I’m stuck in a situation in my own head that’s been messing with me for months. Im 20 and this is my 2nd relationship ive had.

Was I cheating or breaking trust?

I gave a girl my number so we couldd share our notes from classes we missed. I didnt tell my ex at the time because i thought it was innocent and nothing more.
(We only texted about classes and sometimes ask if we were going to show up to class that day) she saw a notification from her and looked through the texts and got upset with me. She said she was trying to flirt with me and i was oblivious to it. We went back and forth but we settled down and I was in the wrong for not telling my ex I gave my number out to a girl. But she said at the end it was okay to keep being friends and talking to her. 2 weeks go by and I decided to reach out to my classmate because I wasn’t in class and wanted to see if there were notes I missed. She keep trying to hold the conversation and I felt like maybe she was trying to flirt so I cut the conversation off and left her on read. I still didn’t tell my ex about it because I ended the connection before anything happened. Few days go by my ex finds out and breaks up with me for it. We been together for almost 2 years and I felt like us breaking up for something like that was just not a thought of my head a reason we could break up.

So was I cheating or did I break the trust we had.
I’ve been very understand on my part on how it made her feel and I empathized with her. But I still feel like I didn’t cheat, I’ve very against cheating and it keeps bugging me from time to time because she believes I cheated and would tell anyone about it.

Waiting a Little Longer

I’ve stood at the edge of surrender,
Where silence grows louder
And time feels cruel—
But still, I wait.

Not because it’s easy,
But because somewhere within me,
A whisper says:
Hold on. Just a little longer.

I’ve wept in hidden corners,
Counted stars as questions,
Watched others bloom
While my soil stayed still.

But maybe delay is not denial.
Maybe the waiting is working—
Stretching my roots,
Preparing my ground
For something worth the patience.

So I breathe through the ache,
Sing softly to my hopes,
And water the unseen.

Because even in this quiet ache,
I believe—
That what’s meant for me
Will find me whole.

And so I stay,
Not in desperation,
But in strength.
In faith.
In love with the becoming.

Yes—
I’m waiting,
Just a little longer.
And that’s enough for now.

7 BODY PARTS YOU SHOULD NEVER IGNORE DURING FOREPLAY..

THREAD1. The neck

The neck is the body’s most vulnerable zone. Just a kiss on it can make you weak at the knees. The back of the neck and shoulders are also extra sensitive. Light love bites on the area can send shivers down your partners spine.

2. The breast

Of course, nipple play is very common during foreplay but there’s so much to the breast than nipples.
3. Inner thighs

Because the inner thighs are close to the p***y area they are veryyy sensitive. Just a touch of the a finger can make her wet.

4. The stomach

especially the belly button area. Kissing and licking the area can send shivers to her body. Massaging the lower stomach can also indirectly stimulate the g-spot.

5. The ears

The ears contain a large number of nerve endings. This is a highly sensitive spot. Caressing, licking or even blowing gently into the ears can be a huge turn on. It can even lead to an orgasm

6. The lower back

The space where the lower back and the butt meet is a very sweet spot. It is connected to the pelvis so touching , kissing and licking this spot can set fireworks in the body.

Your Skin at 40 Doesn't Forgive.
Feed It Right Now.

Your body rebuilds collagen daily to keep the skin firm.

But without enough protein, it can't keep up.

The result is that your skin begins to sag, thins, and loses its bounce.

Listen;
Not all protein works the same:

Eggs, Meat, Fish: Your body uses almost all of it (95% for eggs!). Like premium fuel – it is very efficient and powerful.

Beans, Veggies (even broccoli!): Your body struggles to use it fully. Even the best plants fall short. Much of it gets wasted.

This isn’t about diets or trends. It’s about giving your skin what it truly needs to stay strong.

Choosing eggs today isn’t about vibes. It’s your future self smiling back in the mirror.

Know this today that;

Radiance starts from the inside out and not the other way round.

Use your sense.🫵

MUST READ: Phone Rules For Couples

PHONE USE RULES FOR COUPLES:

1. Don't make a habit of putting your phone on silent mode or turning it off each time you're with your partner. It makes you look like you are hiding something

2. Save your partner's phone number using a special title like "Hubby", "Love", "Wife", "Sweetie". Or save using a title plus the official name. Using the official name only makes your partner look like just the other contacts on your phone

3. Answer your partner's phone call with loving affectionate words like "Hi love", and "Hey honey". How a conversation starts determines how it flows. If you start warm, you two will enjoy talking with each other on the phone

4. End the talk on a high. Say "I love you", say a joke, a compliment, a warm phrase before you hang up. Hang up with a smile

5. It is OK to chat with friends online. But never chat with another person more than you chat with your partner

6. If you will be busy, notify your partner you will not be able to pick up calls or reply to texts promptly. Inform your partner what you will be doing and approximately for how long. This prepares your partner and brings peace because your partner will not feel ignored

7. Flirting on phone is good but only flirt with your partner

8. Tell off people who try to flirt with you, entice you, and charm you on phone. Let them know that you are taken

9. Take lots of photos and videos together to capture moments. You will need those pics and videos in the future as you look back
MUST READ: Phone Rules For Couples
MUST READ: Phone Rules For Couples

10. When you go out on dates, keep the phone away, and minimize phone use so that you focus on each other

11. Don't make a habit of walking away from your partner to answer phone calls. Your partner will perceive you are hiding something or having an affair. Love is about perception

12. After the date and you don't live together; man, call her up and check on her, tell her you got home safe; lady, send him a text, thanking him for a wonderful time

13. Unless it's an emergency when you can't reach your partner and you probably know he/she is at work or doing something; don't keep calling and texting desperately. You will only look like a nag to your partner and that will make your partner detest phone contact with you. Relax, your partner will see your missed call and text

14. When you see a missed call or text from your partner, please call back or reply as soon as you can. Put your partner at ease

15. Save your partner's phone number as an emergency number to be contacted in case something happens to you and your phone is locked

16. Avoid fights and arguments over the phone, they are difficult to manage and leave a bad feeling when you hang up, thus negatively affecting how you two relate. Talk about serious issues that are volatile face to face

17. When your partner offends you or you two aggravate each other, never refuse to pick up your partner's phone call. That only makes matters worse. Keep the line of communication open so that you work things out. If you can't talk at the moment you are hurting, just pick up the call and say "I can't talk right now" and your partner will understand

18. Inform your partner when and why you need to turn off your phone when you two are apart. Keep your partner from worrying

19. When you two are having fun together, it is good to celebrate your love online but don't post too much about your love life. Some things are best kept private. The world doesn't have to know every detail of how you love each other

20. When you two are having problems, don't vent about your partner directly or indirectly on your social media posts

21. Don't let your partner get news about you from social media like your online friends. Tell the news to your partner first, and then post it online

22. If your partner tries calling you but your line is engaged, explain who you were talking to. If someone calls you when you're with your partner, say who it was. Transparency and clarity enhance trust

23. Remember it is your role to communicate. None of you should feel he/she is forcing a conversation or is doing much of the talking. Communication takes two

24. Put away the phone when your partner needs your undivided attention, especially in the bedroom. Don't be intimate, holding your phone, more than you hold your partner

Phone use can affect your relationship/marriage negatively or positively. Be smart as you use your smartphone.

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