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*DEAR LADIES, TRUTH ABOUT DATING MARRIED MEN!!*

Dating a married man may feel exciting. It may look easy. He maybe spending on you but behind closed doors, it’s a path full of pain, secrets, and stolen moments.

Dear Ladies,
No matter what life may throw back at you, never you find happiness in another woman's pain.
A marriage that is built on another woman's tears will never stand.

Don't be an instrument that ends another woman’s happiness.

TRUTH ABOUT DATING MARRIED MEN!!

1. The only thing he wants is sex. He comes and goes back home to his wife.

2.He is never going to leave his wife for you

3. You are most likely not the only one.

4.After using you he will move on to someone else.

5.He doesn't owe you anything.

6.Getting pregnant on purpose won't trap him; his kids are at home with his wife.

7. His money and property is for him and his family, you only get the small changes.

8. You will never be part of his future.

9. You’ll live in silence.
No public affection. No open love. You hide while he lives two lives.

10. You’ll never be his priority
His wife, his children, his home—they come first. You’re an option, not a commitment.

NOTE:
Sister, You may destroy another woman’s home
And one day, you might be in her shoes.

A struggling young man is better than a married man.
A home built on another woman's tears won't stand.
Look for your own Husband and stop tearing another woman's marriage apart.

Forgive even if they’re not sorry.
Forgive even if their words still play over and over in your head.
Forgive even if they haven’t changed.
Forgive even if they don’t deserve it.
Forgive even if the apology never comes.

Forgive because you owe it to yourself.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean offering them access back into your life.
…and it doesn’t mean giving them permission to break your heart again.

Forgiveness allows YOU to heal.

Being the bigger person isn’t saying, “What you did to me is okay.” It’s saying, ”I’m no longer giving you the power to control my emotions.”

Even if it’s the hardest thing in the world to do…

Forgive them anyway.🩷

#Highlife#gada

Forgive even if they’re not sorry.
Forgive even if their words still play over and over in your head.
Forgive even if they haven’t changed.
Forgive even if they don’t deserve it.
Forgive even if the apology never comes.

Forgive because you owe it to yourself.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean offering them access back into your life.
…and it doesn’t mean giving them permission to break your heart again.

Forgiveness allows YOU to heal.

Being the bigger person isn’t saying, “What you did to me is okay.” It’s saying, ”I’m no longer giving you the power to control my emotions.”

Even if it’s the hardest thing in the world to do…

Forgive them anyway.🩷

Good evening everyone.

A man has two choices when he's in a relationship with a strong, loyal, emotionally invested woman: either rise to the occasion and be everything she needs, or step aside and stop blocking the view for the man who actually can. It’s that simple.

You don’t get to half-love her, breadcrumb her with attention, or keep her on a leash while you figure yourself out. She’s not a placeholder. She’s not a test run. She’s a woman with a heart that loves deeply and a soul that deserves stability. If you’re going to love her, really love her. Show up. Lead with consistency, not confusion.

Be intentional, not impulsive. Speak life into her, no doubt. Handle her with care, not control. Because a woman like her doesn’t just want romance, she needs reliability, presence, protection, and peace. And if you can’t be that then don’t waste her time. Sit down and let the real one step up. Because someone else will. Someone who recognizes her worth without needing to be reminded.

Someone who sees her strength and doesn’t feel intimidated by it but is inspired to match it. She deserves someone who doesn't hesitate when it comes to loving her right. If that’s not you, move out of the way.

RELAX! SINGLENESS IS NOT A CURSE

I read about a beautiful lady who was waiting on God for a husband. She continued to wait but eventually began to groan with impatience. At every church meeting, she would approach her pastors and lament her ordeal, and they would encourage her to keep waiting.

One day, at a church program, she approached her pastor, looked him in the eyes, and expressed her feelings of despair. "Daddy, I have waited enough... I am getting weak. I have tried my best... I am getting tired already... Daddy, I repeat, I have waited enough..."

Her pastor looked back at her firmly and said, "If you are tired of waiting for the Lord, what else would you do? Would you return to the world simply because you are waiting for a partner? After all this waiting, there is only one option left for you: Wait for the Lord."

The next time her pastor saw her, she came to another program with her wedding pictures—she had married! Her pastor was taken aback. She was beaming with joy, smiling all around. We all thanked the Lord for her life and for answered prayers, even though it seemed strange.

However, not long after that, her pastor didn't hear from her again for some time. Then the news came that she had di€d. She passed away in the hospital after a long illness, with no one even noticing her absence. It was shocking that she di€d so quietly, and there wasn’t even an announcement of her d€ath among the congregation. She had been buri€d before her pastors learned the news. They later discovered that she had married a married man, and the brief time she spent after her wedding was a t€rrible experience. Eventually, she became seriously ill and passed away.

Dear Singles, Be patient... At the right time, God will settle you.

A relaxed sister is better positioned for marriage than a tensed up lady who is over-eager to shout "Yes" to any marriage proposal. ☹

Those who are too anxious to get married usually make marital mistakes. Until Adam was put to sleep, God couldn't reveal his wife to him. A relaxed mind is the magnet of God's miracle.

Do not coax people to propose to you. Do not scare potential suitors away by putting marriage thoughts in their mind.

There is nothing like getting too old for marriage.

I have never seen anyone di€ of marrying late. But I have seen many di€ because they marry wrong.

It is better to marry an angel at 40 than to marry a devil when you are 25. Do not make marriage look like a "do or die affair".

Singleness is not a Sin
Singleness is not a Bondage
Singleness Is Not A Curse
Singleness Is Not A Sickness,
Singleness Is Not A Pr0blem,
Singleness Is Not A Limitation.
Singleness Is Not A Shame.

You Can Be Single and Be All You Can Be
You Can Be single And Happy,
You Can Be single And Spiritual
You Can Be Single And Anointed,
You Can Be Single And Sound,
You Can Be Single And Successful,
You Can Be Single And Be Unique,
You Can Be Single And Be Fulfilled..

Never mourn Your Singleness because your present state is not your final state.

Marriage is glorious, beautiful, marvelous, exciting, tremendous, and very sweet but so also is singleness. So enjoy your singleness, make good use of it before getting married.

If you have not received a marriage proposal yet it simply means that you are too special for God to throw just anyone at you.

Relax. Don't lose hope and don't be too desperate. Trust in the Lord.

As the Lord lives, you are the next to be celebrated in Jesus name.

Kindly share this message with your loved ones

#Highlife#gada

*Hellooo beautiful souls, it ’s Friday! how are you holding up today?*

Just checking in to say:

If your week was a pizza, I hope today is the extra cheese!"
If not, don’t worry we’re all a bit crusty before coffee

Let’s inhale courage...
Exhale doubt...
And maybe scream into a pillow for 2 minutes just for balance. (Totally therapeutic. Try it.)

Remember:
You are not behind in life. You're just marinating for greatness.
And if laughter is medicine, smile always

Now go out there and be someone's reason to giggle even if it’s just by dancing like nobody's awake yet.

Happy Friday and weekend a head Earthlings! Let’s feel, heal, and be real.


Transforming potential into progress 💪🏽
Love you all !

Good evening everyone.

Mind it...
If milk gets bad, it becomes yoghurt. Yoghurt is more valuable than milk. If it gets even worse, it turns to cheese. Cheese is more valuable than both yoghurt and milk. And if grape juice turns sour, it transforms into wine, which is even more expensive than grape juice.

You are not bad, because you made mistakes. Mistakes are the experiences that make you more valuable as a person.

Christopher Columbus made a navigational error that made him discover America. Alexander Fleming’s mistake led him to invent Penicillin. Don’t let your mistakes get you down. It is not practice that makes perfect. It is mistakes we learn from that makes perfect!

TYPES OF DATES EVERY COUPLE SHOULD TRY:

1. PICNIC DATE
There is something special and free about the outdoors. Pack up some food and drinks and a leso, find a spot and have fun

2. WALK DATE
Make time to just take a walk as you bond. Walk for long as you hold hands, laugh, bump shoulder to shoulder. You need no money for this

3. ELEGANT DATE
Go all out. Gentleman, ask her out to an expensive, classy venue. Give her a chance to dress up. She will feel special, smiling as you romance her; she wearing her fashionable dress

4. DANCE DATE
Find a place where good music is played or dance is taught and go there as a couple. Salsa, lingala, afro, twist, benga; go to a place where you will sweat, groove and get down

5. IMPROMPTU DATE
Dates don't have to be pre-planned. Be spontenous sometimes, drop everything and go somewhere as a couple for some quality time

6. MOVIE DATE
Go to the cinema. Movies bring out emotions

7. DOUBLE DATE
Go out on a date with another couple close to you. This will give you a chance to celebrate love and talk couple to couple. Your love will grow stronger

8. COMPASSION DATE
There are many people in society to bless. You and your partner, find a children's home, an elderly home, a hospital or someone in need and together go spend time with them. God will bless your love

9. CANDLE-LIGHT DINNER DATE
There is something romantic about looking into each other's eyes in dim candle light. Make it special. Romance is sweet

10. SPECIAL MOMENT DATE
This is when you celebrate big as a couple a special moment like Birthday, Anniversary, Graduation or Promotion. Never forget these moments

11. MAKE-UP DATE
If things between you two haven't been going well. Make effort to save your love by planning a good date. A date provides a good setting to allow you two to talk and get back to deep love

12. LUNCH DATE
Since you work at different jobs, sometimes meet up and have a couple's lunch for an hour or so

13. OLD LOVE DATE
Dates are not for young love only. Sadly, as lovers stay in a relationship/marriage, the dates become fewer as they go through the motions. No matter how long you've been together, step outside your everyday responsibilities and go for a date to rekindle and sustain the excitement

14. SPORTS DATE
Is your favorite football club, rugby team, basketball team, golfer playing? Is it the safari rally, athletics? Go out for dates as a couple where you can scream, cheer and go wild. You two will connect more

15. FRIENDS DATE
Have a barbeque, hook up with friends, throw a party. Organize something as a couple where your love will be celebrated in the presence of close friends

16. TRAVEL DATE
Pack your bags and travel. Break the monotony and as a couple drive, fly, sail to a place you've never been. Experience new attractions together. Your love will never be boring this way

16. STAY AT HOME DATE
Or lock yourself in the house. Not to work or do chores. But to switch off everything and concentrate on each other. Cook together, eat together, make memories for two

10 PEOPLE YOU SHOULD NOT MARRY

Yesterday, I shared some truths about how important the person you marry is. This is because, the beginning of a peaceful and successful marriage begins with marrying the right person.

So, in this article I will be showing you some type of people you should not marry. It's not everyone that's ready for marriage is marriable.

1. Don't marry anyone that is not a child of God

Adam had a relationship with God first before having a relationship with anyone. That's how it's supposed to be. The first relationship man was given was relationship with God before relationship with his wife(Gen. 3:8-9).

I have said this before, the best person to marry is a child of God, someone that fears and loves God and is being led by the Holy Spirit. Someone that fears God will shun evil and will never maltreat you. Anyone that doesn't love or fear God can do anything without minding.

So, anyone that is not a child of God, born again and committed in the service of the kingdom, is not a prayer point. Don't be unequally yoke with unbelievers. If you're a child of God, marry a child of God, If you're an unbeliever, please look for your kind. Let's not be unfortunate. God and Satan cannot be in-laws.

2. Don't marry anyone that doesn't have direction in life.

Adam was busy with something before the issue of marriage came up. He was busy ruling, dominating, working and taking care of the earth. Therefore, before marriage you should know what you want to do with your life(Gen 2:15).

Don't marry anyone that doesn't know where he or she is going in life. Have something meaningful doing with your life before marriage. Don't wait for marriage before you become useful. Be useful to yourself, family and society.

3. Don't marry anyone that beats you

Many ladies are guilty of this. You're in a relationship with a guy that hasn't done anything on your head yet he beats and abuses but you keep believing he will change. Don't worry, when you enter marriage, he's likely to kill you if God doesn't help you.

Don't marry anyone that raises hand on you, inflicts injury on you both physically, psychologically and emotionally. That's a big red flag. Run. A person that beats you before marriage, may kill you after marriage. And if he or she cannot change before marriage, change after marriage maybe difficult.

4. Don't marry anyone that's too proud.

Anyone that's too proud will always think or feel he or she is doing you a favor by getting married to you. You'll be taken for granted. You will not be appreciated and accepted. The person will find it hard to admit his or hand wrong. Nobody is doing anyone favour, even if na dangote son or daughter.

A proud person is an entitled person. They want to be served, worshipped, appreciated, wanted but can not do same for you.

5. Don't marry anyone that manipulates or blackmails you.

Don't marry anyone that always blame you when something goes wrong, even when they're at fault, they will always turn the situation against you. They always make you feel as if you're not enough or worthy to be loved and appreciated. They always talk you down. They will so erode your self esteem that you will begin to think that you deserve what you are getting. That's a toxic person to marry.

6. Don't marry anyone that threatens you

Most of the time, the thing many people are facing in marriage have always been there during their courtship or dating but were too blinded to see it. Don't marry anyone that threatens you with breakup if you should deny him or her sex or if you refuse to get pregnant before marriage. Don't marry anyone that always threatens to beat you.

7. Don't marry anyone that doesn't support you.

People in a relationship suppose to support each other but when you are in a relationship with anyone that doesn't support your legit course, vision, goals, purpose, ministry, ambition etc., that's a wrong person to marry. The person is only after his or her own course. Many woman have sacrificed their ambitions on the alter of marriage due to the kind of man they marry.

8. Don't marry anyone that doesn't have an authority he or she submits to

In the minitary, it's only someone that's under authority that can give command and it will be obeyed. Don't marry a free-ranger, someone that doesn't submit to any authority, listen to anyone, obey anyone, respect anyone. That's a dangerous person to marry. He can do and undone with reckless abandone because nobody to restrict or constrain.

The family, church, a Mentor, a Counselor etc., are example of authorities one should have.

9. Don't marry anyone that doesn't respect you

Someone that doesn't care about your feelings before he or she does something, talks to you the way he or she wants, treats you anyhow, is not the kind of person to marry. I mean someone that doesn't care if what he or she is doing is hurting you, you shouldn't marry that kind of a person.

10. Don't marry anyone that doesn't love you

Love is foundational to the survival of marriage, without love resentment, harshness, unkind words and actions, avoidance, irritation, boredom, etc will be a daily occurrence. Love is a lubricant and moisturiser. It makes things easy.

I often say that, marrying someone that doesn't love or someone you don't love is self imprisonment with hard labour. A lot of people have complained to me that they are facing hell in their marriages because of lack of love.

However, love is not enough to marry anyone, other factors have to be considered. Because you love someone that beats and abuses you doesn't mean you marry the person unless of course you enjoy the beating and the abuse. You people are not normal. All things being equal, don't marry someone that doesn't love you nor someone you don't love.

What other kind of persons you will never marry, share with me in the comment below?

Thanks for reading

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*STAGES OF LOVE.*

Remember that love is a complex and evolving experience and not everyone may go through these stages in the same way or order.
_*Each relationship is unique_* and it's important to communicate openly and work together to nurture and grow your love over time.
1) *Attraction Stage:*
This is the initial stage where you feel drawn to someone and are interested in getting to know them better.
2) *Romantic Stage:*

This stage is characterized by intense emotions, infatuation and passion. Everything feels exciting and new.
3) *Honeymoon Stage:*

Also known as the honeymoon phase, this stage is marked by intense feelings of love, happiness and connection. Everything seems perfect and you may overlook flaws in your partner.
4) *Reality Stage:*

In this stage, the initial euphoria starts to fade and you begin to see your partner more realistically. You may start facing challenges and conflicts as you get to know each other better.
5) *Commitment Stage:*

This stage is about making a conscious decision to commit to the relationship and work through challenges together. It involves building trust, communication and mutual respect.
6) *Deep Attachment Stage:*

In this stage, you have a strong emotional bond with your partner, built on trust, intimacy and shared experiences. You feel secure and connected in the relationship.
7) *Mature Love Stage:*

This stage is characterized by a deep, lasting love that is based on mutual respect, understanding and acceptance. It involves a strong emotional connection and a sense of partnership and companionship.

RELAX! SINGLENESS IS NOT A CURSE

I read about a beautiful lady who was waiting on God for a husband. She continued to wait but eventually began to groan with impatience. At every church meeting, she would approach her pastors and lament her ordeal, and they would encourage her to keep waiting.

One day, at a church program, she approached her pastor, looked him in the eyes, and expressed her feelings of despair. "Daddy, I have waited enough... I am getting weak. I have tried my best... I am getting tired already... Daddy, I repeat, I have waited enough..."

Her pastor looked back at her firmly and said, "If you are tired of waiting for the Lord, what else would you do? Would you return to the world simply because you are waiting for a partner? After all this waiting, there is only one option left for you: Wait for the Lord."

The next time her pastor saw her, she came to another program with her wedding pictures—she had married! Her pastor was taken aback. She was beaming with joy, smiling all around. We all thanked the Lord for her life and for answered prayers, even though it seemed strange.

However, not long after that, her pastor didn't hear from her again for some time. Then the news came that she had di€d. She passed away in the hospital after a long illness, with no one even noticing her absence. It was shocking that she di€d so quietly, and there wasn’t even an announcement of her d€ath among the congregation. She had been buri€d before her pastors learned the news. They later discovered that she had married a married man, and the brief time she spent after her wedding was a t€rrible experience. Eventually, she became seriously ill and passed away.

Dear Singles, Be patient... At the right time, God will settle you.

A relaxed sister is better positioned for marriage than a tensed up lady who is over-eager to shout "Yes" to any marriage proposal. ☹

Those who are too anxious to get married usually make marital mistakes. Until Adam was put to sleep, God couldn't reveal his wife to him. A relaxed mind is the magnet of God's miracle.

Do not coax people to propose to you. Do not scare potential suitors away by putting marriage thoughts in their mind.

There is nothing like getting too old for marriage.

I have never seen anyone di€ of marrying late. But I have seen many di€ because they marry wrong.

It is better to marry an angel at 40 than to marry a devil when you are 25. Do not make marriage look like a "do or die affair".

Singleness is not a Sin
Singleness is not a Bondage
Singleness Is Not A Curse
Singleness Is Not A Sickness,
Singleness Is Not A Pr0blem,
Singleness Is Not A Limitation.
Singleness Is Not A Shame.

You Can Be Single and Be All You Can Be
You Can Be single And Happy,
You Can Be single And Spiritual
You Can Be Single And Anointed,
You Can Be Single And Sound,
You Can Be Single And Successful,
You Can Be Single And Be Unique,
You Can Be Single And Be Fulfilled..

Never mourn Your Singleness because your present state is not your final state.

Marriage is glorious, beautiful, marvelous, exciting, tremendous, and very sweet but so also is singleness. So enjoy your singleness, make good use of it before getting married.

If you have not received a marriage proposal yet it simply means that you are too special for God to throw just anyone at you.

Relax. Don't lose hope and don't be too desperate. Trust in the Lord.

As the Lord lives, you are the next to be celebrated in Jesus name.

Kindly share this message with your loved ones

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GOOD NIGHT EVERYONE

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Sleeping Naked Reduces Anxiety.
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Sleeping Naked Improves Male Fertility.
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GOOD NIGHT EVERYONE

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DON'T FRIENDZONE YOUR SPOUSE

1. Never stop flirting with your spouse

2. Never stop kissing your spouse

3. Husband, never stop touching her butt

4. Wife, never stop playing with his penis

5. Never sleep in different rooms in the same house or same hotel

6. Never tell your spouse, "You don't have to know"

7. Never deliberately hide your nakedness from your spouse

8. Never deny your spouse sex or use sex as a weapon

9. Never treat your spouse as you do your friends. Your spouse is most special

10. Never joke with your spouse in a manner that sounds insulting to your spouse

11. Never deliberately hide things from your spouse

12. Never go a day without saying something loving to your spouse

13. Husband, never stop checking out her breasts and clit with desire

14. Wife, never stop being sexually playful with your spouse

15. Never stop calling your spouse affectionate names like "My love", "Darling", "Honey"

16. Never stop dating your spouse

Don't make your spouse feel friendzoned. This is marriage, not friendship. Your spouse is your special, sexy companion