There is grief in accepting someone won’t change!" (Nedra Tawwab)
In the quiet depths of the heart, there lies a profound sorrow in the realization that someone may never change. It is a poignant acknowledgment, a tender letting go of hopes for transformation or growth in another.
This grief is not loud or dramatic but a subtle ache, a gentle mourning for the possibilities that may never come to fruition.
Accepting this truth requires a deep well of strength and resilience, a willingness to release expectations and embrace the reality before you. It is a bittersweet journey of acceptance but within it lies the opportunity to learn the art of detachment.
Detachment does not mean indifference or lack of love; rather, it is the gentle practice of releasing the need to control or fix others, allowing us to embrace reality as it is.
By cultivating detachment, we free ourselves from the weight of expectations and the pain of disappointment, creating space for acceptance and peace. It teaches us to love without attachment to outcomes, to honor our own well-being while holding compassion for others.
In learning this art, we transform grief into wisdom, finding strength in surrender and serenity in embracing life’s impermanence

This got me emotional and deep in thought when I heard it…

At a school’s end-of-year party, the hall was filled with excitement as the children gave their presentations. Among them was a little boy of class 5 named Nathan.

Several children had already taken the stage with clear and straight voices, full of confidence. Everyone had concluded it was a day full of beautiful talent displace and that the kids were amazing.

Then came Nathan’s turn.

“But why did the teacher allow Nathan to present, knowing how he struggles to speak in front of people?”

Nathan stood frozen. His words barely came out. His eyes searched the crowd, hoping to see a safe face but all he saw were expectant eyes. His mother forced a small smile to encourage him, but inside, her heart sank. She felt sad and embarrassed. She wondered, why her son couldn't shine like the others.

Nathan was gently cheered back to his seat. He wasn't able to present though he tried.
He went to his mother looked at her and whispered, “I tried.” She smiled, hugged him tightly, and said, “It’s okay.”

Now, let me ask you:
What do you think was wrong with Nathan?
How many ‘Nathans’ do you know?
Are you facing the same dilemma, wondering how to help your child grow in boldness and confidence?

Let us help.

BHF Community Kids Learning Club is where your child needs to be. We don’t just teach the things we teach, we transform.
We help children to also build confidence, express themselves, and grow in character, values, and purpose.

Should I mention Brian, Charis, Valentina, Denis, or Armstrong? The list is long. Every one of them has a story of growth and transformation.

Check us out Belie Health Foundation
Contact: 6 72 43 95 48 for more information and leave them to us.
Myself and our trained, passionate facilitators will walk them through tailored, one-on-one lessons.

We begin effectively TOMORROW 11/06/25

Meanwhile if you have challenges helping your children or your family contact Abigail Abamukong
She offers excellent family coaching and guidance to get you and your family on the right path.

#iamforthechildren
#weareforthechildren
#childdevelopment
#confidencebuilding
#bhfcommunitykidslearningclub

Erasmus IBOM

Erasmus IBOM is A Professional Consultant with the Connected Economy Business Builder.

Erasmus IBOM is the Lead Consultant,
Eagle Wealth Hub, a human capacity and wealth creation organization based in Abuja.

He emerged as the Top 100 Globally in the
Product and Wellness Industry and has
maintained this position for 3 years and also
a Global Ambasssador with Empowered Consumerism and as well.

He has Background in Finance and Accounting Science, Project Management
and Diploma in Computer Science.

He believes that building capacity is the gateway to all round transformation and living a balance life, and has set out to empower at least 1000 men and women in wealth creation through the EMERGE PLATFORM leading to a commonwealth of $1 Billion by 2030.

Over the past 3 years, he has helped established 500 entrepreneurs, achieved over 250 Million Naira ($1 Million) in common wealth in the past 3 years.

He is Nigeria’s foremost human capacity and wealth creation coach.

He is on a mission to build, empower and transform individuals and businesses in their capacity to earn and multiply wealth.

Over the past 4 years, his skills & expertise has been

Training

Coaching

Building Communities.

HELPING PEOPLE BUILD CAPACITY

He loves Traveling, Adventure, Reading and writing.

His passion is in developing young entrepreneurs, helping people who are 50 + to Achieve Fulfilment and have Fun and building small scale businesses with ease.

He is so passionate about helping men and women build capacity, which is evident in his work.

He also loves to SPEAK

He loves Volunteering his time for Human Capacity building Project

#CommunityBuilding
#Coaching
#CapacityBuilding
#Mentorship
#growth

Belie Health Foundation has been working tirelessly for a 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗞𝗶𝗱𝘀 𝗟𝗶𝗯𝗿𝗮𝗿𝘆 𝗖𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗝𝘂𝗻𝗲 and it's finally HERE!!!

I’m incredibly excited about this project and the impact it will have on every child who walks through our doors.

You can be part of this transformation!
Spread the word
Support the enrollment of children
Volunteer to be a beacon of hope in their lives

Thank you in advance for standing with us. 🙏🏽
Together, we’re building brighter futures one child at a time.

#theinvaluablewoman

"The struggle you’re in today is developing the strength you need for tomorrow." - Ernest Hemingway

Nature doesn’t rush, yet everything transforms in its own time. The process is often painful, but it’s also beautiful—because it’s how strength and beauty are born.

Think about the caterpillar. It doesn’t just change—it completely falls apart. Its body turns to mush, dissolving into a soupy mess inside the chrysalis. For days, it’s neither caterpillar nor butterfly, just liquid chaos. But that breakdown is necessary. From that messy, almost ugly transformation, wings finally emerge.

A baby giraffe falls six feet to the ground at birth. Then its mother kicks it, forcing it to stand. Harsh? Yes. But those first wobbly steps are what make its legs strong enough to run.

A seed buried in darkness doesn’t stay there forever. It cracks, it pushes, it fights through the dirt—until one day, it breaks into the light as a tree.

Even the mightiest rivers start as small, uncertain streams. They carve through rock not by force, but by persistence.

The process is hard. It’s messy. It hurts. But it’s also the only way to become what you’re meant to be.

So be grateful for the struggle. The pressure. The waiting. The unbecoming before the becoming.

What feels like breaking you is actually building you.

Trust the process.

"We also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope." — Romans 5:3-4

Good Day and Happy Sunday.

Every time His Excellency Mr. @PeterObi speaks about how the system tries to silence him, I listen. But I never imagined I would witness it firsthand—until Saturday, 31st May 2025. Let me walk you through what happened.👇🏽

I accompanied Mr. Obi to London Business School, where he engaged in a Fireside Chat hosted by the Africa Business Club. The theme?
“From Promise to Prosperity: Charting Africa’s Development with Political Will and Vision.”
A powerful and inspiring session with Q & A.

After the event, we boarded an Uber to Brentford Community Stadium, where Nigeria faced Jamaica in the Unity Cup Final. At the entrance, we ran into D’Banj, who came to perform at the event. We slipped in and sat near the Nigerian team.

The match ended 2-2 and went to penalties. As it got intense, the crowd—mostly young Nigerians—started chanting: “Obi! Obi! Obi! Obi!”
Some players began noticing him too.

To avoid becoming a distraction, Mr. Obi quietly stepped back, cheering the team from a distance during the penalty shootout. But after Nigeria won, some officials invited him to join their post-match photo session.

True to form, he politely asked them to get clearance from the officials. Suddenly, everything changed.
One of the officials, after a phone call, returned with a hardened face and shouted: "He is not allowed to take pictures with the team!"

Just moments earlier, the same officials were been visibly excited about Mr. Obi’s presence. The transformation was disturbing. It was clear someone had given a directive. The atmosphere shifted instantly.

One player, still determined, tried to greet him after the photos. But from the pitch, a voice thundered:
"You have been told not to greet him!"
Security physically blocked the player from reaching Mr. Obi.

The player, visibly upset, walked off the pitch straight to the dressing room. It was shocking to witness. Even efforts to see the team even in the dressing room was met with same instructions from above. Unbelievable!

Meanwhile, both Nigerian and Jamaican fans continued swarming Mr. Obi for photos. They didn’t care about politics—only the man they respect.

I left the stadium thinking:
Even in football, a sport meant to unite us, politics has been weaponised.
That moment deepened my resolve: In 2027, we must build a country where no one is silenced based on party affiliation. A nation where everyone is equal. ✊🏽
-TheEnd-

Mazi Ezeoke

From Obedience to Overflow: A Testimony of Divine Turnaround

This testimony is a powerful reminder that divine obedience and prophetic alignment can unlock supernatural transformation. When faith meets instruction—through prayer, sacrificial giving, and spiritual commitment—doors of favor and provision open beyond human expectation.

In just a short time, financial limitations gave way to abundance. Major contracts were secured, stress-free breakthroughs were experienced, and the hand of God became evident in undeniable ways. This is more than coincidence—it is the result of walking in covenant with God and honoring the prophetic voice He has placed in this generation.

God is still changing stories. Yours can be next.
Stay connected. Obey divine instructions. Partner with grace—and watch what God will do.

INT!M!DATING BIOGRAPHY OF PETER OBI

Name:  Peter Gregory OBI, (CON)
EDUCATION:
· Christ the King College, Onitsha (W.A.S.C.)

. The University of Nigeria, Nsukka (B.A. Philosophy)

· Lagos Business School, Nigeria (Chief Executive Program)

· Harvard Business School, Boston, U.S.A. (Mid to Mid Marketing)

· Harvard Business School, Boston, U.S.A. (Changing the Game)

· London School of Economics (Financial Mgmt/Business Policy)

· Columbia Business School, New York, U.S.A. (Marketing Mgmt )

· Institute for Management Development, Switzerland (Senior Executive Program)

· Institute for Management Development, Switzerland (Break-Through Program for CEOs)

· Kellogg Graduate School of Management, U.S.A. (Advanced Executive Program)

· Kellogg School of Management U.S.A. (Global Advanced Mgmt Program)

. Oxford University: Said Business School, (Advanced Mgmt& Leadership Program)

. Cambridge University: George Business School (Advanced Leadership Program)

PREVIOUS POSITIONS

· Governor, Anambra State of Nigeria (2006-2014)

· Honorary Special Adviser to the President on Finance (till May 2015)

· Member, Presidential Economic Management Team (till May 2015)

· Vice-Chairman, Nigeria Governors’ Forum (2008-2014)

· Chairman, South-East Governors’ Forum (2006-2014)

. Former Chairman: Board of Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC)

· Former Chairman: Fidelity Bank Plc.

· Former Chairman: Guardian Express Mortgage Bank, Ltd.

· Former Chairman: Future Views Securities, Ltd.

· Former Chairman: Paymaster Nigeria Plc.

· Former Chairman: Next International (Nigeria) Ltd

· Former Director: Guardian Express Bank Plc.

· Former Director: Chams Nigeria Plc.

· Former Director: Emerging Capital Ltd

· Former Director: Card Centre Plc

MEMBERSHIP OF PROFESSIONAL ASSOCIATIONS/ORGANIZATIONS

· Member, Nigerian Economic Summit Group (NESG)

· Member, Nigerian Chartered Institute of Bankers

· Member, British Institute of Directors (IOD)

MEMBERSHIP OF FEDERAL GOVERNMENT COMMITTEES

In my capacity as the Governor of Anambra State, I served as a member of:

* Federal Government Committee on Minimum Wage

* Federal Government Committee on Negotiation with Labour on Subsidy

* Federal Government Committee on Mass Transit

* Federal Government Committee on Natural Resource

* National Economic Council Committee on Power Sector Reform

* National Economic Council Committee on Sharing of MDGs Funds

* National Economic Council Committee on Accurate Data on Nigeria’s Oil Import and Export

* Agricultural Transformation Implementation Council

* Sub-Committee on Needs Analysis of Public Universities in Nigeria

* National Economic Council Review Committee on the Power Sector.

AWARDS AND RECOGNITIONS

2015: Golden Jubilee Award from Catholic Archdiocese of Onitsha for outstanding contribution to quality healthcare delivery in St. Charles Borromeo Hospital in particular and Anambra State in general, on the occasion of the Golden Jubilee celebration of the hospital.

*2014: Nigerian Library Association Golden Merit Award for remarkable improvement of libraries in Anambra State, exemplified by our Government's construction of the Kenneth Dike Digital State Library, remarkable upgrade of the Onitsha Divisional Library, and provision of library facilities in secondary schools across the State.

*2014: Champion Newspaper Most Outstanding Igbo Man of the Decade.

* 2014 The Voice Newspaper (Holand) Achievers Award for Outstanding Example in Leadership and Governance.

*2013: Silver Bird Man of the Year (with Governor Babatunde Fashola of Lagos State).

*2012: Business Hallmark Newspaper Man of the Year.

*2012: The Golden Award on Prudence – by the Methodist Church of Nigeria as the Most
Financially Prudent Governor in Nigeria.

* 2012: Leadership and Good Governance Award by The Ezeife Leadership Foundation Award for restoring peace and harmony to Anambra State.

INT!M!DATING BIOGRAPHY OF PETER OBI

Name: Peter Gregory OBI, (CON)
EDUCATION:
· Christ the King College, Onitsha (W.A.S.C.)

. The University of Nigeria, Nsukka (B.A. Philosophy)

· Lagos Business School, Nigeria (Chief Executive Program)

· Harvard Business School, Boston, U.S.A. (Mid to Mid Marketing)

· Harvard Business School, Boston, U.S.A. (Changing the Game)

· London School of Economics (Financial Mgmt/Business Policy)

· Columbia Business School, New York, U.S.A. (Marketing Mgmt )

· Institute for Management Development, Switzerland (Senior Executive Program)

· Institute for Management Development, Switzerland (Break-Through Program for CEOs)

· Kellogg Graduate School of Management, U.S.A. (Advanced Executive Program)

· Kellogg School of Management U.S.A. (Global Advanced Mgmt Program)

. Oxford University: Said Business School, (Advanced Mgmt& Leadership Program)

. Cambridge University: George Business School (Advanced Leadership Program)

PREVIOUS POSITIONS

· Governor, Anambra State of Nigeria (2006-2014)

· Honorary Special Adviser to the President on Finance (till May 2015)

· Member, Presidential Economic Management Team (till May 2015)

· Vice-Chairman, Nigeria Governors’ Forum (2008-2014)

· Chairman, South-East Governors’ Forum (2006-2014)

. Former Chairman: Board of Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC)

· Former Chairman: Fidelity Bank Plc.

· Former Chairman: Guardian Express Mortgage Bank, Ltd.

· Former Chairman: Future Views Securities, Ltd.

· Former Chairman: Paymaster Nigeria Plc.

· Former Chairman: Next International (Nigeria) Ltd

· Former Director: Guardian Express Bank Plc.

· Former Director: Chams Nigeria Plc.

· Former Director: Emerging Capital Ltd

· Former Director: Card Centre Plc

MEMBERSHIP OF PROFESSIONAL ASSOCIATIONS/ORGANIZATIONS

· Member, Nigerian Economic Summit Group (NESG)

· Member, Nigerian Chartered Institute of Bankers

· Member, British Institute of Directors (IOD)

MEMBERSHIP OF FEDERAL GOVERNMENT COMMITTEES

In my capacity as the Governor of Anambra State, I served as a member of:

* Federal Government Committee on Minimum Wage

* Federal Government Committee on Negotiation with Labour on Subsidy

* Federal Government Committee on Mass Transit

* Federal Government Committee on Natural Resource

* National Economic Council Committee on Power Sector Reform

* National Economic Council Committee on Sharing of MDGs Funds

* National Economic Council Committee on Accurate Data on Nigeria’s Oil Import and Export

* Agricultural Transformation Implementation Council

* Sub-Committee on Needs Analysis of Public Universities in Nigeria

* National Economic Council Review Committee on the Power Sector.

AWARDS AND RECOGNITIONS

2015: Golden Jubilee Award from Catholic Archdiocese of Onitsha for outstanding contribution to quality healthcare delivery in St. Charles Borromeo Hospital in particular and Anambra State in general, on the occasion of the Golden Jubilee celebration of the hospital.

*2014: Nigerian Library Association Golden Merit Award for remarkable improvement of libraries in Anambra State, exemplified by our Government's construction of the Kenneth Dike Digital State Library, remarkable upgrade of the Onitsha Divisional Library, and provision of library facilities in secondary schools across the State.

*2014: Champion Newspaper Most Outstanding Igbo Man of the Decade.

* 2014 The Voice Newspaper (Holand) Achievers Award for Outstanding Example in Leadership and Governance.

*2013: Silver Bird Man of the Year (with Governor Babatunde Fashola of Lagos State).

*2012: Business Hallmark Newspaper Man of the Year.

*2012: The Golden Award on Prudence – by the Methodist Church of Nigeria as the Most
Financially Prudent Governor in Nigeria.

* 2012: Leadership and Good Governance Award by The Ezeife Leadership Foundation Award for restoring peace and harmony to Anambra State.


They told you that:
1. Fulani in Nigeria and Fulani in Ghana, Niger are same, and brothers

2. Hausas in Nigeria and Hausas in Niger are brothers and same people

3. Ijaws in Bayelsa,Ondo, Delta, Edo, and Rivers are the same people and brothers.

4. Yorubas in Kwara, Kogi, Ondo, Edo, etc. are Yorubas and brothers with southwest Yorubas

But Igbos in Rivers state, Kogi, Benue, Delta, Edo, etc, are not Igbos and brothers with their southeast Igbo brothers, and you agreed

Something must be fundamentally wrong with your education for believing such a distorted narrative.

State creation is not the same as tribe and it’s time the igbos outside the southeast understand this and become proud of being Igbo in whichever state they find themselves.

Igbos must Unite.

I expect every Igbo man to share this message widely & follow.
A common sense applied.

*MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIP TIPS*
_SECRET TO A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE_👌🏾



Wouldn’t you like to know the secret sauce to a happy and long-lasting marriage?

One of the most common questions we hear is, "How do we make our marriage/ Relationship work?"

Marital success is not achieved by luck. A happy married life is an intentional decision.
Your marriage is what you make it to be. The more you invest in a marriage, the more valuable it becomes.

1. *PRAY TOGETHER*
The more you pray together the more peaceful you will become as a couple. Nothing is secured outside prayers. To get the best of anything in life, prayer is a necessity. For you to have a joyful and long-lasting marriage, prayer is a must. The couple that prays together stays together.

Set aside time each day to pray with your spouse
It brings u closer together as you care for each other every day.

Perhaps a better time for you as a couple might be just before you go to bed each night. It's impossible to fall asleep angry when you've just held hands together in God's presence.

Pray and read the Word of God together with your spouse. Pray for your spouse always. Don't joke with the family altar. A couple that prays together stays together.

2. KEEP LEARNING ABOUT MARRIAGE AND FAMILY LIFE

Through the Word of God and other materials from certified Christian Family Counselors. Go for KNOWLEDGE. Marriage works by wisdom
Invest in your marriage to become the marriage of your dreams.
Invest your money in marriage books and seminars. There are so many powerful marriage books that can add value to your marital destiny.

3. Avoid trying to win every argument. YOUR HOME IS NOT A LAW COURT. You must Choose happiness over being right. Don’t be Defensive. If you discover you are at fault for something, acknowledge it, apologize and work for personal transformation.

4. Build Godly Characters.

Your character is your marriage. Your marriage will never fail

*MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIP TIPS*
_SECRET TO A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE_👌🏾



Wouldn’t you like to know the secret sauce to a happy and long-lasting marriage?

One of the most common questions we hear is, "How do we make our marriage/ Relationship work?"

Marital success is not achieved by luck. A happy married life is an intentional decision.
Your marriage is what you make it to be. The more you invest in a marriage, the more valuable it becomes.

1. *PRAY TOGETHER*
The more you pray together the more peaceful you will become as a couple. Nothing is secured outside prayers. To get the best of anything in life, prayer is a necessity. For you to have a joyful and long-lasting marriage, prayer is a must. The couple that prays together stays together.

Set aside time each day to pray with your spouse
It brings u closer together as you care for each other every day.

Perhaps a better time for you as a couple might be just before you go to bed each night. It's impossible to fall asleep angry when you've just held hands together in God's presence.

Pray and read the Word of God together with your spouse. Pray for your spouse always. Don't joke with the family altar. A couple that prays together stays together.

2. KEEP LEARNING ABOUT MARRIAGE AND FAMILY LIFE

Through the Word of God and other materials from certified Christian Family Counselors. Go for KNOWLEDGE. Marriage works by wisdom
Invest in your marriage to become the marriage of your dreams.
Invest your money in marriage books and seminars. There are so many powerful marriage books that can add value to your marital destiny.

3. Avoid trying to win every argument. YOUR HOME IS NOT A LAW COURT. You must Choose happiness over being right. Don’t be Defensive. If you discover you are at fault for something, acknowledge it, apologize and work for personal transformation.

4. Build Godly Characters.

Your character is your marriage. Your marriage will never fail

Urgent Update for men

PEFI MEN’S SUMMIT | Gentlemen of Impact, Influence & Income (GII-Summit)

This is not another motivational event.
This is a summit of serious men, those ready to confront what quietly ruin kings, take ownership of their invisible economies, and walk in laws that produce undeniable results.

June 10, 11 & 12, 2025 | 8PM GMT+1 Daily | Zoom & YouTube
With Dr. Joybert Javnyuy

For 3 nights, Dr. Joybert Javnyuy, renowned global strategist, trainer of high-level professionals, leaders & executives in 4 continents will deliver transformational teachings that dismantle average thinking and awaken your dominion as a man of impact, influence, and income.

Day 1: The Contagiousness of Habits that Destroys Kings
Day 2: Governing One's Invisible Economy
Day 3: The Ultimate Divine Law of Impact, Influence & Income for Every Man

If you’re a man, your future is being summoned.
If you’re a woman, challenge the men in your life to attend. Your sons, husbands, brothers, and fathers need this.

Don’t miss it.
Don’t delay.
Great men aren’t born, they are built, sharpened, and aligned.
This summit is where that happens.

Join us live. Zoom & YouTube.
Your next level is waiting.

Join the WhatsApp group & meet other gentlemen:
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