• Self confidence makes a man
    Self confidence makes a man
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  • Daily Affirmation

    If you are at home, go close to your mirror and speak to that amazing person you'll see there.

    Now, Say!

    I, Onyinye( call your name), I choose to see the best in myself.
    Today, I recognize my strength, my growth, and my potential.
    Today, I look in the mirror and smile because I know I am enough.
    I am strong, I am capable, and I am ready to embrace today’s opportunities.



    The way you see yourself shapes the way the world sees you. Speak life into your reflection, embrace your worth, and step forward with confidence. The person staring back at you in the mirror is already equipped with everything needed to succeed-believe in him!
    Daily Affirmation🔥💪 If you are at home, go close to your mirror and speak to that amazing person you'll see there.🥰 Now, Say! I, Onyinye( call your name), I choose to see the best in myself. Today, I recognize my strength, my growth, and my potential. Today, I look in the mirror and smile because I know I am enough. I am strong, I am capable, and I am ready to embrace today’s opportunities.🔥💖 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸 The way you see yourself shapes the way the world sees you. Speak life into your reflection, embrace your worth, and step forward with confidence. The person staring back at you in the mirror is already equipped with everything needed to succeed-believe in him!💪
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  • Dear Parents,

    Intentional parenting means more than just providing for your child’s needs—it’s about guiding, educating, and protecting them. One of the greatest gifts we can give our children is the confidence to understand their personal boundaries and the courage to speak up when something feels wrong.

    Teach your child the PANTS Rule:

    Private parts are private – No one has the right to touch them.

    Always remember – Their body belongs to them and only them.

    No means no – They should never feel pressured into anything.

    There are no secrets from parents – Encourage open communication.

    Speak up – If something happens, they should feel safe telling you.


    By having these conversations early and often, you empower your children to recognize unsafe situations and trust that we are always here to listen and protect them. Your love, attention, and openness create a safe space where they can thrive.

    Be intentional. Protect, guide, and nurture.

    Love and Respect for all mothers

    Dear Parents, Intentional parenting means more than just providing for your child’s needs—it’s about guiding, educating, and protecting them. One of the greatest gifts we can give our children is the confidence to understand their personal boundaries and the courage to speak up when something feels wrong. Teach your child the PANTS Rule: Private parts are private – No one has the right to touch them. Always remember – Their body belongs to them and only them. No means no – They should never feel pressured into anything. There are no secrets from parents – Encourage open communication. Speak up – If something happens, they should feel safe telling you. By having these conversations early and often, you empower your children to recognize unsafe situations and trust that we are always here to listen and protect them. Your love, attention, and openness create a safe space where they can thrive. Be intentional. Protect, guide, and nurture. Love and Respect for all mothers ❤️
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  • Let's talk about "The Intentional Father".

    A father’s role in molding his children is irreplaceable. Beyond providing for their physical needs, he is their guide, protector, and first example of strength and integrity. His words shape their self-esteem, his actions define their morals, and his presence fosters security.

    Fatherhood demands intentionality-being present, teaching by example, and nurturing with wisdom. A man must deliberately instill values, discipline with love, and inspire confidence in his children. His intentional efforts today determine the kind of adults they become tomorrow.
    A father who leads with purpose raises children who will one day shape the world.

    Let's talk about "The Intentional Father". A father’s role in molding his children is irreplaceable. Beyond providing for their physical needs, he is their guide, protector, and first example of strength and integrity. His words shape their self-esteem, his actions define their morals, and his presence fosters security. Fatherhood demands intentionality-being present, teaching by example, and nurturing with wisdom. A man must deliberately instill values, discipline with love, and inspire confidence in his children. His intentional efforts today determine the kind of adults they become tomorrow. A father who leads with purpose raises children who will one day shape the world.
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    🚗 Own Your Volvo Electric Car Today! ⚡ Experience luxury, performance, and sustainability with Volvo’s cutting-edge electric vehicles. Drive into the future with zero emissions, premium comfort, and advanced safety features. ✅ Why Choose Volvo EV? 🔋 Long-Range Battery – Drive farther with confidence ⚡ Fast Charging – Get back on the road quickly 🛡 World-Class Safety – Volvo’s legendary protection 🌎 Eco-Friendly & Efficient – Reduce your carbon footprint 🎵 Luxury Interior & Smart Tech – Designed for ultimate comfort 📩 DM now to get your own Volvo EV! Limited stock available!
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  • INEC to Screen Recall Petition Against Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan—What’s Really Going On?

    Morgan Freeman Blog

    The Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) has officially announced its plan to screen a recall petition against Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan, the lawmaker representing Kogi Central Senatorial District.

    The petition, reportedly signed by over 250,000 registered voters , was submitted to INEC’s headquarters in Abuja on Monday by Charity Ijese, acting on behalf of some constituents. INEC Secretary, Rose Oriaran-Anthony, received the petition and assured that the process will follow due legal procedures .

    Why Are They Pushing for Natasha’s Recall?

    The petitioners claim they have lost confidence in Akpoti-Uduaghan’s ability to represent them in the Senate . This development follows her suspension from the Senate over alleged misconduct—a move many believe was politically motivated.

    The Political Underbelly—Who Really Wants Natasha Out?

    This recall attempt has raised serious concerns . Akpoti-Uduaghan has been vocal in challenging powerful political figures, and her suspension was widely seen as an attempt to silence her. Now, with this recall petition, many believe there is a coordinated effort to completely remove her from office.

    Key Questions to Consider:

    Is this truly the will of the people, or a well-orchestrated political plot?
    Who are the real forces behind this recall attempt?
    Will INEC conduct a fair process, or is there external influence at play?

    What Happens Next?

    If the petition meets constitutional requirements, INEC will proceed to a referendum , where registered voters in Kogi Central will decide whether to remove or retain Akpoti-Uduaghan.

    This is a developing story, and Morgan Freeman Blog will be monitoring every twist and turn .

    What’s your take on this? Do you think Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan is being unfairly targeted, or is her recall justified? Let’s discuss!

    Follow, like, and share Morgan Freeman blog for real-time updates and exclusive political insights!
    ⚖️ INEC to Screen Recall Petition Against Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan—What’s Really Going On? 📌 Morgan Freeman Blog 📰 The Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) has officially announced its plan to screen a recall petition against Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan, the lawmaker representing Kogi Central Senatorial District. The petition, reportedly signed by over 250,000 registered voters ✍️, was submitted to INEC’s headquarters in Abuja 🇳🇬 on Monday by Charity Ijese, acting on behalf of some constituents. INEC Secretary, Rose Oriaran-Anthony, received the petition and assured that the process will follow due legal procedures ⚖️. ❓ Why Are They Pushing for Natasha’s Recall? The petitioners claim they have lost confidence in Akpoti-Uduaghan’s ability to represent them in the Senate 🏛️. This development follows her suspension from the Senate over alleged misconduct—a move many believe was politically motivated. 🔎 The Political Underbelly—Who Really Wants Natasha Out? This recall attempt has raised serious concerns 🤔. Akpoti-Uduaghan has been vocal in challenging powerful political figures, and her suspension was widely seen as an attempt to silence her. Now, with this recall petition, many believe there is a coordinated effort to completely remove her from office. Key Questions to Consider: 💡 Is this truly the will of the people, or a well-orchestrated political plot? 💡 Who are the real forces behind this recall attempt? 💡 Will INEC conduct a fair process, or is there external influence at play? 📌 What Happens Next? If the petition meets constitutional requirements, INEC will proceed to a referendum 🗳️, where registered voters in Kogi Central will decide whether to remove or retain Akpoti-Uduaghan. This is a developing story, and Morgan Freeman Blog will be monitoring every twist and turn 🔥. 👇 What’s your take on this? Do you think Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan is being unfairly targeted, or is her recall justified? Let’s discuss! 📢 Follow, like, and share Morgan Freeman blog for real-time updates and exclusive political insights!
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  • Remember, having confidence and faith in yourself can take you a long way. Believe in your abilities, stay positive, and you'll be amazed at what you can achieve!

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    Remember, having confidence and faith in yourself can take you a long way. Believe in your abilities, stay positive, and you'll be amazed at what you can achieve! Have a lovely day
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  • Confidence is the belief in you abilities, decisions and self worth. It is not about being perfect or knowing everything - It's about trusting yourself enough to take action despite uncertainty.
    Confidence is the belief in you abilities, decisions and self worth. It is not about being perfect or knowing everything - It's about trusting yourself enough to take action despite uncertainty.
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  • A certain person recently delivered a speech at a university alumni association on the topic of "Dilemma after middle-age".

    The audience, consisting of about 700 people, couldn't help but burst into laughter throughout the speech.

    Here is the full text:

    Dear classmates,

    There is a song that sings ...
    "Tomorrow will be better" to give people confidence and encouragement.

    In real life, however, we can't be certain if tomorrow will truly be better.
    What we can be sure of is that tomorrow, we will be older.

    As the years pass, we come to understand the harshness of time.

    At a certain age, we have to admit the power of gravity.
    Our organs are still there, but they seem to be drooping.

    As the saying goes,
    "Everything is drooping, only blood pressure is high."

    Our bodies undergo significant changes after reaching middle age.

    The once guitar-shaped figure now resembles a pear.

    We fall asleep when sitting and struggle to sleep when lying down.

    We can't remember what we want to remember and can't forget what we want to forget.

    To make matters worse, we shed no tears when we cry and have to wipe away tears when we laugh.

    And let's not forget the "white hair that can never be combed out, growing again with the spring breeze" on our heads.

    Men's hairstyles, as described by the novelist Mo Yan, are like "the local supporting the central," with hair combed from both sides to the middle in an attempt to cover the sparse hair in the middle.

    Our memory also gradually declines.
    We find ourselves walking from one room to another, only to forget why we came in the first place.

    We repeat ourselves, forgetting what we just said.
    There was even an old man who once laughed halfway and forgot why he was laughing.

    While young couples grow old together, what should middle-aged couples do?

    It's not easy to change our bad habits. Life is like "saving the whole and paying the little," gradually passing away.

    The young individuals who were once full of vigor and vitality have now become fragile old men in the blink of an eye.

    Some people even mock the elderly, claiming that they are experiencing "knowledge degeneration, organ ageing, and rigid thinking, waiting for cremation."

    But it is up to us to cultivate our minds. As someone said:
    "Age does not matter as long as the matter does not age."

    We may grow old, but our hearts should remain youthful.

    Wrinkles may appear on our faces, but they should not reflect the state of our hearts.

    Consider this:
    some people don't have the privilege to grow old; they pass away at a young age.

    We should also adjust our attitude towards life.

    In the past, we traded our health for wealth, but now we must trade our wealth for health.

    Life is said to consist of three stages:

    (1) Young people strive for a good education,

    (2) Success in middle age relies on experience, and

    (3) As we grow older, we must pay attention to our medical history.

    In any case, I wish all my dear friends good health, happiness, a heart as mischievous as a child, and a smile on their faces.

    Let's ask for another 40 years from God, shall we?

    Lastly, let's remember the four most fashionable truths of 2025:

    ① Don't show off your money;
    it doesn't belong to you until you use it.

    ② Don't show off your work;
    if you stumble, countless others will do better than you.

    ③ Don't show off your house;
    once you're gone, it becomes someone else's nest.

    ④ Don't show off your car;
    when you're no longer around, the car keys will be in someone else's hands.

    The only thing worth showing off is... Your Health....!

    When others are gone, you can still bask in the sun, sip tea, and enjoy a healthy life.

    Please take good care of yourselves because replacement parts are hard to come by and extremely expensive!
    They're not in stock yet...

    This speech is filled with truth and humor.
    It brings tears to our eyes and laughter to our hearts.

    It's truly a rare and wonderful piece.

    Stay Healthy and Blessed...🙏🏼


    *Joy is coming*
    A certain person recently delivered a speech at a university alumni association on the topic of "Dilemma after middle-age". The audience, consisting of about 700 people, couldn't help but burst into laughter throughout the speech. Here is the full text: Dear classmates, There is a song that sings ... "Tomorrow will be better" to give people confidence and encouragement. In real life, however, we can't be certain if tomorrow will truly be better. What we can be sure of is that tomorrow, we will be older. As the years pass, we come to understand the harshness of time. At a certain age, we have to admit the power of gravity. Our organs are still there, but they seem to be drooping. As the saying goes, "Everything is drooping, only blood pressure is high." Our bodies undergo significant changes after reaching middle age. The once guitar-shaped figure now resembles a pear. We fall asleep when sitting and struggle to sleep when lying down. We can't remember what we want to remember and can't forget what we want to forget. To make matters worse, we shed no tears when we cry and have to wipe away tears when we laugh. And let's not forget the "white hair that can never be combed out, growing again with the spring breeze" on our heads. Men's hairstyles, as described by the novelist Mo Yan, are like "the local supporting the central," with hair combed from both sides to the middle in an attempt to cover the sparse hair in the middle. Our memory also gradually declines. We find ourselves walking from one room to another, only to forget why we came in the first place. We repeat ourselves, forgetting what we just said. There was even an old man who once laughed halfway and forgot why he was laughing. While young couples grow old together, what should middle-aged couples do? It's not easy to change our bad habits. Life is like "saving the whole and paying the little," gradually passing away. The young individuals who were once full of vigor and vitality have now become fragile old men in the blink of an eye. Some people even mock the elderly, claiming that they are experiencing "knowledge degeneration, organ ageing, and rigid thinking, waiting for cremation." But it is up to us to cultivate our minds. As someone said: "Age does not matter as long as the matter does not age." We may grow old, but our hearts should remain youthful. Wrinkles may appear on our faces, but they should not reflect the state of our hearts. Consider this: some people don't have the privilege to grow old; they pass away at a young age. We should also adjust our attitude towards life. In the past, we traded our health for wealth, but now we must trade our wealth for health. Life is said to consist of three stages: (1) Young people strive for a good education, (2) Success in middle age relies on experience, and (3) As we grow older, we must pay attention to our medical history. In any case, I wish all my dear friends good health, happiness, a heart as mischievous as a child, and a smile on their faces. Let's ask for another 40 years from God, shall we? Lastly, let's remember the four most fashionable truths of 2025: ① Don't show off your money; it doesn't belong to you until you use it. ② Don't show off your work; if you stumble, countless others will do better than you. ③ Don't show off your house; once you're gone, it becomes someone else's nest. ④ Don't show off your car; when you're no longer around, the car keys will be in someone else's hands. The only thing worth showing off is... Your Health....! When others are gone, you can still bask in the sun, sip tea, and enjoy a healthy life. Please take good care of yourselves because replacement parts are hard to come by and extremely expensive! They're not in stock yet... This speech is filled with truth and humor. It brings tears to our eyes and laughter to our hearts. 😊 It's truly a rare and wonderful piece.🎯 Stay Healthy and Blessed...🙏🙏🙏🏼 *Joy is coming*
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  • All you need in this life is ignorance and confidence, and then success is sure.
    All you need in this life is ignorance and confidence, and then success is sure.
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  • HOW TO MAKE YOUR KIDS BUILD CONFIDENCE
    1. Celebrate their efforts not just achievements.
    2. Let them make age- appropriate decisions.
    3. Encourage them to try new things.
    4. Teach them that mistakes are part of learning.
    5. Be specific when praising them.
    6. Show confidence in their abilities.
    7. Help them set and achieve small goals.
    8. Avoid comparing them to others.
    9. Give them responsibilities to build independence.
    10. Model self-confidence in your own actions.
    11. Listen to their ideas and opinions.
    12. Support their passions no matter how small.
    13. Encourage problem solving instead of giving all their answers.
    14. Create a self space where they feel hard and valued .
    15. Teach them to speak up for themselves.
    16. Help them identify their strengths.
    17. Give them opportunities to succeed on their own.
    18. Teach resilience by showing how to bounce back.
    19. Encourage positive self talk.
    20. Let them know its okay to ask for help.
    HOW TO MAKE YOUR KIDS BUILD CONFIDENCE 1. Celebrate their efforts not just achievements. 2. Let them make age- appropriate decisions. 3. Encourage them to try new things. 4. Teach them that mistakes are part of learning. 5. Be specific when praising them. 6. Show confidence in their abilities. 7. Help them set and achieve small goals. 8. Avoid comparing them to others. 9. Give them responsibilities to build independence. 10. Model self-confidence in your own actions. 11. Listen to their ideas and opinions. 12. Support their passions no matter how small. 13. Encourage problem solving instead of giving all their answers. 14. Create a self space where they feel hard and valued . 15. Teach them to speak up for themselves. 16. Help them identify their strengths. 17. Give them opportunities to succeed on their own. 18. Teach resilience by showing how to bounce back. 19. Encourage positive self talk. 20. Let them know its okay to ask for help.
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  • ROLES YOU SHOULD PLAY AS A GOOD WIFE

    • Every man wants a good wife, and every woman wants to be one.
    • The advice given most often to a new bride is to be a good wife but what does this mean?
    What are the makings of a perfect or good wife? Most of the qualities needed to be a good wife are already there in a woman, and the rest can be developed or learned. Marriage is not an easy relationship to maintain. With countless marriages ending up in divorce, it is high time to shed some light on what makes a successful marriage.
    • The wife is, in the truest sense, the soul of any marriage and without her, the household would be chaotic. So what does a woman need to be a good wife? Irrespective of the fact that no two women are similar, some basic qualities apply to all. Read on to know more.

    1. STOP NAGGING
    There is a saying in which a nagging wife is compared to a dripping faucet. If you nag and complain constantly, it can create an unwanted rift between you and your husband. This could turn into a vicious cycle, forcing him to avoid you. This can create complications in your relationship and even make them worse as time passes. You cannot expect your husband to like you if he feels that you are constantly disappointed with him. Nagging does not work, so it is best to stop it. Instead, talk to him in a way that makes him want to listen to you and resolve any problems that you might be having. The communication between you will improve by leaps and bounds.

    2. KEEP YOUR HOME ORGANIZE
    Would you want to live in a messy house? Of course not! Your husband does not want to either. Keep your house neat and clean at all times. The healthy environment at home will uplift his spirits and mood. Think of creative ways to make your home a peaceful sanctuary for him. Chores can be a pain, but by doing them, you can make him dependent on you and miss you when you are not around! There is a quote that goes, “A wife is a friend first, a lover second and third and probably most important, a maid.” Your husband will appreciate all that you do for him and your home, and is sure to think he is the luckiest man to have a wife like you!

    3. BE UNPREDICTABLE
    Opinions differ when it comes to the question of whether or not unpredictability is a good thing in marriage. Many people feel that being unpredictable keeps things exciting between couples. If things are too predictable in any relationship, it can get boring… and fast! Spice up things in your marriage by surprising your husband as often as you can. It can be in little ways – romantic or cheeky. You can come up with plenty of creative ways to surprise him, but keep in mind that even simple gestures such as cooking his favorite meal or snack will do. The central idea is to surprise him now and then and keep him guessing about what might be next. It is also an excellent way to make him discover the other side of you.

    4. GIVE HIM SPACE
    Giving each other space is important in any relationship. You need to realize and accept that your husband has a life separate from you. He has other people and relationships too, such as his parents, siblings, and friends. He also has his interests and hobbies. Do not stop him from having this other life. Give him as much space as he needs. This will make him love you more. You also need space and time to do what you like. This will give you and your husband time to miss each other, and appreciate each other.

    5. EXPRESS YOUR LOVE
    Hiding love does not help your relationship. Your partner will appreciate if you are expressive about your love for him. Find ways to spend time together. Take part in activities that you both enjoy and some that he enjoys more than you. Small gestures are more than enough to show him that you love him. Celebrate the little things with him, remember special days in his life and get occasional gifts that will make him smile. These acts will bring him joy and the special moments and memories you create for him will make him love you more.

    6. BE HONEST
    A man will trust you only if you are open with him. It is important for you to be honest with your feelings. Trust your husband with everything. Do not keep secrets from him. There has to be mutual trust for a relationship to succeed. Ask him how his day was and let him know about yours. Also, if there is anything that bothers you, have an honest talk with him. Your honesty will encourage your husband to be so. This can only strengthen your relationship and marriage.

    7. COMMUNICATE:
    Good communication is crucial for a successful marriage. As mentioned earlier, do not nag when problems arise, whether it is in your relationship or at home. Have calm heart-to-hearts instead of going hostile on him when something bothers you. When you communicate properly with your husband, he will be willing to listen to you. It will also make him want to communicate with you. Good communication is a great way to cement your bond. Your husband will appreciate the fact that you would rather sit down and discuss things than yell at him. This will make you exceptional!

    8. IMPROVE COMPATIBILITY
    Many personality traits attract you and your husband to each other, making you compatible as a couple. However, they may not hold up over time. If any dissimilarity crops up, you cannot simply call yourselves incompatible. You need to understand that compatibility is not something that you have; instead, it is something that you make. As a good wife, you need to make sure that you do not grow apart from your husband. You need to make yourself compatible with your husband. Are you wondering how you can achieve this? It is simple really – you can get along better with your husband by improving your relationship skills. This includes resolving conflicts and making compromises. Remember the words “A perfect wife is one who does not expect a perfect husband.” You can make sure that you and your husband eventually become soul mates by creating compatibility.

    9. POSSESS POSITIVE QUALITIES
    To be a good wife, you need to possess positive qualities. You need to be warm, kind, pleasant, caring, affectionate, friendly, positive and understanding. You need to be reliable, responsible and make your husband have confidence in you. Your warm welcome with a smile will relax him after a long and hard day at work. Be loyal to him and support him in his failures and successes. Be there for him especially when things are tough, whether at home or work.

    10. LOOK GOOD
    It may seem trivial, but it is not. Take care of yourself and look good after marriage. Many women make a mistake of ignoring their looks after marriage. The fact is that looks will keep your husband attracted to you. Make sure that his attention is on you. Maintain your health as well, as good health reflects on your looks and mood. Men love having a wife who takes care of herself and looks good. Looking good will boost your confidence and self-esteem, and make you attractive to your husband.

    11. GO ON DATES
    You may be having bigger responsibilities on your shoulders, but those should not be a hindrance to romance. The spark between you and your husband need not die out. Go on dates whenever you can, like you used to do before you got married. Go out for a romantic meal or arrange a picnic for two. Go for dinner and a movie like you used to. A great date will leave a lasting impression. Going out now and then will rekindle the romance. It will do your relationship wonders. Your husband is sure to be thankful for the wonderful dates and for recreating the magic.

    12. ACCEPT HIS FRIENDS
    After you get married, you accept each other’s lifestyle as long as it does not threaten the peace and joy of your marriage. The same goes well for friends. Understand that your husband has friends, and he needs to spend some time with them, maybe a night of poker or at a game. Take the time and effort to get to know his friends and realize that they hold a special place in your husband’s heart. Be his friend by accepting his friends. Women who try to keep their husbands away from their friends, do that in vain. It is not healthy. He will love you for making an effort to know his friends and welcome.

    13. BE HIS BEST FRIEND
    The best marriage is the one where the couple is each other’s best friend. Nothing is better than being in love with your best friend. This is a love that is deep, strong and genuine. Allow a healthy friendship to develop between you and your husband, and see what a difference it makes to your life. Your marriage will rock.

    14. CHOOSE FIGHT SMART:
    Do you know of any marriage that does not have fights? In fact, every relationship has its share of differences. A good wife knows which fights to choose. You need to know which fights are necessary and which are not. No one willingly gets into a fight, but some problems and topics are just too petty to waste your energy. A harmless “Hi” that your husband says to an old friend when they bump into each other after a long time or a work thing that he cannot get out of are not something that you should fight about. They are simply not worth it and will not make your marriage any good. So think twice the next time you get angry.

    15. BE YOURSELF
    You and your husband are now partners for life. You will probably spend the rest of your lives together. This means that you need to be yourself, and also, allow your husband to do the same. A good wife brings out the best in her husband but never tries to change him. Be the unique person that you are. This way, you will appreciate and love each other for who you are and that is one of the most important things in a successful marriage.

    16. PRAY FOR YOUR HUSBAND

    A praying wife is a winning wife. If you must get the best out of your marriage, pray for your husband always. Stand in gap for your marriage. Prayerfully destroy the spirit of marital crisis, misunderstanding, divorce etc. Don't wait until there are crisis before you pray for your home. STUDY THE WORD OF GOD AND PRAY FOR YOUR HOME WITHOUT CEASING

    You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name
    ROLES YOU SHOULD PLAY AS A GOOD WIFE • Every man wants a good wife, and every woman wants to be one. • The advice given most often to a new bride is to be a good wife but what does this mean? What are the makings of a perfect or good wife? Most of the qualities needed to be a good wife are already there in a woman, and the rest can be developed or learned. Marriage is not an easy relationship to maintain. With countless marriages ending up in divorce, it is high time to shed some light on what makes a successful marriage. • The wife is, in the truest sense, the soul of any marriage and without her, the household would be chaotic. So what does a woman need to be a good wife? Irrespective of the fact that no two women are similar, some basic qualities apply to all. Read on to know more. 1. STOP NAGGING There is a saying in which a nagging wife is compared to a dripping faucet. If you nag and complain constantly, it can create an unwanted rift between you and your husband. This could turn into a vicious cycle, forcing him to avoid you. This can create complications in your relationship and even make them worse as time passes. You cannot expect your husband to like you if he feels that you are constantly disappointed with him. Nagging does not work, so it is best to stop it. Instead, talk to him in a way that makes him want to listen to you and resolve any problems that you might be having. The communication between you will improve by leaps and bounds. 2. KEEP YOUR HOME ORGANIZE Would you want to live in a messy house? Of course not! Your husband does not want to either. Keep your house neat and clean at all times. The healthy environment at home will uplift his spirits and mood. Think of creative ways to make your home a peaceful sanctuary for him. Chores can be a pain, but by doing them, you can make him dependent on you and miss you when you are not around! There is a quote that goes, “A wife is a friend first, a lover second and third and probably most important, a maid.” Your husband will appreciate all that you do for him and your home, and is sure to think he is the luckiest man to have a wife like you! 3. BE UNPREDICTABLE Opinions differ when it comes to the question of whether or not unpredictability is a good thing in marriage. Many people feel that being unpredictable keeps things exciting between couples. If things are too predictable in any relationship, it can get boring… and fast! Spice up things in your marriage by surprising your husband as often as you can. It can be in little ways – romantic or cheeky. You can come up with plenty of creative ways to surprise him, but keep in mind that even simple gestures such as cooking his favorite meal or snack will do. The central idea is to surprise him now and then and keep him guessing about what might be next. It is also an excellent way to make him discover the other side of you. 4. GIVE HIM SPACE Giving each other space is important in any relationship. You need to realize and accept that your husband has a life separate from you. He has other people and relationships too, such as his parents, siblings, and friends. He also has his interests and hobbies. Do not stop him from having this other life. Give him as much space as he needs. This will make him love you more. You also need space and time to do what you like. This will give you and your husband time to miss each other, and appreciate each other. 5. EXPRESS YOUR LOVE Hiding love does not help your relationship. Your partner will appreciate if you are expressive about your love for him. Find ways to spend time together. Take part in activities that you both enjoy and some that he enjoys more than you. Small gestures are more than enough to show him that you love him. Celebrate the little things with him, remember special days in his life and get occasional gifts that will make him smile. These acts will bring him joy and the special moments and memories you create for him will make him love you more. 6. BE HONEST A man will trust you only if you are open with him. It is important for you to be honest with your feelings. Trust your husband with everything. Do not keep secrets from him. There has to be mutual trust for a relationship to succeed. Ask him how his day was and let him know about yours. Also, if there is anything that bothers you, have an honest talk with him. Your honesty will encourage your husband to be so. This can only strengthen your relationship and marriage. 7. COMMUNICATE: Good communication is crucial for a successful marriage. As mentioned earlier, do not nag when problems arise, whether it is in your relationship or at home. Have calm heart-to-hearts instead of going hostile on him when something bothers you. When you communicate properly with your husband, he will be willing to listen to you. It will also make him want to communicate with you. Good communication is a great way to cement your bond. Your husband will appreciate the fact that you would rather sit down and discuss things than yell at him. This will make you exceptional! 8. IMPROVE COMPATIBILITY Many personality traits attract you and your husband to each other, making you compatible as a couple. However, they may not hold up over time. If any dissimilarity crops up, you cannot simply call yourselves incompatible. You need to understand that compatibility is not something that you have; instead, it is something that you make. As a good wife, you need to make sure that you do not grow apart from your husband. You need to make yourself compatible with your husband. Are you wondering how you can achieve this? It is simple really – you can get along better with your husband by improving your relationship skills. This includes resolving conflicts and making compromises. Remember the words “A perfect wife is one who does not expect a perfect husband.” You can make sure that you and your husband eventually become soul mates by creating compatibility. 9. POSSESS POSITIVE QUALITIES To be a good wife, you need to possess positive qualities. You need to be warm, kind, pleasant, caring, affectionate, friendly, positive and understanding. You need to be reliable, responsible and make your husband have confidence in you. Your warm welcome with a smile will relax him after a long and hard day at work. Be loyal to him and support him in his failures and successes. Be there for him especially when things are tough, whether at home or work. 10. LOOK GOOD It may seem trivial, but it is not. Take care of yourself and look good after marriage. Many women make a mistake of ignoring their looks after marriage. The fact is that looks will keep your husband attracted to you. Make sure that his attention is on you. Maintain your health as well, as good health reflects on your looks and mood. Men love having a wife who takes care of herself and looks good. Looking good will boost your confidence and self-esteem, and make you attractive to your husband. 11. GO ON DATES You may be having bigger responsibilities on your shoulders, but those should not be a hindrance to romance. The spark between you and your husband need not die out. Go on dates whenever you can, like you used to do before you got married. Go out for a romantic meal or arrange a picnic for two. Go for dinner and a movie like you used to. A great date will leave a lasting impression. Going out now and then will rekindle the romance. It will do your relationship wonders. Your husband is sure to be thankful for the wonderful dates and for recreating the magic. 12. ACCEPT HIS FRIENDS After you get married, you accept each other’s lifestyle as long as it does not threaten the peace and joy of your marriage. The same goes well for friends. Understand that your husband has friends, and he needs to spend some time with them, maybe a night of poker or at a game. Take the time and effort to get to know his friends and realize that they hold a special place in your husband’s heart. Be his friend by accepting his friends. Women who try to keep their husbands away from their friends, do that in vain. It is not healthy. He will love you for making an effort to know his friends and welcome. 13. BE HIS BEST FRIEND The best marriage is the one where the couple is each other’s best friend. Nothing is better than being in love with your best friend. This is a love that is deep, strong and genuine. Allow a healthy friendship to develop between you and your husband, and see what a difference it makes to your life. Your marriage will rock. 14. CHOOSE FIGHT SMART: Do you know of any marriage that does not have fights? In fact, every relationship has its share of differences. A good wife knows which fights to choose. You need to know which fights are necessary and which are not. No one willingly gets into a fight, but some problems and topics are just too petty to waste your energy. A harmless “Hi” that your husband says to an old friend when they bump into each other after a long time or a work thing that he cannot get out of are not something that you should fight about. They are simply not worth it and will not make your marriage any good. So think twice the next time you get angry. 15. BE YOURSELF You and your husband are now partners for life. You will probably spend the rest of your lives together. This means that you need to be yourself, and also, allow your husband to do the same. A good wife brings out the best in her husband but never tries to change him. Be the unique person that you are. This way, you will appreciate and love each other for who you are and that is one of the most important things in a successful marriage. 16. PRAY FOR YOUR HUSBAND A praying wife is a winning wife. If you must get the best out of your marriage, pray for your husband always. Stand in gap for your marriage. Prayerfully destroy the spirit of marital crisis, misunderstanding, divorce etc. Don't wait until there are crisis before you pray for your home. STUDY THE WORD OF GOD AND PRAY FOR YOUR HOME WITHOUT CEASING You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name
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