11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids
12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments
13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband
14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves

15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband
16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty
17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her
18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together
Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage.
Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own.

Greetings to all submissive Women

A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN MARRIAGE - Proverbs 31:10 - 31

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