Respect your woman because so many men wanted her, some of them are better than you but yet she choose you.❤️

Quote: "A few days ago, I saw a woman frying plantain chips, and before she commenced putting the cut to size plantain into the hot oil, she melted five white polythene into the oil. Out of shock, I asked her why she had to melt that into the oil. She told me that it is done to harden the chips so it doesn't break. Oh nooooo!!!!! I couldn't believe my ears. She then went on to ask me if I have ever wondered why the ones they sell in traffic is always firm and hardly breaks. My people this is deadly. Please stop buying things you can easily prepare at home. Kidney failure is rampant these days! Please tell your loved ones about this. Shared as copied ... please stay safe 😳☹️" End of quote.

Never Trust a Woman you Snatch from a Man.

Romans 8:28 "God's plan is always the best. Sometimes the process is painful, delayed and hard. But remember: when God is silent, He's doing Something good for you." Amen!

A woman NEVER LEAVES without already having another man lined up. If she dumps you, there was already a replacement waiting, and she was prepared for him. Don't be fooled. When a woman leaves your side, it's not because she "wants to be alone." It's because she already has another door open—along with her heart and sometimes more... Men believe that women end things first and then search for someone new, but the reality is quite the opposite: 1. First, they find, then they finish. 2. First, they secure, then they let go. 3. First, they plan, then they execute. ✋ It hurts to accept, but if she left you, chances are someone else was already on her radar. This is how the harsh reality works, gentlemen: 1️⃣ Emotional distancing – She stops arguing, stops demanding, stops caring. Mentally, she’s already out of the relationship. 2️⃣ Exploring options – She might not be with someone else yet, but she’s surveying the market. She won’t stay alone for long. 3️⃣ Closing the next deal – It could be an ex, a long-time friend, or a new admirer who knew exactly what to say at the right moment. 4️⃣ Walking away without looking back – No second chances, no "let’s try again." By the time you realize what's happening, she’s already with someone new, while you’re still trying to process it. Here's the truth they don’t tell you: 👉 If a woman leaves you, it’s because she already has someone else supporting her. 👉 If she says she "needs time," she’s already investing her time elsewhere. 👉 If she swears she’s alone after the breakup, she just doesn’t want you to know who she’s with. The problem is, men think this is just "bad luck," but in reality, it’s ignorance. Women don’t play randomly—they play chess. And while you were confident that "everything was fine," she was already making her next move. Don't be naive. If you notice her pulling away, be prepared. Because the next thing you’ll hear is: "I need space." ✅ If you think she’ll come back, wake up—she’s already re @highlight

Signs She’s NOT Into You (Might Hurt Your Feelings) 1. She doesn’t text you back (or takes forever to reply). Women are glued to their phones. If she’s into you, she’ll be excited to text back fast. If she takes hours or days to reply, or leaves you on read, it’s a clear sign you’re low priority. No woman "forgets" to text a man she desires. She’s just choosing not to. 2. She avoids being alone with you. If she always wants to “meet you there” instead of getting picked up… If she only hangs out in group settings… If she never wants to come over to your place or invite you to hers… She’s making sure there’s no chance of intimacy. That means she’s not attracted to you. 3. She doesn’t ask you personal questions. A woman who’s into you will be curious about you. She’ll want to know about your life, your passions, your goals. If she never asks anything beyond surface-level topics, you’re just background noise to her. Indifference = disinterest. 4. She brings up her bad qualities. When a woman likes you, she puts her best foot forward. But when she isn’t interested, she’ll sabotage herself on purpose by saying things like: “I’m really bad at relationships.” “I’m kind of crazy.” “I don’t think I’d be good for you. 5. She doesn’t engage in the conversation. If a woman likes you, she’ll be dialed into the conversation, smiling, reacting, laughing. If she’s giving short answers, not following up, or looking at her phone while you talk… She’s mentally checked out. And when a woman’s mind isn’t on you, neither is her heart. 6. She is "always busy." A woman will move mountains to see a man she wants. If she keeps saying: “I’m super busy right now.” “Maybe next week.” “I’ll let you know.” She’s making excuses to avoid you. Busy women still make time for the men they crave. 7. She doesn’t give you her full attention. When a woman truly desires you, Her eyes are on you. She laughs at your jokes. She wants to know everything about you. If she seems distracted, looking around the room, or more focused on her phone… She’s counting down the minutes until she can leave. 8. She flirts with other men in front of you. This is the ultimate act of disrespect. If she’s giggling, touching, or engaging other guys while you’re right there, she doesn’t see you as an option. A woman who respects and desires you will NOT flaunt her interest in other men. 9. She never initiates touch or flirts back. A woman’s body language exposes her true feelings. If she’s into you: She’ll find ways to touch you. She’ll lean in when you talk. She’ll giggle and playfully push you away. 10. You’re the only one putting in effort. Who texts first? Who makes plans? Who keeps the conversation going? If it’s always YOU and she’s just coasting along… She’s not that into you. High-interest women don’t let the man do 100% of the work. ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅

MEN, Listen Carefully 1. Respect yourself first. The moment you lose self-respect, you become a pawn in someone else's game. 2. Your appearance is your first impression. Invest in yourself, hit the gym, dress well—not for them, but for you. Confidence follows discipline. 3. Master self-control. A man who can control his cravings for sex and food has already conquered most of his weaknesses. Discipline is the key to power. 4. Your friends have battles too. Stop expecting them to always come through. Everyone is fighting a war you don’t see. 5. If you put her on a pedestal, she will look down on you. A king doesn’t beg for loyalty; he earns it through strength and purpose. 6. Betrayal always comes from those closest to you. Be wise with trust. Your worst scars won’t come from strangers. 7. They will mock you, doubt you, and dismiss you—until you succeed. Keep building. Let success be your response. 8. Temporary sacrifices lead to permanent stability. Missing out on fun today is not a loss if it guarantees a better future. 9. Weak men seek pleasure, strong men seek purpose. Build, create, and contribute—don’t just consume. 10. A true man doesn't beg for love, attention, or respect. He commands it through his actions and presence. 11. Your time and energy are valuable. Don’t waste them on lazy, entitled people who bring nothing to the table. 12. A woman can sense a weak man from miles away. Once she detects neediness, you’ve lost her respect. Don’t chase—lead. 13. If she isn’t afraid to lose you, you are replaceable in her eyes. Become the kind of man she values, not the one she tolerates. 14. Life is ruthless. One wrong move and you can lose years of progress. Move with caution and wisdom. 15. Never negotiate desire. If you have to beg for love, respect, or attention—it’s already gone. Walk away with your dignity intact. 16. Your mental health is your responsibility. When you're down, accept reality, strategize, and rise stronger. No one is coming to save you. 17. Never lower your standards to accommodate mediocrity. Protect your peace and purpose at all costs. 18. Pain is the best teacher. Bad days make good days more valuable. Learn from every struggle. 19. In this world, respect is earned, not given. Be the kind of man people look up to, not the one they pity. 20. A man with a mission is unstoppable. Find your purpose, chase it relentlessly, and let nothing distract you.

7 THINGS THAT CAN MAKE YOU BROKE FASTER THAN VILLAGE PEOPLE 😂😂 Forget jazz, forget enemies from the village—some of you are going broke at lightning speed, and it’s not because of witchcraft. Your own lifestyle is the real problem! If you're always wondering "Who is eating my money?"—relax, Oga. The answer is you. BRUTAL THREAD: 1. CHASING EVERY WOMAN YOU SEE You think you're James Bond, moving from one fine girl to another, sponsoring their hair, nails, and data? Brother, you are your own Yahoo boy. 🤣 One babe says “I need urgent 2K”—you send. Another one says “My rent is due”—you pay. Next thing, your account balance is calling for GoFundMe. Meanwhile, the same girls are in group chats laughing at you: “This guy dey try sha.” Solution: Stop being an ATM with no PIN code. Focus on one woman or yourself first. 2. LIVING LIKE A BIG BOY WHEN YOUR ACCOUNT BALANCE IS SHOUTING HELP Your salary is 50K, but you're in clubs ordering Hennessy like Davido. You don’t even have a car, but you're buying drinks for strangers—WHO SENT YOU? 😭 Rich men are saving, you are spraying money. Dangote is investing, you are doing “Odogwu” at the bar. Elon Musk is buying companies, you are buying bottles for slay queens who don’t know your surname. When the landlord comes for rent, you’ll start saying “Boss, abeg, things hard.” Solution: Cut down on fake luxury. Even Jeff Bezos wears simple T-shirts. Be wise. 3. SENDING MONEY TO FAMILY LIKE CBN Your uncle calls: “We need money for burial.” Your aunt calls: “No food in the house.” Your younger brother: “School fees.” Now your account is empty, but when you need help? Nobody picks your call. Oga, you are not the Minister of Finance. Even government doesn’t share free money like you do! Solution: Learn to say NO sometimes! Help when you can, but don’t let family turn you into their personal budget. 4. ALWAYS BUYING THE LATEST PHONE TO IMPRESS WHO? Last month, you were using iPhone 12. This month, you saw iPhone 15 Pro Max and sold your kidney to buy it. Next month, iPhone 16 Ultra Mega Max will drop—what will you sell next? Your destiny? 😭 Meanwhile, the person you’re trying to impress is using Tecno Pop 5 and doesn’t care. Solution: If your current phone is working, rest. Your future is more important than “Dynamic Island.” 5. FALLING FOR EVERY FAKE INVESTMENT SCHEME They told you "Invest 50K, get 500K in 2 days." You ran like Bolt, deposited your money. Now, they’ve blocked you, and you’re writing epistles on Facebook: “Dear Nigerians, beware of fraudsters!” 🤣 Oga, they didn’t scam you, you scammed yourself! Any investment that sounds like magic money is a Ponzi scheme in disguise. Solution: If you don’t understand the business, don’t put your money there. Learn to invest wisely! 6. GOING BROKE JUST TO IMPRESS SOCIAL MEDIA Your house rent is due, but you're buying designer shoes to take pictures for Instagram. Who told you “likes and comments” can pay rent? You posted “Soft life only.” But in real life, you’re trekking and borrowing money for food. If your phone falls, you’ll cry because you can’t afford to fix it. 😭 Solution: Stop forming fake rich life. Invest first, flex later. 7. BEING TOO LAZY TO MAKE MORE MONEY You sit at home, scrolling Facebook from morning till night, complaining: “No job, Nigeria is hard.” Meanwhile, opportunities are passing you by! Are you expecting an angel to drop money from the sky? People are making money online—you are watching TikTok videos all day. People are learning skills—you are arguing about football. People are opening businesses—you are waiting for your rich uncle to die so you can inherit land. 🤣 Solution: Get up and hustle! Even the Bible says “A lazy man shall not eat.” BOTTOM LINE: If you're always broke, stop blaming village people. Your habits are the real witchcraft! Live within your means. Invest before you flex. Stop impressing people who don’t care. Make smart financial decisions. If this post hit you hard, don’t cry. Just change your ways! 😂😂😂 Follow Abasiodu Ekpenyong for more brutal truths that will save your life!

*MARRY A MAN WITH COMMON SENSE.* 1: Marry a man that has sense enough to know that paying your bride price is not equal to buying you. 2: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that marrying you is not doing you a favour. 3: Marry a man that has sense enough to know that you pose to have cramps and mood swings during your monthly circle, and shouldn't use it against you. 4: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that as a woman you also have a right to say "NO" to sex at times and if he must have his way he should at least try to make you happy and put you in the mood. 5: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that after childbirth you are posed to have stretch marks, big stomach, sag boobs and not too good shape, and he shouldn't because of that compare you to a sweet 16, Your sag boobs or stretch marks is a sign of motherhood. (Although you can work it out and be back to shape which is proper.) 6: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that there are times you are just too tired to cook, and him taking you to the eatery to eat dinner or him fixing the meal that day to save you the stress is not a taboo. 7: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that you have a right to voice out your frustration, a right to agree and disagree, a right to air your opinions. 8: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that you deserve to hear "sorry" from him and he's obliged to plead and ask for forgiveness when he errs and not use his headship as a means to escape saying "sorry" 9: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that hitting a lady is a crime against humanity. 10: Marry a man who loves your soul not just your body, marry a man who enjoys talking to you even without touching your body, not someone who cannot talk to you without touching you. May you not miss it in marriage.

WEEK OF SPIRITUAL FOCUS AND EMPOWERMENT UPDATES JUNE THEME: *PREPARING FOR THE KING'S RETURN* DATE: SUNDAY 1ST JUNE- TUESDAY 3RD JUNE 2025 DAY ONE *AWAKENING YOURSELF TO THE REALITY OF THE SECOND COMING OF CHRIST.* SCRIPTURES FOR MEDITATION AND PRAYERS 1 Thessalonians 5:1-11 But of the times and the seasons, brethren, ye have no need that I write unto you. For yourselves know perfectly that the day of the Lord so cometh as a thief in the night. For when they shall say, Peace and safety; then sudden destruction cometh upon them, as travail upon a woman with child; and they shall not escape. But ye, brethren, are not in darkness, that that day should overtake you as a thief. Ye are all the children of light, and the children of the day: we are not of the night, nor of darkness. Therefore let us not sleep, as do others; but let us watch and be sober. For they that sleep sleep in the night; and they that be drunken are drunken in the night. But let us, who are of the day, be sober, putting on the breastplate of faith and love; and for an helmet, the hope of salvation. For God hath not appointed us to wrath, but to obtain salvation by our Lord Jesus Christ, Who died for us, that, whether we wake or sleep, we should live together with him. Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another, even as also ye do. THE GREATEST SERVICE YOU CAN DO TO YOURSELF IS TO GET YOURSELF READY FOR THE LORD'S RETURN. IT IS FROM THE ABUNDANCE OF YOUR PERSONAL READINESS FOR THE LORD THAT YOU CAN BE USED TO PREPARE OTHERS FOR THE LORD'S RETURN. PRAYERS 1. DEAR HEAVENLY FATHER, THANK YOU FOR YOUR MERCIES AND GRACE IN SAVING MY SOUL FROM SIN AND FROM SATAN'S BONDAGE. ACCEPT MY SINCERE GRATITUDE AND APPRECIATION IN JESUS NAME. 2. DEAR HEAVENLY FATHER, HELP ME TO AWAKEN TO THE REALITY OF THE SECOND COMING OF CHRIST AND TO BE READY IN EVERY WAYS FOR THE FLIGHT, HELP ME TO ALSO AWAKEN OTHERS FOR THE DAY OF THE LORD'S RETURN IN JESUS NAME. 3. DEAR HEAVENLY FATHER, USE ME AS YOU PLEASE TO DRAW MANY SOULS TO YOU IN THIS REMAINING SHORT TIME BEFORE THE RAPTURE AND HELP ME TO NOT LOSE MYSELF IN THE PROCESS IN JESUS NAME. HAPPY NEW MONTH TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN JESUS NAME! JOIN US TODAY FOR CORPORATE PRAYERS IN CHURCH OR ONLINE BY 5PM. SHALOM, MARANATHA!

I met my wife, Chioma, long before the fame, the money, and the spotlight. Back then, I was still hustling, trying to find my place. My father’s money wasn’t my money, I had to work my way up to where I am today. Chioma was by my side during those early days, when life wasn’t glamorous, and I couldn’t afford the things I can afford now. I have a friend who’s incredibly wealthy, but each time he sees me and Chioma talking or spending time together, he says, “You did it, bro.” Because for all his wealth, he doesn’t have a solid partner who was there from the beginning. That’s something money can’t buy, genuine connection and loyalty. One thing I always tell people: when you finally make it, don’t forget the ones who stood by you when you had nothing. They are your real people. The ones who cheered you on without expecting anything in return. If I didn’t already have someone, and I met a woman now, I would always wonder, “Is she here for me or for Davido the celebrity?” That’s why I value my day ones, those who loved me before the world even knew my name. – Davido

Genesis 2 verse 22-25 And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.