*THE RESTORER'S DAILY GUIDE*

DATE: FRIDAY 9TH MAY 2025

THEME: *ABSOLUTE TRUST IN GOD*

MEMORIZE
Psalms 62:11
God hath spoken once; twice have I heard this; that power belongeth unto God.

READ
Psalms 62:1-2, 5-9, 11
Truly my soul waiteth upon God: from him cometh my salvation.
He only is my rock and my salvation; he is my defence; I shall not be greatly moved.
My soul, wait, thou only upon God; for my expectation is from him.
He only is my rock, and my salvation: he is my defence; I shall not be moved.
In God is my salvation and my glory: the rock of my strength and my refuge is in God.
Trust in him at all times; ye people, pour out your heart before him: God is a refuge for us. Selah.
Surely men of low degree are vanity, and men of high degree are a lie: to be laid in the balance, they are altogether lighter than vanity.
God hath spoken once; twice have I heard this; that power belongeth unto God.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
*Trust in God is absolute when we are bankrupt of options.*

MESSAGE
The Psalmist, in today's text, expressed his unreserved trust and confidence in God alone, because he understood the danger of trusting in mortal men irrespective of their status or placement in life.

Humans are so frail, fickle and unsure. The best of men are still men, subject to the limitations of flesh and blood.

Only God is truly reliable, absolute and consistent with His word.

It is easy to say I trust in God only when you do not have anyone in your life.

However, the Psalmist in today's text, being a king had all kinds of people around him, but his experiences about men generally was probably not a palatable one.

He reiterated that his hope was in God alone.

There are three dimensions to the issue of trust.

1. There is "no need for trust" in God when there is an assurance of options.

2. "Low trust" in God when there are options but unsure of their reliability.

3. Absolute trust when you do not have any option.

Usually, trust in God is absolute when you realise that you do not have anyone to look up to for help.

Let me ask you: Do you have options of where or whom to run to apart from the Lord?

Or is your trust absolutely on God alone?

The Bible tells us that the eyes of the Lord run to and fro the earth looking for those who are absolutely trusting in His help to show Himself mighty on their behalf. (2Chr 16:9)

It is possible to have all kinds of people in your life, as in the case with the Psalmist in today's text, but he chose to repose his complete trust in God because in his honest opinion of men he saw that they were altogether lighter than vanity.

*Beloved, it is capital wisdom to trust in God, who is most reliable instead of fickle men who are given to change.*

ACTION STEPS
1. Prayerfully meditate on today's devotional guide.
2. Allow the Lord to introduce men to you.
3. Ask the Lord to help you align yourself with His mercies and grace for timely help always.

REMEMBER
*Trust in God is absolute when we are bankrupt of options.*

PRAYERS
Dear heavenly Father, Thank you for today's devotional guide. Help me to align myself perfectly for your help, always in Jesus' name. Amen

AUTHOR: JEDIDIAH DAVID

DAILY READING: Habakkuk 3, Acts 14-16; Hebrews 11-12; Jude 1.

HYMN
What a Friend we have in Jesus,
All our sins and griefs to bear !
What a privilege to carry
Everything to God in prayer !
Oh, what peace we often forfeit,
Oh, what needless pain we bear------
All because we do not carry
Everything to God in prayer !

2
Have we trials and temptations ?
Is there trouble anywhere ?
We should never be discouraged ;
Take it to the Lord in prayer.
Can we find a Friend so faithful,
Who will all our sorrows share?
Jesus knows our every weakness-----
Take it to the Lord in prayer !

3
Are we weak and heavy-laden,
Cumbered with a load of care ?
Precious Saviour, still our refuge-----
Take it to the Lord in prayer.
Do thy friends despise, forsake thee ?
Take it to the Lord in prayer ;
In His arms He'll take and shield thee.
Thou wilt find a solace there,

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How to Find Your Most Profitable Skill — Even If You Feel Ordinary/Average

You’re sitting on a goldmine.
But when your skill is normal to you, you’ll assume it’s worthless.

It’s not.
It’s just unrecognized, unpackaged, and unpositioned.

Here’s how to find the one skill that will pay you the most — even if you feel ordinary.
Thread

1. Stop looking for a new skill.
Your most profitable skill is rarely something you need to learn.
It’s something you’ve already done, survived, or delivered, but haven’t priced or packaged (refined) yet.

2. List what comes easy to you but hard to others.
What do people say:
“You’re good at this…”
“How did you do that?”
That’s not small talk. That’s a signal.
Ease is a clue.
Pain + confusion for others = opportunity for you.

3. Look for patterns in past results.
What do your best wins have in common?
→ What problem did you solve?
→ Who did you solve it for?
→ What changed because of your input?
The marketplace pays for repeated outcomes. Not random brilliance.

4. Run the Money Skill Filter
For every skill you list, ask:
– Does it save someone time?
– Does it save someone money?
– Does it help someone earn more?
– Would a business pay for this?
If the answer is yes to 2 or more, you’re holding a monetizable skill.

5. Stop trying to be unique. Be useful.
Many times, you don’t need to invent something new.
You need to position what you already know in a way that solves an urgent, expensive problem.

6. Use the “Cash Conversation Test”
Have 5 conversations with people in your target audience.
Ask:
→ What’s frustrating you in [area of your skill]?
→ What have you tried that didn’t work?
→ If someone fixed that fast, what would it be worth to you?
This gives you the language and the pricing.

7. Package a small win. Fast.
Don’t build a business (yet).
Don’t launch a website (yet).
Just pick one skill + one result + one person
And turn it into a low-friction paid offer.

Examples:
– “I help startup founders write investor-ready bios.”
– “I help 9-5 professionals build personal brands on LinkedIn.”
– “I help coaches craft 1 clear, high-ticket offer.”
Clarity gets clients. Complexity kills confidence.

8. Recognize your skill and act on it today.
Most people aren’t broke because they lack skill.
They’re broke because they’ve never recognized the value of their skill.

COMMENT “SKILL + MONEY” if this hits you hard and you will practice.

Dr. Joybert Javnyuy
I Help Experts & Institutions to Extract, Package & Monetize Specialized Value | Book Me to Train, Coach & Speak |

HOW TO BE A S£XY SPOUSE

1. WITH WORDS
Learn how to fl!rt and turn on your spouse. Learn to speak n@ughty. To make your spouse w£t or hard simply by the words you speak

2. WITH YOUR EYES
Learn to look at your spouse with bedroom eyes and desire. This is done by a long stare of wonder done with confidence. There is a look you can give that excites

3. WITH YOUR TOUCH
Learn how to grab, how to squeeze, how to use your fingers. Not only how to touch, but where to touch. Your spouse has spots he/she loves to be touched, explore them

4. WITH YOUR BREATHING
There is a passionate breathing that is a turn on. That breathing when you two hug or touch, it makes the blood run

5. WITH YOUR DRESSING
Know how to s£xually appeal visually. Adorn your body in a manner that presents it well. Keep upgrading your look to prevent monotony

6. WITH YOUR VOICE
Tone is key. As you whisper to your spouse, call your spouse over the phone or speak so close to each other; there is a voice that says "I want you. NOW!"

7. WITH YOUR TEXT MESSAGES
Distance should not be an issue. Ar0use your spouse with your suggestive messages. Don't do it in an affair, do it to your spouse

8. WITH YOUR K!SSING
The meeting of lips is one of the s£xiest things. With tongue or without, lower lip then upper, bitting and releasing, passionate and slow; k!ss your spouse good

9. WITH YOUR M0ANING
M0aning is a major turn on, it urges your spouse on and in fact, increases the intensity of the clim@x. M0aning is like a cheering squad building up to the orgasm. Men too also m0an, they give that growl when just about to £jaculate

10. WITH YOUR ENTERTAINING PERFORMANCE
Be entertaining. Strip for your spouse, do a lap dance, bend over, pose nak£d, stand in front of her with your £rect p£nis, lay suggestively on the bed. Give your spouse a view that cannot be resisted

11. WITH YOUR SCENT
Invest in good scents that make your spouse take in your presence and want to get close to your skin

12. WITH YOUR S€XUAL ORGAN
Know how to make use of your s£xual organ. How to trap him with your cl!toris, how to take in his p£nis in a manner that drives him crazy, how to pump inside her faster, harder, just the way she likes it

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50 years ago… Ogbemudia was Igbo and Igbanke, Igbo Akiri

Boji-Boji Atamuna.

“From time immemorial, the people that are called Igbanke today were known and called Igbo-Akiri. It was in 1967 when Ogbemudia became the military governor of the Midwest State that he changed the name of the town from Igbo-Akiri to Igbanke…It would have been unthinkable at that time to reveal that an Ibo man or an Ibo town produced the military governor of the Midwest State…. Ogbemudia, including the prominent Evangelist Rev. Isaac Idahosa are all Ibo and they hail originally from Igbo Akiri.”

(See Blood On The Niger, Gomslam Books 2012 pages 33, 216)

Captain Fred Anuku, the Commander of the Biafran Navy was the first Nigerian naval graduate from Dartmouth. While his fellow Ika-Ibo Brigadier Samuel Ogbemudia joined the Federal troops, Fred, who was married to a Caribbean, fled Lagos during the 1966 Igbo pogrom and was offered the command of the fledging young Navy by the Biafran high command.

At the same time, Major Nzeogwu’s involvement in the January 15, 1966 Revolution brought suspicion and calamity to his own people of Asaba, Okpanam and environs. As we prepare to organise a programme for the Anioma and Asaba 50th Year Genocide Anniversary, we shall today mention some of the top actors, commanders from the western Ibo nation of both forces whose roles led to the genocide in Asaba, Isheagu, Ogwashi, Igbodo, Ubulu Kingdom, Ibusa and Ndi Oshimili. These prominent Commanders include Major Kaduna Nzeogwu, Col. Conrad Nwawo, Col. Joe Achuzia, and Captain Fred Anuku on the Biafran side. On the Nigerian side, we shall record the memorable activities of Brigadier Samuel Ogbemudia, General Godwin Alabi Isama, General Cyril Iweze and Commander O.Z. Chiazor, the first black man to be commissioned by the Queen in the Royal Canadian Navy.

Significantly, at this time, charismatic Chukwuma Kaduna Nzeogwu had been released from the Calabar prison. He had disagreed with Ojukwu’s war aims and military strategy, and obviously discountenanced the declaration of Biafra. He advised that the East should resist for, at least, four months, cultivate foreign and local support and then prepare and get into the position with more arms and training to resist a total war. He opposed any frontal engagements against the superior-armed federal troops at that initial stage of the war. At the 1967 Abakiliki military exercise, Nzeogwu demonstrated his extraordinary military acumen and proved beyond doubt that he was the Rommel of the Nigerian Army. A commander’s dream, endowed with a peculiar knowledge of the sub-savannah battlefield terrain, he exuded a rare combat capability and commanded the battle simulation with such confidence and precision that he drew tears of adulation from the awed subalterns. He inspired most of the officers with his unmitigated improvisations. To most of the top brass of the Biafran Army, who were seeing the dawn of real combat action for the first time, this fighting leatherneck was a military institution all by himself, a study in combat readiness and tactics.

After his release from Calabar, Nzeogwu managed to reach his boys still in the Nigerian Army in the Midwest and in the West. The plan to enter the Midwest was originally his and that was his own way of setting a stage for the cessation of hostilities, an end to the war, and the restoration of the ideals of the January 15 Revolution. To this end, he was disappointed by his friend, Major Olusegun Obasanjo whom he had not heard from and whom he learnt had gone back to Kaduna. On the other hand, he was confident in, and had some respect for Major Samuel Ogbemudia, his colleague at the Nigeria Military Training College (NMTC), Kaduna.

Furthermore, Wole Soyinka revealed that the Westerners had agreed on the opposition against the North but also disagreed with Ojukwu on the declaration of Biafra, and for that matter, the declaration of Benin Republic. Declaration of Biafra, the Revolutionaries reasoned would isolate the Easterners and put the West and the Midwest in a bad position whereby sympathies from the West and the Midwest would end up being restrained. They would do better fighting as Nigerians. Whatever was the final consensus, Ogbemudia turned tail. He was next heard of leading the triumphant entry of the Federal Forces into Benin.

Few days after the war, the Biafra Research and Production Bureau made two secret and instant contacts with the high command of the Nigerian Army. Willy Achukwu, the Onitsha-born multi-talented improvising scientist, led one team to the Commander of the 82 Division, Enugu. Before the meeting, a team of Biafran Scientists were directed to put down sketches of the scientific equipment, designs, take measurements of the weapons, guns. A special house with good illumination was erected to keep safely all the Biafran designs and prototypes. They also produced a new Ajuala flying Ogbunigwe to supplement the ones produced at Awo Idemili. Research at this time resumed on what I might term the first world “Smart Bomb” was redesigned as the much needed facilities and spare parts, lacking with the exigency of the war were becoming available after the war. (Pse., see Biafra, a Legacy Lost TELL Magazine Special Report No. 14 April 8, 2002. Page 37)

While Willy Achukwu led one group to the Commander 82 Division Enugu, Professor Ezekwe and Professor Nwosu went to Benin and handed over their Biafran scientific designs to Governor S.O. Ogbemudia. Ogbemudia raced to Lagos and desperately tried everything to convince General Gowon to seize the opportunity and convert that Biafran scientific ingenuity and like the Americans absorbed the German-Jewish war scientific breakthrough; and transform Nigeria to a modern powerful black nation. Gowon shillyshallied and meanwhile the Willy Achukwu group were lucky to escape the gallows.

General Bissala the Commander of the 82 Division before their tearful eyes, poured gasoline over the designs and materials, brought out a box of matches and set the huge collection of scientific fabric of Black civilisation on fire!

Ogbemudia’s shock and depression on learning of the outcome of the meeting with the GOC and the burning of the Biafran war prototypes and designs was enough to transform him from Saul to Paul. For the third time, the Brigadier deflected and returned to his original base and more than any other post war governor was very prominent in the rehabilitation projects to return the war-weary Igbo to Jerusalem. He offered grants to poor students, donated buses to the University of Nigeria and rehabilitated the former Biafran Army officers, returning home to Bendel.

All the same, he cannot run away from the serious war crime charges of changing the name of a whole community, the heritage of his people Igbo Akiri to Igbanke. To this day, the people of this community yearn to return to their kith and kin in the Ika province of Delta State.

On his triumphant entry into Benin, in company with the Butcher of Asaba, General Muritala Mohammed, can he absolve himself and other officers and men of the Federal Second Division, of complicity in the wanton killing of Igbo in Benin that started in September 21, 1967 to the end of that war?

KNOW YOUR HISTORY................................

Today is 7:5:25!
Micah 7:5 says "Do not trust in a friend; Do not put your confidence in a companion; Guard the doors of your mouth From her who lies in your bosom."
Trust in God for His help.

50 years ago… Ogbemudia was Igbo and Igbanke, Igbo Akiri

Boji-Boji Atamuna.

“From time immemorial, the people that are called Igbanke today were known and called Igbo-Akiri. It was in 1967 when Ogbemudia became the military governor of the Midwest State that he changed the name of the town from Igbo-Akiri to Igbanke…It would have been unthinkable at that time to reveal that an Ibo man or an Ibo town produced the military governor of the Midwest State…. Ogbemudia, including the prominent Evangelist Rev. Isaac Idahosa are all Ibo and they hail originally from Igbo Akiri.”

(See Blood On The Niger, Gomslam Books 2012 pages 33, 216)

Captain Fred Anuku, the Commander of the Biafran Navy was the first Nigerian naval graduate from Dartmouth. While his fellow Ika-Ibo Brigadier Samuel Ogbemudia joined the Federal troops, Fred, who was married to a Caribbean, fled Lagos during the 1966 Igbo pogrom and was offered the command of the fledging young Navy by the Biafran high command.

At the same time, Major Nzeogwu’s involvement in the January 15, 1966 Revolution brought suspicion and calamity to his own people of Asaba, Okpanam and environs. As we prepare to organise a programme for the Anioma and Asaba 50th Year Genocide Anniversary, we shall today mention some of the top actors, commanders from the western Ibo nation of both forces whose roles led to the genocide in Asaba, Isheagu, Ogwashi, Igbodo, Ubulu Kingdom, Ibusa and Ndi Oshimili. These prominent Commanders include Major Kaduna Nzeogwu, Col. Conrad Nwawo, Col. Joe Achuzia, and Captain Fred Anuku on the Biafran side. On the Nigerian side, we shall record the memorable activities of Brigadier Samuel Ogbemudia, General Godwin Alabi Isama, General Cyril Iweze and Commander O.Z. Chiazor, the first black man to be commissioned by the Queen in the Royal Canadian Navy.

Significantly, at this time, charismatic Chukwuma Kaduna Nzeogwu had been released from the Calabar prison. He had disagreed with Ojukwu’s war aims and military strategy, and obviously discountenanced the declaration of Biafra. He advised that the East should resist for, at least, four months, cultivate foreign and local support and then prepare and get into the position with more arms and training to resist a total war. He opposed any frontal engagements against the superior-armed federal troops at that initial stage of the war. At the 1967 Abakiliki military exercise, Nzeogwu demonstrated his extraordinary military acumen and proved beyond doubt that he was the Rommel of the Nigerian Army. A commander’s dream, endowed with a peculiar knowledge of the sub-savannah battlefield terrain, he exuded a rare combat capability and commanded the battle simulation with such confidence and precision that he drew tears of adulation from the awed subalterns. He inspired most of the officers with his unmitigated improvisations. To most of the top brass of the Biafran Army, who were seeing the dawn of real combat action for the first time, this fighting leatherneck was a military institution all by himself, a study in combat readiness and tactics.

After his release from Calabar, Nzeogwu managed to reach his boys still in the Nigerian Army in the Midwest and in the West. The plan to enter the Midwest was originally his and that was his own way of setting a stage for the cessation of hostilities, an end to the war, and the restoration of the ideals of the January 15 Revolution. To this end, he was disappointed by his friend, Major Olusegun Obasanjo whom he had not heard from and whom he learnt had gone back to Kaduna. On the other hand, he was confident in, and had some respect for Major Samuel Ogbemudia, his colleague at the Nigeria Military Training College (NMTC), Kaduna.

Furthermore, Wole Soyinka revealed that the Westerners had agreed on the opposition against the North but also disagreed with Ojukwu on the declaration of Biafra, and for that matter, the declaration of Benin Republic. Declaration of Biafra, the Revolutionaries reasoned would isolate the Easterners and put the West and the Midwest in a bad position whereby sympathies from the West and the Midwest would end up being restrained. They would do better fighting as Nigerians. Whatever was the final consensus, Ogbemudia turned tail. He was next heard of leading the triumphant entry of the Federal Forces into Benin.

Few days after the war, the Biafra Research and Production Bureau made two secret and instant contacts with the high command of the Nigerian Army. Willy Achukwu, the Onitsha-born multi-talented improvising scientist, led one team to the Commander of the 82 Division, Enugu. Before the meeting, a team of Biafran Scientists were directed to put down sketches of the scientific equipment, designs, take measurements of the weapons, guns. A special house with good illumination was erected to keep safely all the Biafran designs and prototypes. They also produced a new Ajuala flying Ogbunigwe to supplement the ones produced at Awo Idemili. Research at this time resumed on what I might term the first world “Smart Bomb” was redesigned as the much needed facilities and spare parts, lacking with the exigency of the war were becoming available after the war. (Pse., see Biafra, a Legacy Lost TELL Magazine Special Report No. 14 April 8, 2002. Page 37)

While Willy Achukwu led one group to the Commander 82 Division Enugu, Professor Ezekwe and Professor Nwosu went to Benin and handed over their Biafran scientific designs to Governor S.O. Ogbemudia. Ogbemudia raced to Lagos and desperately tried everything to convince General Gowon to seize the opportunity and convert that Biafran scientific ingenuity and like the Americans absorbed the German-Jewish war scientific breakthrough; and transform Nigeria to a modern powerful black nation. Gowon shillyshallied and meanwhile the Willy Achukwu group were lucky to escape the gallows.

General Bissala the Commander of the 82 Division before their tearful eyes, poured gasoline over the designs and materials, brought out a box of matches and set the huge collection of scientific fabric of Black civilisation on fire!

Ogbemudia’s shock and depression on learning of the outcome of the meeting with the GOC and the burning of the Biafran war prototypes and designs was enough to transform him from Saul to Paul. For the third time, the Brigadier deflected and returned to his original base and more than any other post war governor was very prominent in the rehabilitation projects to return the war-weary Igbo to Jerusalem. He offered grants to poor students, donated buses to the University of Nigeria and rehabilitated the former Biafran Army officers, returning home to Bendel.

All the same, he cannot run away from the serious war crime charges of changing the name of a whole community, the heritage of his people Igbo Akiri to Igbanke. To this day, the people of this community yearn to return to their kith and kin in the Ika province of Delta State.

On his triumphant entry into Benin, in company with the Butcher of Asaba, General Muritala Mohammed, can he absolve himself and other officers and men of the Federal Second Division, of complicity in the wanton killing of Igbo in Benin that started in September 21, 1967 to the end of that war?

KNOW YOUR HISTORY................................

How to Beat Imposter Syndrome ('I’m-Not-Good-Enough' Feeling/Voice) as a Beginner (Professional & Entrepreneur)

You’re gifted.
You’re skilled.
But your mind keeps whispering: “You’re not ready. Who do you think you are?”

That voice is not truth, it’s a lie.
Here’s how to shut it down and show up strong. ~ Dr. Joybert Javnyuy

1. Name the voice.
It’s not “you," It’s fear, shame, and conditioning — replaying old tapes. The first power move: Recognize it is an intruder, not your identity. Develop your true identity.

2. Stop waiting to feel like an expert. Real experts never feel ready. They just show up, serve, and grow on the job or in the business. Confidence is a result of movement, not a prerequisite.

3. Document your proof.
What have you overcome?
What results have you helped create — even informally?
Make a list. That’s your resume.
Read it until your doubt shuts up. You conquer doubts with words and action.

4. Serve before you sell.
Remove the pressure to “impress.” Instead, aim to help.
Solve something small. Give someone a quick win.
Impact kills imposter syndrome.

5. Don’t compare your Day 1 to their Year 10.
That person you admire?
They also doubted themselves at the beginning.
Focus on becoming, not competing.

6. Speak before you feel qualified.
Your voice trains your mind.
You don't conquer doubts with thoughts. You conquer doubts with words and action. ~ Dr. Joybert Javnyuy

Say it out loud:
“I am not perfect, but I am valuable. I am becoming.”
Say it until your soul agrees.

7. Show up anyway.
Even when you feel nervous.
Even when your voice shakes.
Even when nobody claps.
Imposters wish and complain.
Builders move. Be the builder.

8. Anchor your identity beyond applause.
You’re not your likes. You’re not your sales.
You’re not what they say or don’t say.
You’re who you were called to be — before the world noticed.

If this hit you hard COMMENT “ENOUGH IS ENOUGH”
Go and make the moves now.

Dr. Joybert Javnyuy

Global harmony and cooperation among nations are vital for addressing the interconnected challenges facing humanity. However, achieving this ideal requires overcoming significant obstacles and employing multifaceted strategies. Here's a discussion encompassing key aspects:
The Importance of Global Harmony and Cooperation:
Addressing Global Challenges: Many of the world's most pressing problems – climate change, pandemics, economic crises, terrorism, and nuclear proliferation – transcend national borders and require international collaboration for effective solutions.
Promoting Economic Growth: Global cooperation facilitates trade, investment, and technological exchange, fostering economic growth and development worldwide. Fair trade practices and reduced trade barriers benefit all participating nations.
Protecting Human Rights: International cooperation is crucial for upholding human rights and promoting democracy worldwide. Shared standards and mechanisms for accountability are essential.
Global harmony reduces the likelihood of conflicts and wars, fostering a more stable and secure international environment. Diplomacy, conflict resolution mechanisms, and international law are key tools.
Enhancing Global Security: Cooperation on issues like counter-terrorism, cyber security, and arms control is essential for enhancing global security. Shared intelligence and coordinated efforts are crucial.
Obstacles to Global Harmony and Cooperation:
Differing national interests often clash, hindering cooperation. Nations prioritize their own goals and concerns, sometimes at the expense of global collaboration.
Differing political ideologies and systems can create divisions and mistrust between nations, impeding cooperation.
Vast disparities in wealth and power create imbalances in international relations, hindering cooperation and fostering resentment.
Past conflicts and historical grievances can create deep-seated mistrust and animosity between nations, making cooperation difficult.
Differing cultural values and norms can sometimes lead to misunderstandings and conflicts, hindering effective collaboration.
A lack of trust between nations can prevent effective collaboration. This can stem from past actions, broken agreements, or perceived threats.
Strategies for Promoting Global Harmony and Cooperation:
International organizations such as the United Nations, the World Trade Organization, and the International Monetary Fund play a crucial role in facilitating global cooperation. Strengthening these institutions and promoting their effectiveness is vital.
Diplomacy and dialogue are essential tools for resolving conflicts and building consensus among nations. This includes multilateral diplomacy, peace negotiations, and conflict mediation.
Global cooperation is needed to address challenges that require collective action, such as climate change, pandemics, and global security. Investing in global public goods benefits all nations.
Reducing global inequality and promoting fair economic practices can foster greater trust and cooperation among nations. This includes promoting sustainable development, fair trade, and debt relief.
Education and cultural exchange can help bridge divides between nations and promote mutual understanding and respect. This includes educational programs, cultural exchanges, and people-to-people diplomacy.
Building trust and confidence among nations is essential for fostering cooperation. This requires transparency, accountability, and respect for international law.
Achieving global harmony and cooperation is a long-term process requiring persistent effort and a commitment from all nations. While challenges are significant, the benefits of collaboration far outweigh the obstacles. The pursuit of global harmony demands a concerted, sustained, and inclusive effort from all stakeholders.

Atiku: How Can Someone Lie with So Much Confidence? An Attempt to Defame My Character– Seyi Tinubu https://phoenix-browser.com/TRMhp33NuY

There Are 4 Types of Men—And Only One Deserves a Wife

Let’s stop pretending all men are equal.
Because when it comes to women, relationships, and legacy?
There are four kinds of men walking this earth.

Three of them are liabilities.

Only one is built to lead a family, command respect, and raise the next generation.

If you’re not him—you have no business complaining about women, marriage, or masculinity.

Let’s break it down:

—

1. The Good Man—Loved by His Mother, Left by His Woman

The good man thinks loyalty is earned by obedience.

He says “yes” when he should say “no.”
He forgives everything, expects nothing, and thinks love will reward him for being available.

He’s soft, safe… and eventually, forgettable.

He doesn’t understand seduction.
He doesn’t play chess—he plays fetch.

He’s the guy women settle for—after chasing chaos.
And even then?

She cheats.
She leaves.
She says, “You’re just not exciting.”

Because in a world where attention is currency, the good man is broke.

—

2. The Bad Man—The Drug She Can’t Quit

They say women love bad boys.
And they’re not lying.

It’s not confidence. It’s confusion.
Years of trauma, father wounds, birth control hormones, and media lies—rewired their instincts.

The bad man isn’t committed.
He’s chaotic.

He’s hot. Cold. Charming. Distant.
One day he’s romantic. The next, he’s unreachable.

Women think they can tame him.
They don’t realize he feeds off the chase.

He’s got just enough charm to trick you.
Just enough edge to keep you jealous.
And just enough broke-ness to make you feel needed.

He’s the master of dopamine.
And allergic to structure.

He doesn’t want peace.
He wants attention.

—

3. The Ugly Man—The Mascot of Masculine Failure

This is the one women use to generalize all men.

The drunk. The abuser. The ego addict.
The one who beats his woman because his father beat him.

He’s not just unattractive.
He’s dangerous—because he’s never grown up.

He’s the insecure boy trapped in a grown man’s body.
He blames the world, God, and every ex for his pain.

He smokes to escape.
He drinks to forget.
He cheats to feel in control.

He doesn’t want love.
He wants a slave, a nurse, or a punching bag.

And every time he shows up in the news?

Real men bleed for it.

—

4. The Feared Man—Built for Legacy, Not Likes

This is the man women respect—and fear losing.

He’s not chasing sex.
He’s chasing systems.

He doesn’t marry for vibes.
He marries for alliances.

He sees relationships as mergers.
And children as bloodline expansion.

He’s emotionally disciplined, financially sharp, and spiritually anchored.

He doesn’t worship women.
He studies them.
Understands them.
Leads them—with vision, not desperation.

He demands DNA tests.
He signs prenuptials.
He moves like a king—because his empire depends on it.

He reads law books.
Listens to war generals.
Studies psychology like a weapon.

He doesn’t argue with modern women.
He simply disqualifies them.

And if he chooses not to marry?

It’s a strategy. Not a coping mechanism.

Because he knows:

Legacy doesn’t require a ring.
It requires order.

—

Final Word: If You’re Not the Feared—You Have No Seat at the Table

The good gets used.
The bad gets sex.
The ugly gets handcuffs.
But the feared?

He gets respect.

From men.
From women.
From history.

So before you cry about feminism, dating apps, or “how things used to be”—ask yourself:

Are you building a vision?
Or begging for attention?

Are you leading with power?
Or living in your emotions?

Because in this world?

Only one kind of man deserves a wife.
And it’s not the one simping in comment sections.

It’s the one too focused to be manipulated—too valuable to be ignored.



#TruthHurts
#MenWhoLead
#LegacyBuilders

*I INTERVIEWED A PERSON WHO HATED ME*

Six years ago a guy looked at me face to face, and boldly told me; "I don't like you!"

I immediately fired a response, I asked him that day; "Thank you for the honest feedback, but those that you like, how has it made their life better? How does your liking people pay their bills or take a bank loan? My brother keep your like, I need God's like And that's what guarantees my future.

ONE day I joined a CEO friend of mine in an interview Panel to recruit some new staff, it was a long session.
As we returned from a coffee break to continue the hectic interview session, here was this same guy walked in with his grey jacket and CV coming for the interview.

Our eyes kissed by fluke, we immediately recognised each other; "the world is indeed spherical", I soliloquized.

He felt very uncomfortable through out the interview, one could clearly see the volcanic eruption ongoing in his whole nervous system, he even mistook his date of birth for his last date of employment.

It wasn't yet my turn to ask him questions so I allowed everyone to take their turns with him and deliberately opted to interview him last.

When it got to my turn, the first thing I said was, "I LIKE YOU so much, you look to me like a brilliant and intelligent person, but it seems you are not doing well now because something bothers you, true?"

"That's very correct Sir!" He responded.

"Ok look at me straight in the eye, I was never offended that day, it is very normal that sometimes as humans you just don't like certain people, but I wasn't bothered either, because whether you liked me or not, it was inconsequential to my life and my success path - as you can see, fate has brought you to my lair"

I stood up and beckoned him to come and embrace me, everyone on the panel at this point were at sea - wondering if we had expeditiously recast an interview session to a Hollywood movie scene.

He hugged me so long and deeply that I felt it. Then I told him, "now get your confidence back bro and answer the questions like a Pro Shark that you are, we all burst into laughter, everyone suddenly liked him and the room became livelier - the interview became more like a discussion, well to cut the long story short, he got the job!

Lessons:

1. Be careful how you treat people when they appear to be in their vulnerable state, your next level may be hanging in their balance; somewhere in the future.

2. If you dislike someone, it is not their fault, it is YOUR FAULT, work on yourself to find good in people and reinvent your Mind to see everyone as likeable.

3. Don't spew hatred vocally just because it came into your heart, you may say it to someone who will keep it forever and use it against you when you find yourself in your own low moments and need them.

4. Learn to forgive, overlook people's dislike and hatred for you, dont punish people just because you have the position and privilege to do so, bless them rather - that's how you court God's blessings, favour and protection.

5. Share this post, someone needs it to heal from their past burdens of unforgiveness they have been carrying which has been hindering their promotions and inhibiting God's blessings flowing their way!

_*Addendum: I don't know the writer but the article blessed me beyond limits.*_This can even be the Manna for today.

IT'S STORY TIME

Mama Zee: The Power of Grace”

Every morning on Harmony Lane, a quiet buzz would ripple through the neighborhood—not from traffic or chatter, but from the regal walk of one woman. Dressed in a sleek black dress and heels that echoed confidence with every step, Mama Zee was more than just a mother—she was a movement.

With her baby boy perched securely on her hip and her little girl holding tightly to her hand, Mama Zee moved like she was walking a runway, though her path was filled with responsibilities, not flashing cameras. Her younger sister, Auntie Lami, a bright-eyed teacher-in-training, matched her stride. Together, they were raising more than children; they were raising standards.

This wasn’t just another school drop-off. It was a daily demonstration of strength, style, and silent sacrifice.

“Mommy, when I grow up, I want to be like you!” her daughter giggled, her colorful lunchbox swinging with excitement.

Mama Zee smiled, her heart swelling. “Then you must learn to walk with your head high, even when the world tries to bow it down. You must learn to love, even when it’s hard. And above all, never forget who you are.”

Behind the polished look was a woman who had known struggle. Widowed at 29, she chose not to crumble. She pursued her career, raised her children, and became a pillar in her community. Her mornings were early, her nights long, but she never let the world see her cracks—only her shine.

Auntie Lami turned to her and whispered, “You make it look so easy.”

To which Mama Zee replied softly, “It’s not easy, it’s purpose. When you know your ‘why,’ you find your ‘how.’”

As the school bell rang and goodbyes were exchanged, Mama Zee kissed her babies and straightened her shoulders. Another day awaited. Another chance to inspire. Another quiet lesson in power, purpose, and poise.

And as she walked away, heels clicking on cobblestones, every little girl watching knew—queens don’t always wear crowns… sometimes, they carry lunchboxes and babies

Lessons from Mama Zee:

1. Strength wears many faces – Sometimes it’s in the heels, sometimes in the tears wiped before anyone sees.
2. Grace is power in silence – You don’t have to shout to make an impact.
3. Children watch more than they listen – Be the example, not just the instruction.
4. Support systems are gold – Behind every strong woman is often another woman cheering her on.
5. Purpose over pressure – Life may push, but purpose keeps you grounded.